Me and this guy named Tom were suppose to be friends. We worked together on the same team at this finance company. We were having issues on the business side of things. Tom said I can't work with you anymore Ryan. I am still at the same company as Tom just recently moved to a new team. Tom took a vacation from work at the finance company right after telling me that we can't work together on the same team we are at together so he hasn't been in the office for 5 weeks. I called Tom to ask where we stand and if we are still friends or what. He wasn't answering my calls or text messages for the last 2 weeks that he was on vacation from work from the finance company. So I showed up at his family restaurant unannounced and Tom says to me I feel like I am being harassed right now and I am borderline going to call the cops. Then I said to Tom, so I am not a friend then since I came to hash things out and you want to say I am harassing you and you are going to call the cops. Then me and Tom spoke for like 20 minutes. Tom then said I am still your friend we just need to separate our teams from a business aspect. Then Tom says I will still invite you out to family events like my birthday party, Christmas parties etc and I will go get dinner and a beer with you sometime. Then he gave me a full hug me and said would you like a bottle of water. I said sure. Tom went into the restaurant and got me a bottle of water and then gave me a second side ways hug and said are we good? We are both straight males. Please read for context on situation. 10 points best answer.

I don't want to be here anymore, this is the first time I have mentioned it ever is on here. I feel like everyone hates me, I feel like I can't take another day anymore. I'm 21 and female, I can't talk to friends or family as I don't want to see any of them or anyone. I can't take this anymore.

I told her about my crush on one of my friends in the marching band. I asked her to tell him at the end of the day, but when I asked her, she said she was going to anyways... We're both thirteen. I'm not sure if I can trust her with anything anymore or not. Is she a true friend or not? Please don't be rude with answers.

im asking for a friend

I always go out of my way to talk to him everyday cause I know he's shy. I know he likes seeing me, we've gone on walks together. I'm just sick of being the one to initiate everything. Shy or not after a while he should put in some effort to at least be friends right? I suggested we go to lunch, on the day we were supposed to be was too busy. I know he was busy, and he said 'next week?' But here is next week and he hasn't said anything. I've decided he's a lost cause and if he really wanted to he would initiate something, anything. Am I right? He does have a girl friend.

My sister has a BFF from 3+ and wants to get her these tickets for her friends 11th b-day. And my sis has to pay for her and her friend. PLZ help! :)

everyone else but me in my family has problems that make them mad/sad and complain but when really there is nothing that they should be mad or sad and complain about. I keep telling them over and over that they need to fix their problems but they never listened to me so things got worse for them. I told them they shouldn't even be upset and complain because they can actually fix their problems but don't want to. how can I make them listen to me?

So, this girl I know that went to my old school is going to be transferring to my school this year. One day me and my friends were on instagram, looking at people's pictures when we stumbled across her page and then that started a conversation about how pretty she was and everything, and then I was like "Oh yeah, that's my cousin" I don't even know why I said it, it slipped out. I wish I could go back in time and take it back honestly, if my friends know I lied they will think I'm weird and won't wanna be my friend any longer. I just wish there was a way to get out of this? What makes it even harder is that, she'll be attending the same school as me and my friends in September. If she wasn't, this wouldn't even be an issue. Help??? Also, my friends are gossipers (so are most of the girls in the school) and I'm kinda worried that it will get spread around. It would be the worst if the girl found out that I said it. Ugh, wish I could switch schools or move or something but that's not an option.

I know someone who's a user, liar and a manipulator. She's extremely promiscuous, has 2 kids by different fathers and doesn't hide her "needs." She may be a sex addict. She's also addicted to painkillers and has been known to get falling down drunk in public. Someone else described her to me as a horrible person. She still has friends. But other people I know who are basically decent people have trouble making friends. Why?

I'm about to blow up any second from now. I'm a 15 year old boy, and I get made fun of by my peers for every time I'm in public. They make fun of my appearance, my hobbies, my personality, and criticize me for the smallest things. People call me a dork and I'm sick of it. A lot of people think I'm stupid, yet I was at the top of my freshman class currently with a perfect GPA. They tell me I'm bad at sports, or have no athletic ability (even my parents tell me this). I started crying yesterday because these girls at my school came up to me and told me that a girl would only like me if she wanted something from me, or felt sorry for me. I don't even care about dating or my looks. Also, this other kid told me to stay away from him until I get a social life, when I was doing nothing wrong but sitting near him. I'm furious about people criticizing me. I don't talk to people that much, and I'm not allowed to go outside of my house because my parents have anxiety issues. I spent half of my summer at home, with my mother yelling at me for being ugly. I told her that I didn't care, but when I fell asleep that night I felt a large joint of pain when she tried to pop a pimple with tweezers while I was laying in bed. I'm sick of everyone disrespecting me. I believe that I'm a loser. Even my mother tells me that it's my fault that I get bullied and picked on, because I'm such a dork. I feel like exploding, because I've taken in all that anger for the past 15 years without responding. I feel like beating up the next person who picks on me constantly. I try my best to ignore it, but the anger is just building up inside. I usually just practice martial arts tricking/breakdancing all day in my room, because that's the only way to calm myself.

If so, how did the other person react to you? The other day I ran into the back of this woman and she was annoyed about it. She was unfriendly and insisted that police be involved. I am friends with 20 or so different girls and they all really like me. I have had my picture taken with at least 15 or so of them and I have gone out with some of them too. They are all very pretty by societal standards and are the kind which would be out of the league for many guys.. I am 19.

Hi guys ^^, I'm brazilian and i want friends to learn english. I say for me: "what more important... english or french?" and i choose Eng. So, i need friends to speak about news, life, etc. I can written, speak and listem words... the hard: how i can written good? i need friends... please help? Thank you, Merci Gracias Obrigado Arigato! Good night, Buenas noches Bonne nuit Good night Boa noite Amo vocês I love you J'aime vous.

So I m vice president at my high school and its summer time. I m okay with pitching in a little ideas just to get a head start but then it becomes excessive. on the phone I tell him to chill out with all this class election stuff, he s not happy but he respectfully agrees. The idea that I put forth he took it and made it better which is ok. He then told me he wanted to sell the T shirt designs to people and kids who don t even go to our school. He asks for my opinion on it and I tell him no, don t do it, we haven t verified anything with the sponsor yet so relax. He starts taking it personal, saying that I m always bossing him around and how everyone else sees it and such. I tell him that he s the only person that has this problem and that no one else came to me with a problem of being bossy and behaving like the "president", narssisistic. Naturally, I don t consider myself any of those and no one but him seems to be the one telling me this

My guy friend and I have been sleeping in the same bed when we spend the night at one another's places. We don't have sex, but we do kiss. Anyways, I got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, I looked over and he was sound to sleep. I leaned over and kissed the side of his cheek and he quenched a little and went back to sleep. I finished up in the bathroom and got back in his bed and he rolled over, cuddled up next to me, and we went to sleep. Is it wrong that I kissed him on the side of the cheek before I left to go to the bathroom while he was sleeping? Does it sound like I want to be more than sleep buddies with him?

Okay so my friend just bought an INSTAX mini 8 camera. It is pink. She came over to my house a few days after she got hers and she showed it to me and took a few pictures. I already have a canon camera but I decided that I wanted an INSTAX because of it's unique Polaroid printing quality. (Considering Polaroid stopped making their's) I want one of those photo walls or a string of lights with pictures on it in my room. So I decided that I wanted to buy a blue one. I texted my friend about it and here's how it went: me:I'm gonna get the blue camera. Her: Ok cool. 😑👌🏼 me: What'd I do now? Her: Nothing. Have fun with your camera. Me: Newsflash, You're not the only one permitted to buy a camera. Tons of people have had them before you. I'm not even getting the same color so chill out. Her: I mean you did kinda copy me but yah know it's whatever. Not gonna flip out. Jealous or nah? Lol, well i gtg. Me: Oh my god. Seriously? It's a camera. GROW UP. I'm not jealous. I'm the one that actually wants to be a photographer anyway. Her: You're the one that copied me:-) 😉 me: STOP BEING SO FREAKING SELFISH. EVERYTHING ISN'T ABOUT YOU. I WANT A CAMERA BECAUSE I WANT A CAMERA. I DO NOT WAMT THE CAMERA BECAUSE YOU GOT ONE. Her:Thanks for caps locking me to death 😅 #irrelevant Do you guys see how childish she's being?! She hasn't texted me in two days and I'm not apologizing.

I've known my best friends for nearly 4 yrs. We were best friends. We were all homeschooled but they finally went to an expensive college prep school and we were sent to a private school. We saw each other a few times, lastly at my friends b-day party. Suddenly they stopped calling us and we grew apart. We finally met each other by accident in town and they acted all friendly like they had missed us They said we would get together in the next few weeks. We called and texted them but they keep ignoring us. I don't get it. Im afraid my parents made them mad and they r hiding it from us.....what's the problem. Im so sad....I miss them so much and I feel like the parents won't let us see my friends. Please help me I want to make things right....

Part II: she ended up quitting before the end of the school year because she said she couldn't handle being in a place that made her feel this way. And, infuriatingly enough, texted me WHILE I WAS TEACHING so she could fish for information and see how they told the kids she was gone. But, she is do wealthy that she doesn't even need a job. Her parents make up positions for her at their organization because she can't hold a job of her own. Why on earth would I find myself jealous of a dysfunctional person such as this?

I am a single guy, and the majority of my closest friends are female. I know I am totally straight. I am sexually attracted to women. Yet I don't find myself desiring a sexual or romantic relationship with any of these girls because they are just really great friends. One of my very best friends is actually a gay girl, if that makes anything more or less weird. Bottom line, I think about it all, and I just wonder, is this normal?

Recently I've been Talking To my friend on Skype,and she hasn't been answering most of the things I've said or asked. It seems as though when it comes to buying her something or a gift she immediately respond in less than 5 minutes or so. Now she has been full on ignoring everything I say. (Plus, I knew she saw what I've been sending because when I ask her about it she says "Yea I saw it,just a minute" or something along those lines) I believe it's because one of her friends have been lying on me,but then again she usually would've discussed it with me. I kind of noticed that she had took me off of her friends list on her profile a while back on another Social media site but pretended not to notice. I then tried texting her On Skype telling her it would be nice if she told me she just didn't want to speak to me then,or at least she could've said she didn't want to be my friend if she didn't really like me. Instead she proceeded to ignore my comments,being online the whole time since I posted that. I tried to ask her what's wrong but it was starting to get frustrating and I'm also starting to hate the fact that I spent any money on her or paid her any attention. I could contact her in other ways,but I think she's made it clear what she wants. What do you guys think?

so, my internet friend and I have known each other for a year now, and we both want to meet next summer. I know she isn't fake because I've skyped her numerous times, we're facebook friends, and have sent gifts. so, I know for a fact she's real. she's 14 and i'm 13, almost 14. she lives in NY and I live in Utah. I've met her mom and brother, and my mom knows about her and has met her. but here's when my dad comes in. he's super over-protective and all, so how do I tell him about my friend?

Anyone here killed someone and got away with it. Tell me your story?

I'm 16, going into 11th grade & so is the rest of the group.My group consisted of me, a girl A, and 3 boys, J M & C. I was originally friends w a who brought me into the group in sep 2014. She'd say things like "I don't hang out w girls" "I get along better with guys but you're the only girl I like to hang out wi" & I thought nothing of it. A and J are dating for 6 months now. Back in sep-oct M and I dated for around a month, & I dumped him bc I wasn't ready for a bf. He was really sad bc he's supposedly been in love with me 7 months before we started dating. In dec C came & started to hang w us. I still didn't wanna date but I had a huge crush on him & it seemed like he liked me. He'd always text and snapchat me for hours on end. But around March, that stopped& so did me getting invited places. I tried talking to the group about it & nobody would tell me what happened.it got worse when May-June came around. The group still hung out without me, but then I was replaced by a guy L.. He was getting invited instead of me. I figured it out, and one night I was so upset that I started cutting myself, hoping I'd die if I bled enough. I didn't get what was going on. A always said I was her girl bff , C and I...I thought we kinda had a thing, and M and I were still friends after the breakup, I'd thought he'd gotten over me. I still don't know what happened and it makes me really sad. Plus I have English w C &J next year. i just can't imagine what I could've done...?

Don't know what to do we are friends because she said is not ready for a relationship right now besides us not knowing each other well, she said we were going to be friends texted her good night Sunday night but didn't get a reply. What should I do?

Anytime I go to party or out with family or friends people are constantly nagging me to drink and I always refuse. I refuse because I easily get addicted to things and I don't want drinking to become one of them. Is it so bad to not want to drink alcohol?

I am 18. Male. I do not talk much to people unless they are really close friends. I am not exactly very shy, but I can not stand having conversations with people I share nothing with in common. I can determine if I will get along with someone or not in a matter of seconds. When I am with people, I feel the loneliest in general. I do not party at all and dislike alcohol. When the case occurs that I meet somebody I get along with, the ice is broken instantly, and the small talk is skipped without being touched at all, its an awesome moment, but it very rarely happens. I have very niche hobbies which would make many people avoid somebody like that, such as anime and majority of the media involving manga-style art. It was thanks to this hobbie that I was able to make most of my best friends. How can I, wether on the internet or physically, meet people I get along with? My other hobbies are composing music, storywriting, drawing, digital art, and playing the piano. Thank you in advance.

So yesterday night me and two girl friends went to a graduation party. However last week I went to this other girl's that I was invited to but never had common ground or normal chit chat before (invited bc my brother went to school with the chick). Okay anyway, the party was a total Look At Me I'm So Amazing type and consisted of literally High School Musical Group and other about how "special "she" is" dances. A dance with her father (wedding slow dance sort), a slide show of her life and grad photos, and a photo shoot with a horse in her dress (it was hugely ugly too no lie imagine a bright red, overly cheap looking, rhinestone, plastic-satin ruffles at the bottom, mermaid dress). Still with me? My friends know about what I witnessed since I sent vids and pictures. They all agreed with me that it was just horrible. (Btw the family is known to bring attention to themselves all the time so no surprise a lot of people don't like them either). We were sitting with a middle aged couple that attended as well both. They eves dropped on our bad mouthing and critiquing the decorations from BOTH parties (obviously liking the one we were already looking at) and the wife said "oh but her decorations were nice too" and me being so stupid blurted out "yeah but these are better". All she said was "oh" I feel guilty and ashamed quite a bit because these are people who are so nice to me. I don't need offensive comments I just want to feel like I'm not so alone here. Anyone else relate?

So, I met this friend two years ago, in the 6th grade. We are in 8th grade now. She was nice and very thoughtful in the beginning, but she has really changed. Everytime I do something she doesn't like, she threatens to spread mean rumors about me, or to show everyone bad pictures she got of me. (The pictures are not anything serious. Just some normal pictures of me that she changed to make look bad. Nothing illegal or inappropriate, but just bad-looking. I don't want those pictures of me getting put up and spread around the school, that's all.) She also hurts me a little sometimes. For example; she digs her nails into my arm whenever I say something she does not like, she kicks my shins, and she hits/punches me in the arm. She has only left visible marks once, and that was from her nails. But that was last year. I don't know if she is really intentionally trying to harm me or not, but I am actually slightly scared to be around her. She also verbally bullies me, by calling me stupid, not intelligent, lower than her, ugly, etc. It sucks, because I want to stop all of my relations with her, but I am nervous to even speak to her. I am not sure how to stop being friends with her, without getting rumors/pictures spread around relating to me. I have already told my mum that I would like to stop being friends with her, but I haven't really told her why. I know she is not a true friend, and I hate seeing her/feeling forced to hang out with her. So, any advice? Thank you! ;0; <3

Male, female, it doesn't matter, if I make a friend I end up wanting to sleep with them. I don't want to feel that way about everyone, but I do. They can be beautiful or ugly as sin, but as soon as I start talking to someone as a friend I want to have sex with them and it begins something I think about when I talk to them. i want to make and enjoy my friendships as friendship, but it is very difficult to do. I get plenty of sex from my husband and he is really good at it. I also get a lot of love from him. I talked to him about this, but instead of him wanting me to break the habit he said he expected it. He says I am just a free spirit and a very sexual person who loves attention. What do I do?

So i feel all of my friends don't trully care about me. I say this because I feel that for them me not being in their life is like nothing. I recently discovered one of my friends is not totally honest with me and she does not trust me. I was always honest with her and I told hrr anything she used to ask me. But recently when I asked her something personal she was like. Not of your business . and she asked me the same question before and I told her. Then I told her that she does not trust me and she said it has nothing to do with trust. Such hypocrasy. And with her I always feel she does not really care. All of my "friends " call me if they need something or if they are so bored they remember that I am alive. I want to let all of them go, but I don't want to be all by myself then.

My guy friend and I were hanging out after a romantic dinner at our favorite restaurant. We were sitting on the couch at his condo and he whispers in my ear, "I'm in love with you." then he kisses the side of my head. I turn and put my feet up on the couch, Indian style, and had him look at me and I asked him if he meant it. He looked over at me and just says, Yea I meant it. Anyways, he starts rubbing my ankles up my leg. My guy friend is very good looking and a very fit guy. I, being his female friend, would do anything for him and I know he would do the same for me if I needed him. We have kissed before, which was a real romantic but also very spooky because we were best friends, not lovers. Should I believe him when he says this or just take it with a grain of salt and believe it?

Okay so I'm a huge huge fan of Harry Potter and I really wanna try to get my friends into it also. We watched the first 3 movies together but they almost fell asleep while we were watching the first two but they paid a bit more attention when watching the 3rd one. (I have to admit tho the first 2 are a bit boring tbh) We have tried to arrange a time when We can all sit down and watch the rest of the movies together but it ends up never working out. Sometimes when I bring it up, I get the feeling tht they don't wanna watch the movies but they are too kind to say no cause I feel like they are doing it just for me. Recently I sent them a long long message saying why we should watch the movies and Tht it means a lot to me..etc. I regret tht so much because I think I put them in a position where they are doing this just not to make me upset even tho they say they do wanna watch them. I don't know what to do cause I really really do wanna watch the movies with them cause I feel they will like it when it starts to get more intense and dark but I just don't wanna put them in an uncomfortable position. Please help me!! Thanks :)

I feel like everyone acts the same and has the same interests, and I can't relate to any of them. I'm really into the nineties, bands from back then and the whole idea of being laidback and I'm into the traditional idea of what is "cool". Everyone in my school is really childish and most of them are really fake and dull. I'm not trying to say I'm better than them or they're not good enough for me, but nobody seems to want to relax and talk about stuff that isn't trivial and shallow. The "Popular" kids are just loud and obnoxious, it's like nobody can calm down. I know I shouldn't focus on friends so much but I hate school in general anyway, so I feel like if I had someone else to complain and enthuse about the same things, everything would go so much smoother. What can I do? I'm not trying to be a snob but I have nothing in common with my friends and everyone I have spoken to before. Thanks in advance :)

I don't want to go back. I don't want to feel what I feel when I'm there - I feel lonely and unwanted and not good enough. I never want to feel that again - for a whole year it got worse and worse until last July everything fell apart and my world shattered. My depression hits rock bottom when I'm there, especially at the weekends. The only thing that makes it worthwhile is rowing, and the rowers don't even like me! I feel like I'm being annoying when I talk to people about how I feel (which I find very hard) and I feel like I have no real friends, though I am an extrovert by nature. Granted, a daydreaming extrovert, but an extrovert nonetheless. Where would I go? I have no way to defend myself, very little money, and I'd almost certainly get caught again and dragged back in shame. I feel so bad when I'm there, but I'm afraid to tell my parents - they think I'm having great fun and I have bucketloads of friends. I left all my friends behind at my old school. Has anyone got any coping strategies or help or tips or anything? I don't know if I can do it all again.

Okay so i'm starting 8th grade soon but my friends and I already made plans for high school because we were bored. I'm so scared and I want to make friends in high school because I don't like being lonely and school is always more fun when you have friends. I have a brother who's going to be in his 3rd year of high school and another brother who's in college. They made friends pretty fast but I'm kind of shy (not as much a before) but I also have a good sense of humor so i figured i would make friends quickly just like my brothers but I'm not so sure. HOW DO I MAKE FRIENDS ?!? I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE LONELY ! AND HOW DOES HIGH SCHOOL EVEN WORK ?!?!?! Sorry if this is kind of long !

My guy friend, who my friends say is no good for me to hang around because his a former prep student, visits his parents farm and he asked me to go with him. When he visits his parents, he helps out with chores that need to get done on the farm. We were out in the barn getting chores started and he takes his shirt off. He has a very toned body and tan. He threw his shirt over my head, which I didn't find a bother, but his mother did. We finished chores and he comes up on this black Stallion and he looks down at me and says I want to take you somewhere. We rode out to this little stream that ran into a huge waterfall. It was just beautiful and very romantic. We sat by the side of the waterfall and just talked. I mentioned to him that my friends thought he was stuck up and thought he was perfect because he went to a prep school, but after I told him, he just looked at me and said, They're just jealous of what we have together. He was stroking my cheek with his thumb. Then he says, I want to kiss you, but I don't want to be like I need to be pushy about it. I told him he wasn't being pushy about it and then we started kissing and I really liked it, well we both liked it. When we got back to the farm, he put the horse back in the barn and when he turned to face me his hair was in his face. I brushed it back and we kissed again. His dad caught us, but didn't say anything. We were walking up to the house and he stops, pulling me in really close and we started kissing again. I liked it, but his mom was watching. We came in the house and she started giving him heck. I went and got my stuff and walked up the street to the nearest hotel and booked a room. I didn't want any confutation with her. He came up in the truck, knocking consecutively for about a minute. He came in and sat on the bed and said that he was sorry that happened. I said that he wasn't going to be with the right girl if she kept intervening. I leaned down and kissed him and said I think you should.. leave and that I would be fine. He refused to leave and then he got up and took his shirt off to get comfortable and then he grabbed my hand and ran it down his chest. When I got to his pants, he grabs the end of my shirt and we just lay on the bed shirtless together. We laid cuddled together and I could feel his lips on my forehead with gentle pecks.

I have a roommate who is constantly in our dining room (on his laptop) which is adjacent to our kitchen and living room. Basically, I can't hang out at home (outside of my room) unless I hang out with him. He s on there before work (6:30 - 8:30) and after work (6:30 - 11:30). It'd be nice to eat my meals at the dining room table. And I wouldn't mind a little quiet time in the common space every now and then. A couple of times I just wanted to chill out on my own -- I tried to turn on bad sappy chick flicks, hoping those would drive him into his room, but each time he just ended up joining me on the couch and talking through the entire movie. Any tips?? I need some space!

Actually i had some friends on fb they were from uk we were good friends but i liked a girl there and she was 13 and we were very good friends and i just proposed her for the relationship but her friend thought i am a peado while i am still 17 and i had never said her for sex even she live somewhere else and i live somewhere else and we just talk on internet but now they all think i am a peado if she wanted to refuse me she must have said but saying me a peado that is worst for me please help me what should i do now!

Hello. I want to know if we are still friends? Or does he have a thing for me... Ok here goes, theres a friend I have whos really nice and I invited them to my house, we always talk and his friends told me he loved me ( presumably jokingly ). I asked him if why he called me 7 times in 2 days and he said he cared about me, whenever we are by ourself he always teases me and I came to his house with another friend and he kept turning around and looking at me, What are your opinions and advice?

Well about 7 months ago my BFF moved away. We talk on the phone and text. She has visited once but I couldn't see her because she only came to see her grandparents and her mom is very strict but as far as I can tellher mom likes me. We have known each other since 3rd grade and we're now going Into grade 8. I'm depressed and I cry a lot. I miss her so much. But I feel like she doesn't try hard enough to see me or doesn't want to see me. My enemies is one of her. Lose friends. And j think my BFF visited her and not me.and I'm closer to my BFF than my enemie is. What to do if I'm depressed?? I meant my enemie is one of her close friends...

Okay, so here comes the same old story we have all heard before. I fell in love with my straight best friend. I am a gay 27 year old guy and I all of the sudden have found myself head over heels for my straight best friend. I have never had anyone treat me as well as he does. He goes out of his way to do things for me and makes an effort to be in my life. We share, we laugh, he helps me when I need it, and he always makes plans for us to do things together. However, there are multiple problems. As far as I know he is very much straight as I said. He was even asking me about one my friends who is a girl because he was trying to date her. This went through me like a dagger :(. Not only that he is only 18 and I am 27. I feel like that is too much of an age gap, but maybe not? Not like it matters at this point. I just don't know what to do? I have not been in love like this since I can remember. I don't want to cut him out of my life since he is such a great friend, and it wouldn't be fair to him. And honestly the thought of him not being in my life literally makes me sick at my stomach. But to make matters worse I work with him and he rides with me on the weekends. Do I need to try find someone else and remain friends with him? Do I need to lower my standards for our relationship and just be glad to have this much of him? Having him as a friend is the worst and the best thing in my life. Please help! Any advice would be appreciated

I'm a guy, I'm 15 a Junior in high school. I'm a nobody, nobody knows my name, nobody likes me, I've never had a girlfriend, and I'm basically invisible to everyone at school. I listened to one of my friends songs he created and posted on instagram and I thought that maybe if I managed to make a good song like that maybe it could make me a somebody. I've been ripping app through app and not a single one makes you able to make a beat that isn't a new kind of lame, nothing like the beat my friend had. I saw one fl studios but it's $20 and I don't know if it's a takeout. What is a good app where I can finally create a good beat and make my song?

Hello! I was really good friends with a girl all the way through high school, she used to come round all the time after & I used to go to hers so my parents know her & her parents know me. When college started for both of us we took different subjects meaning that we didn't get to see each other much at all. When she went to University we didn't see eachoher at all because she moved away. She also changed her phone number so I didn't have her new one to contact her on. BUT! She's now back in town thanks to my friend for the assist in mentioning it to me. I added her on Facebook and she accepted it. When she accepted I messaged her saying "Hello :)" it's been 3 weeks but with no reply, the message still says delivered, not seen. She's really active on Facebook & is always active on messenger according to the app. From my understanding it looks like she's deleted my message without opening it :( as far as I know she's single... What can I do to remedy this? I told my friend and he says there's always a way to get round this but he didn't go into how to do it. What do you think i should do? I really really want to get back in contact with her!

Everyone I meet seems so distant. I make an effort to get closer, to connect emotionally, but it seems like people are walls of ice. My efforts just don't get through. It can't be because they're cold and distant people naturally. They're only that way with me. When it's anyone else, they open up and talk so warmly. With me, they won't even make an effort unless it's to get something out of me. They usually drift off when I'm talking, but when others talk, people always listen. A friend of mine has people hanging on her every word, yet with me, it's like I have to summarize everything in 3-4 words or else they lose interest. Even though I call them my friends, they're all too distant to actually call that. I open up emotionally and about myself and yet no one does the same back. Why? I talk a lot but I listen as well. I don't lose interest in what the person is saying halfway through. Nobody initiates contact. When I was younger, I had friends fight over me but I enter grade 5 and suddenly nobody notices me at all and friends became more distant (I don't care if people fight over me, but the sudden change was shocking).My best friend at the time treated me like **** for no reason and always ditched me. It's gotten even worse over the years. I feel like the older I get, the less friends I have that actually care about me or listen to anything that I have to say. It can't be that everyone in the world is cold and distant so I'd like to know what exact caused this. Any insights?

So I have 2 best friends (not gonna name them). I'm 16 years old boy and they are both 16 too. And one of my bf likes to play games a lot and i love them too but now it's summer and i'm outside a lot with that other bf or a girl I met. Today he said dude you wanna play counter strike with me and I was like nah i don't feel like and he got so mad all the stuff he typed and blocked me on facebook. Dude! You blocked me over video game! wow that life you got....and he complains he don't talk a lot , he don't meet a lot of girls well of course he is spending all that time on computer. The other bf is litearlly so nice to me and we have fun go outside and stuff..... I don't know how should i feel about that. the other bf said he is just childish sorry for my english :)

My bf Jerry and I are 23 years old, and have been together for a little over four years. We're very healthy, happy, have a lot of trust and have open communication. He left his laptop at my house and told me to use the guest user only. He's always been really weird about people looking through his electronics, and I thought it was because of porn, which I watch as well. I went through his saved documents, which is violating and wrong. I snooped, I know. I feel about really shitty for doing it. I found screen cap pictures of him messing around with girls on Omegle in his porn collection. They were showing off their breasts and ***. I feel sick, and extremely shocked. To me it's different than porn because the person on the other end of the screen is real and aware of their actions, as well as Jerry. I feel like it's not too different from a one night stand. He could have just asked for my consent to do this and I would have said fine or even joined him. But to do it behind my back feels like cheating. Should I confront him? Or is this really an 'okay' thing to do... I mean he probably feels like it's harmless because it's Omegle (just the internet, right? Noo...), but l'm still hurt. Thanks for the advice guys, and for being nice about it. That's hard to find on Yahoo Answers, haha. No, he does not know that I've seen it. I even "promised I wouldn't mess with anything" which, I believed at the time. But once I was on his computer my thoughts changed and I wondered what he had to hide that was so bad anyway? I just feel so shitty for violating his privacy. But I also fee so shitty about what I found. I'm really conflicted. -yes I do want to talk to him about it. I just want to make sure that my feelings are valid so that I can move forward with this. If people told me that I was wrong and it isn't as big as I'm making it, I would try to forget about it and blame myself for snooping in the first place. This is the first time where I don't know how to communicate. I don't know what to say to him. What's worse is he's in Europe for two more weeks and the only thing we have is Facebook. Thank you Dave, that was well written. -oh, yeah I would. Thank you. How do we message each other? - I'll email you.

Hi, This is weird but i just need someone to talk to. someone who is not biased to me or my bf. And when it came down to it .. i have no one. so yeah I m a loser. lol but yeah anyone up for it . I m needing some advice.

Some things have been happening lately and I don't know if it's more my fault or my group's fault. For the negatives, my one friend said I they could just find someone else if I didn't want to do what they wanted to do. My group has also added in another new person, and they seem to have more fun with her than me, and even take pictures with her, and never with me. But the other day was my birthday, and they all wrote heartfelt letters and gave me some pretty good presents, and all made me cakes. But once we were done singing, they went back to taking pictures, without me again, and went to the front of my lawn without me. I don't know if I'm overthinking everything my friends are doing or if it's time to leave the group.

I am in my summer between 7th and 8th grade and I feel like nothing will change. my best friend is moving and (even tho I have a lot of friends) I feel that I'll have no one. will I make more friends next year? does popularity change at all between 7th and 8th grade? will I be happier? I just feel like nothing will get better for me.

Ok let's start with myself. I am in a tiny private school with no more than 15 students in the high school of which 3 of them I can call friends. I also have another friend that I met at a previous school. Outside of school, there is really only two people I hang out with. However recently a lot of my friends are having complications that limits the opportunity to hang out with them. It sucks to be alone and therefore I need to know more people. I don't really spend any time anywhere other than home and school. I get my time by by spending it on my computer in various ways. I don't spend my time in town in any way other than occasionally watching a movie. My question is how can I change that so I can meet some new friends and perhaps a girlfriend (never had one due to social anxiety issues that I finally took care of). Some notes just to make sure we're on the right page: - there isn't much I am interested in that is not on my PC - I might still have some anxiety issues but I have improved a lot over the last two years. -Only time I am ever around strangers is when I am shopping and watching movies.

I just got out of a very painful breakup and nothing's really gotten me out of this depression. However, I'm going out with friends every weekend - I stay with them on the weekends (some live out of my neighborhood) and I've gone up to visit family out of state too. This weekend I reached out to my boss' daughter who is my age, and we're going away for the weekend even though I've never hung out with her lol. Am I using these people to get out of my depression? I feel bad sometimes - knowing I would NOT be hanging out with these people this much if I was in my relationship (I had a better time with my ex than I do with my friends sorry to say). I love getting out and trying to keep myself busy, but should I feel like I'm using my friends as a distraction?

I live in another state with a friend s family. I have grown very close to them and them to me. I don t want to disappoint them by leaving but at the same time I want to be home with my family. What do I do??

This is regarding the case in the news awhile ago, where a young woman bit off the penis of the man who was attempting to rape her. He had attacked her and was trying to force himself in her mouth, but she bit down hard. Over 90 percent of his penis was removed, and it could not be reattached. The article didn't give names, but said the woman was 20 years old, and the man 44 years old (who apparently had a history of sex offences). I was reading some comments online about it by guys, and they felt sorry for the rapist! They said he was wrong, but also that the girl went too far. They thought its unfair that he can't "bust a nut" now (and that she deprived him feeling pleasure through sex, and of "feeling like a man"). 1. Why would guys say this? 2. Do you agree that she had a right to do what she did? 3. Do you feel sorry that he "no longer feels like a man" now? 4. What do you think abut him being unable to have sex now, or even "bust a nut" ever again? .

My bestfriend is upset with me. I recently got in new relationship with my boyfriend. One day when i was with him, she had text me and i didn't reply right away. She starting telling me i'm rude and he more important than her and peace out. Since i didn't reply on time. Now were not evening talking. By the way we're both 27 yrs old and my friend married with baby on the way. I feel like did nothing wrong and i'm sad cause i don't want to lose friendship over something so silly.