have known this girl for a few years and early on she tried to get my attention and acted flirty. Like she blushed around me and got red couldnt look me in the eyes. She couldnt even say hi first and when I did first blushd and smiled. She got giggly and laughed at all my jokes. Found any excuse to be around me, get close as possible and talk to me. Could only approach me with her friend besides her. Her friend couldn't talk to me. Well her bFF looked at her when I entered a room and said her name. Her BFF helped her approach me. She stared @ me in school. A teacher she talked to told me she talked about me. Well her friends stare at me when they see me around town. Then like family members noticed me like her cousins and they stare at me. I see her around town he places herself in spots she can c me and Ill see her.Well her and her mom have done mean stuff on my fb like they unliked a picture announcing my dads death when I blew her off. Then her mom removed my dad on facebook. Shes done dumb stuff like that. Well I go to the same college as her and she saw me in a class that is her next class. She walked in and saw me then sat down and stared at me for a few seconds. She showed up on time but after that. She shows up 30 minutes early before everyone else and then walk by the room looking in and then walks by the door when its open. She walks by at least 4x then stands in the doorway and then waits outside for when I walk out. She doesnt have her friends to help her.

Basically when i was a freshman in high school i dated my best friend for a few months because we believed you know it was meant to be. But we decided that we are great together as best friends though. We've had sex a few times throughout the months of course fast forwards 5 years and im getting married to this guy i met but he wants me to cut off my best friend/ex and im not sure how i feel about it. I do understand completely why he'd want me to cut off someone i dated and was once very sexual with as i would want him to do so as well. BUT i feel as if its different on my end because my best friend and i remained best friends in a total of 9 almost 10 years and yes we we dated for about 5-6 months but that was 5 years ago. And we have not had sex at all since then or done anything out of a normal best friend relationship.. should i cut him off? i meant fast forward 5 years from graduation high school not from my freshmen years.

I am thinking a food court at the mall - reason being we can sit and talk / catch up with no interruption or ask to free up table by a waitress?

So I'm going to high school next year. But I'm not a popular/mean girls (btw I'm also a girl) at my school and they sometimes get salty and bully me because I'm not rich like them. They all have hydro flasks and AirPods and an iPhone X or iPhone XS Max or iPhone XR or iPhone 8 or 8 plus and apple watches and always go on cool vacations during holidays. And I have none of those things and that's why they sometimes bully me. I don't have AirPods or a hydro flask or an Apple Watch or go on cook exotic vacations and I only have an iPhone 5s. Don't get me wrong I'm grateful for it and glad to have it. And I always feel bad about it and I can't ignore because they rub it in my face 24/7 and I've tried but just can't. Plz help

Every time we have a conversation, she brings this up every now and then. Saying that she's trying to find something relatable but can't. We've been friends for 15 years. I don't get it because you're gonna be the same person forever. You have to grow

I talk to a 22 year old and it's like I'm still talking to a high school kid who's kind of socially awkward and shy, tries too hard to be funny, doesn't really have a solidified personality and isn't confident and still thinks sex or weed jokes are funny. And then you talk to a 26 year old and it's like talking to an actual adult. Why is there such a big change once they graduate college

I don t understand because if someoen is fake with me, I wouldn t continue the friendship and stop talking to them. So why are they still trying even though they also said they don t feel like talking to me sometimes?

This person in my class dmed me yesterday. We barely ever talk, and have nothing in common. He kept asking me questions and stuff. He told me that he had missed me during social studies. We sit together in that class, and I had to leave early yesterday, so I missed it. I asked my friends and turns out he did this to another girl and now will not leave her alone. Am I overthinking it? I feel like I am.

Often when I got turned down or away from other, first thing I think about is why me. What I did wrong. What cause them not treating me good. But for most people, the way they think is like oh that people is mean people, not a good people. Or say they are jerk and we are better people than they are. I just thought I have improved myself if want to earn respect from others including not get rejected anymore.

We haven't spoken in years since first year of university but I miss her but idk if she's mad at me

Drink more beer with me if we plan to go out.... I saw his igstories that he went out with a group of female and they drank alot of alcohol , he planned to meet me soon alone but he said he will only drink one glass of beer only, why is that so?

Ok so at school today I was sitting down and there was a girl from my old school that I used to go to school with and now go to school with at my new school because my old school closed down. So at school in class she was dancing today to a song that I think she realized and she was acting goofy. Then my shadow and my reflection was showing on the board as she was dancing and acting goofy and she looked at the shadow which was my shadow and reflection and she acted disgusted and creeped out when she saw that it was my shadow and she stopped dancing as she wouldn't want to be friends and act goofy with my shadow and reflection across the board when she saw that it was my shadow and I felt like she thought that I don't and didn't deserve the shadow that was showing on the board and my reflection on the board. I feel like she only sees me for my race. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do?

I work 30 hours + full time school and I just don't have time to clean up after her. She keeps insisting they are my messes even though I would never be this revolting. I have a year lease and trying to keep the house clean enough to avoid pests is messing up my schooling. I never would leave a spill, pile dirty dishes, or knowingly leave molded food in the fridge. She even leaves old food weird places like on shelves, under the coffee table etc. I can't stand it

I went to middle school for two years with this group of friends, and for my last year, I was at a different school. Now I'm at the same high school with them, and they sorta just started hanging around me again. But I just don't like them anymore. I don't feel like I fit in with them, and I only like maybe one of them. I don't mean to sound like a jerk, but they're just not the right friends for me. I get annoyed by them now. I don't want to be a jerk and just start to ignore them, but I honestly can't handle them anymore. I'm constantly having anxiety attacks because of them.

My friend, who is also my roommate, and I got into an argument two days ago - in the afternoon. Afterwards, we went our separate ways to cool down, and later that night, we talked about the things we didn't like about each other. We were not yelling, we were not about to fight, we were just talking about the things we didn't like about each other. 10 minutes later, the police comes to our dorm, asking my roommate if she's ok, and what was going on. I was confused on why the cops were called because we weren't yelling or fighting. When I asked her about why she called the cops, she said that she told her friends what was going on and they called the cops. So, I asked her what did she tell her friends that made them think to call the police, and she never told me what she said. She just said that she didn't know that they were going to come, or that her friends were just being overprotective. However, her friends know me, so I'm very confused and hurt by all of this.

In 2000 when the colored N64 came out, I bought one, though I didn't have the money to afford the games because the cartridges for it was $59 plus tax each. I had only one or two games in total in which is now lost. The console is near mint, hardly ever used. After pulling it out of the closet is there any good N64 games to play on it?

My friend is getting married in a couple of month. I know she is excited and i understand weddings can be stressful but I feel that she is being inconsiderate. You tell me what you think. I was talking on the phone with her yesterday and she started to complain about how her family isn't really supporting her. Then she adds that in fact no-one has helped her that the reason why she considers______( name of another friend) special is because she is always helping her. She has also been complaining about how no one has planned her bridal shower which is a responsibility of maid of honor and bridesmaid.I do not know why but I really felt offended . I am one her bridesmaids. Her sister and that friend she mentioned are both her maid of honor. I really do not know what she expect me to do. I am spending $200 dress, $150 makeup and hair, $ 100 accessories, $ 400 bachelorette and I'm secretly planning her bridal shower with her sister. I know she is overwhelmed and wants everything perfect but she had mentioned that she is doing everything alone and nobody is helping her plenty of times and I am already bothered by it. What else does she expect me to do? Just because I am not more involved doesn't mean I don't care. I work full time and go to college. I live alone and have a lot of responsibility and she knows that. I am spending more money that my budget on this wedding but I'm doing it because I care about her. I got really upset at her comment. Did I overreact? What do you think?

I live with a roommate on campus who never gives me eye contact when I talk to her. She never talks to me or smiles at me. I am always the one who initiates a conversation with her. She and my roommate went to an on campus event. I couldnt go because I wanted to study. She came back an hour later and I asked her how it went. She talked about what she won and etc then she left. Three hours later, my other roommate came to tell me, "Our roommate said she feels bad she didnt invite you to go with us to the casino." And I thought to myself that she lied about feeling bad. Whenever I walk into the room when she talks to my other roommates, she goes all quiet and stops talking. I lost respect for her when she had her friend over around 3 am. I couldnt sleep and they were loud. She talks about me to her friends and I know because when i say hi to them they just stare at me like I am some kind of Alien, lol. I just cant believe she is almost 30 and she acts like this towards me. I am wondering if she is racist? She doesn't have any Asian friends, mostly Caucasion friends but she is half Asian and half caucasion. She always puts loud music on whenever my other roommates are not present in the dorm except for me. She doesn't clean after herself. She help us clean. Whenever its just me and her alone in the dorm, she doesnt flush the toilet at all. Sometimes she would be all nice and say hi to me then at times she would give me an attitude and a very bad negative vibe.

I am in my 20s, I have an older mother like fogure in my life who is extremly special to me, she is my best friend regardless of our hige age difference as she is in her late 50s. We talk every single day and have the most special bond. Well today I went to get an ultra sound and found out that i might have cancer. When my best feiend called, she asked how it went and I told her that they found something and it is most likely cancerous the doctor said. She said this on thr phone: "I don't believe that, you are too young... I have to stay positive" .. she then went on to say that everything was going to be okay and that we can beat it together. But what did she mean by that sentence? I didn't quite understand what she meant

My roommate and I were great friends during our freshman year of college and now that we're roommates, we're starting to despise each other. Long story short, we got into an argument because she came in (back to our dorm) at 1am, knowing that I had work at 6am. Her entrance woke me up, and I ended up getting 2 hours of sleep, and worked a 6 hour shift. I was mad because we've talked about this before. Anyway, that situation blew up and we started arguing about things we didn't like about each other. I've gone through this type of thing before with a previous roommate, and I know after a huge argument, the atmosphere can feel awkward. So I told her that I don't want either one of us to feel awkward or hostile, and she's been acting really funny ever since. She has work in the morning (on weekends ) so she's usually in bed by 11, however, tonight she said that she wasn't going to bed anytime soon, and I felt uncomfortable falling asleep first just in case she might do something to me. I know this sounds like I'm paranoid, but sometimes she has this look in her eyes, her eyes look dark and black, not just because they're dark brown.

I'm just asking because I've had a few people tell me I always sound like I'm whispering. I don't talk very loud. I always speak in my natural tone yet people tell me I sound like I'm whispering. I've also had people ask me if I have a cold when I'm perfectly healthy.

Hello, well here's the thing. I'm just so lonely that it's really sad. And tbh I really don't have much to say about this. I cannot understand why I'm so lonely because I'm actually a super dope human, like wow. But anyways yahoo i hope you can help me with this huge problem that is affecting my daily life.

I'm a sophomore at a small college in Indiana, also in a fraternity. Grades have never been a problem. I'll outwork anyone who challenges me. But I have terrible social anxiety and have a TON of trouble at parties. I even get nervous when I hear people/girls come over. This probably makes me sound super nerdy and lame but I know that isn't true. I have good conversation skills, but have a lot of trouble when it comes to speaking up in crowds or areas with lots of people. I grew up SUPER shy too and had next to no friends in high school. I feel like I'm wasting these years away as I sit in my room writing this. I've even been taking CBD oil to try to help calm me down and it's even helped but I don't know where else to turn. I don't want to graduate not knowing many people. Any advice?

My ex and I dated for 5 years before he decided to end our relationship a year ago. He dumped me out of nowhere one day over a text. Below was the text: "I know I have been different lately, but I don't love you anymore and I have developed feelings for someone else. I regret dating you and breaking up will be the best for the both of us. I wish you the best in life." No warning, no hints and then BOOM! He ended it just like that. He didn't even think it was important to reply after I texted him back all confused. I was left just like that after 5 years. No closure, no nothing. I don't even know if I got cheated on or not or for how long? To this day, I still don't know what did I do to deserve that. I'm ashamed to admit this cuz it makes me seem weak but I was beyond heartbroken. Just last night, all these memories came rushing to me and I couldn't sleep. We were doing great as usual or so I thought. He always made me feel so loved. Even 2 weeks prior to this, he took me on a surprise date and that was the last time were intimate.

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It honestly really hurts. I'm a 15 year old girl, and I'm pretty sure I have anxiety or something like that because I've always had a lot of trouble making friends, ya know? I have about 2 friends who I am really close to and the rest of the people I know I feel like are more acquaintances. Recently, I came to the realization that even those two friends have someone they prefer over me in their friend groups. I just want to be one persons favorite person (not including my family, I know I'm my moms but honestly my entire family makes me uncomfortable, it's complicated). That is all I honestly want. I feel really alone in life, and it makes me pretty depressed at times. I've never had a boyfriend or someone like that either, but I feel like that's okay since I'm still pretty young. I do online school so that's another factor. This is getting long so I'm gonna wrap it up, but I just want advice. I don't know what to do anymore, and I know this isn't healthy to feel.

I have a summer job I've been doing for the last few years and my friends been unemployed for like a year. Anyways he was down to work with me this year but now he's getting cold feet. Thats fine with me because he said he was going to do a different job but it's been several weeks and he's still not started that job, he's turned down a couple other job offers I've thrown his way and he keeps trying to get money from people for food and gas. It's at the point where I only hang out with him to try and get him jobs but I hate hanging out with him cuz he just trys to get money out of me. He's started dating older people for the express purpose of having them buy him stuff and he lives at his mom's house and lives off of her when he can't live off of other people. How do I explain to him that he needs to stop being a parasite and just work with me this summer? It's only 3 months of work (easy work, requires no experience) and hell get around 6k at least over that time.period. he keeps trying to say he's going to go back to college (his dad will pay for it) or he's going to work somewhere else (he's never followed through on getting a different job) I don't want to just stop talking to him but I'm not going to enable him mooching any long and I'm a little mad that he's still living off his mom (she barely makes enough for herself). He's 22 btw has some work experience but hasn't been doing anything for a long time.

I met this guy where he works he asked me to hangout with him. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits he said yes. And that he's always been into me. We've been talking about having sex. But now I just want to be friends with him and that's it no sex. Do you think he'll be friends with me? I don't see what the problem is. He never mentioned sex to me at all. He just asked me to hangout. I was the one who mentioned sex. I'm sure he can just forget about it.

My bestfriend and I have been friends for 11 years. We both are juniors in high school. The thing I did to her was really bad and she has no clue I was behind it. In middle school, I made a fake account with using a girl I didn't like in my school. (well we both didn't like her because she was drama) Anyways, I text my bestfriend and saying awful things to her like "you're so ugly" stuff like that. I sent her a d pick that I got from the internet. PLEASE DON'T ATTACK ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING I WAS IN 6TH GRADE OR 7TH GRADE. I WAS A CHILD. I KNOW I WAS REALLY WRONG FOR THAT. My reason for this is I didn't want my best friend hanging out with the girl who causes drama with everyone and I didn't know how to end their friendship. After that, the girl got in trouble and they weren't friends anymore. I feel so bad now since I'm older. Today, she still doesn't know. It kills me inside.

My friend and I got into a huge argument and she left our room. I didn't know when she was going to come back, so I texted her. My text really wasn't an apology, it was more of "I hope we can at least coexist from now on, I don't want either one of us to feel uncomfortable since we're roommates" and her response was, "what ever I need to say to you, I will do so in person"