So, assume there's a relationship between two people, and that they are to be engaged. If they were both aware of this, and we are assuming that the man would get an engagement ring(Some men do that now in case you didn't know.), would the man buy the engagment ring for himself, or would the women do it? And assuming both people got a ring, would the one who proposed present both rings at the same time, or would the ring for the other person be presented and then the proposer's ring be put on later?

There's been a big the dilemma on if alcohol should be Served at my wedding or not, I would prefer not to have alcohol there, my parents and my fiances mother told me it's considered rude to not give people the choice of alcohol. But when most of the people in my family drink, they get stupid drunk and so does my fiances side of the family, most of our family are alcoholics, I don't want my wedding to feel like some party at a bar, but are they right? Should I offer the choice of alcohol?

For the record, i did not go "all the way". Yet. I have thought about it, desired it. Dream about it, etc. We flirt all rhe time. I actually talk to him now more than my fiance. He flirts back, very very much. I love it and i cant stop. Im afraid the next time i see him im going to want more. And my fiance is best friends with him so of course hes going to be around. How can i get over this and get back in tune with my fiance?

Okay, so a co-worker of mine is getting married and I am trying to decide weather or not to attend her wedding. The problem is she wants a wedding gift and she also wants her guests to pay $50 each to help pay for her honeymoon to Italy. I am a college student and can't afford to buy a wedding gift and pay $50 for her honeymoon. What should I do? Yes this is a real question! Why would I make this up?

I just want to be certified in random things for free online like an ordained minister etc... Any ideas or websites?

My sister just told me that she is going to get married in the Temple In 5 months. I am not aloud in the Temple to observe their marriage, however they want me to make the 13 hour drive back home just for their reception. I have been planning a hunting trip with my father and brother in-law on that exact same weekend. Note, we have been planning this trip longer than they have been dating. Also, we have already put down a deposit to save our reservation. I feel selfish for wanting to blow off the reception for the hunting trip. Though I don't see the point in driving all the way back home for a gathering that will last max two hours. Honestly, if it was that important for me to support her she would have a normal wedding and get sealed to dude later. If you have family (my brother and I) that cannot go into the temple why would you want to get married in it? Seems like a status than anything else. "Where did you two get married?" "Oh in the Temple of course." She proudly exclaims as she whips her hair back. Anyways, I could really use an outsiders opinion on this one! Cheers!

I need any suggestions finding a hall to rent for a wedding reception and a decent yard to possibly do the ceremony. In the bronx or very close to the bronx. Was going for more of a garden theme ceremony.

I pay his airfare?

So my wedding isn't for another month, however, I have my bridal shoot tomorrow. I don't know what I was thinking but I layed out yesterday only for a couple hours but there are still lines. Oh and my dress is strapless. Any ideas that don't involve getting a spray tan? (I don't have time between now and tomorrow) HELP!

Before the wedding, why are the grooms men go to somewhere enjoying, like taking a vacation such as in taiwan. I don't get it. Why is it?