We could also witness that marriages are becoming more of a custom, and people are searching for love outside it. If someone doesn't love his partner, why don't he properly communicate and move out? Instead people cheat their partners. It is not only sinful, it also makes one a nontrustworthy person, no body can trust, including the future partner.

Three years ago I moved to GA with my husband. We had originally planned to move to GA in the future (thinking that time would never come) but our move sped up a bit when my husbands fathar was diognosied with Alzheimer's. Understandably, he wanted to spend as much time as possible with his father so we decided now would be the time to move. My entire family is back in MA. I hated it in GA when I first moved here, everything was different. Now I have a blessed life, own a business that is growing very rapidly, and a nice apartment with my husband. Things seem perfect but I fight an internal battle. Speaking to my family on a daily basis, missing home so much I sometimes just want to leave. I also this year have traveled up to my family 6 times or had them visit. I feel torn. I feel I should get on with MY life and ebrace the blessing I have and be a wife to my wonderful husband. On the other hand that dread of missing home comes over me. Any suggestions? On how to curb this? Why do I feel so strongly about my home?

My husband and I were on vacation. He smokes and I don't. We stopped at places a few times a day so he could smoke and while he was a few feet from me smoking I texted a female friend a nice picture I had taken of the beach. When he got back he saw I had texted her and was furious that I was texting my friend while we were on vacation. Is it an... show more

My in laws lied and hacked into my phone and saw a text between a gay male friend my husband doesnt know where we pretended to be having an affair because my husband kept getting into my phone and sending private texts to others and we wanted to "give him something to talk about". It backfired, as these things do and his mother spread a lie that I physically cheated and have aids and stds and lied and said I am a drug addict criminal who is unstable which is untrue. They didn't win in their attempts to get the kids and a divorce (they tried to go to court and file a divorce on our behalf when we are middle aged!) He refuses to tell his mother to apologize claiming that he cant make her do anything, only God can hold her accountable, then proceeds to attack me for things I have said in anger 10 years ago to his folks or him! Who is right?

So one of my best friends are confiding in me about her relationship. She tells me she's with a partner of 6+ years and her partner doesn't want to get married. and another thing is they have a roommate and whenever my friend and their roommate bump heads her partner seems to always take the roommates side. I want to tell her to either get relationship counseling or break up. How to properly give her advice on this? Do I even have a right to tell her that she should be more on her partner's side?

My wife has always had trust issues. Not because of anything I've done, but because she was raised in a very emotional unavailable and unfaithful family. She never has trusted me even though I've never given her reason not to. I asked her if she were in a situation where another man came along and told her everything she wanted to hear, would she cheat. Her answer was that she would never put herself in that situation to begin with. I said these situations just happen so what what would she do? She just kept repeating she would never put herself in that situation. Instead of asserting she would never do anything, she just said she would never be in that situation. Not to mention her only friends cheat on their husbands so it's only a matter of time she gets put into a situation like that. Should I be concerned?

My husband works for a company that provides care for individuals who have disabilities as the team lead. His schedule has been 8-8 which is 12 hours Mon-Fri and some weekends ..... lately so far it's been 4 occasions when he worked 24 straight hours. Or sometime he say he has to work 3rd shift. On the days he worked just 3rd shift he comes home rejuvenated no sleep look like he slept wonderfully, and with those 24hr days he sleeps all day. Today he worked "24hrs" but this time he never came home and I'm on call block.

I asked in a longer version before. This is short and sweet. I am the person she was going to leave him for. An introduction to family, moving in LIVING TOGETHER, the whole nine yards... BUT... it fell through. She ended up hooking up with a coworker of ours (we both work at the same place) even to the point where I would run into them in the bathroom. ...repeatedly. So, if your spouse was going to leave you for a serious relationship, decided to hookup with someone else INSTEAD and keep you for now, fly or no fly when you find out? I've never been in a serious relationship or marriage to start so I don't know how one would react and/or what forgiveness is like in those situations.

to get a rich, white husband? Or is it because of racism???

Advice about divorce I have a toddler with him and he considers her and me as liability. He cringes and beats up even if I spend $1 our daughter. I live in a different room of the house with my daughter and barely talk to him yet he creates something or other other to beat me up. In public he'a unbelievingly diferent loving polished and soft spoken. I called 911 once when he kicked beat me I had marks police took pictures but didn't arrest him that gave him more confidence because he said it's your word against mine. I put nanny cams but he damaged the base station. He is a narcissist and considering my experience with 911 I am scared to take legal help anymore if I lose divorce case child custody will go to him and I will die without my child . He doesn't love the child but will fight for ego. I met best attorneys they were honest that it's costs infinite money, husband earns 2000000 anuakky and I 48000 I can't even afford the best attorney. Husband anyway takes all my income. He has an upper hand in everything. Of late I react to his abuses he records my reaction then shouts oh you hit me he is basically lying in front of me to record videos he wants! Extremely dangerous convincing cruel person. I am the only child with no relatives here my parents live in another country. I am educated but I am stuck in a bad situation. I cannot match up to his mind games and manipulations. Any one meets him dont believe his reality. What are my options can some please suggest.