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| Question: My so called friends are talking behind my back, advise? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:06 PM PDT These friends and I sit together at lunch and I have almost very class together. I recently was informed that these friends would say very nasty and hurtful things about me when eve I go to get in line and even when I am at the table. I also recently found out that when I became vegetarian that that same friend went on the anonymous app yuk yak and again said really nasty things. The two friends that told me where also there when she talked about me and they just now told me. I have been with these guys for ever and I would do anything for hem, I get them presents for their birthday, and help them on hw, I even did a project for them. I have fallen into a sort of depression state and I do not want to tell anyone. I have no other friends, I feel so alone. I don t have this app so I don t know what she has said, but by what they say its bad. I never did anything to her, she is always the one causing trouble. I am told by a lot of people that I am naturally compassionate, over trusting and naïve, and that s why I keep going back to them because I always see the good and ignore the bad. I am not in a good place right now. If anyone has any advise, it would be very nice. Thank you. |
| Question: Making new friends starting college in August? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:01 PM PDT I'm starting college in August and my friend of like almost 10 years just moved like 45 minutes away and I don't get to see her much. Making new friends for me is kind of hard because I only really had friends in high school and some of them weren't really my friends, they just hung out with the people I was friends with. So I am going to college for my basics then either going to a university or somewhere where I can go for something in pediatrics. I don't know how to let people get to know me because I feel that I am too weird and to random or they won't like me because I am not really an outgoing person. I just need some advice or support that would be great thank you! |
| Question: How to block someone on snapchat who isnt your friend anymore? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:58 PM PDT I use to have someone as a friend on snapchat but I deleted them. I have my snapchat story set on public so he can still see it but I dont want him too. He doesn't show up on "added me" anymore so I cant block him from there I dont want to have to add him to block him. Is there any way I can get him to not see it without having to add him again & block him or without having to change the settings for my snapchat story? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:55 PM PDT My past friend Angela was uncomfortable with me giving her advice or whatever. And my sister didn't "feel like it" or ahatever to talk about why she 'got in' trouble at the store. |
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| Question: Is this the rudest thing ever or what? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:50 PM PDT My friend never talks to me. I'll be talking to her about a controversial topic, or the news, or something important and before she would simply ignore me. She said it was because she "never knows what to say." So instead I asked her as a joke, to say potato or something to acknowledge she reads what I write. Well she really does. And this was a recent text. Her: Well I never know how to say anything so I have to think about it first Me: Well no you never have to think before you say anything BECAUSE YOU NEVER SAY ANYTHING. As I recall. Me: "You can't avoid this forever." You: "I can avoid it for now." Her: Well I repeat; I can avoid it for now. So all she does is ignore what I say. And finds it perfectly fine.... |
| Question: Advice????? My friends mad at me.......? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:48 PM PDT Ok so I'll give you some background info: I have two best friends and they do not like each other much. I was on vacation for about a week and I told Anna* we would hang out when I got back. Well Anna just happens to live 30 minutes away and my mom's a workaholic so it doesn't always work out. My other bestfriend on the other hand lives 7 minutes away, so I go over there all the time. So I hung out with her a lot cuz my mom was working a lot. We posted a don't judg me challenge and Anna got upset. I started to suspect it but wasn't sure. Now I am almost positive. I texted her and invited her over but she seemed kinda mad. Then I saw she posted something and it wasn't mean at all it just hit me in the wrong spot and I knew she was upset. I know I have no right being upset because it's my fault but I don't like when people are upset, especially when it's my fault and friend. Please give me some advice, I'm not sure what I should do........ |
| Question: My parents are embarrassed and disappointed - Ranting ahead.? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:34 PM PDT Earlier today my mother told me I was embarrassing. But this isn't the first I'm hearing this from her. Ever since I can remember, I've been the 'shy kid'. To this day, I have 3 good friends, but we haven't hung out much this summer. For one, one of my friends is in summer school while the other is busy with family problems. Second, my other friend I'm visiting in a couple of days since she lives down the coast. The only contact I've made with them is a couple of sleepovers and FaceTiming with some texts in between. My parents are disappointed that I've spent since late June until now, a few days from August, in my bedroom on my laptop. I recently turned 15 and plan to join the writing career when I'm older, so naturally I spend most of my time typing with YouTube and Tumblr on the side. I'm not a lazy person, but more of a homebody. I enjoy nature and running around in the woods near my house, but the weather has been so damn unbearable, I've barely left the house. My parents want me to play sports, but I've told them countless times that I'm plainly not interested in competitive activities like that. I apologize, this rant has been all over the place. I'm seeking guidance, thank you (*^.^). |
| Question: Girls, what should I do about abusive guy?!!? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:34 PM PDT I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater (at least 3 times!) and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over. |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:33 PM PDT Okay, so I'm almost 19 and I only have one friend. She lives with her boyfriend in her house and they have a kid together. I've been screwed over by a lot of people, but my parents cannot stand my friend. My friend always wants me to stay over with her in the same bed as her and her boyfriend. And yeah, it's weird and "morally wrong" but I have to get away from my parents. One time I was sleeping and my parents were worried about me and they were texting me but I was sleeping and didn't answer. My dad came all the way out to the house and got me and he told me that I'm not allowed to stay the night over there anymore because it is "filthy" and "disgusting" and I sleep in the same bed with her boyfriend and he can rape me. He almost wants to tell me that I can't hang out with her anymore. Mom said if I disobey them, they'll take away my car and phone and will stop paying for my college and she'll drive me around everywhere. I understand what they're saying. I understand that bad things can happen, but they're so overprotective to the point where I almost want to run away or worse. Mom told me she would rather me have sex and get pregnant than to be friends with this girl because of the "environment" they live in. I live in the dorm during the school year. I don't have to go home every weekend, but I did because I wanted to. I don't want to now. How can I stop them from having so much control over everything I do? I'm a virgin, but I kinda want to do what my mom said. Help? |
| Question: My friend wants to have all the hangouts at her house? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:30 PM PDT Ok so every time my friend wants to hang out or have a sleepover she wants to do it at her house. Sometimes I don't feel really, what's the word, comftorable in her house. I don't wanna be rude though. She is kind of like controlling but not a lot. Like just now she texted me and my other friend if we wanna sleep over her house. Why does it always have to be her house? What jould I say without being rude? Thx |
| Question: Sleepover ideas for girls? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:29 PM PDT Im having a sleepover with my friend and we need some ideas for our sleepover. We are both girls and we are 15. Help?? :) |
| Question: I met this weird little girl that won't get out of my head? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:25 PM PDT I've seen this weird girl before with one of my friends. She came up to my friend and asked "What are you doing here?". My friend said we're here to play. Later the girl blew a kiss to my friend. Anyway today I went to the same park with 2 other friends. She was there all alone on the swing, at 6:30pm. She started talking to us and asked us "Do you know me?". We said no we don't. She said something else but my friend said we couldn't hear her, so the girl came up to us and started asking weird questions like "Is heck a bad word? What the heck!". We said no and then she said "what the fridge" and "what the shoe" really strangely. My friend pointed out her forever 21 necklace thing like what the employees wear. My friend asked where she got it, she said it's her sister's. According to her, she was 8 and her sister was 9 and worked at forever 21. We asked where her parents were, she said they're home. She said these things indirectly and strangely, it was hard to respond. We left quickly saying we had to go, she followed a bit then said bye. The last time at the park there were other kids and earlier in the day but she wasn't hanging out with any of them. Like I've never met a kid like this. And I feel like she might have trouble making friends since she's always alone and strange. I feel bad cuz she probably wanted to talk to someone. Can someone please explain if this is normal? Or wheather I should do anything? Should an 8 year old be alone in the park in the evening? I'm 15 |
| Question: Is my mom scared that I'm getting older? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:14 PM PDT I'm 15 and I don't have friends really I do at school but it's summer and I hadn't hung out with friends at all but the other day one of my old really good friends asked me to hang out I said yea it was like 9 pm I told my mom I was going and she said where and tired to say it's to late I told her I'm 15 the she let me go the last night at 10 pm he asked if I wanted to hang out I told my mom I was going she said no it's to late I had to be home at 10:30 the other time and I even came home before that but when I asked her if I could go when it was 10pm I said why can't I go she yelled at me it to late and he heard her he said wow I'm out till 1 every night he's 14 younger then me why do I have to be home so early in going to be 18 in in 3 years why wouldn't she let me going is she scared I'm growing up I finally got a friend now she messed it because I ask him if he wanted to hang out he said he has stuff to do I asked what about later he said he has practice I asked if he wanted to chill tomorrow he said he doesn't know i think he just say that because he doesn't want to chill I finally get a friend and she ruins it I lost so many friends because of her and my step dad I had a lot of friends but no wants to come over or hang out because they don't let me do thing it's not like I do drugs or drink alcohol I don't get into trouble really well maybe I just don't get caught lol but she ruins everything I finally got a friend and she messed it up |
| Question: What do I do? Do I call the Cops? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:12 PM PDT Okay so I was playing soccer one day and i embarrassed this kid and he got mad because everyone was laughing and he came at me and i defended myself and i beat him up. that same day he pushed me from behind when i was drinking water after the game and said he was going to kill me. no one took it serious until one day him and his 2 other friends(one was his step-brother) chased me and my friend Alex with their bikes. he apparently had a gun or an air gun according to the people that were playing at the park that day i got chased. yesterday i went back to that same park and he kept threatening to call some guys with shotguns to come shoot me if i didnt fight him. he also fought one of my other friends because he ran at me and my friend got in the way trying to protect me. everyone is telling me to call the cops and they already called once and they went to his house but it didnt stop. should i call? and what do i say to the cops if i do call? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:09 PM PDT There is no active parenting plan can i pick my kid up for the day my girlfriends mom says i have to have a job but i dont think that is true just to take her to park its not like i wont bring her back to the grandmother what can i do call a sheriff please help |
| Question: What do you think of this person? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:01 PM PDT I've had conflicted feelings and I want a second opinion. We've been friends for 5 years. For 2 of those years she moved away but we kept in touch through the Internet and our phones. She moved only 30 minutes away, so I could visit, but I only saw her 2 or 3 times, only with my insistence and help of my parents who picked her up and dropped her home was this possible. I never spent time in her home, but even when she lived here and now that's she's moved I didn't and dont come over because of the same old reason "my house is messy and my mother stresses about what people will think". I don't mind most times but this bothers me sometimes because back then we could've met elsewhere outside her home and now even though she sneaks out constantly and she constantly mentions how I'm her truest friend and her mom likes a lot we still don't hang out a lot and I'm the one who pushes for us to hang out most often only to be rejected or forgotten about. I don't make her laugh the most or the hardest and we have opposite personalities in most aspects and we rarely have long unawkward conversations unless shes venting about her personal problems and I feel a lot like old baggage that she won't cut loose for some reason. She tells me she loves me and she's nice and funny and like I've said we've been friends for a long time but the fact that she thinks of me as mom figure and our relationship is strained makes me wanna cut ties before the string breaks but she wont let me. Thoughts? |
| Question: Why do I feel like this? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:58 PM PDT Hi, I am a very detailed person when writing so I ll try my best to keep this as short as possible. I used to think of myself as one of a kind, a girl that s independent and knows about lots of things. Although I knew I wasn t the best at everything, I thought of myself as the jack of all trades . I was sure that it was natural and a good thing for me to be confident. I truly enjoyed being myself. But right now, or lately, I ve been feeling rather: not special, a very common person, boring, someone with nothing to bring or interest people. This is not how I used to be before, I feel... Nothing. I feel but I just don t have the motivation or energy to be as energetic as before. I went to an anime con last week and it was paradise for me, until I realized that there were so many awesome people there that were better than me in so many ways, loved and admired by so many. And the me who wasn t really special in any way, felt left out and very... empty after that. I just don t see anything good in myself after this, the world seem so shallow and I don t look forward to anything anymore, and that looking-forward-to part, were one of the things that kept me up before. I don t know anymore, anyone? Confused. I m replaceable, not appreciated, left out sometimes and don t bring anything to my friends. When will people start noticing me? |
| Question: Is my friend going to be mad at me? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:58 PM PDT For our freshman year, My friend wants to do tennis and wants me to do it with her. But my parents told me to do golf and I also wanted to do it kinda, so I signed up for it. I never promised my Friend I would do tennis. Do you think she'll be mad?? I hope she won't be. |
| Question: How to stop giving the silent treatment? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:57 PM PDT My only freind has a best friend and she always asks her if she wants to hang out but not me, in fact this hole summer vacation we have not hung out a single time. She has hung out with her "best friend" multiple times though. I want to hang out of course but I'm too afraid to ask (don't ask why). We text all day and everyday about everything, things she doesn't even tell her best friend. I wouldn't have a problem with it if it was her best friend asking her to hang out, cus we're not friends, but the problem is that it's my friend asking her if she wants to hang out. So she asks her but not me. Two days ago she showed me screenshots of some clothes that were out of stock and said that she and her best friend were going to the mall next week to buy them there. I love that mall and she knows it. Since then I haven't responded to any of her texts that she has sent to me. She's also tagging me in posts on facebook which I also ignore. I kinda feel bad for it but I'm also so hurt and angry. How can I stop being so jealous and get over my ego? |
| Question: My friend wants me to go to her house? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:55 PM PDT So there's a disco Friday and I really didn't want to go so I said my mom said I wasn't allowed to go cuz I get to go to all discos and she kept saying just ask again and stuff like that but then she accepted that I didn't wanna go but now she wants me just to go to her house and I really don't want to I'm not in the mood :( does anyone know any good excuses I could use to get out of it my mom doesnt mind and will go along Thanks if you can help |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:55 PM PDT OK. So my friend in the past got bullied and teased as a kid in my grade. I do admit I bullied him too. And now he is planning revenge for all the kids who ruined his life. I can see his problem cause he was bullied, teased, and beaten up as a kid. The thing is he has me on his list. And he plans on scareing everyone and try to make their lives misirible. How I'm already scared cause he's carried out a few attacks already. What should I do!?!?!? |
| Question: What is my friend's intent? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:37 PM PDT My friend that recently moved hit me up on Facebook today after about a month and wanted to catch up. Eventually in the conversation it came up that he wants to join the military, which has been something he's wanted to do for a while, and he wanted to know if I'd be interested in any branch of the military. I said no but that I was interested in journalism and he said that journalists could travel abroad with the military and that maybe our careers would intertwine someday. Why do you think this was? |
| Question: Excuse for a friend to come over? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:30 PM PDT so I invited my best friend and another one of my friends who I'm not as close with over to my house. We were gonna hang out tmrw but my best friend just cancelled. Now I don't really wanna do it because the reason I invited both of them was cause I didn't want it to be awk with my other friend. So what's an excuse now? I don't want to make it seem like "ohhh she's not coming so now I don't want to hang out with you" if that makes sense. Any good excuses? Btw its 6:30 pm and we were gonna hang out tmrw morning |
| Question: This annoying guy at school.. What should I do? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:19 PM PDT Hi, I'm Megan, and i just started high school this week. So today I was sitting in History class, and this guy sitting beside me reaches over and pulls the hair on my arm, and says "You have hairy arms. You should shave them." I was like wtf..? I'm thankful the bell was about to ring, so i just got up and left. Later i got on the bus, and he sat beside me. He pulled out a pair of scissors and asked if he could trim my arm hair.. I was like "Wtf..? You know what.. sure go ahead." So he just sat there trimming my arm hair while i played on my phone. Everyone was just staring. It was funny but weird. I have to admit that i do have alot of hair on my arms, and it is long dark hair, but still that's rude to tell someone that. I've actually never thought about shaving my arms till now, but i'm kind of scared.. haha. I mean i have plenty of options here.. I can shave, wax, nair, or just leave it. I want some opinions. Please give me some feedback on what i should do. Thanks. |
| Question: Es bueno mandarle los buenos dias al chavo que te gusta diario? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:17 PM PDT hay un chavo que conoci en un evento. ahora nos hablamos por whats, siempre me contesta super rapido solo se conecta me contesta y deja de estar en linea y asi. el me gusta mucho pero es bueno mandarle diario un mensaje de buenos dias o ten un excelente dia... diario? no se ve acosador? o algo asi? |
| Question: 10 very fast points! Avoiding sexual conversation? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:11 PM PDT Okay so this man I know we use to talk as Co workers only. Eventually we talked more. He would talk about sexual things a lot. I never judged bit I wouldn't entertain the conversation. Eventually we would talk about more deep things and suddenly after that I never heard him reference to anything sexual ever again this is months later. Yet he still banters. Laughs. Teases. And converses with me.. actually I would say there is some awkwardness between us. Which is odd because he was comfortable to talk sexual things. He also told me when I was going on a leave of absence that he enjoys our banter and chats also that I have inner beauty. Now that I'm back he sings whenever he sees me and continues to be playful. But not in a secular way. I guess I'm just wondering if the fact that things aren't really openly secular anymore does that mean he is uninterested. Because he still is playful but never talks about sex. |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:59 PM PDT I got into a fight with a "forced" friend (we had common friends and had to hang out with each other) and we decided on a solution. We go to the same high school, and we decided to give each other time to evaluate our friendship over the summer. Thinking back on it, I KNOW she understood it as we were taking a break over the summer but going to be friends when we came back. But I remember saying that over the summer we would decide if we actually wanted to be friends. I don't want to be her friend as I've decided. My plan is to be friendly when I come back, but make it clear that we are NOT friends and that if we want to be we'll have to start from Square 1. Is that a good decision? Any other suggestions? BTW, I've known her since like 3rd grade but we were never friends (obviously for a reason!). |
| Question: Fun things to do at a sleepover? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:51 PM PDT My close friend is coming over for 3 days, and I need some ideas for things to do. I already know we're going to do some baking and playing video games. We both like anime. Also, we'll be going to Spain together next week as well. Ideas please! P.S We're pretty young so we're not allowed to be out alone to like eat or watch movies, but I think we are allowed to go to the park... :) |
| Question: How to congratulate a uk friend? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:37 PM PDT I have a friend from England, he s soon going to turn 23 and I don t know how to congratulate him. I know I have to say Happy birthday, the problem is, I m not English, I don t know how they do that, do guys buy gifts to each other? do they buy beer? is it wrong to hand them a present? (I mentioned that I m going to buy him a gift and I didn t get what his reaction was on the topic, he laughed a little. We ve been friends for quiet a while now, but I m not comfortable asking about this to him directly. I m really confused here, If someone could help that would mean the world to me. |
| Question: Best Friend Problems? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:34 PM PDT >been friends 5 years >im almost always there for her, she not so much > im a ppl pleaser, try to make everyone happy >she knows that and knows i always forgive her >her and her bf come to me to help them solve their relationship issues > they know ill be there when im needed >its draining > i always compliment her >she doesnt, she tries changes the subject to something else. > feels like im always happy for her success's, she distances herself when im happy about something >she has mood swings |
| Question: What should I do about my bestfriend? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:11 PM PDT To be honest I just want my bestfriend back . Where gonna be in high school next year and for some reason she feels like she needs to change like it's just school , it's not gone be different from last year probably just more drama . Lately she's been acting conceited and she just act like she way better than me , she also turned into a hoe like she send naked pictures to boys all over Facebook , she usta never do that . All she talk about is how in school she gone be getting all the boys and how she gone fight any and every girl . It's getting to the point were it's starting to get on my nerves she send me messages of her and boys talking nasty and she also been rude lately . She always trynna pop an attitude with me for no reason . I've been trynna be nice so far cause I have a pretty bad attitude towards people who be rude to me first I've been trying not to say anything but I feel like I should just let her know or just stop talking to her , I don't know what to do . She usta be the nicest and sweetest person ever . I'm okay with people changing but they way she's been acting just been stupid |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:08 PM PDT My friend just moved a few hours away and her birthday is in a few days so me and another one of our friends were going to surprise her! The only thing is now my other friend can t go and I have to suffer through a multiple hour drive with my friend s mom and it s gonna be SO awkward!! Please help me! |
| Question: Should I feel bad? (Friends)? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:01 PM PDT so my friend and I bought tickets to a music festival for July 31 and August 2. The gates open at 11am. Well, she just realized that the other day she has to watch her nephew till 3 the day of the first festival. My friend said we can go to the festival after she is done babysitting. Well..... I really want to go at 11 am so I told her she can meet me there. Should I feel bad about that? Also there is only one stage so if she meets me there she will have to find me in the crowd cause I'm not moving from were I'm standing if I have a good spot. I rally want to see my favorite artist front row. |
| Question: Why does my “friend" always want to start an argument? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:01 PM PDT I've this friend for about a year and it seems all she wants to do is argue. It's always stupid issues that have to do with opinions and it's really starting to bug me. She has this "I'm always right attitude" and I'm starting to notice it more and more. I've talked to her about it but nothing seems to get through. We can never share an opinion on a subject without fighting. A lot of the time she texts I feel my heart beating as if I know an argument is about to start. What should I do? I've been kinda distance lately because I'm starting not to like this new behavior. |
| Question: How do I apologize to my parents for being really bad and doing stupid stuff? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:52 PM PDT So lately I've just been getting into trouble left in right. So the first thing that made my parents upset with me these past weeks is, I got banned for a year at sixflags, my season pass revoked, and they're fining my dad for something that I took from a store there. I know it sounds so stupid, "shoplifting" but in actuality I didn't take anything from the store itself, but my friend gave me something she took and put it in my bag as we left the park so they thought I took it. Next, they found a little Baggie with half a joint in it. Now that I'll take partial responsibility for because I have been smoking with my cousins, and they finally confirmed that I was. the next thing is that I've been bringing people over at night when they're sleeping, and they just recently found one of my friends sleeping on the couch this morning which they got really mad at. So like I'm not on good terms with any of my parents right now. How can I show them that that's not the type of person I really am? I feel really stupid only going into junior year and already making my parents feel this way about me. I feel so terrible about it because they do everything to provide for me and it's just not right what I'm doing. I've stopped going out with friends and smoking pot, and now I'm going to stop inviting people. What else can I do to show my parents that I really do believe my actions were disrespectful and nonsensical, and that I'm deeply sorry for what I've been doing? |
| Question: I don't want to be friends with her anymore. What should i do? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:45 PM PDT hi thank you for clicking! So i have been best friends with this girl for two years. At first she was a really great friend, but then she started making me feel bad about myself saying "i have no boobs or butt" and making jokes about it and she knows im trying to put on weight. she's overweight, so i never made fun of her weight. so that really got me mad, so if she said something to me, i would either laugh it off or say something rude back. but one day she said i make her feel bad about herself, and i told her she does the same thing to me so that's why i do it. so she stopped with the body jokes for a while, now she rarely says something only if we go to the mall she'll say something like, "you can't wear this you have no butt". But she constantly says i look like an animal, and all i do is give a small chuckle. i told my mom and she says she's just joking. it doesn't hurt my feelings because i know i don't look like one, but it is annoying. we got in an argument recently because my parents told me that she has to get off my netflix and she still went on it anyways and i sort of went off on her because she knew i would get in trouble. but anyways, do you think im overreacting? there are times when she can be a really good friend, but ughh sometimes i dont even wanna be friends with her anymore! What should i do? |
| Question: How do i make friends when i m home schooled and have zero? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:30 PM PDT |
| Question: I think she is a bad friend!? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:29 PM PDT so. she was always trying to change. not to weeaar black and that ****.. she thinks i dont have normal life. she said that if i dont let her 'help me' she will tell everybody that i was cutting myself in the past...i cant do this anymore.she thinks im not normsal. btw. this is my bff.so. she said wtf. if im satisfied tp be like this ok. its just.. ughh she is killing me. she is spoilt .. but she is the one who was making out with her boyfriend in the school and she is 15. i know. hate comments. like. omg u r bad friend for saying that but. do i deserve this? ughh im not normal? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:26 PM PDT Mainly they keep texting and calling me . On one occasion they came and set right next to me . All of this even after I told them to leave me alone. |
| Question: Friendship question? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:23 PM PDT My best friend is so rude to me. She always has been, but now I don't really want to deal with it anymore, but I don't know how to go about it. She always says things like "shut up slut" as a joke, and I just let it go. But today, I was telling her about how this girl in her class hates me because the girl thinks I'm annoying. My best friend said "I can understand that. you're annoying but that's what makes you unique". Then she said she had to hang up. When she called me back she acted like she didn't say that. then I was like if I'm annoying how does that make me unique when everyone else is too? and she didn't answer me. Does anyone know what I should do or say to her??? I know friends call each othet annoying and it doesn't mean anything but I don't get it. If I'm annoying why be my friend? I never even did anything to her, today is the first time we talked in 3 weeks. |
| Question: Friend keeps sending me shrek porn? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:22 PM PDT hey so I have a friend who won't stop texting me shrek porn images as a joke, but I really don't want to see that. The truth is it is kind of funny, but still. It grosses me out and I don't want to see a big green d!ck all the time. What do I do? |
| Question: Is she a good friend? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:12 PM PDT I have this friend of 2 years, we werent in the same classes when we met 2 years ago. We somehow became friends (I dont remember how...) and have been like BFFs since then. But her ex-BFF is a person who is almost always jealous of others and shows it in the worst way possible. By making some absurd statements and such... whatever, whenever the topic comes to her, she talks badly about her and I always agree because I literally hate the girl. But during holidays, they always meet at a cafe or some other place and post pictures as if they are best friends. And this happens all the time. And honestly, I cant really get replies to my texts from her recently, just short ones and shr never tries to keep the conv. Going. This year, we almost had a friendship breakdown because of her boyfriend problems and this old BFF. I used to like her but sometimes when I think about her, I feel like she is just a pretencious b**** who is trying to be popular by trying to lose weight and dressing up slutty even though she literally shouldn't since they dont look good on her (not fat-shaming, dont judge me here please).she also sometimes tends to imitate me at school while doing projects, stealing or coming up with a very similar idea and whenever we are doing projects, not doing anything one bit helpful. I dont know what to do... |
| Question: Why does she have an attitude problem with me? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:11 PM PDT There is a girl that is a friend of my brother. I haven't had much interaction with her but the little that I do, I can only recall her being rude to me. I remember in HS I carried a homemade project to school, and she shouted out loud "WTF is that"? I even remember her coming into our apartment, and she looked down and walked right pass me and didn't speak. I was extremely offended. I can't imagine what I could of done to her because we don't really interact but I still trying to figure her out. |
| Question: How would you act if your friend told you she had nightmares? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:07 PM PDT I have really bad recurring nightmares and I take pills to help me sleep dreamlessly. I want to tell my close guy friend but I don t know how he ll react or what he ll assume. I m not ready to tell him what they re about bc it was a really traumatic thing for me, but how would you react if your friend just told you that she has recurring nightmares and takes sleeping pills for it? Would you assume anything? He knows something happened to me a while back but he doesn't know what and he could have forgotten by now since I haven't mentioned it in so long. And I've been having the nightmares for a while. And the pills are just regular sleeping pills (Melatonin), but for some reason I don't usually get nightmares when I take them, I don't know why. |
| Question: Does doing this make me one sick guy? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:07 PM PDT My high school buddy Jimmy invited me to come to house and hang out. At his house he introduced me to his mom. WOW, she was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. The fact the she was showing a lot and I mean a LOT of cleavage probably had an influence on my thinking. As she was serving me food for dinner, her boobs were 6 inches away from my face. I got a b0ner and almost come in my pants. I finally got control of my feelings and thought what a pervert I was for thinking of Jimmy's mom as sex object instead of Jimmy's mother. She was a very nice person. After we had talked for a while, I ask her if she had been a model. She said she was a lingerie model until she got pregnant with Jimmy. That was the end of her modeling career. She ask if I would like to see some of her pictures when she was a model. I told her yes. Some of her pictures were her in a VERY skimpy lingerie. I almost got a b0ner again. I am ashamed of myself for the way I reacted by my weenee must have a mind of it's own. Did I have an normal reaction for a teenage guy? It was really embarrassing. |
| Question: Has this friendship come to an end? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:06 PM PDT I'm a girl and I was best friend with a girl I have known for 6 years. Lately, we aren't close as much and a lot of events have occurred. She calls me her best friend but doesn't act like it. She doesn't tell me much unless I find out about it myself or I ask her. She never invites me anywhere with her, but I am always. I feel like I'm nothing to her. Recently, she's been hanging out with a girl I do not like, more than she is with me. She knows I do not like her but she "secretly" hangs out with her. The best friend only talks to me or hangs out with me when it's beneficial to her or she is feeling lonely. That girl called us BOTH "fake"and not real friends, but my "best friend" thinks it was only directed to me. She didn't stand up for me and she acts like nothing happened. I no longer want to be involved with either of them and she's ignored me for the past days when I was trying to help her through troubles. I am not happy with what has happened, but what do you think? Am I making the right decision to no longer be involved with her? |
| Question: How to help a friend cope with a failed marriage? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:02 PM PDT I have a really good friend who has been married with her guy for some time now, and after a few different situations now their relationship is over. She lives in another country so I can't help her face to face. I am the only one she trusts enough to confide in with all of this, and she wants me to always be there for her during this time. Problem is I have no idea what to say to her to help her get through this or make her feel better. What are the best things I can say and do to help her with this? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:00 PM PDT my mom promised to tke my frien ds on a trip with me but then cancelled now none of there parents let them come over anymore ... what should i do my mom cancelled the day off |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:58 PM PDT i wanna kill myself because of my mom she often beats and doesnt feed or talk to me in days....she calls me a slut in front my friend she gets mad when i say things back to her .... but i one last straw and if she breaks im going to kill myself |
| Question: How do I tell my friend I can t go to her birthday party? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:57 PM PDT I m getting my ears pinned, and her birthday falls on one of the days my head will literally be in a bandage. I only told my best friend, and I don t want anyone else from school to know, so I can t tell her the real reason why I can t go. Keep in mind I am responding to her over Imessage, so I can t tell her I just can t make it like I could in a letter or something because she will ask why. Also, it is during the summer, so I can t tell her I have to study, etc. Ear pinning is called otoplasty, it is a way to surgically change the curve of your ear, which basically fixes ears that are too "sticky outie" Ear pinning is called otoplasty, it is a way to surgically change the curve of your ear, which basically fixes ears that are too "sticky outie" |
| Question: Best individual fundraiser? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:55 PM PDT My parents have always been very supportive. I recently joined two cheer teams and this along with privates and classes is a very big cost. I'm paying for one of the classes but I'd like to help more. With my schedule, getting another job isn't a good idea. Do you have any ideas for fundraising I could do? |
| Question: Why are some people mean to ugly people? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:51 PM PDT I had a friend that was butt @$$ ugly, and everyone hated her because of it.. I mean she brought the worst out of people.. I know it's mean to say she was ugly.. But she was.. No one would ever say she was pretty, her eyes were messed up, one was bigger than the other and one always looked to the side and the other at you, she had acne and a big nose, not crooked but gross teeth, super skinny but not in the hot way, she looked like a board. But i didn't hate her, she was nice. But everyone would hate on her or take advantage of her kindness.. Why are people like this to ugly people? |
| Question: Is my brother being sick or just likes her? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:49 PM PDT Hi My younger brother has a crush on his friend's younger sister but is it unhealthy? The boys are both 11 while his friends sister is only 8. Kathy (can I not use her real name?) is real cute and eventho she wears short skirts always behaves like a young lady while playing. So what I am saying is her underpants never show. On Monday my brother not only seen Kathy helping her Mom in the ktichen in a shirt and her underpants but later she was getting a spanking over his friend's Father's lap. The problem is that I heard my brother telling our cousin about Kathy does not wear undies like other girls so it would be hot to be her Father. Not to go into creepy detalis but the difference is they are hi cut nylon briefs. Is it unhealthy for him too behave this way or have a crush on her for this reason? Is he sick? |
| Question: I'm a 17yr old girl from the UK looking for a penpal :)? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:49 PM PDT Hey there, I'm looking for a penpal to keep in touch with, who is a similar age to mine, can anyone recommend any safe websites to use? I'd really appreciate it. |
| Question: I cheated when I found myself into this situation; would you too? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:43 PM PDT so there was this start-up event in the university and we were hanging out with some friends and some new faces sitting around a table playing card games. Usually new people come up with new games, and some times it's a complicated one. As I was confused, I made some dumb mistakes as a beginner in that game, but in order not to be seen as a loser and to save face, I pretended that I was cheating. People started to get annoyed but continued and even when I was caught again I insisted on my move and kept teasing others and making jokes about how boring a game is without cheating. I was faking all of it, and inside I was crying as of how I got myself into this mess. The more I was trying to "fix" things the more I was loosing credibility and face. I could see from their facial expressions that they are judging me not in a good way when some of them were staring at me. I didn't want to be seen as a confused loser. On the way home, I was feeling terrible; about how me, a guy who is usually serious and logical, made a joke out of myself and hurt some people's feelings by teasing them in front the others. If I had apologized and said in the beginning that I'm not good at playing this game it would have saved me more dignity and credibility despite having to admit defeat. I would appreciate hearing your thoughts, maybe personal experience in a similar situation or what you would have done if you found yourself in a similar or a more serious situation than a card game. |
| Question: WTF ?! My BFFs 7 year old brother is being sexual with her?!? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:42 PM PDT My BFF confessed something to me today: that her brother tries to seek a peak at her naked. She told me her brother does that a lot and even eyeballs her privates. And humps her while she is naked sometimes. I want to help him get over it, but I also want him to stop! I don't want my BFF to suffer through this anymore!!! :( Please help :( |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:42 PM PDT My friends talk about me behind my back. It's nothing bad. But is it ok? |
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