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- Question: Can a child s mother come to the fathers home uninvited to see her child and cause trouble with the girlfriend?
- Question: Is Canada a good place to live?
- Question: My dad is weighing me down?
- Question: Do I deserve what I ask for?
- Question: I need donations...?
- Question: Annoying Grandma Help?!!?
- Question: Im 13 and my parents are forcing me to get babtised next week im an athiest?
- Question: I feel like my dad doesn't like me at all. why?
- Question: I am a white man and i am engaged to a incredible. sexy black woman. My dad has always been a little racist and obviously isn't real happy?
- Question: Is it normal that American mother in-law often visits son couple home?
- Question: I know my dad he cheating my mom and he doesn't want to stop so what should I do?
- Question: When can I move out of my parents house in massachusetts?
- Question: My mom favors my sister over me!?
- Question: What is the legal age for a child to choose which parent they would rather live with?
- Question: Hi, this is my first time in here so I will get right to the chase?
- Question: My mum doesn't let me do anything!!?
- Question: Does anyone else find this odd?
- Question: Why don't I care about my friends as much as I should?
- Question: A memorial idea....?
- Question: My Mom Forgot Her Phone?
- Question: I lost an odd bet to my twin sister. How can she turn me into a birthday cake for our birthday?
- Question: Songs to dedicate to my 4 year old niece?
- Question: Do my parents favor my brother more than me?
- Question: I used my grandma card for my xbox360 and I didn't mean to purchase I was looking to see how much it cost what do I never been grounded?
- Question: Help finding somewhere to live?
- Question: Mom said she doesn't have to cook?
- Question: What to do about an evil stepmother?
- Question: How Do I Tell My Mum I Have A Boyfriend (Gay)?
- Question: What do i need to travel with a family member to the U.S?
- Question: Mom's midlife crisis?
- Question: How would you tell without offending him?
- Question: I hate my Extended family.?
- Question: How do I get through to him?
- Question: Omg I wanna move out so bad?
- Question: 19 weeks pregnant dating another guy what to do?
- Question: Am i a disappointment?
- Question: My older brother is very disrespectful to me?
- Question: How can I deal with h those who hate me because of my wealth?
- Question: How to decide between lying to your parents or having your college paid for?
- Question: Leaving your family, and never having contact again?
- Question: Why don't I want to see my dads side of the family?
- Question: Please help. My brother is pimping himself out and my father is ok with that. What to do?
- Question: Should I apologize to my mom and my grandma?
- Question: Why did she do this?
- Question: How do I change my parents attidute on this matter ?
- Question: My son is making up stories?
- Question: My brother got robbed?
- Question: I'm becoming my douchebag dad?!?
- Question: Is it normal to masterbate while sniffing your sister in laws panties?
- Question: How do I put my foot down without offending her?
- Question: I hate my niece?
- Question: Is this depression or circumstances?
- Question: My brother is a grown up, and he b**ches and moans too much?
- Question: Can I get adopted by a rich couple?
- Question: Turning 15 in a few days?
- Question: Should I come out or wait? Would my sister be bullied because of it? I feel like she wouldn't (it's 2015) or is my mother right?
- Question: Agreed no cell phone but allows daughter to use it anyways?
- Question: When we are in public my mom ALWAYS does this?
- Question: My mum makes me feel ugly and insecure?
- Question: My moms boyfriend found my bong (I hate him)?
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| Question: Is Canada a good place to live? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:27 PM PDT Once I'm done with school I really want to move to Canada. I'm a single parent my Fiancé passed away a year ago. My daughter is two years old and I'm a full time student and working two part time jobs. I don't get any benefits because I "make to much" even though I don't . I had to move back with my parents to help because my dad is sick and I'm taking care of him because our government sucks and won't have any caregivers because again they say my mom makes to much which she doesn't because the house Payments and bills add up! I guess what I'm asking is moving to Canada a good move for my daughter and I? |
| Question: My dad is weighing me down? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:20 PM PDT I want to do music and I've had to turn down dozens of gigs already because of my dad. He doesn't let me go out to play. I want experience now so that I can play music in college calmly and I want to be used to performing. My dad doesn't even let me go out with friends. Ugh. What can I do to slowly gain freedom. My wedding gig is in 12-20 months |
| Question: Do I deserve what I ask for? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:18 PM PDT I'm an average girl who does more than a 14 year old should. Here's what I mean. 1. I clean the whole house every single day 2. I get outstanding grades 3. I'm graduating next Friday 4. I babysit my brothers every morning/all day 5. I look after OUR pets (feed them, bath them, walk them, brush them, etc) 6. I obey, respect, and do anything my mom wishes me to do 7. I'm a good kid (Yes, I do this on a daily bases/as routine) I'm not spoiled or high maintenance, but I know I deserve some reward once in a while. I need a dress and heels for a Quinceneara, and a few band shirts. Does what I do sound enough for you? |
| Question: I need donations...? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:13 PM PDT gofundme.com/xp735s |
| Question: Annoying Grandma Help?!!? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT Okay, so I live with my parents, paternal grandparents, and siblings. My grandma is extremely annoying. I mean like really. Whenever I something important in my life happens (aka- exam grades), she always finds a way to find out my grade and tells EVERYONE she knows. Whenever I play x-box (which is near her room), she just watches me and never leaves. This gets extremely annoying. She's also really mean to my mom (like making fun of my mom's parents who have a small house) and whenever we go on vacation she always tags along. As you can imagine, having your grandma on vacation with you isn't so fun. I mean at Disney, I only went on 5 rides because she was always like "come to the hotel! Let's have family time!". Family time apparently meant sitting there and listening to gossip about my mother. I'm just frustrated now. What should I do?? |
| Question: Im 13 and my parents are forcing me to get babtised next week im an athiest? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT I feel like there pressuring me to be something im not ,they wont accept my belifs.i need some advice how can i get my parents not to babtize me. |
| Question: I feel like my dad doesn't like me at all. why? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 01:03 PM PDT I can basically say that my dad hates me. I honestly think im not doing anything wrong, and according to my grandma and brother, im not, but whenever I ask my dad for something or just play games when hes around, he get so mad at me, and other then that, he doesn't talk to me. Every time im playing games, or just ask him some money to do something (which rarely do), he flips out and starts swearing and yelling at me. He tells me I don't have a job, that im free all the time, and I don't do any work. I don't understand what he means by this because im only 15, and im trying to look for a summer job. I do everything he tells me to, if its a chore or just a favor, I always do it. He tells me to do well in school and I do, I get 90's and 80's, and that's what he wants. He wants me to go outside more, and I do, which makes him happy for a little bit. What I don't understand is that he doesn't let me do anything I want to do. I cant even stand up for myself because I get very emotional, since almost everyday my grandma tells me that my dad loves me, and I believe her. It breaks my heart when he gets mad at me and says mean things about me because I feel like he doesn't care about me at all. I try to explain to him how I feel but he doesn't care. Any help? |
| Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:58 PM PDT Because he assumed that it would never get that serious between us. My fiancee really wants a good relationship with my family because her family and dad in particular already pretty much accepted me as a son. Anybody have any idea how i might be able to get through to him? |
| Question: Is it normal that American mother in-law often visits son couple home? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:58 PM PDT My mother in-law often visits our house. One day she had been taking a nap on our bed with her dog. We have a guest room. and we don't have pet. I didn't fell like good. But I would like to learn american culture. Is it normal for American? |
| Question: I know my dad he cheating my mom and he doesn't want to stop so what should I do? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:54 PM PDT I'm only 18. I don't even talk to him every time he gave me advice he makes me feel sick like he shouldn't be my father .. he doesn't know that I know. |
| Question: When can I move out of my parents house in massachusetts? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:54 PM PDT I'm 15 & I'll be 16 this coming March & I want to move into my own place as soon as I turn 16 if it's legal. I feel like I have to. I can't stay in my house any longer or I may just kill myself. It's not that my parents are mean or that I have rotten siblings because I don't. I absolutely love them to death. It's the fact that my grandparents live with my family. My grandfather not a problem one bit. My grandmother however is an absolute horror. She doesn't leave me alone. Whenever my parents are home she is nicest person you could ever know but as soon as their out the picture she turns into Lord freaking Voldemort & I'm sick of it. She repeats obvious things 50 times & then complains that we wasted too much time before starting. She makes me feel terrible about myself every second she can. She calls me fat, ugly, annoying, stupid. She'll ask me an impossible to know the answer to type of question & I can't even tell her I don't know without being asked if I know anything. She is also trying to get everyone to turn on me. I was going into school one day & she yells at me from across the parkway what time I'm going to get out of school & literally everyone around me started to laugh at me. I texted her after asking if she could please not do that & she made me out to my grandfather as an ungrateful ***** who deserves nothing. They both said it to my face too. She's doing the same thing to my immediate family & favourite cousin please help I can't take it I need to move out. |
| Question: My mom favors my sister over me!? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:48 PM PDT my mom favors my younger sister like crazy. Even bystanders like my cousins, grandparents, and friends have told me that my mom clearly favors my younger sister so badly. I cant even sit next to my mom on the couch without my sister being there. My sister "Chloe" can do whatever she wants to bug/annoy/tease/hurt me because my mom will do literally nothing about it. She is spoiled rotten, but I not! My mom will actually yell at me, take away my phone, and put me in my room if I even just tell her to stop. Because she thinks I'm older so I can't do anything back. She is 10 and I'm 13 and I think I have to right to stick up for myself especially since telling on her doesn't work at all. In fact if I tell on her, then I get in more trouble because "she doesn't like fighting". I am mostly nice to Chloe, but she hates me and I think it's for fun because she knows she can literally do whatever she wants to me and never will get in trouble. It brings a lot of stress in my life and it has literally gotten to the point where I can't even hang out with friends without my mom forcefully making me let her join in with us teenagers. &my mom gets her whatever she wants when she wants. Today I was getting home and I had called my mom to wait for me before going to the pool, but Chloe didn't want to wait. So they left without me. I called my mom askedher why and she said "Chloe didn't want to wait, and she just wanted some time to get away" what should I do?? |
| Question: What is the legal age for a child to choose which parent they would rather live with? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT I always end up crying in my room because of my mom. My mom is really rude!!!! For example today I was asleep and she came in my room and yelled get your butt out of bed we are going to Costco and I asked nicely "May I please stay home and sleep?" But NO. So then when we got back from the store my little brother (who didn't go with us) said "Daddy took me go-karting" and I said seriously you went go-karting yet you couldn't wait until I got back to go? And he just smiled. So then I said to my mom, "mom Jason (my step-dad) took 'my brother' go-karting without us" then my mom said that's not very nice! And I said since they went without us can u take me? And she said CALM DOWN!!!!!!!! Then I said "but it's not fair" and she said idc if it's not fair life isn't fair suck it up. So then she said he can one of u (talking to me and my bro) run upstairs and get me a bandaid for my blister? And I was cleaning the table off at the time so I just assumed that she was talking to my bro. But the he yells 1...2...3 NOT IT! And I said I'm cleaning the table so u have to. And he said no so I kept cleaning like my mom told me to, and I told her that I would when I'm done and she yelled fine I will go get it myself and she came back down and I said mom, I told u I would get it and she said well u didn't get it did ya? And I said mom, I was cleaning down the table like I was told to do. I really want to live with my dad who doesn't favorite any of his children so what is the legal age I can? |
| Question: Hi, this is my first time in here so I will get right to the chase? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:31 PM PDT I am 11 and my sister is 9 and my mom has been yelling at us and cursing at us and has called me the "B" word 3 times and acts like a child I am in my room all day and love going to school to get away from her she calls my friends traders so now I have 0 friends that care what I do I have thought about killing myself 5 times this year and have stopped myself I want to grow up but i am really the mom in my family. My dad agrees with everything my mom says because she has threatened to leave my family and to live somewhere else and everything time I call my grandmother my mom takes the phone and talks to her. Also every time I say something to my mom she says I don t care. Now I hate shopping with her going places with her because she seems nice to people but then turns into a demon and my mom has made me angry so I think I am hurting my family. I really wish I could fast forward my life so that I am 21 and can live somewhere work for my self and have a boyfriend all without my mom saying I need to excersise and have to wash my face and she talks about my very bad acne infornt of my family and friends worse in public! My best friend lives in Florida and I want to visit her because she makes me happy. If you need more info about my life just ask me I will be happy to tell just because I need help! Also I do not want to put my mom or family member in jail or hurt them and I don t think she abuses me in anyway. Thanks don t say bad words please |
| Question: My mum doesn't let me do anything!!? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:26 PM PDT Right now I'm 12 and my parents don't let me hang out with my friends whenever I asked them they always say no and I ask why and there like theres no because it's just frustrating it makes my other friends feel like I have no social life seriously. Even there mum let them and my mum doesn't let me tell you one thing my mum is the boss of the house everything has to go through my mum first and my dad doesn't speak up for me he just watches me getting shouted and hitted at it just makes me feel I wanna run away from home I feel like I have no freedom You guys might think its not a big deal but to me it is I can't do anything about they always say I have to finish high school then I can date and I can hang out with my friends and go to town when I'm 16 and I seriously hate that like I always help my mum do chores but she doesn't do any but i dont get any money she says if i dont do chores she cancels my contract my mums nice whe my dads around some time but not always and they always say I'm lazy and why am I there daughter , my dad says my room look like a dog house I mean whos parent would do these things to there children I me. I need got to hang out with my friends I can only hang out with them at school and I like I feel like I'm not that close with them.I feel like I'm in this dark place everyday with my life or something the only happiest time is that when I'm at school,with my friend.You might think I'm too young to say these things but please give me some advice |
| Question: Does anyone else find this odd? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:26 PM PDT The other day my family and I looked at a house. We removed our shoes (as often required at open houses). I was barefoot as I had worn sandals (not uncommon) and everyone else wore socks. When the realtor showed us the different rooms and asked us questions about what we thought, she often asked me "Oksana, how does that carpet feel?" Or "Oksana, how does that floor feel?" I later asked her why she kept asking me that, and she said that it was because I had bare feet, thus it was easier to feel the carpets/floors than those wearing socks, and said that my opinion on the carpets/floors was especially important. Does anyone else find this odd? |
| Question: Why don't I care about my friends as much as I should? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:21 PM PDT Okay, I know this is a really random question but it's been eating at me for months. Firstly I have three best friends and we are like sisters, literally. Their family is mine and I spend practically every day with them, in fact all of our families are going across the world together. I've laughed with them, cried with them I've done everything with them, but why don't I care about them as much as I should? If one of them is getting picked on and it goes too far I'll stand up for them in in a heartbeat but for some reason I wouldn't do what I would for my real siblings. If someone was slagging off my biological sister then I would immediately get defensive, the same for my brother, but for some reason or them three I wouldn't. Every time I think about losing them I can feel tears in my eyes but there's something that's stopping me from caring about them as much as my real siblings, can someone help? |
| Question: A memorial idea....? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:09 PM PDT A family member recently died. Their is a family reunion coming up and I want to do something special in his honor. I did not know him well, he is an uncle, but I have heard that he was an artist, he loved playing pranks, and he was a risk taker who liked to live close to the edge. He died very young and left a pregnet wife. I want to do something special maybe make a collage of him using all his art work. I just want somthing that is special, any ideas? |
| Question: My Mom Forgot Her Phone? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 12:01 PM PDT So my mom left for work, and she forgot her phone. I worry a lot, and I always think "what if she gets in an accident?" I just am really worried right now. How can I contact her? |
| Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:49 AM PDT I posted about this a couple days ago. I lost a one card draw bet to my twin sister and have agreed to be her birthday cake for our birthday. She has taken many measurements of my body and bought a lot of icing and decorations. Our birthday is on Sunday 7/12. She tells me that she plans to start on me tonight and I will be finished and ready to eat by tomorrow morning. How will she turn me into a birthday cake? Will she bake me in the oven? |
| Question: Songs to dedicate to my 4 year old niece? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:31 AM PDT My little niece is turning 4 In a couple of days. I want to dedicate her a good meaningful song. She means the world to me she has grown up with me. She's like my little sister but I care for her like a mother. Id do anything for her. |
| Question: Do my parents favor my brother more than me? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:18 AM PDT (I'm a 16 girl and my brothers a 17 year old)Every time he gets a little injury he goes straight to urgent care no matter how long the wait. They rub his back and smile and say "aww bubba I pray you feel better" then start tickling his back. Every time we go somewhere they buy him maybe one or two nice shirts and they act like its the end of the world when I ask for something. We both do karate but my parents always watch him and record him and post stuff on his wall saying "my bubba can beat just about anyone's *** up here. He's gotten so good at it I'm so proud!" Stuff like that but they don't ever post anything about me. my dog past away pretty recent and when I cried about it they just blew me off but when my brother cried they came to him and said "bubba why don't we drive around and get your mind off of it. Please don't be upset bubba we love you!" Because we had to put our dog down because he couldn't even breath and he was old and before we put him down my brother and my dad went off driving to get my brothers mind off of it a when he left me my sister and mom to watch him die. When he gets a gf they go on dates he goes to her house and gets to spend the night there and my parents get kissing photos to Remember the "precious" time he shared. When I have a bf he can't come to my house and I can't go to his house. We have to text each other and Skype. That's why I lose them.. |
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| Question: Help finding somewhere to live? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:07 AM PDT I live in a nice house with my mom and brother, but I can't deal with the verbal/emotional abuse that I get in this house. I've tried so hard to communicate how I feel and to open up better communication/for people not to treat me/ each other badly, but it's always thrown in my face and I just keep getting hurt all over again. It is honestly making me sick... I really cannot be around my family members anymore, but I don't know where to go. I am 24, have worked for around 9 years but do not have any savings or loose money because I have Type 1 Diabetes and I have to pay for that as well as car payments since my last, paid off car broke down and I had to replace it. I am also trying to go back to school so I can earn a better living, but I'm not sure how I'm going to go about this. If I go back to school, I will have to cut my hours and I don't know if I can pay my current bills AND housing. On top of that, my mom has 2 dogs, and I have one. My family doesn't really care about them or take care of them aside from buying a bag of food when they need it. I feel trapped, because I really feel like I need to get out of here, but I don't know what would become of the dogs and I don't know if there is a low income place where I would be allowed to take them in. I'm just frazzled about this whole thing. I could get school loans and live somewhere with that for the next 3 years, but I'm scared I'll just be digging myself into another ditch. I feel trapped. |
| Question: Mom said she doesn't have to cook? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:04 AM PDT She's just a bad parent all around. She thinks just because she gets us the stuff we need (clothes, shoes, etc..) that she's a good parent. She said that she doesn't want to cook and she doesn't feel like cooking anymore because that's dying out??? I told her she sounded very ignornant and a parent should cook. And then she said I should cook because I'm 15 meaning cook for her all of her five kids. Am I wrong to be upset? All we eat is junk food. And don't say she's a good parent because she's done worse. |
| Question: What to do about an evil stepmother? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 11:03 AM PDT My dad got remarried when I was 12.She has kids & he just has me so she wanted him to move with her. At first, she was just mean to me as in making me do more chores than everyone else & leaving me out of stuff, but as I got older she started making more obnoxious comments about how I'm a nerd because I take school seriously, saying I'm lazy when I don't do what she considers enough chores & calling me stupid when I don't do her laundry or something, etc. I've told my dad but he always tells me to not say anything because "it could be worse". But growing up made it worse. When I was 16, I had a small party with family and friends and she cut my cake early, got drunk off her butt, threw up in her bathroom and passed out. I was so embarrassed all my friends saw. When I was 17, I wanted to have a big birthday for my 18 (which was coming up in a couple weeks) and she said no cause she was making a grad party for me and her son which she conviently canceled the day before because she "didn't feel like having one after all". She always tries to set up rules for me, boss me around and makes snarky comments at me but my dad isn't allowed to give her kids any rules. Sorry this was so long but I wanted you to have an idea of what was going on. I know eventually I'm going to somehow move, but what can I do in the meantime? I can't stand being around her, but I can't just up and move out this very second. I'm so frustrated but I'm not sure what to do. Any help would be appreciated xx |
| Question: How Do I Tell My Mum I Have A Boyfriend (Gay)? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:54 AM PDT I am 16 and he is 18. I have never brought a boy home before or told her I am in a relationship. Me and him really like each other and he's told his parents and I want to do the same. I am excited to do so because it will make me feel the relationship is progressing and I want him to meet my parents, in the same way I want to meet his. How and when and where do I tell her. I have a brother and a sister who live at home and I don't want them in the room when I tell my mum. Please help!? Sorry, this question is specifically for telling my mum because I don't live with my dad and I'll cross that bridge when I come to it. |
| Question: What do i need to travel with a family member to the U.S? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:53 AM PDT I was born in New York but I have been living in Asia for the past 2 years. I'm 17 now and I turn 18 on September 18th 2015. My uncle and aunt have come to visit Asia for the summer and they will be going back Septmeber 4th 2015. I'm planning on going with them because I start college this year so what documents do i need to go with them. Would immigration in America stop me because i'm 17 for any reason? I'm going to New Jersey if that makes any difference. Do I need consent to be travelling internationally with my uncle and aunt? |
| Question: Mom's midlife crisis? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:45 AM PDT A few weeks ago, my parents (who have been divorced for a few years but still live together for the sake of my little siblings) started drinking and smoking cigarettes on a regular basis. Now my dad has slumped into depression and I finally learned the reason why. My mom has a boyfriend. He's taken over my mom's entire being. Things she once hated, she now loves because he does. She's gone for three or four days at a time now and my little siblings keep asking why she isn't around as much. Every time she is home, she's constantly on her phone. I can't talk to her about anything! We used to be really close and now it seems like she resents being around the rest of my family and me. She's talked to my dad about moving to another state with her boyfriend and leaving the kids with my dad, which wasn't agreed upon in their divorce. The only conclusion I've come to for her behavior is a midlife crisis. I don't know how to deal with it. My dad and I can't hardly eat, sleep, or smile anymore. My stomach is constantly hurting and I wonder everyday if the last time I see my mom will be the LAST time I see her. And even though I've never met him, I hate her boyfriend because he's stolen my mom and changed her and it isn't fair! I just want my mom back...what should I do? |
| Question: How would you tell without offending him? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:38 AM PDT My cousin is visiting me and he will stay with me for 3 months while he is attending to a training here. He showers everyday but he may not be using deodorant. Towards the evening he starts having a bad body odor. How would I tell him that he can use deodorant without offending him? It is not too much trouble for me for few months but a few people mentioned around us that he is not using deodorant. I want him to be included not excluded for something this simple. |
| Question: I hate my Extended family.? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:30 AM PDT Well this is going to be more of a rant than a question. I don't have anyone else trustworthy to talk to about this matter. So yeah. I love my family. I love my mom, my older brother , my sister-in-law and my 2 sisters.(My dad passed away 2 years ago). I love them more than anyone else no doubt about that. My problem lies with my extended family. I really really HATE my Aunts, uncles, and all my cousins (Except my grandmother) of my dad's side. They look all nice and innocent to other people, but deep down they are heartless, unsympathetic, and greedy people. Before my dad passed, They were all loving and caring people. They treated us like a real family. We never had a problem before.However,after my dad passed, they all just transformed into heartless bitches. They began to talk **** about my mom, my sisters and I behind their back. It's just very hurtful. Some times when we have a family gathering, they won't even talk to us anymore, it's just so rude and occasionally, they treated us like ****. Egh. One time, we invited them to our house for my sister's birthday party, as soon as my sister cut her cake, after a few minutes they all just left !! Who does that !!! my sister was crying all night. wha the hell !! Seriously, I wish I could just take my mom and my siblings far away from these people and never see them again. **** em. I'm surprised that these kind of people exists. |
| Question: How do I get through to him? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:29 AM PDT My husband is stuck on stupid. Our daughter got a FULL summer vocal institute scholarship. Where some families paid the full tuition for the summer and some only got a partial scholarship. The cost is $300 per week 6 day weeks no class on Sundays. Classes are held at a local church. My husband and I are earning about 10K more this year than we earned last year working two jobs this year as opposed to the three jobs we were working last year. But we are still a poverty level household earning about 47K annually with a 5 person household. We live in an area with 40-60K homes. This program is held in College Park with 170-200K homes. Where the Winter Park (700K-1Mil homes) elite go slumming. So this is what happened. Last night was our daughters recital and the students were asked to wear formal suits and dresses. She has nice dresses but she wanted to wear something special so I bought her dress from Burlington and her shoes from Payless and she looked great. (you can see her facebook video at hart to heart talent). But my husband was embarrassed. So embarrassed that he had a 2 hour tantrum about what we are not allowed to do or wear from now on when we leave the house. Was embarrassed that our youngest wore a blue and white bandana on her head. But the complaining happened after we got home. If he didn't approve he could have asked her to take it off anytime. But he waited and gave the excuse that he didn't notice until we left. It was a 90 minute program This afternoon when he left the house to drop our daughter off he wore scrubs because he wanted them to think that he was a doctor. He told her that she probably got the scholarship because they felt sorry for her. That she was the only Black little girl in the class. |
| Question: Omg I wanna move out so bad? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:21 AM PDT Is this normal for a teenager? I'm 15 and wanna move out because my life here is so boring and my parents are really boring and nothing happens around here..... |
| Question: 19 weeks pregnant dating another guy what to do? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:20 AM PDT So I've been dating this guy a few months and I work with him. Known each other a year and I'm pregnant with another guys baby (which he knew before we started dating) the baby daddy is out of my life relationship wise and sometimes calls or texts to ask about it and is starting to want to be involved even though I said he could after the baby was born. So my bf is freaking out and unsure if we're gonna make it or has what it takes to make it even though he said it's not cause of the baby.. Thoughts? |
| Question: Am i a disappointment? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 10:08 AM PDT I mean, i am not a perfect person but i try and do what i can for people. But people just don't seem to like me, my dad loves my sister but hates me. My sister doesn't even talk to me, if i talk to my dad he seems like he doesn't want to talk. It's like he think i'm stupid, when i talk i feel like stupid, i deal with depression so i try to be happy but it's hard because i am hated. I have told him how i feel, but it seems he doesn't care about me. I don't really have people to talk to, so it doesn't help that my dad seems to hate me. Regardless of what good i do, he seems to ridicule me, it's like he loves my sister and hates me. Why my dad hates me? |
| Question: My older brother is very disrespectful to me? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:59 AM PDT Im 12 and he's 16. Im a girl. My bro still picks his nose and i ask him ever so politely to please get a tissue. He ends up telling me to shut up and he calls me the b word. He curses at me and even hurts me sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. If i tell him he's hurting my feelings, he'll just say good. He treats me like im just some punching bag to hurt verbally. I feel sad about myself. I tell my parents and they do nothing. They always just say, oh we'll yell at him and they never do they just tell him to not pick his nose and be nice to me. |
| Question: How can I deal with h those who hate me because of my wealth? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:53 AM PDT Right , So I was born in a rich family,I never really knew we are rich، until very soon.Now people actually hate me for it.I was always surrounded by people like me (from my family ) and I thought every one had drivers,lived in big houses ,travelled all the time and basically lived like I did.But recently I have been noticing that those who work for my parents,like the staff at home and the drivers are just full of hate.The driver asks my father for money all the time and talks about us to other peopl. He could tell the press about how we are living and things like that.Whenever I buy something knew or talk about anything (on the phone) when am With him in the car he ,literally tells everyone in the city.People talk about usALL THE TIME.And I really hate it.They look at me differenly.Guys would ask me out just BC of who my grandfather or my father is.I hate it so much.I was friends with this girl but her mum talked about me ALL THE TIME.People steal money from us because "we have alot of money and its apparently acceptable to steal from people like us ". Some people just treat me like poop without even knowing me.And those who treat me nicely just want something from me.I am so frustrated and idk how to deal with anything.When my mum was my age (I'm 17) she didn't tell anyone who she was and literally hid the fact that she was rich BC she just wanted people to actually ge to know her and not use her.In sick of this and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How to decide between lying to your parents or having your college paid for? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:52 AM PDT I moved out of my mom's house because she and i don't have the best relationship. So i live with my grandmother now, but the thing is... my mom won't pay for my school since i live with her now, because she doesn't like her mom and doesn't have the best relationship with her. My dad said he wouldn't pay for my school, but yet since i told him my mom isn't paying for it he is saying if i need anything at all then to contact him and we can sit down and talk about it. Though, my grandmother says she will pay for both my tuition and books if i lie to both of my parents saying that i'm not going to school this semester and just working so that in return to try and get a reaction out of them to try and pay for my school, make them feel bad essentially. I don't like that, lying to my parents and i think if and when my mom finds out about me lying to her then our relationship is only going to get worse. So should i tell them the truth about what my gma suggested, and see where it goes from there? Should i tell just my dad since he said if i needed anything to let him know, and just lie to my mom? And maybe see what opinion my dad leaves? Or should i lie to both of them and have my gma pay while they think i am not going to school? |
| Question: Leaving your family, and never having contact again? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:35 AM PDT My life is a series of unfortunate events. I ve already no contact with my parents because of there drug addictions, and problems. The only problem is my grandparent with whom I live with. Pastors of a church, extremely conservative. The problem is.. Im Gay... They don t know it, but I ve often times hinted to bring it up and each time they basically confirm that "We WILL NOT HAVE A GAY GRANDSON" The question, is when I go to college(Harvard University) Should I just relinquish all contact and just start over? I want to delete my Facebook, and all other social media and just slowly disappear and create me a new reality in which I can be happy. |
| Question: Why don't I want to see my dads side of the family? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:26 AM PDT Well every time I need to go somewhere to see my dads side of the family, I really just dread going. Sometimes I don't even go. But it's not his parents or siblings, it's more like my 2nd cousins and great aunts and what not. I mean theyre not mean or anything to me but everytime I get there I just can't wait to leave. It's also strange because I'm perfectly fine with my moms side of the family. Just this summer we drove for 12 hours to meet some of her family that I've never even met before. And I was okay then. And I don't think they act much differently than my dads side of the family does. It's just weird lol.. Any help/can anyone relate? |
| Question: Please help. My brother is pimping himself out and my father is ok with that. What to do? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:19 AM PDT Hello. I'm 16, my older brother is 19 and we live with my dad. My mother died when I was very little and we've always dealt with money problems. My brother is beautiful and very smart and he even got scholarships to some good colleges when he finished high school. However he only went to college for two months and then came back. I never really understood why. I don't want to say my father is a bad father, and I know he suffered a lot after my moms death, but I felt he never really cared much about us and we were raised mainly by an aunt. Now it's just the three of us. Last year my brother came out as gay and my father got even further away from him. I know, that since 6 or t months ago, my brother has been sleeping with other man for money. My dad knows that to and he is okay with that because than he asks my brother for money. I tried to talk with my brother but he refuses to listen to me and I think he is doing it to ''help'' with money expenses... I don't know what to do anymore... My father just doesn't care, my brother is destroying his life, and he is so smart and was just a good kid... Sometimes I just feel like I want to finish high school, get a scholarship and get away from here and never see them anymore... Help me please... |
| Question: Should I apologize to my mom and my grandma? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:16 AM PDT Ok so recently I asked a question and it deemed me as self absorbed. I began to realize my responses I received were right. Now I feel bad for what I said. Should I go apologize to my family? btw thanks to the people who helped me realize how much of a douchebag I sounded like. |
| Question: Why did she do this? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 09:10 AM PDT Okay so there's this girl I kinda like in class & there was this kid who was bugging me & she told him to stop. He stopped bugging me so that was great & then when I was talking to my friend I saw her looking at me but then she looked down at the floor so I just looked away & started talking to my friend. But then I looked back & she moved to other spot. Why did she moved to other spot does it mean she doesn't want me to look at her or something? |
| Question: How do I change my parents attidute on this matter ? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:41 AM PDT A friend of mine volunteered to cut my hair for free . However during the process of doing so , he accidentally shaved a part of my head . In order not to look **** , I shaved my whole head . I look like a skinhead now . When I went home , my parents went mad . My father started screaming that I am going to fail in life and my mother started telling me that I am a clown and screaming . My grandma failed to recognise me . I told them about the accident but they would not listen , they told me I look like **** and I should be ashamed , and it should have been better if I would have left my hair with a big part shaven off . How do I deal with this ? Well , my parents believe that men with : long hair , tattoos , piercings and extremely short hair are idiots who have mental problems . |
| Question: My son is making up stories? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:39 AM PDT My son is 12 years old. From last 2 years, he has been telling blatant lies. He really likes literature. He makes up stories on how he has been taken to a national level competition from school. Once he made up a story on an imaginary friend who made him to bad things. He tells all this in a very believable manner. I don t know what to believe and what not to. I am clueless and scared. Please help. |
| Question: My brother got robbed? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:37 AM PDT So my brother is on vacation and his landlord called me and my mom and said that someone had broke into his house so we went over there and the robber literally took EVERYTHING. How should we tell my brother? |
| Question: I'm becoming my douchebag dad?!? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:32 AM PDT By this I mean I've been recently stressed and angry very often and I have so much rage and I know it's unhealthy but I can't control it. Im verbally abusing my siblings like he used to me and I legit feel like at this rate I'm gonna lose all my hair from stress, I don't want to grow up like him! I want to be the nicest and most cool down to earth mellow guy but my siblings and parents are just drowning me in stress that I MUST lash out even when I don't, I curse all this horrible stuff under my breath if theirs young ones around. I just want to control it and let things go, I don't want to be the bossy ****** he was! ALSO IVE GAIN THE HATRED OF CHILDREN!I WANT TO LOVE CHILDREN AGAIN I'm like a grumpy crabby old man 😞 |
| Question: Is it normal to masterbate while sniffing your sister in laws panties? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:27 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I put my foot down without offending her? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:12 AM PDT Okay so my boyfreinds mother keeps asking to take my 6 week old baby for a few hours. She' asks everyday and doesn't seem to realise I have parents of my own who want to see him as well. It annoys me that I have not had a day with just me the baby and my partner apart from when I was in hospital. It doesn't help that we live within a 10 minute walk from my boyfriends mother and grandmother who also has to see him nearly everyday. Yes my partner is her only son and I could understand her excitement but its a bit overbearing now. Also, my parents live a 30 minute drive away and are lucky that I drive so they are able to see him every couple of days. I've mentioned it to my boyfriend and he just said "do you not want my mam to help?" It seems as if she wants our baby to look after as some sort of payment for helping me with washing or tidying. Am I being selfish? What are your experiences with a new baby and your partners family? |
| Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:09 AM PDT Is it normal? I really hate her. She is turning 9 in a few weeks but I want absolutely nothing to do with her. I LOVE it when she is at her dads and want her to move in with him. She's bee there almost all summer and it's been amazing. But when she's home she is such a *****. She screams over nothing, acts like she owns everything, takes whatever she wants, is extremely rude, makes her own rules. If she's grounded she just walks out. But my sister spoils her. She gets whatever she wants, no matter how bad she is. She came after my mom with a knife for grounding her and she went to Chuck e cheese and build a bear after my sister got out of work. She's out of control. I hate her...normal? |
| Question: Is this depression or circumstances? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 08:02 AM PDT Growing up I feel like I was mentally abused. They never once hit me though. I'm not saying they were bad parents because I know they love me and they try to help but they never can. My dad's an alcoholic and when he drinks he becomes a dick head. My oldest brother puts me down in anything I do. We play basketball and I do very well and he says it's because I'm like J-mac and calls me autistic. I beat him in video games and it's because I'm a video game nerd. It got to the point where I let him win so he doesn't verbally harass me. My other brother use to do heroin. I'm not sure if he still does but I have my suspicion that he does still. He always is asking to borrows money even though he makes decent money. He says it's because it's the summer and he wants to enjoy it but he hasn't saved to get another car. (He totaled his other one getting heroin). My mom is over protective. I know what you're thinking, every mom is. This is to the level of a mental condition I believe. She is constantly on her computer looking out the window spying on us in the back yard. Last night it was almost 1 a.m. and my friend was pulling out of the driveway and bumped into the basketball hoop (his car has a horrible turning radius) and I hear my mom screaming her room. When I go outside to smoke a cigarette I hear the blinds move then she stomps up stairs. Am I depressed or wrong to think that it's situational? |
| Question: My brother is a grown up, and he b**ches and moans too much? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 07:42 AM PDT I'm 24, and he's 25. And yet, he always complains about everything. He always doesn't want to do anything outside of the house. He b**ches and moans about food, about what he likes and what he doesn't, about how doesn't want to do something, about everything. How do we get him to grow the f**k up, act his age, and don't act like a little b**ch anymore? |
| Question: Can I get adopted by a rich couple? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 07:29 AM PDT Ok well I come from a low class family where every single Saturday we have to clean up clean up clean up! I want a care free life where I can have some fun, I'm in a family where everyone is soooo strict and my grandma lives with me and my mom and she's just....ugh. I'm just tired of it and I want a family who I'll know have enough money for me to pursue my dreams of going to college and majoring in law school and political science. Now another question is can I raise enough money on a go fund me account for an iPhone six and a plane ticket to California? Or is that against the guidelines of Go Fund me accounts btw if I make one can u plz go support it? :) ~ 1.Love.J. |
| Question: Turning 15 in a few days? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 07:04 AM PDT hi so im a 14 year old male turning 15 in a few days and i wanted to know if any of you has any ideas of what kind of cake i could do like designs and stuff and what should i do for my birthday im not really doing a party just celebrating with my family and then i might go out with some friends |
| Posted: 11 Jul 2015 06:58 AM PDT I live at home and today my little sister had a friend over. My sister asked me whether I was "still" a lesbian (she's 11) and I began to answer this child appropriately. But when my mother came back she "signed" me to stop talking & later told me that I shouldn't tell people because my sister wouldn't have friends anymore if I did and that I shouldn't tell my sister either because she might tell other people. My mother said that she was totally ok with my sexuality, but I just shouldn't tell people because many of them weren't. My father and his wife were so cool about it and I don't know what to do. Is my mum right? And how could I ever have a gf if I couldn't bring her home or be open about it? My mother said that it's private and that this is the best way to do it. And that it would hurt my career… (I still live at home and travel to college because it's so expensive and we live near a really good college.) So my mum's opinion really does matter. And I guess I couldn't go to church anymore? I live in Switzerland, btw. And I'd appreciate every answer!! |
| Question: Agreed no cell phone but allows daughter to use it anyways? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 06:50 AM PDT My husband and i have 2 eight yr old daughters from our previous marriages. My ex is not involved in my daughters life. for my step daughters 8th bday she wanted a cell phone. We said no way. No reason for a 8 yr old to have one. For christmas her mother got her one, nothing we coukd do about it except say it cant come to our house. Well we get her every summer and she brought her phone. We made her leave it at her grandmas house(3 houses up from ours) but my husband texts her on it all the time to see what shes doing and he will call her on it instead of calling his parents(they keep her while we work) i tell him hes showing his daughter she has need for her phone and my daughter(who stays with her grandmother some as well) still doesnt have one. We got into a huge arguement last night but he still refuses to get my daughter a phone and also refuses to stop calling his daughter on hers. Whats good for one is good for everyone and I think hes being completely unfair. What was the point in telling his daughter no phone, you dont need one, then when she gets it he uses it as his form of communication with her? |
| Question: When we are in public my mom ALWAYS does this? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 06:48 AM PDT I was born & raised in NJ. I had A LOT of traumatic/abusive things happen to me there. I married & moved to Atlanta. My mom now lives here too. Whenever we are in public she feels this NEED to point out im from NJ & spent 26 years of my life there. I've been in Atlanta 10 years to me its home. She does it at the DMV, at the grocery store ANYTIME she can it's very embarrassing & "sets me off" Even my husband gets very angry. It's a huge trigger for me as I have had a lot of trauma growing up there. Why does she continue to do this?! Why does she then laugh about it I can't take it & my husband thinks I should just not associate with my mother Mind you I have PTSD from all the trauma I endured growing up |
| Question: My mum makes me feel ugly and insecure? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 06:34 AM PDT I'm the least favoured in the family. I'm the only one diagnosed with depression & anxiety and almost got withdrawed from school from it. My mom doesn't believe in depression and tells everyone i'm lazy and stupid and won't get anywhere in life. It hurts. And the last two years, i suffered so bad and barely did anything. I gained weight and my mom told me i'm fat infront of our whole family at the dinner table and constantly told me everyday since, telling me to not eat whenever she sees me getting something to eat. In 7th grade, she did the same thing and as a young naive child, I starved and ended up in the hospital and to this day i'm still suffering from low blood pressure, low iron and calcium. Today we were up at 5am to go to a camping trip and i went without makeup cause i've been trying to feel confident without it and i was feeling great until my mom said, "You look hideous. Go put on some makeup." even though we were only going to a camping site with nobody else there. She kept saying that until i went to my room and put on makeup. I'm here now and i dont want to go anymore.. She always ruins my mood and makes me feel insecure and crappy. She never told any of my 3 other sisters they look bad even though they're makeupless and wearing pajamas to go. |
| Question: My moms boyfriend found my bong (I hate him)? Posted: 11 Jul 2015 06:32 AM PDT Okay so I'm 15 I make okay grades, (I flunked algebra but I have a math disability) I have migraines depression and horrible insomnia, and I only "use" weed for my insomnia, I quit drinking and cigarettes and even sneaking out. My mom and her boyfriend have been together for 5 years and just had a kid. Which I love, but all together he's a horrible guy, fights with all of us, just a bad person. Recently I bought a bong 12" and stored it in my bag. (When not taking it somewhere in my closet in a box under clothes) and I went to my GFs house and came back to it on the table. He's found weed in my room before (I smoke before bed most of the time blow it out my window and light candles) but he's never gone through my stuff until now. He gave it back to me so I could give it to one of my friends but I recently got it back. But when he found it he started saying all this stuff and it made me freak out. And I left for my dads. All my parents (my mom step mom my dad and him) have all admited to smoking. And he had been arrested in his teens for alcohol violations ( I've never been in trouble with the police ) so bassicly he went into my room and looked through my stuff and took it and made me give it up. He hasent even married my mom but is already invading my privacy, do you think he should be aloud to do it? He does pay for the house because my mom is a student (which he tried to get her to drop out of to pay bills) but that's litttaly it |
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