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- Question: My step son has hate issues towards me and doesn't accepts my help?
- Question: Should I get my son a new tutor?
- Question: How to find out who has legal rights to moms property when there were 3 different Will's wrote 1st will stated me and older sister split?
- Question: Is it normal for an uncle to protect and care for his niece?
- Question: How to convince my mom to let me quit band?
- Question: Why do my parents yell at me so much?
- Question: Continues?
- Question: I am a young teenager and have depression?
- Question: My dad doesn't love me he never molested me as a child?
- Question: I'm Muslim and would like to here an islamic point of view!?
- Question: I need help with my 12 year old daughter?
- Question: What can aunts do to help their neices or nephews, when they are in a living situation due to the parents physical fighting all the time.?
- Question: My father makes my boyfriend cry?
- Question: Is it alright for me to be upset over my parents divorce?
- Question: Would my half brothers, half brother be my step brother?
- Question: Do you think kids should cook and handle knives?
- Question: Should I Move Senior Year? (Warning: Long)?
- Question: Father daughter unexplainable connection? What is it?
- Question: Mom and Sister hate each other?
- Question: What should I do, I'm nervous?
- Question: My unmotivated, video playing step-son got his gf pregnant. I'm having a hard time dealing for many reasons. Advice?
- Question: What can I do to get back on my feet?
- Question: Qué os parece esta sonrisa?
- Question: I used to get along with my brother but now I don't?
- Question: Are the relationships between husband/wife & parent/child the only ones that are IMPORTANT?
- Question: When a family fight gets out of hand is their a way to fix it?
- Question: Can someone maybe help me with all my drama at home?
- Question: How to convince my mother to let me do something?
- Question: Ny parents are extremely controlling?
- Question: Why won't my family and people around me accept the way I feel?
- Question: How to Convince My Dad To Let Me Wear Nail Polish?
- Question: I was hit in the eye.?
- Question: My son has a friend with benefits. Is this good for him?
- Question: Is my brother right?
- Question: I'm 30 years old with Autism, but my dysfunctional family treats me like a minor instead of treating me like an adult?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: Are my parents psychopaths?
- Question: I don't know how to tell my cousin I'm in love with him.?
- Question: It true that the only relationships that matter are husband/wife & parent/child?
- Question: I kinda feel betrayed...?
- Question: Should I tell my dad I m upset and there s something bothering me that I need help with?
- Question: 18 years old and trying to leave parents?
- Question: Is bad if my cousins(girls) were looking at my penis?
- Question: I'm in love with my sister's friends?
- Question: My friend's relationship with her uncle?
- Question: I keep hearing things what is it?
- Question: Help i have toxic family?
- Question: How to I help my mum stop crying and to speak to me about her problems?
- Question: Wouldn't it be embarrassing for me to go to the school that my dad teaches at?
- Question: How can I become more independent (overprotective father)?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to allow me go back to art class?
- Question: Should I communicate with felon family member?
- Question: I feel horrible towards my parents because of a trip and I need another individual's perspective.?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: I want to move back to the U.S.A?
- Question: I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years now and I'm feeling like an afterthought. Background: both of us were divorced with children.?
- Question: I made my grandma feel really bad and i don't know what to do?
- Question: Is he my father anymore?
- Question: Why do people, mostly minorities, keep bringing kids on the bus?
- Question: My mom yelled at me for no reason...?
| Question: My step son has hate issues towards me and doesn't accepts my help? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 01:13 PM PDT My step son is 12 and he is very broken emotionally after his mom's death. He never really accepted me as his mom but the thing that bothers me is that he doesn't has any problem with my daughters who are 14 and 21. He talks with them and they like him, heck he even fell asleep while cuddling one of them. But when I try to even come close to him he freaks out and starts yelling at me and tells me to not do anything for him. He doesn't even talks to me unless his dad is there. He is very broken emotionally he has to repeat his grade after the summer vacations end because he failed 4 subjects very poorly. He has gotten bullied very heavily in the past. He is making it so hard on himself the only good thing is that he lets my daughters consul him at least. He sees a therapist but still its not making that big of a difference. I have planned that whatever happens I will strictly monitor his education this time around and will not let him fall for a moment. |
| Question: Should I get my son a new tutor? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 01:10 PM PDT My son was failing in Math so the high school recommended a tutor. That gave me a list of tutors. I started calling and most of them had all the tutoring they could do. I called Lisa and she said she was available for 1 hour 2 days a week. From day 1 of her tutoring my son's grades starting improving. She was only getting paid for 1 hour as that was all I could afford but she often spent much more time with my son. After a month of tutoring my son came to me and ask me to please get another tutor He said Lisa was so beautiful, hot, and sexy he could not concentrate on math when she was with him. The next time she was here I looked closely at her and she was gorgeous. I briefly talked to her and she told me she is a college student and also has a part time job as a swim suit model. It just does not seem right to tell her she can not tutor my son anymore as she has done wonders for his grades. She is also a VERY NICE person and it is not her fault she is so beautiful. It is my son's fault he can not keep his mind on math with her. I also do not want to waste my money for a tutor when my son will not learn anything because his mind is on something else. How should I teach him he is going to have to deal with beautiful women all his life and he has to get used to it. Can somebody please give me some advice on what I should do. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT Then my niece abandoned her son my parents adopted him he now has our last name they wrote different will were the grandchild and my new brother get left property I would be the overseer I live on the next property so there connect but to different address on my mother side nothing but different family member live there in own trailers when my mother past a new will came out were my brother gets all that s sectary started but my mother never signed my brother has moved out since then but real mother who was never legaly supost to ever even be around him again has locked my mother's house and put a lock on her mail box and won't give me my mail and started collect rent from everyone is this legal ?how do I find my parents will which 1is the legal what can I do to get rid of her |
| Question: Is it normal for an uncle to protect and care for his niece? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT |
| Question: How to convince my mom to let me quit band? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:54 PM PDT I ve already told my mom how miserable I am in marching band. I love music, I m a good flute player. But I m terrible at marching. And I ve cried myself to sleep for the past two weeks during band camp. I m honestly depressed and she doesn t understand that. She just thinks I m whining. They spent $200 on my band fees and I told her I d get a job and pay it back but she just won t let me quit. I don t know what to do. I don t think I can take being this miserable for the next 3 months. I want to do journalism and I want to be happy, but she won t let me and it s killing me. |
| Question: Why do my parents yell at me so much? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:49 PM PDT I was on vacation hoping to have a good time and bring the family closer together, but all I hear is my parents yelling at me. I was shopping on vacation and I asked if we were gonna go into the store or not and I got yelled at. He told me to shut up and keep quite. He said he would tell me when I could go into the store. Then I got yelled at when I didn't go in a store later. I told him it was because he said I couldn't go in a store without his approval but he wouldn't listen. He yells at he all the time like this. Then my mother always agrees with him and never is on my side. This happens all the time not just on vacation. I feel like they hate me and want me gone. What should I do? |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:38 PM PDT My dad's aunt stinks too she has a terrible smell as she doesn't wash daily and she doesn't want to pay eccentricity bills she doesn't want to install an AC in her house. Till February 2015 she used to sleep in my double bed with me as I was afraid of the dark and so was she but I confronted my problem and now I am sleeping alone. I am feeling very depressed again and I am thinking about moving out of the house, run from the house for a couple of days and go to a relative or a friend. I really don't know what I am going to do I already told something to my dad but he won't listen to me and he knows I am feeling depressed again I was sobbing the whole entire time during dinner and I am speaking in a different tone which confirms that I am depressed. Please help me how should I tell my dad and make him listen to me and my emotions. not eccentricity but electrical in line 1 |
| Question: I am a young teenager and have depression? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:37 PM PDT Well we're a middle to high class family. We have several properties over the country we live in and in Island near by where we live.My dad's aunt live near our house it is just a 5-minutes drive away so that is very near and she doesn't let us to install an alarm system and she is afraid to sleep alone in her big house as she is a widow and she doesn't have any kids but she has 7 other siblings and over 40 nephews/nieces Recently we have bought a vacation house for summer. And my dad want to tell her to come and live with us 3/24 and I can't take that she stinks and I am a hygiene freak and she is not and she do think that are not hygienic like with the same bucket she pees in she wash the stove with it, in the morning she doesn't wash her face and teeth, she doesn't wash her hands after using the restroom and she goes and touches all of our plates and glasses. I already told my mum that if she is going to come I will not go with them but my dad wants her so badly.In December 2014 I was so depressed because of her and I even taught about suicide but it was just a taught but my mum knew about it as I used to keep a diary and write down all of my taught and helped me even my dad knew. I am going to post another status TO BE CONTINUED ....... |
| Question: My dad doesn't love me he never molested me as a child? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:36 PM PDT My dad doesn't love me he never molested me I'm 30 years old in staying wif my parents for the week ive been hinting to him that ill leave my door wide open and be sleeping naked and he just yells IM not gonna molest me he doesn't lovd me |
| Question: I'm Muslim and would like to here an islamic point of view!? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:35 PM PDT I'm 18 and i got into an argument with my mum because i told her she's wrong for always hitting me and my siblings when we do something bad and she should try positive reinforcement instead but she kicked me out last night, she said she hopes i die and i get cancer (I've been getting symptoms and went for a check up that's why she said it) i'm staying at my sisters house which is cool because she's never in, and i want to know am i right if i don't want to talk to her again? This isn't the first time we've fought and she's called the police on me many times because she feels like i don't respect her authority so she overreacts. |
| Question: I need help with my 12 year old daughter? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:30 PM PDT She's starting to do what I always dreaded, getting that " teenage" attitude. She's almost 13. She used to be pretty easy to deal with. I say go do something, it got done. Now if I say " please go set the table." or some other chore I get scoffing, sighing, eye rolling, and complaining. How do I get her to get rid of this attitude. I'm a single father btw |
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| Question: My father makes my boyfriend cry? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:05 PM PDT I know this sounds silly. We're both in college, and my BF lives in the college dorm. I've been with him for almost a year. He's very shy (it was I who asked him out), but he's smart and I think very sweet (shy guys are my type). There are things that he doesn't want to talk about, like his family. I also noticed some scars on his arms but I haven't asked anything since he hasn't confided in me (yet). I suppose he will when he feels more comfortable with me. He does say that he had a hard time with his dad when he was still living at home. My family wants to meet him and finally I brought him home one weekend (he was reluctant). My elder brothers warmed toward him very quickly but my dad was so frustrating. Already my BF is always agitated among new people and I was angry to my dad for pressuring him. He asked a lot about my BF's family (b/c he thinks family background is important) and about his scars ("are you into self-cutting?"), and suddenly my BF just burst out sobbing and it was all d*mned awkward. My brothers helped lighten up the situation and they were very nice to him, but I feel pained. My BF is still very uncomfortable and I can't imagine him wanting to visit my family in the near future. My dad said there's something wrong with my BF, but I think he has some bad experience in the past and needs time to confide in me. We take things slowly, and I really care about him. What should I do with my dad? I'd like him to support our relationship, not the contrary. |
| Question: Is it alright for me to be upset over my parents divorce? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:04 PM PDT It was because my mom was having an affair. My dad moved out and the man she was having an affair with moved into our house. I hardly see my dad although we used to be close. He's become an alcoholic and takes depression pills. The other man doesn't treat me nicely and makes a lot of jokes at my expense that my mom and brother laugh at. When I act upset or try to talk to my mom about it she says I'm being dramatic. Am I? |
| Question: Would my half brothers, half brother be my step brother? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:03 PM PDT Ok so me and my half brother have the same mom. Well our mom used to be married to hos dad and his dad had another son by a different woman. Since he is related to my half brothers dead it s his half brother. So would that make him my step brother? We have the same situation on my dad s side. I have a half sister and haw has other siblings and since our dad was married to her at one point we see them as our step siblings. So wouldn t that be the same case? |
| Question: Do you think kids should cook and handle knives? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 12:02 PM PDT I'm 14 years old and my parents, especially my dad, has been teaching me and my brother to cook for a long time. I had a friend over and my dad thought it would be fun if we helped him in the kitchen. We just chopped onions, carrots, things like that. Easy stuff. My friend went home to his parents, told what he did and the mom was furious. Next thing I know the school is calling in all the teachers, parents, students to discuss proper etiquette and when it's appropriate for kids to cook and use knives. My dad was not happy. He said: "First off none of you have any business in telling me how to raise my kids. Second, when I was a kid and when all of you were kids we did far worse things. I used to help my dad hunt, I gutted fish, deer, handled rifles and I was state boxing champion before I was 15. And I think I turned out fine. You people are ridiculous. All this fuss over that small of a thing. Give me a break". Then we went home. I love my dad. I think he is great. He is teaching us great stuff. I can cook, hunt, fight, I know my way around an engine, I can fix almost anything around the house. Yeah, sometimes he can be very direct and he lacks silk gloves but I think he is a great father. Unlike most 14 year old's I don't "hate" my dad. I just don't understand all the fuss about my friend chopping an onion? |
| Question: Should I Move Senior Year? (Warning: Long)? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:57 AM PDT I'm currently about to start my junior year of high school in NJ. My parents have been seperated for several years, and my dad, sister, and I ended up moving here from California when I was in third grade (long story, but I won't bore you with that). My mom got married and has had two other kids, and she moved to oregon. Since then my sister and I have visited every summer and christmas, and I absolutely love it there. I love the people, and the town. And the fact that my mom is there, lame I know, but I miss her. As a kid, even when she was around, she was absent towards the end. I missed out on having a mom around when I was growing up. She's better now, and she regrets a lot of her choices. It isn't fair how things happened. But anyway, when I'm there I feel so happy. Here, I'm always really sad. I don't know why, my dad has done so much for me. And I love my sister. After I moved, I was bullied until freshman year. And people still make fun of me. I've been depressed on and off since third grade. My sister and I were supposed to move there before I started high school, but turns out she didn't want to anymore and i was scared of going alone. Now, I'm going there for college anyway. If I move next summer, I'll be a citizen so at the very least I'll get a better deal. But I can't move this summer, I already got back. So anyway, would moving there before senior year be a good idea? Should I do it? Or should I tough it out and stay here until I graduate? |
| Question: Father daughter unexplainable connection? What is it? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT When I was around 4yrs old I had this dream where my dad was trapped in spier webs and I wouldn't stop crying my mom had no idea why and 2hrs later she found out my dad was in jail. When I was 9 i started crying out of nowhere asking for my dad. When my mom called him he told her that a few minutes before she called he had gotten a ticket and was almost getting arrested. This happen again last night now that am 16 I cried all night felt like something was wrong but I had no clue what. Today in the morning my dad called and said he got stopped by a cop but nothing bad happen. I wanna know why this happens. Do we have some sort of connection? Why does it only happen to me but not to him when something bad happens to me ? Is there an explanation for this ? Help I really want to know why this happens to me and why only with him and not my mom? |
| Question: Mom and Sister hate each other? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT Hello. I'm 13 (in a week that is) and I have a 10 year old sister and my mother is 41. They have never really had that strong mother daughter bond most girls do. They're always fighting, screaming, and cussing (yes, on both ends, cussing) at each other and it's too much. This morning I was awoken at 7:40ish AM (my sister is a high leveled gymnast, level 9 I believe, so she has to be at the gym up and early each day) to hear my mom and sister having a full on screaming match (at the top of their lungs) over target brand snack packs. Now my dad couldn't do anything because he was already driving to work so it's just me and my mom/sister. The fight ended with mumbling, my sister storming out the door, and my mom following a little after. At around 2:30 today, I got a call from my sister asking me what I wanted from McDonald's. I told her what I wanted and then hung up. A phew minutes later I get another call, this time from my mom, saying we weren't getting McDonald's because of my sister's attitude. They walk in the door a little while after and I see my sister crying on the couch and my mom standing there with her little brattyish stance. I immediately know it's about to go down. I should've mentioned earlier, my sister's wrist has been hurting, and there are 4 main gymnastics events. My mom tells me that my sister has been saying she "fcking hates her" and my sister says my mom said it to her too. it turns out my mom had been calling her Sam, who didn't compete a gymnastics season, and calling her lazy. Now my sister is extremely hardworking, and usually wins 1st at competitions. My sister said my mom had also told her she wasn't going to feed her. Another screaming match began, and it ended with my mom telling me to go to my room for no reason (I refused btw considering i did nothing) and I have now put both of them in a "time out corner" and tell them they need to calm down and can talk when both are ready. PLEASE HELP my sister is now refusing to eat because my mom told her she "probably shouldn't eat" (my sister is around 60 pounds and quite short and skinny) |
| Question: What should I do, I'm nervous? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:48 AM PDT I wrote this sweet letter for my coach thanking her for always pushing me & training me hard during my basketball games, also telling her about my recent injury of going blind do to a bad hit to the head I had took during a game which caused me to end my athletic life. I was thanking her for being a great coach to me for 2 years. I was scared to send it but i did an hour ago, she saw it but logged off after that. (It says she logged off an hour ago) I'm scared what if she didn't like it? (I'm not desperate for a reasponce) but what if she doesn't? I'm nervous |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:44 AM PDT My hubby and I have quite an age gap. I'm 31 and my "step-son" is 23. He met a girl over the internet and moved her from her state in with him (he lives with my MIL and works PT). GF left behind her daughter who she hasn't seen since a year ago. My MIL is a very messy person, borderline hoarder, and my SS isn't much better. My SS is verbally abusive to my MIL. Now his GF is pregnant, which breaks my heart, because hubby and I have TTC for almost a year. The environment they plan to bring this child into is unstable and teetering on bio-hazard. My MIL has told them they need to leave but they ignore her and she doesn't follow through. My husband won't get involved or tell his son to shape up in fear of hurting their relationship. We live 2.5 hrs away. What can I do? |
| Question: What can I do to get back on my feet? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:40 AM PDT About a month ago my mom and dad caught me with a bunch of smoking/dabbing paraphernalia. All of my smoking **** was in my car. (Note that my parents bought the car for me) The result of me being caught was no cellphone, no video games, no internet, no car. I was also going to be sent to a rehab in southern cali but the insurance declined coverage. Prior to me getting caught I played an excessive amount of video games. I would spend the whole day playing video games. Now I had no video games and was stuck sitting at home with nothing to do. I love playing video games and I want to play them so badly. They have taken away the video games completely. I have nothing to do all day anymore. Also, my parents decided I'm not getting my phone back unless I pay for it, on top of that I'm not allowed to use the car at all, even to go to work. So as of right now I dont have a job, no way to search for a job, no way to pay for car insurance that I'm supposed to be paying, no way to pay for a phone, which in turn means little to no interaction with the world outside of my house. What the **** do I do? Thanks for your time. |
| Question: Qué os parece esta sonrisa? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:35 AM PDT A mi me parece una sonrisa preciosa... |
| Question: I used to get along with my brother but now I don't? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:34 AM PDT He's 19 and I'm 22. Ever since he was maybe 16 or 17 years old, he's been combative, argumentative, condescending, stubborn, and just plain rude. I can't stand to be around him, especially around my parents. He speaks so rudely to my mom, as if he's better than her and knows more, and I despise seeing that, so of course, it fires me up. It drives me nuts that my parents just LET him be like that. He has no rules, no boundaries. They let him drink whenever he wants at home, when if I did that at 19, they would have lost their minds. He's careless and irresponsible. There are honestly very few things, if any, that I like about him right now. And all of this is incredibly frustrating to me because we used to get along. All through childhood and early teen years, we got along. And now he just absolutely infuriates me with every word out of his mouth. What I'm asking is: is this a phase? Are a lot of 19 year old boys like this? Is it him? Is it me? Will we grow out of this? I mean, we've made attempts. We just went on a camping trip together for five days, just the two of us, and that was nearly insufferable at times. We just don't see eye to eye, and I'm afraid this rift will only grow as we get older. He's my only sibling and I don't want this to be permanent and unfixable. Please help. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:21 AM PDT My friend were talking about this the other day. From what I've seen & heard,these relationships are the only ones seen as important, not really any of the other relationship. I know someone who had this super close relationship with her uncle since birth. It was MORE than a father/daughter relationship. He treated, loved, & cared for her exactly like if she came from him. She was one of his main priorities in life. He would die for her.he said that he even felt obligated to do what typical parents would do for her.But he had a kid several years ago and now all of that doesn't exist. They rarely ever see each other; before they spent most of their time together. I think it really sucks. I feel like no matter what kind of other relationship you have, whether it's with your niece, friend, sibling etc the only ones TRULY matter are those 2. Those ones are I guess "natural" is the best way I could put it. I feel like if you develop those feelings for your nieces, little cousin, close family friend(who is MUCH younger) or maybe even a sibling, it wouldn't be the "same", it's not real, it's "artificial". It's mainly because they don't have kids that came from them. He could've included her not completely shun them out. |
| Question: When a family fight gets out of hand is their a way to fix it? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT Recently I woke up well I woke up at 7:30 I went to cater to my pet turtle while I was petting him I told my sister I heard the good news about my other sister pregnancy I didn't say pregnancy I just said good news. So my mother who sat across from me on the sofa got upset and got up and suggestions her nail into my skin of my arm I'm still bleeding and what I presume is pus is coming out too. And then she proceed by throwing my turtle onto the ground at high force then my sister who was still here who haven't left for work yet tells me let mom calm down. Then my mom says you noisy little s word after I took my turtle outside. She says why don't I die my sister then left to go work and now my mom is downstairs steaming with rage and I'm in my room writing this did I also mention she said I'm a toxic person spreading rumors she was the one who told me. What did I say wrong because my mother refuises to fed me she says if I go into kitchen she will stab with a knife I'm 17 who almost 18 she been trying to kick me out I told her that child abandonement and not feeding me is neglect and digging her nail into my skin is child abuse. Throwing my turtle almost killing him is animal abuse. Her treating me with a knife is attempted murder. All these charges will be applied to my mom for how long they haven't happened yet but they will become real if my mom proceeds with her actions. But did I say anything wrong and how can I fix this fiasco. Their is an image of my bruise on the top. |
| Question: Can someone maybe help me with all my drama at home? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:19 AM PDT In our house theres a lot of drama going on right now. So heres all the details. My mom gets payed r5000 (r - south african rand) and my dad works for himself. Sometimes there are not a lot of money coming in. We a 6 family members. We never have money to buy anything. Me and my sisters never even get money in for school. My the oldest. I just cant deal with n fact that wr never have money. I still wear my track suite what i have from second grade. Im in the sixth grade now. Sometimes my dad refuses to buy me new things even when we have more money, but then he spends it on stupid stuff. Im crying now and i so thankful for everything i have.. We live in a 2 room house eiyh one bathroom.. Im just sick and tired of my parents tell me we dont have money to buy you something for school. I want to be a prefect next year but i cant because nobody likes me. Im just emotionql right now. Help! |
| Question: How to convince my mother to let me do something? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 11:16 AM PDT There's something I want but my mother wants me To do it her way. How do I convince her that my way is faster and cheaper then hers? |
| Question: Ny parents are extremely controlling? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 10:58 AM PDT I just cut my hair three hours ago and did it into a short bob and honestly, it doesn't look bad at all. When my mom saw it she started screaming at me and told me i look horrible and that I never asked for permission to cut MY hair. My dad freaked out on me and told me i look like a lesbian and ugly. My mom started crying and told me to get out of her face. I'm 16 and I have no idea why they're acting like this. It's not a big deal. It's HAIR and it grows back. They're making me more depressed than I already am and seriously making me think of suicide already. PLEASE help. |
| Question: Why won't my family and people around me accept the way I feel? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 10:45 AM PDT So I have always been a little more on the country side. I was raised in the country and in huge cities. I currently live in the middle of San Antonio. I hate it and I miss the country so bad. I still live a country way of life though. I drive a big truck, wear boots and jeans listen to country, hunt, fish, you name it. But everybody around me is like , youre not country you just act like it. They also judge me for the way I dress. My wardrobe consists of Boots Jeans, Shirts and CAMO. That's it. On sunday at church I wear a nicer shirt and boots and jeans. I don't need their approval, I just wish they would stop judging me and accept me for the way I feel |
| Question: How to Convince My Dad To Let Me Wear Nail Polish? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 10:40 AM PDT Okay so when I was 4 years old my mom painted my nails and then my dad banned from me wearing it. My brothers are always super sensitive and treat me like a baby so they would get mad if I wore nail polish also. But I'm 13 turning 14 in Janurary and for 8th grade I realy wanna paint my nails white to go along with some rings I bought. How do I bring up this conservation to my dad without causing tension? And should I say it with my mom and dad in the room? |
| Question: I was hit in the eye.? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 10:39 AM PDT My sibling got mad at me and shoved me into the wall where something was sticking out of it. It hit my eye. She hasn't apologized or anything. It still hurts bad :( she's 15 I'm 13. What do I do? |
| Question: My son has a friend with benefits. Is this good for him? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 10:32 AM PDT My son and this girl will meet up every couple of days purely just to do it, their relationship is only sexual. I am unsure whether this is a good thing for him. Don't get me wrong, i'm not one of those parents who wants to control their kids lives and tell them what to do but i just think he can do better than that and find a girl who he can have a proper relationship with. Is my concern valid or should I just let him do what he wants? My son's 20 btw |
| Question: Is my brother right? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:56 AM PDT My brother says I abuse him, I don't think I do, I'm not sure, I tell him to respect my boundaries (I was sexually harassed) and he doesn't, I either smack his hand slightly or over the head or yell because he keeps dong it. If we do get physical, it is usually in a heated argument. And he lies and steals my things and when I go defend my case, I am the bully or something. I always hear it, I'm abusive, I'm a bully. Oh before I forget, I usually call him a spoiled brat, because he is one. And when I am with friends, I usually want my space, but he tries to attach himself like glue to me and it bothers me because I have a buddy that does that and I have to constantly tell both to leave me alone, I feel bad cuz I think I am a bad sister, but I don't know what to do anymore, it is driving me insane, I have tried everything from being polite, to being mean and to telling my mom, idk what to do, I feel like I have been a bad sister even if others that have watched this happen tell me otherwise. Ok, he is 11, I am 17 The yelling isn't like AAAAGH yelling, its like a STOP...ok I have anxiety issues and I have schizophrenia, he has slightly Asperger syndrome, he is highly functional, he just has issues communicating. My parents talked to him but he keeps doing it just five minutes ago, he took something from me and I told him to please give it back, and he was like "you aren't my boss, I have rights to take whatever I want" And I took his stuffed animal and told him that if he doesn't give it back, I wont give him his stuff animal back, Am I really abusive? ugh what am I thinking, I probably am, thank you Kaylee for making me realize that (no sarcasm included) Its not really a slap, its more like a tap that you give little kids on the hand when they are bad |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:52 AM PDT I'm 30 years old with random behavior problems affecting my disability with high-functioning Autism. I'm a normal person raised by my so-called dysfunctional family, both my parents and relatives who were being dysfunctional towards in the whole family except myself especially for when it comes to my bad behavior, also whenever they say I'm always acting up. They are too strict and harsh with me for my bad behavior (even punishing me too much with their rules they forced me to follow before breaking them) mostly that is because they always treat me like a minor at the age of 17 or younger instead of treating me like an adult at the age of 18 and older. However, they always tell me that I've been acting like an underage minor and not treating me like one over a fully-grown up woman usually. Which is why they wouldn't accept the fact that they were doing nothing but treating me like a baby, toddler, preteen, and teenager instead of treating me like an adult. But I can't take it out on them whenever they're saying I'm acting and instead of being treated, especially when they say "You're being treated like a child because you're acting like a child" and "If you want to be treated like an adult, then you better act like an adult". They really need to learn to stop treating me like a minor instead of treating me like an adult at 30! What if I get even more mad at them if they keep on continuing to treat me like a minor instead of treating me like an adult with Autism?! They act like they're the BIG bosses of me. They have strict rules that can cause me to have behavioral problems. They call me mean, nasty names, etc. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:52 AM PDT Alright guys... I need help. I live with my mom, my uncle, my big cousin Alison, my second cousins Rey and Natalie, and my two brothers. Big family. So, since my summer has started, my uncle has been throwing up (He is now as i type.) He has been calling me to his room to see if I can help. If i cant, he gets all pissy about how im useless and that i cant do anything right and then kicks me out. He apologizes about 10 minutes later saying that his pain is getting to him. He makes me change his colostomy bag (a poop bag on his stomach) and has me give him his insulin shots. He gets sh*t faced drunk at the beginning of each month and runs me out of the house for the day saying im nothing more than a useless piece of crap with no dad. He calls 20 min later and apologies say the pain was too much. My doctor says the stress of it all it too much for one kid. He says that im going to give myself a premature heart attack. I dont know what to do... i hurt all day long from picking him up off the floor and im so tired physically and mentally. Someone please tell me how to handle the weight of the stress he causes me, please? |
| Question: Are my parents psychopaths? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:50 AM PDT My mom used to remind me when I was little that my dad never wanted us. My dad used to beat my sister and I and call us "guests" in his house. I developed a brain tumor and had to have surgery at age 20. After I was Ok, my parents kicked me out stating they had enough of my illness (I have permanent epilepsy). My cat just got ill. I no longer live there but my mom didn't even take it to the vet. She just let it throw up around the house and die downstairs. Now, the other cat is sick. He is only 8. My parents just told me they are taking it to the humane society to put it down, no vet. My dad makes over 100k a year so money is not an issue. Are they nuts? |
| Question: I don't know how to tell my cousin I'm in love with him.? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:45 AM PDT He's 40 y/o and I'm 17. We've kissed, but we got caught in the bathroom at a family party. He has a wife (he hates her) + 3 kids. I'm so in love with him it hurts. I want to contacts him but I feel like his wife would be listening. Havnt talked to him Since my birthday in March. |
| Question: It true that the only relationships that matter are husband/wife & parent/child? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:35 AM PDT My friend were talking about this the other day. From what I've seen & heard, these relationships are the only ones seen as important, not really any of the other relationship. I know someone who had this super close relations with her uncle since birth. It was MORE than a father/daughter relationship. He treated, loved, & cared for her exactly like if she came from him. She was one of his main priorities in life. He would die for her.But he had a kid several years ago and now all of that doesn't exist. They RARELY ever see each other; before they spent most of their time together. No matter what, those kind of relationships aren't the same. Does anyone know what I'm trying to say? |
| Question: I kinda feel betrayed...? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:32 AM PDT Hello! I have a close friend/cousin, 13, sibling issues who I'm recording this for. Please be somewhat nice. /Friend's part/ So, around a year ago I was watching my sibling play soccer with his friends, all around a year younger than me. Problem is, one of them came up to me and spat on me while my brother was in the bathroom. For. No. Reason. They always seems to dislike me, but... That one shady guy... I kinda went into a minor shock after that. I felt hurt and cold, like in those cliche breakup scenes, but the anger came, overruled judgment and I punched him once and then I walked out. I probably shouldn't have hit the friend. But now, a long time later, my younger sibling brought it up again and told me that he believed his friends over me, who had said I had punched him first. And then he made a bunch of excuses, like how his friend could have mistaken me for a patch of grass. (Whut.) He's always been a gullible kid, and we aren't always on the best terms, but... I still feel like cuddling up in a ball and crying. Please help, and tell me if I'm being really stupid cuz' a this. Thnx! |
| Question: Should I tell my dad I m upset and there s something bothering me that I need help with? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:27 AM PDT |
| Question: 18 years old and trying to leave parents? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:20 AM PDT Living with my mom and step dad has been making me depressed and I feel like they are holding me back from what I want. They depend on me all the time to clean everything and watch their kid all the time. I want a job and I want out but it's hard when you are depended on and stuff. I also fight with my mom a lot and I hate living with her for many reasons. When I don't have to clean and watch my little sister, I spend time with my boyfriend and stay with him as much as I can until I have to watch my sister. My boyfriend lives with his grandma, but he wants to live with his mom. This past weekend my boyfriend and I went out of town to his mom's house and stayed a few days. We loved it there and if both he and I lived there, we'd have our own room with each other. His mom told us we could live there if we needed to as long as we got jobs. I'm totally willing to work, but his mom wants us to go to college and wants her son to at least do a trade. My boyfriend told me he really doesn't want to do a trade though and says he wouldn't make it through college. He told me he'd drop out. My mom doesn't give a **** and I tried asking her to help me enroll at the community college but she doesn't do it. I want to move to my boyfriend's mom's house, get a job with my boyfriend, save up, then move. That's all I want. Does it sound reasonable? Should we do it, or should I try and get a job while staying in the situation I am in? |
| Question: Is bad if my cousins(girls) were looking at my penis? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:19 AM PDT We have pool and my cousins were there too,but i saw them looking in my penis i am 13 years old the older cousin is 13 years old too her sister is 10 years old. |
| Question: I'm in love with my sister's friends? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:08 AM PDT I don't know how to explain this but it's a long story my sister has a friend and she is 12 years the best friend of my sister she is 27 and I'm 22 but I'm in love with her for about 5 years I usually buy her a present every year when her birthday arrives and she buys me also something however my wish is to finish my education and marry her but there's one thing she told me I love you like a brother, and 2 years ago when I said to her I love you she said to me what can I do for you? What did she mean? I don't understand what she said then I sent an sms to her saying to her I really love you if I finish my education we can go to germany together and then she texted me oh that the nicest thing a man like you is trying to do for me but try to go another way in your life what does she mean? If she gets married with someone else my heart breaks like a glass because I love her so much I haven't yet told this subject to her parents and to her brother.do I have a chance to win her heart? |
| Question: My friend's relationship with her uncle? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:03 AM PDT My friend wanted me to ask this question on here. She has this amazing relationship with her uncle since birth. It's more than a father/daughter relationship.He has a wife also but her relationship with my friend isn't same. He does, literally, everything for her.The only thing that he didn't do was make her.He treats, loves, & cares about her exactly like she is his own. He is & was there for everything.They spend most of their time together. He says that she is his baby and is his princess, you those little cute nicknames. He tells her that she is one of his main priorities in life & he would die for her, stuff like that. Their relationship literally couldnt be stronger.But, she knows other people with these types of relationships(involving uncles/nieces/nephews ect) & they all end in "they had kids and now their relationship doesn't exist." She's so scared because he means so much to her. He says that this relationship will never change no matter what.She wants to know if this relationship will all stay the same if he does have a kid. As much as I HATE saying this, personally I think that these types of relationships NEVER last forever and don't matter. No matter how close these relationships are, the only ones that truly matter, last forever, are the most important & are "real" are, the husband/wife & parent/child. If it's not one of the two,It's not as important. At least from what I've seen. |
| Question: I keep hearing things what is it? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 09:00 AM PDT Sometimes I could here someone call my name when I'm in my room playing. Mostly it's my mom but if I don't hear her she will scream my name. But some how I'm in my room playing. And I hear this quit voice call my name. I go tell my mom and say did you call my name. She will say no why. I said I heard someone call my name. And she said oh its problem just the TV you heard. so I just go back in my room to play. And I could here my name being called again. So I just keep playing. Then I could start feeling chills running down my back. I go tell my mom is the air on. She will so no. So I just go back in my room to play. It was warm when I came back in the room but I could fell cold air again. What is it? |
| Question: Help i have toxic family? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:53 AM PDT What should i do?.. i recently bought a jumper from a shop online and i have decided to return, because i was doing work, i went downstairs to ask my father to return it to the store for me, he is usually kind and nice but he just started screaming, then he said yes and called my mother downstairs to go to the store with him, my mother instanltly started screaming at me telling me that she is going to ruin my life or something and that im always horrible and rude (i honestly dont think, many people have told i am polite and kind). anyway my dad and sister went to the store, while they were gone my mother kept on shouting at me, saying, that im putting on a scene and that she will never talk to me again (that doesnt hurt me as i dont love her, she has done things like this before) what hurts me is that she misjudges me so horribly, she says im spoilt and a pain (hardly spoilt! i rember one year when i was younger, wishing for a birthday card, as my parents put 0 thought into my achevments/occasions for me however it is like new years eve if my sister smiles or something!!) help what should i do? i sill a youngish teen and my mum is a physicatrist shouldnt she know better? |
| Question: How to I help my mum stop crying and to speak to me about her problems? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:44 AM PDT My mum is in a horrible marriage with my dad and it makes her so sad. I believe she stays in it because of me and my brother (both 17) As a result, recently she has been crying quite a lot. I know that the bad marriage is affecting her so negatively. When I try to help her and comfort her when she is crying she will never speak to me about her problems and it kills me on the inside because I just want to help her and make her happy because she deserves it. |
| Question: Wouldn't it be embarrassing for me to go to the school that my dad teaches at? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:44 AM PDT My dad is forcing me to transfer to the independent all girls school that he works at in the autumn. There are tons of reasons I don't want to go: I don't want to leave my friends, the new uniform is pretty awful, I think everybody is going to be snobby and rich. But I'm most worried about him teaching there, and I don't want to go to the same school that my dad works at. It's going to be super embarrassing if/when the other girls find out. And I feel that if I ever get in trouble, my teachers will tell him right away since they know him. I just really don't want to go to this school with my dad, and I don't know what to do! |
| Question: How can I become more independent (overprotective father)? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:41 AM PDT I am a 17 year old girl and I am an only child. So my dad (my mother is trying to help me lately) is VERY overprotective. He doesn't even want to let me go anywhere alone, I had never walked alone on the street in my entire life, he has been driving me everywhere, from school to my friends' houses. Even when I HAVE to walk to school he comes with me because my school bag is "too heavy". So today we were returning home and the car suddenly broke down and my dad insisted that he would call my mom to pick me up so we had a huge fight over it and I just ignored him and walked home for the first time. And this actually made me realize how bad the situation is, I'll be an adult next year and I am not even used to WALKING because my dad thinks I'm still 5 years old. I am talking mostly about the driving/walking problem here because it's currently the most annoying one. Don't even get me started on the topic of boys (in front of my dad all guys are my "friends", only my mom knows when I am interested in someone). Even when I get married my dad will think I am still a kid. I don't even know why he is like that, he is generally not strict, he is not religious (we are Jewish but nowhere near being religious), he has never had a traumatic experience or anything like that so I don't get why he is doing that. So my question is, how do I become more independent after that? My dad has basically made me think that I can't do anything on my own. How do I start? I know the question is vague and I sound pathetic but I don't know what else to do. Sorry for my bad English... My neighborhood isn't dangerous at all and in my country you can't get a driving license if you aren't over 18. |
| Question: How can I convince my parents to allow me go back to art class? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:37 AM PDT I hate sciences,my talent and hobbies are completely art, but my dad wants me to be an engineer |
| Question: Should I communicate with felon family member? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:30 AM PDT I have a family member who brutally murdered a small child when he was 16. This person was abused sexually and physically himself, has fetal alcohol syndrome and a history of psych problems. So I feel sadness and compassion for him as well as his victim. My mother writes him in prison, and is angry that I do not do so as well. She says that he needs our love, forgiveness and support. From a moral perspective I agree...but I have two children myself. My mother will not be alive if he is ever paroled, my children and I will. This family member will only be in his forties and he is big and strong. Because of his mental deficiencies and the heinousness of what he did I believe prison is where he should be until he dies. But he may only serve 22 years. Am I wrong to consider the safety of my family over my family member? He is still only a child, and I truly do feel sadness and compassion for him, but I fear him as well. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:26 AM PDT Hell everyone. My school has an annual student exchange trip with a Japanese school. I'm 16 this year, and it will be my last chance to attend this 10 day trip as I will be taking my IGCSE exams next yr and Yr 11s are not allowed to participate. I've always longed to go on this trip since I was 13. So when the announcements were made this year, I worked up the courage to ask my parents. Finances aren't a problem, but my parents are OVERLY PROTECTIVE. I'm not saying this bc I'm a brat going through a rebellious phase, as people put it. They think about the most unnecessary circumstances like a plane crash/explosion, how i'm going to get raped or abused at my host's house. Note that I will be only staying at my host's house for 3 days. I will be with my schoolmates on a tour of Jpn for the other 7 days. My host will first be coming to my house to stay over for the same period of time in August, then I will have to go in October. My parents have worked up my hopes and dashed them the next minute for many times, and I don't mind at all. I know that they're worried, since its their first time letting their first child to go abroad. It's a dream I've had for quite some time, and it;s about to come true. But I want them to allow me to go happily, not reluctantly when they'll worry every night for the 10 days. Knowing that fact kills me, and I can't make sense of myself right now. I thank you sincerely in advance for your answers. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:09 AM PDT I took my sister for granted. She is married and i didnt think of that. I gave advices which were unnecessary when she has a husband who is far more intelligent than me. I asked sorry but now i feel i wouldnot be the same when we were young. My heart feels heavy, i asked sorry, but we were not this formal, we used to fight all the time.... Guess she moved on while i stagnated |
| Question: I want to move back to the U.S.A? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:08 AM PDT I am an American born and lived there for 7.5 years. My parents then decided to move to Dubai. now I'm in 10th grade and I really hate it here. It's soulless and lacks natural things. All my friends live in Sharjah. Schools here are so expensive like some actually reaches 90,000 dirhams! which is equivalent to 24,506 dollars. And it all has average education. Even my parents agree, and they want to move. But the only problem is that my dad finally got a job that pays extremely extremely well. But he wants to keep it, ignoring the fact that we want to move. Me and my mom recommended that only me and her stay in America, because my brother is there for university and she wants to be near him. but my dad refuses because he'll be living alone. Me and my mom want to go back to the same place we lived in California. Do you think its a good idea to stay in Dubai, or to move back home? :) Out of topic, but what age can teenagers get a job in America and when can they get a permit. Thanks! Renee x |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:05 AM PDT One year in, We had an argument. Postponed the plans to get married but I moved her in, I never asked her to pay for anything. Everything seemed to be going well and then my teenage daughter started being obnoxious and fled to live with her mom because dad has rules. With that, I've taken a drop in income and I need to sell my home. I've expressed this to my fiancé and she believes I have to remodel this and that to sell it. I can't afford that. I'm looking for a second job as well. While I've never asked her to pay this bill or that bill……she hasn't offered, she did find a job for me? After expressing my financial distress to her, she offers a bedroom to a friend of hers in need. She didn't discuss it with me until after she had offered. Next…..she offers another room to a friend, without asking me. I would have said sure to both situations, but truthfully, she should have asked me FIRST! I was stressed out, at home, preparing for a job interview and her son says he lost his ipad. just said "GOSH" and went to the bedroom. Don't you think she could have texted, called, or something to give me a little heads up? I seriously feel like such an afterthought with her lately that its driving me nuts. I lost my daughter…..She and her son is my #1 and #2 after god of course. I feel like I at best am her #5……and it is really wearing me out. All my coworkers think I'm crazy for allowing her to live there free. I hate this because I love her so much, but I feel like it isn't mutual. |
| Question: I made my grandma feel really bad and i don't know what to do? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:04 AM PDT I live next door to my grandma and every summer I spent every day in her pool. It's a really big in ground pool and it was a gorgeous light blue color. It would sparkle when the sun hit it and it looked so nice. Then we got a tear in the liner and we had to get a new one. We had to get one quick because it was loosing so much water so she picked out one the pool company suggested and didn't really look into it. I didn't really like it when i saw a picture but she ended up getting it anyway. Now it is all finished and it looks absolutely horrible. It's a really dark shade of navy blue and it makes the water look like a dirty lake. I hate it so much. I was sitting at the pool today and i was looking at it and I started crying because I missed the old liner. I grew up with it and it was sooo much prettier. I told my grandma how much i didn't like it and I want the old one back. I told her I hated it and now she feels really bad. She paid thousands for it and I basically told her she wasted her money. She does everything for me. I feel terrible for what I said and I don't know how to make it up to her. Please help me she feels so sad. |
| Question: Is he my father anymore? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 08:00 AM PDT I'm 19 years, when ever i'm close to my dad his action towards me seems to always be boring.no matter how good what I'm doing is he says bad against it, I feel he don't want my success anymore because sometimes he even stop me from going to school. Now what my decision is pending on is whether to kill myself or kill him. |
| Question: Why do people, mostly minorities, keep bringing kids on the bus? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 07:53 AM PDT It's ridiculous, yesterday morning and now this morning dirty screaming kids run to the back of the bus where I sit as though they have no common sense. I love Animal but don't really like kids to be honest and prefer education compared to most ethnic Women where I am from. As if the uncivilized guy sitting opposite of me did not disturbance with his actually eating fast food on the bus. I'm black and I think that Blacks and Hispanics need to stop having kids and expect society to pick up for them instead, obviously I won't. I see plenty of people bring their kids with them in cars, why can't they. |
| Question: My mom yelled at me for no reason...? Posted: 21 Jul 2015 07:42 AM PDT So I'm going to this concert with my friend and my sister today. It's about an hour away. My mom said that she didn't wanna go but that she would drop me off and my friend at my sister's house which is by the area where the concert is taken place and pick us up. She said that I would probabaly sleep there. Days later she never brought it and yesterday I asked her "hey are you driving me and back from my sisters" and she said "yea" and not once mentioned me sleeping there. Until today when I already made the plans with my friend. I was kinda annoyed cause I felt bad and told my friend that she could spend the night at my sisters if needed but because she lived so far she couldn't. I told my mom I wish she told me and she was freaking out saying how I never listen to her and how she said I probabaly would but then again probabaly isn't a yes and plus she never brought it up again. She started yelling and screaming at me saying how I need a job and how she does so much for me and I do appreciate it. Earlier she was mad about my dad so I think the anger brushed on me. All I did was say that I wish she told me the plans. She yelled and said how I was garbage and stupid and how she doesn't want me home tonight. I seriously don't know what I did wrong. I told my sister and she didn't say anything about it cause my mom has literally drilled this message in my family's brain that I'm the worst person ever. My mom called my sister and started venting. Did I do something wrong...? |
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