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- Question: How do you motivate a young adult who does not care about girls or what other people think of him to work out?
- Question: Ladies who drive would you have done this?
- Question: How to make mom stop smoking?
- Question: My mums demanding I open my safe...?
- Question: Why is my dad such a prick?
- Question: I got spanked for kissing a girl in my class?
- Question: My mom sleeps wuth me because she doesnt love my dad?
- Question: What do I do I am a white man and i am head over heels in love with a beautiful incredible beautiful black woman. The biggest issue is that?
- Question: My dad keeps "borrowing" my money?
- Question: I think my mom wants me and it's disgusting?
- Question: Needing advice?
- Question: Any conversation starters or Advice on how to talk to my distant cousins?
- Question: How often is it fun to have a family get together and how often becomes too often where it is not looked forward to?
- Question: What are some good ways for adult children to express gratitude to their parents?
- Question: Why do most older brothers act hostile towards their little sister?
- Question: How to stop being lazy, greedy, selfish, and ungrateful to my mom?
- Question: I feel disrespected by my Nephews and by my Brother-in-law! (Need Help)?
- Question: My mom just told me she was raped?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Can I get survivor benefits if I work?
- Question: My dad forces me to eat?
- Question: How can I find my real dad? I have his name but it's really common for where I think he lives. I think I know his age. Any help?
- Question: If my mom takes me and my siblings to another country then can my dad file a kidnapping case on her?
- Question: Relationship problems with my dad....?
- Question: My brother is engaged to a psycho woman who doesn't want my brother to have contact with his family what to do?
- Question: How do I get my mother to wake up? She made me stay home today and clean and cook. I had plans with my friends and she took my phone?
- Question: Do you think it's okay to use a slur if it's directed at your own nationality?
- Question: Being the first child, is it possible to be forgotten?
- Question: Am I in my brothers shadow?
- Question: Being raised by an older sibling?
- Question: People think that I depend on my sibling?
- Question: How am I selfish for wanting a Destination Wedding I'm not close to my Family and most of them live out of state anyways?
- Question: What does CaF entail?
- Question: Why Am I here? Why haven't I commited sucide.?
- Question: Is this sibling emotional abuse? is this a crime?
- Question: My parents don't give me privacy?
- Question: My mom got married in May and ever since her husband moved in with us she's been me?
- Question: My daughtet does not seem to have any common sense. Can this be an illness?
- Question: I hate my life?
- Question: I was told my son could not get any visits at the Madera Co. Jail because of where he was where could he have been?
- Question: What do you guys think of this?
- Question: My fiancé is a nice patient person but when his son comes to stay with us he becomes ill tempered and angry with me.?
- Question: Is this verbal abuse?
- Question: Brother is come from boot camp and he's ignore whole family!?
- Question: Do mothers become jealous of their daughters' youth and beauty?
- Question: Should i give up or no?
- Question: Ideas for a sweet 16 party!?
- Question: My mom won't stop yelling at me while I'm in the bathroom?
- Question: What to do next husband with of one year?
- Question: Scared of my dad. Need help?
- Question: My grandpa keeps trying to get me to change who i am so i can fit into the "adult world". Why can't i just be who I am?
- Question: How do I begin to fix the problems I made while drunk?
- Question: How would you feel if your son wanted to be a Wrestler?
- Question: My life is falling apart in front of my eyes I don't know what to do anymore?
- Question: Am I wasting my whole summer?
- Question: What is needed for a 16 year old's job interview?
- Question: Should I get my own place?
- Question: How do I tell my mom!!!!?
- Question: Brother in laws wife flirty when wasted?
- Question: Do you sleep with your sister?
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:41 PM PDT The person I am speaking of never had a girlfriend does not want one even if he is 23 years old and in his entire life he did not cared what people thought about him. He only goes to work, eats and plays video games that is his entire schedule so naturally he is overweight and probably very unhealthy. Or he will be as he does not drink or smokes so who knows. The point is how do you convince such a person to take greater care of himself to work out and to eat more healthy? |
| Question: Ladies who drive would you have done this? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:39 PM PDT I just got to my sister's house for a 2 week visit. I had a long 9 hour drive so I drove barefoot and kept my shoes behind my seat out of the way. It was very comfortable being barefoot on my long drive. |
| Question: How to make mom stop smoking? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:38 PM PDT My mom wants to smoking and I want her to stop smoking too. she said she wants to be here for me and my brother for when I get older. but if she stop smoking I know she will turn to alcohol and I know what will happen if that happens and I don't want her to be alcoholic.. help.. advice.. anything please |
| Question: My mums demanding I open my safe...? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:37 PM PDT Okay so, I live with my mum and she legally still has full control over me. But this is the stupid part... I own a safe filled with sex toys and she wants to know what's in there and I tell her my debit card and some documents for my bank etc. she's being really awkward out of something that doesn't need to be. I won't open the safe because it is going to be soo awkward. What do I do thanks?! |
| Question: Why is my dad such a prick? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:27 PM PDT He can't admit that he is wrong. He says that I stole something of his, his solution is to take mine, even though all the evidence points to him losing it and not want to admit that I was right the whole time. Whenever I try to reason with him in logic, he just tells me to shut the **** up. It is like he is avoiding something. My mom claims it is stress, but this is a lie. He is naturally a prick, I know he favors my sister, over me and my other sister who he treats like ****. He doesn't think about the pain he causes, just the pain that others inflict upon him. He is a massive hypocrite. All hell enters when he comes home. Any advice? I try to talk nicely with him, but inevitably it just ends up with him attacking me. I have tried avoiding him, but that seems to just anger him. We have done councilors with my other sister and he, it ended up with him just mocking her advice. Please help... |
| Question: I got spanked for kissing a girl in my class? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:26 PM PDT hi i'm trevor and I'mn 14 years old in 8th grade. However it is summer time and I go to the beach almost everyday. I see a lot of my old classmates there and they always say hi to me and even this girl I like, her name is amy. At first I kissed her on the cheek and said hi to her and she blushed and we talked everyday. Then she moved and I accidently kissed her on the lips and her parents found out and were mad i guess cause shes only 13. My parents found out and spanked me with my shorts down in front of everyone and it was so embarssing. I even think amy saw my weiner. how will i ever go back to school with what happened i' dont evenj think she likes me anymore |
| Question: My mom sleeps wuth me because she doesnt love my dad? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:18 PM PDT so i'm 17 and my mom still sleeps with me because she doesnt love my dad and wont sleep with him.Today i asked her if she would start sleeping a little less in my bed and she was like "then where will i sleep?i dont want to sleep with your dad" bla bla and i have to sleep with her.I'ts not like she does anything when we sleep,i have a lot of space for myself and she does nothing,she just sleeps with me,but i feel like i should sleep alone,i am old enough,but i already told you the problem.I am female btw and what should i do?I think that i should just accept it,i have nothing left to do.. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT Her dream is to be accepted into my family like her family embraced me. But my dad won't accept her and because he won't my mom won't really either at least not around him only because of the color of her skin. I have tried to tell her that i don't care what he thinks and that she is the most important person in the world me but i can see that his attitude and racism hurts her and i don't know what to do. |
| Question: My dad keeps "borrowing" my money? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:14 PM PDT recently I don't give a **** how much money he makes rich or poor I don't even live with the man im visiting him for the summer right before I left I got a job when I left I had around 105-110$ didn't spend a penny on anything out of the blue but he keeps making me buy himand my brothers dinner or hell even ice cream after wards gets really obnoxious knowing hes fairly well off just is in debt cause he uses his credit card to often im not paying another dime for him let me tell you only have 25$ left |
| Question: I think my mom wants me and it's disgusting? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:14 PM PDT This is weird as **** and I'm seriously getting tired of it. My mom is cool and all, but sometimes she's really weird. She comes naked around me a lot, always exhibiting and asking me to look at her. Some may say "dude, go for it", but: 1- She's my mother, wtf || 2- She is fat and she is ugly as FUUUUUCK. And sometimes she brags about little things such as social media stuff or going out with her girl friends, but I don't really care about that and she actually thinks I do, like she's a big deal or something. She divorced my dad a year ago and I'm living with her. This is awkward every single day that goes by and it makes me sick. I'm sure she wants something from me, and it's... I don't know what to say any more, just unbearable to deal with. I'm almost 18 and I seriously don't know how to handle this problem, so if anyone could not judge or cuss and just help me out it would mean a LOT. Thank you for reading. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT So I am needing advice on facing a certain situation. I fully admit I was ignorant with what I did. So about 6 months ago I moved out on my own with a crappy car, so my grandmother paid for a down payment for a car for me. I insisted beforehand that I didn t feel right about the whole thing, but she just kept telling me that she wanted me in a safe car. Well, I have changed jobs a couple times since I have moved out (which was stupid of me) but this time was different. My boyfriend quit his as well thinking that he would find something fast, but he hasn t. It has now been a month and a half. I have just started a job. Problem is, we are so far behind on everything that we have no way of paying for everything. So my grandmother is the one we usually hand the money to every month for insurance and car payment, but last month we could only do the car payment. I feel like dirt because I lied to her and said he still had his job. She wasn t exactly happy about not receiving only the car payment last month, but she accepted it. Now I don t know what to do. I feel like a terrible terrible person, and I feel like him and I failed her. (Not to mention also feeling like we failed our landlord as well). How do I approach this? Do I tell her I need to talk to her and go talk to her face to face? I guarantee she will be livid with me, but will telling her make me feel any better? Please help! |
| Question: Any conversation starters or Advice on how to talk to my distant cousins? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:03 PM PDT Ok so my family and I are going to mexico in about week and I haven't visited or came to mexico since I was 3 and I'm 16 now so I cant really remember anything. I haven't seen my cousins in a long time so I wont know what to say lol. I'm like the serious quiet type of guy that hardly ever talks . So can anyone help me with some conversation starters or advice on what to talk about with my family over there would be really appreciated. And I was born in the U.S will they see me as a foreigner. Thanks |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:02 PM PDT I don't want to do overkill but I would like to occasionally (is more then once a year too much)? |
| Question: What are some good ways for adult children to express gratitude to their parents? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 01:01 PM PDT This is long, sorry, I m just looking for opinions! I m a married twenty something with a little boy. My parents have always done so much for me and now for my little family as well. When I turned eighteen they gave me a very nice used Camry so I wouldn t have a car payment. They have helped with my schooling (they gave me a laptop and printer and paid for some of my community college classes). They have insisted that I stay on their cell phone plan and car insurance (I just write them a check for my portion each month) so that I can save some money. They paid for our beautiful backyard wedding, they buy beautiful birthday and Christmas presents for us and our son, and my mom even babysits our son twice a week for free while I work. And now, they have offered to help us buy a house- they are putting in a twenty percent down payment for us! We can afford our living expenses just fine but my parents say they like to help us just so that things aren t as "tight" financially. I can t help but feel guilty when they help us like this- my parents are not rich, but they have always been very wise with their money so they do very well financially. My husband says I should try to feel less guilty and instead focus on showing them gratitude. What are some good ways to show my parents how grateful I am for all they ve done for us? |
| Question: Why do most older brothers act hostile towards their little sister? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:49 PM PDT |
| Question: How to stop being lazy, greedy, selfish, and ungrateful to my mom? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:48 PM PDT I've been acting terrible lately. Ive been asking so much of my mom and I give her an attitude as soon as she asks me to do something for her. I feel terrible looking back on things, and I hate that I've taken her for granted so much. I feel like I shouldnt have even asked her for a necklace I ordered online, or the fabric she recently got me, or to spend over 100 so I could go to a stupid convention, because I just give her an attitude when its my turn to returm the favor and I never even earned any of what i got. |
| Question: I feel disrespected by my Nephews and by my Brother-in-law! (Need Help)? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:47 PM PDT My Husband and I recently moved out of his brothers house (major part his boys disrespect no manners) anyways I just seen my Nephews at the store one of my Nephews who's 8 years old says too me my Daddy said your an ahole. I wasn't shocked (they all have potty mouths) and my brother don't correct them nor punish them ages 10, 8, 6, 4. They are not very nice boys. I don't know what to do I talked to my brother several times he won't do anything about it and I'm getting tired of their potty mouths. I don't allow my 3 year old to act like that or she'd be in major trouble with me. Thanks too all who read this and too their Mom is worse she don't correct them either none of them correct their kids. |
| Question: My mom just told me she was raped? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:37 PM PDT My mom just told me she was raped in college and then tried to make me feel bad about it. I feel bad for her but that's no excuse to pretend like your daughter is ignorant. I'm 14. I'm a girl. I'm crying in my room and SHES never there for me but when she tells me this I'm supposed to baby her? I don't want to sound ignorant because I can't imagine what she went through but she ties that in to EVERYTGING I say. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:33 PM PDT She'd always complain where I got her presents for her birthday, or how much money I'd give her. Yet, she's not given me a present one year, and this year she hardly spent much on mine and says that her mother didn't have any money to give her. She'd always tell others about the gifts I got her, and yet she doesn't even have anything I got her. Then she's expecting me to buy her Nike shoes or a pandora braclet since she's having this quinceanera, and if I don't give her something expensive she's going to be upset because her party is lot's of money. I find that unfair, and yet she's always telling me that I'm never grateful for what I have. |
| Question: Can I get survivor benefits if I work? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:30 PM PDT I'm turning 16 soon and I want to work to help my mom out. My dad died last year when I was 14 and we've (my brother & I) been receiving benefits monthly. However, I was talking to my friend the other day and her dad also died but she said she can't get a job because of she does, I think the benefits stop coming in or are greatly reduced. I just want to work so I'm not poor by the time I'm 18 because the money my brother and I get are spent on groceries, paying the bills, etc. by my mom. So can I work? I'm not sure how much money I get, but my father worked 30+ years and managed his own business if that helps. |
| Question: My dad forces me to eat? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:27 PM PDT My dad today bought me a sub (6 inch) after I told him I wasn't hungry, he literally yelled at me "I dont give a ****" i told him after "you're just wasting your money, i told you i wasn't hungry " and I didn't even touch that sub, he was saying "are we gonna have a serious problem" i said I guess, then he said "I will straggle you, open that sub" his girlfriend is in the back, hearing all of this not doing ****, my dad has hit my, and choked me before so I opened it, he stood right there then i said "I'll eat half" i thought he'd go away, but he said "eat it " so I just broke it in half and threw the other part down with force, and I took a bite,when he left I put my part in a napkin and went to my room and the other in the refrigerator I have some habits of not eating ENOUGH because im too tired but he can't just threaten and force me to eat. |
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| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:14 PM PDT Me, my siblings and my mom really want to go to Bangladesh. We live in New York. We were born here (not my mom) My parents aren't going through any divorce things. So can my dad file a case against her even if it's not true? |
| Question: Relationship problems with my dad....? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:14 PM PDT Uh...well what should I say. Basically, I have a bad relationship with my father (not relationship as in like dating, but just my connection with him.) He's not abusive. But I just don't like him that much. He just says some things that set me off. He also just gets really cocky at times. I like him sometimes, like there are times where I can smile at him and hug him without a problem, but then there are also times where i could just scream at the top of my lungs. The one thing that really confuses me though is that I am a girl. And it's been proven that most girls take their dads side in everything. And they usually take after them. But I don't. Is this weird? Just a nice explanation for all of this would be great. Thanks for reading.. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 12:03 PM PDT She controls his life , reads, and replies responding to emails that are from my mom and I. I can't write my own brother to pass a message without her being a complete troll. She also is a paternity fraud and is trying to pass a child she had by another man as biologically my brothers. The child looks nothing like my brother or any of our families history and we have shown pictures of the child to friends and family and they do not see the resemblance. He didn't do a DNA test to even confirm that child is his and instead decided to yell at my mom on the phone saying that we are upsetting his fiance because we won't believe the bullshit. So now I can't talk to him and my mother can't talk to him because his fiance stands in the way of communication. I rather just pray and hope for the best ,but I just don't know what to do except let go and let god. What do you think? |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:31 AM PDT How do you deal with parents who treat you like a slave? I had plans to go with Cherri to the beach today but I'm stuck at home. After I called her my mom took my phone away and won't give it back until I get down with this crap. She won't pay me for watching my sister either. I'm almost 14 and I could get a baby sitting job that pays really well. She's taking my money and making me her slave. HELP PLEASE. I can't give you my phone number cuz she took it. |
| Question: Do you think it's okay to use a slur if it's directed at your own nationality? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:31 AM PDT All eight of my great grandparents came here from Poland over a hundred years ago so I suppose that makes me Polish. So is it alright for me to use the slur Pollock. I called my uncle one and he thought it was funny. My aunt didn't find it as amusing. |
| Question: Being the first child, is it possible to be forgotten? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:23 AM PDT I was an only child for 13 years. When I was 14, my mom adopted a baby boy from Guatemala. She missed my high school play, my graduation and was late for my wedding because she already promised she would do something with him. She even refused to see my baby when she was born because my brother wasn't allowed in the room. This would normally just piss me off, but since he is so spoiled, he's turned into a monster. He was a bunch of electronics which he just throws around because he knows that if one breaks, it will be replaced. I can't even ask for $30 for my car without being yelled at for being irresponsible with money (sorry if groceries, bills and baby supplies takes all my money) My mom hasn't had anything to do with me for about 2 months. If I invite her anywhere, she has to okay it with my brother and then bring him and his friends along. He is now 9 and I am 22. I feel stupid for being "jealous" and disliking a kid, but my whole high school and early adult life was ignored. My mom has even told me that if I wasn't here, they could do more things together. I feel invisible. I wish she just liked me again. Is it right for me to feel forgotten and hurt or am I just being stupid and pathetic for not liking a kid? I really need advice. *before you say go to family counseling, we already did that. they told her that my emotions were valid and that maybe we should schedule times to see each other, just me and her. She didn't like that so she is now searching for a second opinion... |
| Question: Am I in my brothers shadow? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:21 AM PDT I think I'm in my brother shadow but I'm not sure. Me and my brother are twins but I'm a girl. People (no matter what gender) always talk to him and play with him. They always have a good time and I'm just there. People think he's the best, everyone loves him and I don't know why. Everytimw I make a new friend and I introduce them to my brother, they never talk to me again because they are with my brother. People always notice all thing good things he does and they only notice the bad things that I do. My parents always have good times with him and the only time my parents talk to me is if they want me to do something for them. People always call me _____'s sister besides my real name. So is this being in someone's shadow or is it just being left out? Please don't put anything mean and don't make fun of me! |
| Question: Being raised by an older sibling? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:12 AM PDT Lots of questions... how old will he need to be? My parents aren't dead, but I feel that I will live a better, happier life with him because my dad use to be abusive (he stopped because of law but he threatens a lot) and he sexually harasses. There is my mom of course but still... Would I need a reason or does my sibling have to just sign some paperwork and boom he has custody of me? |
| Question: People think that I depend on my sibling? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:09 AM PDT People think I depend on my sibling because I don't know why. I'm tired of people telling me that. The thing is if I don't do what he wants or if I do something wrong when he wanted something to happen, I get verbally bullied by him (and on rare occasions physically). People think I depend on him but they just don't understand. I've told my mom before but she doesn't do anything about it and my dad doesn't understand in general because he's one of the people who think that I depend on my sibling. I just want them to understand that I'm afraid of getting verbally and physically hurt by him so that why I always do what he says and go with his plans. How can I make them stop thinking that? Please don't make fun of me and don't put mean things! |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 11:09 AM PDT I don't want to pay for all of his family whom I don't know and his friends to party all night! |
| Question: What does CaF entail? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:54 AM PDT So, I went to my first antenatal appointment today with my partner. I am 19 and my partner is 23. My mother has mental health issues and so do I, although most of this is in my past. However, she then asked me if Social Services were/had ever been involved with me. I admitted that they were when I was a young child, although she didn't proceed to ask why. My mother was actually unable to care for me so there was a custody battle and eventually my grandparents gains full custody of me. After I mentioned past SS involvement, she said she wod do a CAF referral, and would I be OK with that? I said yes, because I assumed it could only be a good thing. Could anyone give me any information or personal experience with CAF and what it involves? I really really really do not like it when outside agencies start interfering, so if this is going to somehow lead to SS becoming involved in mine and my child's life again... |
| Question: Why Am I here? Why haven't I commited sucide.? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:51 AM PDT First of all, I'm sucidial and I hate my life. My mom gives me ******* medicine because she needs to ******* "control me" which is the most bullshit thing I've ever heard in my entire life. What this does is make me go on the computer and stare at my ******* computer 24/7 and question why am I alive, why haven't I killed myself at this god damn mother ******* point. I live in Moore Oklahoma and on march 25th 2015 there was a ******* ef2 tornado on my street which isn't a big deal. Now let's get on to the biggest ****. And when I try to convince her not to give it to me or when I say "why" she sometimes ******* gives the biggest threat I've heard. "Because if you don't take it I'll kill you." Don't tell me to go outside and get a friend because my only best friend moved to a different town 2 days ago. I can't ******* wait for school. I ask my dad if I could go to a place called Dz and most of the time he won't let me. Only on Saturday which is bullshit. I wanna hang out with my big brother more but he moved to a different town, I've only seen him 3 times in a timeline of 5+ years. I question why I'm here like I said, can someone tell me why I'm here |
| Question: Is this sibling emotional abuse? is this a crime? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:49 AM PDT Lately me and my sisters' relation has become bitter, due to our parents not approving of her dead beat boyfriend (we're both currently in college so we adults). Anyways, recently, my sister and my parents had a spat: I've tried to stay out of it however. she starts texting me as follows: Her: you're such a ******* mommas boy thanks for telling them everything you douche bag. I cant even believe you right now im so done with you ******. im sure youre gonna report this to your mommy you prick Me: No I'm not but I'm gonna enjoy the rest of my night her: I told you things because I thought I could trust you. You're an asshole and you're telling your momy everything you told them i've been calling them by (their first names) and god knows what else you've been telling them that's only an example it goes on but i decided not to bore you...like i've said I've tried to leave this to them (not saying anything) then she calls me disloyal and tells me she wants to go cry alone and that she wants to go on antidepressant medication. Would you consider this emotional abuse (and if I can do anything to protect myself) my parents are considering kicking her out of the house but idk how that will go. Please- any help would be greatly appreciated I forgot to mention I've already told my parents about this...conversations like this (texting) have happened maybe every other week but this was one of the more intense ones |
| Question: My parents don't give me privacy? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:46 AM PDT I'm a 13 year old boy, and my parents don't give me any privacy. They don't let me close my door, and they are always snooping around on my phone reading my text messages, emails, etc. Today my mom caught me with my door closed, and told me that if I'm not hiding something, then I shouldn't care about privacy. My friends and I don't talk about anything bad, but I still don't feel comfortable with my parents reading them. I don't watch porn or anything like that, they just don't trust me. They also do this with my sister. How can I make them give me more privacy? They don't understand that I feel very uncomfortable when they snoop around my stuff. What should I do? |
| Question: My mom got married in May and ever since her husband moved in with us she's been me? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:32 AM PDT mean and not like she used to be. She used to take me, my younger sister, and my older brother out all the time and she wasn't as strict as she is now. Ever since she's been with him she's been off. She hasn't spoken any of her family in a long time. She used to talk to everybody a lot until she got with him. And she's been really mean to me and it seems like she doesn't even care about her kids anymore. I'm trying to stay clear of her and not talk to her because of how she's been treating me. And I really wanna move with me dad but she's not letting me, what should I do? Everything has changed because of him.😡 |
| Question: My daughtet does not seem to have any common sense. Can this be an illness? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 10:15 AM PDT My daughter is 22 years old. She is very intelligent, excellent student, knows 4 languages and has very good looks. But shecseems to lack completely common sense and it is afecting her life in a negative way. Being a student, she is looking for part time jobs and has no problem in finding one...but the problem is that she can't keep the jobs because she is an extremely slow learner. These jobs are at hotels like cleaning jobs or in restaurants taking food orders etc. the owners of these places, obviously do not have patience for her to take her time in learning and is usually told that they can't use her. As her mother, I am aware of her being slow...but when she finally gets the hang of it...she is fast, effective and does a good job. She just started a job in a hotel, cleaning rooms and it took her 8-9 hours to clean 12 rooms. She is supposed to be able to clean each room in no more than 26 min. She is not using her cellphone...in case some would probably ask if she spends time on that. I just do not know why this is and how or what can help her. Could it be some sort of sickness? She just called me crying, saying she got fired. Thanking in advance for any advise on this matter. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:48 AM PDT My dad left before I was born, so I never met him, I still don't know anything about him as my mom refuses to tell me anything. My mom and her boyfriend are a**holes to me, they don't care about my feelings, they don't care if I'm sick or if I'm sad, they just make me study and do homework all the time and I don't get anything at all, I have to wear the clothes they want me to, I have to get my hair cut the way they want it, I don't get to go to parties nor do I get to invite friends over, I feel like a slave, always being told what to do and if I ask them for something, they throw a fit about how they don't have money (which they do, they're rich), about how I owe everything to my mom, who sacrificed everything just to have me, about how I don't need anything. If I come to them and tell me what's bothering me they just scream at me about how they're busy and tell me to go away. I can't do anything about it because I don't have any family members that would take me in with them and I can't go to child services or anything because there's none in my country. At school I feel like a reject, I'm not good at any sports, and I don't have many social skills, sure I have "friends" but they don't feel like real friends, I get bullied, people don't want me to hang out with them, they reject me, teachers are a**holes too and I can't get help anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I should have never been born |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:28 AM PDT They said i couldn't see him because of where he was at the time and that the reason was not life threatening, what does that mean? Where could he have been? |
| Question: What do you guys think of this? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:27 AM PDT Okay so when I was about 10 I started to learn how to do chores and cook I was exciting to learn etc ever since I learned my parents always put me to cook I became like the servant of the house with out getting paid of course we are Hispanics and my dad loves tortillas I never wanted to learn how to make them because I know they will make me do tortillas for now on and I did learn because my dad would tell me he would hit me etc so now I m here responsible of doing tortillas okay so now I m 16 and my mom is pregnant no I m not happy about it and she is always laying down and wants us to do everything for her and it piss me off my dad also told me and my sister if we don t do what she says we will have problems aka he would hit us that we have to treat her like a little girl/princess I hate my life and I want to move out and I don t cus I don t have money |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:27 AM PDT He started out just getting put off about things when his son was around, little nonsense that normally doesn't matter. We've discussed it and he acknowledged that he does behave differently, he said he would work on it. It's only gotten worse, last week he started yelling at full volume for over an hour while his son slept in the next room. I didn't say anything back because I thought he would shut up. He didn't. Since I wasn't saying anything back he just yelled about personal, private conversations we'd had. It was horrible. Again he apologized and said let's just move forward. I found it unsettling as NO one has ever spoke to me like that before. Advice? |
| Question: Is this verbal abuse? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:20 AM PDT I'm 14 years old. My mom and brother constantly are yelling at me and arguing with me. They don't try and talk to me instead they start yelling at me. My brother is 20 and he gets up in my face and starts screaming at me. I feel like he's going to hit me. He cusses me out calling me a f***ing little brat and annoying. He compares me to my dad saying that I'm no better than me "dope head" father. and he tells me all the time to shut the f*** up and I'm a little s***. My mom sits there and watches and says the things he's saying are true. They don't give me a chance to talk and keep screaming in my face. They watch me cry I can't say anything and they just get in my face. My mom says similar things but she doesn't compare me to my dad and doesn't tell me to shut up. this has been making me depressed for the longest time and I have constant anxiety. It makes me want to go live with my dad to escape it but I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings but I'm scared. |
| Question: Brother is come from boot camp and he's ignore whole family!? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 09:04 AM PDT My brother has been home from boot camp 5days(he's on his 10day leave right now) and he hasn't even spent ONE day home with his family! I understand he's a grown man and isn't going to have to spend his whole leave with his parent but not spending even one day with us? We're even having a party for him today and he knows about it it starts in an hour he was supposed to come home before the party but he's still not here and he's been ignoring all my parents calls and text messages! So we don't even know if he's coming or what! I find this to be bullllll sh*t our family are the ones that wrote him while he was gone! Sent him stuff! And paid to travel to see him on his big day! His friends didn't even write him ONE letter while he was gone! And he's just going to ignore his family the whole time he's home to be with these friends? Anyone else deal with something like this when their loved one came home from boot camp/basic training? |
| Question: Do mothers become jealous of their daughters' youth and beauty? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:51 AM PDT do fat, wrinkled, middle aged mothers hate their daughters because of their daughters' attractiveness, slender figures and all the attention males give them? |
| Question: Should i give up or no? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:46 AM PDT My goal has been to travel to florida this year and i cant find any plane tickets until august . And people are putting me down , theyre saying stuff like "why would you go in august, if your about to start school" or "wow next time " i kind of feel realy aad cause of this and i dont know if i should give up or not. Also i will be staying wth my grandma and i dont really know anyone there so any tips on how not to be shy? Cause im rrally shy ?? Please help.should i give up? |
| Question: Ideas for a sweet 16 party!? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:39 AM PDT I'm a girl that's turning 16 next month. I honestly look like 12 haha people tell me all the time. Anyway I'm not really having a party I yay want to hangout with about 6 or 7 friends. The problem is some of them don't know each other some do. And I don't want to make them feel awkward. And also I have no ideas because my mom says going to a groumet pizza restaurant would be boring. She dosnt let me have friends over or have sleepovers so that's not an option. My mom recommend bowling but I don't like it. So any ideas? Thanks |
| Question: My mom won't stop yelling at me while I'm in the bathroom? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:38 AM PDT I calmly once told her that while I'm in my bathroom and the faucet is running, I can't hear her yell. She said okay I will not talk to you once you're in the bathroom. But that was a lie. She is about to go to work and I'm brushing my teeth after waking up and she yelled apparently. She came storming to my bathroom, yelled at me, and ran out the door all pissed off. And the worst part is, I don't even know what I did since I already told her bye. And I don't even know what she said before she left because she spoke so fast and loudly it was hard to understand or remember. How do I make it up to her? She won't be able to have a conversation with me because she's pissed. She treats me like a 7 year old spoiled brat. Please dont tell me to move out because I am only 15 |
| Question: What to do next husband with of one year? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:38 AM PDT I have been married for one year. My husband recently went to a family event and didn't come home until the next day. ( no call no text) when he did come home he said he wanted a divorce and for me to pack up and leave. This was his house prior to the marriage but I think he should get a court order or leave himself. People are not disposable, marriages are not the same as girlfriends. Any advice? |
| Question: Scared of my dad. Need help? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:36 AM PDT My dad has been an alcoholic for years. Ever since I was born I think. So recently he got fired and is trying to find a job. He found a job, but got fired in a week. So now he's at home. During the past few days, all he did was drink. Drink, sleep, eat, drink. Sometimes when he is in bed, he starts yelling a lot of stuff. Usually he yells he will kill someone or swears at someone. So has been playing chess on his phone for the past year and he can't beat this level. So he asked me to do something so that he can beat it. I said I can make the AI easier and he said no I don't want that. So I said, "what do you want me to do then?" He replied that I was always on the computer and if you don't want to teach me how to beat this level then ok. Then I said, "how does using a computer make me good at cheese? I can't teach you something I'm not good at myself." So now hes in bed and yelling **** about me. Like he yelled, "apparently he wasn't my son. Thank god." "I will kill you." "I don't even want you to teach me anymore." And a lot more. So I'm really scared right now. He has never physically harmed anyone. But I'm still scared as hes been yelling for the past hour and gets really loud at times. |
| Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:24 AM PDT My grandpa is always picking on what I'm choosing to wear, the hobbies i have and even my personality i have at 23 and says how no one will ever hire me or take me seriously. I'd like some other opinions because he is very old fashioned and traditional after all. The clothes that i wear are things like cute little summer dresses, hair bows, shirts with cartoon characters on them, in the winter time a lot of those cute furry hats with ears on them. My hobbies are anime, Disney, video games, drawing. My personality is kind of hyper, bubbly and random i guess. He says i come off as too young and immature for a 23 year old woman. But isn't being yourself actually more mature than changing for other people? |
| Question: How do I begin to fix the problems I made while drunk? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:22 AM PDT I was at a graduation (hs) party last night and I drank too much. I had like five beers, which is way too much for me. I didn't want my dad to see me drunk so I said that my friend Quinn and her boyfriend Zachary were driving me, which was a lie. They left of course because they weren't supposed to drive me home. My dad must have gotten worried and called the parents of the gut throwing the party who were getting mad because "Quinn left me". I was too drunk to realize what I've done until now. They all think she's an asshole when it's my fault. I'm going to explain it to everyone soon, but do you think she'll accept my apology? I never would have put her in that position if I was sober and it was a huge mistake. I feel so bad it's making me sick(and it's not from the alcohol) also, I was talking to my childhood friend Jack who is three years older than me. He was drunk and so was I and nothing bad happend except for him basically rubbing his hands all over my side and me falling asleep for a little bit in his arms. But now I feel really gross. I never would have let him touch me if I was sober. I don't think I could look him in the eye again. Also, I think he was trying to hook up with me now that I think about it. He kept trying to get me to go to the beach but I didn't want to.the worst part is that my parents friends parents saw me asleep like that. If they tell my parents I would die. I feel like he will look at me and think man why did I ever touch her ? @ Zain so because I'm a girl who got drunk once, I'm automatically an alcoholic ? Gee, thanks for your help you sexist moron. |
| Question: How would you feel if your son wanted to be a Wrestler? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:18 AM PDT If my son told me he wanted to be a wrestler,I would think he is a pu$$y and Queer for wanting to fight on FAKE Gay WRESTLING!I would tell him that Wrestling is for pu$$ies and that he should try something more manly and real as MMA. |
| Question: My life is falling apart in front of my eyes I don't know what to do anymore? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:05 AM PDT Well, I guess i can start by saying I'm no longer with my abusive children's father he is currently in jail for awhile. My children haven't been in my care for a little over a year. Everything I'm doing that is great to get my children isn't good enough for them.. I work 35 hrs a week, I go to their doctor appts, I go to weekly visits and I also, Doing mental health as suggested and i pay bills and rent to keep a roof over my head. But nope not good enough apparently. But that's not all.. My mom asked awhile back to move into my apartment witb me i agreed she has a job and helps pay bills it's just when I was homeless before i got my apartment I had to defend for myself she couldn't help but when she needs help and I don't help her I'm the asshole and piece of **** (she doesn't say those things) my dad not in the picture he has favorites my brother comes first before me could care less where I'm at in this world disowned me many years ago. I just feel like if i never get my kids back (which will probably be the case) or I end up losing my place I'm gonna be homeless and alone my mom has her plan she would just move back with her sister ( her sister doesn't like me cause of my dad) It's so much stress she makes me clean everyday she does the dishes once in a while and i cook every night if i don't cook we dont eat but if she cooks she cooks for herself not me .. |
| Question: Am I wasting my whole summer? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 08:04 AM PDT My dad and mom got separated a few years after I was born, and ever since then, she has been begging for me to go see her. My parents made arrangements, and now I have to see her each summer, Christmas, sometimes spring and thanksgiving break. For summer, I am there nearly the whole time, and all we do is just sit around the house with my annoying brother, or drag me to the store to run errands in 100+ degree heat in a poorly air conditioned van. The only fun thing that probably would happen is 4th of July, and that even sucks too. I could be home in Kentucky, playing Minecraft or soaking in the tub and going to Kentucky kingdom, but I'm here and I can't even go to six flags.My dad and stepmom talk about all the fun they had with my sister at Kentucky kingdom, and I am still stuck here watching paw patrol and spongebob while my brother tries to play Pocoyo and Dora with me. I'm afraid to say it, but the ONLY good part of my summer was the cruise. And earlier in the summer I had a fight with my friends. It just can't get any worse.And I am homesick. And I got seasick, too.And I don't even have my nice dog to cry on and kiss his forehead. And two nights ago, I got bit by my moms dog. And I can't see my sister, nor the one I am the closest to, my own father. And if I say I want to go home early. My mom will mope and be all sad and ask why I wanted to leave.I'm still 11, mom. And the worst part is, i cannot avoid my brother or he will bite, kick, and punch me. And he is 5 yrs old |
| Question: What is needed for a 16 year old's job interview? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 07:56 AM PDT I'm currently living in Boston, my family is going to move to NYC next year. I'm planing to get a job at a restaurant, cafe, or a shop. What information do i need to provide them? My passport number? Address? Phone number? Will they contact my parents? will they sent my salary to my house instead of giving it to me? i really hope they don't do the last two things, since my parents are against me getting a part time job (they think it's "beneath" me) to earn my own money without their control, and i had to lie to them saying I'm studying after school everyday. |
| Question: Should I get my own place? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 07:55 AM PDT i got an apartment with my cousins.my aunt had been sleeping over everyday for a month. i had initially agreed she could come stay on weekends but when i did this, i thought she would not come over. and also i can just go home on the weekends to my parents because i have to do laundry. we can't break the lease. I am considering asking my cousin if his friend can swap spots with me. I could get my own apartment then. I don't know if my uncle would agree to this. i am in college. Am I just being paranoid? Like I feel like I can deal with her staying one day a week , plus i can always go home to my parents on the weekend. I just got pissed off I guess because of her behavior. What do I do? The apartment that I was looking to get for myself would be more money and I would be single. The area is not that bad, although there have been instances of robberies and stuff in the apartment building. I would get a roommate after one semester. this woman, my aunt, I have lived with her when I was born until first grade. Then, I was happy with her in my teenage years. After, something just stopped working in our relationship. I was unable to be comfortable around her. I never understood why, but now I do. It is because she likes to cause problems for her family. Now, she would sleep one day a week on the weekend at our place, because I said something One of my cousins is annoyed too My stress level is overboard |
| Question: How do I tell my mom!!!!? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 07:52 AM PDT My mom, my brother and my 2 half siblings just moved into a 3 bedroom apartment and I have to share a room with my mom and when I want my privacy she tells me I have to tell her what I'm doing and I'm usually masturbating so what do I tell her? |
| Question: Brother in laws wife flirty when wasted? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 07:48 AM PDT So last night my brother in laws wife got wasted, started flirting with me and when her husband was changing, and my wife was in the bathroom she took off her shirt and bra, stood ther topless and put her bikini top on in front of me before we all went into the hot tub. She s a good looking Hispanic gal, comes from a wealthy family and is always very reserved... Now this! My question is: do I forget about this and never mention it again (what my gut tells me to do) Or do I talk to her... Tell her if she has a thing for me it needs to stop, and to "get it together" when she drinks my wife saw her flirting with me, and I feel like I did something wrong! |
| Question: Do you sleep with your sister? Posted: 12 Jul 2015 07:32 AM PDT I used to sleep with my sister all the time before she joined the air force. Also when my sister and brother were on leave or whatever it's called my brother brought three of his friends to spend the night and I guess my sister came home real late maybe 1am or so. Anyways when I woke up that morning my sister was sleeping behind me in my bed. I was surprised she even came home at all. Usually she spends the night at her friends. |
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