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Question: How do I find out if my friend has a ipad or not? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:21 PM PDT |
Question: My Two Friends Are Friends With Benifits What Do I do? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:20 PM PDT |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:17 PM PDT I was spending the night over my best friend's house last night. After going to a movie we stopped back at my house to pick up my Xbox One system to take over to his place. It was late and I thought for sure that my parents would be asleep. I went to open the bathroom door on the first floor, and found my dad standing in front of the sink totally naked. He looked horrified but I could tell he was masturbating. The thing is that he had photos of our next door neighbor's wife spread out on the bathroom counter. I only had a few seconds to see it. But there is no doubt that the photos were of her. I clearly saw some bikini photos, but the rest was a blur. My dad yelled at me to leave the room. I ran out and I jumped back in my friend's car and we got out of there. My friend did not see any of this, since he was waiting in the car. I did not tell him what I walked into. I feel really grossed out and even embarrassed, as if I did something wrong. I came back home tonight, and my mom said that my dad had already gone to bed. I'm sure he doesn't know what to say either. It's bad enough to have your son catch you masturbatinng, but I know what I saw and now I'm wondering if my dad is cheating on my mom with our neighbor. I have no idea what to do and if I should say something to anyone? I am 17, if that matters. |
Question: Why did my guy friend delete all his chick friends including me? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:15 PM PDT Ok, this all started a couple days ago I was searching my friends name and was about to message him and I saw that he deleted me and some other girls from his friend list, I know he started dating this girl from school a couple months ago but I'm wondering should I message and ask him what's wrong this isn't like him? |
Question: Why am I called names because I'm a nerd? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:06 PM PDT I am a 13 year old straight a student who enjoys such activities as Batman, Legos, Jurassic Park, Gravity Falls, Star Wars, Video games, and ERB. My favorite topics in school are Life science (DNA and Genes, not reproduction) and I also enjoy history. Lately however, people have been calling me names and making me feel kind of bad. Such things like Poindexter, Lego freak, nerd, and others. I don't know what to do, and I'm really skinny and 4'11, and also don't have any athletic talent, so physical combat isn't a option. What should I do? Thank you if you anwser. |
Question: What do I do in this awkward situation? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:02 PM PDT So I am dating my brothers friend, my brothers girlfriend set us up lol.. My boyfriends little sister is dating my EX and it is just so awkward at family events! We dated like 3 years ago but he still won't look me in the eye or even talk to me.. What do I do? I'm 21 btw |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:02 PM PDT For being human For living For making my life a living hell I am not very pretty Chubby But why Is it really fun to make others feel bad To hit a girl To date rape her In her best friends house To let her best friend shun her I should just die right |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:50 PM PDT So I don't have many friends, my parents say that I don't have friends and that what I call "friends" are just acquaintances. Which I guess is true but there kinda the best thing I've got. My friends aren't like me though, I swear that they don't like to have fun at all. I am always saying lets do this and that, but there always like no. It's not that they don't like me it's that we don't like to do the same things. I see all these other normal, and happy kids around me having a good time. Weather that means partying with hot guys, or just going to the beach together and just being happy. But I kinda feel like I'm missing out on my life, like its summer right now and a lot of my friends are away but I haven't hung with with anyone over the summer yet I've invited people to do things but there not interested. I'm not a loser, I don't like to show this side of me, I like to act cool because if I act like this then I can't make new friends. I want to come off as any other person cause but I keep telling my self not to care what other people think. I have some confidence, I have like a really good normal nice girl side. But then once I get in this mood of worrying about how sad my life really is then I loose it. I just seriously need some advice on how to get better I have so much more to say but it won't fit in the box so he just help pelase |
Question: How do I get over a an old friend? Please help!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:48 PM PDT So im in 8th grade and last year I chose some wrong friends. One basically bullies people. and if your wondering I hung out with her cause she was nice to me. Now she suddenly hates me and won't talk to me. Now I don't want to loose her cause she talks about everyone and spreads rumors. She almost made a girl kill herself. I cant spend the rest of my summer worried sick about Stand im not crawling back to her. Can someone help ?? |
Question: I can't fit in or make friends where I live. What should I do? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:43 PM PDT I'm a 16 year old boy. I've never had friends before but I stopped caring when I was younger because I became used to being isolated. I was never really bullied but nobody shared interests or had any reason to be my friend. This changed a while ago, when I went to a camp a few hours away from where I live. I made great friends there that I still talk to on the Internet, but I wont get to meet again any time soon. This was the single best week of my life, as I never made friends before. But now I'm feeling depressed over my social life. I never knew what I was missing out on until now.I want to make friends in my town but nobody wants to be friends with me. I live in a really small area, (my high school has around 150 students, and is the only one nearby) Everyone where I live knows everyone else and all the people my age has a negative impression about me. I was always the odd one out, the 'weird' loner everyone learned to avoid. I can't find a group to hang out with and I feel terrible about being alone now. TL;DR: Despite my new social skills I've learned online and how I find it easy to make new friends, I live in a small tight-knit area where everyone knows everyone, and all people my age avoid being with me because I was very awkward when I was younger. I'm depressed about this and want to know how to deal with and 'break' the old impression people have about me. Thank you in advance. |
Question: Want to Kiss my Best Friend? Both Girls? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:40 PM PDT Okay, here we go: My best friend and I are really close. I am 100% - or at least I thought I was - straight. We always used to kiss each other on the cheek but it was just cute friend stuff. Then I got really confused. I start to. . . like her. Not like I could be in a relationship with her, but find her attractive. I started to think really sexual thoughts about her, things I'm ashamed of. She is bisexual, she told me a while back, but has never kissed a girl. So I text her and said - when we were yards away from each other btw - have you ever had feelings for a girl. And she said yes. After some prying, I found out it was me. I told her I wanted to experiment, to full around, and she said she did too. But neither of us knew how to start things. So we didn't. As I was about to fall asleep, she hovered her lips over mine, but pulled away at the last second. The next day, we were out with friends, and she smacked my bum a lot, which I won't lie, turned me on a LOT. But we never did anything about it. Next time I see her, I want to just grab her and kiss her, but I don't know how. I would also like it to go further than kissing. Any advice? 😕 |
Question: Can I tell my friend that he hurt my feelings in person? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:32 PM PDT Saying something stupid made him say "Do you live under a rock?" supposing that I'm ignorant. I ran home to the boulder crying. |
Question: Help me figure out these dreams!!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:28 PM PDT So the first dream I had was about this guy in camp I don't rember much but I remember us making out pretty heavily and me being a bit promiscous so I wanna say we were 'togther' in the dream. the seconx one had the guy from my camp and my sorta of play couison. I think we were at a house but i did recognise the house. My parents were there so i suspected it was suppose to be my house. They were basic over my house and some strange this happened like when I found my little sister she had to use the bathroom and I took her to the microwave and there was a artificial bodie with no skin at the bottom of it. But I think that because I went to science and industry with my camp today. But the two guys they were just really close to me. I have had a tiny crush on my play couison and I don't really know if its still there and they guy in my camp I'm not really sure I've only know him for 2 weeks we talked and stuff and he's really sweet but I don't even know if it my mind messing with me or I might have the smallest crush on this guy. |
Question: I'm going to the movies with him and have no idea what will happen?!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:26 PM PDT Tomorrow, my guy friend (my crush) and I will watch a horror movie. My friend tells me that he will hold my hands, cuddle, or even kiss me. And i also feel like something might happen. But the thing is whenever he looks at me in a special way or holds my hands, i have noo clue what to say or do cuz sometimes i can be really awkward lol. So how am i supposed to act when he makes a move?? What should i exactly do/say? Thanks! |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:13 PM PDT |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:08 PM PDT would you confront her or leave it? |
Question: My friend dislikes Canada, and makes me feel embarrassed to be Canadian.? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:01 PM PDT My friend is an immigrant from Mexico. She's always talking about how the people here are fake, and how the food tastes disgusting. She'd tell me how upsetting that it was for me to be born and raised here, and I have none of my African culture. She'd talk about how she dislikes white people, and post things on her tumblr saying that you should never be with a white girl. She would call me a "white girl" as an insult and tell me that I shouldn't be proud of that. Then she'd tell me that I try to make myself look "light skin" in the pictures I'd take. Whenever I'd talk about Africa, I feel uncomfortable because I know she'd want to say something about how I've never been to Africa, and how I'm not born there. She doesn't even understand that my mother was pregnant when she had to come to here with my dad to start a better life, as there had been a war. She tells me how her mother would spank her if she brought a black boyfriend home, and how she believes that "they smell" and "don't shower". That also makes me uncomfortable because I'm a black girl myself. How am I suppose to react to that? I go to her house, and her mother drops me places, and buys us concert tickets, etc. |
Question: Can I like like my best Friends cousin? Can you like your best friends cousin? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:01 PM PDT My friend says she likes her best friends cousing, lik like likes him? |
Question: Is basketball really for me ? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:59 PM PDT About two weeks ago, I started my freshman year at a division one school on a full scholarship. We do lots of conditioning and weight lifting which is something I'm use to because I did it all through high school. Since I've been here, I've been like the one behind the rest of the crew. I've bee sad almost every day and like my head isn't here .. I live almost two hours away from home ... I'm a great ball player .. I mean if I wasn't j wouldn't have this scholarship right now ... Since I've been down here also like the other post girl who is a senior keep throwing me bs .. Like she's ALWAYS critizing me and no one else ... When we scrimmage it's always my fault on Defense and like she doesn't give me the ball or anything and like .. I am feeling really down and out .. I can't play to my full potential because I like really miss home and then I didn't expect to be faced with Bullshit when I got here .. I just don't understand if this is what I want I mean I pray every single day but he's not answering my prayers ! I'm not use to being the last or the one who isn't as good as every one else. I know I am but I don't know what going on with me !!! Somebody help or give me some type of advice please |
Question: My best friend and I got in a fight please tell me how i can resolve this? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:43 PM PDT Ok so my bff and I got in a big fight and we both said some rude comments to each other and stuff but I honestly still want to be friends with her because we have so many memories together. She is also becoming closer to another girl that was mean to me and spread rumors about me and I don't like that she is becoming friends with someone like that. Please help me with this thanks! |
Question: Los instructores del gym se dejan tocar? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:43 PM PDT Soy hombre, y me gustan los hombres pero a veces en el gym coqueteo con el instructor y a veces me hago el impresionado con sus musculos, pero veo que el se deja agarrar, es igual que yo ó que ocurre aquí? Gracias. |
Question: Am i miss understanding the meaning of friendship with my other guy friends?? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:34 PM PDT okay so i am a dude and to me friendship is calling to check up on you everyday and to go out and hang at different places and etc this is just who i am? i always wanted to be on good terms with everyone and a good friend but why things don't go the same for me they don't call me back like i do why don't they treat me the same i told them , how i understood friendship but they said it's not like we have to call everyday your being dramatic i told them you even don't call for weeks what kind of friendship is this?? am i being over the top ? are they right or wrong or they are the ones who don't seem understand the true meaning of friendship |
Question: How to get along with someone again? Please help? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:34 PM PDT Please read & help me on this :) no rude answers Theres this person 'Dakota' that ive never actually been friends with but weve talked a couple of times last year and hung out a few times with my other friend cause they knew each other. Ive always kinda wanted to be her friend for some reason. And at first we seemed to get along but one of the times, my parents completely embarrassed me infront of her. I saw dakota and my friends one more time after that and she completely ignored me and then blocked me on facebook. I was really upset. Its been a year and im completely different. I kinda forgot about her till recently. We seem to have alot in common now. I really regret not making a better impression last year and shes kinda mean to people she doesnt like but very caring other than that. Lately, ive been hanging out every saturday in this town with this big group and Dakota happens to be in it. We havent talked but i would really love for me and her to get along and maybe even talk again. This Saturday im gonna try. Shes never said anything mean to me but i just have a feeling she doesnt like me. My questions are is there anything i could do or say to her? And how can i show her ive changed? Plz No answers like "if she doesnt like you who cares, move on. Because shes a good person to have on your side and shes friends with all my friends now so its been awkward. |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:31 PM PDT |
Question: Social anxiety is ruining me? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:29 PM PDT There's a long story on how my social anxiety started, long story short, during 6th grade a boy embarrassed me about 3 times infront of 3 different classes. I had tons of friends (new ones) in the begging of 6th grade then the thing happened I annoyed all my new friends away from me with me being so self conscience. So now I have my core group of friends which consisted of 7 friends now (in 7th) it's 3 (I guess I have a few more considering my non-best friends. But I wouldn't hang out with them I don't have thier numbers ) I played soccer but my social anxiety didn't leave there I never talked to anyone and I was a nervous reck, ugh I'm so embarrassed about it, but I really want to do ballet, but I'm so so so scared that it's going to be like soccer. So this weekend were going to this park thing (with people my grade going to be there whoop) so I asked my friend she made up a bullshit excuse, I known other friend won't go with me and my other friend is probably on vacation. So I don't want to go alone like I did to this fair that was last week end. I had no one to go with and I cried and went home. I don't know what I'm going to do any more. My brother and sister constantly go places with their friends . I want to get therapy but I'm to scared to ask, how embarrassing that will be! I want to be the outgoing fearless girl I once was, I can't just do that by people telling me to get out of my shell.😞 |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:20 PM PDT |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:16 PM PDT Ok, so I am going into the 8th grade this year and I also go to a very small private school, which explains why my best friend is 2 years older than me. We have always gotten along great. The only problem is that there is this one girl who is very popular with the boys. My friend really dislikes her because they were friends but then my friend started copying her a lot. When the other girl said something about it my friend got mad. They're still not on good terms. I'm just over it all. This situation has gotten me into some trouble, not to mention the other girl is the sister of my crush (although it doesn't matter anymore because he no longer likes me and is transferring schools). I love my friend, this situation is just stupid to me and I'm done with it. The other girl isn't actually that bad, except for a few things she has done. |
Question: Why is my friend acting so strange? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:07 PM PDT So this girl I used to work with and I were friends. I am a married guy with a family. We only worked together about 6 months. She was friends with all the guys me included. Our work situation wasn't the best. Everyone was trying to leave. She was friends with all the guys except me on LinkedIn. I requested her and she started sending me messages mostly about work with some joking in between. She found a job at a great company and kind of reeled me in. She helped me get the job which awesome but it's like an hour commute. During the hiring process we would text almost everyday mostly about the job. The hiring process took over a month. She'd ask me how I felt about it if I wanted it and if I would say maybe or probably not shed seem to be upset and would rush off and tell a buddy about the job like right in front of me. I'd be like "what the hell?" In my head. So now we work together and I have to make the effort to talk with her. She hasn't seen my desk yet. I've asked her to join for lunch and she will make up an excuse and text me later and sat next week. Now I see her and she'll like act like she doesn't see me I have to say hey first. i want to be friends, why is she acting like this? |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:04 PM PDT |
Question: How do I deal with being lonely during the summer? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:04 PM PDT I am an 18 year old girl who lost her friends due to extreme mood swings, I suffer from BPD and am easily offended and react violently when insulted, I don t hit people I just threaten and yell at them. My BPD got out of control in January when my ex boyfriend had stopped giving me the attention that I needed, he started being distant and talking to other girls so I broke up with him. I spent most of my senior year alone because I had lost many friends before that, those friends were the people I would go to parties with and get drunk or high, but after acting sl*tty at parties, they began talking sh*t about me so I cut ties with them. Now I feel so alone, literally no one invites me to go out anymore and I have no distractions now, my parents are extremely religious and don t let me drink or smoke in the house and I am sick of feeling like this, I feel so uncool and unworthy of love, I am told that I am a beautiful girl, but what s the point if no one sees me as special. My only friend who has been there for years works now and her schedule doesn t allow me to hang out with her as often so now I really feel lonely. |
Question: Should I Go To Carnival With People I Don't Know Well and Some Strangers? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:04 PM PDT I have an issue and I need some advice. I recently moved to a new town and I'm taking Summer Enrichment classes at my new school where I met a few kids. I met two girls who are my age about a week and a half ago there and they invited me to come with them and two or three friends I have never met before to a carnival in town with no adult supervision besides being picked up/dropped off. (Im 13) They seem like quiet, friendly girls (the two I've met) but we're not as close as I am with some of the other girls I just met through the classes. My mom says that she's a little uncomfortable with me going since she doesn't know these kids or their parents, plus we have company (My mom's friends) who flew in from Nevada. She says its my choice, but right now, I'm really unsure of what to do. It might be fun and I might meet some cool people I'll be going to school with in the fall, but also I might be left out since I'm the least known in the group, I could get lost, the other girls not like me, etc. |
Question: What games to play at a party? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:03 PM PDT Games to play with 10 or more people? Ages 18 to 24 but keep it family friendly |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:01 PM PDT Just rude people, but they do it purely just to make you look imperfect. Thanks. |
Question: Are there any emos in Alaska? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:56 PM PDT |
Question: I just recently moved and need to make friends. What are some suggestions? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:56 PM PDT |
Question: Should I get a job with friend? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:54 PM PDT Im young and I will be getting my first job soon, but would it be a bad idea to work with my friend? Or should I just go on my own? |
Question: Im nervous to go round my best friends house for the day? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:47 PM PDT Im going round one of my best friends house for a few hours but i'm really nervous that it might be awkward? I'm 14 girl and i've known her since i was about 9 and i've been round her house a few times. Recently, she moved house but before, we walked around the highstret which gave us something to do- in her new house, i dont know what to do If it gets akward? What if we run out of things to talk about or things to do and end up sitting there!? I'm just a bit socially awkward and I have mild anxiety priblems( which she doesnt know too well). Does anyone know how to deal with this or come up with ways to avoid awkwardness and stuff, I cant even have a phone call with my best friends or most other friends because I really dont know how to act and a phonecall is a thing i tske a second to decide to do! Please reply quick as km going round hers in 3 days...x |
Question: Should I tell my best friend's parents that she's smoking weed every day? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:43 PM PDT My best friend has been smoking weed on an almost daily basis for a little over a year now. She started at the end of eighth grade when she made friends with some pretty bad older kids, and now she smokes every day. I'm pretty close with her parents and they've asked me before to tell them if anything is up, because some other things have happened with her in the past. She has denied she has a problem as it's gotten worse and worse. Her grades are slipping, she's been taking pills, and I know some of her friends have been taking cocaine, some other pills, and driving under the influence. She has also been hooking up with random older guys in the school bathrooms and having sex with them while she should be in class. I had another friend with a similar problem but with ecstasy and other pills so I told her parents something was happening a few years ago with their daughter in a different situation but it just turned me into a snitch and we haven't been friends ever since, even though I practically saved her life. My best friend that has been having problems has told me everything in confidence, but I'm truly worried about her yet I want to respect her trust. I don't know what to do. If something happens to her I would feel awful, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. |
Question: Teen guys conversations? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:40 PM PDT Ive always wondered what do teen guys in high school talk about? Do they ever talk about their feelings and crushes with guy friends or is it usually other things? Also what do guys enjoy talking to girls about? |
Question: Excuse to get out of going on vacation with a friend? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:39 PM PDT My friend invited me to go on vacation with her for 5 days next month and I acted excited about it, but I don't really wanna go. I don't wanna tell her the truth because we're best friends and I love her to death, but her family drives me to crazy. I might be able to say something about my parents not letting me go because my brother is leaving for college in almost exactly a month and he's going very far away. |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:39 PM PDT SO 2DAY ME AND MEH HOMIES WERE OUTSIDE OF TOYS R US AND THIS BRO WALKED UP AND CALLED US SLUTS AND I SAID "BRO FIGHT ME I'M 12 YEARS OLD I'LL DROP YOUR ******* *** ONTO THE PAVEMENT" AND THEN HE BEAT ME UP AND HE IS 7 YEARS OLD HOW DO I FIGHT PLS HELP |
Question: How can i show people that i've changed when going back to school? (high school)? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:33 PM PDT when i was in 8th and 9th grade, i was severely depressed. i missed a lot of school because i was hospitalized twice and ended up getting homebound towards the end of the year because i wanted to work on my issues without the social anxiety from school taking me a step back. when i was in 9th grade, people rarely approached me because i was always alone with my head down or hiding between rows of lockers. there were some classes that i was able to open up in, but i was usually high or mildly tripping during the school day so i can't imagine that anyone believed i was stable. 10th grade i took the whole year off in favor of online school. now i'm going back for my junior year in a month. i haven't interacted with my peers in ages, but i'm confident i'll get along fine with them once i go back, because i have worked so hard to improve myself and my thinking. i know now that i can handle anything— i'm almost off all my medications and i've been substance-free since november — but naturally i'm still worried about what others think of me (i'm a teenager, duh) the major worry i have is that people won't be able to get the ideas they have about who i was in the past out of the way. i am not crazy, and i never was, but me purposefully taking hallucinogens before school probably made a decent amount of people believe otherwise. if i just be myself and let things come naturally, will that be enough for people to believe that i've changed? |
Question: Unfriended by my close neighbor (girl)? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:31 PM PDT So there's this girl that I knew for 5 years that's my neighbor to this day. I would always be the first person she comes to when she needed help, advice, or just talk about her feelings. We've actually had good times getting each other wet, name calling (only joking), pranks, whatever. Everyday I would always buy her chips and sodas because that's what she enjoys, I was the only person to get her FIRST iPod Touch for her birthday. She was so grateful that she wanted to hug me but she couldn't because of her dad. She used to always talk about me with her mom like "I wonder what he's doing?", "When can we can hang out with him again?". She always seems so curious when a random visitor comes to my house and I always catch her glancing really quick and keeps eye balling to see who it is. Then this one time she seemed like she was getting mad because I was invited to their party and there was other girls that kept laughing at my humorous jokes, then she rolls her eyes and says "HA! You're not funny!" But I can tell she was jealous. Anyways, we did have our down moments as well, like the days we get upset at each other for misunderstandings but we always work it out. I used to have her in Facebook but one day, she "Unfriend" me. She still has my brothers, my sister, and my cousins as her friends in Facebook except me (They don't even talk to her). The only thing that I don't understand is that why would she "Unfriend" me after all we been through? (Sorry for the long story) |
Question: My good friend told me that she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:27 PM PDT I got myself into a huge problem. My good friend Brianna is from a different city and she was planning to come tonight to enjoy a festival (the festival is free) in our town. I met Brianna at uni, while she was staying at a dorm. I live with my parents and I made the silly error of assuming that she could sleep over at my place without consulting my parents. I told my parents the night before that she was coming, and they were very angry. My parents are a bit neurotic and I have fights often with them. They don't like company and they don't have many adult friends. We fought the whole night until 5 am, and then I fell asleep. The next day I slept until 12:30 and then it dawned on me that I hadn't told my friend anything. I sent here a text message that I had family problems and that I wasn't going to the festival and that she couldn't sleep over. She had already gotten into the train to come and she had to go right away back to her city immediately. She sent me a message that she didn't want to be friends with me anymore, and that I had treated here like **** and let her down at the last minute. What can I tell her in this situation? How can I regain her friendship? I'm sure she'll tell other people what I did and I'll lose a lot of friends. |
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Question: Would my friend be better off without me? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:19 PM PDT I met my friend over a year ago while doing voulenteer work. We really hit it off. I live in a different town, so we kept in touch. We would email, text, and call each other every day several times a day. We helped each other through depressing times and told each other our secrets. I felt like I had known her my entire life. We got really close. After about 6 months, we started to contact each other less and less. I would only get an email from her once a week. She started to get new friends. I knew some of them, but not all of them, and the ones I did know I know are really cool and fun. When I came to town to visit, she had already had set plans with her other friends. I had no problem with that. It s just bad timing on my part. We would only hang out during our voulenteer work and meetings, and it was awkward. We had nothing to talk about. After a meeting, I was at a restaurant with my family, and I saw a group of people from the meeting and my friend was with them. When I saw her, she was laughing and having a great time. I began to feel like she didn t need me anymore. She has all new friends and they re fun and interesting, and I m not. She still responds to my pointless email, but I feel like it s out of pity. I feel like I d be doing her a favor by just stop talking to her. She wouldn t have to worry about making plans with me or replying to my messages. I think she d be better off without me. |
Question: My classmate keeps using me, how do I stop that? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:18 PM PDT She's in my history class and sits behind me. She recently gave me her number and she only texts me when she needs answers for hw or to copy my study guide. How do I stop her from using me? What's even worse is that she was my childhood friend and we stopped talking, so if I ignore her it'll be worse. |
Question: How do I apologize to my neighbor? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:11 PM PDT In the beginning of the year, I got into an arguement with a lady down my block, she recently told my parents. She told them I swore at her & was throwing fireworks at her house. I swear on everything I never swore at her or threw fireworks at her house but I do admit I had an attitude and small arguement with her cause she yelled at my friend and I for something, I do not recall but it was nothing very bad or serious. She told my friends parents he was throwing rocks at her car.. My friend never did that! My friend said he didn t apologize but I told him I was even if the statement was false but how can I correct her with out sounding snotty & apologizing? My parents will be furious if I don t & I think it s the right thing to do |
Question: Do stretch marks fade? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:06 PM PDT hello. i am fourteen years old. i just noticed i have stretch marks everywhere to my breasts, bottom, stomach, thighs, hips you name it. do they fade? is there anything i can do to help get rid of them? im really insecure about them now. thank you!! |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:41 PM PDT My Friend Will Not Stop Lying. BACKGROUND: I was best friends with this girl (we'll call her 'S') for many years. We hung out together 24/7 throughout all of middle school and high school, until I told her I couldn't be her friend any longer. I told her it was due to her extensive lying. She didn't understand, went into denial pretty much, and we hadn't talked much in the past 3 years or so. We recently got together, talked for a few hours and hung out over lunch. I figured now that we're 22, she'd maybe done some growing up, gone back to her counselor and worked on herself.. Well everything was seemingly going fine, until she started lying again. I can tell from knowing her for years when she is doing it. She makes up things so trivial, that they don't even matter. When we were friends previously, she would lie and say her mom hit her and that she was gushing blood everywhere and the ambulance was coming to pick her up. The next day at school she wouldn't have a scratch on her. (I'm not very confrontational until it comes to a point, so I never really asked about it). She told me my boyfriend at the time was trying to hook up with her (was completely untrue). She made up little things too, that didn't make a difference to me. Now, she is making up lies about how her and her boyfriend became pregnant, but she had to abort the baby. She says she is still suffering from the abortion, that particles of the baby couldn't be removed, so they'll always be attached to her and make her sick and bleed. I knew this was a lie because I caught her in it.. She had mentioned an hour or so before saying all this, that she had never been to the gyno, but yet she had sonograms and tests done..? The biggest lie yet was 2 days ago. I received a text from her number claiming it was her mom texting for her as she was being rushed to the emergency room. She was losing blood from god only knows what. She would be in the hospital for a few hours and then would be discharged. Of course, all of this took place between the hours of 11-5, so if anybody had wanted to visit her in the hospital they couldn't because they were either sleeping or guest hours wouldn't apply. She texted me an hour ago saying she got into a car crash, that the car is fine, she's all shaken up. I think it's because I haven't been texting her back. I don't know what to do. I got myself into a mess becoming her friend again. I know she needs help, but I'm not in a position to assist with any of that. I'm in a rough place in my life too and I'm trying to get back on my own feet... She seems really unstable. Boyfriend just left her. Her roommates ignore her quite a bit (from what she tells me). Her birthday is this saturday and I really don't want to go out and celebrate with her. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN I'M WITH HER! Any advice, input.. anything. I know she has something seriously wrong with her. She used to see a counselor back in middle and high school, I never knew what for though. She always told me it was for her parent's divorce. |
Question: Why is this happening? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:38 PM PDT My fried and I are both 19 year old females. She has a child with a guy who cheated on her multiple times, they live in his mom's basement, and just recently got eloped. Her husband was a failure in high school, and now decided to join the military, he told her she can quit her job at a fast food joint since now he's in the military, she doesn't have to work anymore. Neither of them have a car or licence. Let me add again, they have a 1 year old child. I having a welding job, structural. I have my own place, No children. A guy who doesn't cheat on me, who cares about me. We both have our own cars. The downside about me is that I smoke pot Why is it that a teen pregnancy, and a failed marriage in the making is more acceptable than someone who is making something of herself even though she smokes pot? All our mutual friends respect her more, and I would just like a random opinion as to why. She has always been the favored friend and I have always been the rebound friend. friend* |
Question: How can i avoid going to a b-day "party" ? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT I was invited to a b-day party and to put it short i dont want to go, because the person inviting me often looks down on me and is kinda controlling of me. We are going to college together and play video-games together. Whenever I go online he insta invites me, when I end a game, he invites me in a sec. He is just there w8 for me, and it is hell of weird and he does this to other "friend" of his. And i cant say i have other things to do because he will just change the date of his birthday party. That is easy for him since he invited only 3 of us. I also hate the fact that I will have to go on 2 buses to get to him eat at around 11:00 and then come home around 20:00 and only have a slice of cake in-between. And its not like their family lacks money to buy stuff they are like rly well-off. I know its rude not to go but i dont like him as a person and if someone else invited me i could just say I had other things planned. Thank you for reading and advices ! :D |
Question: I'm having feelings for my best friend who is the same sex? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:28 PM PDT I'm in love with my best friend who is also my neighbor which is married. Really hurts me to the point that it I cry. |
Question: Sick of being lonely and unhappy? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:19 PM PDT I'm 16 and I have no friends or a life. I just sit at home all day and do nothing. Nobody bothers to contact me, or just check up on me. I live with my mom and she stresses me out to the max. I've always been been depressed, mainly because ive constantly been cyberbullied and teased throughout middle school. Nothing changed when I went to high school. All the friends I meet only have the intentions of using me and having me as their "backup" friend. I feel angry and sad about that. I'm more than just a backup friend, or a second choice. My family doesn't care enough about me to listen to what I want to do in life, my goals, or anything. Nothing EVER works out and I feel like giving up. I've never been this unhappy till I moved across state with my mom. |
Question: What ethnicity do we look? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT My dad is Polish and my mom is Argentinian but people always mistake me and my sister for mexican or romanian. |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT Please elaborate I mean I know they consider me a business partner since we work closely together. However, I am just wondering how sincere the friend part is after that. |
Question: I need someone to chat!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:12 PM PDT I'm from Armenia. im 14. i want to chat with someone, have a good time, practise my english and make a friend:D i think it must be interesting to communicate with someone from Armenia. If you want, please, give me your email. i'll chat with everyone who wants. please answer! i want so muuch!! |
Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:12 PM PDT I'm borrowing my brothers account btw. So I'm in the last year of primary school year 6 and today in the baby toilets some of my crass mates had a strip club. They were naked and twerking infront of boys. This was in the girls toilets |
Question: How to get over a friend? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT I have a friend, of whom I ve always thought of as a best friend. We were getting along so great, and now all she is telling me is that she is busy. It s been like a month like that. I don t know what to do, I deleted the app on which we were talking, because all the time I couldn t resist the temptation to write to her. Everybody, since we started hanging out, told me that she is poisonous, that she is using me and I should cease talking to her, but I was so happy that I finally got a friend (I don t have any). I don t know what to do, should I stop talking to her? And if so, how to get over her? please help |
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