she thinks i'm mentally ill. @psi_medium: i know that already. she's been cheating with her dwarf lovers.

I am under 18 so I cant move out. He is forcing me to be around the family, no along time. They are loud so if I put in earbuds i can't here what I am trying to do. They are really nosy and keep looking at what I am doing at anything. All humans need alone time, but I never get it. I asked him why I need to be around the family 24/7 and he is saying **** like "Me and my brother never talk, I do not want this family like mine.". He does not let me be in a phone call or anything when he is around so I can't call my friends because I am forced to be around my family because "They can here him talking". SO is there a way anyone knows to convincew parents that kids do not need to be around parents every day every hour of the time. Like for Christ take, I am 14.

My family is real abusive and I do NOT trust them. in may i called police home and i requested them to take me to the homeless shelter. If i stay with my parents and they force me to stay and I still have to follow their rules, it's like looking for excuses to control me. And they really made me go through horrible stuff all my life. i turned away from society, my family because they were abusive and others, relatives, friends. i've really had enough and want to spend some time alone. Being at the shelter is amazing, they don't violate my rights and i don't feel kidnapped, I can use my phone and go out whenever I want to as opposed to my dads place where I couldn't go out or use the phone. To be honest I have been hurt by family and relatives, and I willingly committed myself to a homeless shelter in may. I have been without family interaction since may but it is fine because they were making me messed up. My question is, i occasionally beg for money from my family because i'm homeless. it's really a small amount but basically i do know that i can NOT trust them. My sister is my only point of contact and she keeps trying to trigger me into a nervous breakdown (she's done this before). My sister and dad keep texting me asking when my university fees is due so my dad can pay. and they said they won't abuse me again but i KNOW they will. any way to prevent going to a nervous breakdown? I'm sick of their psychopathy, I never want to see them again. They just won't leave. 26f

Like I'm glad that babies do survive, but I hear that many people bury their babies alive and it awful and horrific, but how do babies not suffocate? Also why cant people just put kids for adoption?

A couple of months ago my nephew (through marriage) contacted my wife (his aunt) and my kids (his cousins). He is 25 and my kids are 13 (boy) and 11 (girl). Because his dad (my wife's brother) was estranged from a lot of the family my nephew never met my kids until recently. We live 2 hours away and he has already been to see us (and spend the night) on 3 occasions. He also connected with other relatives recently, including his other aunt and cousins. Those cousins are his age. I think he has comes over too often and that it's weird. He basically invites himself over. It is anyone's guess when he will invite himself over next. Hopefully this will be a temporary thing. My kids are crazy about him (maybe a little too crazy). I just think one visit to connect would be enough and I wonder how a grown man with a full time job and normal adult responsibilities can have time for this. Should I worry about my kids? If he stops the too frequent visits I will leave it alone but if he keeps this up I will have to say something......but what and how?

i have always been so close to mother since the day i was born most of my life i resembled her and since i went through puberty i transitioned into resembling my father (whom my mom hated and never liked because he was a mean asshole and abusive to me and all my family) now i feel like that atmosphere and feeling is gone and it makes me really sad and mad because i don't feel much of her energy anymore should i get plastic surgery to look like her again will it help me my mom said if it makes me happy go for it but im worried i'll still feel the same way :(

I am not going to be close friends with her or anything but would it be wrong to be nice if I see her through the kids or have contact like keeping her on my friends list on Facebook? My Mom's sister's ex-husband we all pledged never to speak to again after he left her and if we see him through their two kids we are cordial for 1 minute and say no more. We would never dream of having him on Facebook. However, this aunt we have known for 31 years and we know her family well (her parents and siblings). We even all went out to the funeral when her father died two years ago. The other guy we only met his family at the wedding and the marriage was only 6 years long with two affairs. No known infidelity in this marriage. So would it be wrong to still be nice to this ex even though she put her hands into my uncle's heart and tore it out and stumped on it (metaphorically speaking)? I condemn her for her marriage values but otherwise would feel bad giving her evil looks if I see her sometime. They have 6 kids, 4 from their marriage and two step-kids from her first marriage, and so we know them well. My mother and her other two brothers now hate this woman for what she has done to their brother. Their brother is recovering from alcoholism and she refuses to support him (a drunk herself) and wants a divorce. Her previous husband she left and alienated her kids from his family (though not him). At least their that husband was verbally abusive, this one is not other then when drunk.

Ok so first of all, people will probably say its normal, but in my country especially my family, its not. Sex before marriage is taboo. So being a nosy brat that i am, i was told by my mom to keep a watch on my brother, since after dating this girl, his behaviour change drastically for the worst. Right now my brother went on a trip together with his gf without telling my mom beforehand. Then i saw that he bought a package saying its a condom to his friend. So i look it up and its true and not a joke. It is VERY BAD in any family here to have a child having sex brfore marriage. My mom would probably be furious and i dont think its good either. But should i tell my mom about it. Is it for the better? To lie or to tell the bad truth?

Before I had to get glasses, up to third grade, my parents let me have as much time to play on my mom's phone, mh nintendo ds, etc. But in third grade I had to get glasses. My dad is all into theories and looks everything up on the internet, and he thinks that everything on the internet is true. So of course, he found an article about how digital devices ruin eyesight, even though none of these theories are actually scientifically true. After that he began to limit the time I have tk be on my phone and stuff. It started off with about a few hours a day, this is like a few weeks after I got glasses. Then over the ckurse of a few years, an hour a day. Then 50, then 40, as of right now I only get about 30 minutes and I am in 8th grade. The 30 minutes I get is for fun only, excluding homework. I am so jealous of my friends because I havent been able to play games with them anymore since my dad forcefully sold my gamIng consoles. Its not like Im addicted to my phone or anything, but my parents have gone out of control. It makes me sick to watch them on their phones all day. I cant stand to see them and my friends anymore. What do I do?

I finally escaped my narcissist parent but now I've lost nearly everything and have to move back home, I've tried my best to stay afloat but I have a baby so I really can't risk losing him to the system. My only option is to go back to the narcissist... I'm so scared she's going to keep me there forever and try to keep me dependent on her.. She's very controlling and when she doesn't get her way or i go to spend time alone she talks indirect **** out loud to piss me off Ugh she acts like a needy child ! She's trying to convince me the experience is going to go just fine but truth is if it was just me I would rather live in my car... but since I have a child I have to put my pride aside to bow down for now.. my plan is to get back on my feet so I can move us far far away so if I ever come across a struggle again I will have to figure it out on my own... without the narcs helpsl

Even if the attack is verbal He attacked my mother

My daughter has a 21 year old friend who is willing to bring her. She, on the other hand, just finished 10th grade and will be in her junior year of high school soon. Is this too early and out of question - or should I let her experience college life before she even gets there?

So I am a cam model and I want to give some money to my family for bills but I don't want to tell them what my job is. What job can I say I have? One that I work at home and doesn't sound like a complete scam. Please help me and thank you :).

It started about 2 months ago when my mom and dad got into a big fight. My dad ended up accidentally head butting my mom and she called the cops. My dad was then charged with child cruelty and battery. He ended up getting out a week later. I went to spend a day with my dad. He's not one to keep deep secrets. He ended up telling me how he wanted to get back at my mom for calling the cops and cheated on her but felt really bad about it afterwards. This was a 16 year marriage with no cheating whatsoever until then. My mom became depressed which left me, a 13 year old, to care for my two younger siblings. As in, bath them, feed them, clean after them, ect. I don't know what to do. I just want things to go back to the way they were before, but we all know that isn't going to happen. Can someone help, please?

So here's the deal. My significant other has a autistic son who is violent and hes is only going to get worse. We see him every couple weeks for a day. Well he does. We have a daughter together and his autistic son has hurt her a lot. Even split her head open. So i leave with her so she wont have to be hurt. Anyhow we are waiting for the day that his sons mother cant take him anymore when hes bigger and more violent. She wont treat him wont take him to therapy and lets him beat on his younger sibling at her house. Lets him tear the house apart she makes no effort. So we are wondering if she tries to drop him off on our door one day we dont have to take him right? We tried to get him treatment she pulled him out. Its not that we wanna abandon a child in need but he is a major danger to our daughter. We could never take him. She us custodial parent.

Long story short. My mom told me that I'm not from this planet and so isn't some other people in our family. And some other weird stuff I won't talk about. Anyways, she's not crazy, as far as I know. I just don't know why I was told this. My mom and I, are also usually able to predict the future. I sometimes have dreams of things before they actually happen. I'm defiantly not crazy, people have said things about this ablility we seem to have before and noticed it. We also seem to have a strong connection to this spiritual world. Also, defiantly not imagining it because I caught it on tape, answered others were able to hear the voice of the spirit as I was. It told me to, "let it out" I never really figured out what that meant . Anyways, I'm not gonna talk about it too much, and I know a lot of people won't believe me and I honestly realize that I can't make everyone believe me so I'm not gonna try to stop "hate comments " I'm just asking for an opinion. What do you guys think?

I am 26 and live on my own and have not stopped crying since I was eleven.

Our dad requires her to babysit for our neighbor's kids because she doesn't do any extra curricular or sports after school and he wants her to do something productive. She's 14 so she can't get a "real" job yet. The kids next door are very aggressive and rude. The punch, kick and break things. At first she laid down rules for them (no kicking and punching, no throwing things), but the kids told their mom that my sister was being mean and putting them in time out for "nothing." The mother then told my sister she was not allowed to discipline them so she comes home tired and hurt. If my sister is baby sitting them do you think she has the right to put them in time out or at least discipline them for punching her, kicking her and leaving scratch marks?

I am 18 years old. I've been vaping for a while now and I think it's safe to say that I'm addicted. I figured it would be better to tell my parents instead of lying to them until they eventually figure it out. I guess what I'm asking is: how would I tell them and how would they react. I already know they won't be pissed and screaming like crazy they will most likely talk to me about it. But what I'm afraid of is making them think they failed me or something. I really don't want them to feel that way. Pls help

Whenever someone does something to piss me off, I stay extremely angry and just have this deep angry feeling in my chest of like hours. Mostly it's because of men on the street being ******* assholes. As I got older, I started yelling back at them, cursing them out and stuff but I still stay mad afterwards. It feels good in the moment but afterwards I'm always still mad cause it's so unfair. I can't go walking anywhere whether I'm with my friends, my mom, or my 13 YEAR OLD sister, men have to ruin everything and I remain pissed off for the rest of the day. And my mom always gets mad when I curse them out but I would only feel worse if I didn't because then they'd get away with it. My parents always say to just let it be because life is unfair, but that's bullshit. I mean, life is unfair but shouldn't we try to MAKE it fair? Should we just let murderers get away with it since life's unfair? Why should I let them get away with it? It happens to my mom all the time too, but she just gets over it. She just doesn't say anything and she doesn't stay mad. In a way I pity her because I wish she would just give them a taste of their own medicine. But in other ways I envy her because she doesn't let it ruin her day. But they say "let it go" like it's such an easy thing. I can't! Like, how? How do you just accept it? It's not fair and I would rather get myself killed confronting the wrong man than let them think they can say whatever they want without consequences.

First let me set up the past , my mom died a few years ago , I along with my 3 sisters did inherit the house but I did get the home signed over to me from my mom as I did get a mortgage on it to get it renovated years ago before she died , no one since her death has helped with any repairs or the mortgage , the sister who lives with me got married and her husband has moved in , that's ok and things are going great , I have another sister who is married with 2 kids who had a breakdown of sorts and along with the ups and downs f her and her husband problems always came running back to our mom , now its the future and her husband is saying that he is getting ready to leave her , is it wrong for me to feel that I don't need to get involved in the drama , their drama have been going on for 15 years and as I said to my sister that Im tired and cant deal with them anymore , I'm ready to sell the house or just let the bank take it , I have medical issues of my own and can not take care of a adult human being ……….need some help here