My anxiety is like a roller coaster, one thing will spark it into a downhill-spiral. It's a random thing too, not even things that make since. I have looked into the possibility of being afraid of marriage, but I don't think I have it. I get anxiety attacks, heart rate increases, and I sometimes get an upset stomach. I love my boyfriend, but there are days when I can't picture marrying anyone. One day I'm fine, the next I'm anxious and want nothing to do with marriage. Is it normal to have this much anxiety?

So me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years and know eventually we WILL get married. Right now he's in the army and only have a little over 2 years left and I'm in college with also a little over 2 years left! The thing is we misssssss each other! The distant thing (6 hrs from hometown to him and 4hr from college to him) is killing us. So we are thinking to rush our marriage so we can live together. This will cause me to settle less by only receiving my associates first then getting my bachelors instead of going straight towards my bachelors! Idk are original plans where to wait until we were both done but would it be smart to just get married and visit every weekend and stay during the breaks and summer.....????? Idkkkkkkk

My 34 year old wife and my neighbor have been flirting with each other for a couple of moths now. I don't think they know I can see it.

I've been with my husband almost 5 years and married for almost a year. Semptmber is our anniversary and I'm afraid we won't make it there. We just always fight and it feel like I need more. He was my first EVERYTHING! Im only 23 and he is 26 and I love him but I just need to know any advice on how to become happy again?? Anything can help I feel as if he is unhappy as well but he don't want to hurt me and same with me. But I'd also love to work things out?

I feel it's not right.I feel it can lead to emotional affair and it's not fair for the husband or wife to have to worry about if their spouse cheats on them.I don't think it's right for a married person to email someone of the opposite gender unless they are family.I feel it should be strictly business between a married person and someone of the opposite gender unless of course they are family members.I feel there's a difference between being polite and being friendly and personally I don't feel a married person should be getting" friendly" with someone of the opposite gender unless they are family members because being friendly includes a sense of friendship and affection,caring for the person which I think it's not necessary for married people to have friends of the opposite gender because they can turn into emotional affairs.No one else has to feel this way but personally married people should do anything possible to make sure they never put their marriage at risk,even that includes being just polite but not friendly with someone of the opposite gender.I also feel it's unnecessary for married people to put :) emoticons when replying emails to someone of the opposite gender unless they are family members.I feel married people in general needs to keep it at polite/civil when it comes to people of the opposite gender.Married people do you feel that being more than strictly polite/civil with people of the opposite gender could be dangerous?

I don't have a fear of marriage, but I do have too much anxiety to handle. I'm on a constant roller coaster of emotions, fear/uncertainty, and anxiety. I honestly don't know what to feel but sick. I love him with all my heart, but maybe I'm just not right for marriage? Is there a chance by body is telling me I'm not right for marriage? I know I found my soulmate, he's perfect for me, but I don't feel like I will ever be ready for marriage. I feel as if maybe my on and off anxiety is a sign I shouldn't get married at all. I'm not emotionally unstable, nor am I immature. It's just when my boyfriend and I talk about marriage. It doesn't effect any other part of my life.

Hey guys! Alright, so the custodial parent (nothing has actually been court ordered) will not let the non-custodial parent see the child unless the parent swears to tell the custodial parent of any small injury, no matter how minuscule. Non-custodial says they will report to custodial if injury is serious, but not over every small thing. So anyway, this has created some issues. The non-custodial wants freedom when the child is with them. Nothing terrible has happened to the child while with the non-custodial parent, except for things that happen to every child, as a part of growing up. So, anyway, the parents are going to court because if the child comes back with a little scratch, the custodial parent freaks out. Can a judge actually order the non-custodial to note every small detail of injury to the custodial parent while the child is away with other parent...? Non-custodial parent just wants freedom, and little communication with custodial, only under necessary terms. Any time the two talk to each other, fighting results.

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 23 and we have been dating exclusively for over a year and a half. I always hear that once you are married, the in-laws become intrusive. A lot of comedies on TV seem to highlight it too. Is there any truth to intrusive in-laws? What have been your positive and negative experiences with them?

Me and my husband got in an argument since yesterday. Today hasnt been good. The thing is the argument got bad and he made me fall off the bed(hurt a bit) and also threw me to the floor when he hold me.(hurt a bit) As we were arguing he threw my phone at my face when i asked for it because he had took it from me. And it hurt me bad then we noticed i was bleeding but it was just a small cut, smaller then an inch. My husband asked for forgiveness etc.. My husband has never caused something like that painful. He has few times pulled my hair during a bad argument or pushed me or throw things but not for the object to hit me. It has been a while since these bad arguments had happend. He can also tell me rude mean things when hes really mad. He said he would change months ago. And said it again today that this wont happen again. Do you think an abusive man can change?

Ive had no contact with my ex for 3 yrs. we were seeing each other intermittently for 2 yrs but saw other people in between. He tried to cheat on his gfs with me a few times. He manipulatively succeeded once, while w/ a girl he planned to marry. we had a big fall out. I told his GF. I was heartbroken by his treatment of me, it took a long time to get over. He swore he would never speak to me again. He moved on quickly. A month later he moved another girl he cheated with into his apartment. I met her once before. She fallowed him around like a puppy and couldnt wait to be with him. 3 years later, they have been married for 1 month, and she is 6 months pregnant. He contacted me by email 2 wks ago, testing the waters maybe. He didnt know I already knew all these things. I let him take the lead, I wanted to see where he was going. We texted a bit, but he didnt volunteer anything. I finally asked him about his relationship status and he told me he was married. Never mentioned who he married or that they were expecting. He then apologized for how he treated me.He started flirting, and later tried sexting. this went on for 3 days. I have not heard from him since. I am looking for some insight on this. I'd like to think that he hasnt changed, and I should be glad he is no longer in my life.part of me wonders if his flirting was just a slip up and that he is a changed man, I wonder if she got the good version of him after I got the bad.

My wife and i have 2 kids together and she is fit and wears nice clothes. But she wants a belly button piercing. Shes had one before but took it off when she got pregnant with our 2nd baby. She wants to get it pirced again and take the one off from her lip and tongue. I told her no because she is going to have to take it off when she has another kid. But she keeps insisting. WHat can i do? Should i still let her?

I'm 32 and she is 29. She is Chinese and I'm Aussie. Married for 4 years, together for 7 and no kids. She works in a Chinese real estate firm. Their job entails taking clients out to dinner and buying them gifts to befriend them. I have a pattern of checking her phone on and off because my trust is not the best plus I'm curious to know about her work (she doesn't like to discuss anything about her work with me). For the longest time, she has come home to relax and do her own thing with barely talking to me. I couldn't understand but my parents sided with her that I should let her relax after work and let her play her phone etc. I argued that it was creating distance between us. At the start of our marriage she refused to kiss me because of an incident when we were engaged where I was considering breaking up and went to dinner with another girl. But nothing happened between us and I only took her out one time. My has done much more. Dinners alone with different young Chinese guys here saying it is for work. It looks like she got close to one guy and she has been out to dinner a couple of times with him. Her company offers a financial reward for referrals so she bought him an ipad and encouraged him to go out shopping. I snooped her chat history to find this out. I misinterpreted the meanings and thought they were having an affair. So I got really upset. She brought home a meal from him that he had cooked and left at her company... it looks and sounds off. So I followed the advice of another poster and asked for an explanation. She told me all about the work connections with him and how it was purely business. Then proceeded to say that she won't explain hersekf anymore and that her heart was dead to me because every day I left crazy or upset messages on her chat program. I would send them as I wanted to articulate what I wanted to say. Now she is talking about needing time next week to decide if she wants to move out and wants to see a lawyer. I have been documenting etc. She doesn't know I'm seeing a lawyer next week for advice on property. I have recorded her offering up one of our properties to settle. I'm taking it slowly now. She found the excuse again not to kiss me...because of the online messages. For the oast six months she has gotten worse in her swearing at me. Abusing me. When I addressed the problems, she accused me of a cycle if violence where I would send nagging messages conveying my hurt feelings and pretty much telling her I thought her ways were hurtful or that I didn't trust her. And then trying to make up with her. So up and down. Still it didn't sit well with me to have her going to dinner with another young guy, sitting around with him to teach him real estate and then bringing food home from him. If he was a young student or there was a bigger age gap maybe I could understand but they are of a similar age. I told her before that I never accepted how dhe wanted to run around with a colleague at the start of our marriage and got her to stop it. I see she is still with me. We don't talk much. She is still affectionate to a degree. What set alarm bells off for me was her up and down behaviour when we went away. And then after we got back she wanted a couple of days space and I hadn't sent anything bad to her for days!! Love is supposed to feel good and it is supposed to flow smoothly. And joy. I don't know if backing off will let her stay here or if she is just talking with no actions. I'm seeking action to be on the safe side. She is my first love so my close friend told me I am too deeply in love and that everything is being driven by money and not love. There's no sense of efforrs to closeness. I mean we have not much time for each other due to work and she doesn't make space for me because we have loans. The close friend also claimed I'm being mentally abused. I suggested to my wife that we should go out somewhere because I was getting upset at her social life with clients on Sundays without me. Going nice places and attending bbqs when I was working. I went alone to check out an island because she didn't feel like going with me. I wish we had time to go out together to restaurants or soend time together more :( but she says I'm harassing her and leave her alone.

In a car together...

We've been married 9 years and we've not once done oral. I just get uncomfortable when Hebrew he's there, so since the beginning we've never done it. I don't know why the heck I sm that way. I mean, I've even had a therapist and sex doesn't get better. The funny thing is I fantasize about it but not him bring the one. I must be nuts.

hello, I just got married few months before and we are having lots of fight due to lots of reason, like she doesn't have trust on me and she doesn't want me to involve any of her personal and her family matters ..... Also my wife says she just need me not my family ( my parents and relatives ) ........ we are having these kind of problem...... and for me the main problem is i am not seeing any of the true love fro my wife, she will just show during the sex mood apart from that i am not at seeing any care, or any kind of love from her which i am missing and she always gets anger for each and everything... even i tried to talk to her many times about these kind of issue but she is not giving respect or concern about my talk........ she always wants to be in her own the way she wants to be .... no values for family and now she carrying a baby too.... so i am asking her to come and stay with me to enjoy this movement but she refuses to come to my home because she says her job is main for her but i am expecting her to be with me at this time until iw ill care of her nicely and i am ready to support her carrier getting new job in my area...but she is not at all worry about my feeling and love...... looks like she will never get change from her attitude... now i am confused and thinking to come out of her... but only my thinking is about kid......but she says she knows how to take care and she doesn't need me... any good advise please...

I live in South Carolina. My ex husband was ordered to pay life time alimony. He retired 4 years ago and since has blown his retirement in strip clubs. He owns 3 vehicles which he's taken loans out on all 3. Had 20 something cows and sold all and blew through that money. Sold land this year and blew through that too. He hasn't paid me my alimony in 3 months and has been threatening me that he will take it away if I take him to court. He retired from duke energy and is now working at walmart full time with over time. Is this possible?

I 've seen women who claim they've never orgasmed with their bf or husbands and yet they are still with them for even up to 10 years and they don't break up for that. Is it common for women to overlok their own sexual pleasure?

My ex boyfriend & I planned on being married on Valentine's day; however, I had to end the relationship for various reasons. He then went and got married to someone else on Valentine's Day. I find that rather strange, and I would never choose to marry someone on that day. I bet his new wife has no idea we were supposed to be married on that day. I would be angry if I found this out my husband couldn't have chosen another date. Francis, I think you're very spiteful to make such a comment. You are projecting because that's what you would do. If I wanted to do that I would have already done it. Try to get a grip and grasp reality. You aren't funny; you need help even thinking something like that. Valentine's day is a phony day, it's not really a day of love; it's a day to make money.

People always say that marriage is hard...but why? Like what is the "hard work"? Everyone generalizes and doesn't just say what they feel. Like, -Do you stop being attracted to each other? -Do you desire sex with someone else? -Do you miss the pre-marriage freedom? Can someone please elaborate.

16 yes of marriage, things have gotten a bit tough lately for me....he has no idea. Found the receipt for our weddings rings today, his letter after I had lost our first child, 1st anniversary and second.....when did the letters stop? Why? What is the sadness....why does it feel my voice is echoing in the void, but no one hears....

@Starfish No women allowed. (KIDDING) @vivienne I am not even married lol. I was just asking a random question. If you were such a smart human being... maybe you wouldn't look like such a dumbass when you post stuff.

did marriage improve the quality of your life

Yesterday morning my husband my daughter and my son and I were sitting at the table eating cereal and watching the news and my husband said that he wanted us all to go out and do something together this weekend because school starts soon and the kids have been out almost every day this summer. Our son who is 18 said he thought it was a good idea and then our daughter Irene said she didn't want to and my husband said it will be good to spend time together as a family. Then my daughter said "I don't give a sh*t dad I'm going out with my f*cking friends" that's when my husband just threw his bowl at the sliding glass door and shattered them both. Irene backed up to the wall and my son and I were just speechless. My husband cornered her and she looked terrified. He took her phone and smashed it and then pulled her upstairs to her room and threw everything out the window besides her bed clothes and furniture. In 19 years of marriage I have never seen my husband get that mad. I know what he is Capable of and I have seen him get into fights and it's really scary. My children are terrified and I don't know what to do.

So, he flirts all day on twitter with ladies. I usually dont mind it. It is harmless. We've been married for 4 years. The moment that I followed a man back ..he went off. What is this sexism called???

How do you divide expenses like $600 Iphones plus monthly service and $800 computers, $10,000 cars? Is it fair for the noncustodial parent to pay both child support and for these expensive items? That is our current situation, I pay child support for each child (I am not complaining, happy too) plus I pay in full, for their cars, car insurance, cell phones and monthly service. My X makes the same yearly income I do but does not pay anything. Should I ask if she will help with some of the more expensive items. Keep in mind I do pay child support and have paid in full for all the major expenses listed and more.

My wife and I are going thru a divorce going on six months now. I get to keep the kids on the weekends and her during the week. Thursday my 2 year old son stayed with her the night. In the morning she told me he had fever so she called in from work. She stayed all day with him letting me know throughout the day his fever was still bad. I got out of work around 5 so she text me to say that she will be bringing him to me later that night bease she had to wor earby morning. I said to keep him because he needs rest and she can bring him Saturday morning by then he should feel better. She said no he's doing better already and by court order I need to have him so she's bringing him if I like it or not. He is sick. He needs to stay indoors and rest. She still brought him and when I went to get him from the car seat he was pale...burning up and I yelled at her. I told her I hope she happy with herself and a horrible mother. She told me to get the hell out the car so I went inside. He was crying so I managed to find a ride to the ER. I texted her saying she should of takin him a long time ago. She asked if we needed a ride I told her no to be with her friends instead of helping. The Doc saw that his ears were infected so that was his diagnosis. I didn't have a ride back home so I had to text her to give us one. She did. When we got to my house she wanted to keep him for the night. I said no. U had ur chance. Took him away from her and closed the front door. What's ur thoughts?

My husband, well supposed "fiance", and I say supposed becausr I m having horrible doubts... Comes home every morning after working night shift exhausted. I understand this completely and even feel guilty because I do not work yet, though I ve been searching for a job and interviewing all year, and no luck. Anyway, he comes home and eats breakfast then plops down in bed and sleeps all morningh through afternoon. I though I could handle it and understand since he works so hard, but he ll literally do nothing else! When he is awake he s either not with me, working on his bike, or out with friends. It become rare now that we actually have quality time. Now I cook and clean, search for jobs, and care for the dog from the time that I was up (around 7-9AM) until he comes home (about 12-1PM) and it usually continues sporatically throughout the day since he s sleeping. It is wrong of me to feel disregarded and taken advantage of?

My husband makes me feel useless and insecure. He tells me that I am miserable and annoying when I try to give my opinion on anything. I don't understand why he would treat me like this. We used to be such a loving couple. But now, whenever he is in bad mood, he swears at me and throws things at me. I never swear at him or use violence. Today he even cursed at me saying I should choke while eating the food I made. I tried talking with him but he doesn't seem to realise that there is a problem..

Ratti had sexual relations with Dev before her marriage with Vijay.Now Dev is engaged with Damini sister of Vijay.If vijay will know that my wife has already been in bed with Dev will he let her sister marry ex lover of his wife will Dev again start having sex with Rati.I do nt think this marriage will take place

Is love just a word that people now & days throw around that it isn't really meant. I've been starting to believe that love no longer exists in this generation as it has many years ago. Technology has created a way for love to diminish. My grandparents were married 65 years & lost their virginity too eachother very young & stayed together sense. I've come too believe that I will not truly love unless I have a child & of course I would love my own child. But I don't believe I can love now because everyone seems too be so focussed on technology & social media that no one can have that true connection anymore. On actually communicating face too face instead of worrying about a computer screen or phone screen. It just seems like no one can comunicate like the old days. & that's all I truly want.

On Tuesday I took her to the hospital for an endoscopy. After the procedure was over, they called me back. I had our 4 year old daughter with me. The doctor wanted to go over a few things with me, so a nurse took my daughter with her and was playing with her in the other room. After the doctor finished with me, he said give us 5 minutes and she'll be ready. In those 5 minutes, I went to check on our daughter. She was with the nurse playing legos in the next room. I watched from a distance and smiled. My wife came out and noticed me smiling and got upset. She thought I was checking out the nurse.... After we got home, my wife gave me crap about it. I told her I was watching my little girl play, and that was the truth. Was the nurse cute? Yes, she was, but that's not what I was smiling at nor why I went over there. My wife asked me "Well do you think she's attractive?" I said "Yes she was a pretty girl." Talk about a loaded question! Ever since then, my wife has been giving me crap like "Wouldn't you be better off with a hot 30 year old wife than with a 40 year old one with gastro problems?" And she wasn't joking. How can I get her to just drop it.

My fiance and I are 27 and he proposed to me after we dated for 6 months. I personally don't think it's too soon but my friends and family think were sorta negative and it kinda stressed me out abit because I care so much what they think. Now we are not rushing to get married, we won't until Feb 2017 maybe by the end of next year. I very happy.

I cheated on her with eight different women And she Paid me back having sex With a guy that used to be my best friend He was the best man in our wedding. We was no longer best friends When the revenge Sex took place we was enemies.But the thing is I can't get over it .It bothers me everyday constantly on my mind . My wife and I Are still together But its been 2 years And I'm still devastated. I'm afraid I will be this depressed for the rest of my life. I need some good adviceWhat should I do

I caught my husband what appear to be humping one of our pillows yesterday. He had taken a pillow and folded it twice and was laying on it rocking and thrusting it with his pelvis with his pants down. He did this motion for about 5 minutes before climaxing onto a towel. I have also seen him hump a corner of the couch and the corner of the bed too. Is this normal for a guy to do? Luckily he did not see me. I don't know, I must not be pleasing him enough.

I've been married for 3 wonderful years. My husband has always been kind and respectful. We have a daughter whose 5 monthes old. Im a stay at home mom. My husband provides for our family. We keep a very traditional home. Since the birth of our daughter, my husband has been spending more and more time away from home. He comes home late and we hardly see him anymore. Lately, whenever I ask him for money he questions me and tells me that I dont really need it. I admit that a lot of it is not "needed", but it isnt as if im buying extravegant things. If i say i want to buy our daughter a new toy or something, that isnt "wasting money". I also know that he does have the money because he shows me his budget every night. So anyways, i told him that if he is reluctent to spend on his child and wife, that im going to get a job. I had a job before we got married so I dont mind. He got all angry. We had agreed when we got married that I would stay home and take care of the house. It was fine until now. I just want some financial freedom. Is that so much to ask for? I said to him that if he makes me stay home, i want him to give me money. Its only fair, i saty home ans clean the house and do the garden and cook the food and take care of the baby, im working for our family and he should be doing the same thing. I never question anything so why does he question me. My mother says its not right for me to ask my husband for a 'salary'. But its only like that if you want to see it that way.

Normally I wouldn't care about this type of thing, but there's one ex I really don't want my husband talking to. She's his most recent ex, and they ended on a pretty bad note. Dated for 2 years and she broke up with him to sleep with other people. What I really dislike, is when he and I first started seeing each other she suddenly wanted him back, and tried to make him meet her somewhere and said "she doesn't have to know" referring to me. My husband is certain she would have tried sleeping with him to keep him wanting her, which I assumed also. She begged him for a few days to meet her. I found this very disrespectful and I don't think any woman would want her husband to continue any type of relationship with a woman who tried to make him privately meet up with her. She also said some cruel things about me like I just wanted a new baby daddy (I have twins from a previous relationship) and she even had one of her friends send me a long, hateful email. She's disrespected us too many times, and I just think he needs to ignore anythin else she says to him. Am I overreacting?

It's like having two 'families-in-law' and it's a bit too much for me. My husband was a widower before we met. His first wife passed away after an ectopic pregnancy; he was married to her from the age of 24 to 26. They didn't have any kid. We got married last year, around 4 years after the woman's passing. My husband is still good friend with his former brothers and sisters-in-law, and their parents. We often comes over at Christmas, Easter, and some birthdays. My husband was also asked by his brother-in-law to be godfather of his first child. It's all nice of course, but because he also has his family, it's like having a double dose of everything. Although his former in-laws are quite nice to me, I feel out of place. I don't want to sound petty, but it's a bit 'weird' (for the lack of word) that he was married to a woman for only two years and then he's involved with her family for the rest of his life. I even think he's closer to her family than to mine or to his own. It's a bit sensitive as an issue so I only raised it once, and he said it's simply because they are kind people, and they also like me, so he doesn't understand why I object. I'm not sure either, I just feel it's not normal, and a bit jealous maybe. Should I let this go? Yes, I was aware they are close, but I thought after we got married he would automatically see them less. At the risk of repeating myself, I feel out of place seeing his former wife's family several times a year, particularly during the holiday season. When my friends asked and I told them we hanged out with them, they were like raising their eyebrows.

I really want to get married now. My boyfriend is older than me (he is 25), but we are very much in love. I really think he's the one for me. He has all the good qualities - responsible, hard-working, funny, intelligent, compassionate, honest, good-looking, etc. We do fight, but not that often. It's normal. I'm in college, but I want to marry him now (he proposed) and have children after I graduate. I do have many career goals, but I can be married and working at the same time. I just love him like I never loved anyone. Do you think it's a good idea for a 19 years old girl to get married that young? I see no point in waiting. We're dating for 2 years.

Do you prefer to marry modern or traditional men? Why? Do you prefer to be a housewife or a working woman? Do you prefer your husband to be a "stay-at-home dad" or a working man? Would you split the house chores so you're not the only one doing all the house work? (Answer only if you prefer to be a working woman) Do you prefer to be the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship?

I haven't spoken to my ex husband in 3 years he sent me a FB message saying he got a girl pregnant and she's crazy an they were never together and to be careful if I get any messages . About 6 months later I got an angry message saying she was sick of his lies that he was having an affair with her for 5 years behind my back and I'm a fool for believing him and the child is his. My friends think my ex was covering his tracks , I kind of believe her but unsure who is telling the truth

Am 28yr old female. MBA passed out 2011. From 2011 - 2014 November i was not working. Was just simply sitting home thinking to get married. All my idea was to finish studies and get married. I was very much interested to have good career but sometimes it stops me when i start thinking about marriage. My parents due to no finance they kept delaying. They never saw any alliance and neither am been in any relationship But 2 months before my Father died. No financial security for us. Now its been 1 week. I have got a job in one company. Am working as Receptionist I always had dream about working in good big company in a decent designation not receptionist. Now am in relationship with boy. I dont know whether it is God's wish or what ?. Am confused. All these years my Father was living with me. I dint had job. I was not in relationship and due to no money my parents dint see any alliance for me Now he is no more. Me, my mother left alone. Am working as receptionist though am not liking this designation, just for money and manage home am working. Now am in relationship, Boy wants to marry me. I have no money. And the boy is also from Poor family. He loves me so much. What it is all about.? is it my mistake of not working just sitting after mba 3yrs.? or God punishing me.? or My FATE.? Now my full idea is to give my mother full happiness by giving her all things. But still i want to get married as am in relationship. Please somebody help me. Please

So i am starting to question if this was an actual coworker to start with. This number used to be listed in his previous phone as a male coworker. I know for a fact because i am the one who transfered his contacts to his new phone. But this same number does not have a name, just a number. Now he received a picture of a woman who appears to be naked. I can tell because i do not see anything on her chest. Well i do not see her chest but i can easily tell she sent this picture with her top part uncovered. I do not know what to think. He has not answered the message he just left it there. He received it 2 days ago.

but has yet to make a move towards fixing things between her and I. I have met someone else and have yet to make a move on this person although she really wants me to and is patiently waiting I dont know what to do.

My husband and I got into an argument. I let the dog sleep in the bed while he was out of town for work and she got hair on his side. I told him she did and he said I would change the sheets. When he came home and saw it he still said it was fine and not to worry about it bc it wasn't that much. Well I went to bed and he stayed up and drank beer. At around 11 he came in cussing at me and throwing stuff at the dog and scaring her bc of the hair in the bed. He threatened to sleep in another room so I got mad and said "fine then do it." Then he started cussing at me even more so I got up to leave and sleep on the couch. He wouldn't let me leave so I sat down on the floor and he started throwing the "dirty" sheets at me. I just laid down like I was going to sleep on the floor. After a few minutes I got up to leave for the couch and he got up to stop me and while he was trying to make me go back in the bedroom I grabbed the bedroom door to hold on and at the same time he took a step and the door slammed into his foot. He started yelling and calling me a f*** b*** and so on and told me to get out. When I didn't leave he grabbed my arm and threw me out the door and into the wall and locked me out. Is this my fault? is this fight normal for married couples? or should I be worried?

- won t give me access to his account on computer, it is password protected. - won t give me email or facebook password. - restrictions set on fb so I can t see his wall, most photos or anything else he does on fb. - did not accept relationship request on fb, now will not accept marriage request on fb so his page appears as if he is single. - deleted browsing history before I could use his phone to look up movie times - leaves town for work on a regular basis - leaves midday, saying he is running to car wash, store, etc and doesn t come back for hours. - started wearing cologne on a regular basis when he didn t in the past, even keeps it in his vehicle. - has zero interest in me sexually, it is a constant source of tension and causes me a lot of anguish.

My wife cleans the house and cooks for me but everything gets done in 30 minutes. Especially because she just had a baby. She says that she has nothing else to do besides feed the baby and change his diaper. She just bought herself a nintendo 3ds and plays on it everyday. I admit, the house is clean and by the time i get home, the food is already done. But i told her that with a newborn, there is NO time to play or even watch tv. Shr should be taking care of the baby. She says that she gets bored of doing nothing when the baby is sleeping. I told her to just make a mess and clean it up again but she will not listen. She plays on her nintendo. she doesnt have a cell phone because all she did was text so i had to cut it off. So can anyone answer my question? Is she still allowed to play video games after she's had a baby? If so, how much time can she play on it?

I was in a verbal fight with someone my best friend is sleeping with because she was jealous. She thought i wanted him. She was bragging to me that they are engaged. (She does not know that he tells everyone he sleeps with that). I tried to send her hints by asking her if his family knew about it, the wedding. She said "ughhh i talk to his mom and i go over there"" lol does that sound like a lie? If you fighting someone, why would you tell,them that