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- Question: Friend is being annoying need advice?
- Question: How can I get over fear?
- Question: MY coworkers don't like me?
- Question: In need some help and an advice?
- Question: Whats wrong with me?
- Question: Is it immature to get mad because someone didn't think your joke was funny?
- Question: What is the best sunscreen?
- Question: What would you do in this scenario?
- Question: I m too scared to be a bride and be a mother again incase people say I m fat and ugly ?
- Question: Espero me puedan ayudar esk tenía una semana de platicar con un chico y es 10 años más grande que yo según le gustaba y me dejó de hablar?
- Question: What does it mean if you a person says you hear me? When they re talking to you?
- Question: I feel like a creep??? :(?
- Question: Any excuse?
- Question: One of my closest friends is having a party, and didn't invite me?
- Question: My mom hates my best friend because she's Hispanic, what do I do?
- Question: Is it rude to ignore attention from other girls that flirt with you ?
- Question: Continue to be friends or is this petty?
- Question: Should I give up??? :(?
- Question: Should I give my best guy friend a chance?
- Question: Why is everyone leaving me?
- Question: What would you think of a person who took time out of their day to make a meme with your name on it?
- Question: What to do when even your close friends facebook stalk you? always message you as soon as you come on? Then you feel youre "ignoring" them?
- Question: GUYS, what's his DEAL?! ;)?
- Question: Please answer !advice needed?
- Question: What shoud i do?
- Question: My friend is pressuring me to have a traditional wedding?
- Question: One of my friends sometimes has me go deposit his checks for him into his bank account, and sometimes has me make withdrawals. Why?
- Question: My friend told me that I don't have to marry someone just to be with them, and if I do would be making a big mistake. Was he out of line?
- Question: My sister (20) never had a bf, never goes to parties or anything... what to do with her?
- Question: Guys, if your female friend surprised you with tickets to a concert out of state, would it make you uncomfortable?
- Question: Hey please help.?
- Question: I need someone to make prayer for me to make my friend come back to me and to get back our friendship as how it was and stronger.?
- Question: How can I get my friend to think that I don't always blame everything on my bully?
- Question: Why is he protective of me?
- Question: Why is my friend jealous of an ex?
- Question: Why did this girl tell a bunch of people to never meet up with me after I met her?
- Question: How i friends in yahoo?
- Question: Sometimes when me any one of my friends also a male go on trips together we sleep in the same bed. Is there anything wrong with this?
- Question: Should I move back home?
- Question: Girlfriend seems to treat her best friend (female) a whole lot better than me?
- Question: Is my best friend being bullied? How should I handle this situation?
- Question: My friend is too busy with work and his gf?
- Question: Would you be friends with someone who didn't live you but they knew you wanted a Relationship with them?
- Question: Am I overreacting? Please give me opinions?
- Question: How can I argue this?
- Question: Why can t your guy best friend accept you being sad most of the time?
- Question: Should people generally report children under 13?
- Question: Should I trust my bff and her gma to help me?
- Question: Is it okay to pretend to be okay with my friend cheating on her boyfriend?
- Question: Why do some taken people act so stupid?
- Question: Is it okay to try and get to know someone you haven't talk to in a while?
- Question: Does this sound like a mental disorder?
- Question: How do I stop something from bothering me?
- Question: How do I help someone who is going through grief?
- Question: I feel like **** for what I did?
- Question: How to make friends? im sad.?
- Question: On your best friend's wedding day, would you ever tell them you've slept with their fiance?
- Question: How can I get my friend to think that I don't always blame everything on my bully?
- Question: I want to be friends with this guy?
- Question: What does this mean?
| Question: Friend is being annoying need advice? Posted: 09 May 2017 05:27 PM PDT So my friend threw this crazy party (6 kids including me and him) and the whole night him and him and his friends kept doing things like throwing eggs at each other and buttering his floors to make a slip and slide in his house. So the whole time me and his friends kept telling him that he should stop and the whole time he told us to do crazy things even when we told him we d get in trouble Well he did and now he is pissed, he wants his friends and i to pay him and his mom for the food we wasted even tho he told us to waste the food and was the biggest mess maker at the party He also complains about us every chance he has because of that night I still understand why he wants us to pay but the thing is he has come to my house and made a mess and i never got mad at him or made him pay for the mess he made. While when he invites me to his house he wants me to pay for a mess i barley made (i also helped clean 4 in the morning) Plus this kid who made most of the mess and didn t help clean up doesn t have to pay |
| Question: How can I get over fear? Posted: 09 May 2017 05:03 PM PDT Alright so today after school I got in my stepdads car to go eat because my friend had invited me. When I got home I got yelled at because I left with no permission, tomorrow I was gonna go take pictures with a girl during school... like go skip and well now I'm all paranoid because what if something bad happens. Should I still go or? |
| Question: MY coworkers don't like me? Posted: 09 May 2017 04:44 PM PDT I work at an elderly home and I thought I got along with all my coworkers. I usually am quite, but when they talk to me I'll talk but I don't think I'm mean, I always ask if they need help or ask them if they're doing okay? We hang out at work, but then I guess they say these things when I'm not there, one of my friend coworkers today told me everyone says I'm a snob and it really hurt my feelings, the residents love me ( my boss tells me) and they always come to me first. and the other coworkers such as the nurses always talk about how nice I am to eachother. I'm really sad, idk what to do? |
| Question: In need some help and an advice? Posted: 09 May 2017 04:37 PM PDT i feel very bad in some way ,i just want to get on with my life and be with someone ,but i feel that every time i try to open up with women ,im kind of worried if others accuses me of harassment or sexual harassment when its really not , in the past ive had some trouble since with some girls who i talked who were rude in general with people sometimes or have a social issues , some got me in trouble because of there temper and ive tried million of times be brave and not to think im going to get in trouble for these types of nonsense but im not perfect i need and advice what i could do i understand that i came to this world not to please everybody in everything and as everyone i make mistakes, but i try to be polite to others but not being rude even as an option |
| Question: Whats wrong with me? Posted: 09 May 2017 04:06 PM PDT I was a really goofy and funny kid in middle school. But people used to love me for that at my old school. Everyone liked me and was my friend. But ever since I came to high school that changed. I was kinda timid and scared because I didn't know anyone. But after a while of only a few friends I decided to be myself (the weird and goofy self) but I could tell people didn't like me or were annoyed by me. I felt like my sense of humor turned into annoyance. I tried to be normal (but at the same time I don't wanna be basic!). I'm trying to change myself to make more friends, but still no one seems to like me. (However I did make a few friends, but all of them drink and do drugs and I don't wanna be around that sort of people) What's wrong with me? How can I be more social? How do I stop being afraid of people? |
| Question: Is it immature to get mad because someone didn't think your joke was funny? Posted: 09 May 2017 03:39 PM PDT Different people think different things are funny and not funny. What may be funny to you might be the lamest most boring thing someone else herd. Is it immature to be mad because someone's didn't laugh at your jokes? |
| Question: What is the best sunscreen? Posted: 09 May 2017 03:38 PM PDT What is the best sunscreen? Preferably something affordable and common to find at most drug stores. |
| Question: What would you do in this scenario? Posted: 09 May 2017 02:53 PM PDT its 6 in the afternoon. you came home after a long day of school/work and you just finished working out. you just wanna lay in bed and relax. you arrive home and your friend is outside, wanting to come inside and hang out with you. he/she wants food, wants to talk to you, and wants to use your computer for whatever reason. what do you do? this happened to me and my parents said i was rude for telling my friend to go home and trying to kick him out. i really didnt feel like talking to anyone, let alone giving up my privacy and personal space for them. he ended up staying anyway and didnt leave for about 3.5 hours.... |
| Question: I m too scared to be a bride and be a mother again incase people say I m fat and ugly ? Posted: 09 May 2017 02:31 PM PDT Hey guys I m haunted by memories of wedding where my exhusbands friends never complemented me in my wedding clothes avd one old lady says wouldn t it be funny if I fell in the ions and my wedding dress got spoiled how funny it would be she laughed I was young and 21 at the time also when I was 36 weeks pregnant and showing two ladies including a fat middle aged one one including my husbands friends said now you know what it is like to be fat also one of the nurses at the hospital days was as big as a whale why don t I lose weight and do horse riding why do people have to be so horrible what have I ever done to them for that reason I don t want any kids or marriage and that s the truth. Guys what should I do? I don t feel confident to do the normal things people should do? |
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| Question: What does it mean if you a person says you hear me? When they re talking to you? Posted: 09 May 2017 01:08 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel like a creep??? :(? Posted: 09 May 2017 01:03 PM PDT Ive had a rough past, when I was little I used to be abused alot by my step dad. Me and my mother never got along, and all my friends stopped talking to me because I fell into depression. But a few years ago I met a girl who never turned her back on me. She was the only positive person I ever had. But 4 weeks ago she fought with me and she didn't want to be my friend because I made a stupid comment and she got up set. Everyday I think about her and I always cry when I see pictures of us. 4 weeks ago I was sending her text after text even while she was ignoring me. I didn't mean to come off as a creep toward her. I just wanted to be friends forever and I lost the only thing that gave me motivation. Do you guys think I'm a creep??? |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 12:43 PM PDT I stayed home from school today and so did my friends. We were hanging out in the corner of our street and my neighbor saw us and he have me a dirty look. So late On my friends wanted to go into my backyard so I snuck them in ( keep in mind my dad told me to stay inside so I already broke one rule by being outside and then he also told me not to invite anyone inside, in this case my back yard ) but I snuck them in and we were just hanging out and my neighbor pops out, on his roof and looks at me and my friends as if were doing something bad. After a while of hanging out in my back yard all my friends leave. But now I m stuck here thinking my neighbor is going to say something about my friends being here and the majority of them were guys ( my dad would kill me if he found out I had guys over ). Can you guys come up with any excuse for this? Please and thank you. |
| Question: One of my closest friends is having a party, and didn't invite me? Posted: 09 May 2017 12:00 PM PDT So, I'm in a group of 4 friends. 1 of them, I sorta dislike. And another one, I hardly talk to. So that just leaves my 2 "close" friends. One of them in particular, I talk to a lot. We are very close, I met her when I first went up to the High School and it's almost the second year. I've noticed that I kinda faded off with these friends, they are the only ones I hang out with and we still hang out but they kinda ignore me now? Just a few days ago, I heard the 4 of them talking about my closest friend's "party" and she kept talking about who's invited and stuff and they were all talking about it right in front of me. I asked her if it's a birthday party and she said no, but she didn't tell me what it's actually for? It's making me feel hurt, am I just over reacting? Is it maybe just a friendship party for just them? Please, don't reply with "just talk to them about it" or "get new friends" because first of all, if I even mention them "leaving me out" they will just disagree or ignore what I'm actually saying. And, it's not as easy as just "getting new friends" everyone in my school is used to each other and everyone I know is popular and they always have friends around so I can't talk to them, plus I am still attached to the friends I hang out with now. I have other friends but they aren't the same as the people I talk to, I love their personalities but just don't like how they treat me. Please help? |
| Question: My mom hates my best friend because she's Hispanic, what do I do? Posted: 09 May 2017 11:49 AM PDT My best friend, I'm not really sure what she is, I never considered it an issue. But my mom just hates her and talks so badly behind her back! she calls her Spanish or a Mexican (I'm not sure what she is and I get confused about race vs ethnicity), but the way she says it is offensive and I don't know why she cares so much that she isn't, idk, white. She says that since she's not white that she's a slit, her family lives off the government and that she's uneducated and her family does drugs. Actually, my friend doesn't know any Spanish, but she is very smart and her parents have good paying honest jobs and she done well in school. Obviously, my mom is dead wrong about her I've tried to tell her that my friend is nothing that she thinks, but she keeps being racist against her! It's very sickening. I don't know why race or ethnicity or heritage (sorry I'm not sure what the differences are), matter, she's just a cool person! What do I do? Any ideas. |
| Question: Is it rude to ignore attention from other girls that flirt with you ? Posted: 09 May 2017 11:21 AM PDT Sometimes girls say "hellooo" to me in a slow,flirty voice. Many girls glance/stare at me. Some smile and fix their hair when walking by me. I was once walking home. 4-5 girls yelled at me from across the street "hey boy", before that they were talking and one said"look at that guy". A couple days ago, a very good looking girl walked by me smiling and looking at me, but all I did was look down and walk by like a moron. I never respond to them. Even those girls that yelled at me from across the street, said in the end "why aren't you answering ? :(" In a sad-ish voice. Is it rude that I ignore them ? Do they find me attractive(i'm pretty sure they do) Should I respond ? Only reason I don't respond, is because i'm shy.. (i'm 14yrs old. All of them are about as old as I am) Again... I don't know them and it happens on the street. I'm not saying that I don't like their attention, I enjoy it and those girls are very good looking... |
| Question: Continue to be friends or is this petty? Posted: 09 May 2017 09:59 AM PDT I planned a vacation for a bunch a friends and once money came into play, they started dropping like flies. I asked if they could save $300.00, three months ago. That would include rental lodging and car rental. The money was due by a specific date and one friend in particular text me four days after the money was due to ask me when is the latest he could give me the money. Even though I told him and gave him notifications of how much and when the money was due. I then told him as soon as possible because I didn t want to miss out on the rentals that were available. Then four days after that he proceeds to tell me he is having problems with the car he just brought and he doesn t want to hold me up so book the rental without him. I asked him if he was coming to the event at all and he said yes, but he will find somewhere close by to where I am staying. I was really pissed by this. You re basically telling me that you ll be coming but not stayin with me after I ve spent all this time trying to get this trip together. And you don t even have the consideration to tell me by the date the money is due. You wait a week later. You knew you didn t have the money after you put a down payment on the car you just bought. We ve been friends for about a year now and have gone through some tough times together. Would you continue to be friends with this person or is this something petty? |
| Question: Should I give up??? :(? Posted: 09 May 2017 09:35 AM PDT I'm a dude and I'm 22 years old, I had a really close friend Sara. We were friends more than 3 years, this year we got closer than ever because she lost her job and I helped her out. And I had surgery and she was always by my side, but in the end of February she felt I lied to her. So she came to my house and as I explained she walked away and said " I don't believe you don't talk to me again.". I slightly held her for 1 minute so that I could explain, that night she sent me a text and told me I made a huge mistake by putting my hands on her, and she was apperantly abused in the past. and I acted like an idiot because I kept messaging her over and over, and I sent a cute bear to her house with a letter. She went to the police and I was asked by police to leave her alone. It's been almost 3 months and I haven't heard from her, do you think I should give up my hopes on her coming back???? Any advice? Last year we had a smaller fight and we did not talk for 1 month, I sent her roses and she began talking to me again because no one ever went out of his way for her |
| Question: Should I give my best guy friend a chance? Posted: 09 May 2017 09:11 AM PDT So we've been friends for about 4 years now & he's always been the greatest friend to me. He's seen me in other relationships & was always there to give me advice or take me out when I was having a hard time, etc.. I moved away for 2 years but we kept up with our friendship & I realized I really missed him when I was gone. When I moved back, we hung out one night & ended up hooking up & then I regretted it bc I'm not as physically attracted to him. We just started hanging out again bc I didn't want to hang with him anymore, I just felt like we we're getting too close for comfort but now we're hanging again & we have suuch a great friendship/chemistry & he's too good to me but the only problem is that I'm not as physically attracted to him as I should be.. what should I do? |
| Question: Why is everyone leaving me? Posted: 09 May 2017 09:00 AM PDT I keep meeting new friends and they all keep leaving and it just hurts. I'm in 9th grade, a freshman. All throughout middle school everything was so tough, and now in high school I've felt that everything's gotten better except the fact that all my friends have start either leaving me or hating me. I'm not really sure why. But it just hurts so much. I already hate myself, I've been hospitalized 3 times for suicidal ideation, one of which for an actually attempt (overdose). I thought they'd support me but they all hate me and this is just making everything so much worse. I really wanna hurt myself. Not trying to seek for attention. I just don't know what to do. I don't even think life is worth it without people to be there for you. It just hurts. I don't understand why friends keep leaving. I know, "keep hanging in there, it'll all be better". But I keep trying and keep losing people and I can't take it anymore |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 08:59 AM PDT Wouldn't you think that person has no life? Wouldn't you also think that you have some space in that guy's head? |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 08:54 AM PDT if you don't respond they feel slighted but who has time for that? it would be 24/7 arrested by social media! its so annoying that I even have to "ignore" because that's even a stress too so it feels like stalking... |
| Question: GUYS, what's his DEAL?! ;)? Posted: 09 May 2017 08:05 AM PDT I work with a guy who I've noticed in the last couple of weeks has started interacting with me more... striking up random conversations, making small talk. The other day he showed me something on his phone that was funny but was very sexual, and asked if I like sexual humor. He turned into a complete goofball in front of me, especially when we're one-on-one. I feel like there's been extended eye contact and he smiles at me often. I feel like he listens when I talk to others because he'll bring up things I said in other conversations... one time he asked if I was talking to a boyfriend or something. We've worked together for almost a year, and honestly I'm confused by all this new attention I'm getting from him. Do you think he's just being nice or flirting?. |
| Question: Please answer !advice needed? Posted: 09 May 2017 07:23 AM PDT So....my frienfriend has been ignoring me and now that I asked her to hang out she said she had to go to see my enemie's boyfriend play football..iwas thinking that it would be the last chance for her.ehat should i do? |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 07:21 AM PDT I have a friend that im into for like one year, but now we are not that close as we were one year ago. Last summer he started to "ignore" me, but it was not really ignore, i just felt he was different, and we went to the same college and now we dont speak that much, we just see each other because we have the same group of friends. I sent him a message yesterday finally asking why he became so different and he didn't answer yet. Also one year ago I really thought he was also into me but we never told each other anything maybe because we were afraid of losing the friendship. Should i wait for the answer? What should i do? I also told him to talk face to face and not by messages. I cant stop thinking about him even though we dont talk anymore!! Help plz? |
| Question: My friend is pressuring me to have a traditional wedding? Posted: 09 May 2017 06:50 AM PDT She had a huge wedding and when I told her I'm just going to the court house she went "but whhhyyyyy" I told her I would never spent that kind of money for a party even if it was my wedding.. then she tells me that's what everyone does and you're suppose to. I really hate arguing with her about this but she doesn't seem to drop it. |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 06:40 AM PDT He and I have been friends for two years now, and just five months ago he started doing this. Sometimes if were hanging out, and he has to go show a house (Real Estate Agent), he will have me go make the deposits or withdrawals. Sometimes if were in the car and he needs money he will give me his atm card and pin number, there have been a few times it was a walk up atm and he stayed outside. |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 06:33 AM PDT I was married once before for seven years, me and my wife divorce out of being bored with the other. I filed for divorce, and she got a car, and two years of spousal support to the tune of $ 600.00 per month out of it. I had to sue her because she tried to file a claim for a portion of my future retirement benefits, and I won the suit. |
| Question: My sister (20) never had a bf, never goes to parties or anything... what to do with her? Posted: 09 May 2017 06:26 AM PDT she is too shy for everything |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 06:20 AM PDT If she said she already paid for the hotel and just wanted your company |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 06:18 AM PDT So i have this best friend whom I've known for more than 5 years. But since some months she has a new best friend and she is with her more because she's in her school. I live near her house abd she doesnt meet me often, she only meets me when we have a tuition or something. |
| Posted: 09 May 2017 05:19 AM PDT I want to get along with my friend. Please everybody who sees this and knows how to make a perfect prayer that always comes true. Please contact me through my email helpplease00@yahoo.com I need help. There I will discuss the name and other stuff. Please not only one or two. I need plenty. |
| Question: How can I get my friend to think that I don't always blame everything on my bully? Posted: 09 May 2017 05:17 AM PDT Recently my friend (M16) told me (M16) that if I were to break up with someone, I would just blame it on a girl I know. He's under the impression that I always blame everything on her. That's not true. Just to get you up to speed: there's this girl (F16) that's been picking on me for quite a bit. Recently she got one of her friends to "date" me. What she and the other girl (F16) were trying to do was to try and get me in trouble again (She got me in trouble last year and it did not go too well.) The girl that was "dating" me was trying to get me to beat the crap out of the bully (Keep in mind, she still is a girl.) I have MAJOR evidence that shows the bully was working together with my now "ex" to try and get me in trouble. Now my friend thinks that I'll blame anything on that bully. He thinks I'm over dramatic and will "blame" her on everything. I still got the emails that she sent me. I archived them for safe keeping (As evidence). How can I get my friend to believe me and that I don't always blame it on the bully? TLDR; My friend thinks that I blame everything on a girl that happens to do messed up **** and picks on me. Ever since I had an incident with her, he thinks that. I have evidence that clearly shows that she was behind that. How can I get my friend to believe me and that I don't always blame it on the bully? https://imgur.com/gallery/B8byq |
| Question: Why is he protective of me? Posted: 09 May 2017 03:47 AM PDT This guy at work protects me a lot. I'm a strong girl, but he tends to show that he can protect me. He wraps one arm around me when we're walking through this crowded street. It feels sweet of him to do that. I've been hurt most of my life, so this is a change. He tried making me laugh or smile when I told him that I got in a verbal argument with my roommate. To be honest, I hug him a lot and I feel protected. When I asked him why he tends to protect me, he blushes and looks away. |
| Question: Why is my friend jealous of an ex? Posted: 09 May 2017 03:18 AM PDT I was sort of seeing a very nice girl for a couple of months and we both decided that while we had strong feelings for each other, we needed to straighten out a few things with our personal lives before committing to anything serious. She's still in her 20's and wants to live freely and do a lot on her own without a serious relationship and I want to move into a new place and change careers, so the timing was just wrong for both of us as was the place. She accidentally discovered while I was talking to a friend who an ex of mine was (we all work in the same line of work so she was able to look her up on FB quickly.) She confided in me that it made her upset when she found out, particularly because she was so pretty. Why would she care what an ex looks like who I dated long ago and haven't seen in over 6 months, especially if we decided we were going to just remain friends and see where the future takes us? She wants nothing serious for awhile and I have my own stuff to tend to, why is my past upsetting her even though it's over and done and no drama attached to it? She doesn't even know the girl and has never met her... so there is no drama there whatsoever. |
| Question: Why did this girl tell a bunch of people to never meet up with me after I met her? Posted: 08 May 2017 11:50 PM PDT After I met this girl off of an app, she falsely accused me of stealing drugs and then messaged a bunch of people on the app telling them to never meet up with me. Why did she do this? |
| Question: How i friends in yahoo? Posted: 08 May 2017 11:20 PM PDT |
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| Question: Should I move back home? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:44 PM PDT Ever since I was a kid, I ve wanted big. I wanted the nice cars, money, etc. but my hometown wouldn t necessarily provide that, so I left. I m 20 years old living in a house with six people (including my girlfriend) but didn t know anyone else. Moved to the city to try and make something happen. Ended up losing my first job here, my car commited suicide, and I had $0 left in the bank, but I stuck through it and now here I am in a house, a brand new car, moving debts paid off, and some cash to spend. I ve been away from my family and all my best friends I grew up with. My friends here don t have any interest in things I like to do, so I always do them alone (hockey, golf, football) wether it be watching or playing. Barely ever play hockey or golf anymore (used to do those things almost everyday back home). It s all of the little things that I miss like crazy and what s pulling me back to home. I ve picked up on some bad habits that happen almost daily (not proud of it whatsoever). Everyday I wake up like "Great, work all day then nothing after" and it s driving me crazy, I feel like I m loosing my happiness. I don t get to see my parents, I don t get to see my best friends anymore, **** man, my dog is still at my parents house probably wondering where the hell I went. Any advice or what you personally would do? |
| Question: Girlfriend seems to treat her best friend (female) a whole lot better than me? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:44 PM PDT I'm 16 in high school and I see my girlfriend in the hallways give or take about only 12 min per week as I have no classes with her. and maybe a date once a month. She and I both have feelings for each other, but she tends to spend every morning with her best friend who she has several classes with. She spends all of her mornings with her best friend than with me and I understand that girls need space so I don't mind when they hangout. I don't ask for more of her time but it irritates me when she says yes to everything her best friend asks for but doesn't say yes to me most of the time. Lately when I ask her that we should create a club, all she cares about is clubs with her best friend and doesn't even give it any thought. I even invited her best friend and all they care about is each other. When I ask her that we should join a club she doesn't, but when her best friend asks she does. Should I talk to her about this ? |
| Question: Is my best friend being bullied? How should I handle this situation? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:22 PM PDT Hello! My best friend is a female twelve year old sixth grader. I am a fourteen year old female eighth grader. Lately when i go to my friend's locker after school to chat and walk out together to go home, a boy that I assume is in her grade slams her opened locker closed. He slams it very aggressively. The last time it happened was last week. She was not happy about it and told the boy to f word off. Today she told me that a boy liked her, but she doesn't like him and they are not friends. She was likely talking about the boy that has been doing this, but I did not verify if this was true. When I was with her at her locker he came to her out of nowhere and slammed her locker shut. He yelled "You just got pranked!" She was super frustrated that he did that. I yelled to him "Could you please not do that to my friend? That is not nice!" I later told my mom about this and she said that it sounds like he likes her and sixth grade boys do that when they like someone. That doesn't sit well with me though. Nothing like that ever happened to me when I was that age, nor to any of my peers. Shouldn't one be kind to the person they like? A boy in my grade harassed her earlier in the school year because he liked her and wanted to kiss her. That boy absolutely terrified my friend! I don't want anything like that to ever happen to her again Is my friend being bullied? What should I do? Have I handled this correctly so far? I have witnessed this happening twice, but I recall that she implied that this has been happening repeatedly! Should I report this? My school has the option to anonymously report bullying on the school website! Should I utilize this option? The fact that my mom was so nonchalant about this made ms wonder if perhaps I was overreacting. Am I? *me* I am positive that there is more to this than what meets the eye to this problem! |
| Question: My friend is too busy with work and his gf? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:20 PM PDT My friend lately been telling me we havent talked because he is busy with work. He work odd hours. But I believe he is kind of lying. Any busy individual can text call or hang out once in a while. I guess his gf is more importany then his friend. Anyway people in my life come and go it seems that way. Why though? |
| Posted: 08 May 2017 10:14 PM PDT I think it would always be an in balance "friendship". I would just cut the person out my life. Who wants to have to see a person your attracted to and love every day and they get to feel desired but you are reminded how you aren't good enough for someone |
| Question: Am I overreacting? Please give me opinions? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:09 PM PDT So I have a friend that always says little things that bug me. Like for example, today she was talking about my major in college (accounting) and telling me how her friend is also the same major. She told me her friend thought it was very easy and she knows I find it a bit difficult. She said it was because her friend was really smart. This bugged me because she indirectly was saying I wasn t smart. I don t know why but little things like these annoy the heck out of me because they re very demeaning. This girl is very two faced and tries to demean me sometimes in front of others. I talked to her about it and she admits it s rude and says she doesn t realize she does it. I keep her around because we have a lot of fun together but i feel some type of tension and competition between me and her, which I don t want to have. I have a couple friends that get on my nerves and little things they say like this bug me. I don t know if I m too sensitive or if I need better friends. I just need some opinions on this. |
| Question: How can I argue this? Posted: 08 May 2017 10:05 PM PDT I met someone through a mutual friend. I fear one day if we end up in an argument the friend would end up telling me that "she shouldn't have gotten involved with any of his friends ((meaning my mutual friend I met her through)) " I hope someone gets what im talking about because I just don't like how we met mutuallly but then in the end She'll end up saying something like this. I know she will cause she's done it to the other people she met through the mutual person I stated earlier and I just don't like it just because we met mutuallly doesn't mean im just my mutual friend, friend. |
| Question: Why can t your guy best friend accept you being sad most of the time? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:50 PM PDT Hi, I have this friend and he and I had a fight because he said that he didn t want to talk to me when I m sad and gloomy. I took it the wrong way but shouldn t he be their for me when I m sad and gloomy. Idk what to do anymore. I tried not being sad most of the time but it just keeps coming on coming back. What do I do? |
| Question: Should people generally report children under 13? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:39 PM PDT Unless it's a site that's specifically kid-friendly and for childrens' use only, should we generally report kids under the age of 13 on social media sites like Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, etc?? I know it's none of our business, but kids just see so much adult stuff on there and they're also violating the policy. For example, there's inappropriate photos that are often posted on Instagram whether it's by celebrities or their friends. Two people having sex is not a decent photo that an 11 year old boy should see. An Instagram model belly dancing or smoking a cigarette is not something a 12 year old girl should copy. And the majority of the children seem to be unsupervised online judging by the photos/comments they post (often related to sex and drugs). It's just that social media is making kids more exposed to crazy things at younger and younger ages. Also, you can't expect them to break one rule and follow the rest. That's kind of like telling a kid, "you are not allowed to invade other people's personal boundaries but you are allowed to harass another child at school". Lying about their ages may lead to lying in real life as well - what if a young child lies about their age trying to get into a 19+ nightclub when they're only 15 because they found it acceptable to lie to Facebook about their age when they were 10 years old? |
| Question: Should I trust my bff and her gma to help me? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:28 PM PDT My cousin had lice and I didn't know it, and my dad already hates that side of my famiky, my gma bought the stuff for me to get the lice and eggs out, but I can't do it myself. If my dad finds out he will be pd... my bff has been my friend for 11 years, should I trust her and her family to help me get the bugs out? Can I tell her about the bugs? |
| Question: Is it okay to pretend to be okay with my friend cheating on her boyfriend? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:28 PM PDT So my girlfriend comes over and she says she has some "tea" to share with me. I didn't think anything of it so i casually said, "do tell" and she tells me she's been hooking up with another guy and she also says he's the best sex she's ever had so she cant stop hooking up with him. As a friend i never been in this situation before, so i just encouraged her to keep doing it. I feel bad for her boyfriend though because he's really sweet and doesn't deserve this. But now is getting to the point i'm lying to her boyfriend and telling him she's hanging out with me when really they're hooking up. He almost caught me in a lie the other day because i told him she was out with me and he caught me at the mall by myself. I played it off by saying i lost her. I HATE lying. What do i do? As a friend do i keep encouraging this stank behavior? Update: She seems very pleased with my responses so im just trying to be a good friend. idk what to do :( |
| Question: Why do some taken people act so stupid? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:26 PM PDT I had an argument with a online friend. We known eachother for five years. When she told me she was proposed I said congrats and told her how I felt about her fiance. I said he didn't give a good first impression when we talked for the first time. So, she said she knows I don't like him. I told her I have nothing against him. The next thing I said she can do better. She was so called hurt. I believe a friend is able to be honest comment. Anyway she deleted me from facebook when I didn't text her back. When I realized she deleted me I just blocked her ***. Well screw that *****. I guess her engagement made her turn like a stupid person. She kept saying I wasn't happy for her. I was getting annoyed because I didn't say that. Why did she over react? |
| Question: Is it okay to try and get to know someone you haven't talk to in a while? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:21 PM PDT Hey, so today I texted someone who I used to have a thing with back 2 years ago, when I was a freshman. And we are still texting now. I was wondering, is it possible to rekindle an old close friendship by texting more and trying to see each other in the hallways of school? Like it'd be cool to be close with him again and possibly even redevelop feelings, but I'd want the friendship back first. |
| Question: Does this sound like a mental disorder? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:21 PM PDT There is a friend of mine that I tend to avoid now days. We are both in our early 20's and have known him since we were teens due to going to the same school but didn't start hanging with him till about a year ago. He's the type of dude that you wanna feel bad for because sometimes people will pick on him for no reason because he's socially awkward and a bit dorky but at the same time he can be a jerk and will bring it on himself most of the time. Even having the smallest conversation about anything he manages to throw something passive aggressive in no matter what the topic is. And around other people he will flat out insult people or try embarrass others but try to cover it up as "friendly ball busting" and it ends up pissing everyone off. When it's the other way around though he gets offended by the slightest criticism. It's weird though because he will actually brag about being a jerk unless everyone gets mad at him. My other friends can't stand him and I used to stick up for him at first but now I'm for the most part on their side now. I won't invite him to social things because every time I bring him around other people one of my other friends ends up wanting to fight him. |
| Question: How do I stop something from bothering me? Posted: 08 May 2017 09:01 PM PDT My friend had a thing with my ex, and at first it bothered me a lot, but now I'm fine with it for the most part. It's just whenever we hang out she's constantly texting him and it gets annoying. What can I do to make it stop annoying me because I know that it shouldn't |
| Question: How do I help someone who is going through grief? Posted: 08 May 2017 08:52 PM PDT Hey! So 4 days ago I was texting with my best friend (we're both high school guys) and he all of a sudden said he had to go and then he texted me back saying "Something terrible happened. I'll text you another time." I texted him back and told him I'd be there if he needed to talk. It's been 4 days and he hasn't been at school and I sent him another text today that said "Hey! I hope you're ok, if you want to call I can do that. I'm here for you." And no response from him. It seems like he's turned off his phone. Do I just leave him be until he contacts me? I just feel like as his close friend I should help if he needs it in any way or if I can do anything to help him. Idk even what happened. He never told me and has not responded to the text I sent. I just worry if he's ok. So should I just wait it out or try to get in touch with him more? I understand if he needs space though so I don't want to bother him. Thank you!! |
| Question: I feel like **** for what I did? Posted: 08 May 2017 08:38 PM PDT So basically me and my friends where playing basket ball in gym class. It was a 2v2 kinda physical, and I was playing hard defense on this kid, he was at the corner about to be out of bounds. He then throws the ball right at my face which completely enraged him cause he could of through it anywhere else! So I m too furious to think rationally and start pushing him around saying if you do that again I m gonna beat your ***. But I didn t mean it I was just in the rush of the moment, releasing my stress and anger on him. He called me a ***** but I could see he was shaken, I then go up to him push him saying what ! But I wasn t really gonna push him or do anything violent I was just mad. This kid is a douche sometimes and a lot of people don t really like him. I felt so regretful and barbaric after I did that, I didn t mean to hurt or do that to him but after the game we both said sorry and made up. But I still can t get out of my head why I acted so barbaric I couldn t control my anger, but I wasn t at the level of beating him down. I m gonna for sure act nicer to him and apologize again so he knows I m sorry. Please tell me what you think... |
| Question: How to make friends? im sad.? Posted: 08 May 2017 08:12 PM PDT I recently lost all of my online friends in an argument and I have no irl friends and now I'm alone... nobody to talk to but my mother. How do I properly make friends at school? I just don't fully understand the concept of "making friends", it seems impossible these days because of modern technology/trends, everyone at my school is into drugs and crap except me. I'm a loser who is in highschool and is 16 years old and collects legos and watches anime and I've never truly had any real friends. Only ones online. I feel upset whenever I see a group of friends together because I know thats something I can never get. I just dont hace the courage to just man up and talk to people anymore because I've tried that in the past and I'm just not a conversation type of guy, and this is getting in the way of friends. Im sad over this. I can only talk online because its easier. Not always so empty minded. I feel like I'll be like this foreve if i dont do something about it now. Im a piece of garbage who doesnt know how to talk to people correctly. My personality doesnt fit in with the rest of society. I should just go die somewhere. im a loser everyone thibks my hobbies are gay |
| Posted: 08 May 2017 08:05 PM PDT or fiancee If you care about your friend, you might want to come clean because the stage is set for the spouse cheating in the future and worse pain in the marriage down the road. When you say you would never be in this position, you kind of defeat the purpose of the hypothetical. Just saying. |
| Question: How can I get my friend to think that I don't always blame everything on my bully? Posted: 08 May 2017 08:02 PM PDT Recently my friend (M16) told me (M16) that if I were to break up with someone, I would just blame it on a girl I know. He's under the impression that I always blame everything on her. That's not true. Just to get you up to speed: there's this girl (F16) that's been picking on me for quite a bit. Recently she got one of her friends to "date" me. What she and the other girl (F16) were trying to do was to try and get me in trouble again (She got me in trouble last year and it did not go too well.) The girl that was "dating" me was trying to get me to beat the crap out of the bully (Keep in mind, she still is a girl.) I have MAJOR evidence that shows the bully was working together with my now "ex" to try and get me in trouble. Now my friend thinks that I'll blame anything on that bully. He thinks I'm over dramatic and will "blame" her on everything. I still got the emails that she sent me. I archived them for safe keeping (As evidence). How can I get my friend to believe me and that I don't always blame it on the bully? TLDR; My friend thinks that I blame everything on a girl that happens to do messed up **** and picks on me. Ever since I had an incident with her, he thinks that. I have evidence that clearly shows that she was behind that. How can I get my friend to believe me and that I don't always blame it on the bully? https://imgur.com/gallery/B8byq |
| Question: I want to be friends with this guy? Posted: 08 May 2017 07:30 PM PDT I'm a freshman (male) and he's a junior. He seems like a really nice guy to be friends with but I don't have the balls to actually talk to him face to face. I've only been able to text him. I really badly want to be his friend before the school year ends. How do I try to be friends with him? So far the only thing I've done is get to know him by asking him questions. That's pretty much it. Please help. |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 08 May 2017 07:18 PM PDT Okay so what do people do or say when they are livid? I know it means to be really furious but what do people do exactly when they're like that? |
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