Marriage & Divorce: Question: Normal behavior for husband? |
- Question: Normal behavior for husband?
- Question: Husband cheated, ended it and acts like nothing happened....?
- Question: My boyfriend is married!?
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- Question: I think shes cheating on me?
- Question: How would you feel if this happened to you?
- Question: How to handle a stalker??
- Question: Husband won't sign divorce papers and is black mailing me. Anything I can do???!?
- Question: I feel uncomfortable when I think about my husband coming home from rehab?
- Question: Am I wrong for this?
- Question: Should I divorce my husband who cheated, then left me for another woman, then came back?
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- Question: Can forgiving be a bad thing?
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- Question: What can I do/say to help my friend with his depression over his divorce?
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- Question: Should I trust my husband after he cheated?
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- Question: How can I convince my wife to give us another chance before she files for divorce?
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- Question: Married people what is the worst thing your spouse can do?
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- Question: How can I stop these feelings?
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- Question: My wife is constantly lying to me. What should I do?
- Question: Do I say something or not?
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| Question: Normal behavior for husband? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:20 PM PDT Hi everyone..this has been on my mind for a long time and i was hoping to get some advice. My husband and i have been married for 2.5 years now. Overall I'm happy, but for quite some time now he's been spending lots of time with his friend's. At least 2-3 times a week he stays out till 2,3 or 4 in the morning. I want him to have a social life and time with the guys. But it really bothers me when he comes home at those hours. I tried talking to him but he makes it seem like I'm overreacting. So i just stay angry and stop talking to him. And this is the cycle we go through. His friends are single and always going to bars and stuff..i hate that it bothers me so much. Am i overreacting? Should i just back off and let him be? Other than this is a really great husband. Please help |
| Question: Husband cheated, ended it and acts like nothing happened....? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:58 PM PDT My husband had an online romance with a girl. He was messaging her and she sent him some bra pics that she "bought just for him" and they were talking about her coming to visit him and they were "gonna play xbox after sex"- my husband's words to her...well, I found out. I confronted him and he got pissed at first but then said he wouldn't talk to her anymore. He deleted him tango app and blocked her on xbox and deleted her number and all that. But he's telling his xbox friends that they needed to block her cuz she messaged him sexual things and he "kinda flirted back a lil" but he "paid his dues" and is blocking her...my thing is that idk how long it was going on for. Idk if he really will stop talking to her or not...but the worst of all is that he's acting like it was no big deal. "Paid his dues" to me..by blocking her?? That's not anything. He said he just did it cuz he thought I was cheating, but I never hide anything from him..my phone is always unlocked, we don't have a computer. He has access to the phone statements and can see who I've been talking to...he thinks I'm fine with his apologies but I'm not. I'm still really upset. Every time I say something about it he just gets pissed asking what more he can do besides deleting and blocking her...how do I get him to understand how much it's hurting me? |
| Question: My boyfriend is married!? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:46 PM PDT I met my boyfriend a year ago. He is the perfect man that I was looking for. I want to marry him, I introduced him to my family and they all loved him. Four months after we are together I found out that he is married. The reason I found out late because his wife was out of the country for few months. He told me he has a roommate so he couldn't bring any girl home. I found out because of many things such as I can't call him at night and he wouldn't show me a picture of his 'female roommate'. Finally I asked him if he is married and he said yes. He said there is no love in his marriage. He feels like she is just a roommate. He wants to get divorce with her but his dad is very sick right now. His parents love her and he doesn't want to hurt his parents feeling. The down payment for his house is her money. He promised me not to wait forever. At first, I didn't want to believe him. After few weeks later I forgave him because he would send me picture every night to show me that he sleeps alone. He cleans my car that park outside of my car and leave. He comes sleep over at my house every often to show me that she doesn't care. Lately, we been fight very often because I dont see him having action in getting divorce. We fought every other days about every little things! I really love him and want to marry him but we can't get marry if we fight this much. He been threaten to break up with me so many times. I know he loves me a lot. I don't know what to do. |
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| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:22 PM PDT This is a serious question because alot or some people divorce for dumb reasons so yeah... |
| Question: I think shes cheating on me? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:00 PM PDT My wife goes to work every day? even when shes ill she still goes in to work, I don't get it. There must be someone there that shes cheating on me with. Please help! |
| Question: How would you feel if this happened to you? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:48 PM PDT My friend came back from an overseas vacation and told me he really missed me/wanted to see me. Which is understandable since we saw one another before he left. I happened to fall very ill over the weekend and told him I may not be able to make it. Yesterday I told him I might be able to see him if I am better, and I was. He told me he made a plan to pick someone up and drive me from one area to another, later in the night. He said he should be back by X time (a few hours later). He was delayed in leaving, which I didn t complain about. Finally I was starving and called him, which he did not respond to. I texted him and told him I am hungry and waiting for him, which was 30 minutes AFTER the time he said he d be back. He texts me telling me the person he was driving, his wife made dinner and they were finishing up their dinner... How would you feel, honestly? drive him from one area to another* I don't know about that. In situations like this he usually jumps at the opportunity to see me, and we've spoken over the phone he could hear I was ill. |
| Question: How to handle a stalker?? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:36 PM PDT My husband has this woman who is stalking us. So about almost 5 years ago my husband took this girl home from a meeting and he told me about it. She then somehow gathered they were together and called me and told me I had to move out etc. Nothing happened and I believe my husband. Then this last year she has started coming to my job and telling everyone she's had an affair with my husband and that he still is into her. She then was kicked out of my job and she will sit at the starbucks across from it and watch me at work! She has left crazy messages, she has driven by my house. She just recently somehow got my husbands number and he told her "don't call me again, I AM MARRIED!". She said to him "You were meant to be with me, not her. I am going to make you mine". He called her "crazy and hung up". I have gone to the police but the funny thing is..neither of us know her last name. That's how much we don't know her! My husband met her once at a meeting, and I've seen her many times because she comes to my job. At this point, she told my husband when she called that she saw me at work the other day. At this point we both realize that she thinks I'm in the way of her being with my husband and I am afraid she is going to do something. The police told me, I need her last name. I don't know it, and I don't know why I never thought to get it. And she always calls on a blocked number. What do I do? My husband installed cameras because this girls boyfriend has also driven by. She brought her boyfriend to my job and told him she had and affair with my husband in front of me and my client. Thats how nuts she is. My husband is afraid she will have her boyfriend do something and I met this guy kevin who said it's a game to her and she did it to him and his wife and they had to move! What do I do??? And lastly what's worse is we don't know where she lives, her number, or her last name..only her first and she knows everything about us. What do I do? Wait till she kills me? |
| Question: Husband won't sign divorce papers and is black mailing me. Anything I can do???!? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:09 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel uncomfortable when I think about my husband coming home from rehab? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:52 PM PDT My husband has been in alcohol rehab for almost 2 months. He will be home in 3 weeks. We had some really major issues (such as trust issues) before he left and things had been rocky for a while. We have been going through counseling several times a week while he is in rehab and it feels like things are slowly changing. Before my husband went to rehab I was almost ready to give up on our marriage. Now that we are slowly working through things, I have moments of feeling very hopeful and moments of feeling the opposite and I don't know why. He wants us to stay in a hotel the night he flies in so we can spend time together. Every time I think about being close or alone with him it makes me uncomfortable. He has never physically cheated (I don't think, although he has had an emotional affair I believe). And he has never been physically abusive. I don't know why I feel uncomfortable about this, or what I should do about it. Any ideas? I'm afraid that if I tell him, he is going to get discouraged because he is going to feel like he did something wrong and he hasn't. |
| Question: Am I wrong for this? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:51 PM PDT My hubby & I are going thru divorce. He cheated on me 2 years ago and I forgave him, after that everything was great but I couldn't trust him so our marriage went downhill again, we tried to work it out but nothing seemed to work. So we decided to divorce. We're been separated for 4 months now. We have a beautiful 4 year old, she's staying with me while my husband is living at a hotel till the divorce is finalized. Last week, while With my daughter she asked me 'mommy what is a 'diboyce' (divorce) she heard me talk about it on the phone, so I just told her that it was just a movie (she thinks daddy went on a trip), then I went to my room and bawled for what seemed like hours. The thing is my parents divorced when I was 2 and it was the toughest thing. I had to deal with them screaming at each other about one always spending time with me and no the other. I hated being dropped off every weekend and I really don't want my daughter going thru that. So I went and bought the sexiest lingerie ( he's into that ) and I called him over to 'talk' to him. And when he got home he found me laying on (our) bed half naked, I jut told him to undress and of course he did, so I ended up giving him the best sex he's prolly had in months. But I did it for my daughter, I can't let her go through what I did as a child. I love my husband a lot but things just weren't right but I'll do whatever it takes as long as my daughter doesn't suffer for our choices. Is this the right thing? Please help me. |
| Question: Should I divorce my husband who cheated, then left me for another woman, then came back? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:45 PM PDT I had been with my husband for 8 years before we decided to marry. We bought a house and had our child after being together 12 years. When our baby was 3 months old, he cheated on me and then promptly left me for the other woman. I begged and tried everything I could to get him to come back. I loved this man so much and it was honestly the most traumatizing experience of my life. 6 months later, and waist deep in divorce proceedings he came back telling me he made a terrible mistake. We have been going to counseling and trying to work things out for 3 months now, and I am having a very hard time getting over the pain of what happened. I do not feel like I was valued or loved enough. We constantly fight, then make up, then fight.... and on and on. My biggest fear is that he will do it again. And my biggest painful feeling is that I wish I was wish someone that respected and valued me enough to not do this. I don't know what to do. Our final court date is in 5 months. I just don't feel like I love him the same way anymore. If anyone has any similar experience with this I would like to hear from them. Did you divorce and did you regret it or feel happy you did? Or did you stay and regret it or happy you did? |
| Question: Who wants to be my Email buddy.. Anyone under 30.? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:33 PM PDT |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:27 PM PDT So I plan on proposing to my girlfriend when I graduate from the Air Force. The base where I'm graduating is in San Antonio and I was curious to know if there are any good spots to propose around there. |
| Question: What to ask for in a divorce? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 06:23 PM PDT I'm getting a divorce we have several kids. What are some things that you wished you had asked for but didn't? |
| Question: Why would my inlaws do this? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 05:52 PM PDT they post pictures of my brother inlaws gf but not of me |
| Question: 55 y/o aunt told me she and her hubby do it 3x per week...she's lying right? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 05:28 PM PDT could this be true? only if he has a blue pill and one of them is coercing in someway.....what would u think? |
| Question: Can forgiving be a bad thing? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 05:05 PM PDT I always forgive those who have done me wrong and try to reconcile as best I can. But then I realized that I've done nothing wrong and that it turned out I was just enabling the behavior to continue. But I just don't hold grudges. Its exhausting being mad all the time. Recently my husband left me for another woman. And after she dumped him he started blowing me up and trying to get back together. He let me go through the whole divorce by myself, I lost my apartment, I had to drop out if school, and I was literally destroyed from inside out but I still could not stand to see him suffer. I try to be uplifting and supportive to him but very strict that we would never be together ever again. I forgive but I don't let people hurt me the same way twice. I ended up blocking him on all social media sites and changed my number but I still feel guilty for some reason. |
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| Question: What can I do/say to help my friend with his depression over his divorce? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 04:46 PM PDT My friend, I haven't known very long. When I met him, he's said he had only stopped chasing after his wife a few weeks before. I knew he still wasn't over her, every time we saw each other, he's state into my eyes and I could almost see the tears welling up and the nostalgia and disappointment that I wasn't her. I quickly accepted that and just wanted to be there for him. I've tried to get him to go out and have fun, he gets lonely, especially with his job, sometimes he drives for 4 to 5 hours alone at night and he feels sad. I can't go with him often, I have a child. But I want to help him in some way, when I'm not there. The last two days he's been very depressed, he works another night tonight, but he's starting to shut down, so I want to plant a small positive seed somehow to keep his mind on a good place. How can I do that? |
| Question: Help With Mother-In-Law Ruining Our Marriage (Husband & Wife )? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 04:35 PM PDT Hello I need some serious help, both I and my wife are seeking serious advice on a problem outside of our marriage my wife and I have been married for over 2 years, we both have morals of being together for the rest of our lifes. This problem is making it hard, and making me suffer, and our marriage suffer as a whole at certain times. My wife's Mother has an obsessive hatred towards me, and she is quite nosey in our marriage, but more towards me then anything, she feels that she can invade our marriage at anytime, or our life. She also see's no problem in doing this. My wife's mother has confessed to her privately, which my wife secretly recorded, that she will stop at nothing, to cause problems for our marriage, and for me as an individual, even if it means lying, or making/spreading rumors that are not true. This to me is a huge red flag/issue. She has made up lies, rumors, and spread false information in the past, about our marriage and myself. Some of them are the following, but not to mention there is many more, rumors consist of, " They cheat on each other in their marriage" " Her husband takes other girls to the movies" " Her husband hates their child" " Her husband scams good people". PLEASE READ NEXT ANSWER & ALL COMMENTS FOR WHOLE STORY. More Answers the better, thank you all so much so far for your advice and answers. |
| Question: Thoughts on a 24 y.old woman dating/getting married to a 73 y.old guy? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 04:29 PM PDT Many people will probably think she may be a gold-digger but what if she's just fed up with guys her own age/younger guys , very sad or disappointed with modern life and is just looking for a kind, caring soul? I think this is what is going on here @well n2mama: most 30 y.old guys are shallow and vain. I know the girl personally, she had gone under a mini-depression phase in the past and with that guy she feels she's the only person that has ever cared for her |
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| Question: Should I trust my husband after he cheated? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 03:58 PM PDT My husband had an emotional affair with a girl he met on xbox live. After I told him I knew about it he said he just flirted with her because he thought I was cheating. But idk if I believe that because if he did it as revenge, why would he try to hide it? He blocked her on xbox and deleted his tango account he had for the clan and deleted her number, but she still has his number...he jut acted like it wasn't any big deal that he did that because it was "joking around cuz i thought you were cheating". Now he's getting mad at me because I'm telling him I still don't trust him. I'm just confused as to what I should do. I love him and I want to trust him. It wasn't physical. She lives 1000 miles away, but they were talking about her coming to visit him here and I'm just still not able to trust him. Any advice? |
| Question: Why do Ex Wives manipulate kids to cause trouble in marriages? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 03:54 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I convince my wife to give us another chance before she files for divorce? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 03:51 PM PDT my wife and I have been married for 2 years and 9 months. We have two beautiful children together. One 2 years and 5 month and the other only 6 months. She says she has had enough of me not caring about anything and not doing enough around the house or not helping enough with the kids. All of these things are true. I have not groomed myself very much in these last years and have failed to continue dating her in our marriage. When times are good for us they are great. When they are bad they are not horrible. We fight about twice a week. She says she Still loves me but is not IN love with me anymore. I know that 99.9% of our problems stem from my attitude. She has talked to lawyers and is trying to have everything done and over with in two days. Having all his be done within six days. I don't know how I can go on without my family. I love her to death and I CAN change. She has given me a taste of what it's like without her and it's horrible. I have eaten more than a chicken wing in 4 or 5 days. I've thrown up countless times and I cannot sleep more than 2 hrs at a time. Please help me. |
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| Question: What does it mean if someone says "you don't need others opinion to like who you are"? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 03:43 PM PDT |
| Question: What's it like to be in love? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 03:42 PM PDT I realize that everyone will have a different answer, but that's exciting. I've never actually been in love before, despite having been in some great relationships. I've definitely loved another man, but I don't think I've ever been in love. |
| Question: Which guy would you choose, boyfriend, husband? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 01:48 PM PDT Background info: I have bpd so relationships are very difficult for me Husband: have been separated for 11 months. split up because I cheated on him. love him and he is my best friend but do not feel in love with him, but in love with me doesnt last long until I'm on to wanting something else. Actual real love, he is the only one. Also have two children with him Boyfriend: Been with for three months but we are very different. Good guy, goes to church every sunday, opens doors for me etc etc. Has a hard time understanding my mental illness Husband just texted me last night asking me to not file for divorce because he thinks that now that I'm in treatment that we can work things out between us. What would you do?! |
| Question: Married people what is the worst thing your spouse can do? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 01:37 PM PDT Have sex with someone they don't care or have feelings for or have feelings for someone may even love them but not have sex with them? |
| Question: Can the union of two same sex persons be a Marriage? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 01:00 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I stop these feelings? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 12:37 PM PDT I feel so guilty and disgusting for this. I was so in love with my husband, we whee perfect for each other, I still love him and that will never change, but i developed strong feelings for this other guy.I cant get him out of mind and i feel tempted to contact him. I feel so impure when i pray to God and I know that thinking about another man is already sinful to my inner being. I dont think of him in a sexual way, but i miss seeing him and speaking to him. I feel God is already upset with me and i feel like a horrible person and wife to my poor husband. Iv tried everything to forget this other guy, he was my neighbor and now he has moved away. I cant stop thinking about him and im on the verge of contacting him. Iv always been a decent woman, i don't know whats come over me. I wish this man never came into my path, but he did, everything was so perfect between my husband and I before I knew him. |
| Question: Do I have a right to look at my wife's phone records? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 12:00 PM PDT I know that my wife is lying to me about who she's texting and who she's talking to. When I look at her records I see it very clearly. Am I in the wrong for checking on someone I know is being dishonest? |
| Question: Can you dare to look at your partner's eyes and lie? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 11:57 AM PDT Well, I disagree that couples need their own secrets and hide things from their partners. Alas, so many people live that way though. I am so tired of my partners lies. Today I asked him something that I found out he had lied to me about. It is not cheating, something ordinary yet it affects my life. He denied it and then came up with stories and at the end I asked him to look at me in the eyes and tell me then I will trust your answer. So he looked at me in the eyes yet he lied to me. I had proof and showed. He rained silent. Well, I truly have no trust in this guy anymore. If a person can lie then can lie about any damn thing. How do I trust that he wouldn't cheat and lie to me? He has always lied to me about so many ordinary things. I believe a lier is a lier and a lier can do anything. What do you think? I view a relationship to be open and honest about everything. Yes you can keep your passwords a secret or little things you do that has nothing to do with my life or things you like and dislike about the partner. Aside from that, if there is something that is a bit of a bigger deal and always lie to your partner about it then that is not a relationship. What do you think? |
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| Question: What do I do about my wife? Video game issue/controlling issue.? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 11:34 AM PDT My wife and I have been married for 1 year now, been together almost 4. We have a 5 month old son. I am 19 she is 18. I m in the army as my job and she is unemployed. I usually clean mostly and we both cook sometimes. I don t take care of the baby as much as she does but I do feed him and change him ocasionally. Not as much as her though. The problem I wanna figure out is sometimes I wanna play video games. Every time I try she says I have 45 minutes to play or she ll say you ve played enough lately. Even though this is the response I get every time I play. She even goes to the extent of turning it off when I play. I don t honestly know what to do about her. I m not gonna never play them. I paid good money for all this. I need advice on what to say or what to do. |
| Question: My wife is constantly lying to me. What should I do? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 11:27 AM PDT I'll start off by admitting that I have the password to my wife's phone plan. I can logon and see her call and text records. So I have an advantage of knowing when she's lying to me. I also recently got involved in a bad business deal so money's been a little bit tighter than we're used to. For a few months we haven't been able to do the same shopping or take the trips that were used to doing. I've also been working very very hard to try and get it back and been under stress and been less available. However I'm always being attacked and told that I'm not doing anything for my wife. A few weeks ago I had to go out of town. While I was gone she lied to me about going to a concert. She met up with another guy to go. She lied about where she was lied about who she was with. What's worse she and this guy are constantly texting and talking on the phone. When I ask her about it she denies it. She won't tell me who the guy is an tells me she doesn't talk to him anymore. I know I don't ask nicely but I don't think that means I deserve to be lied to. She's very secretive about her phone and gets mad if I even get near it. If I tell her she's lying, she just flips it back on me without regret. I've lied about a website & and a couple pointless things so as not to get yelled but never about another girl. She is also texting guys pictures of her new boobs and lying about that.She even changes guys names to girls names and her phone so I don't get suspicious. What to do? |
| Question: Do I say something or not? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 11:23 AM PDT My fiance and I are planning our wedding. He is an EMT and works a 24 hour shift every 3rd day. So he starts @ 8am on Mon, gets off at 8am Tues. Has all day Tues & Wed off, then works Thursday. He's also been working 12 hrs of over time 1 day most weeks. Because of his schedule & me working M-F most weekends we only get 1 day together & I would really like to actually spend it together. I COMPLETELY understand that he's tired form working and generally being stressed. But here lately he sleeps all the time and I really don't get any time with him, and it's driving me nuts!!! I don't mind him napping on the days he just got off because I get it, he just worked all day. But even on those days he'll tell me he didn't have a hard shift (they do get to sleep) and then sleep all day. Literally, go to sleep around 10am & not get up till 4-5pm. But today especially is a great example. He worked Thur, was off Fri & today (Sat) he got around 1.5hr before me, was awake maybe 1 hr after I got up & has been napping ever since. The day is half over, we've spent no time together and he will be gone all day tomorrow. Usually, I'd just try to get together with a friend or something. But, we just moved to a new city & I don't know any one up here yet. I've tried telling him that I'm feeling lonely and would like to go out & do stuff but it doesn't seem to be sinking in. Should I just call him straight out on him sleeping so much & tell him that it"s really bugging me or not? |
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| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 10:56 AM PDT How do you want what you can't have, and still get married? Doesn't your spouse want you? |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 10:50 AM PDT Let me start by saying my mother in law is a HUGE help to me. I work 4 days a week, and in addition to keeping my son 3 of those days, she also cooks and helps with laundry. I have nothing against her personally, she is not a monster, and we get along very well. She moved in with us about a year and a half ago due to hitting an all time low. She wasn't working, and was basically self medicating to deal with being jobless, a divorcée, and other family issues. She LITERALLY needed a reason to live and I couldn't ask my husband to turn her away. I am on my 4th week of maternity leave and the reality has begin to set in that this situation will remain the same the rest of my (her) life. I always dreamed of being a wife and mother, and now I feel like she is taking that position from me. She is quite loud, and inadvertently parents over top of me. I feel like my son is getting opinions and suggestions from all angles. I want to parent my way but it's impossible with her loud personality overshadowing me. My husband automatically includes her in our vacation plans and seeks her opinion on our home search. What's next? she's in family photos? My husband greatly values her opinion (of course) and I am seriously concerned about her making design choices over mine in our forever home. She has recently mentioned possibly returning to work and I thought "okay, maybe she'll get her own place". When I mentioned it to my husband he said "it would give us a larger budget on our house" |
| Question: Is my mom cheating on my dad? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 10:29 AM PDT I don't want to jump to conclusions but she's been extremely shady lately. My parents never really had an amazing relationship, they fight non-stop and get upset with each other frequently. My mom always seems to be texting guys who keeps complimenting her. She usually doesn't respond but they keep texting here saying, "Hi beautiful, Whats up gorgeous." etc. And she has messages between her and a few guys that don't seem totally appropriate. Recently she said she's going to a friends house after work and it was so weird and shady, she didn't say which friend or who and I'm pretty positive she was meeting a guy. And to top it all off, today she was Facetiming someone on the porch. I didn't see who but she said, "I love you," and when I asked her who it was, she said a friend. I thought it would've been my older brother (he doesn't live with us because he's in his 20s) but she said a friend, she would've said my brother if it was him. And on top of everything, this wouldn't be the first time she cheated. She cheated on her first husband with my dad. And I really hope that history is not repeating itself. Please someone tell me wether she is cheating or not and how I confront her about it?! |
| Question: Wife thinks im cheating but im not, help? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:58 AM PDT My wife looked through our phone bill and noticed calls made to a woman she and i are friends with from my number, the problem is these calls were made at sporadic times and lasted only a couple minutes each. One was even made at 4:06 AM when i was sleeping and my phone was downstairs charging, so theres no way a call could have been made from my phone. Other calls range from 5 am to 8 am, times I would never call anyone because of how early that is. as a matter of fact, I have never made a phone call to this woman except for the time the three of us first met and we all exchangedn umbers (my wife, myself, and her) My carrier is T Mobile, how is this possible? |
| Question: How to get over missing someone? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:53 AM PDT My husband is gone on criminal charges for a crime he did not commit. I'm waiting for him to come home but it won't be for another month. How can I make the time pass? How can I not miss him so much? |
| Question: What are the problems indian housewife face working in kitchen ? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:47 AM PDT |
| Question: Benefits of Marriage? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:44 AM PDT Can someone tell me the real benefits? Besides a possible tax break what's the point of getting married on paper? I mean you could have a wedding to show you are committed to one another but why does it have to be done on paper? |
| Question: Why some Men Resent Their Wives ? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:17 AM PDT |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 09:06 AM PDT My wife and her father according to her they have very strong bond, she is 31, she have lived with her parents all her life until we got married last year, she is the only child. I remember when I used to talk to her on the phone , her father would enter her room without knocking the door to give her good night kiss at the age of 29, her mother would do the same thing before she got to bed. Two weeks ago she gave birth to our first child, while she was in labor her parents were also at the hospital, I tried many times to stop her father enter the room and see her naked, after she gave birth I was very tired having not slept for two day in the row....I was laying on the corner half asleep , what I saw is her father tried to see if the baby is sucking, he even tried to put his hands on her daughter breast, since I was laying on the on the ground I did not see if his hand touched my daughter head or his daughter breast, her mother was in the room also standing next to him, she saw what had happened , she didn't say a single word ,nurses were also in the room. If feel I have been disrespected by her parents. Yesterday her parents wanted to speak to me on the phone, since my head haven't been together after the breastfeeding incidents, I told her I will speak to them later. Now she have accused me of being unloving and uncaring towards her parents, I told her what happened, she said she can't remember since she was tired but I should have told him off , it my fault I kept quite.... |
| Question: Does love hurt? so, is it better to love passionately or just take love easy? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:58 AM PDT Love is good, it is sweet and at the other time it is bitter, it really hurts. I wonder, when it hurts simply because we are being too serious with love (being passionate), will it help ease out the pain if we try to just take love easy? Just tell me the way how to not get hurt easily or be so fragile? thanks |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:47 AM PDT My wife gave birth to our daughter two weeks ago, we have been fighting a lot before the birth of our daughter, for two days now she is not wearing her wedding ring, I don't want to ask her way, I believe is childish move to remove her wedding ring ,already considering divorcing her......what do you think |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:44 AM PDT |
| Question: If a women is still married but seperated has sex with other men ? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it wrong for married woman to email another man? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:37 AM PDT To me it's just not right at all unless it's for strictly business reasons.To me Married woman or married man shouldn't be emailing or replying to any emails with people of the opposite gender unless it's for strictly business reasons.To me I feel it's not right for married woman to email people of the opposite gender unless they are family members or if it's for strictly business reasons.The conversations start innocent but often times,they could become more than just friendly emails and this is where emotional cheating starts.I feel when married woman email another male that isn't a family member or is not strictly business reasons,I feel it's betrayal of their marriage becasue the spouse may feel that he's not enough for the married woman.It's not worth a married woman risking their marriages to email non family members of the opposite gender unless it's for strictly business reasons.I personally feel that married woman should not be emailing people of the opposite gender unless they are they are family or if it's for strictly business reasons.To the married woman,do you email people of the opposite gender?How do your husbands feel about it? |
| Question: Is love a requirement for marriage? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:21 AM PDT |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 08:16 AM PDT Please, married me who watch porn answer. He has said its not anything I do or don't do but I feel like it is. What can I say to him to help him with his addiction? He doesn't see anything that wrong with it, but it bugs me. Please, anyone that is married and currently going through this. I am considering separation or divorce at this point |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:22 AM PDT Hi! I'm doing a survey. :) To all married people/couples there. I just want to ask at what age did you get married and what is your present age today. Please answer this, thank you!! If it's okay to say your partner's age too |
| Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:18 AM PDT Every excuse in the book (cheating, watching porn, etc) is "just a mans nature". But when it comes to a flaw the wife might have, there's something wrong ... I don't get this...men are really arrogant...I'm never getting married for this reason And a midlife crises is another excuse to act wrong but since it's a guy, it's ok Because it's just a midlife crises...give me a break |
| Question: Is His midlife crisis long term affair forgivable? Posted: 18 Jul 2015 07:17 AM PDT |
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