We are Indians and we are in India. I am serious about my wife being virgin before marriage.

Whenever my friend comes over he compliments my wife's beauty and usually gushes how "attractive" she is. Today my wife was very pleased with his comments and even said, "I wish my husband would give me compliments like you" and that hurt now I'm wondering if my friend is being innapropriate with my wife. He told me she's really hot a few times. Is it appropriate for my friend to make such comments?

I am a male planning on doing boudoir and will have a female photographer The thing is I have a sexual fetish with dresses and my wife knows that and sometimes she will let me play with a dress while we're having sex etc that s not important, but is it cheating if I have a female photographer and taking pics of me nude and masturbating with the dress? She will not touch me in any way at all, want to surprise my wife with the pics

Divorce? When we would argue, he wouldn't deposit money so I could pay for the bills. I'm the breadwinner and want to get this taken care of. How will divorce feel when I report that I've been taking care of all the bills while he does nothing. I have proof of his W2 forms and he only gives me the bare minimum of what he earns. So he's saving the rest for something else. What should/can I do? I want him out of my house. He always says that "I'm the man of the house. I control everything!" But he doesn't help. He leaves it all to a woman to take care of it. He said that he wants to sell the house, but I don't think so, I've worked my butt off and for him to demand half of the house when we sell it isn't going to fly by me. He thinks just because he's a man he can push a woman, I don't think so. Truly pathetic. I live in Alabama if you guys could help me learn some laws down here. Much appreciated.

It's been a few difficult years for me and my husband of 6 years. We always said that out 20s should be about us being selfish, traveling, focusing on our careers and so on. The thing is that he is 32 and I am 29. 3 years ago he got a new super fancy position at his job. He got more money, which was nice at the time, but it came at a huge cost. He works 70-80 hours/week. We never see each other, I think we have had sex once this year and having children and a family seems just like a distant dream. Honestly I couldn't care less about the money. I see the wives of some of his colleagues and I would rather shoot myself than become like those women. I want us to move back closer to our family, where things are not so complicated. I don't need the money, I need my husband back. We had another argument about this the other day and I gave him an ultimatum. I pleaded with him that we should sell all this and go out traveling for a couple of months like we did when we were young. I told him that if something doesn't change by the end of the year I will file of divorce. I just don't know what happened to us. We were in love once, the world was our oyster. Now it feels like life chewed us up and spit us back out. Have you ever been in this situation? Did you get out of it?

I work in sales and with the bad economy, my income has taken a big hit. There is one company in town that everyone in the office has been trying to get an order from but no one has ever been able to get an appointment with the company owner John Doe. I only know one person in the business community that might give me advice on how to get to see John Doe but he was my ex husband Bob and although we had a friendly divorce, I had not talked to him for over a year. Finally in desperation I called him. I just knew he was going to hang up on me. Much to my surprise he said meet me Friday at the country club for lunch. Friday I went to his table and could not believe my eyes. There was John Doe at his table. We had a nice lunch and Bob said to John "If you want the best service at the best price Mary is the person you need to be doing business with. John said, "If Bob recommend you I know you will do exactly as he said you will do. Call me tomorrow for an order. I called and got the biggest order I had ever received. I called up my ex and told him I owe him big time. He said "you don't owe me anything. I like helping my friends. I asked him how I could repay him. He said join me for dinner Saturday. We had a wonderful meal and caught up on what each of us had been doing the last year. Was that enough of a repayment? Do you think he was just being a nice guy and/or he still has some feeling for me?

I met this man 7 years ago. I fell in love with him shortly after we met and didn't know he had a girlfriend. I asked and he told me that he had a long distance girlfriend But I was too in love with him at that time and started having sex. I always knew I should have ended having sex with him as the relationship between him and me was going nowhere. But I was too blind and was crazy about him so was not brave enough to walk away. 5 years ago, he broke up with his then girlfriend so I expected I could be his gf but while I didn't notice, he started having relationship with a new girl (now his wife). I told him I would leave my but he never let me go because he wanted to keep me on his side. We have been doing what normal couples do such as having lunch, dinner, shopping etc. just spending time with him makes me happy even if I was the other woman. He got married 3 years ago, without telling me so I didn't notice for one year. I just kept seeing him like always have and I had an affair without knowing. He never told me he is now married and have kids. Since I found out his marriage, we met a few times but didn't have sex though he wanted to. I don't want to have sex with a now married man. I know he wants sex from me. A part of me still care about him. This maybe just an obsession. I don't want to see him anymore but he keeps contacting me and insists he wants to see me. Why does he still need me? I really cared about him when I was with him even though I was just for sex. The fact that I was never chosen keeps making me sad. I am worthless. All I need to do for man is sex because I am not attractive inside. I am not a girlfriend or marriage material. This is what all men thinks about me. Now married man who had kids still wants me just for sex? I don't know what to do.

sometimes I do such a treat that I'm stuck - it's the whole world for me. I writes to him 1000 messages per day

1) How often sex in a guy's dreams should be? 2) What should I wear if I want to do a striptease? Is a striptease a good idea? 3) Courageous fantasies that I can fulfill? and not brave? 4) What is the perfect lover? With details, answer 5)Is sex with a dildo in front of my husband really so sexy? PS. Maty loves me so I ask

I need advise. I miss my old husband. I'm so lonely. Kids miss their dad.

**** Allah **** god **** Jesus **** Mary **** Muhammad **** all these n*ggas i finally find somebody who im ******* happy with were like soulmates and ******* Allah sh*ts on me with this Islam sh*t. I'm really gonna die and idc if I go to hell Muhammad and god can go suck a dick

How much to court her, how much to give her a month when married and how much does it cost a guy when she divorces him?

We just got back from vacation we had with mutual friends. During our vacation my hubbie was overly friendly with his buddies girlfriend. Calling her name all the time, laughing with her having fun and pretty much paying way too much attention to her. I didnt pay much attention to it at the time thinking he just trying to be nice with her. What makes me very upset is that up to this day he still mentions her name almost everyday. Everything seems to remind him of her and he tells me. His behavior towards her started to upset me and i asked why he always talks about her. He seemed surprised and embarased by my question and apologised and he didnt realise he was talking about her too much. He said im the only woman he is interested in. It was nice of him to apologise, however i cannot understand how someone is unaware of their feelings or doesnt seem to realise that it may be hurting me. He seems avoidant and non communicative. I dont praise other men around him i give him respect. Im wondering if im being overly jealous, or im rational and i was right to adress it. I feel hurt and dont want to live my life if he continues to openly fancy women infront of me. Any take on much appretiated....