He says he is just kidding around when she tells him to stop. He also bullies a special needs nephew.

My uncle's wife is divorcing him after 30+ years. I am no fan of divorce or what she is doing but I have known her since 1987 and they were married since 1989. My parents wish for none of us to associate with her again. They were upset my aunt (my Mom's sister) had her over for a New Years Party. I am sure there will be times my parents try to use me as a pawn against her. I am sure there will be times I reach out to her. How do I avoid my parents using me as a pawn against her? How do I avoid them doing this in any of these feuds. I was used as a pawn as a kid when my maternal grandfather was suffering from alcoholism and denied it. I was used to coerce him into rehab and it did not work. I was only nine and have blamed myself ever since. Also I was used when my Mom's cousin had an affair and with an alcoholic uncle (not the one getting divorced). My mother has largely, not completely, stopped playing this game but my Dad has been playing it in recent years. My mother was ruthless with it when I was a child and would vent to me. This uncle's soon to be ex plays it with her kids and is similar to my Mom. So any ideas at how not to let them do this in this latest family drama? My Dad's side is very stable so it is almost always my Mom's side of the family.

 Every sense I was 16 I feel like I've earned my parents privacy and trust. When I was younger they would always go through my phone just to see what I was up to and they wouldn't find anything, because I always knew the rules. I'm now 18. Long story short this morning I've overheard them talking about adding cameras to the house outside (no big deal I know)but they then were discussing that it would be a great idea  to have them inside also. I jumped in and said that I was not comfortable with cameras inside the house in the living room.I told them that I was paranoid about people hacking into them and watching everything, and that's it. I have nothing to hide I don't do nothing I'm not supposed to. But my dad said that it's his house and that I don't have no say and he's right. So I told them that I also have a choice to move out because I wouldn't like the feeling of being watched all the time. They then got offended and took it the wrong way by saying that I didn't appreciate their support they were giving me, that I was trying to abandon them and they told my sister that I didn't like her WHICH IS NOT TRUE!. I love my parents and my sister Im just worried that they might get hacked and my privacy and my parents privacy will be invaded. I don't want my family relationship strained all because of a disagreement. They haven't talked to me all day. Can anyone give me some positive advice please?  Sorry if this was too long but I need help so please read!

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I'm in my 3rd year of college, but I have an extra year left (because of changing majors), and I currently live on campus. Anyway, my actual home is 30 minutes away from campus, but I'm living on campus because my mom and I do not get along. She and I used to go to family therapy, and our therapist recommended that I distance myself from my mom, so I did that by living on campus. My mental health has improved greatly, and I'm a happier person since I'm not living with my mom. However, the room and board cost of living on campus next year is insanely high, and I'm not sure if I'll be able to afford it. The other thing is, my mom has two cars, so I was using one, and she was using the other one. Long story short, she ended up totaling one of the cars (it was her fault), and she's now using the car I was using. So, if I were to live at home next year, I wouldn't have a way of getting to and from campus, because my mom is using our only car. I really don't know what to do. Even though I'm working two jobs, I can't take out any loans because of low income, and my mom can't take out any loans either. I go to GMU in Fairfax, Va, and the cost of living there is very high, and I can't afford an apartment off campus, even I have roommates. 

My dad is 61 and my mom is 50. I am 23, my sister the middle child and the only girl is 21, and my brother the youngest is 19. I'm mostly going to talk about my dad since my mom is still young. I never really thought of this when I was still a kid but growing up I started to realize that we have older parents compared to most of our friends parents who are still in their 40's and 50's. My dad was already 38 when I was born. That's a little too old. He was 42 when my younger brother was born and that's way way too old. He already started growing gray hairs when my younger brother was just in elementary school. I can imagine people's reaction whenever they saw my dad dropping off my brother to school like they probably think that's his grandson. To be honest it makes me sad because by the time we have our own child my dad will probably be in his late 60's. One time he said that he hopes he lives longer so he can see his grandchildren growing up and he told my mom to take good care of them when he dies and that made me very emotional😭 I just hope they're still healthy in their 70's and 80's so they can at least see their grandchildren in their teenage years😭

so my brother recently past away and my sister insisted in creating a go fund me and a food sale to raise money because my parent was not prepared my mom didn't want that she wanted to get a loan and was gonna help with some money, she ask me to speak with my sister in not to do it but then after I have gotten on an argument she changed her mind.so the sell was good, they raised the money the next after the burial the all when shopping?  and I am angry because they asked for money because they didn't want to get the money out of their savings to help my mom. Now I don't talk to one of my sisters and feel like she doesn't want me around.

My mum came into my room saying how dare you i asked her what was up and she said you said you hated your auntie while i was on the phone to her and all your cousins heard it too , i haddent recalled a thing but now my mums family hates me and she wont speak to me;-; what do i do and ehat happend

Last year my father, who is 80 years old (I'm 24 years old), had a nasty fall that caused his brain to start bleeding. Typically when your brain starts to bleed it will stop and heal itself, but I was told that my dad's brain started to add water - making the situation worse. He had surgery during the holidays to stop the bleeding and came home on Christmas Eve. It's been a slow recovery with lots of meds and sleeping. Today I found out that he had to go back into the hospital because his brain started to bleed again, which caused him to fall. He will need additional surgery. Apparently this is not that uncommon. Other than this brain bleed, he's in bad shape health-wise.  This is what I'm struggling with... I work a full time (salary, no commission/benefits) sales job at a tech start up (two hours away from home). I hate my job. I was hired under the pretence that I'd get to do marketing and sales, but I found out that wasn't true. I was there intern for 5 months, and then hired me right after I finished school (I've been there since Sept). I have no background or experience in sales, and nobody has properly trained me for the role. I've acquired about this but they said I need to train myself. They give me unattainable sales goals even though I'm the only sales person. I've never had a full time job and I'd feel guilty for leaving since the startup (of 5 people) depends on me. Is it reasonable to quit given my circumstances? I'd ask my mum but she'd say to stay.

We received a strange voice mail that says (in a deep creepy voice) : You will pay for the penile investor's demise. Tonight at 9:23, we will arrive. We waited until that time, and then my fathe ran out of the kitchen with a fork stuffed into his packer. he smashed a pan over my head. then i heard a chaingun

My mother cosigned a loan with my sister a while back . She always makes prompt and timely payments. The bank is usually very flexible and friendly with her. So she is in good standing with them. Unfortunately, my sister broke up with her boyfriend recently and has been having screaming fits and psychotic tantrums over everything . All of her credit cards are maxed out because she spent everything on this guy she knew for less than 5 months. My sister is not paying her student loans from college. she lost her job (again) because she physically assaulted one of her co workers. Unfortunately, she takes no responsibility for anything and blames her poor credit score on my mother and the loan. ... Interestingly enough, my mother's credit score has improved. So we know that the loan is definitely not hurting anyone's credit score. Conveniently, after this recent breakup, My sister is demanding my mother to pay more money to this loan. She has been banging on my mothers window in the middle of the night and ringing her door bell at 2 am . She has been leaving threatening notes on my mothers door , and on my mother's car. We don't know what to do with her! It's nothing criminal but it is still very annoying and we want to be left alone.

My stepmom does not want me to have anything to do with my mom and she so even let me contact her my dad is ok with me moving out because he knows I'm capable of making decisions on my own I have had enough of her I want to move in with my mom and step dad he has been a better step parent then my stepmom he treats me like his own daughter my stepmom does not want me to go and live with my real mom what can I do I want to live with my mom and get away from my stepmom It makes me really happy there and It also has a very healthy atmosphere and I can be myself there unlike when I am living with my dad and stepmom my dad is ok with it because I am almost an adult Continue: My stepmom forces me to live with her and my dad just so she can treat me like crap my step dad is a better step parent he treats me like his own daughter and he is very wise my stepmom won't let me contact Either my mom and step dad I have had enough of this what can I do? I am almost 18 my dad says I can move in with them next month and my stepmom won't let me  Answers question now

My stepmom does not want me to have anything to do with my mom and she so even let me contact her my dad is ok with me moving out because he knows I'm capable of making decisions on my own I have had enough of her I want to move in with my mom and step dad he has been a better step parent then my stepmom he treats me like his own daughter my stepmom does not want me to go and live with my real mom what can I do I want to live with my mom and get away from my stepmom I am also 17 years old  My dad is ok with it as he supports me but my stepmom won't let me move out she is also trying to block my mom and step dad out of my life 

I live with my dad and stepmom my parents got divorced in 2012 and in 2013 my dad married my stepmom and few months later after my dad and stepmoms wedding my mother married my step father my step dad is a much better parent than my stepmom my stepmom is a narcissistic she won't let me contact my real mom she wants me to have nothing to do with her she has done everything she could do to prevent me from contacting and seeing seeing her she also grounded me from my mom for a year how can she ground me from my mom? My stepmom also made my father call my step dad and told him selfish excuses why I would never come my mom and step dad always want to be apart of my life but my stepmom always finds a way to stop them to she wants my real mom and step dad out of the picture just so that she can have me to herself she is also makes excuses to prevent me from contacting my mom my step dad is a better dad and he treats me like his own daughter She also called my mom and said that she does not want contact anymore she also has done everything she could do to break up the bond that me and my mom have she also talks bad about my mom to me a lot and she thinks that my mom is a bad influence on me like I said my stepmom is a narcissistic person I hate my stepmom so much she won't even let me talk to my step dad she is trying to block him out of my life as well Continue: She also keeps talking crap about my step dad and she also forbade me from talking to him as well I am waiting for the day I turn 18 so I can official my move in with my mom and step dad and cut of contact with my father  Continue: Should I wait till I turn 18 to live with my mom and step dad?  I am turning 18 next month 

I am a single mother of a 3 year old and was never married. My daughters father used to visit twice a week but then moved three hours away because "he wanted to live his life". (His words) He visits once a month if that. When he does it's only 3-4 hours. He says that he loves his daughter but if he truly did wouldn't he do everything in his power to be an active parent? I'm wondering if these once a month visits are doing more harm than good. He calls three times a week as well. Would it be better to just not have him around since he really isn't anyway? Or should I let him visit once a month and continue to call her? I'm not sure what the best choice is. Obviously I want to make the best choice for my daughter. 

I live with my dad and stepmom my parents got divorced in 2012 and in 2013 my dad married my stepmom and few months later after my dad and stepmoms wedding my mother married my step father my step dad is a much better parent than my stepmom my stepmom is a narcissistic she won't let me contact my real mom she wants me to have nothing to do with her she has done everything she could do to prevent me from contacting and seeing seeing her she also grounded me from my mom for a year how can she ground me from my mom? My stepmom also made my father call my step dad and told him selfish excuses why I would never come my mom and step dad always want to be apart of my life but my stepmom always finds a way to stop them to she wants my real mom and step dad out of the picture just so that she can have me to herself she is also makes excuses to prevent me from contacting my mom my step dad is a better dad and he treats me like his own daughter Continue: She also called my mom and said that she does not want contact anymore she also has done everything she could do to break up the bond that me and my mom have she also talks bad about my mom to me a lot and she thinks that my mom is a bad influence on me like I said my stepmom is a narcissistic person I hate my stepmom so much she won't even let me talk to my step dad she is trying to block him out of my life as well  Continue: She also keeps talking crap about my step dad and she also forbade me from talking to him as well I am waiting for the day I turn 18 so I can official my move in with my mom and step dad and cut of contact with my father  Continue: I am also thinking about running away from my dad and stepmom's house to my mom and step dad my mom says I can live with her but my stepmom says she would never let my mom take me I have 2 half sisters and 4 stepbrothers my stepbrother lives with his dad and stepmom  Should I wait till I turn 18 to live with my mom and step dad? Also can I legally run away from my dad and stepmoms house 

My stepmom won't let me see my real mom she won't even let me contact her I have a very close relationship with my step dad and my mom my step dad has been the best thing that has ever happen to me but my stepmom can't stand the fact that I have a good relationship with my mother and my step father so in 2013 after my parents married their new spouses and got a divorce I wanted to live with my mother and step father but my stepmother forced me to live with her she also has done everything she could do to prevent me from contacting my mother and step father I had enough of this she also forced my dad to call my step dad and told him that I am sick and that I can't come over I hate her so much I also want to just live with my mom and her husband instead my mom says I can live with her but my stepmom says she would never let me live with her my stepmom is also a controlling narcissistic asshole what do I do?

My stepmom does not want me to visit my mother and step father this spring break she wants me to end contact with my mom and step dad she also blocked them from my Facebook but I don't want to I also started harassing her for this but she won't let me Can I force my stepmom to let me visit my mom and step dad this spring break

I've been living with her for a few months even though i'm not on the lease and we got in a huge fight and she was screaming at me and i kept saying sorry and she screamed at me to get out of her house so i did and she locked the door and i went to my parents house and i keep texting my girlfriend to let me get my stuff but she blocked me on everything and is ignoring my knocks on the door, what now?

I reached out a few days ago to become friends again after several years because our friendship ended very bad in 2017 after a huge fight when i was being obsessive and gave her a panic attack and it was really bad and even our parents got involved. I reached out over text to become friends again and she replied with "I'm sorry it has to be this way, I'm just afraid still, it was such a hard time for both of us last time when we were friends. Yes I did enjoy talking to u as well and u were nice, but I'm just scared and I'm not sure if it is the best thing. I'm also sorry about what happened in the past." what does this all mean concerning our friendship?

My stepbrother is very controlling I feel like I can do anything in his rule like for one time he forced me to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I also wanted to go to Rutgers he said "your never going to Rutgers university because I hate that school" I also want to get married and have children but my brother said " you will never get married and have kids because I don't want you too". This summer I am so excited to go to my real mom and step fathers house but my stepbrother said "you will never see your real mom and step dad if I see you with them I will drag you out of there house" what do I do? I had enough of him controlling me

He keeps telling how hot she is and how hard he wants to bang her which is so gross. She is 37 so not old but still gross behavior.

My mom was 21 when she had me and my dad was 36. I kkow that they have a weird age gap and it is really weird as my mom is 37 now.

My mother hates people in her family but has softened in recent years to respect her elderly mother. My Dad uses me to get back at the people he hates. So am I okay since it runs in the family and my sister is a horrible human being (animal like)?

It just randomly came to my mind. She is 36 now and I was her first. She had me at 21 and my siblings at 25 and 29. My mom wasn't married to them and none of them died

I had to tell my mom something private in the morning and went into their room without knocking. I boticed a condom full of sperm on the floor ehich was uncomfortable. I told mom what I had to tell her and then keft. I'm 13 and my mom is 36.

Brother bobby has armed himelf with a knife and microwaved a nuclear warhead for dinner. He tried to hang himself by his crotch but i quickly ran in and smashed him with a bat. he then smased me with a bomb. my dadi sa mred with 12 gaug autolodaer. he is gong to lunch.

If it were a beloved family pet who was family to you? If that child grew up with extreme guilt, if the memory of killing that animal tortured them as adults, if they couldn't even forgive themselves for doing something they knew was wrong and ending an innocent animal's life... would you be able to forgive them? Now, I know you could love them with your whole heart and never bring up the subject. You could want nothing but happiness for your now adult child. But... forgiveness is a different thing. Would you be able to do it? Why? And if the roles were reversed and you killed a loving animal companion at that age- would you ever be able to forgive yourself, even if you're a completely person today and couldn't even kill a cockroach? For further understanding- This person had many pets after that age and loved every single one of them- never laid a hand on them and mourned their deaths as they would a human. It was this one occasion only. They have now grown up. They are a vegan and want to dedicate their life to helping people. Even as a child, they begged their dad to throw the fish back into the water. This one event was out of character and they felt immediate guilt following the death of the animal... Also, their intention was not to kill the animal. It's only troubling that they knew they were harming the animal at the time and that the animal was scared.

OK.... So like I legit live in a house with 8 pple in total..... My mum, Dad, Aunt, Brother, and 2 little sisters.... So basically all of em go to work or skul everyday....  Leaving me nd my brother @ home...  Now there are 3 chores to do - Cleaning the house, Dishes and Cooking.  But thing is my mum is traditional so she don't want my brother doing anything...  My aunt's eldest daughter used to stay with us so I had no problem with chores...  But she left yesterday nd Idk how I'ma handle all this😕

My sister is really nice when we are together but when we are with other people, she ignores me. When I try to talk to her, she cuts me off and soon starts talking to the others... what is going on with her?

I feel so guilty.  For as long as I can remember my mother has belittled me. Calling me stupid, fat, ugly and never misses to remind me that she almost got an abortion. My dad is also some sort of sadist. He's never done anything sexual (I think?) but he pinches me, bites my wrists and slaps me (not enough to leave bruises that last more than a day).  I've dealt with this my entire life but lately I've had dreams for the future and they were slapped down my parents abuse. I knew I had to do something so I tried asking my aunt to call cps. She did nothing. I attempted suicide twice but failed. Finally I knew I only had one more choice: get pregnant.  My family has ALWAYS refused me to leave, I've brought it up only to be screamed at or hit. However my mother had questioned me three times if I was pregnant each time telling me if I was I'd be forced to leave. I took her advice and confessed my abuse to a male friend who (reluctantly) agreed to get me pregnant.  I'm now safe from my family after being kicked out. Even though funds are low and I don't have a permanent place yet I sleep easy knowing I'm safe and can get my dream job. But lately I cannot shake the regret and concern for my child. Is what I did worse than dying? I should clarify that I live in a smallish town until I can leave (which will be a while) my family is very obviously keeping tabs on me. Even if I could have faked the 3 pregnancy test I had to take in front of my mom there's no way I could've faked it for long.

I have to move back in with toxic family members. I'm taking a gap year and I was supposed to move in with my grand-aunt, but now I can't because her son is mad about it. I don't even know him and he lives out of state. He also had the nerve to call my very toxic father, that he doesn't even know. I can't even process this, like you dislike me for what exactly? He's like 37 and I'm 19. I've seen him before, but he's not approachable. He messaged me saying I told you to go to your dad's. He's talking to me like I'm the one. I'm about to show him who I really am. Why is it that I can't find normal family members. They are always toxic and crazy. He's going to play the victim probably. He has known my mom since he was born. She used to babysit him. My grand-aunt is my grandma's sister. I don't know if that is considered extremely distant, but I also know his mom. He also told me that she is not in the best health to have someone there. What kind of crap is that? Would you want someone there? Anyway, I'm just going to become great and not worry about any family at this point. I forgot to add that I also offered to pay bills too.

My mom came up to me and said "I didn't know Cameron Diaz had a baby at 47! You know I feel like my legs want to fall off in this house too much, image a baby at that age you have no patients. And by that time the baby is 10 she'll be like a grandmother it's sad". Now my mom is going to be 45 this month. Like once we went to tj max and the lady she was talking to had 8 kids and my mom kept saying god forbid to herself. I don't think my parents use protection just saying like once she thought someone said she may have another kid and she freaked and that was last summer.  So now this morning my dad was leaving for work at 5am and my mom went in the kitchen to talk to him, I couldn't really understand my mom because she has the flu but then I hear my dad say in more of a serious tone "do you want more" or "do you want anymore" now I thought maybe he gave her more Advil for her fever before he left for work but no when I ask her she said we have a whole bottle now home. I can't possibly think why he would say that. He wasn't cooking wasn't giving her anything. I never hear him say that. So now I'm worry it has to do with wanting more kids? And now tonight I heard my mom say "she knows now". Not sure if it's for me. I had 3 bad anxiety attacks one melt down now I came down with the flu as well I'm stressed. My sister goes in and out the hospital I have the care for my other sister there's a lot on me to handle with no help and my mom only has me. 

I've seen in movies and TV shows moms carrying their sons when they're 10 like in ET and when I was 10 and 11 my mom would carry me to bed whenever I fell asleep. how can they do it?

This may sound very disfunctional and it is . I'm dealing with a out of control teenager ( stealing lies drugs)and my boyfriend. My daughter has been extremely out of control for a year . My boyfriend wants extreme punishment ( boot camp) or not letting her come home from her runaways. My boyfriend is known to Lie to get her in trouble . Her actions are really bad too. I even had her go for a few months to my moms and her behavior was the same . She claims it's him . She doesn't want to be home because he is mean etc . He claims it's a excuse for bad behavior. Honestly I'm trying to understand her behavior and have not tried much in the way of punishment because she gets aggressive and will try to fight me or threaten me . I want my daughter to be ok of course so I am thinking of leaving my boyfriend . Anyone deal with a similar issue with step parents and kids ?  I wanted to add my parenting style has always been very laid back . He on the other hand is extremely strict and all about rules 

We were fighting, but she did not get her way. I know she likes to spy and kick me whenever she can. But I think I got her too angry, I think she is so pissed that she wants to stab me with a butterknife. I don't know what to do.  She is 17.

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My cousin is going to Paris. I've wanted to go my whole life. Everything that Paris stands for are things that I'm passionate about (fashion, art, etc.) and have been for years. Yet she just gets to go to Paris while I, someone who's been passionate about it for years, hasn't even been. She's going to see the city I've studied for years before me. Just doesn't seem fair. And it makes me feel as if her going first means that she'll always have one up on me because she experienced it first. I'm going to Paris later this year, but she's going before me. Although I may be going after her, nothing will change the fact that she went first. She was the one to experience my dream before I did. I'm behind her. I'm doing it after her, despite me being into French culture for years and her only being into it for two seconds. 

I work fulltime and have been required to work overtime and i am a caregiver burnout. I dont have time to cook all of the time but i do prepare her something toneat and provide her with food. She expects me to do too much and doesn't appreciate what i do for her. I have never been the cooking type. She got me a grill for Christmas so i can cook more. I try to explain to her i dont have the time to cook like she wants me to but i do provide her with healthy meals and keep thebplace clean but it's not appreciated. She expects me to be there at all times when i am off. I am only receiving one day off and feels the pressure lately because she only complains about whag i dont do for her and not the many things i do for her and it exhaust me emotionally because my family judges me based on what she says and judges and complains about me the most even though i am the only one who has consistently helped her. I have talked to her aboUt it but no change 

She is 15 and is a tom boy, i want her to grow out of this and become a woman.

When we see her through my cousins I am going to be gracious. This aunt s mother is dying and I want to attend the funeral when she dies. My Dad will be angry. My father and mother always use me to get their enemies back. As a kid I was banned from seeing family they were arguing with. It cost me a lot in my childhood. This wife of the uncle s does the same thing as my parents. So long story short the uncle is divorcing after a 28 year marriage. It will be final in March. I have known this aunt my whole life and would feel bad suddenly disowning her. I am not looking to be close but still gracious and a distant relative. What do I do when I get grief for things like going to the funeral? My grandmother will be at all these things so I cannot keep it a secret from my parents when I am nice to this woman (the aunt, soon to be ex-aunt) or if I go to the funeral for her mother. The couple has 3 kids together who are my cousins and the aunt had a son from a previous marriage who we have known as a cousin even though he (now she) is a step-cousin. I cannot stand it when my parents use me to get their anger out. My Mom was awful about it when I was a kid and now she has improved and I notice it in my Dad. This aunt is not perfect for she does the same thing to her 3 kids. However, I do like her.

I'm treated different than my siblings. Everyone in my family treats my siblings better than me. I get yelled at and put down. My siblings are horrible, but I get the bad treatment.

My sister and brother have an iPhone and I don't. They get 900 hundred dollars a month and I don't. They eat McDonald's and pizza and I don't. They buy clothes, shoes, jewelry, and I don't. They throw it up in my face and make me feel bad about it. They talk to me and treat me like I'm nothing. Like I'm not even related to them. It's not right. My mom does nothing about it. She joins in. She doesn't care about me. She only cares about them. She gets them whatever they want even though they treat her like trash. I don't like the favoritism or the special treatment. When I say something about it they lie about it. They won't stop. They don't care. I don't want to be around them anymore if they think that low of me. They make me feel depressed and anxious. I wish they could move out or I wish I had the money to move out. They make me feel so bad just because I don't have the things they have or get to do the things they do I don't even want to live anymore. The way they talk to me and treat me is not right. If I have to kill myself over them and they still get to be here then it's not right.

I got a few giftcards for christmas from my parents. One Target, one Ulta beauty and one Walgreens. Not much on the cards but still thats not the point. Anyways I wanted to use the Target giftcards today and i couldnt find them in my apartment. My husband was helping me look. We searched everywhere. He ended up telling my mom when i asked him not to because i knew my mom was going to be mad. Turns out she says she wasnt mad but where she thought she saw them (apparently my mom thinks i left them at her place) she didnt see them and my mom said was putting papers in bags to go through at a later time so the giftcards might of ended up in one of those bags. Why am i so upset? I was really upset i made my bedroom a mess in my apartment looking for them. My husband was telling me to calm down but i do t want my parents money to go to waste :(

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I dont know how to feel about it i have mixed feelings. Would you let your child join the military Okay the question should not be " let " but would u be okay with, how would u feel about it?

She thinks just because she has an income, gets to buy things, goes out, that she's better than me. She thinks just because I don't have an income, don't get to buy things, don't leave the house, stay in the room all day laying in bed, that I'm so insecure, sad, depressed, and jealous of her when that's not true. She makes me feel bad about it. She's 24 but she still acts like a child. I'm 22. I don't like her because she's mean to me. She's been mean to me since our childhood but makes it look like I'm mean to her. I'm tired of her being mean to me everyday. She just won't stop. I've tried to tell her but she doesn't think she's mean. She thinks I'm mean to her. I don't know what to do about her anymore. I don't think she will ever stop. She needs to move out so I can finally have peace of mind and food in the house because she eats all the food. But she's not moving out anytime soon. 

My mother told me not to bother taking my kids over and all my brothers unfriend me from social media. My mother and father divorced 20 years ago and ever since she has treated me differently, like inviting me after they have the parties and when I sit in the table everybody gets up. We used to go on trips together now they go and they hide from me. By now I'm use to it but I feel bad when I get invited and don't go.

I will try to keep this short. 35 year old nephew and his 30 year old girlfriend live with his father. They pay "rent" of $10 a month for 4 years now for his room. He used to pay $5 a month for about a year before she ran away from home with no money and only the clothes on her back. Her parents are mentally unstable. Both have been arrested for violent anti-social behavior. Presently father is serving time for brandishing a firearm. By running away from home, she had to quit her job as LPN because her mother does office work for same practice. Could not apply for another LPN job, couldn t pass the drug test. The two just work part time minimum wage jobs. He hasn t had a haircut in 4 years. He looks indigent. Duct tape on his shoes. He s in a band. While they "practice" (smoke weed) 3 nights a week, they have been "on hyaitus" since 2014. I helped them purchase a used car 4 years ago. It was $2,400 and needed about $1,000 in work. The last 14 months they have had no inspection. Got a $100 ticket today. Got it inspected when they bought it March 2016. Had it inspected 14 months ago for the first and only time. My best friend is a mechanic. No mark up on parts, needs $700. 10 hours labor, normally gets $90 per hour labor, so $900 labor. For me, he will do it for $450. They need $1,150 plus 4 tires. They spend half their income on weed, maybe more. Thought they could get a 24 month interest free loan like the last time.  I don't have that kind of money to spare. Life is much harder for my wife and I today. The credit union will do a 12 month loan at about 12 percent for $1,500. I consider that generous. To them, this is unfair. Life is unfair. They are always the victims. We are supposed to pity them. Give them money. Is this the Millennial Way? We gave them the cold shoulder. Now we are villains. They are afraid to ask my brother-in-law, he's ready to toss them! Finally.