She said she believe in God but she doesn't trust him anymore. I tell her you need to trust God don't be stupid . if you don't give up he will answer you She reply hahahaha . I am not wasting my time anymore

I'm worried about being a manipulative person and I want to know how to stop. I started a group chat with a few other people around three weeks ago and I've done nothing but second-guess everything I say and I'm starting to think maybe I ought to really not have started it. I told them when I asked them if they wanted to join that they didn't have to since they aren't for everyone, but I'm still worried they felt some kind of obligation because I asked. I've been trying to talk to them about their interests and not mine but sometimes I end up derailing it into something that happened to me anyway. I'm worried that if they want to stop being there they'll stay anyway and feel trapped. I don't know how to tell them they can leave any time without sounding mean (a lot of them are really anxious and would take it like I'm telling them to leave), or like I'm manipulating them into staying by saying they can leave. In the past if I've ever felt like I'm making someone uncomfortable to leave, I've just blocked them without a word. I know that's really awful but I don't know what else to do. I can't ask them if they feel trapped, that's definitely manipulative. And feeling like I make someone feel like they can't leave even if they want to is too horrible to keep up with, so I just blocked them. I apologized to them later because it really wasn't their fault, but I also told them that it would be best if we didn't start talking again, because I don't want to feel like I'm manipulating them into starting a relationship with me again. Especially if I was right the first time. Sometimes I block people without saying anything because I find out they associate with other people who I know do nasty things, and I don't want to be around anyone who allows that. I should probably try to figure out if they know about it, but I'm afraid that if I tell them or ask them about it it's like I'm telling them who they're "allowed" to be around. So I just block them without saying anything most of the time. But sometimes I don't and ask why they're around people who do those things...and then block them. Which really is not good. Sometimes in the past I've left groups or people for petty reasons, but it was really because of another reason. Like, I had an argument with my grandfather once and stopped speaking to him but the reason I didn't want to speak with him was because he was racist. But instead of saying so, I just used the argument as the reason. Once I left a different group chat over something I knew was a misunderstanding but I wanted to leave because the things they said sometimes mightily creeped me out. But instead of saying so I used the misunderstanding to leave. That's manipulative and dishonest. It's a bad habit. It probably left them puzzled. Unfortunately, both times they ended up convincing me to come back and both times the issue came out eventually - explosively. I called him out for being a racist and we had a big fight over it, and the other group finally made me sure the creepy things they were saying were indeed creepy (they were very creepy) and I called them out on that too. The second situation was worse, because the things they were saying were so bad that they made me suicidal, and what's worse, I told them so. And I told other people. That was wrong, even if what they were doing was wrong. It was true, but me telling them so was a direct attempt to try to make them see how wrong the thing was and how it could affect people and to lash out at them for doing it. And if you can do it for a good reason you can do it for a bad one. I come from people who are manipulative and dishonest and steal from each other constantly. I was raised by that in both nature and nurture, but I don't want to be like them. I left them a long time ago for that reason. But I'm worried I can't. I don't have any positive influences in my life and I don't even have anyone who'd tell me I'm doing something wrong, how am I supposed to be better than them? Is it possible to get out of that cycle? I just end up second-guessing everything I say or do and I'm getting paranoid about it. And I've definitely done manipulative things, there's no question. How can I stop doing them but at the same time know when I'm not being manipulative?

Last Monday, my roommate had friends over to hang out. At some point during the night, they went outside onto the property lawn, and a neighbor saw them and called out to them, telling them to "party" with him. They went with him to his apartment, and the neighbor, allegedly, started getting drunk and taking pills. My roommate and his friends left immediately, but for whatever reason the roommate thinks they stole from him and won t stop pestering us about this. I feel concerned that things could get worse, and just want this ordeal to be over with. Any advice would be appreciated! The neighbor* thinks they stole from him, is what I meant.

Until about two months ago, me and my best friend were inseparable. We had our own music, foods, words etc and we shared everything. But then she got a boyfriend, and I was honestly so happy for her. She'd had boyfriends before so it wasn't a big deal, but in the times before she'd still had time for me. But this is different. She literally never talks to me, or attempts to make contact with me. She keeps sending mixed messages, like I'm not sure if she wants to be my friend or not. What should I do? I don't have many other friends so I don't went to lose my best one, but if someone can cut me out of their life so easily, are they worth it? And it hurts me. We are 14 and in school if that helps. TIA.

I m really jealous of my friend because she s going to Japan.I ve always wanted to go ever since I was little and now she s going.I know I shouldn t be jealous,I should be happy for her but the jealousy takes over and drives me crazy.She told me all the stuff she s going to do there and it got me even more jealous.How do I stop this feeling?What do I do?

I think she's trying to get me to have more friends, but I don't really want more friends and if I did, I would talk to new people myself. If I told her I didn't want to hang out with her she'd probably yell at me a lot and get angry.

Today I got back from camp, I ve been gone for 5 weeks. I m 15 so that means that this year was my final year as a camper (next year I ll be a counselor). My life at home sucks, I m going into sophomore year with no friends, an annoying family, depression and anxiety. At camp I m everything I want to be at home, everyone loves me. Camp is the only place in the world where I feel loved and Truly happy. I have so many amazing camp friends but when I see them out of camp it s not the same. I can t be who I am at camp at home because I have an awful reputation and have been bullied for a year or so. Before then I was one of the "popular" kids and then I was kicked out of their group and since then I was never able to find my footing in another group even though my grade has nearly 1000 kids. It s been 2 hours since I got home and I have been sobbing since then. Please help me

I find him attractive, I feel like we have nothing in common. All I know is he s asian and into hip hop dance and he s really good. He s always surrounded and talking to friends and I wanna chime in and talk but feel like I don t fit in , like in his realm. What I wanna know is how can I get close to him or what should I speak about or how do I get him to notice my existence ?

I always trouble figuring out where I stand with people at my school. I used to think it was because I was socially awkward but now I'm starting to think that my peers are just deliberately playing mind games with me? For example, sometimes boys kind of pretend to flirt with me to make their friends laugh. They act really over the top and will wink at me and say stuff like "Will you marry me?" etc. and I can't figure out whether they're just sort of having a laugh and do it with every girl, or if they're basically saying "oh my god, look at this terribly ugly worthless wench no one could ever want, let's ironically flirt with her despite how undesirable she is, and thus we will all laugh at her together!" A lot of the girls at my school are really weird as well. Like sometimes they act really civil or even freindly and then one day later they're just really hostile for no apparent reason...? There are some girls who are hostile all of the time and constantly harrass me, saying stuff like "why do you fidget so much, you're just doing it for attention!" and "oh my god, your walking is so weird, you're really annoying etc." even though I'm always nice to them. and when I ask why they're being so hostile they get really defensive and say "******* hell, just shut up about it already, we've moved on from that now! You're so oversensitive! etc. etc." I really don't get what the motive is for all of this. Help?

I have a hard time connecting with people. How can I connect with people again? thanks.

Okay, so I'm not trying to be the typical edgy rebellious teen here, but here's my thing. So I'm a 15 year old homeschooled girl who may or not be graduating this year and going off to college as I have all my credits done. But my Dad is STILL SO STRICT. Like he controls the slightest things and expects us to tell him every freaking thing. My phone and computer both have something called Qustodio which allows him to see everything we do, and honestly I get that, but he gets mad if I text my friends on my other messaging apps because he says that we're trying to go around him. And I don't have data, and a lot of my friends have androids, so I use messaging apps like groupme. Also he won't let us have social media which sucks because it's the only way to keep up with a lot of people. So I'm just curious what are your guys' opinion on dealing with incredibly strict parents that try to helicopter parent every single thing I do. My parents won't let me express myself the way I want in my clothing and looks and basically won't let me making any of my own decisions for myself. Thanks! Sorry this was really long.

So I'm gonna give a stupid and silly example of this, but this problem has been happening a lot recently, where my friends say I said something that I don't remember saying. It's usually something really off the wall and weird. Like really weird. Like it doesn't even sound like something I would say, and then alcoholic inebriation. Here's a good example: "hey, remember when you said you were gonna get your family crest as a tattoo?" Not only do I not remember saying that, that's a really complex tattoo idea. That would take like 5 sessions... and no one is THAT coordinated when drunk. I can't prove I didn't say it, and several of my buddies are saying I did... what am I supposed to do about this? My friends are making some really outlandish claims, and some of them have financial components.... help?!?

I woke up this morning with a text that says " Melissa has slept with her stepdad " And I was so shocked!!! I texted my best friend right away and she pretended to be shocked as well.. I skipped school today and I cried a LOT and when I went to my best's house I accidently checked her phone and found ALL the text messages she sent to everyone I know in school saying " Melissa slept with her step dad " I ran out and exited the house without telling her and when she called me where the **** are you? I told her I got sick and have to go back home I dunno what to do... Should i forgive her? Plz help asap

I'm an 18 year old girl and there is this girl who my year. She is very rude and disrespectful to me and says hateful comments to me for no reason. To others she isn't too bad and no where near as nasty as she is to me She drops things and tells me to pick them up. Criticises me and calls me names like 'dirty' but then says 'just joking' and she takes pictures of me in class when I'm eating and sends it to her friends. The other day I forgot my work and so did this other girl yet she kept criticising me for forgetting my work and making me feel bad about it. I wore this jumper the other day and she kept asking 'can I have it?' And I said no then she said 'you probably got it from an expensive shop didn't you because you are obsessed with expensive clothes' sarcastically. She also makes fun of me and then looks at boys to gain approval for making me feel humiliated One time after I'd done a presentation, I went to sit back down and she turned around in her seat and glared at me for about five minutes for no reason and she looked so angry at me that if looks could kill, I'd be long dead yet I felt really uncomfortable. I was wondering if I'd said or done anything to upset her, because she looked so mad, but I've only ever been myself and nice to this girl Why did she turn round in her chair and glare at me for no reason?

I live with a roommate that is very overbearing,controlling and judgemental and im started to get so annoyed. Every little thing i do gets judge and picked on from the food I eat and the way i do certain things gets judge and talks to me like im her child.My roomate prior was more relaxed and kept to himself but now this roomate is so overbearing and just dont know when to stop. Now im at the point that i stay in my room til late at night to do what i want to do and not be judge and im tired of doing that. So i was wondering what are some ways to move on from this because its only been a week and im over it already.PLS Help!! PS:we exchanged numbers just so we can have it for emergencies then she tells me two days later i add you on instagram you better add me back. Hell no i dont wanna do that so you can control my social life too hell no

I'm interning at this bank and there is this female worker I like. I think she's cute and nice. I've done favors for her in the office. I've put her bracelet on for her, I've put files away, and etc. She's complimented me on my clothes and she's really attentive when I talk to her. We usually talk about our weekends on Monday's my internship is ending in a few weeks. I wonder if I should ask her out at the end of it. Today she asked me: if I have kids, would i want kids in the future, do I drink, do I have a girlfriend, and how old I am. She's a single mom.

I am so sad. I don't have lunch with any of my best friends. They all have lunch together and it makes me sad I will be all alone. Sorry, there is A and B lunch at my school. All my friends have A lunch while I have B lunch.

I switched to cyber school in 8th grade. I had no self motivation and would never do my school work which resulted in me being where I am now. 2 years behind my friends in school. Now I see all my friends going into junior year and getting accepted into colleges while I am so far behind. My whole family is disappointed in me because I used to be so smart and competitive in school and now I can t even pass a single class. I ve lost all my friends and want nothing more than to go back to school with everyone and be in the correct grade but like I said, I m 2 years behind all of them and I hate it. How can I motivate myself to catch up and actually do my school work?

So long story short, she's one of my closest friends of 20 years since we were 5 years old. She's a morbidly obese alcoholic still living with her parents. She constantly says she wants to be independent and live on her own as well as change her lifestyle because she fears for her health, yet she does nothing to change. She is addicted to video games and always gets online boyfriends who control her to the point that she doesn't leave her house or have time to speak to her real life friends. I recently confronted her about how she ignores me and makes excuses then apologizes and does the same thing over and over, and she tried to turn it around on me being needy. Should I just stop being her friend and let her destroy her life, or should I keeo trying to help her as she is a dear friend who I have many fond memories with?

I slept with my friend Josh. My friend Josh is best friends with my former f-buddy, Kyle. Josh is also f-buddies with a friend of mine, Lisa. Josh also f ed my former best friend Katy. Obviously, it s like DUH you re wrong for doing that but! Here are my "excuses" 1. I met Josh and Kyle and found Kyle more attractive. Kyle and I were f-buddies for a while, but he never really spoke to me about anything else & always called me at night. I soon found out that Kyle had actually had a girlfriend and was cheating on her with me which I did not like. Kyle is now blocked. 2. Lisa is an annoying model who *ONLY* talks about herself. Josh and I always make jokes about how she has no personality. Lisa also openly talks about f-ing multiple celebrities and never took Josh seriously, as she would joke about him with me as well. 3. Josh f ed my best friend Katy but Katy and I got into an argument about something else a while back and are no longer friends. 4. Josh always took me out to eat and out to concerts. We would hang out and talk because we both were photographers - he also taught me everything I know about photography and photoshop. We would always joke about every body else... So we went to Katy s house to hang out. Josh brought up the idea of a foursome with him, Katy, Kyle, and I --- and we agreed to it! After a while Josh and I get very comfortable and Katy leaves the room. And we have sex. Now Katy s mad at us? Are we really wrong for doing what we did?

I had an argument with my best friend back in March that ended our friendship, although I asked if we could fix it; she claimed nothing could be fixed. I took it for what it was and had had no contact with her since then. Since we have mutual friends, two of my friends have been OBSESSED with this current situation and STILL constantly bombard me with questions almost as if they are fishing for information for her and act weird around me. Another issue is that a friend that of hers has stopped talking to me all of a sudden months later. My concern is that our friend's 21st birthday is approaching and I am worried that she'll convince her not to invite me if she has a party just so she won't have to deal with me. Do I ask my friend if she is having a birthday this year? I don't want to sound rude? What does one do in this situation? I feel like she is trying to turn my friends against me and ruin my life even though she is the one who wanted me out of it. What does one do in this situation? She is a very manipulative person. To clear up any confusion, I do not plan on inviting myself if she is having a party. My intention was to ask her if she plans on doing anything for her birthday this year but I am unsure if it is appropriate to ask her that.

I have a married friend. He's 37, I am 26. He used to be my boss and we became friends towards the end of him working with me. He has always been very flirty with me. There could be a room full of people and I would be the only one he'd say hello to and ask how I'm doing. Back when we worked together, if we got off work early and some of us decided to eat after work, he'd come and sit next to me. He's never had a problem with being in my personal space or me being in his personal space. The last few days of working together, he showed favoritism towards me. Also, he would make intense eye contact with me, once to the point where I asked "what?" and he broke eye contact. After he left, he started inviting me and another friend (male) to his church. Lately, we've been carpooling to and from church, all 3 of us. (his wife and kids usually take a different car) He uses any excuse to flirt with me or talk to me. We went out to lunch this past Sunday with his family (our friend was there, too). Me, him and our friend shared a booth while his wife and kids were in the opposite booth. When his wife got up to get more food, I was talking to our friend and my crush kept inserting himself into the conversation. After we left, his wife and kids took our friend home while he took me home (alone) because he had to get to work and I live closer to his job than our friend does. We talked for 20 minutes straight, with no awkward pausing. I found it a little weird that he didn't make a move. Now, I'm NOT saying I wanted him to make a move, but I am a little surprised he didn't give any hint of something more than friendship. Does he just have major self-control or have I just been reading him wrong this whole time? Frankly, I'm surprised his wife was okay with him driving me home, alone. I'm glad she trusts us to be alone together. LM440, why would he need a cold shower? We were alone in a tiny car together for 20 minutes, his hand on the gear shift by my thigh and he did not make a move. Don't you think he would have if he were into me?

Said I love you at end of call and my gf just said okay bye. Then i texted her cause she didn't say it back.. so she says, Love you too, dont have to say it every time we talk"

This girl literally tried to "curse" me and my other friend by throwing a strand of our hair (which I have no idea how she got) and our names written down into a fire and said "I hope you burn in hell" but now she's texting us saying she wants to hang out. She also "tested" me by asking me very personal questions to see if I was a good enough person for her. She asked me if I hated her, I said no. She asked me if i loved her, i said no, then she blamed me for leading her on, even after I told her I was straight so wtf is her deal what do i do I want to get rid of her

Me and my bestfriend have been friends for years now, yet I feel jealous when she hangs out with somebody. Not only that but also since I always initiate it when i say "ily" but she never initiate it. I've heard her say "ily" to a close friend to her, so I feel...left out? Then she kissed some of her close friend's cheek but not mine. Should I be jealous of this small matter?

Me and my best friend have been roped into a band of six people - I'm on drums (I can also play the piano), he's on lead guitar, she's on bass, there's another on guitar, and one last one on vocals. This girl, Francine, was the one who actually put us together: one day she came up to both my best friend and me asked us to join her band. We agreed following a few terms: I wanted "[an] ample supply [of both]... "coffee [and] chocolate"; he wanted "[her] pussy". She agreed, we played and help recruit others, we sound pretty good but - after a while - Francine started delivering my best friend's request. I thought it was a joke at first (that's why I didn't say 'owt), now I want to stop this. He doesn't see why it's a big deal - but I think it's as bad as prostitution. How can I show/tell him this is bad?

to address certain situations that can possibly breed tension. Also, I've lost a few friendships when I've addressed bad decisions ( I usually let people hang themselves so that I have many examples of the behavior in question). I'm a very matter of fact person and speak directly so I don't giggle and make light of situations. What am I doing wrong or how can I overcome this fear of addressing poor behavior?

A old friend of mine just got out of prison a while ago. I've talked to him a few times but don't know if I want to hang out with him still. He stabbed some guy over his girlfriend because he slept with her. He stabbed him several times and the guy had to be in the hospital for a while. My friend is from a small town and you don't here violent stabbings like this. He even made front page of the newspaper. He has kids with this women and he stabbed some guy because he slept with her when he wasn't even with her at the time. He just got mad about it and he was drunk

Choosing to be single by choice? After so many disappointments with men and dating I have rid of dating men because I am tired of the bs with them. The ongoing stress and tension which causes me to go in fear mode. I have been abused mentally, emotionally, and spiritually to the point my psyche is damaged. I had enough of dating men and want to be solo for peace of mind and happiness. I can't recall a date with a man nor anything lasting 6 months. It's been on going games, lies, and confusement with every man I have ever come across. I am not knocking men just tired of going through this and would rather keep men as friends. Yes Jessica most of the men I'm meeting don't get it they continue to push themselves on me or to the point they are stalking me. I had two encounters just recently. I am telling men I'm gay, married, etc anything to rid them. Friend zoning them isn't working. Peter right now I'm trying to be friends when these men rush it puts me in fear mode what I am in now. I'm not trying to rush into anything with anyone. Last year I got out a very bad relationship that almost made me kill my mate. I refuse to go through that again. Right now I don't mind being friends and going slow. These guys are rushing into sex and don't my name or nothing about me.

I have been in touch with someone over Snapchat, and recently, they deleted their account without a single warning. I know they didn't block or unfriend me. Is there a way to contact them now that they've deleted their Snapchat? By the way, I don't have their phone number or email or other social media.

Wow this pains me to say so. So I have friend names jaque and when he was born he was gonna die on the hospital do to having no blood so his dad gave it to him but his dad has aids. Ok now 20 years later he has this condition and he does not take concern. He takes medication and he has had girlfriends in the past that he banged and he claims that he told them and they were completely fine with it. I tell him to please be careful and don't do it with girls when he can ruin there lives. Now he is going out with a 17 year old that was abused at her old house but he 20 almost 21 and he banged her on the first day of meeting then after that he told her he had aids and now there "in love". only knowing each other 6 months and I met her and me and her got into a fight because she was acting crazy and delusional towards my friend. Well she has thyroid and now possibly aids. I messaged her because I was worried and I told her to please go see a doctor. I try to let it go because my friend unfriended me so he could be with her. He was like a brother but at this point I don't care I want her to seek help. She told me she didn't care if she has it because it was till death do them part. And she's only 17 I tired to explain how serious it was all she could do was talk bad and claiming her mom's friend was a nurse. Like she's not going to do anything for you unless you see a doctor. She said she wasn't and that I should stop pushing her cause she loves him. My friend does not even work. he always makes excuses as he doesn't like the people he works with. Or it's far and he cares is acting like a teen going to the park with his friends it's ridiculous and I'm sure he has ruined other girls life because of this and he can't see it. As for the other girl I can't reason with her because she turns it like I'm attacking her and I has said it makes me sad that he would ruin someone else's life for a few minutes of pleasure. And she said "oh so that's what you think of me"?a good time what can I do to reason with this girl there's obvious issues but no one in there right mind would purposely want to have aid's not matter how in love they are. I guess she one of those "oh I'll do anything for love" But in 5 years she will regret it.

shouldn't this be given away for free and she not try to make a profit off of loved ones? She sells nail polishes and as a friend I try to support and purchase her polishes. I went to her and purchased three ( she gave me a discount at $5/each). I asked if she had her card reader and she said no (she always has it and it's part of her business). I then give her a $20 and ask for change. She claimed she didn't have any. Now due to past situations where she always conveniently has me spend extra, or I'm always short changed and she never pays me back or tries to make it even, I wasn't letting her keep my change. So we then agreed for her to drop off the $5 the next day at 2pm. She never called and didn't show up, so I called her, she got back to me 4 hours later and claimed her FIVE year old fell asleep, but then came to drop off the $5.

drinks, dessert etc she then does the same. She also ALWAYS asks what I'm going to tip. If I say double the tax, she then will still ask well "what are you giving" and then will look at my receipt and put the exact tip amount.

So as a joke my fam likes to make fun that I don t have any friends. But I do and they all know (literally everywhere I go we bump into one of my friends) it s just a joke between my fam because even tho I have a bunch of friends I can t call any of them my best friend. You feel? Anyways what s a good comeback to when they comment about me being friendless? I want a smart as* comeback like something like "I don t have any friends because Im way too good for everyone" or something like that idk i put that in bad words. I just want a comeback that would make me sound like the reason is because I m better than everyone else (Btw I m a very sarcastic person and I usually always have witty comebacks but I can t think of one for this)

I have a group of 6 friends. It is cool because we are all in a group chat and are all friends with each other. We always hangout and do stuff together at my house or we go out and do stuff. But, lately the 5 have been hanging out at ones house and I was not invited. At first it didn't really bother me but they have been done it about 3 or 4 times. I am a little offended because I always invite all of them I think it is rude to exclude someone. Idk, I just feel kinda offended.... should I?

next week is my university's freshers week. i have a little bit of social anxiety. none of my highschool friends will not be there as i'll be in a different country altogether. please give me advice on how to make meaningful friendships in uni.

Not social media

So i have this friend, my only friend but all she does is talk about herself. whenever i say something she answers with ''ok'' or any other really short respond and just talks talking about herself again. for example she talked about anime fir like half an hour on whatsapp and then after i said something about a kpop group and she said "ok haha'' and just went offline. im getting so annoyed but shes my only friend but it feels like she just uses me as someone to complain too.whenever i have problems she just says "oh that sucks''. what do i do, i never had friends and i dont want too lose her but im so done.

I already asked this question on Yahoo answers but no one answered the question. Anyways, I feel like I lost all of my friends. I've been in a depression because of my friends and I've been in a depression because its back to school time. One of my friends.. Lets just call her (Chelsea), uninvited me to her pool party... But she invited her other friends. Then, (Chelsea) always stole my friend away from me. That friend, Lets call her (Eve). I always felt out with I hung out with Eve and Chelsea. I think Chelsea is trying to leave me out on purpose and I'm always crying about it because she stole my friend, Eve. I have only one friend left. Lets call her (Sami) Even, Sami noticed that Chelsea always took Eve away from me. Eve has always been my friend since 5th grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I have only one friend because Chelsea stole my friend and I don't know why. Please just tell how can I make new friends. I have one friend but my mom told me I need to make more friends. I'm a shy person. Its hard for me to make friends.

I have to go to my friends party tonight. It is only a small party. She's inviting two people I know but she's inviting two other people who's existence I have never been alerted to. I'm really shy naturally and it takes me a few weeks to warm up to people and I get social anxiety. I can't not show up to her party (this is the first one in years that I've been free to go to) how should I deal with the situation?

Not literally just "thank you" but thanking them for all they do for you. My friend is special to me and I always thank her or want to thank her for her kindness towards me. Is it weird if I do?

I notice mt best friend slowly fadin away from me since i have started being successful. He is alot more successful than me, but he had hand outs from his parents, where as I have come a looong way. I don't see the reason for him to be jealous, but, I am looking for some signs of a jealous best friend. I don't want our friendship ro fade because of this.

I had an argument with my best friend back in March that ended our friendship, although I asked if we could fix it; she claimed nothing could be fixed. I took it for what it was and had had no contact with her since then. Since we have mutual friends, two have my friends have been obsessed with this current situation and STILL constantly bombard me with questions almost as if they are fishing for information and act weird around me. Another issue is that a friend that is hers has stopped talking to me all of a sudden months later. My worry is that our friend's 21st birthday is approaching and I am worried she'll convince her not to invite me just so she won't have to deal with me. Do I ask my friend if she is having a birthday this year? I don't want to sound rude? What does one do in this situation? I feel like she is trying to ruin my life even though she is the one who wanted me out of it.

I understand the question is vague but basically, I've fallen out with some very bitchy girls and I promise anyone I haven't done anything I just didn't fit in because that's not me, however I either stay on at my school for the next step in my education with all of them there or do I go somewhere completely new? I can only apply to colleges as it's a little late now but I don't even know what I'm interested in probably media sport and fashion, I would love to stay on at my school but I don't know if I can bare another 2 years of this because I really don't deserve this and also I don't have any friends going to my school like close friends because they all left me for another group so I'll be on my own sourrended by people who hate me. I'm not smart so I won't be going to a top college which makes me consider will I be around rough people? So I'm just wondering if you were me what would you do ???

Honestly I hate them so much. They always plan things together and never invite me anywhere or ask me if I wanna hang out. Whenever I ask them hey wanna hang out they say , sorry I'm busy today maybe next time, later that same day they are having a party at the beach with everyone. I'm not the one invited?? Really? I always put up with this saying, ok :-) or that's totally fine :D. Honestly I'm so tired of faking this. I'm so frustrated and I can't show it. Urgh. Also one of my very best friends has anothed friend but this "friend" got jealous of our bond and decided to call the suicide hotline saying that my friend wanted to kill herself and after all that drama happened she still prefers her "friend" over me... I'm fine with her being her friend and all but after that?? I mean... I couldn't have been more nice and caring..

I really like V and she seems to like me. R has told me she just LOVES me and also that she has never heard her say anything bad about me. V actually flirted heavily with me in the past and I went along with it. V and I are not very close, have not hung out outside of work (aside from a group outing) and haven't been working the same shifts at all. I text back and forth with R a lot. She and I don't have a lot in common. I never feel like hanging out with her. And now, I'm realizing she's a sht talker and am losing trust in her. She started really talking about a coworker she was close with in the past. She's said things about another girl she pretends to be friends with, and now she's saying a lot of sh*tty things about V and her best friend M. In person, she hugs them and acts like they're all best friends. I asked why she does this and says she wants to remain civil. I think it's just being fake. She says I can't trust V's best friend M because she talks about me. So now, I'm confused about V as well...if her close friend is talking about me, I'm wondering if she is as well or if she ignores it. I like V but don't know if I can trust her. She has invited me to go out on her boat which I don't think she'd do if she had any problems with me. I want to be friends with V. I want to have her back and tell her what all R has been saying to me about her. Right now, I feel like I couldn't care to remain friends with R but I don't want strife. Should I tell V about this?

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Hi, more than of often, when my friends try to make plans with me, I try to make an excuse as to why I can't go. My friends have spent a couple days making plans to go the movies and get lunch. I'm depressed and hate going out. I can't possibly back out now. What should I do?

She felt as though our online friend group wouldn't be as honest with her if she was honest about her age. Of course our friend group screws around a lot and makes... obscene jokes, but I didn't think she would be so young. She acts and looks very mature, but I'm worried that the things we say could get us into trouble. I'd also like to say that our relationship with this girl is NOT sexual in any way. We simply have the same interests and enjoy chatting together. I don't want any of us to get into trouble. However I'd like to continue chatting with her, she's very sweet. I feel stupid... I'm 20 years old. I should know what to do!

I'm a shy person and I already posted a question kinda like this but.. I just want to know how to make friends. I feel like my old friend left me out on purpose. She even uninvited me to her party. I have one friend now but I want more friends. I know what you guys are going to say, "One friend is better than a lot of friends." but I just want to know how to make a friend. My mom wants me to make more friends because she doesn't want me to be a loner and what if my friend moves away?She said she was going to move away one day but then she said , she decided not to. Please tell me how to make a friend.

So recently I've felt like my parents are doing fun things with out me. For example they went to a country fair without even asking me and I told them how I felt and they said I wasn't even able to come because of my work, we could've gone on the Friday. Instead they decided to go the same day my sister and her boyfriend goes. My sister is also always having her boy friend over and I feel like I'm losing my sister. My mom won't do any fun things with me during the week unless my sister is coming with her boyfriend. I feel like she doesn't want to hang out with me at all and she only wants to hang out with my sister and her boyfriend. I feel so lonely, I've basically hung out with 2 friends all summer while everyone else has hung out with a bunch. I thought some people were my friends but IDK who to even consider my friend now-a-days.

I have a group of 6 friends. It is cool because we are all in a group chat and are all friends with each other. We always hangout and do stuff together at my house or we go out and do stuff. But, lately the 5 have been hanging out at ones house and I was not invited. At first it didn't really bother me but they have been done it about 3 or 4 times. I am a little offended because I always invite all of them I think it is rude to exclude someone. Idk, I just feel kinda offended.... should I?

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I'll list a couple of scenarios my two best friends (Roro & chyna) and I have been in and you tell me if I'm trippin or if they are. 1: Roro and I were supposed to be each other's prom dates but instead she ditches me for another girl , a girl who she constantly talks bad about. 2. Roro telling a group of our friends I didn't have enough money to pay for my food. 3. Roro and I were having a disagreement and she yells " at least my dad doesn't sell dr*gs outta my house!" Telling my personal business to the world 4. Chyna and Roro inviting their boyfriends EVERYWHERE we go automatically making me 5th wheel when I hang out w my friends. 5. Chyna trying to make me sleep on the floor so her and her boyfriend can sleep in bed together when we went to a hotel and it wasn't enough beds. ( we're all 18) 6. Roro and chyna going to the nail salon, mall , restaurants etc without inviting me. And posting everything all on social media (Snapchat) 7. Roro & chyna never calling me, texting me, etc but they call and text each other on a day to day basis. 8. Telling chyna the things she does "broke my heart" and made me feel like I didn't have anyone, and all she had to say was " Ok. I'm sorry you feel that way." The selfishness, the inconsiderate attitudes & Behavior, the exclusion, telling my business whenever we have a disagreement, Never trying to understand where I'm coming from, me explaining what the problem is and them still not "getting it" saying that I'm problematic. Etc

I guess I ve just always felt horrible about this. About not volunteering or joining clubs or sports. Is it so bad? Junior year is about to begin and about the only thing I apply myself studiously to are my grades. Everything else, not so much. I m very shy and anxious, I only have one friend, my best friend. I suppose I d like to make more friends, only I m not very good at it. I don t care about dating either. I ve always been a very good person, a great student, I think. I get good grades, I don t drink, I don t do drugs, that sort of thing. I have hobbies, I like to study and learn new things when I can. Do you think it s bad that I m not out there? Should I be? I m quite content where I am but I often feel that I ve missed out on growing as a person, as an individual through it all. I also feel that I m being judged for not doing activities like sports, clubs, band.. etc. I may join a small club this coming year but I don t know how it will go, or if I intend to stay. Is it bad that I m not involved?