Friends: Question: What's the difference between a friend and a mutual friend in osu? |
- Question: What's the difference between a friend and a mutual friend in osu?
- Question: My friend is pressuring me to become a furry?
- Question: Anyone ever been close to someone but now feel very distance? Did you become friend with them again? How you do it?
- Question: I WAS HARRASSED!?
- Question: What doesa guy hugging you mean?
- Question: Friend might like me?
- Question: What do you tell people when they ask why you and your friend don't talk anymore?
- Question: Why does no one like me?
- Question: I can't make eye contact. Can anyone relate?
- Question: How to let people in? READ DETAILS!!!?
- Question: Halp may I need yer halp!?
- Question: How to deal with this girl who wants to be my friend?
- Question: My whole friend group is hanging out without me!?
- Question: Should I cut contact with my family?
- Question: Would it be weird to message someone you haven't talked to in years?
- Question: Something strange happened can you help me out? What should i do?
- Question: Boyfriend is too busy for me ?.. I have nobody there for me?
- Question: Do I stop being friends with her?
- Question: Should I apologize to my friends dad?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Is it gay to invite a friend over to your bedroom?
- Question: I ended a friendship but I feel horrible and miss them?
- Question: Why is he so afraid/commitment phobic?
- Question: I am angry because we are not friends anymore.?
- Question: What to do if you re not in the mood for family visits?
- Question: Any advice?
- Question: How to go on vacation with friends who don't know eachother well?
- Question: Follow me on insta I follow back matias_myhren?
- Question: IS SHE ACTUALLY TOOO BUSY TO TALK TO ME OR AM I JUS AT THE BOTTOM OF HER LIST?
- Question: Heelpp?!?!? I was invited to a pool party but my self consciousness is in the way!!?! Read details?
- Question: This girl is making me feel bad?
- Question: What should I do about the father of a friend who says I'm "retarded"?
- Question: Why does my friend only like to talk to me on certain days?
- Question: My friend can't take a hint?
- Question: Did i seem to do something? My best friend just seems to want no part with me anymore? How to feel like myself again? Please advice!!!?
- Question: I'm starting to dislike my friend, what can I do?
- Question: What would you expect if you were the guy in this situation?
- Question: Jealous friend?
- Question: Can my neighbor call cops on someone that vaccums at 2:30am?
- Question: My friend acts really strange. Any advice?
- Question: My friend treats me badly when theres other people around?
- Question: Trying to sneak out?
- Question: How to deal with this?!?
- Question: Why don't my friends want to hang out with me?
- Question: My friend tells me she's busy, but she's online for a fair amount of time and she checks my messages. Am I being clingy/paranoid?
- Question: Which one is more accurate ?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Why is eveyone busy and cancels on me?
- Question: Fun things to do with a friend?
- Question: How do i become happy at school?
- Question: She tells me I haven't changed at all?
- Question: What are the signs that someone smokes pot but hides it from some people?
- Question: How to be confident and let people in? READ DETAILS!!!?
- Question: Do (or did) your friends parents make you pay for your meals when you went out?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: HELP! What should I do?
- Question: How do I help my friend be more social?
- Question: Is it common to feel so lonely all the time when youre 15?
- Question: If I wanted to make a group with three guys or two and one female we could make jokes on people or do something fun would you guys want join?
- Question: All of my friends and family are saying that I'm a mean person but I know that s not who I really am. What should I do?
| Question: What's the difference between a friend and a mutual friend in osu? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 05:14 PM PDT Pls tell |
| Question: My friend is pressuring me to become a furry? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 05:03 PM PDT I have a friend who is a "furry". Her "fursona" is a cheetah. Out of the blue one day she texts and asks me "have you ever thought about being a furry?" And I was like "no why" then she sent me an article about furries and the furry fandom. I said "it doesn't seem like my thing, but cool!" Later that day, I was on Instagram and she drew a picture of me with a lion fursona, posted it and tagged me. I don't judge, but I was sorta embarrassed bc im not a furry ( and because I am pretty social and popular and I didn't want my friends to see it). I told her to take it down and she started getting upset and played victim. Now, she's pressuring me by asking if I want more fanart of my fursona and saying we should go to cons and conventions together, she gets upset and defensive when I text back "I'm not a furry" or "sorry it's just not my thing I see myself as human". How do I get her to stop without hurting her feelings?? Help? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:54 PM PDT I used to be really close to this girl when we were 5 until first years of middle school. Our village were small and we both have no siblings, and we were always seen together. From 2nd years onwards I didn't talk to her anymore. Now we are in high school, I doubt anyone ever know that we used to be really close. She ignored me, and avoid me when I'm approaching her. Maybe the fact that we used to be close, disgust her? I used to talk to my father about this and he said that, it's because she is a girl and I'm a boy, we can't remain best friend forever. So I think it's fine then. But to be honest, for this past few months, I really miss her. I miss our friendship. I miss our memories. I miss our time together. I miss our childhood. I'm having a nostalgia. I wanted to talk to her but it feel so awkward. I don't know how to started it. I need advice for this. |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:50 PM PDT Im a girl, 15 So me and my mom went to go visit my cousins for the week and they are really awesome and one is boy that is my age the other is a girl she is 19. So maybe 2 days into the trip my boy cousin.. ill call him Max? Asked me if I wanted to play Call of Duty with him cause I was bored and on my phone so we hung out for a while in his room blah,blah,blah then he ask me if its ok with me to bring over a friend I knew. Honestly I love my cousin and I knew this was his bestfriend and I didnt want to stop him from bringing his friend over while I was here so I said yes. His friend makes me really uncomfortable.. He always stares at me (note: I go over to my cousins often during summer and he usually comes over) and they sometimes he tries to grab my arm and whenever my cousin leaves the room I follow because I dont feel 'ok' around him. So 20 mins later max's friend arrives and we sit down in the room to play and then max says he has to go walk the dog and gives the controller to his friend and we sit in silence for a bit, then max's locks the door and I get really nervous and then he grabs my wrist and starts kissing me i was gonna scream but he put his tongue in my mouth? (Ive only kissed 3 people but it was never like that) He didnt touch me 'down there' but he did feel my boobs and didnt stop until he heard the front door then he threatned to come over and hurt me if I told anyone. Im honestly really anxious, I cried all not what do I dont know how to react?! |
| Question: What doesa guy hugging you mean? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:41 PM PDT We're both counselors at the same camp, and we're two of the only new ones. He and I just got to be friends. Today, we were cleaning and we saw this really annoying parent and he pulled me into the closet bc we both wanted to avoid him and my friend accidentally turned out the lights.We were trying to find the light switch and we heard him and my friend grabbed my arm and hugged me into him and we didn't talk for a few seconds until the guy passed and then we let go and left the closet. He didn't mention it and neither did I, but what does this mean? |
| Question: Friend might like me? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:37 PM PDT We're both in high school and we're gonna be juniors. I have a friend who im pretty casual with. She's more of a friend of one of my closer friends. But I noticed that she's started to change around me. She never really hugged me but now she hugs me at least once every day. She hangs around me when we're waiting for our teacher more often and she likes to share my seat. Once she tried to sit on my lap but I pushed her off in a joking way. She's also very cutesy around me. Does she like me? Or is she just trying to get closer as a friend? |
| Question: What do you tell people when they ask why you and your friend don't talk anymore? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:35 PM PDT e.g. "How come you two don't talk? I thought you two were really good friends..what happened?" |
| Question: Why does no one like me? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:35 PM PDT Like seriously, it's horrible. I'm going to just make a list of my friends and what they think of me to save time: Gianna: Never responds to my texts (although she has her read receipts on :/, always hangs out without me, tries to make me exactly like her Naomi: I mean, she kind of likes me, but she tells me that I get on her nerves and to stop talking to her for good and that I don't belong in this world :( Tess: by far the worst, absolutely hates me, calls me fat, useless, worthless, that i should loll myself, rude, the list goes on and on Jill: everything is my fault, that she could easily live without me, I'm worthless, basically the same as Tess Natalie: well, she's kind of an exception. We're becoming closer, but she still things I'm annoying and should "move to another country" Morgan: never invites me to anything, has never once started a conversation with me herself, told me she hates me That's it. Can you please help? What am I doing wrong? Should I consider moving? (oh, and about the kill myself thing, don't worry, I won't do that no matter how bad things get) |
| Question: I can't make eye contact. Can anyone relate? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:32 PM PDT When I was younger I used to have no trouble making eye contact, but then in Grade 5 I started to get acne. It didn't bother me until people started to make fun of me for it. All of my other friends didn't get it that early. I was once sitting with a friend andwe were talking about weird baby names, and then she looked at my face and said " what if you called a baby ZIT?" and I kinda just hid my face and walked away. It got really bad in grade 7 and I got bullied a lot about it. One boy even drew a picture of me on a whiteboard and it was covered in marks and pimples. They all laughed. After that I started wearing hats to cover my forehead, and purposely put my hair in front of my face, I never could make eye contact anymore. I am now in grade 11, and it isn't very bad anymore. Now is the time that my friends are getting acne so it isn't as big of a deal for anyone. But now I wear a lot of makeup and am very precise and making sure that no blemishes show. Like I feel like I would die if someone saw that I have imperfections on my face. I still can't make eye contact with anyone, and I am constantly looking down. I try very hard, but I feel like they are going to see my flaws, or they are going to judge how much makeup I wear. I went swimming with my boyfriend once and felt very uncomfortable because he was close up looking at me with no make up. I am nore comfortable around him but I can't even look at my family. Can anyone relate to this? |
| Question: How to let people in? READ DETAILS!!!? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:31 PM PDT In the past few years I lost my dad and siblings in a bad divorce, now they are gone. I made some good friends, who all turned out to be backstabbers (even my"bff" who I have been "bffs" with for about five years). So now I have like no family and no friends. And to top it all off, I almosted dated a guy who I have know forever, but then he assaulted me (touch my in places he shouldn't have, sending nudes to my phone, pulling my pants off so he could have "fun with me"). All of those people I was once so close with broke my heart. I have like less than five friends now, and I don't dare let any of them get too close. I really like a guy, but I'm afraid he will hurt me like the last guy I was close with. I want to trust people and let them in but I am scared and I don't know how to let people in without getting in too deep and having them all break my heart. What do I do?? |
| Question: Halp may I need yer halp!? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:30 PM PDT I may be completting an Ape Pee Bilogee kwiz tomoroh and I ned to noe whata ape pee biologee is. TANK YEW |
| Question: How to deal with this girl who wants to be my friend? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:26 PM PDT I m a female 14-year old and last Monday, I attended this summer program that lasts almost the entire summer vacation. I m new there and know no one, basically. I ended up being in the same group with some guys and this 9-year old girl, who is 5 years younger than me. We were the only girls there so, naturally, we hung out for the first day of the program. However, lately, I ve been befriending more people in the program and they re all at least my age. I didn t want to hang out with the girl anymore but she persisted on being my friend. Despite all the age-separated drills we had, she couldn t make a single friend with people her age, exclaiming that I was the only friend she had. She was getting more and more annoying. She kept asking me to be her partner in games (though I turned her down several times), even asking if I was sure . She also follows me around often and when I ask her why, she replies saying that she s bored. I m getting aggravated now because I want to hang out with the friends I now have. I know I sound mean, but seriously. How do I get her off me? |
| Question: My whole friend group is hanging out without me!? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:23 PM PDT So at first i asked if we were still invited to my one friends pool and she said she couldnt have us over anymore but than all of my friends r now there and they didnt even tell me Do they not like me anymore? |
| Question: Should I cut contact with my family? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:22 PM PDT This past week my family gathered in Texas for a small reunion. The kids were swimming in a muddy pool and after 5 other people said something about it I agreed and they attacked me saying "You used to swim in dirty pools and lakes too when you were little don't act brand new Boogie" or "you're forgetting where you came from Hilary Banks" This went on ALL week and it was not funny after the 100th time. everytime I walked past or said anything it turned into me thinking I'm better than everyone. They were even making my guest uncomfortable because of what they kept saying. The final straw came when I put cream cheese on my bagel and that turned into a big argument because my mom said I'm soo boogie for doing that. So I flipped out on everyone and now they're acting like they didn't deserve it. I'm so agitated with them all! They act like because I went to a university and moved away from home that I'm too good for them. I spent most of the reunion in my car! And I left without saying goodbye to anyone. No one cares about anything concerning me. Everything I say or do is a big joke or me "acting white" HOW?! IDK! I feel like I have to dumb myself down to hangout with them to avoid being called "boogie" I just want to cut everyone off. I'd be much happier and I doubt they would even notice. |
| Question: Would it be weird to message someone you haven't talked to in years? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:21 PM PDT I was going through some old Facebook posts and came across this Coach/Teacher I met at camp and helped me a lot that day. She posted on my page AWHILE ago and I messaged her. Is that weird? |
| Question: Something strange happened can you help me out? What should i do? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:15 PM PDT So I was on IG earlier today & i was just browsing etc, didn't post any pictures today, anyway i went to work & before I went to work, I was at about 1.7K followers & now I'm at 2.1K followers, the weird thing is there are NO new followers showing up on the notifications page & I can't find a reasonable explanation for this, I don't want people to think I'm fake, i work hard to get my followers & am happy with REAL followers, what should I do..I'm confused! advice would be greatly appreciated! :) I would prefer having 1.7K than 2.1K in about 5hrs, these followers just appear in the follower count nowhere else, they didn't do any activity on my channel either.., I honestly don't know what's going on.. |
| Question: Boyfriend is too busy for me ?.. I have nobody there for me? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 04:12 PM PDT I can't take this anymore hes always busy with sports..and sometimes friends. I don't have anybody to even talk to anymore I just sit a lot in my room all day being unhappy. I can't even talk to my parents about anything because they always back me down and make me feel worse. Its killing me and I just dont know what to do anymore... |
| Question: Do I stop being friends with her? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:51 PM PDT I'm 14 and I've known one of my best friends 13 years. She's mean and brags about how smart she is. Whenever I try and say my accomplishments she just ignores me. She's overly dramatic and doesn't have many friends as where I have plenty to fall back on. I still love her but I don't enjoy being in her presence that much. I'm a year older than her and she treats me like a child and thinks I'm stupid while my GPA is a lot higher than hers. We get along sometimes and we are practically like sisters but I think I'm done with her she's just rude but then she can be sweet. I'm not sure what to do please help! Oh and we also used to go to the same school now we go to different schools that are rivals. She accuses our school of wanting to be like theirs and all that crap even though the school is the worst in the state. Ugh I'm done ranting now, I need help! |
| Question: Should I apologize to my friends dad? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:47 PM PDT I need some advice. So last week my friend and I decided to go to a cliff thing that you can see my entire town from. We went up there to watch the left over fireworks since it was July 5th. His dad already thought we were gonna do something wrong since it was July 5th. While we were there my friend brought a bag of pop corn and wanted to cook it so he thought it would be funny to make a fire then cook it. Stupid I know but there weren't very many more fire works going on at this point, he also carries a lighter with him because he likes to do stuff like this. So we did and we smelt like smoke really bad. So before we walked into my house we sprayed a ton of cologne on. Then his dad came to get him. Then shortly after I got a text from him and it said his dad thought we were smoking cigarettes and that he was not allowed to ever see me again. My friend used a stupid excuse because he didn't want to get in trouble for the fire. I think his dad thought we were smoking because I used to smoke from 7th grade all the way till the end of 9th grade. But I quit when my grandma died of lung cancer from smoking. What do I do? If I apologize to him then he will then think we were smoking but if I don't then I look like a douche. Also his dad is the kind of guy that once he believes something happened nothing will change his mind, so if I tell him we were lighting fires then he will think that I am lying to him. We are both 15 btw. |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:43 PM PDT Ok so I have a group of really close friends and two of the friends got in a fight. Their fight has been separating us well basically just the other girl. So it's me and my 4 other close friends and then her by herself. I'm really close with her but the girl she got in a fight with is excluding her. What do I do? |
| Question: Is it gay to invite a friend over to your bedroom? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:34 PM PDT So I rent a room at my mother's house.. I'm usually always in my room, and I get bored. Is it gay to bring a friend over to chill? I never done it before.. Should I bring a girl over instead? I don't know.. I'm not very social. Thanks. |
| Question: I ended a friendship but I feel horrible and miss them? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:30 PM PDT I ended two friendship almost a week ago and at first I felt great. I ended it because they wasn't treating me well and it just didn't feel like a friendship. After the first 2 days I started to feel really sad and missed them greatly. Is it because I made a mistake in ending it? How can I get over this feeling it's making me miserable. |
| Question: Why is he so afraid/commitment phobic? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:27 PM PDT I haven't been the best of friends with this guy and I sometimes I did hate him because of his bad choices. He would get so jealous of me hanging out with this guy that he actually stole my phone so that I wouldn't contact him.He changed my phone background of him doing a funny face. He once kissed me and his friend took a picture(which was creepy) he used the picture to blackmail me and made it his background on his phone.I found it adorable and I quite romantic. He annoyed me so much once that I stopped talking to him. He brought me my favorite pizza and in the inside of the box he wrote 'sorry'. Last night, we were hanging out ans I decided to tell him that I like him.He looked at me with no expression and was speechless. I got embarrassed and went home. His best friend even talked me he likes me.Why does he not have the guts to say anything even if it was a rejection. |
| Question: I am angry because we are not friends anymore.? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:27 PM PDT So my ex broke up with me and she would tell me that just because she broke up with me doesn t mean we can t be friends and I m fine with it and she would tell me she would never leave my life and well yesterday she made it clear that she doesn t want to be friends she wants to get away as far away from me and yeah and I am angry because she lied about never leaving my life even as a friend but she did and yeah just don t know how to stop being angry at this. She said she was even considering getting back with me but no everything just collapsed. |
| Question: What to do if you re not in the mood for family visits? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:21 PM PDT Family is visiting my home uninvited for two weeks.. I live alone, and they needed a place to crash.. There will be a couple of kids and 4 adults. I m not in the mood for people right now because I m a loner and a depress.. How do I tell them to stay at a hotel? For two weeks, a hotel is going to cost them atleast $1500.. I live a pretty solitary life, and I don t want to fake a smile when people come and visit and stuff... What should I do? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:20 PM PDT So recently my bestfriend got mad because i decided to hang out with my boyfriend instead of her. I know it was my mistake, and i should of told her, but i have reasons as to why i hung out with him instead. She started calling me "fake" and all this other stuff behind my back. I'm obviously acting like the bigger personand not saying anything back,but idk what to do. I apologized already and told her to hear me out on this one. Any advice? |
| Question: How to go on vacation with friends who don't know eachother well? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:15 PM PDT My friends and I want to go to Cedar Point in a few weeks, but my friends aren't friends with eachother. I was invited to go with one of them, but I don't have enough money to go a second time with the other friend. I really want to go with both of them, but I know the friend who invited me would never want to go with my other friend at the same time. Is there anyway to ask her about it that might change her mind? My other friend could just meet us there or something. It's not like she has to stay in our hotel room. I wanted to meet my other friend at Cedar Point because its always fun with more people. Plus, the friend who invited me doesn't like a lot of rides so it would be kinda boring.. (s/n: They don't hate eachother. They're just not close friends. The one who invited me isn't really a sociable person, so that's why she doesn't like my other friend I guess, but my other friend is willing to talk to her so I feel like it would be okay to have both of them with me.) Hopefully this made sense. It's hard to explain. Thanks to anyone who has suggestions!! ~ My other friend would probably bring her boyfriend with her too. |
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| Question: IS SHE ACTUALLY TOOO BUSY TO TALK TO ME OR AM I JUS AT THE BOTTOM OF HER LIST? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 03:05 PM PDT Hi, so i i've been friends with one of my friends since we were 12 and im 20 now, nd i moved to tenn when i was 14 then when i was like 17 my friend moved here but she doesn't live by me nd i kinda thought she always acted kind of funny when she moved here cuz she came over my house twice, every since she moved here so we haven't really been talking nd she jus had a baby last year nd like a month ago she texted me on Facebook and asked for my number nd i gave it to her nd its been a month in a half n she still hasn't texted me is she that busy or am i jus at the bottom of her list..???? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:59 PM PDT Hi I'm 15 and my close friend of 2 years has invited me to her birthday party. Most of our close friends are going to be there and probably a few others. It's a pool party and I'm VERY nervous. First off my mom bought me a bikini and I hate tgem. It's not necessarily because I'm uncomfortable with my body I just don't like showing that much skin. Also I have EXTREMELY curly hair and I'm Hispanic but I have kinky hair like very tight dry African type hair. I always straighten it out of preference and none of them know its curly but I don't want to get it wet. It takes forever to straighten it and I just don't know what to do plus I can't swim. I want to swim on the shallow end or just stay on the edge and keep my hair above water but I know my friends will try to drag me out.PLEASE help I'm desperate! |
| Question: This girl is making me feel bad? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:54 PM PDT We haven't met in a couple of months, since she moved schools. But hell... Now we're probably going to meet in one week. I don't want to. I know there're bigger things to worry about, thank you very much. Why don't I like her? I'll explain it shortly: I hung out with this girl, since she was lonely, shortly. I give her respect, but she doesn't give it back to me. Anytime she is upset she takes it out on me, but is nice to everyone else. I may try to say anything to her which she doesn't agree about, she gets mad most the time (but sometimes she doesn't). I'm scared to even bring upp stuff 'cause I don't like fighting with her. If I do say something, we end up getting into a fight that lasts for months. It never gets resolved 'cause she walks away from me. It's like I can't do anything right in her eyes. Please, does anyone have advice? |
| Question: What should I do about the father of a friend who says I'm "retarded"? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:45 PM PDT I'm at university and a few times my friend told me she told her dad of something I did and she said I was retarded. I ran into them recently and her father shook my hand. It was the first time we met. I didn't say anything just shook his hand. Should I have said "I won't shake the hand of the man who says I'm retarded" or something similar or just shake his hand? He said I was retarded (not she), then she told me. |
| Question: Why does my friend only like to talk to me on certain days? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:43 PM PDT I really like talking to one of my friends. he's an online buddy and we text and sometimes voice chat on Skype. but other days he seems not interested in talking to me like he's mad at me or doesn't like me… I don't wanna ask him because i don't want him to think i'm insecure with the friendship that will make things worse |
| Question: My friend can't take a hint? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:40 PM PDT I love my friend, there's no doubt about that. However, this summer I just want to chill by myself at home and do nothing. My friend will text me and try to make plans, but I'd always come up with an excuse to not hang out. I kind of felt cornered into hanging out this saturday, and I'm not happy about that. I don't know how many times a person can so no to hanging out, before you give up. |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:24 PM PDT My best friend makes me feel like she cares but she doesnt. She never texts me anymore unless I do or whenever I try and tell her how much she means to me and how much I love her she says I love you too. I don't expect huge replies back because I do it because I want too but like setimes I would. Shell like ignore me sometimes in school and then one day not. I go home and cry and think I'm just not worth it anymore. Like I'm tired of being treated this way. Everyone else I am fine with, I have fun, I am a very outgoing, bubbly person but lately I've been feeling I'm slowly dying inside. I'm tired of my heart breaking, I'm tired of me crying I have no tears left. My best friends cares but its also she cares about boys more and I just don't know what to do anymore. I hate not talking to her but if its the only way for her to notice me. She thinks there's not a problem I mean there's not when its just us two but like with a group its weird its either good or bad. It never ever used to be like this. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm just so done because I was always smiling and happy not caring about what people thought of me and I have self confidence still but she just changed and not for the better. |
| Question: I'm starting to dislike my friend, what can I do? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:17 PM PDT i'm starting to get this feeling my friend's trying to be better than me. in so many other aspects she is but we're in a sport together and whenever we partner up she's always trying to fix what i'm doing despite the fact i'm doing it right. i'm more advanced and been there longer than she has, yet she acts like she's number one in the class. even when we hang out she tries analyze me and act like she knows how i'm feeling. i have a unstable family who she acts like she knows better than i do and why they're the way they are. she even tries to tell me how to improve my social skills and learning about history is going to help me make friends!! nothing i tell her, even if it's how i feel, she doesn't care, she'll start telling me her opinion. it's just getting so annoying. i want her to back off. |
| Question: What would you expect if you were the guy in this situation? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:07 PM PDT My guy friend walked me downstairs because he lives in an upstairs condo, plus I was about to leave. I went to go out, but ended up locking the door instead. He asked me what I was doing and I told him that I wanted to spend the night with him. He looked at me said that was not what I wanted to do and I just said well then prove to me that's what I want then. He put his hand on the door and reached down with the other hand, lifted my chin, and said I like a girl that takes a little action. We kissed, then we walked back upstairs, laid on the couch next to one another, with our fingers in between each other's with my head on his chest. We were talking and then he got up and walked upstairs to his bedroom. He came back with a blanket and we cuddled. Then, he kissed each one of my fingers and then we kissed again. We fell asleep on the couch together and when I woke up I was the only one. I happened to glance over and he was in the kitchen, making pancakes. I walked up behind him and put my arms around him, then he turned, and kissed the side of my head saying Good morning beautiful. After breakfast, he had to take a shower. He was upstairs and I had to go to the bathroom, but the only bathroom in his condo was where he was at. Seeing his body outline... I said I can definitely hold it long enough to have him do what he's got to do, then he asked me if I wanted to join him in the shower. I said Nope that I was good, then he stepped out and I instantly turned my head and he grabs the towel and says Alright you can peak now. He walked over, we kissed again, and then he got dressed. I was sitting on his bed and he could tell something was up. I told I love it when you kiss me the way you do, but I don't know if the feelings are real or my mind... is playing tricks on me. He smiles and says Its not playing tricks on you. I love you and I love the way you kiss me and not afraid to be with me physically without jumping on top of me and ripping my clothes off like a crazy chick would. I can tell that you respect me but you also respect yourself also. After he said what he had to tell me, we went grocery shopping together and spent the day together, which felt really great to be with him that long of a period. |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:02 PM PDT So i decided to dye all my hair red and my friend convinced everybody that my hair looked ugly and now she dyed hers exactly the way i did. What should i do? |
| Question: Can my neighbor call cops on someone that vaccums at 2:30am? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 02:01 PM PDT I live in a condo and my mom says her friend in the next unit over vaccums at 2am to 2:30am, and the weird thing is they are home during the day. My mom says her friend will bang on wall when her neighbor starts cleaning to let her know she is angry and cant sleep, but the neighbor upstairs bangs a broom right back. Now she is afraid to confront the neighbor. It is going to be discussedd at the next condo board meeting by my mom on what to do since she is a member. I dont kno why yahoo answers wont let me choose a different category |
| Question: My friend acts really strange. Any advice? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:54 PM PDT Her name is Kassidy and we re best friends, we talk a lot and have NOTHING that goes on between us. Back when school was in session, we be like the typical best friends. Then, one day in the morning, she says that "we can t talk". I asked why and she just walked away. Later before 6th hour, she started talking to me again like nothing really happened. Then, this happened more later on where she was "mad" at me all day. The next day, she wasn t. We still talk since it s summer vacation, but one day she texted me : "Why are you talking to me? We re not friends." I know for a fact that we NEVER had any fights or have something going on in our friendship. That s a pure, true, FACT. But really, is she someone not to be friends with? She acts like she has some memory issue, but that s highly unlikely. Note : I literally have no other friends because of my anxiety in public (social anxiety). |
| Question: My friend treats me badly when theres other people around? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:52 PM PDT Were both sixteen year old guys and when its just me and him together he's a good friend that i can talk to. But when we hang out with other people he becomes a jerk. Sometimes he'll make fun of me because I'm shorter than most people and i get that people are going to tease me sometimes but when he does it's excessive. Its almost like he's trying to make me feel bad intentionally. Like one time we were at an amusement park and there were three of us. Obviously no one wanted to sit by themselves on the roller coaster but since there were three of us one person would have to. They nominated me to be that third person, I suggested we all take turns but they said that it was finale. I told them that id rather just go home and they told me not to be a *****. afterwards the other guy left and my friend started treating me normally again. I don't know what to do because most of the time he's a great friend but in situations like this he's a complete jerk. I wouldn't want to ruin a friendship because I'm too sensitive but i also don't want to have a friend that treats me lie crap. |
| Question: Trying to sneak out? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:52 PM PDT So I'm trying to go to my girlfriends house without having my parents know. What are some good reasons for me to leave the house? My mom is kinda the over protective type and doesn't really trust me. For example, I told her I was going to hangout with a bunch of my guy friends at one of their houses. Apparently she didn't believe I was actually there so she actually called my friends' parents to make sure I was there. I mean cmon really? Anyways I'm not trying to get in trouble in just trying to spend a couple hours with my gf without my parents knowing. I do not want them to know because her parents will not be home and my mom wouldn't like it if I hung out with her while no one was home and I'd probably get in trouble. So what can I do to get them to believe me |
| Question: How to deal with this?!? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:44 PM PDT I recently had to move home after loosing my job. I have friends who are BAD influences on me & are mean/treat me like dirt. I used to abuse alcohol but Ive been clean for 6 years since I stopped living at home. I know being around them I'll be tempted into my old ways. I'm in a small town closest city is 1 1/2 hours away, not many jobs here. I'm becoming drpressed. No real ways to meet people. Any suggestions? I don't have enough to move out Even my sponsor from AA says this is a dangerous situation for me to be in living here |
| Question: Why don't my friends want to hang out with me? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:42 PM PDT It summer time! When ever I text my friends they never respond, I feel like I'm being annoying if I ask them more than once or twice! I just wanna hang out with them over the summer, all I do over summer is ride my bike, watch tv, and use the internet! Even my mom has noticed that I have no friends to hang out with and tried to make be friends with some girls from my church! Help! |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:41 PM PDT Basically this really good friend of mine says that she's super busy and all, and, you know, I took it, but now I'm starting to be worried. I can see that she checks her messages and that she's online for at least a few hours a day. She occasionally even leaves a one liner in a group chat I'm also in, but she doesn't text me back. I'm afraid that I messed something up and I don't even know what it is. What should I do about it? Thanks in advance... |
| Question: Which one is more accurate ? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:30 PM PDT facedoubble or look like meter ? |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:23 PM PDT So when I'm at home I CAN get really upset for no reason. When I'm at school everything's better- my friends make me feel happy again. However I only have one week left of school before we break up for seven weeks. I'm worried that I'm going to break down again and have no one to go to (most of the time I need to see them in person for it to work). My friends all live pretty far away- not in places that I can easily go to- or are going on holiday. They also don't know about these low points I can get. What should I do in the holidays? How can I feel better if I get another one without school a few days away? |
| Question: Why is eveyone busy and cancels on me? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:21 PM PDT Is it possible that they really don't want to be friends with me. I don't think that the annoying type or meaning I get shy and quiet every now and then,but I don't understand. What is it to be a go to type of person. in the second sentance I meant," I dont' think I'm the annoying type." |
| Question: Fun things to do with a friend? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:15 PM PDT 13 and 14 year old girls. My friend is sleeping over and were staying in my backyard all night. We want to stay up all night and we are challenging ourselves to stay off our phone after 10pm and not get back on them untill morning, meaning we need fun things to do to distract us. Any ideas? |
| Question: How do i become happy at school? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:12 PM PDT i want to move school to try and make new friends, but i also dont want to because i have a couple of really good teachers here. also i live really close by which means i can go home at lunch which i like because im very uncomfortable being in the school canteen (not to mention the food is gross) but im unhappy here because i just feel like a giant outcast. i feel like i dont belong anywhere really. but school is awful because everyone else i see has people. a lot of people. i have three, and they're not true friends. half of the people in my year annoy me, and the other half i just dont know how to be friends with. ive tried! but i cant. my school seems to have zero after school activities and stuff like that. the only thing i know that people go to is a hip hop club, a homework club, and an anime club, but i dont like any of those things. i tried to go to a new netball club a while ago but apart from me there was only one other person. and that was my friend that i forced to go with me. im really unhappy here but i have another 3 years left. maybe two, depending on what highers i want. |
| Question: She tells me I haven't changed at all? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:11 PM PDT I'm a girl in my younger teenager years and I have two friends that have said I haven't changed at all. First off was at a friend's house - but she said she meant I was still acting like myself, like me, which I took as a compliment instead. The next time was with another friend I don't really like - she made that statement while we were on our way to the bus. I asked her what she meant, and she said I haven't changed since I was six because of this and that. I answered with a simple "you haven't really changed much, yourself" and THEN she starts rambling on about how much she's changed, what a new person she is. Then - if she has changed that much, does that mean I haven't changed since I was six? I'm fourteen now. |
| Question: What are the signs that someone smokes pot but hides it from some people? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 01:05 PM PDT I ask be use I have a friend who I think smokes pot once in a while but is not honest with me about it. I ask because typo above |
| Question: How to be confident and let people in? READ DETAILS!!!? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:57 PM PDT In the past few years I lost my dad and siblings in a bad divorce, now they are gone. I made some good friends, who all turned out to be backstabbers (even my"bff" who I have been "bffs" with for about five years). So now I have like no family and no friends. And to top it all off, I almosted dated a guy who I have know forever, but then he assaulted me (touch my in places he shouldn't have, sending nudes to my phone, pulling my pants off so he could have "fun with me"). All of those people I was once so close with broke my heart. I have like less than five friends now, and I don't dare let any of them get too close. I really like a guy, but I'm afraid he will hurt me like the last guy I was close with. I want to trust people and let them in but I am scared and I don't know how to let people in without getting in too deep and having them all break my heart. What do I do?? |
| Question: Do (or did) your friends parents make you pay for your meals when you went out? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT Two of my friend s parents will make me pay for my food if we go out to eat, either if its somewhere like McDonalds or somewhere thats a sit-down place. My family and I always found this a bit rude, I mean, it s not like they re financially struggling or anything, they ll just say when we pull into McDonalds "Do you have money?". My mom always pays for my friend s food no matter where we go, and a lot of my other friends parents do too. Do you think this is rude? I dont mind paying for it myself, it just seems unfair that my mom buys meals and their moms don t. |
| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:52 PM PDT My 16th birthday is coming up next Tuesday and I wanna have an all out party (With my friends ONLY)but should I do about the adults(my dad's friends and my friends' parents) being bored to death. What entertainment should I provide for them. P.S. please do not include expensive options |
| Question: HELP! What should I do? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:49 PM PDT My sister is very mean and puts me down all the time. I'm a dancer so she's always telling me that I'm not as good as some people from our team and stuff like that. It really bothers me to an extent to where I want to hit her and scream at her. She somehow has my best friend of 4 years on her side. Today she even told me that she didn't want to be my friend and that she thinks I'm the meanest person she's ever met. All I want to do is cry and cry and cry. I try to get her to talk to me about it but I feel like it just keeps happening over and over again. I don't want my sister to see me cry so she thinks she has power. It bugs me because everyone thinks she's great but I'm the only one who knows her true colors. |
| Question: How do I help my friend be more social? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:46 PM PDT I have a friend named Jeane and I know her through a summer activity camp, and we play outdoor sports and games. Jeane, instead of participating, only has me and a smaller kid for a friend and spends the time drawing when we aren't playing a mandatory game... She says because no one accepts her and she's an outcast and she's no good at activities. I'm a newbie at the camp and I'm becoming more and more familiar with the people there even tho I'm a nerdy notsosporty girl myself, but she overall doesn't even try to do anything anymore. I want her to get out there and have fun with me instead of being all lonely, advice? |
| Question: Is it common to feel so lonely all the time when youre 15? Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:42 PM PDT i only have three friends. i mean i thought i had 4 but we havent met up in a year and when i tried to make plans she cancelled last minute and said shed keep in touch but she hasnt said anything else and im tired of being the one to always reach out. im always the one to message her first. ive been on summer holidays for three weeks now and ive only seen my friends once. i feel like im the outsider of the group, and i feel like my best friend of ten years is drifting away from me and keeping a lot of secrets. i thought best friends were meant to tell each other everything? i feel so distant from her and i miss her but any time i try and hang out with her she says no, or she says "ill get back to you" and never does. i thought that teenagers were supposed to have a bunch of friends and go out all the time and have sleepovers and ****. but ever since i started secondary school age 12, i've just not been happy. i lost a lot of friends that went to different schools. i have no motivation to do things a lot of the time. i just hate this loneliness so much and i dont understand why my friends dont seem to want to talk to me/see me. i try to tell myself that it'll get better but i dont see how. i just feel so sad, i dont want this to last forever. i feel so pathetic for having no friends and i feel ashamed to admit to anyone irl that i feel so horribly lonely. its different from being alone. |
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| Posted: 10 Jul 2015 12:35 PM PDT My sister stole my best friend from me and manipulated her to believe that I'm really mean. My sister brings the absulote worst in me and makes me so angry. |
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