Family & Relationships: Question: Want to see my uncle taking off socks? |
- Question: Want to see my uncle taking off socks?
- Question: My mum is annoying and unreasonable . What do you guys think ? ( 10 pt best ans )?
- Question: How did Egyptian royal families not go extinct from all the brother/sister sex?
- Question: I think this girl hates me because I took her part in the musical?
- Question: Prevented threesome?
- Question: How do I forgive my husband's friends for everything they have done?
- Question: Please help?
- Question: Is crystal lively being truthfull with chris koetter?
- Question: Meeting the in laws?
- Question: Mi novia me dice que crees ca mas y que engorde, en realidad me quiere tal y como soy?
- Question: Getting dinner with ex after years of breakup and happily in relationship?
- Question: Life ... Tough Times... Self Concious?
- Question: How long would you keep your ex's stuff?
- Question: What do you think about this?
- Question: So I m at a job I am miserable at its very hectic with no appreciation for hard workers I also have a commute, I would like advice please?
- Question: Should this couple have the right to be together and start a family?
- Question: Is morality necessary?
- Question: Exs best friends moving to be our neighbor after moving next door 2 sibling- how to handle?
- Question: Am I a bad person?
- Question: What does it mean when a girl invites a married guy to her house...?
- Question: Should i visit my godmother in the hospital?
- Question: I need some advice!?
- Question: Help! how do I tell my parents I lied about the car being damaged?
- Question: Are my friends better than me?!?
- Question: How would you explain this rigid factor in a relationship?
- Question: My roommate just flipped out?
- Question: What advice should men and women be given about the problems caused by alcohol before and during pregnancy?
- Question: How do I tell my cousin?
- Question: My male cousin is being weird (2nd cuz) he grinds against me and he spooned me without my consent. He touched my butt...?
- Question: Having troubles with having sex?
- Question: A past relationship with a bestfreind is affectting me still after 2 years. Need some advice?
- Question: Will one day ever truly come??
- Question: What should I do now?
- Question: Could flirting lead to cheating? Would you leave someone for flirting with someone?
- Question: Im in love with my sister inlaw?
- Question: Can a girlfriend or wife replace your mother?
- Question: Talking to my friend about self harm?
- Question: Age gap.... 15 & 19... Mom doesn't approve..?
- Question: Why does my crush speak to my Dad, but not me?
- Question: Leaving without saying goodbye?
- Question: (Using my dad’s account) How do I leave?!?
- Question: Why does he do this cr@p?
- Question: Should I tell my ex s wife we have been sleeping together?
- Question: Does this mean he cares thank you ahead of time?
- Question: So my girlfriend's father thinks hitting is part of parenting.(We're both 16) He slaps her...help?
- Question: Why do people stare at me and think I'm unfriendly?
- Question: All of a sudden he wants time with is "friends???"?
- Question: My friend is 16 and pregnant and she dont know what to do?
- Question: My husband just found out he has a 5 year old daughter. No he didn't cheat. It happened a month before we started dating.?
- Question: I've been sentenced to 4 years at a women's prison, and I don't know what to do...?
- Question: HELP me plz I want to kill my self?
- Question: Is it bad I gave him a time limit?
- Question: What to do when your parents found out you sent nudes?
- Question: Abusive relationship?
- Question: I was really inappropriate and embarrassed myself and my best friend at her wedding. How can I apologize on a massive scale?
- Question: Help my family?
- Question: I feel like my friends are better than me?
- Question: Is it bad I gave him a time limit?
- Question: Why does she want to meet me? Do you think I have a right to say no.?
- Question: Why do some older women hate women who are younger than them?
| Question: Want to see my uncle taking off socks? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 03:20 PM PDT This may seem like a dumb question, but please don't judge. I am on vacation at the beach and I think my uncle has really nice feet. I want to see him taking off his socks to go barefoot and I want a way to do it without seeming like a stalker. I already missed it once as they arrived today he took them off to go to the beach. Any suggestions? |
| Question: My mum is annoying and unreasonable . What do you guys think ? ( 10 pt best ans )? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 03:04 PM PDT Everyday I will go jogging with my mum . But today , I don't feel like doing so , but she FORCE me ( It's not like I'm overweight all sth like that , I'm just not in the mood today ) so we went down , I decided not to jog for the first round , my mum notice it ask " Why aren't you jogging ? " I replied " I'm not in the mood , I decide to jog only in the second round " she got mad at me and passed me the key and told me to go home . I was frustrated . I run up to her , saying " I told you I will run , but only second round . " She still is mad and say " don't talk back to me , this is just an excuse ! Apologise to me now ! " I had no choice but to apologise . But deep in my heart , I'm telling myself " you are unreasonable , that is not talking back ! That is called explaining . And you want me to apologise ?! Wtf ?! You force me down today , you are unreasonable and selfish and accuse me of talking back when I'm just explaining . You should be the one apologising to me ! so yeah , what do you guys think ? Why are adults like that , they are so stubborn that they do not admit that there are in the wrong , and always saying us kids are talking back when we are just tying to explain things NICELY . |
| Question: How did Egyptian royal families not go extinct from all the brother/sister sex? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 02:42 PM PDT After just a few generations this type of inbreeding generally produces only deformed, mentally-retarded offspring. A bird species with just 1 male & 1 female went extinct because of this. Did Egyptian dynasties last only 3 generations? Is that why there were so many of them? |
| Question: I think this girl hates me because I took her part in the musical? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:59 PM PDT There were three girls that were competing for the main female lead in the musical. However, I ended up receiving the part and I feel like this one girl hates me because of it. She always stares at me and I don't know if she hates me ?? I haven't done anything to her and I don't know how to confront this situation. Help? |
| Question: Prevented threesome? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:57 PM PDT What would you do/feel if you were at a bar and had two girls flirting with you, it was pretty certain they wanted to have a threesome, and suddenly one of your good friends texts you that they need your help with something right away? |
| Question: How do I forgive my husband's friends for everything they have done? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:13 PM PDT Today was sort of the last straw for me. One of my husband's friends stole money from us when we're already financially struggling so badly. My husband's friends rent rooms from us so they've basically been my nightmarish housemates for two years now and my husband has failed to kick them out every time I beg him to. So far they've snuck people in here when I told them I was leaving for a week, they've left half-eaten food in their rooms and gathered all sorts of bugs and mold and...gross. I take care of their puppy for them (because otherwise the poor thing would die) and they have yet to thank me, nor do they pick up the puppy's crap out of our floor. I'm pregnant and the assholes just sit there and watch me clean and get stuff and don't bother asking if I need help. I have to live with these people until they move out, which they claim will be soon but I doubt it. I can't get my husband to kick them out and I have been unable to move myself. So I guess I need to learn to forgive them for all of this and I don't know how. |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 11:59 AM PDT Ive been having light cramps in my stomach but my period should be starting so that might be why. But today one of my poop looked like it was brown on the outside but really dark red inside it. There wasnt any blood or anything. Is that normal? I dont have any pain or anything else. Ok that was awkward..... |
| Question: Is crystal lively being truthfull with chris koetter? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 11:51 AM PDT |
| Question: Meeting the in laws? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 11:41 AM PDT I have been dating my girl for over a year haven't meet the parentsj ist once when she was in a car accident. But we were just friends and barelyb on our 3rd date. She hasbeen talking about her brother and that he needs to go see his in laws he has to its scary but he has to go. She was telling me about herfather and his experience with her grandparents. He also said that her brothers GF said her parents were nice and good people. She is divorced she had a bad marriage and now I come to the picture.She tell me to wait but usually when she doesn't want me to do somethings he has a differentt tone and has me promise Iwon't do it, she says it but softly. What should I do I'm thinking of going today. |
| Question: Mi novia me dice que crees ca mas y que engorde, en realidad me quiere tal y como soy? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 11:29 AM PDT mi novia ayer me pregunto que si no iva creeser mas y le empeze a decir que si asi me queria en verdad como soy y me dijo que si y me dice que me ama y yo tambien a ella pero yo dudo porque que me quiere ver mas gordo como estoy un poco flaco y quiere que creesca porque yo estoy mas chaparro que ella y cuando nos ven juntos nos dicen que ella esta mas alta que yo la verdad a mi eso no me incomoda a mi tal vez a ella si porque su novio es mas chaparro que ella pero se supone que me ama, porque me dijo que queria que yo creciera? acaso a ella le incomoda que yo sea mas bajo que ella? acaso no me quiere ni me ama tal y como ella dice? ayer yo le empeze a decir que se fijara en lo que dice no porque me ofendiera porque yo me quiero tal y como soy y le dije que me hacia dudar que me queria y me dijo que si no me quisiera no anduviera conmigo entonces yo le empeze a decir y me dijo ni que decirte se quedo callada, tal vez fue cierto lo que le dije? ella esta muy bonita no esta gorda a ella no le gusta estar gorda ella tiene su abdomen plano por eso es que no quiere engordar y yo no pongo travas en su cuerpo ella a mi me gusta tal y como es no tiene tanto de adelante ni tanto de atras esta normal diganme que hago ahora yo me siento incomodo D: al saver que ella quiere verme mas gordo y mas alto se supone que anduvo conmigo porque le gusto entonces por que me dice que cresca? que hago? nadamas estoy pensando en eso :/ :( mi novia me dice que cresca mas y que engorde, en realidad me quiere tal y como soy? |
| Question: Getting dinner with ex after years of breakup and happily in relationship? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT Hi. I'm going to try to make this as short as possible! I am now 20, going into my junior year of college. My ex was my first love; we hung out a lot before but were officially together from august 2010-january 2011. I broke it off; we had a vicious/toxic relationship afterwards that lead me to have suicidal thoughts and receive depression. Soon afterwards, I began seeing this boy and I have been with him ever since June 2011. He is my rock, my everything, and has helped me overcome many things in life and couldn't be more thankful/happier with anyone else. My mother had gotten the news that she had cancer in 2011 (also a leading factor of my depression) and died 8 months ago. I am still suffering so much today and miss her terribly. For some reason, I've had "vibes" and certain feelings that I should get coffee with my ex to catch up, maybe give him some clarity because he was interested in coming to my mother's wake but couldn't make it. I don't know if this is my mother saying I should see him but, it's very odd because I am very well over my ex and have no interest in getting back with him; I simply want to catch up. However, I am not telling my boyfriend now because he would honestly flip out; he hates his guts and doesn't have any sympathy/interest in him. I have never ever disobeyed my boyfriend nor keep secrets from him. I know that regardless if I told him, he would disagree and not respect my decision. What is your opinion on this situation? Thank you! |
| Question: Life ... Tough Times... Self Concious? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 10:43 AM PDT I have some thoughts and frustration I wanted to get off my chest. I live in So Cal – not too far from Disneyland. My husband and I have encountered some car issues and the point is we have one vehicle. He works in construction goes where the job is and I work about 10 minutes from our apt. I decided to start taking the bus because I figured with the wait time from when he gets off to picks me up, its less time to take the bus. I work at a small company of 10 office staff, 2 warehouse, and the outside sales team that I nearly never see. It was very appent when I didn't bringing my car – nobody really said anything, but indirectly people kept making comments – "Oh, you didn't drive today" "You got dropped off" "We're ready to go are you?" etc. I don't really feel its anybody's business what I do or don't do so I normally don't say anything and just head out or act like the didn't say anything. I don't know why it makes me uncomfortable to share this with people, but it does. Then today the HR lady came in and made it apparent to say HI to me today with this awkward demeanor and I didn't know what to take of it….. On top of all this I before I got with my husband got in debt with school and I haven't been able to catch up on those and my bills stress me out. I don't have any credit cards – financially I was a mess before my husband came into the picture and slowly things are getting back on track, but I don't know. Anyways that's my story..Rollercoaster |
| Question: How long would you keep your ex's stuff? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 10:05 AM PDT My ex moved out a few weeks ago - he stormed in, ended it with me, and took as much of his stuff as he could. He still has heavy weights, a DVD player and clothes at my house, which he said he'd call about picking up. He HAS NOT called or let me know when he's getting his stuff. He's ignored my texts/calls and I'm not sure why he would leave things behind. Since he's ignoring me, everyone says I should leave his stuff out in the street in the trash or call his family to get them, which I really feel uncomfortable doing right now. I don't want to threaten him since he already made me sound like a monster when we broke up.. Why isn't getting the rest of his stuff??? Also - is this some sort of test??? Is he expecting to come back in a couple months finally for everything to find that I trashed his "junk" so he could turn around and say "Instead of waiting, you just threw my stuff out???" |
| Question: What do you think about this? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 10:00 AM PDT https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150707092855AABwoeO This is a big troll who is asks this question 10 times a day. we got rid of 6 questions of his, lets make it 7 thanks so much, all of you |
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| Question: Should this couple have the right to be together and start a family? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 09:18 AM PDT They are from Spain. They had two children together and have been in a spousal relationship for over 35 years. The following video is in Spanish. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Col7ndyEr7Y |
| Question: Is morality necessary? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 09:04 AM PDT I'm not talking about extreme cases, but in society, relationships and so on – is it REALLY necessary? I mean, there is no true morality "codex", so I see many people picking some random "moral laws" and then, well, unconsiously trying to control people with that, just because those people don't act like these people want them to...Using labels such as "friends", in order to make them do something just because "you're my friend so you have to do it blah blah"... I find it stupid,and people just stop thinking about it because they think we "have to" act "morally",though if we get rid of this stuff in social life, t's just gonna be simple. In relationships – you want to have sex at whatever age, you do, if you want to have a one night stand, you have it, if you want to have multiple partners, you have them, why would we place some random restrictions on that? Because...erm.."We have to"? Why? Same with friendships – you don't owe anything to anyone, if you're comfortable together, then you hang out and so on, but no one has to listen to your problems if he doesn't feel like it and if you not strong enough to cope with your own problems... (And in many cases even if someone tells you a problem, you can't just suggest a solution, no, you have to hug him and say some sympathetic bull****, otherwise you'll be considered careless and no one's gonna listen to you). "Social" morality is a means of control and restriction + stops us from thinking critically. What do you think? |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 08:48 AM PDT Ok. I think b this is odd. My partners ex (and their partner) have a couple that is their best friends. The bff Couple moved next door to my partners sibling and their partner. I had no idea. When we went to family functions...these neighbors were there and mentioned the ex's name. Then sibling/partner would mention things about the ex. Like comparing something/stuff. So I asked my partner...when they say xyz name is that ur ex??? Yep. these bffs lived next 2 sibling for,awhile. Then they started asking sibling to bring ex/new partner to our family events. The sibling say no...but routinely did have ex over when we weren't around. Sibling said it makes them feel weird to have us all over together since ex was a drug addict/ dealer...engaged in sex acts for drugs....stole from my partner...drugged partner...lied put partner sibling/partner/arents in jail...stalked them...bad things. This is all documented and was two year order of protection...it expired. A lot of drama. We live about 45 minutes,away from sibling/ bffs. The relationship was an 8 year one about 7 years ago. Partner said...oh they couldn't get over it...I took their vitginity...etc. Other say...sibling mentioned the bffs are buying house down our street. I told my partner seems like time to install the privacy fence. Partner told me the ex used to peek in their old place windows...and at night. Geez. Partner is like oh well...the ex moved on. It's been awhile...etc. it's weird. How 2 handle? Thx. |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 08:46 AM PDT So I kind of dislike nice and kind people, because hald of them seem very fake, and the other half is just... Boring. They agree with everything you say in order to avoid the conflict, they are always sooo sympathetic and so on, but I could never understand why would you want all that sympathy and pity cause I think it makes people look and feel pathetic (well, me at least), and "good" people are usually full of those emotions, trying to help everyone, but at the same time you can't really discuss stuff with them, because they hate conflicts and they won't actually explain their point of view because they don't want to upset people... I love mean and careless people, who are usually referred to as douchebags and **sholes, does it make me a bad person? Because I feel like it's normal and it's only your personal preferences but many people say it's bad and I should see a psychologist... What do you think? |
| Question: What does it mean when a girl invites a married guy to her house...? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 08:19 AM PDT And he says yes, but no plans are made at that time. Why are they doing that? Hat so you think? |
| Question: Should i visit my godmother in the hospital? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 06:41 AM PDT I found out she went last night. Im not sure if i should visit or not or just go tomorrow. I have work today at 5:15pm. Im not sure if its too soon she hasnt been there for 24 hours and she is gonna end up staying a few days (she usually does everytime she ends up in the hosputal which is kore often than you think) Im not missing work in going everyday since its a summer job but im free tomorrow and i could go today and stay until 3:30pm. Help? |
| Question: I need some advice!? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 06:20 AM PDT So i m in this delimma and im not sure what to do. My sister is coming home after going to a performing arts school and they are having a concert of all the kids there. It takes 4 hours to get there though! The problem is though that I signed up to work a festival with one of my friends before I knew about the concert or before she even left to go to this school. I signed up with one of my best friends and no one else we even know is working the shift with us and if I go I don t want to make my friend mad at me. Its just volunteer work and I m not getting paid, but I am just not sure what to do! Should I skip my sisters thing and work with me friend or go to my sisters thing and disappoint me friend. I just don t want either of them to be mad at me. PLEASE HELP ME!! |
| Question: Help! how do I tell my parents I lied about the car being damaged? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 04:40 AM PDT I stupidly misjudged the size of a parking space next to a concrete post in a parking building and scraped and dented the front corner of mums car. I knew I'd have to tell her and dad so I rehearsed how I would tell them all the way home. But when it came down to it, I found myself lying and saying it had been damaged while I was inside the shopping centre. I have never been a liar so I don't know what came over me but now I don't know what to do! Dads talking about looking at security footage to find the car that did it. Lying is the one thing he can't stand and I know he'll never forgive me for it. But I can't live with the guilt. How do I tell them? |
| Question: Are my friends better than me?!? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 04:22 AM PDT So guys, basically I have sort of a company of about 10 people, and me and V (don't want to say names) started to realize that everyone else there is much better than us... They are stronger, for example Z can literally destroy anything he wants, M is really good with fighting stuff and martial arts, whereas O trades information and he can find out anything if he wishes to. I'm not gonna go into details of all these, but the thing is that they are our good friends, but we just feel that they are out of our league and we can never be as let's say "cool" as they are, but maybe it's something psychological and we have to let go of them, however I'll feel extremely sad if I lose any of them. We don't know what to do, please give me a piece of advice because neither I nor my friend can decide what to do... What do you guys think? Thank you in advance, any advice is really appreciated! |
| Question: How would you explain this rigid factor in a relationship? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 03:40 AM PDT Could I say it's because "First impressions last" eventhough it can't be used literally since it isn't based on the first time I met her but rather the first year or whole duration of time in which she was a completely different person to me. So I had this teacher who was extremely rude, insensitive, and hurtful towards me the first year I had her for absolutely NO reason. Never talked back to her, always did my work on time, had the best grade in her class, never misbehaved. She started being like this the second week of school, that isn't even enough time to decide whether you like or dislike someone since It was like my fourth class with her. Now, this year she changed towards the end, she started to like me because we figured out we had a lot in common for a student and teacher and plus I've always displayed a geniuine interest in what she teaches and she probably realised this now. There have been instances where we have communicated with each other a little personally where I did display how I feel about her and we both kind of thought of getting over it and started anew. It just never works. I just have that impression of her set in stone in myself, I can never forget what people do to me especially her. We're friendly towards each other and do talk about things aside from school but there is always this barrier between us and I know it's because from me. She'd smile at me and I couldn't at times because it would feel so strange to me. |
| Question: My roommate just flipped out? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 03:25 AM PDT I live with 3 roommates in a house. My one roommates room is right next to the kitchen. Her door broke so she has no door. She works nights 4PM-4AM (crazy shifts) well, I got up to go to work & turned on the kitchen lights & started putting dishes away She FLIPPED OUT saying how rude I was being & how she's trying to sleep & she just worked 12 hours What am I supposed to do not go in the kitchen?!? Now there is a huge blowout |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 02:39 AM PDT please i need advice |
| Question: How do I tell my cousin? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 02:11 AM PDT I have a cousin and we've known each other for a while now. We're not even fully related, my uncle was supposed to marry her mom but she's not here anymore... anyways she lives a house away from me so we're pretty close she comes over almost everyday and we've seen each other grow since like 10 11ish and believe me when I say she grew up to be reeeaaaall haaawwtt. When we were little we didn't know any better and we would touch each other sometimes... I remember we tried to get her to ride me but we were small like 11ish so we had no clue what we were doing. She moved away for a while but came back and moved where she's at now and when she came back all I wanted to do was have sex with her. We play around with each other well mostly me but she's cool with it she doesn't stop me in a dramatic way or anything. I like to pinch her nipple and run away and we just take it as a little game. I've thought about it many times and I want to know if I should even think about asking her? Can I ask her? Should I ask her? There's moments where I feel she wants it too but we don't act on it. How do I tell my cousin I'm sexually attracted to her? I've wanted to **** her for some time now, should I ask her? Please help a weirdo out lol I've asked myself this question for some years now and I still can't answer it myself so I am looking to you guys for answers now lol my fate is in your comments guys help a confused guy out lol sorry for the weirdness and thanks again for yo opinions/advice. |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 02:00 AM PDT I also wanted to add that he placed me on his lap and got a B***r. He slow danced with me and now I don't know what to do Im just a teen and we both are the same age...Is it because Im a female and he is a male teen? Plz help :( |
| Question: Having troubles with having sex? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:45 AM PDT I am super insecure and have issues with letting go in the bedroom. I have a comfort zone and it honestly feels like death when I try to leave it but at the same time it gets boring and uncomfortable in the bedroom if I stay inside my comfort zone. It also takes a toll on my partner. I hate that I am never 100% smooth and I don't like my natural lady scent even though he says he doesn't care about the imperfections and loves my smell... I just can't believe him which hurts him a lot. I feel selfish honestly because he tries to hard to get me out of my comfort zone and it seems as though I am not even trying to accept his help... Any tips on how to get out of your mind/comfort zone in the bedroom? |
| Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:22 AM PDT Long story short I met this guy my fresh man year from school (I'm a junior now) the way we met was when he was defending me when I was getting harassed on social media. I got his number and decided to text him to thank him for that. After that day we continued to text and started hanging out at school. Overtime I gained feeling for him, so as someone would usually do, I told him my feeling. He said he wanted to just be friends and I accepted that. The relationship lasted about 10 months. During the middle of that time he began to act different. Even two of my truest friends told me the real type of guy he was. I began to notice it too. He stared coming of as mean rude. But that that time our friendship also had gotten stronger. We told each other things our parents don't even know. But I didn't know why he was acting those ways when we were so close. Again this is a long story put into a short story. After some time he had also gained feelings, not as much though, and unfortunately eventually we had sex. I ended up getting pregnant. Long story short. He MADE Me have an abortion. With him going into the army in a few months he didn't want my child to grow up not having a father figure like himself. So I did it. I didn't do it through a doctor I got some pills that I don't even know the name of from someone and it happens. Now before a during that while process I wasn't up to do it. But sometime we are stupid and blind when we are in love. Knowing that I was pregnant I was |
| Question: Will one day ever truly come?? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:14 AM PDT I m in a long distance relationship he lives in California and I in Texas we talk about everything in or lives and are very close I care about him dearly and would pick up and move to be with him but every time we talk about it he seems to close up and only says we will be with one another one day!!! if someone truly loves you would they not make more of a effort to want to be with you in person??? Will one day ever truly come??? |
| Question: What should I do now? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 01:00 AM PDT When i was young my parents cared for my but were always yelling at eachother and never wanted to spend time with me. When i was a bit older i had a good relationship with with my mother but my my dad was always in the basement playing on his computer but he always supported me with what i did. When my mom started working in a family buisness all she does is ***** about her work and family and forgot about me. last year my parents got a devorce a week after i told my mother that i would kill myself if they devorced because i couldnt imagine a life like that and i started living with my dad because my mom only spent time with her boyfriend and barley ever bought food and never made meals. I fell into a depression that i still live in and let my family know that i wanted to move to detroit and start a new life with my dad but that wasnt going to happen because we have ties here. Since i had to move to a small place everone at school now makes fun of me for being dumb fat AND poor. a little way before this the one thing that made me happy my dog was put down. also all my friends moved schools. My mom dumped her boyfriend and still doesnt want to talk to me sso i just dont know what to do with myself im kind of lost and my grades have dropped from A to a d average. |
| Question: Could flirting lead to cheating? Would you leave someone for flirting with someone? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 12:57 AM PDT This guy I am dating is the first person I have ever had a relationship with so I am not sure on many things in a relationship. We were at the movies the other day and he asked me to hold his phone. I don't look through his phone and I have never asked to but all of a sudden it starts to ding loudly saying he has a text. I didn't want to be loud in the theatre so I reach to turn it off when I do I see that all of the texts are from his ex saying miss you baby and just flirty things. I wanted to respect his privacy so I didn't unlock his phone to see his replies and just shut the thing off. After the movie I noticed him texting the rest of the night and smiling at his phone. I am not one to get jealous over something insignificant like texting but I do worry that flirting could lead to more? What do you think? |
| Question: Im in love with my sister inlaw? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 12:54 AM PDT I need help im in love with my sister inlaw beth her name is ive been in a relantionship for 8 years i cant stop thinking about her i try to distance myself away from her but it dont help i try not to but cant help it she has a bf they been together for 7 an half years people say we look alike i sometimes catch her lookin at me and we lock eyes but i dont know if im reading to much into this because the way i feel. |
| Question: Can a girlfriend or wife replace your mother? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 12:31 AM PDT Let's say your mother passed away, you have a girlfriend or wife. Can your GF or wife replace your mother? |
| Question: Talking to my friend about self harm? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 12:25 AM PDT Well, she is my friend/girlfriend, idk. We are just waiting untill we get older. She doesn't know that I used to self harm, and still do sometimes. I noticed she had what looked like scars on her legs a few weeks ago, but she is really pale so I'm not sure if I just didn't see right. I want to tell her of my self harm, and somehow ask if she has, but I won't be able to see her untill we hang out again, and we may not or school starts again In fall. I need a way to ask her through message. |
| Question: Age gap.... 15 & 19... Mom doesn't approve..? Posted: 07 Jul 2015 12:02 AM PDT Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. I'm 15, and he's 19. Our relationship is strictly religious and we only see each other in church and during church activities. I love this boy more than anything... And my entire life I've struggled with trust issues, but he's amazing and has never given me any reason not to trust him. He's helped me conquer my depression and has given me a positive outlook on my life.. With all this said, My mom is FURIOUS! She insists that he's too old (which is understandable) and that he's no good and that he's going to rape me... Sex has never ONCE popped up in a conversation between us.. And we both plan on waiting until marriage. He contacted a lawyer in our state (Alabama) that said that when I'm 16, there is nothing my mother can do legally as far as our relationship... I'm a good kid, and I don't like going behind my moms back, but I'll be 16 in March and we plan to be together, what do I do if my mom doesn't support it? I love him.... But she makes me feel trapped... I've never done anything she hasn't instructed me to do.... He's hiring a lawyer the day I turn 16, because we already know the outcome... Please help...! I don't want to chose sides... |
| Question: Why does my crush speak to my Dad, but not me? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 11:02 PM PDT I am attracted to this man that lives across the street from me. I have tried to get him to notice me with no luck, everytime I try to make eye contact he looks away really fast or if I notice him outside in his yard, I come out too, but he either gets in his car & leaves or rushes back inside. Today I found out from my Dad (I live in the basement apartment under my parents house) that he speaks to him all the time. He is not gay by the way. Oh and we are both adults. |
| Question: Leaving without saying goodbye? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 11:01 PM PDT OK everyone I created an account just to ask this question. If someone you cared about left without saying goodbye and there's no way to contact them, they deleted their Facebook, got a new number etc. How would you feel? Would you resent forever and if you ever saw them again would you let them back in your life? What if they never visited up until the point you two are reunited? |
| Question: (Using my dad’s account) How do I leave?!? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:32 PM PDT My parents are separated and are not likely getting back together anytime soon, anyway… I live with my mom and I'm 14 but I can't take living there anymore. My dad was injured while in Afghanistan (mentally), he's bipolar, and has PTSD and was medically retired out the Army. How would I go by leaving my moms house to go live with my dad. VA already knows that I help my dad with basically everything, but I know it could still affect weather I would be able to stay with him. |
| Question: Why does he do this cr@p? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:32 PM PDT There is a guy who really sickens me for multiple reasons. His name is Jacob. He was in 3 of my classes last year. He is just a cruel person and I don't like him. First off, this guy makes jokes that he is Hitler in Chinese and I tell him it's not funny, and he just says "Yeah, it's not funny. It's HILARIOUS". And all his pals laugh along. This guy also hates me just because I am "weird" according to him. I have a few friends in common with him, and he thinks they are cool, but he just hates me for no reason (at least that's what I'm getting from him). He tries to make fun of me and another person EVERYONE hates at my school and it isn't fair. Shouldn't he treat everyone with respect? So yeah. He pretends he is Hitler, bullies just for attention, and doesn't like me at all. So yeah, please answer the question! Um, I doubt he has problems at home. He is one of the most popular guys in my school... Plus, he acts cool to everyone except for me and the other person EVERYONE hates. |
| Question: Should I tell my ex s wife we have been sleeping together? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:24 PM PDT I ve been seeing a married woman for 2 years. After 5 mo of talking we slept together. She gave hints about how she felt and we both finally said I love you. I move for work, so we are long distanc. We talk everyday about songs, dream houses and kids. We visited each other and went camping. Then her wife got suspicious. Things were strained after that. We still talk but we argue too. I asked her to make a decision. She kept saying to give her time. Her #1reasons for delaying is that her mom has cancer and is really closed with her wife. She says shes afraid that when her mom goes and wife isnt there then it would be too hard for her mom. Also shes afraid of making bad choice, she still cares for her but is not in love with her. Everytime I said make a decision or let me go she tells me how much she loves me. I finally told her that if she still has the tiniest bit of feelings for her wife she should leave me alone and try to make it work with her (even tho it killed me to say it) She said she wants to give it one last try with her wife. I said fine, but don t expect me to be waiting anymore. I have more self respect than that. Now I want to tell her wife everything that s been going on as she does not know whole story. I know part of it is me being hurt and having the last 2 years of my life wasted on this woman and want justice, but part of it is I want her wife to know the truth so she can make the right decision as well. What should I do? |
| Question: Does this mean he cares thank you ahead of time? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 10:07 PM PDT if a guy is really busy and his friend passed away. but he still took his time to text and apologize for not being able to give me his attention. an explain what's going, does that mean he cares? especially the fact that he's business man that gets bunch of texts and is going through a tough time. an would you just let him be till he comes back around again ?i also ask ed him if I can do anything to help him out with what he was going through when he contacted me . he said he has to deal with it on his own then stopped replying , this was thursday. an he posted a pic on social media today |
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| Question: Why do people stare at me and think I'm unfriendly? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 08:27 PM PDT Hey, so something has been bothering me for quite some time now, well actually two things. The first thing is when ever I'm out in public I catch people staring at me. If it helps to describe myself then I guess I can give a pretty basic description. I'm 5ft 2", I have natural dark red hair, my eyes are a dark green and my body would be best described as curvy. Ever since I was little I would get looked at a lot, but for the past couple years it has been full on STARING. It usually happens when I'm by myself. I've been told by many people that I have a cute face, but it's nothing worthy of 10 full minutes of staring at me when I'm just waiting in line to check out a book. So if anyone could give me some insight as to why this may be happening, I would appreciate it. Onto my second issue. My friends always tell me that I look really unfriendly whenever we are out in public together. I'm not sure if the two issues are related, but I might as well bring it up. I'm antisocial by nature and only get along with a handful of people. I've been told many times that when I speak to strangers that some of the stuff I say sounds rude even though I don't really think I'm being rude most of the time. I can only seem to keep a few friends and I have bad luck with relationships. In all my relationships the guy usually wants to kiss and hold hands all the time, but I get embarrassed and uncomfortable really easily. Anyways I digress. The main point is I look unfriendly.Any tips? |
| Question: All of a sudden he wants time with is "friends???"? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:56 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together well over a year...we see each other all the time and he even asked if I'm okay with how things are - and we LOVE being together. recently, he's been distant and says maybe we'll miss each other if we spend more time with his friends??? All this time and he's saying this NOW? He's always been protective of me, couldn't wait to spend time with me and came to my house right after work on the days I didn't work. he went from being excited about spending time with me to wanting to have "healthy time" with his friends. What's with this?? He suddenly says he feels like "this routine with me" is the rest of his life and he's afraid of diverting from what we "normally do" which is something he also fostered in the year we've been together. What's up with this!!! Oh and he ONLY has 2 "friends" he wants to chill with..his friend's ex girlfriend and a best friend of his who stayed over my place almost every weekend. Am I missing something??? |
| Question: My friend is 16 and pregnant and she dont know what to do? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:48 PM PDT My friend mother said if she dont get a abortion she cant stay in the house she has to go somewhere I dont know what to do |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:46 PM PDT I know the mother and can say without a doubt she is going to cause a lot of problems. I have faith in my marriage but one can only handle so much. I'm struggling with this because I'm happy and sad. Sad because we were planning our second child and this puts that on a stand still but happy because we have another child to love. My husband is fighting his own feelings because he doesn't know if he wants to step up or stay away. How can I help him come to a decision? How can I get over this feeling I am fighting without letting him see my fears. |
| Question: I've been sentenced to 4 years at a women's prison, and I don't know what to do...? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:30 PM PDT I've felt so hopeless over the past few days. I'm about to lose 4 years of my life in prison and I'm completely freaking out and depressed right now. I have no idea what to do. How am I gonna find a job once I'm out? How am I gonna survive? I've spent the past few days just sitting on my couch wishing and wishing I could go back and not commit my crimes. I literally think about my predicament 24/7. I barely even sleep anymore - I just stay awake and think about the mess I got myself into. Whenever I try to eat, I take a few bites, and then stop and just sit there thinking about how I'm about become a f***ing prisoner. I just can't believe this is happening to me. I had such a good life and I'm about to lose it all. I am NOT the kind of girl who belongs in prison. I did so well in school, I had such a nice job, and now I feel like a loser. I'm just so ashamed and embarrassed. I don't even want my family or friends to visit me because I'm too ashamed to let them see me in there. I never, ever, ever, EVER thought I would end up in prison. I just can't believe this is happening to me... |
| Question: HELP me plz I want to kill my self? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:04 PM PDT I need help so bad I want to kill my self but I can't I have met a girl that I love with all my hart but I just want to end it all my dad flogs me and I spend most my day shooting my pants in fear that he's going to hit me but the only thing is this world for me is that girl that I love plz help me I just want to die so bad |
| Question: Is it bad I gave him a time limit? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 07:00 PM PDT Please no mean comments. My bf and I have been dating for 4 months. He's married but he got caught, and while his wife doesn't blame me, he's still not sure of leaving her. He says he wants to try everything to see if it works between them, and if it doesn't he'll divorce. I told him ok, but I can't be around forever. If you don't decide in 6 months or you're not convinced of leaving her, we're done. Is that bad? |
| Question: What to do when your parents found out you sent nudes? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:56 PM PDT So about a month and a half ago my dad got a new girlfriend. He asked if I wanted to go to her aunt and uncles lake house. I had plans but I knew my dad wanted me there so I changed my plans. My dad's girlfriends son brought a friend... Right away we hit it off. He was thirteen so was I. His birthday was the next day. So at about 11 we just sat outside talking about random things he gave me his number and we said goodnight. He had to leave early the next morning so that was it. I liked him a lot. No denying. So about two days after we started texting. One day he asked for a nude. I amdiatley said no. But he worked his magic and somehow talked me into it. I sent about three. I honestly trusted him with it. Then after a couple days he quit texting me. I said hey hours later he responded we can talk when you send a butt pic. After about three times of that I snapchated him one. He opened it and I never heard from him again. Now today my parents know and are highly disappointed in me. I've talked to my mom who I've gotten no where with but I still haven't talked to my dad. I'm highly confused and scared I need help. I have no intentions of ever texting the boy again. Please help me I need advice asap!!! |
| Question: Abusive relationship? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:38 PM PDT I found a lot of questions on abusive relationships and so on, but I wonder what is actually qlassified as abuse? I find our relationship with my boyfriend absolutely normal, but some people say that it is abuse. We call each other different names and they are offensive but we know it's a funny way, and he is very rough in bed but I thought that as far as I like it it's not abuse. Some people think that it is way too harsh sometimes, and he slapped me once in my life but that was ages ago, so actually we are fine and our fights are not getting beyond the verbal argument... Would you say it is abuse?? |
| Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:32 PM PDT Four years ago, I introduced my best friend to this guy I worked with at the time. Truth be told, I had a crush on him myself but was in a long term relationship at the time and I guess I felt like hooking him up with her would wash away any desire I had to cheat on my boyfriend with him. They really hit it off and got serious and last Friday they got married. I was Maid of Honor at her wedding so I gave a toast at the reception. It should have been a beautiful time, but it was terrible. I have recently broken up with the guy I was dating and I was drinking a little too much and I go depressed thinking about how it could be me getting married to a great guy if I had dumped my boyfriend and gone after the groom back then myself. The problem was I didn't just think it.. I said it in my speech and I was a crying sniveling mess and then I started talking about how hot he still is and how I got turned on once when we were having a girl chat about sex and she told me some stuff about their sex life. At that point, she started crying and stormed out of the room and he ran after her looking mortified and the best man told me I should leave and called me a cab. I want to apologize to her in a way that the guests of the wedding will also see because I embarrassed her in front of everybody but she blocked me on Facebook and won't answer the phone. I am thinking of taking out space in the paper but I'm afraid that would be too much. What do you think? |
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| Question: I feel like my friends are better than me? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:23 PM PDT So guys, my name is Helena, I'm 18 years old and I have a problem... So basically I have sort of a company of about 10 people, and me and V (don't want to say names) started to realize that everyone else there is much better than us... They are stronger, for example Z can literally destroy anything he wants, M is really good with fighting stuff and martial arts, whereas O trades information and he can find out anything if he wishes to. I'm not gonna go into details of all these, but the thing is that they are our good friends, but we just feel that they are out of our league and we can never be as let's say "cool" as they are, but maybe it's something psychological and we have to let go of them, however I'll feel extremely sad if I lose any of them. We don't know what to do, please give me a piece of advice because neither I nor my friend can decide what to do... What do you guys think? Thank you in advance, any advice is really appreciated! |
| Question: Is it bad I gave him a time limit? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:20 PM PDT Please no mean comments. My bf and I have been dating for 4 months. He's married but he got caught, and while his wife doesn't blame me, he's still not sure of leaving her. He says he wants to try everything to see if it works between them, and if it doesn't he'll divorce. I told him ok, but I can't be around forever. If you don't decide in 6 months or you're not convinced of leaving her, we're done. Is that bad? |
| Question: Why does she want to meet me? Do you think I have a right to say no.? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:15 PM PDT I have been dating a guy for about a year and he is divorced and has two daughters who are 10 and 12. Apparently when he and his ex wife divorced they agreed verbally that they would introduce potential partners to each other before introducing them to the children. I don't know why they made such a dumb rule, but they did. Well I refused to meet her when he told me about it and she kind of let it go because she said she trusted his judgment. She is remarried now and stuff so it's not like she should care anyway. Over the last year whenever she brings the kids or picks them up I make a point of being gone so that I don't have to talk to her or see her and I blocked her on Facebook so she can't see anything I post on his page or anything because I just don't want to be friendly with her. She makes him pay like $500 a month child support which is ridiculous and he just agrees to everything she says and it disgusts me. Well she found out we are moving in together and told him she needs to meet me if "her" kids are going to be living with me for part of the summer. They are HIS kids too so its really not her call! He told me I can't move in with him until I let him introduce us. I find this completely ridiculous. Should I just break up with him? |
| Question: Why do some older women hate women who are younger than them? Posted: 06 Jul 2015 06:08 PM PDT My new neighbor hated me the second we met. I think part of it has to do with the fact that I smoke, but I'm sure she's hate me even if I were a non smoker. I noticed that this has happened to me several times before (although I have several friends who are older women, so I don't think it's anything I'm doing specifically). Does this sort of thing happen a lot? |
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