Marriage & Divorce: Question: Do you give a damn about what others think? |
- Question: Do you give a damn about what others think?
- Question: Would you divorce your wife for this?
- Question: How to I put up with a coward of a husband?
- Question: Age diffrence and pregnant?
- Question: Can a lawyer get footage of security videos at my job to show my husband that I have never cheated on him?
- Question: Where to meet guys who have been cheated on and have only been on a few relationships ?
- Question: Can old people in the 60's 70's thats divorced still can get new love?
- Question: What is the name of the old country song where a husband and wife on there honeymoon, husband leave to buy bottle of wine then gets killed?
- Question: My fiancé wants to keep the baby, but I don't?
- Question: Am I a nutjob for wanting to be my husband's slave?
- Question: Can my ex husband be in contempt of court if he won't meet me half way for child exchange?
- Question: Any feedbacks on your mother inlaw living with you and your spouse?
- Question: Men is it embarrassing when you can t get hard or get whiskey d*** when trying to seal the deal with a girl?
- Question: What is my best course of action?
- Question: Help me, Is this normal ? cause i'm sick of it?
- Question: How long are most couples engaged before they get married?
- Question: Why do I hate being a step mother? Am I wrong?
- Question: Scared my relationship is going to go nowhere-opinions from girls even guys needed!?
- Question: I LOVE MY BUSINESS BUT MY WIFE DOESNT WHAT DO I DO?
- Question: How was your first sex experience? I am a married woman and is it normal for me to feel guilty after the intercourse with my husband?
- Question: Do you think people-pleasing can also be common in abusive relationships and marriages?
- Question: Is it necessary to take shower before an intercourse? Why do husbands love to kiss to their wife's private part before penetration?
- Question: Is it too late to leave...?
- Question: My ex works as a family therapist, yet isn't allowing me to see my daughter, we use to be close. what legal action can I do to get help?
- Question: It's almost 10pm. Do you know where your spouse is?
- Question: Who is Mark stephen and how is he my husband ?
- Question: My husband bought a car without my permission?
- Question: Why doesn't woman on top feel good during sex for me?
- Question: Why would my husband not get hard when its just him and I but the min I he puts porn on hes ready to go?
- Question: How did you know that you wanted to marry your spouse?
- Question: Do you have to go the same procedure of getting married the same person if you haven t been divorced over a month?
- Question: I always want sex. is that normal?
- Question: Relationship experts please help...?
- Question: My husband makes new feel self consience?
- Question: Is it to late to leave...?
- Question: PLEASE 10 POINTS!!!!! Can i file for divorce in another state?
- Question: Why are SOME sisters nasty/selfish with their brothers' gf or spouse?
- Question: Every wedding anniversary, the couple visit the place where they were married, and they are married again and again for kind of ceremony?
- Question: What is your opinion on these two individuals ?
- Question: Why is it that if a married man is friendly to another woman he is looked at as trying to cheat?
- Question: I had thought my wife would go braless more away from the house it seems to make no difference?
- Question: Why do people think that I will make my fiancee look bad by asking her to wear this dress?
- Question: Am i a loud to marry a elephant?
- Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to give me his full checks?
- Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to give me his full checks?
- Question: Dogs Better than Women?
- Question: Is there any chance to find a good wife and start a family as an electrician anywhere the United States?
- Question: Can you marry someone your related too?
- Question: I'm crushing on a younger guy and I'm married?
- Question: . Has she been a good wife?
- Question: Was I belittling my wife?
- Question: Wife never cook?
- Question: Is it normal for a wife to have issues with a husband who s still friends with someone he loved and slept with?
- Question: Feel weird using "husband"... Normal? Other "name" ideas?
- Question: If a person tells you that you're out of their league, can they be abusive and controlling?
- Question: Can our marriage survive?
- Question: HELP!!! I got home at 11 pm and caught my friend undressing my husband in our bedroom while kissing his chest....?
- Question: Once married, and one spouse inherits money, what is the other spouse entitled to?
- Question: My husband is a pushy man.?
- Question: Can a marriage make it through anything? Are people too quick to file for divorce?
| Question: Do you give a damn about what others think? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 09:44 PM PDT I have always been the person very involved in class. Always sat in the front row and ask questions. If I sit in the back, I feel like I am not learning anything. My husband and I are taking a yoga class for the first time. First time I have a class with him. He is totally the opposite of me. He likes to be one of the people in the back of the room. The instructor always communicates with me a lot in class and I usually have the habit to laugh when something is funny. Today after class my husband tells me that he never liked people like me who sit in the front of the class and always want to learn everything. He made this facial expression with kind of disgust. Made me feel like does it look all that bad to be in my place? He has said things like this before in other situations when he did not like something I did. Does your partner say such things to you? I feel like he does not accept me for who I am. Probably people like my husband think I am trying to get attention but am not. That is just me.I am trying to change but I can't. Should I give a damn about all this? |
| Question: Would you divorce your wife for this? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 09:34 PM PDT In arguments, Hed take it too far. He'd restrain me for a hug and one time he threw me. He has aspergers and these are meltdowns. One night it became too much for me and I called the police. Now we aren't allowed near each other and I don't know if our marriage is over.. He has assault charge on him currently. Would you divorce over this or would you take this as a lesson learned and become stronger together for it? |
| Question: How to I put up with a coward of a husband? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 09:33 PM PDT |
| Question: Age diffrence and pregnant? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 09:30 PM PDT Okay so me and my husband is expecting a baby. Hes happy and im happy but my friends isnt. They have a problem with it because he is european and i am black, And hes 30 and im 22. He is so good to me and an amazing husband but my frjends make me feel bad because of the diffrences me and my husband have am i wrong for feeling bad? |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:49 PM PDT I wanted to be honest with my husband so I told him that I had a crush on someone at work. But since I have had an emotional affair before that he thinks that I did do sexual things this time. If I could just show him the security videos from my job, I could prove that I never did. Can I hire a lawyer to be able to show him the footage? I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Where to meet guys who have been cheated on and have only been on a few relationships ? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:40 PM PDT The more relationships someone has had, the more likely they are to not appreciate the one they currently have. So where can I find a man that's not so experienced with relationships , besides church ? |
| Question: Can old people in the 60's 70's thats divorced still can get new love? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:36 PM PDT |
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| Question: My fiancé wants to keep the baby, but I don't? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:31 PM PDT My fiancé and I have been together for a few years. I've been held a pretty hard hand in the game of life, and am now living at home with my parents. We are 26 years old and I'm really at a low point in my life. I had a house a job a reliable car insurance. Now I have none of those things. I lost my job due to cutbacks and everything just fell apart. My fiancé has been in trouble with the law a few years back and now is wanted due to a misunderstanding with his probation officer (not his fault). He has really turned his life around. He's a videographer and his business is starting to move, but it's still new. The income from this business isn't reliable to live off of. We still live with our parents because of this. Even though he is doing well in life he's still a wanted man. He doesn't want to turn himself in yet because business is so good. Even though there has been some ups and down we work it out almost barely. I'm finishing school this year I have a year and a half left. My fiancé is a dreamer and I'm a realist. He thinks that things will be fine.I know from my past that you can't build a life off a temp job. I'm really disappointed in myself for letting this happen. It's been years and I've always been careful. He says it's my choice but If I get an abortion but he will tell his family for counsel. I'm panicking, I'll be so mortified. I don't want anyone to know, it's my body. I've contemplated "faking a miscarriage" I really need some advice!!..how to get privacy?? |
| Question: Am I a nutjob for wanting to be my husband's slave? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:16 PM PDT I started reading a few BDSM blogs on Tumblr, and have found that I'm actually insanely jealous of submissive women who live as basically nothing more than owned property. The idea of being owned by my husband as a slave I've started to find so appealing, and have warmed up to things like that him completely controlling my wardrobe and diet, punishing me and frequently spanking and paddling me, forcing me to be naked in the house at all times even with company over and instead of splitting chores having me do them all while he relaxes. I've tried living out this fantasy on a low level and have basically started doing all chores without being bugged or even asked, doing everything he requests without question (I so want to respond "Yes Master" but no he'd think I'm crazy!), if he's sitting on the couch watching TV I'll usually sit on the floor next to him instead of the couch, I've started being barefoot in the house at all times and wear an anklet pretending this is a symbol of my submission, and last night I started sucking him after we were done watching a movie without being asked, and swallowed every drop. He was quite delighted but hasn't seemed to notice my new submissive nature yet and would probably be weirded out if I told him the whole story. So am I crazy? I do wonder this, since what I desire isn't too far off from being a battered or abused wife in ways. This is also why I'm reluctant to tell him and am just being subtle about it now. Is this normal? |
| Question: Can my ex husband be in contempt of court if he won't meet me half way for child exchange? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:11 PM PDT We have just got our divorce settled In April and I have the papers that state he gets visitation form the first weekend in June until the first weekend in august, I and my fiancé have already got the weekend of august 1-2 off work because we are getting the irks back for the school year, well my ex husband has the temporary papers for his visitaion last year that states he gets them from june2- august 7, well he has asked his work for the second weekend off to bring the girls to the meeting point but I can't switch my schedule at work because my court papers that are dated jan30, 2015 and his that he has are our temporary papers dated 2014, he says he doesn't remember seeing the papers I have even though he has signed them and got them notarized in Orange County Florida where he lives, now if he hasn't ever saw the papers he couldn't have signed them or got them notarized, but he won't meet me on said date at halfway point because he doesn't believe I have the right papers in my possession. |
| Question: Any feedbacks on your mother inlaw living with you and your spouse? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:05 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:55 PM PDT Would it prevent you from trying to hang out with the girl again but you couldn t get it up the first time? |
| Question: What is my best course of action? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:53 PM PDT Hi I have a question to any women that has been divorce. I have been talking to this beautiful lady, that was recently divorce, then one day she stop talking. We had enjoyed each others company, both wanted the same things. I was careful not to pressure her and went at her pace. The back story is that she had a shitty marriage, where he was entitled guy that did nothing. They foreclose on their home because he said he was paying and wasn't, and he live off of her. Recently before the ink dried on the papers, he told her that he is about to be married, and girl is pregnant. She came by my place the night that happen. After that everything took a left turn. I don't want to pressure her because I see greatness in her. My gut is telling me to leave her alone? |
| Question: Help me, Is this normal ? cause i'm sick of it? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:52 PM PDT I got married it's been only 3 months, but my husband makes me sick, he keeps asking me to have sex with him like 4 times a day, and he just wants to have sex, he doesn't let me do anything else like watching tv, cook, or go to work i'm tired, help me ? is he normal ? I'm really sick :/ |
| Question: How long are most couples engaged before they get married? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:47 PM PDT 3 months, 6 months, 1 year, 2 years? What's the average? Why do some couples stay engaged for a certain amount of time? |
| Question: Why do I hate being a step mother? Am I wrong? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:38 PM PDT So my husband has kids from a previous relationship, and he has recently settled things with the courts so they are doing shared parenting rather than him just paying child support. My husband and I are an interracial couple and the mother of his child called me a ****** and my son a niglet. She calls my job and randomly hangs up or call to see if I work then hang up. She pops up with her daughter when I'm not home and tries to flirt with my husband or talk crap about me. Their daughter doesn't listen to me she's 8 and shell say...I don't have to listen to you or my mom told me to call her if you try to tell me what to do. The other day I asked her to pickup her toys before the dogs chew them and she replies my dad will buy me new ones, don't speak to me b4 I call my mom. The dogs actually chewed them and after 2 hours of arguing my husband go buy her new toys!! I've had enough and my husband isn't stepping up and doing anything about this. I'm contemplating getting a divorce...it seems this is my only option & this has been going on for 2 years |
| Question: Scared my relationship is going to go nowhere-opinions from girls even guys needed!? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:38 PM PDT My view on marriage is so positive knowing the commitment that comes with it, intimacy/passion as well, but even just the thought of it (in my mind) bringing a couple closer together and shows that they are ready to take on the world together as a team aka Mr. and Mrs. ____. My boyfriend of just about a year told me he never wants to get married, he's 25 years old, I'm 21. One thing I'll point out is I don't expect a proposal in the next year or so, that's quick and I know that I'm still young, so is he and we are still in the beginning of our relationship. I sent him the longest text ever trying to explain what it meant to me and he said he respected it but didn't want to get married ever. But he started by saying he never wants to be married then he said he's not fully against it but it's in the high 90's out of 100 percent against it. I feel like just a roommate in his mind even though he says all the time he never expected to fall in love with someone this strongly and he says he loves me all the time. I'm just afraid I'm going to be filling out the single mark on all of my papers in my future for the rest of my life and that would be embarrassing to me to be honest, I want a relationship that can reach the full potential/value with an ultimate goal of marriage (once again my belief). I asked him why and he just used the word "overrated." I even brought up a prenup which I would gladly sign since I'm not in it for the money, just for that full emotional connection. |
| Question: I LOVE MY BUSINESS BUT MY WIFE DOESNT WHAT DO I DO? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:14 PM PDT |
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| Question: Do you think people-pleasing can also be common in abusive relationships and marriages? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 07:06 PM PDT With every guy my parents set me up with, they, along with my parents, expected me to please them by not talking to others my parents disapprove of, dressing and looking mediocre, not speaking more than one or two languages, not being creative, be submissive, silent, and inactive, etc. Now with my husband whom my parents had me marry, I've forgotten how to speak other languages and have creative block, because he felt so insecure and wanted to feel very secure about himself since he was so paranoid about losing me to someone from another country, knowing my husband and I are North American citizens. Would you think this behavior would be common in relationships and marriages like these? |
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| Question: Is it too late to leave...? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 06:37 PM PDT My transmission in my car had been missing for months so it's not like it was something new. I pulled out of the driveway of my house and my car messed up. The my husband started yelling and cursing at me telling me to get my f****** foot off the f****** gas. Then he grabbed my leg and tried to force me to get my leg off of the gas. But my foot was already off of the gas. Before he even said or done anything. When he grabbed me it hurt so bad. I'm not talking about a light grab it was a very aggressive grab. My leg hurt for days after I didn't even want to wear pants over my leg. He said he was scared for his life and wanted to take my foot off of the gas. I was going about 30 mph and all he had to do was ask. He shouldn't have handled me that way. I tried to talk to him about it and he wouldn't even say he's sorry. I can't talk to anyone else about it. I feel like it was abuse and he acts like it was no big deal. He actually said so what I grabbed u now u want to leave... Would I be wrong to leave now even though it's been 11 months. I can't get over it. I'm scared he will do it again and that it will be worse the next time. I am so confused. He used to hit things all of the time for NO reason. We went to counseling and while he hasn't hit anything since, recently he's been screaming that he wants to punch this or throw that like he used to do. He has never gotten physical with me before this incident. Am I over reacting? Please help! |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 06:34 PM PDT My ex started to distant my daughter from me ever since I got married |
| Question: It's almost 10pm. Do you know where your spouse is? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 06:34 PM PDT BQ: If you are running late do you at least pay your spouse a courtesy phone call or text so they're not wondering if you're dead on the side of the freeway? |
| Question: Who is Mark stephen and how is he my husband ? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 06:26 PM PDT i dont know |
| Question: My husband bought a car without my permission? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:54 PM PDT My husband used some of our savings and bought a car without asking me at all. I'm really upset about it since I felt I should have been informed about it and that money could have been put for better use and it doesn't even run. But he said that he was going to fix it up so it can run and it can look better which also annoys me since it means he's going to spend a lot of time working on some car instead of with me, and that's something he's done before when we were just dating. We didn't even need a car and I think he wasted money and will spend more money on it but my mom keeps saying I'm overreacting but I don't think i am. Right now I'm not speaking to him but should I just forgive him or what? It's weird that he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong! It was $1500 He was shocked that I was questioning him about it like it wasn't a big deal. This is the first time he's ever done anything like this to be honest. |
| Question: Why doesn't woman on top feel good during sex for me? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:39 PM PDT In many movies they always show these good looking women having sex on top of a man and it always looks like it feels so good and like they are enjoying it so much but when trying it in real life with my husband it does not feel good at all. I can't feel it and does not feel good at all. Is it just me? Is it my age? I am 43 years of age and I am a plus size woman with a very skinny husband, coulf it be my being overweight? Please help...thanks. |
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| Question: How did you know that you wanted to marry your spouse? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:19 PM PDT Don't give a cookie cutter answer either man, I want some down to earth raw stuff here. |
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| Question: I always want sex. is that normal? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:13 PM PDT im 25 years old and i always want sex. i wanna do it everyday. but my husband is always saying his tired from work even if i feel his manhood is hard. he is 40years old. am i normal? |
| Question: Relationship experts please help...? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:11 PM PDT Its a long story and there s too many details but basically I have been telling my husband not to do something for weeks now and he kept doing it and now it s biting him (and me) in the ***. He admits that he should have listened to me but I m so angry and it will take months to sort the mess he made out now. I wish I could just leave for awhile so he knows how angry I am but I have no where else to go and I have a job where I live that I have to be here for. I don t know what I could do to show him how upset I am. I m just so angry! Any advice is appreciated. |
| Question: My husband makes new feel self consience? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 05:03 PM PDT Help My husband makes me feel very self consience... I'm 5'2 weigh 130 and could lose 10 lbs. Btw I have also had 4 kids. He constantly will come up to me and grab my fat. Jiggle my thyes or when I'm driving wiggle my arms. Its very hurtful and I have asked him to stop. He gets mad and says I can't take a joke. He makes comments like it must be jelly because jam don't shake. I would think there is not a man on the planet that does not know women hate this. I can take jokes but his are always pointed at me...like its a way he can get his thought out there then hide behind "its a joke". Its very hurtful and I have told him we should build each other up not tair each other apart. Is he wrong or am I too sensitive. |
| Question: Is it to late to leave...? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 04:59 PM PDT Ok so 11 months ago I was driving and my car started messing up. I was only going 30 mph and my husband grabbed me. My car had been missing for months so it's not like it was something new. When he grabbed me it hurt so bad. I'm not talking about a light grab to get my foot off the pedal. I mean I feel like it was an abusive grab. My leg hurt for days after I didn't even want to wear pants over my leg. He said he was scared for his life and wanted to take my foot off of the gas. I wasn't going fast for one and another thing all he had to do was ask. He shouldn't have handled me that way. I can't talk to anyone about it. I feel like it was abuse and he acts like it was no big deal. He actually said so what I grabbed u now u want to leave... Would I be wrong to leave now even though it's been 11 months. I can't get over it. I'm scared he will do it again and that it will be worse the next time. I am so confused. He used to hit things all of the time for NO reason. Recently he's been screaming that he wants to punch this or throw that like he used to do. He has never gotten physical with me before. Am I over reacting? I am so scared to tell my brother and dad. I'm having a hard time getting over it. Please help! |
| Question: PLEASE 10 POINTS!!!!! Can i file for divorce in another state? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 04:53 PM PDT me and ex husband is filing for divorce but i no longer live in the same state as my ex husband. do i have to go to the state he currently resides (where i used to live) to file for divorce? also can he still serve me papers without knowing my address sinces hes a creep thats always tracking me? i really dont want him knowing where i live. Lastly, do i have to show up to court to have hearing? of course ill do my part but i dont want to see him nor drive all the way to another state jusst for court. thanks guys i know i said ex husband but you know what i mean altho we arent divorced yet |
| Question: Why are SOME sisters nasty/selfish with their brothers' gf or spouse? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 04:37 PM PDT When my bf and I were dating, his sister was complaining to people in her family how she wasn't included (a cousin told me this and suggested I do). (this is week 2 of my bc & I dating). I thought that I would get to know the person FIRST before getting family involved. (She also tried to make me break up with her brother bc she didn't believe he was ready for a relationship and all this non-sense, when I didn't listen to her, she played passive aggressive games w me). After a while we slowly i included her on our terms yet she called the shots where we would eat & I would feel like the third wheel. Conversations were about herself and who she thought was annoying or stupid. She was desperate to find a boyfriend & once she got one, she did everything she could to exclude me- for ex: "forgetting" to offer me a drink when she offered my bad and heir cousins, sitting next to me. She invited my bf to a trip with her & her bf without me. Now that she's got what she wanted, she uses it to exclude me out when I had to tolerate her when she was trying to go in our relationship. Advice for me? Bf has talked w her. I'm civil, prefer not to speak with her, especially around other family bc they're a tight clique (like in high school) & together, it's like they get powerful with each other around. I say, "hi" but everything else seems too forced. Bc is aware but is not the type to address every single thing. He reminds me to stay strong, he cannot change them, and that they're immature. Also, when she got engaged (dated very quickly), she said, "oh now Rod has to be included In family pictures bc we're engaged." Throwing shade? As far is when we decide to get married, that's between my bf and I and we're at a Very good place. Marriage will come. Anyhow, it made it seem like I shouldn't be included bc we're not engaged. It's funny bc I know she's not THIS selfish with others. Your advice is much appreciated. Thank you |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 04:03 PM PDT and that has been for 20 years.... Is it possible to say "They have been being married for 20years." ?? I know that people normally said "They have been married for 20 years" when how long their marriage is... I mean when the couple repeated the wedding ceremony "be married",,, every year,....... is it possible to say "They have been being married for 20 years" ....??? |
| Question: What is your opinion on these two individuals ? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 03:42 PM PDT Guy is in his 40s, likes to only date younger women 29 and below only (says women his age are used up wh0res who've been around the block too much and they don't look as good as younger women. For this reason he doesn't have any dates. Guy starts sleeping with a single mom younger than him, while he says he is "faithful" he does ask out other women he sees in public etc,and then posts online about how upset he is when he couldn't get the date with the woman he asked out, he says he has marriage to offer the right woman and he'd make a good dad, yet to the single mom he has been screwing for 5 years, he has apparently nothing to offer. When she brings this up he says it's not like she has anyone else in mind and he and her are both single so why not just keep their "relationship" as is. Oh and since the relationship is long distance, he looks up teenage hookers online (18-19) to have s3x with, but gets chicken out and doesn't go through with it. Thoughts ? @swbarnes2 He has never met her kid. |
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| Question: Why do people think that I will make my fiancee look bad by asking her to wear this dress? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:54 PM PDT I am getting married very soon and I want to ask my fiancee to do something for me. I want to ask her to wear a chinese cheongsam dress for the wedding reception. People criticize me and said that I am gonna make her look bad by asking her to wear it. They said that cheongsam dresses used to be worn by shanghai prostitutes back in the 1920s and said that I will make my fiancee look like one. I don't believe that at all. I don't get why people think that she will look bad in it. Why do people think that this dress will make her look bad ??? |
| Question: Am i a loud to marry a elephant? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:44 PM PDT I live in a zoo and I saw this elephant he lights up my day so I kissed his trunk and we fell in love he slap me sometimes with his trunk but only when I being stupid |
| Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to give me his full checks? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:20 PM PDT My husband has always been bad at keep track of his spending habits. After having our 2nd child we were forced with one of us having to quit our job to stay home with the children. He didn't not want to stay home with the children so he decided I should. May I add he also had a second job that he has had before we had even met. He didn't want to quit that job either. I have always asked him for the minimum that I would need to pay the bills and keep us above water. He has an extra 450 a month that all he can account for it is diapers a few times a month and gas to get back and forth to work. I'm sure he only used 100 a month for gas. That's extra money that could go for our family to go out and do something fun once in a while, or even paying some of our other bills that are little behind. Today I finally asked that he gives me all of his money and if he wants to spend anything he could ask me for some of the money. I feel a little guilty about it though. Am I wrong for asking for all of his money? I do make and sell hair bows to have extra money to buy the kids school clothes, help pay for their birthdays, and anything else extra that they may need. All of my money goes towards our kids. We did have one more child we can afford the children, the problem is, is all this money nearly 500 a month that he pockets but could go towards benefiting our family not just him. But thanks for you opinion anyway. |
| Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to give me his full checks? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:12 PM PDT My husband has always been bad at keep track of his spending habits. After having our 2nd child we were forced with one of us having to quit our job to stay home with the children. He didn't not want to stay home with the children so he decided I should. May I add he also had a second job that he has had before we had even met. He didn't want to quit that job either. I have always asked him for the minimum that I would need to pay the bills and keep us above water. but after looking over his check stubs I notice that he gets an extra450 a month and he says he used that to pay for gas and diapers. I am sure he only used 100a month of that for gas and he only buys diapers once or twice a month. He wont tell me what else he spends it on.I just feel if I had to sacrifice my job and all the money I could be making for our family why shouldn't he I could think of many other things we could be using that money for that could be benefiting all of us not just him. |
| Question: Dogs Better than Women? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 02:05 PM PDT Im a mid 20s guy and think dogs are better than women as far as companionship/loyalty/support. I would rather live with a dog than a woman any day. Ofcourse women are for sex/getting off to but other than that Most (not all) women are worthless. Why are dogs better than women?? |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 01:55 PM PDT Im a good person. Im just very anxious and have very little to say. I also believe the world might be dying. |
| Question: Can you marry someone your related too? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 01:23 PM PDT so I'm just curious. say you've been dating someone forever and you were in love with them and wanted to get married someday but then someone in your family married someone in their family? would it still be wrong? cause you didn't know that it was going to happen and you love them so what you do? Would it be wrong? |
| Question: I'm crushing on a younger guy and I'm married? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 12:20 PM PDT We have had minimal interaction- a smile here and there. But as soon as he leaves the gym, I just feel like there's no point for me to be there. It feels like my eye candy is gone. My relationship with my husband is very normal. Can a simple crush benefit our marriage or can it affect it? I came from a religious background which states thinking about other men when you're married is wrong. I don't desire to talk to this guy. However, I try to get him out of my head but it's hard because he's kinda cute. What do you think? |
| Question: . Has she been a good wife? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 12:17 PM PDT In 40 years of marriage my wife has never asked me to make love to her or initiated sexual intercourse. AmI expecting too much |
| Question: Was I belittling my wife? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 11:42 AM PDT My wife has this thing to where anytime I say or mention anything to her she takes it as I'm belittling her. We've been together going on 13 years and we're both in our mid 40s. this morning I was cleaning out the fridge and casually mentioned to her "when you're in the fridge do you ever think to clean it out?" She took that as belittling her. My wife will eat half her food and stick the plate in the fridge an dI throw it away a week later. She'll buy fruit and it will stay in there so long until it turns soft and molds. Several weeks ago we went out to eat and she brought her desert home and I found it in the fridge where she forgot about it. There's stains and sticky mess in there from where tea or soda will spill and it's not wiped up. She doesn't think to clean it up or just open the door and wipe things down. Veggies will turn to liquid and I end up throwing them away cause she doesn't think to do it. By saying what I said to her this morning, was I belittling her? Again, I told her she needs to improve her self-esteem if she thinks anytime I say anything to her I'm trying to tear her down. My wife hates to clean and when I start throwing things away she wants to hold onto it like we're going to use it again. My thing is this, if it hasn't been used or worn in a year throw it out or take it to Goodwill or the Salvation Army. She believes in traditional roles as long as they suit her. She's not going to go outside and cut the grass or wash her car because she feels that's "man" work, however I'm expected to help with the cooking and cleaning inside the house. |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 11:37 AM PDT My wife spend hours cleaning the house, but never cook under any circumstances, if i ever bring up that she doesn't cook, she will have millions of excuses. If I am in the kitchen cooking she will ask me if I need any help....plz help |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 11:10 AM PDT This "someone" is now married to his best friend so he has to talk to her. I just think its just weird to be friends with someone you slept with and had feelings for. Somehow I always manage to find a way to give my husband a hard time about it even though he s guaranteed that he has no feelings for her and those feelings died about 8 years ago. I just don t want her in my husband s life but that s not going to happen because her husband is his friend. I just want to know what others think, is it normal to feel this way? Or do I just need to get over it? |
| Question: Feel weird using "husband"... Normal? Other "name" ideas? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 11:02 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for a few weeks, but it's weird to use "husband" when I'm used to refering to him as "boyfriend." We didnt have a wedding or anything, so there was no big not-boyfriend-anymore ceremony. lol Anyone else felt awkward switching to husband from boyfriend/fiance? I hated saying fiance and just used boyfriend for the year that we were engaged. Any other cute ideas to call him, that people will still understand? Also considered partner, but that's also odd to switch to. We got married, just without the ceremony/reception/guests. lol Thanks for input guys! |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 10:57 AM PDT My husband, whom my parents married me off to, always had trust issues with me because he was convinced that I was out of his league by his parents and relatives. He always kept nagging me to dress boring and plain instead of stylish which I like a lot, straighten my naturally wavy hair and cut it, not wear makeup, quit being multilingual, avoid socializing and being friendly with others outside the family, which includes other males, quit being creative, etc. because he was very insecure about himself along with his appearance that he wanted me to be within his league, which made him very controlling. Do you think a person who tells you that you're out of their league can also be like what I've mentioned? @Eugene D-He always accused me of lying to him. He was completely honest 100 percent and always accused me of lying a lot in his face, which made him a perfect person. He felt everything about me was too much for him so I had to change in order to to make him feel very secure. My husband wanted me to look mediocre so that way he would feel better about himself. My husband, his parents, and relatives always felt that I was a slut no matter what I did or said. |
| Question: Can our marriage survive? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 10:52 AM PDT It started the other night while we were watching a movie. I began to feel the after effects of the enchiladas we had eaten earlier that night, but there was only a few more minutes left in the movie so I decide to continue to watch the movie until the end, and I was too comfortable cuddling with my wife to get up and go into the bathroom. The movie FINALLY gets over and I start to get up and it happened... I pooped in my pants... I ran to the bathroom right away and I cleaned myself up AND the couch. I appologized but she was not very receptive. I have been getting the cold shoulder for a week. Tonight is supposed to be another date night, but she tells me she wants to be alone. Shes telling me I disgust her and I am like a child. I don't think she should be mistreating me so bad... it was just an accident. I don't understand how she can act like this. My mom is okay with it when I get too lazy to jump up to run to the bathroom. My wife is supposed to support me in whatever I do. Instead she's calling me gross and laughing about me behind my back with her friends... the other night she told me that she was not my babysitter after repeatedly trying to get me to stop playing Call of Duty and go to the bathroom. Is she in the wrong or should I maybe consider changing a few things about myself. I've been trying to meditate about this, but I feel that I need some outside advice. Please help me, how do I fix these problems between my wife and I? Help me save this marriage |
| Posted: 15 Jul 2015 10:15 AM PDT What does this mean?? |
| Question: Once married, and one spouse inherits money, what is the other spouse entitled to? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 10:05 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband is a pushy man.? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 09:46 AM PDT When we have conversations about family or other things he thinks he knows the best. If I make a suggestion or say something of my knowledge he always interrupts on what I would like to say and raises his vouce. Yes this hurts I wish I was a stronger woman. I just get upset and walk away. Why do some men think they are always right. We argue in front of our daughter and I tell him let's talk about this later but he refuses and continues. So I just walk away so I won't cry. We are going on 20 years of marriage but we still seem like newlyweds or he always says I don't know him. What can I do? |
| Question: Can a marriage make it through anything? Are people too quick to file for divorce? Posted: 15 Jul 2015 08:50 AM PDT What are reasonable circumstances to file for divorce? Do you believe with enough effort, things can always be worked out? |
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