Marriage & Divorce: Question: Should one ever have to prove their loyalty/fidelity to their spouse? |
- Question: Should one ever have to prove their loyalty/fidelity to their spouse?
- Question: What is he thinking? I'm confused?
- Question: Whats the best way to beat toe2?
- Question: We are both married and i dont know my feelings for this man.?
- Question: Trying to spice up 10 year marriage. Ideas?
- Question: Change into active voice.?
- Question: How did you know your partner/mate/spouse was "the one" for you?
- Question: Does it make it more difficult to not have a car while living in the city close to transportation and looking for long term marriage?
- Question: Marriage problems?
- Question: Are parents still married even if one of them dies?
- Question: I am one of triplet sisters and i am in love with my sisters husban and told me he cant stop thinking about me.?
- Question: Why does a man have to take care of a baby he does not want?
- Question: What is the episode in married with children where al checks out someone else s wife while that man of the other woman is checking peg out?
- Question: Gender Studies: I found this article and I thought is was pretty good on how hetero men feel. What do you think?
- Question: Is there something wrong with my marriage?
- Question: My husband is calling me names, treating me badly after I kicked him out.?
- Question: Need opinions on if their a difference between a relationship contact?
- Question: Is this a good reason for an almost 2 year relationship to end?
- Question: What do I do? Part 2?
- Question: What do I do? Part 1?
- Question: OCD and constant need for reassurance is ruining my marriage! :( :(?
- Question: My husband & daughter roll their eyes and mock most of what I say. I'll let them know I feel hurt and they roll their eyes again. What to do?
- Question: My husband came home stinking of cigarettes, and I couldn't enjoy sleeping with him- now he's furious?
- Question: Should I, a married guy, hang out with a woman who has admitted to wanting to be more than friends with me and being attracted to me?
- Question: Will I go to hell for divorcing a man I don't love?
- Question: Is there a name for separated spouse?
- Question: Night before wedding do some ppl stay at the hotel they're getting married in?
- Question: Why is it the more you trust a woman in a Relationship the more she shows you why you shouldn't.?
- Question: My wife loves me and married me, but she's been in a 2 year relationship and had a fiancée before me?
- Question: Husband keeps accusing me of cheating?
- Question: Intercultural marriage?
- Question: I want a wedding, but I don't want to get married?
- Question: Should I be talked to like this, over simple questions?
- Question: How do financial arrangements and other legality s work with Marriage ?
- Question: Why is my wife so obsessed with make-up!?
- Question: Wedding favours? What did you give out?
- Question: Anyone else married to a hypocrite? How do you handle it?
- Question: Should I leave him? Should I just be quiet and say nothing?
- Question: My husband keeps saying offensive things about my family what should I do?
- Question: Sex is good but partner is a jerk?
- Question: My wife wants me to get my anus bleached because she said it's too dark, is she trying to feminize me?
- Question: Girls that were going to wait for marriage to have sex this question is for you!!?
- Question: What do you think of this?
- Question: Was I a rebound? Desperately need advice! Married for nearly 3 yrs.?
- Question: Have you ever been left due to illness by your companion/partner/wife/etc?
- Question: Wife was spoiled as an only child, now it's like I can't get rid of my in-laws?
- Question: I asked my husband a question and I feel like he thinks I'm just with him for materialistic reasons.?
- Question: If you knew your husband was having an emotion, could eventually be physical affair, what would you do?
- Question: How do I know that my husband loves me? How do I know my husband enjoys sex with me?
- Question: Can I force my wife to have tattoos to increase my sexual pleasures ?
- Question: Do you wish all the time that your husband should be with you for ever ?
- Question: Thanks facebook!?
- Question: Why many married women ( now)are taking risk and having affairs ? (Most men always do from the early days),?
- Question: Is it okay to take a break from sex in a marriage?
- Question: Is it wrong to enjoy other men watching my wife in revealing outs?
- Question: Is my husband abusing me domestically?
- Question: My Husband Spits on my face and slaps me after sex!?
- Question: Marriage relationships 10 points?
- Question: Should Husband and Wife Use Passwords for Chat Messages?
- Question: For Married peoples How did you Prepare for your Marriage life ?
| Question: Should one ever have to prove their loyalty/fidelity to their spouse? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:56 PM PDT My husband and I had a falling out over the weekend over failure to communicate. I felt if he couldn't communicate any longer, I needed to leave the marriage. Attempting to give us space to think, I told him I was going to visit my mom to clear my head and think and he needed to think too. I was out all day talking to my mom on the phone and with a girlfriend from work. After resolving our issue, hubby questioned me where I was in the morning and it was such a stressful weekend I couldn't even remember!! It took me TEN MINUTES to remember and he said he thought that was weird I couldn't remember and felt it was hard to trust someone who couldn't remember what they did a few days ago. I was so incredibly stressed I couldn't remember what day it was! Hubby hinted at thinking I had met up with someone else and suddenly decided to go be with my mom to think (aka divorce him due to another man). Until I showed him proof, he said he believed me and I asked if he trusted me no matter what and he said yes. I still feel worried. I feel guilty that I ever made him feel that way. I have NEVER cheated on anyone in my life, and I have been loyal to him since day one. He told me he trusted me and believed me, but I still feel guilty that I ever made him feel this way. Is it his insecurity to deal with or should I speak up and say that I feel rotten that I ever gave him the impression that I wasn't loyal to him? |
| Question: What is he thinking? I'm confused? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:45 PM PDT I am a bit confused. There's this guy, we will call him Mitch, that I've known since middle school . He even dated my best friend for a little while. Well he's married, and I used to be friends with his wife. Anyway he recently (like a couple months ago) got in touch with me, and says that he wants me. He admitted he had a crush on me in high school (and yes I had a crush on him too) . I just don't know what to do about all this. I mean, we do live 2 hours apart, and idk if anything will actually happen. But he wants it to. We had phone sex this morning. Still can't believe that happened. I'm not really the other woman type, but old crushes die very hard, and he's got a really big dick. We both have kids, and if his wife and my boyfriend found out it could get really really messy and any reputation I had left in my hometown (where he lives) would be shot to hell. But I can't help it.... I want him too. He says he doesn't care if I get pregnant, that he WANTS that to happen, and he'd want the baby. I'm definitely confused and don't know what to do, having never really been in this situation before. Please refrain from name calling, it's not needed. |
| Question: Whats the best way to beat toe2? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:31 PM PDT pls tell me! |
| Question: We are both married and i dont know my feelings for this man.? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:30 PM PDT a new co worker, we have so much in common. i am afraid of seeing him outside of work because i am afraid my husband will think i will fall in love with him. we share intimant things about our marriages and even though i can not meet with him he still is kind to me and understanding. i think about him and his marriage a lot. he told me he might leave to work in a different city and i had a dream that he was gone so i texted him when i work up and asked if he was still here. when he said he was i was so happy. he is very polite and gentlemanly, even to my husband and others.i give things my husband gives to me. |
| Question: Trying to spice up 10 year marriage. Ideas? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:21 PM PDT We have done everything. Nothing is new under the sun. But. I need ideas. I am not worried he is bored. I am bored. Four kids. A mortgage. A business. I just want to have fun again. Any suggestions? On seduction? Even flirting. I have been out of the game so long..... |
| Question: Change into active voice.? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:14 PM PDT Nancy gets her husband to wash her car. Thank you in advance. . Sorry! Change into passive voice. |
| Question: How did you know your partner/mate/spouse was "the one" for you? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:12 PM PDT For those of you who are married or been with your partner for any extended amount of time, how did you know he/she was the one for you. Include your age range. |
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| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:47 PM PDT If you are married and you husband/ wife are not providing you with the physical bed play that you need,but you don t want a divorce. Is "Sexting" cheating? |
| Question: Are parents still married even if one of them dies? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:34 PM PDT Like they never got divorced when they were both alive, but since one is now dead, can you still say they're married? (Aside from being a widow/widower.) |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:31 PM PDT but i dont know how he can love me more than my sister when all three of us are identical |
| Question: Why does a man have to take care of a baby he does not want? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:12 PM PDT Why do women get to have all the power in that decision to get an abortion, fine don't get one but why is that I must pay child support or raise a child I do not want nor am ready for? Why are women allowed to singlehandedly decide whether or not a man has to become a father or pay child support to some child he doesn't want? Do I get no say in my own life and future? And people act like its entirely the mans fault that she got pregnant, like she doesn't know that she should take birth control? Like she is absolved of everything as if I am the root problem for her having a baby? It takes two to make one, so why is all the blame, hatred, and responsibility thrown on me? |
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| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:51 PM PDT http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/marriage/the-10-biggest-reasons-men-resent-their-wives/ss-AAcriAY?fullscreen=true#image=3 @ Steve. I know marriage is at it's lowest since 1870. But maybe it will make a comeback. |
| Question: Is there something wrong with my marriage? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:22 PM PDT I took my husband back after a 2 year separation and two illegitimate children . He wanted to move to Massachusetts from Florida and we did so before our kids winter break this past Xmas. His mother, his family lives there. He was still talking to a girl from FL and told her he was moving back even though he said he hated her for telling me about the affair ! What was his real reason because he told me so she would not interfere . Is he innocent?As of yesterday we have moved back to FL. I feel upset, used and disgusted as we been there for only 7 months. I uprooted myself and kids after taking him back after having another family. Please give me advice as to what I should do I love my kids and don't want to affect then negatively. |
| Question: My husband is calling me names, treating me badly after I kicked him out.? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:24 PM PDT I finally had enough to kick my verbally abusive, alcoholic husband out. We've been married 6 years; I'm 35, and my husband is 45. He's been gone for 2 days, and hasn't tried to see our two girls (ages 4 & 2) since he left. It's hard to explain; he wanted to leave and I told him I thought it best if he did leave. We've been texting but he's just being so hateful, and making me cry. Since he's been gone he says things like I'm ugly, laughs when I cry, says that everyone thinks I'm worthless. He even called my children's former pediatrician and made allegations that I abuse our children. The pediatrician called me and told me what he said, that's how I found out. I don't know what to do. I just cry because it hurts so much that he's being so hateful and evil. I thought about changing my phone number, but I don't know if I want to go through the hassle. Any suggestions? Please. |
| Question: Need opinions on if their a difference between a relationship contact? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT My other half and I have been discussing and are at odds. Is there a difference between (1) someone having contact once every 4-5 years(visiting in person or talking) that you slept with 15 years ago and informed your other half about the person at the start of the relationship and also asked permission before you had contact with the person and (2) contact by text and hanging out after work with someone that you fooled around with (caught naked on a couch by spouse not able to go through with sleeping with the person) while being married 6 months ago and continued a fratuation with over the next 3 months with hidden texts and say you still have feelings for? Need opinions from both guys and gals please! |
| Question: Is this a good reason for an almost 2 year relationship to end? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:42 PM PDT Basically, we started dating in November 2013. Looking back we kinda rushed into it because we were bf/gf within a week of talking. I was (am) a virgin, he has had sex with 3 girls before me. The thing is.......my personal belief on sex was always a big deal. I am saving my virginity for someone who I know for sure is special and cares about me and isn't using me. Over time of not having sex but getting everything else from me, he told me he'd start to get disinterested in me. He warned me earlier this year and I started to see it, he said he couldn't feel close to me because we weren't having intercourse. Especially our last month together, in June, it came down to him barely talking to me or us doing anything together because he said it felt like we weren't dating because no sex. We broke up two weeks ago because he didn't feel close to me and my feelings were hurt, ...does the whole situation make sense, did he have a good reason for dumping me? He acts like sex would have saved our relationship, but I don't think so, it seems like he lost interest and sex is his excuse. we're both 24. things started our so perfect... I dumped him, because he started to act completely uninterested. I wasn't even saving it for marriage, and I admit I waited too long. He said I wasn't worth doing anything for if he wasnt getting the reward, which was sex. It felt like verbal abuse. we didn't do anything for my birthday. If we were having sex, we'd still be together? Hard to believe. |
| Question: What do I do? Part 2? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:10 PM PDT The fight ended with him calling me a selfish ***** for wanting more kids, not asking him if he wanted more kids....which...is kinda true.....and then getting knocked up. i dont want my 2 youngest children growing up where I'm the only one who loves them. Please help. How can I get my husband to love them? What do I do? |
| Question: What do I do? Part 1? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:06 PM PDT My husband and I met in college After a year of dating, I found out some news...I was pregnant. Yep, a 19 year old pregnant. He was happy to be a father. All he wanted was a family since he had lost his parents when he was very young. Him, his younger adopted brother, and his younger adopted sister were all very supportive as my family (minus my older brother who I lived with at the time) could care less. 9 months later I gave birth to a boy, who today, looks very much like his dad. I mean the only thing he has from me is my pout. 2 years later I found out I was pregnant with not just 1! Not 2! But 3 babies. My husband cried and cried more when he found out he was gonna have 2 other sons and a baby girl. 4 beautiful children....but I wanted more kids. And 3 years later my prayers were answered when I found out I was pregnant with twins. I told my husband and expected him to cry, but all he did was look at my stomach, grab his keys, drive off and come home 5 hours later. I started crying, I thought he would be happy that there would be more little feet paddling aroun but I was wrong. When it came to baby time I was alone. My husband was across the country with my older brother, my sister in law dropped me off and left and then my brother in law hadnt made an apperence still mourning his girlfriends death. Recently we got into a big fight about how he didnt love our 2 youngest children as much as he did our 4 oldest. |
| Question: OCD and constant need for reassurance is ruining my marriage! :( :(? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:58 PM PDT I have OCD. Part of my OCD is a constant need for reassurance from people. So, if I am worried about something, I tend to ask the opinion of anyone's ear and I can get. Tomorrow I am playing golf and there are people who know a little about the thing I am currently upset about. The situation is with my husband, and it occurred over 10 years ago. We were only dating at the time; he was about 20 or 21. Long story, but my hubby had a car and a family friend cosigned. When hubby was going to sell it, his brother took over payments instead and kept it as his. The title wasn't signed over, it was just verbal. A family friend paid off the bill for the brother. My husband never asked him to he just did it. I think the man has special needs. So, I think that means my husband took advantage of someone with a disability. I know he was only 20 or 21 at the time, and he doesn't think this man actually has a disability, but I do. I think there is something wrong with this man for other reasons, too, such as he can be socially awkward and talked a bit funny. Some other people I know say they think something is wrong with him, too. The man did used to say the brother owed him money, and he did ask my husband for money back once, but when my husband said it was between him and his brother, the man said sorry. and didn't press the issue. I can't get it out of my head, even though it was 11 years ago. It makes me feel like my husband is a bad person or is immoral or something. I don't want to ruin everyone's day by asking random people about a situation, but our friend's dad works with this guy, so he might be able to tell me what he thinks and if there is something really wrong with him. They both work for the city at a sewer department; the man I think has something the matter used to operate heavy machinery, plow, etc., for the city, too. I feel like this is the only way to relieve these reoccurring thoughts in my head.What can I do to get this out of my head without asking everyone for their opinion? Any tips for me? |
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| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 02:05 PM PDT My husband and I have been going through a really bad patch and haven't been "intimate" for like 2 weeks... Anyway, we had this issue many times in the past with him smoking- he knows I hate the smell, and it became more of an issue when I got pregnant and he was smoking around me, and now we have a 1 year old. He's started and stopped several times, so we compromised on e-cigarettes- at least there's not as much danger with second-hand smoking or smell. I found out tonight he definitely started regular cigarettes again cos he smelt so strongly of it. I tried to carry on with it cos I would feel bad not to, but I honestly felt mad he started again and the smell for me is repulsive, so I wasn't enjoying it. He asked me what was wrong and I said you smell really bad of cigarettes. He got really angry and actually pushed me off him, saying how we haven't been "together" in ages and I am not enjoying it cos of that. He blamed me also for "faking it". I didn't notice the smell until some time after we started, but I still tried to carry on and enjoy it. I can't help it if I hate the smell, and he knows I do. I feel bad I wasn't enjoying it as such but he could have the decency not to smoke right before we are about to get "intimate" after 2 whole weeks, considering he knows how I feel about it. Am I wrong? |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:56 PM PDT So I hang out with this woman sometimes. We have known each other for many years. We have only ever been friends but one day I wondered and asked her if she ever wanted more. She dais in the past she did not now she worries if we would break up and never speak again so she did not want to pursue it further. She further admitted to being attracted to me. As a married guy, is it still ok for me to hang out with this woman or is it too dangerous? |
| Question: Will I go to hell for divorcing a man I don't love? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:50 PM PDT I married a man about 8 months ago out of spite. In my heart I knew I didn't love the man I married the way he wanted me to. I love the other man with all my heart. I know I made a stupid mistake by marrying this guy. I'm very much in love with the other man and want to be with him. But I'm afraid that because I married this other man, that if I leave him and break covenant with him that I'm risking myself of going to hell. I can't bare the thought of losing the other man forever. No children between us. Just a marriage that should have never happened. |
| Question: Is there a name for separated spouse? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:46 PM PDT Is there a name for a wife that you are married to but separated without saying "my separated wife" and I don't want to call her my wife really to girls anymore. Thanks. |
| Question: Night before wedding do some ppl stay at the hotel they're getting married in? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:21 PM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT I swear to God I feel like I was born on an alien world and everything I believe in is enemy to this world. Like the Perfect marriage where man and woman stand together as one and work every problem they face out together and when conflict comes up or the world tries to put something in the way they walk right through it as if its not there. I've been told to find a nice woman I have to be willing to turn my back on my family Values and everything.....that's like telling me I have to point a gun at my own heart and pull the trigger....Why did my mother raise me to this when the world don't even care about it anymore Btw if this post sounds a little Emo please try to understand a War is going on inside of me with what I am, what I was raised to and what people have told me I have to be, and after a while it wears you down. |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:46 PM PDT I just don't know if she was going to marry this guy she said she was never gonna marry this guy, but How can you be fiancée with someone if you was never going to marry them i get very jealous when I thing about it. |
| Question: Husband keeps accusing me of cheating? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:44 PM PDT I've been married to my husband for 2 years. I'm on maternity leave from work since I am 7 months pregnant with twins. I'm usually resting most of the day when he is at work... He is convinced that I cheat on him when he at work :( I love my husband and I know how much it would hurt him if I did that to him. So I NEVER WOULD. He always says I screw other men in our house when he is working and that our kids aren't even his... I can barely even walk let alone have crazy vigorous sex while he's working -.-... He's making me so depressed... How can I get him to believe I don't cheat on him? |
| Question: Intercultural marriage? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT Why is there intercultural marriages? Why does it exist? Why do couples from different countries marry? Why cant they marry from there own country? |
| Question: I want a wedding, but I don't want to get married? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT I've always dreamed of having a wedding, but now that I'm older now, I've realized marriage isn't something I want. Am I weird to still want a wedding? Is it normal to not want to get married? Is it possible to have like a prom-like "wedding" to celebrate my birthday or something? |
| Question: Should I be talked to like this, over simple questions? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:24 PM PDT My Husband is the yellow bubbles and I'm the blue. |
| Question: How do financial arrangements and other legality s work with Marriage ? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 12:16 PM PDT Okay, so me and my girlfriend are looking to eventually get married within the next 1.5-3 years. But lately when the subject gets brought up we just don t know where to even start with getting married and how to do it and how independent we get because were 19 right now and want to get married after our junior or senior year in college. but we re both still living at home. so we both don t really know where to even start. or how it works. so are there any sites that can walk us through everything and different expenses. and how taxes/insurance/living work? |
| Question: Why is my wife so obsessed with make-up!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 11:40 AM PDT She litterally can't stop buying these products, and it's really worrying me, cause we don't share money. . |
| Question: Wedding favours? What did you give out? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 11:37 AM PDT I do not want to do books of matches |
| Question: Anyone else married to a hypocrite? How do you handle it? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 11:27 AM PDT My wife gets pissed off when I leave my things around the house but always leaves her things wherever she likes because as she says..."it doesn't bother me". She yells and screams at the top of her lungs but thinks I'm an a$$hole when I do it back. She wants me to do nce things for her but she can't even speak to me with repsect (calls me names etc).She refuses to rub my back or my feet but constantly asks me to do it for her. We had a big fight last night and the more I proved her wrong the more upset she got. We can't communicate because all we do is argue. I went ahead and contacted a therapist for couples therapy and she said she can't even think about going because she's "too agry with me". WTF...I think I married a whack job. I think she doesn't want to go because she'll be exposed for the terrible, verbally abusive person she is. |
| Question: Should I leave him? Should I just be quiet and say nothing? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 10:17 AM PDT Marriage problems - I'm 21 years old married with 2 children . Me and my husband have been together for three years but we just prevously got married this feb 2015. For the past year know we keep having the same problem with him texting different females from work or his past and last year a woman told me that he had met her for sex while I was pregnant with our second child. He response was that she was lying and the only reason she was able to describe our car to me was because she had prevously seen him at the store . Then a couple weeks later after I gave birth to our daughter some girl texted him about meeting up . I confronted him about it he said the girl walked up to him yo and asked for his number but he never met up with her before and it was not his intentions but to make a long story short it has happened again I caught him texting a female and I found out that she is an escort and posts on backpage and that he was going through backpage recently . But he said that she knew him from high scho and she sent him a message on Facebook and he was giving her relationship advice and nothing else . The thing is I don't believe him at all but I pretend that I do and I'm in a horrible place mentally right now . I feel depressed I don't know what to do . I love him but I know this will continue to happen. I just need some type of advice |
| Question: My husband keeps saying offensive things about my family what should I do? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 09:30 AM PDT My husband and I come from two different worlds and our families are completely different in everyway. In my husband s eyes I came from a "perfect family". Which couldn t be further from the truth however my family works incredibly hard to provide for their children as anyone should. Well anyway he comes from tougher times though his dad was in the marines they experienced a lot of family issues which eventually resulted in their dad abandoning them. My husband s family particularly his mother is incredibly rude and to be quite honest I do not like her. When my husband is around my family they welcome him with open arms and treat him like family whereas his family treats me the complete opposite but yet he still has a problem with my family. We recently found out we re expecting and after getting the results from my bloodwork i found out I m a carrier for the sickle cell trait I was really concerned about the baby possibly having sickle cell and was speaking to my husband about getting bloodwork to confirm or deny if he is a carrier as well. He went on to say that my family is from Africa and that s why I carry the trait (he s half black half asian) and he said several other things about my "African" family he completely pissed me off and I just don t understand the issue with my family he always manages to talk **** about them when they are much more manner able than his rude *** ghetto family. How would you handle this? |
| Question: Sex is good but partner is a jerk? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 09:19 AM PDT Guy doesn't want marriage ( but he would like marriage with anyone else who meets his high standards) Guy is embarrassed to tell his family or let anyone know about me ( because I have a child ) Guy spends time online telling other women that they are hot and can do better than their bf Guy is in his 40s and has a thing for young teen girls and he looks online for teen hookers (18 years old) Relationship is long distance he doesn't want to move, just looks up teen hookers and contemplates paying however, he is physically someone I find attractive and I like him sexually which is hard for me to find guys I like sexually. Time to break things off, thanks all for answering, I just needed a chorus of people saying I should let this go |
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| Question: Girls that were going to wait for marriage to have sex this question is for you!!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:54 AM PDT If you were always gonna wait and have sex till you were married and then ending up having sexy before marriage, do you regret it? If you do why if you don't why? And if you did have sex and don't regret it how did you know you were ready and wanted to for sure before marriage?? Please answer honest I am struggling with this, thank you! |
| Question: What do you think of this? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:53 AM PDT My husband has been texting my best friend and hiding most of it. We live with her and her husband, I trusted them. I found a couple text he forgot to delete on his phone from her. He says they're just best friends now. He says she had text him saying she accidently heard us having sex one night and wanted him to warn her the next time we do. (That's all he says he deleted. lol) he said that she meant she can tell him everything. And that she said btw because it was a different subject. He still can't explain the :/ faces and says he didn't mean to reply like that "he's bad with words". He said he deleted them because he thought I would freak out. But I've told him I don't care if they're close, just don't hide things from me.. Total lies in my opinion. Friends don't talk like that.. And on the subject of him being with his wife? No. So bottom line, am I being crazy? Or would any normal person know he is totally lying? My gut tells me something more is definitely up. What do you think? (The picture is of the text messages. text in the picture before and after we're unrelated to these two.) |
| Question: Was I a rebound? Desperately need advice! Married for nearly 3 yrs.? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:45 AM PDT I am concerned that I was just a rebound for my husband when he married me & I am in desperate need of advice. Basically, my husband and I dated for about a year before we got married, but only a couple months exclusively. I found out not long ago, before we got in our exclusive relationship he was still hanging out with his ex-girlfriend. They werent dating exclusively but just dating, I was also dating other ppl besides my husband before we got exclusive. I found out however, the same year we got married his ex had an abortion and he told her when she did that he would "never marry or be serious w/ her again." When I ask why he said this, he says it's because he knew that's what She wanted & he wanted to hurt her. He never wanted to have a baby w/ her & never brought up keeping it, but he's against abortion. They still hungout after the fact until him & I got serious, and he hasn't talked to her since. So the abortion happened in April of that year, then he took her out to dinner for her birthday in July and soon after that we got into a serious relationship and then married thereafter. Would he of just married me cause he couldn't get over the abortion? I should also say, he has always treated me very well & from stories I've heard of them, he wasn't the best to her. When I ask my husband he assures me I wasn't a rebound & he was just bored which would lead to them hanging out. does this seem like it could of been a rebound? All advice is appreciated. |
| Question: Have you ever been left due to illness by your companion/partner/wife/etc? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:33 AM PDT I know of 3 instances a wife left her husband after he had surgery. They were all 3 getting up there in age. It really makes little sense to me. Is it just self centeredness? |
| Question: Wife was spoiled as an only child, now it's like I can't get rid of my in-laws? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 08:17 AM PDT When we got married they gave us the money for a down payment for a house in the same town as them. If only I could see what a mistake that was to be so close... My mother in law is constantly coming over. Nightly. She takes it upon herself to do our laundry, to clean the house, sometimes she'll cook or bring food over. It's just too much and my wife loves it. Whenever I've told her this is too much closeness she gets offended and says how we're so lucky that her mother is so generous and caring. We're talking about starting a family but I seriously have reservations because I feel like that will mean my mother in law coming over even more. Help me out here? I guess in short my question is how do I cut the cord between my wife and her clingon mother? |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:54 AM PDT Today I asked my husband a question that was "She may be in love with you, but what do her actions reveal?" and "How many times does she say "I love you" in a day?" His respond was " Her actions reveal she is in love with me.....when I give her what she wants" and "She says I love you quite a bit.....when I give her what's she wants" This hurt me so much because I sincerely love him, I would lay my life down for him. And I don't want him think the only reason why I love him is because he buys me things. I have also bought him things as well.(He is my fiancé) And his family has put me through hell! Him saying this to me hurt so much I wanted to cry, I mentioned to him that those to questions made me sad and all he said was "that's how I feel baby" I understand that's how he feels, but I don't know what I can do, I don't want him to feel that way. Should I not let him get me thing or what? Also his family has put me through hell, they always scold me about thing I do. All the time, its either his brother in law or his cousins wife. Like any relationship it has not been easy but I am still with him trying my best to keep our relationship going. |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:43 AM PDT I found out that my husband has been talking to this girl from xbox live that's in his cod clan. And they're talking about her coming here to visit and having sex and she bought a special bra just to wear for him when she comes to see him. He doesn't know that I know. He has been losing his erection when we have sex or just not wanting sex from me. At first I thought it was cuz of stress, but now I know the real reason. He is constantly talking to her. I thought they were just friends until I came upon these messages. What should I do? Idk how to confront him without making him really angry. We are going on a weekend getaway today and I just really can't stand the thought of being around him this way since I know he's been lying and telling another girl that he's wanting to have sex with her. We have 3 kids. He's active duty army and I'm a stay at home mom, so he is my only financial support since we can't afford daycare for 3 kids. All of my family and friends are 900 miles away and I just feel so trapped and scared and really hurt and angry. What should I do??? |
| Question: How do I know that my husband loves me? How do I know my husband enjoys sex with me? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 07:01 AM PDT I love my husband I just don't know if he feels the same way. |
| Question: Can I force my wife to have tattoos to increase my sexual pleasures ? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 06:51 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you wish all the time that your husband should be with you for ever ? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 06:24 AM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Jul 2015 06:18 AM PDT Live with wife for 20 years. She hooked up with ex bf over Facebook and has phone sex relationship with him for last 6 years. He lives in Canada, but both of them coming from Europe, and I m pretty sure that they spend some time together over there few years back. We are still living in same house, sleep separately, and she does not admit any of this, but does not denying neither. We are having mortgage together on house, grownup son, who is mostly on collage. I don t know what to do and how to act. Any ideas? |
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| Question: Is it okay to take a break from sex in a marriage? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 05:18 AM PDT My wife and I have been stressed for awhile, my wife more so probably. She watches our two kids, 9 & 6, all day until I get home, and lately their behavior has been wearing on us both. My wife has never really enjoyed sex, meaning she has never had an orgasm. I attribute it to her distancing herself mentally. She agrees. She views sex more of as a chore, than intimacy. What do you think? If I were to propose a break from sex, would that be a stress relief to her? To clarify: When I mean "distancing herself mentally", I mean that she's constantly thinking (even during sex) about things that need to get done - laundry, pick up dry cleaning, get groceries, pay the electric bill. |
| Question: Is it wrong to enjoy other men watching my wife in revealing outs? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 04:00 AM PDT |
| Question: Is my husband abusing me domestically? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:50 AM PDT My husban and I work 8hrs a day, my husband makes dinner for us when he comes back and takes care of kids and cleans the house. Been like this for years...But yesterday his frnds were visiting and he asked me to make tea for his two friends and himself. After that I feel he is took advantage of me and is oppressing me cos i am a women. |
| Question: My Husband Spits on my face and slaps me after sex!? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:45 AM PDT I've been married for 3 years and I love my husband, he is very honest and nice but when ever we indulge in post argument sex, he cums on my face then spits on me and looks at me with disgust occasionally slaps me too after cuming. Other than this my marriage is prefect. Why is he doing this ? am i disgusting ? |
| Question: Marriage relationships 10 points? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:26 AM PDT Okay so i know a lot of couples who get married or who are in a relationship and stay very monogamous throughout life while in the relationship but is it normal if they don't sleep in the same bed due to comfort because i am afraid if i get married and like i would want to sleep alone since i move around and toss around a lot while sleeping and become a disturbance is there couples that sleep on separate beds is this normal 10 points. |
| Question: Should Husband and Wife Use Passwords for Chat Messages? Posted: 16 Jul 2015 03:19 AM PDT if there is nothing to hide from your spouse, why the need for passwords for your FB or LINE chat line? Having passwords only raise suspicions. Things should be open right? What do you think? I believe that by not using a password, couples can certainly reinforce trust. The other person will surely appreciate your complete openness. This will take a relationship to the next level for sure. I guess I'll put it this way. There are times when our spouse really have no business knowing all our chats with others. A close friend (same sex) may have confided or confessed something. A sibling may have discussed something that is only privileged To within our own family circle. Having a password does not have to raise a red flag. |
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