Marriage & Divorce: Question: Is this how most guys feel ? |
- Question: Is this how most guys feel ?
- Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way?
- Question: I have a problem with all kinds of public displays of affection? worried about what might happen if I get proposed to...?
- Question: My crush got married and I am really sad?
- Question: What do I call my step-dad?
- Question: I have requested marriage record of third great gramd parents in 1809 does it give the names of the parents?
- Question: Husband doesn't care about our dog....?
- Question: Should I Walk Away?
- Question: My child's father wants to come back into our lives. Is that a bad Idea due to his past history of leaving us?
- Question: When a man shows no affection and love is it he fall out of love or he finds someone else? Or could be other reason that a man can explain?
- Question: Would u stay with ur husband if the experts to u he was gonna leave u one day.?
- Question: Feel sad I might never marry?
- Question: *HOW to go about this*- telling the married man you won t see him anymore.?
- Question: My wife and I had split up 11 days ago. I found her in out mutual house with another man today. What should I do.?
- Question: I love someone besides my husband? I need advice badly PLEASE?
- Question: Does this mean my husband is leaving me?
- Question: Time for a divorce?
- Question: GUYS: Did any of you marry the girl you had sex with before marriage? What made you still stay with her after sex happened before marriage?
- Question: Why is my husband so obsessed with my appearance?
- Question: How do you tell your wife that you lost your limbs?
- Question: FOR MEN - DO MARRIED MEN LIE TO THEIR WIVES?
- Question: Me and my husband fight a lot should we separate?
- Question: How can the already married couple in foreign country now apply for the certificate of marriage in county clerk office?
- Question: Is there a online divorce where we both have to pay?
- Question: I easily develop crusheson men and I'm married?
- Question: How many women marry the second time with money in mind?
- Question: 25 years of marriage, husband cheated, said its over with the other woman, cannot forgive or forget, hard trusting him?
- Question: How to build a bright future with my husband or a divorce? I am Japanese and my husband is Mexican American. He is very mean with me.?
- Question: Can I divorce because of my husbands can't give a baby to me?
- Question: Is divorce better than resolving conflict? Even if you are in a happy marriage?
- Question: Is divircing a good thing?
- Question: I got a civil order on this ex of mine who I have a child with.......?
- Question: Is there a way to ease up the burden that my wife, a housewife, is?
- Question: Is my husband over reacting?
- Question: Would you cheat on your husband if he wasn't able to fill your needs like he used to?
- Question: Married for a little over a year should I get a divorce ??
- Question: How is a real woman considered crazy insecure and jealous over husbands ex and what could be done to solve the problem?
- Question: Married little over a year ...Should I get a divorce ????
- Question: There have been some issues in a 16 month marriage... just found out that husband is still speaking to ex girlfriend about his wife.?
- Question: There have been some issues in a 16 month marriage... just found out that husband is still speaking to ex girlfriend about his wife.?
- Question: Help me before it's too late!?
- Question: I'm on the edge of divorce?
- Question: Why is his cell locked and won't give me the code?
- Question: My female cousin asked me fir my husband s telephone number?
- Question: I want to get married to my Chinese bf in the future, but I'm asexual!?
- Question: Is it legal to be married to two people?
- Question: Who should walk away?
- Question: Why are women like this, what should I do?
- Question: To be or what to be for a woman?
- Question: My husband and i are constantly bickering back fourth!?
- Question: My ex husband stop to pay my daughter child support in march 2015, I live in Mexico?
- Question: Husband acting weird & works overseas, lies a lot & has a story for everything?
- Question: Why does my wife love this ?
- Question: If a husband loves his wife and talks and listens to her and spends time with her but asks her for sexual things id he objectifying her?
| Question: Is this how most guys feel ? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 09:02 PM PDT I'm in my 20's single mom, seeing a guy that's in his 40's ( aren't older people suppose to be more mature) ? He would like to get married, just not to me because he says I have a kid. We are long distance and he has asked out other women while seeing me ( I saw it online in forum he wrote his experience in about asking out another woman), when I bring this up he says " well so what ? Yeah, I asked her out like a year ago, " Do most guys feel this way about someone with a child ? |
| Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:48 PM PDT I began dating somebody almost a year ago who is separated. In December filed for divorce and its still gong back and forth battling in court. Aug 11th is next date which hopefully divorce will be finalized. Anyway the ex is fighting for alimony and pension . no kids together. they both make good money. the ex sometimes calls and leaves a message or text messages my partner. In December my partner sent a happy bday text. I was very angry because I fel that was inappropriate. last week the ex text again and my partner answered even though I was promised there would no longer be any communication other than court. that s what the lawyers are for right? well I reminded my partner that if they want to reply that s fine but I will not tolerate being in a relationship with somebody who still answers to ex when they call or text. my partner said they would take care of it, yet has not yet. I feel now like its ok to hurt my feelings and bicker about it but wont say anything to the ex to hurt their feelings. am I wrong for saying if it continues I no longer want to be in relationship because I feel disrespected and don t want a relationship like that. I honestly feel if im loved as much as said then it shouldn t be difficutl to do. they have no children together. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:35 PM PDT I have been with my bf for 5 years. We know we will get married and all that when the time is right.... Meaning funds.... But here's my issue, I have a hard time being publicly affectionate with him. I can hold hand but everything else mKes me uncomfortable. Even hugs. When we're home alone we're very affectionate, but during the whole 5 years of my relationship with him, my parents have never seen us hug or peck even on the cheek. We've been living together for 2 years now, he has no problem showing affection, I'm just always feeling awkward.... What can I do to change this? In a little while I know he'll be financially able to finally propose... were open about marriage so we know that time will come. But what if it's a public proposal... Idk I can't even peck him at the store. |
| Question: My crush got married and I am really sad? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:28 PM PDT My crush got married recently and as a result i feel very sad because I have always dreamed of she and I together as a loving married couple. Now that dream is gone and I just feel sad and empty inside. |
| Question: What do I call my step-dad? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:17 PM PDT I absolutely don't want to call my step-dad "dad" since he's not my biological father. I'm 15 and my mom divorced to my dad and she now has a boyfriend which she's about to marry. I don't know what to call him though. She said that calling him by his first name is disrespectful and she doesn't want to hear that from me. I feel like daddy and dad is pretty much the same thing, correct me if I'm wrong. What should I call him? |
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| Question: Husband doesn't care about our dog....? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:02 PM PDT When I met my husband he had a 1 year old st Bernard. Very sweet and calm. Fast forward 5 years the dog is now is 6. Over the years my husband seems to care less and less about him. I'm the one who takes care of him. I don't mind. I love him very much but my husband has done a few things to make me angry.Our dog stays in our room when we work. He is 200 pounds and knocks things over, jumps on counters and tables etc. is big and destructive. I still love him though. we leave him with food and water. Toys. Until I get back to walk him and give him love. Our house doesn't have central air and my husband often turns off window unit after he showers because it's cold and forgets to turn it back on after he is dressed and leaves. He left our fluffy hairy dog in a burning hot room with the windows open all day when we were working. He's done this multiple times and I don't understand why he does it. And acts like it's not a big deal. I came home today and opened the door. It was so hot. It was over 100 degrees out today.... My poor dogs food bowl had maggots in it. He didn't have any water in his bowl. When my husband got home I yelled at him for neglecting Rocky. And he shrugged it off and told me to stop complaining. Am I wrong for getting mad??? I work 12 hours away. I take him out in the morning. He is well potty trained. But I don't see him until night time. My husband works 12 hours a day too and as I said forgets about him. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 07:56 PM PDT My husband has cheated,lied even agreed for me to leave to be with my family while 6 months preg. He has put me threw so much. I am a firm believer in the bible and marriage so I have done everything I know how to make it work. Recently he has gotten into legal trouble and is incarcareted and now he "Sees the light" wants his family and all that good stuff. I often wonder where are all the females and people who he was so eager to just throw his family away for at now ? Even with some conversations we have I know I love and care for him but I'm really at a point where I just don't know what to do. A part of me feel like I am being used because months ago it was none of this he barely would pick up a phone to speak to me. I'm not perfect and not all of our situation is his fault |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 07:52 PM PDT 6-7 years ago back when I was 17 very close to 18, I meet This guy. I thought the world of him, felt he was very special. He took my virginity and we were stupid enough not to use a condom. 2 -3 weeks later I was pregnant. He tried to be strong but what do you expect he was young wasn't ready to be a father. So we broke up and I had my baby girl all alone. 2 years later I was 19 and I get this call from him saying he wanted to see her and me too. So after the meet up we decided to be together. We were together for 4 months and he left again. Since then it's been 4 years and again he wants to come back into my our life. My daughter is 6 now , she knows her dad is not around and for him to just come into her life like that IDK. If I take him back and he leaves again IDK what I'd do. Advice |
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| Question: Would u stay with ur husband if the experts to u he was gonna leave u one day.? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 07:14 PM PDT |
| Question: Feel sad I might never marry? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 06:56 PM PDT I'm feeling sad & depressed tonight. I'm 39 single guy with 2 children 8 & 1.5 years old. Each have their own mom. My gf with youngest baby dumped me & wanted me to move out..its over. It's been 3 months now. I thought she was going to be the one. I feel like a loser & a failure. I failed my kids. I feel like my American dream is done for. Maybe in another life time I'll be 30 single with no kids & meet a woman single with no kids as well. Get married & gave kids. All in the correct order. I feel like I'll never have this & its what I always wanted since I was 22. I feel I wasnt meant to ever have what I wanted. I'm good looking. Self employed hard worker. Not abusive. No drugs or alcohol. Just can never meet miss right & now I have 2 kids with failed relationships |
| Question: *HOW to go about this*- telling the married man you won t see him anymore.? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 06:53 PM PDT Okay, even though ultimately I know the answer deep within me, I am seeking some advice I met a guy, he said he is separated . We start talking. I enjoy his company and conversation. I m very observant so I noticed that obviously he is still very much involved in his marriage. I immediately have been very distant. For two Reasons 1- I don t want to break up a family 2- I m not the type who has to be a side woman. (No one should actually) Ok.. I confront him about it. I don t like it. I m not ok with it. When he said separated. I assumed. Almost finished with divorce, both parties know thy are divorcing. Now it seems to me that he is "separated in his own mind" if you know what I mean. I tried breaking it off and sometimes I will admit I am too soft. I still talk to him but I NEED to break it off. Tell him again and stick with my guns. I get stuck in my words and I am hoping maybe some of you will help me in what to say. P.s. Im such a softy and sometimes I find myself making excuses for others and condoning the actions. Such as: maybe I m asking too many questions so early or maybe he is getting divorced eventually so be patient. But my LOGIC and REALITY. Is telling me: no. Better find out sooner than later and nip it in the butt before you wrongfully get attached. And obviously he s not so separated when he s going o bows and events with his wife on the weekends *** Thank you |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 06:48 PM PDT She claimed our divorce has been a long time coming. We have been married for 2.5 years. We have two very young children together. I spent too much time at work and brought the stresses of work home with me. She claimed I never cared about her and did not do enough with the her or the kids. Money has been very tight for us lately and that added stress as well. We were fine the night before then the next while I was at work she called me to tell me she was leaving me. She cited all of the reasons and I told her we could fix it and she said she has no desire to fix it. I left the house on her request to give her space. After 11 days I decided that I was coming home and was not sleeping on my grandmothers couch anymore. I wanted to see my kids and be in my home. Which came from my family. She had tried to take the house and child support and leave me with nothing. I still love her to death. When I came back all the doors were locked and her car was not there so I broke in the basement door. This is my house mind you. She then came out asking what I was doing. She was covered in nothing but a blanket. I knew she had gone to a party that night and got drunk. So I looked in the bedroom and found him in the closet. I started yelling and told him to get the **** out. We then argued a bit and I told her despite all this I still love her. Which I do. I am not leaving this house again. She has nowhere to go and has begged me to stay away for a couple more weeks while she finds a place. |
| Question: I love someone besides my husband? I need advice badly PLEASE? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 06:46 PM PDT First off, my husband is 50 and I am 23. We have known each other for years but have been together since I turned 18. He and I have a bad past, we have broken up several times and gotten back together, it is normally because of his controlling ways or my need to live on my own. He seems as though he has changed this last time we got back together,but I am afraid the controlling will start again and I have only been back with him a month and I am already thinking about leaving because I like living on my own, I think I may love him though and I KNOW he loves me. But my mother has moved by us with her friend and her friend has an 18 year old son who is really wonderful, my moms friend and her son are everything like my mom and I, we could be a family....My husband and my mom fight or there are disputes randomly. Right now as I said though it seems like everything is fine but I am afraid things will get bad again between my husband and I,I don't know what to do...I just got here and already want to leave again... :( What should I do? My husband has a history of abuse with me, his kids and his ex wife, she even gave me a card for a domestic violence shelter.... I keep running back to him, I need help.... I love him... |
| Question: Does this mean my husband is leaving me? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 06:38 PM PDT My husband and I got into a domestic dispute. I was the victim. I called cops and they charged him with assault. There is a no contact order in place. I want to reconcile. Apparebtly my husband was seen wearing his ring. But he had friends come to our house and get his play station and games. Now he's got his dad coming over to pick up his weights and exercise bench. Does this mean he's not coming home? Or just that he's bired living at his dad's. (He lost his job) |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 04:52 PM PDT My husband is going through a promotion at work. So I understand it s stressful with training. We have two daughters youngest is 6 months. I been taking care of the girls rarely asking for help because I know how hard he works. Just recently he s been taking everything out on me. Blaming me for things that are out of my control. He wants to spend time with me but give me an attitude. I had to ship something and saw him there he right away left and moved money off my card. Then texted me in line there s no money when I was paying. I m confused and hurt. I m so exhausted from taking care of my daughter s I don t feel like this is okay to be humiliated by my husband. I don t trust him anymore to treat me like a human being. I tried talking him to let me know what s going on but he keeps blaming me for everything. I need money he pretty much took everything I m debating on getting the process started and filing for divorce. I want to wait it out marriage is big but I know from experience I can t wait too long on stuff like this the court takes a long time. |
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| Question: Why is my husband so obsessed with my appearance? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 02:30 PM PDT When we met i was the same plain jane with natural kinky hair thin body and big smile. I dress casual and wear uniforms at work so i never really go out my way to shop anymore for myself because i work more than i chill. So we got pregnant asap after marriage and two kids later im still natural still thin and still me! I'm content with myself and my life but the problem is my husband isn't. Nowadays he stress me out about straightning my hair and dressing up to go out. I feel like he is trying to change me and beginning to lose interest in me :-( he make me feel bad about it and he is very condscending when it comes to my appearance. He begins with telling about the women he work with so i feel compared to them then he continues to tell me he need to look a certain way. He is beginning to become obssessed with my hair and look and its hurting my confidence. Should i do what he is asking and be something im not and do what i don't want to do? What so u think? (Im serious no mean answers thank you) |
| Question: How do you tell your wife that you lost your limbs? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 02:02 PM PDT i was in the bathroom this morning when my arms began to sag, and then they fell off along with my legs and crawled into the sink, turning into mush before disappearing down the drain. it wasn't something i ever expected to happen to me. but i managed to used my nose to get on here and type this message out, and i want to know how i can break the news to my wife gently when she gets home from work. i called in sick at work, but i don't know how much longer i'll be able to go before i have to tell them i don't have any arms or legs to do anything with anymore. any advice/ |
| Question: FOR MEN - DO MARRIED MEN LIE TO THEIR WIVES? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 01:59 PM PDT This is a complex question for all married men. Do you ever lie to your wives? If so, about what? Small lies, big lies, whatever.... Does this automatically mean that you are a cheater or do you lie to simply keep the peace and prevent your wife from nagging? |
| Question: Me and my husband fight a lot should we separate? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 01:59 PM PDT We have been together for 4 years and we have a baby together but we fight all the time about the stupidest ****. He's very immature and childish. He is horrible at taking care of our 11 month old daughter. He just sits around and plays video games all day long. And he never wants to do anything or get a job. I love him to death but he seriously is a loser. How can I get him to grow up and do what he has to do? He picks fights with me about the littlest things and makes everything feel like it's my fault. |
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| Question: Is there a online divorce where we both have to pay? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 01:31 PM PDT My wife and I have no kids, nothing to fight over, we both agreed to get a divorce, we live away from each other. She lives in Arkansas and I live in florida. Have haven't been together for 2 years living separately. She has a bf that she cheated on me with, thats okay im with someone else also. So finally we are doing a online divorce but it cost $300 and I asked of she would help pay on it even $25 would help but she simply said no. What can I do? We really dont want a lawer because I cant afford it. Just want her to pay her half. |
| Question: I easily develop crusheson men and I'm married? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 11:46 AM PDT I tend to develop affinity towards men who pay attention to me. I have a mellow/happy personality and I attract lots of people around me. However, I have like about a dozen crush. I *sometimes* fantasize about them when I'm feeling sexy or when I'm making love to my husband...and the sex go wild when I do. This often happens when I interact with them. They tend to flirt with me but it seems to affect me even though I tend to be guarded (just don't want to have any emotional affair). I've told my husband about this and he seems to be fine with it. He knows I won't cheat on him. However, is this normal to still have these many crushes after two kids and at 40? |
| Question: How many women marry the second time with money in mind? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 11:41 AM PDT Because if I'm being honest, being the bread winner this entire time, handling all finances, all household chores and much more... If I ever marry again, there's no way in hell I would consider someone I'll or someone who didn't plan well or has no income around my own. Maybe I'm shallow by some standards, but my life is hard, really hard, and I do not foresee that I want to continue on the same path again if I had a choice. Just curious what others think. |
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| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 09:26 AM PDT So, when I first met him in Japan I found it very different from other kind and calm Japanese men that it was me who fell in love with him at first. We got married and he has never treated me good for the last 6 years but I have always loved him. I put up with everything he made me go through but the hardest time was when he abandand us for 5 months for he got tired of me and I was pregnant with our second child that time. He came back to us from nowhere like nothing had happened. I loved him so much then so I was still happy but It was so hard for me emotionally, financially even physically as I was pregnant that time. I had a full time job and had to watch my older son alone, pay for the rent and for the daycare and everything. Now it's been years since then and my husband is here consistently frustrated, taking his stress all out on me and the kids. As a Japanese, filing a divorce is a taboo but I started thinking about it but my kids really love him so im facing this big dilemma. And sad part is that I don't know if I still love him so much like I used to. Hes a short man but weighs over 280lbs and accuses me of that everyday. He never finish his degree like he said he has to while I finished my masters degree. He never play with the kids who he says loves the most and the reason why hes staying with me. I am very confused and devastated. I'm all alone in the states being so busy with the kids and work. Honestly I'm still young and not even fat nor ugly. |
| Question: Can I divorce because of my husbands can't give a baby to me? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 09:16 AM PDT |
| Question: Is divorce better than resolving conflict? Even if you are in a happy marriage? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 09:05 AM PDT Just testing how society would answer. ROLL UP THE HATE COMMENTS BOB!!!!!!!! |
| Question: Is divircing a good thing? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:52 AM PDT No, I am in a very happy marriage for 8 years and twins ago and we never had the loss of a good sex life. But we do argue but it's rarely about very bad stuff and the baddest that we got was when she was tired of me being irresponsible. But we divorce never crossed our minds so please don't say that she secretly wants to divorce me because she loves me and the only proof I have is everything. Besides, I always confront her in these things and she just laughs it off and we drink afterwards. But when I see the outside world, if you are unsatisfied, it is okay to divorce. If you are sexually attracted to somebody, you divorce, if you are bored with marriage, divorce, if he/ she can't reproduce, divorce, if you are too lazy with being married, divorce. If we were like that, we'd be divorced back then but I see other people who don't even strive to keep up with the love that they "said" that will go on "forever". No, I am not those old people who constantly nag at you for your choices, I'm only 31. I just think that divorce is wrong and ask people why they think it's okay. Dicircing=divorcing btw for grammar nazis |
| Question: I got a civil order on this ex of mine who I have a child with.......? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:39 AM PDT I got a civil order against my ex which he signed so I wouldn't go to a PFA hearing. I want to know if he can get full custody over our eight month old? At this point he can't be around us. I'm going to mediation but should I just go straight to court? What would the judge grant? I don't know what to do. I'm in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Has anyone ever went to court in this state and if I went straight to court how long would it take to get to court? |
| Question: Is there a way to ease up the burden that my wife, a housewife, is? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:31 AM PDT My wife CHOSE to be a housewife and she has been working real hard all day. I always ask is she tired and if she needs to rest and I will do the rest but she says that she's fine. I begin to feel that she is in the same level as a jobo walking down the street working endlessly. Difference is, she has a house, and a hobo earns something. Plus, I really want to stay out off divorce and became conscious about it when my cousin divorced. I was afraid she'll start complaining about her job and blame me for all her misfortunes and, well you know the way already. And divorce is nothing to be celebrated about. And she really was good in cooking and she cleans good. And the only time I order her is when we are in the middle of funky time. I don't think I asked her anything that makes her increasingly tired. I help her out too ease the burden but something is missing. Like a reward for all the hard work is done. With money, you can buy a lot of stuff and boy, does she love buying. We even had to have milk for dinner just because of her usual shopping(before we had children), we usually go to the grocery on a Sunday. Please don't get offended moms and wives of the world, my wife chose to be like that and I just want her to have an easier life. I could pay her or maybe we could buy a small apartment but then again, we have four children. So is there a way to ease up her burden, even if she claims that it's a piece of cake? Cause I asked her back then and now she is sweating with her work and she gets easily annoyed when I even tap her. I can only tap her when she is in relaxed mode. And when I bring it up, she just complains. |
| Question: Is my husband over reacting? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:28 AM PDT I don't think my husband has ever really truly trusted me since day one of our relationship. He has snooped through my phone before and facebook. Fast forwarding to now. He saw a conversation with an old friend of mine from back home simply asking "hey I didn't see you at mustang week" nothing more or less than that. He got mad cause he said I was being disrespectful to him. Mind you this is a friend I have known for 15yrs. I about 2 1/2 yrs ago sent him a picture of me sun bathing. My husband is stating that he wrote back in an email I wish I was a fly on that. I don't recall that comment but whatever. Then also on top of all this he saw that I had did a search on facebook for a guy I sort of went out with when I was 18. So now he has moved into the other room and states "don't want to see your face right now and doesn't feel comfortable being around me" He then got back on my facebook and saw a comment my mom made about him calling him an arrogant ***. and because I didn't defend him he once again felt disrespected and oh I never have his back. Give me a break! I feel and know that what I did was innocent and nothing more into it. Is he over reacting or does he have a right to be upset? |
| Question: Would you cheat on your husband if he wasn't able to fill your needs like he used to? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:06 AM PDT |
| Question: Married for a little over a year should I get a divorce ?? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:02 AM PDT I started dating my husband when I was 21 he was 28 .. We dated a month and oops I got pregnant .. So we got a house together and moved in with in 6 months of dating .. We got married a year later... We have been married a little over a year, we have a two year old daughter. I hate been married nothing like I thought marragie was going to be like . I am happier when it's just me and my daughter, so I don't have to deal with him, if we ever try to do something together it's just an argument and fuss, I don't find him atractive anymore ..he makes really good money a literaly hands me the money to do whatever with .. Pay bills ect I HATE that, I feel like I am the one that runs the house and I don't like it, I work full time as well but don't the kind of money he does!!! What should I do stay married for my daughter and money ??? And forget my happiness ?? Or separate ???? |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 08:01 AM PDT shes not insecure or jealous, shes mad from being decieved by both parties. shes married they have a baby and a marriage is suppose too be so much or whats point of marriage. he built his wife up till he got what he wanted.then ex started to call text an show up whenever whereever she wants. this is a problem because the wife could have tolerated her in the begining but they both chose to be sneaky and still are . wife feels many mixed emotions and doesnt want couseling or divorce at this time looking for advice to eliminate problem reason for not liking ex is she is disrespectful to our marriage and me and my child and soooo much more and its husband too so ???? |
| Question: Married little over a year ...Should I get a divorce ???? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 07:44 AM PDT |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2015 07:34 AM PDT Recently found out that husband had written letter to ex saying that his heart is with her (ex) and that he would do anything to get back with her...all she has to do is say the word! But she is married too and a minister! what to do? |
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| Question: Help me before it's too late!? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 05:23 AM PDT My husband and I had an argument over his activity on social media and he says he didn't do it and I didn't believe him. He started a new job and he's gone for more than 14 hours a day. He's always had thoughts that someday id leave him because I am good looking and he says one day i'll see that too and leave.. Last time I had too much to drink I said our sex wasn't good and many more hurtful things to him however I had no idea I said those things and I would of never said that sober. Now after 7 years of marriage struggling to make ends meet he has a good job and tells me "Now that I have a good job I can afford to leave you".... I don't understand whats going on... I found him looking at other women and I questioned him about it and the first thing he says is he wants out.. I love this man. We have kids together and all of the sudden he just doesn't want me anymore.. Can I save this? How? My mother told me to give him space so I did for more than 24hours and he didn't even come to me. I finally caved and texted him and then called. He is saying that he's done and he keeps repeating over and over that he's working all the time now and he adds that he doesnt want to spend his spare time with me.. He's acting weird but I don't know if it's because he's afraid of me cheating on him or if it's just stress from work getting to him or if he's really tired of me. In the past I was really clingy and sensitive because I found out he was lying to me but it's gotten better. |
| Question: I'm on the edge of divorce? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 05:12 AM PDT I'm 28 years old I've been married for 10 years since I was 18. In August 2014, we sold our home & almost all of our belongings to relocate across country for my husbands new job. It was $25,000 pay increase. We moved & had to live in a hotel for 2 weeks before our apartment would be ready. When my husband started there, everything was great! We loved the town, the people etc. A week into the job they found out my husband was from New York & started making comments about him being handed everything etc. The 2nd week of work nobody would speak to him. Nobody would train him & people made comments about his vision impairment. The day before we were supposed to move into our apartment he was handed his notice. They told him they wouldn't live in this town if they were him & he'd do better up north with his family. His boss proceeded to say people from New York are condensending & rude & they can't have that at the office. We were devastated. We lost over $10,000 total & now we've been living with his parents for a year in NY. I can't find a job I had a job the company went bankrupt we are STRUGGLING to pay the few bills we have since the cost of living is triple what we are used to. It's constant fighting I never fought with anyone this much in my life! He's NEVER home it's either work, the gym, or with his brother. We haven't had sex in a year we don't even sleep in the same rooms anymore. I have my own bedroom!!!! I don't know what to do. I feel so alone. |
| Question: Why is his cell locked and won't give me the code? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 04:56 AM PDT We've already had arguments about his work hours keeping him out later and later. Gets home between 3-5am when kitchen closes at midnight. When I've asked before if he was seeing someone he got really angry and defensive. So i kinda dropped it but still concerned |
| Question: My female cousin asked me fir my husband s telephone number? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 03:50 AM PDT She asked and said she wanted to cheer him up and give him words of encouragement because his mom and brother are sick. They are not close. She knows he has been unfaithful in the past. Is this weird? I did not give it to her |
| Question: I want to get married to my Chinese bf in the future, but I'm asexual!? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 02:49 AM PDT I'm seriously just about to kill myself because society makes a big deal out of marriage and sex, like you must have sex all the time when married! I don't think it's necessary, and I hate the thought of seeing my bf naked! Me and him have NEVER talked about sex, haven't even thought of it or anything. I'm 16, he's 28, so we both love each other to point of marriage, marry each other when I turn adult. But I HATE sex and its guts! And no, I've never had any bad experience in my life before you say something. I would love to have a wedding and honeymoon but I hear that most people have sex during those days and nights, but I don't want sex! And the thing about connsumating your marriage is stupid, you're already married after the wedding, so what's the deal! You won't be any more married then you already are! Plz help, I'm asexual and proud of it, but want to get married! Oh and my bf is completely Chinese and can't really speak English, and the Chinese will most likely not cheat, and are very, very loyal, and will most likely marry their first love, right? |
| Question: Is it legal to be married to two people? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 02:07 AM PDT Can three people get married? Like a whole wedding and everything the same but with three people? I m just wondering. |
| Question: Who should walk away? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 01:47 AM PDT My husband and i live in a small one bedroom apartment. I lived in the apt alone before, but now it has become common ground. On more than one occasion now i have asked my husband to go for a walk or sit on the porch for a little while so we could both cool off during an argument. But, he refuses. he buckles down an insists that i should leave if i want to be away from him. So to avoid escalating the argument i have sat outside on the hard ground (ubable to leave because i wasn't properly dressed) for hours. I don't think this is right. I think that as man he should be the one outside. He should be making sure that I'm safe and secure whether he's mad at me or not. Ive been praying about it but im still so unsure of what to do. Please help me understand and make a change |
| Question: Why are women like this, what should I do? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 12:30 AM PDT I used to be happy to go home to my wife, and she always used to asked my why was I so happy? And how come I was always smiling when I got home to her...now I get home and I have a s*it face and she s always asking what s wrong....i lost in this... |
| Question: To be or what to be for a woman? Posted: 24 Jul 2015 12:29 AM PDT I have wondered about your strange custom to bring the bride to her future husband at church. Have you thought about how it might be viewed by a person from an old democratic culture? One can get the idea that the woman is legally incompetent both before marriage and within the marriage. The women in the United States and England, do they not choose their husband herself? How can this horrible custom survive in a country that claims to be democratic with equal value? Keep in mind that this habit goes back to the days when the woman was and remained incapacitated her entire life? |
| Question: My husband and i are constantly bickering back fourth!? Posted: 23 Jul 2015 11:19 PM PDT |
| Question: My ex husband stop to pay my daughter child support in march 2015, I live in Mexico? Posted: 23 Jul 2015 10:43 PM PDT My ex husband stop to pay my daughter child support in march 2015, I live in Mexico someone have one idea who can help me like a organization, no money for lawyers my daughter is 9 I work full time but isn't enough for doctors bill she have a heart problem we just find I out last July 2015 when she pass out on school that is a private school, ballet, swim class, I open hand off 2 apartments just to have full custody, and get away from him, my ex have a gym and doing well, when I wrote him about my daughter child support he wrote me a e-mail call me all sorts of names stupid, etc... and he not going to pay a dime anymore, even wrote me a message treating me to kill me in facebook, before find out the heart problem I just decide to keep working hard, but now to be able to work more I need to hire a babysitter, the doctor told me to not let her 1 minute alone please help me I don't want a confrontation with my ex... I just need financial help with our daughter, tks so much God bless ya all, and best regards |
| Question: Husband acting weird & works overseas, lies a lot & has a story for everything? Posted: 23 Jul 2015 10:19 PM PDT My husband was watching porn when I needed help the most with our newborn. He stayed outside doing something & snything away from me. I asked for him to go to marriage counseling with me Bc we were bound for a divorce bc I saw where he was on a singles site he said it showed that Bc it was an ad that popped out. Four years later and two children - he was caught watching porn again when my daughter got his phone. So I just brushed it off. After all this time he just now tells me he's been molested by his mom & stepdad. He's ket our children go over there & I'm just now knowing about this. Now he's going to bed early after works claims he's sick then he read a msg from me and said his phone must have been open all night. Now tonight he says he got up to pee exactly after I sent him a msg. Having bad gut feelings yet again & do not know where to turn. I've stayed loyal & have done all I know to do. He also bought another phone over there and claimed he got it incase one of iurs tore up. He brought it home & now it's went missing. Now I have viber & I found his ex gfs number & saved it well it shows she has a Viber too. She has been keeping up with him for forever even after being married & having her own kids. My husband doesn't want me having money when he's at work. After we had our first born his ex was still msgin him 2 years later saying congrats. Then he blocked her. What's your take on it or am I losing my mind? |
| Question: Why does my wife love this ? Posted: 23 Jul 2015 10:03 PM PDT My wife loves it when we lay in bed and I hold her and she falls asleep on my chest. Why does she love it ? |
| Posted: 23 Jul 2015 09:53 PM PDT He also does sexual things for his wife |
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