Marriage & Divorce: Question: What would be a good response to this question? Read more...? |
- Question: What would be a good response to this question? Read more...?
- Question: I'm not sure I want to get married anymore?
- Question: Found child Porn on partner?
- Question: Why is my husband so nice to me when we are apart but seems so different when we are together?
- Question: Is there a way I can stop my cousin from getting married to a guy she only knew for a couple months?
- Question: How do I get my husband to be more aggressive with his ex about their kids?
- Question: How to get the romance back with wife after kids. Wife and I are 30 and just had our second baby 2 months ago. We just do not try anymore...?
- Question: FORCED TO STAY MARRIED?!!!?
- Question: How do you keep the spark in your long term marriage? A/K/A How do you avoid falling into the love lust dilemma?
- Question: I want sex but not with husband?
- Question: My husband and I never spend any quality time together , I always have to force the issue and it ends up in a fight . How can I fix this?
- Question: How come I get called a control freak and abusive for being protective over my marriage?
- Question: My husband is really immature and on top of that he acts like if he does know what he does and try to denial everything what should I do?
- Question: Getting a FB message that says 'do you know what he's been doing'?
- Question: How should I feel about our vow renewal ceremony?
- Question: Question about divorce?
- Question: Me and my wife broke up need advice?
- Question: How to bring my husband to uk ????
- Question: Will i ever see my self diffrent?
- Question: Trying to figure out ex-wife?
- Question: I feel like I'm losing my mind and don't know what decision is right...?
- Question: What must I do about my non custodial ex to move with my new husband to Colorado with my child?
- Question: Are women little interested in monogamous relationships?
- Question: I found out my husband has been secretly taking nude photos of me while we are having sex. What would you do?
- Question: Help! Virginia custody question, not married?
- Question: Don't know what to do... Please advise?
- Question: Does anyone else cry after making love?
- Question: Husband cheated twice while drunk and confessed?
- Question: How should I handle my husbands choice?
- Question: Joint custody with no child support and supervised visitation but father wont let me take my son by myself. What can I do about it?
- Question: Would you stay in marriage if your spouse's face got seriously ruined? How would you feel?
- Question: Ladies what would you do if your husband complained about you behind your back just to fit in with his friends?
- Question: Married woman who have cheated, did you cheat for emotional reasons or physical reasons?
- Question: What do you think? A lot of scientists feel that humans are not meant to be monogamous yet, monogamy is a must in?
- Question: Input from women who've been married a long time...?
- Question: Husband stealing from debit card?
- Question: How many gigs a month sound reasonable?
- Question: My husband said he recently almost cheated on me with a prostitute and has started flirting with other women.?
- Question: Hate mil , should i call my husband?
- Question: What do I do about my family situation?
- Question: What is the biggest reasons for divorce?
- Question: Doesn't a brother-in-law cease to be one after the wife's (my sister) passing?
- Question: Does this sound unreasonable of my husband?
- Question: Do firefighters wives usually make more money?
- Question: Why do people say that marriage is overrated?
- Question: Can a couple get divorced and still live together?
- Question: Could you wife have had trich for six months and you the man not know?
- Question: I did a fancy boudoir shoot for my husband for our anniversary?
- Question: Would you divorce your husband if he wets the bed?
- Question: Anniversary in a couple weeks?
- Question: Where, as in what was the setting of where you got engaged?
- Question: Has anyone ever heard the term"dough beater" referring to a man's wife?
- Question: Is it wrong to sleep with a woman who is separated and filing for divorce but is not yet officially divorced from her husband?
- Question: How can people have this view?
- Question: Am I wrong for getting upset???
- Question: What is the feminist view on men who require their women also work?
- Question: Are divorce laws sexist toward men when it comes to money/cash and alimony?
- Question: When a couple divorces is the child support that the spouse with full custody gets the same a a 2nd income?
- Question: I'm very nervous this Saturday?
- Question: I divorced my ex husband , my ex husbands sister's ex husband has interest in me I would like to explore?
| Question: What would be a good response to this question? Read more...? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 09:27 PM PDT A couple have been together for 7 years, they live together. One partner really wants to get married someday but the other says: Why do we need to get married? Its just a piece of paper. I dont need a piece of paper to tell me who im in a relationship with. Isnt what we already are basically the same? Why should we push that extra limit just to label ourselves? I dont see the point and i dont understand why you feel the need for that. How does one find the correct words to respond to that ? Something better than "its just what i feel. Thats it" |
| Question: I'm not sure I want to get married anymore? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:55 PM PDT For months, my boyfriend and I have been planning on getting married on Halloween this year. I love him so much, I've put so much of my trust and love into him, but so many times he's taken away that trust little by little. He has an addiction to porn, and he refuses to get help, because he refuses to believe that he has an addiction. Every time I find porn that he forgets to or just hasn't deleted yet (I don't live with him) he gets SO angry. He even backed me into a corner and almost punched me ,once. He stopped himself. He also speaks with other girls on the internet, and I've found him on dating sites when I get really curious. You're probably thinking, "...why would you want to marry this guy?" If you've ever really loved someone, you should understand. Or at least try. But now I am thinking about just calling it off. I don't even think the married life is for me. I enjoy my own company more than anyone else's. I'm a professional artist and armature fiction writer. And children--I'm just 22, I can't really appreciate kids just yet. Or maybe not at all. Does anyone have an opinion? And please, don't be rude. |
| Question: Found child Porn on partner? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:51 PM PDT I found child Porn on an SD card in my partner's car and he said he downloaded it on his phone by accident because it said must have pic and vids and he told me that he was going to burn it because and then he said he was going to delete so different stories not to mention he went mental when I confronted him and then he just broke the SD after but he takes his computer with him everyday lately to work and doesn't ever leave it open when I'm around and his laptop has a space for an SD and the SD with child Porn on it was in a bigger thing that would slide into his laptop I asked him right away why wouldn't you delete it and he said that he hasn't had time and then his phone broke and I have a daughter who is 6 to another man so this is a concern and he has been saying how sorry he is and how worthless he feels I'm not sure what to do |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:39 PM PDT when we are apart during the day at our jobs he is always so happy and loving but when he walks through the door at night he's like a different man. It makes me really insecure. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:27 PM PDT I have a cousin that's in her mid 20's and her and her guy been dating for 6 months and want to get married at least by the end of the year or in Jan. 2016. I personally feels like that's too soon. She told me and the family to mind our business and it's not like she's committing a crime or something terrible. My cousin always been a rebel it's like in her blood. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I get my husband to be more aggressive with his ex about their kids? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:22 PM PDT My husband has two kids from his previous marriage and his ex hardly lets him see them. I mean we invited them to go on vacation with us a month ago but she claimed they had plans and every time he plans on spending the weekend with them she makes an excuse about why they can't come and sometimes she just doesn't show up and he has to call to see what happened then she'll say they can't come. However she always seem to call when the kids need something like she was blowing up his phone for money to sign them up for soccer a few weeks ago. I really wish he would set her straight or something. Cause it's getting ridiculous. I keep trying to tell him to say something but he won't but yet he always complains about it. What should I do? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:13 PM PDT And I feel like we both are not into each other. Could be a phase but when we have a free minute to ourselves we are on our phones. Anyone else like this? |
| Question: FORCED TO STAY MARRIED?!!!? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 07:32 PM PDT I filed to serve my husband via publication because he took off. I have hard evidence he KNOWS I filed and the judge knows this. He also knows it is my testimony (and FACT) that my husband abandoned our son 58 days ago. 58 days or 558 days, he's made it clear he is gone. I have hard evidence of all of this, including cheating and refusing to acknowledge our son. The judge basically ruled: serve him via sheriff or stay married. All because we have a son! Child support can't start until he is served. So if it takes 15 years, that's 15 years he isn't held responsible. I live in Maine. Is there ANY loophole?! How can this be?! =( It's not fair that he gets to abandon his son, cheat, move in with some whore 3 hours away, and I'm stuck here: married. Legally married. Married married married. It's hell. I just want to move on. This is insane. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 07:07 PM PDT I am married 50 male and my wife is female 47. We have been married for 20 yrs. My libido goes up and down. Their are times when we have sex all the time and their are cycles when we do not have and sex at all. Sometimes we are sexless for months at a time. We have been watching friends around us getting divorced left and right and I am afraid that we and I am scared this is going to happened to us. Most of the time our friends are getting divorced after going sexless for a while. It seems that our relationship revolves around the house and getting the housework done? We both do love each other dearly, evan when we are in a phase when we are not having sex. I know that Newsweek recently ran a story called "no sex please we are married". Books like "The hear of desire" http://www.drstellaresnick.com/the-heart-of-desire and "mating in captivity" http://www.estherperel.com/book/mating-in-captivity/ . All say that this is the love-lust dilemma and is how are modern life is set up. We also see a lot of long married couples like Al &Tipper Gore, and so many others getting divorced that AARP did an article about long married partners getting divorced. I understand a lot of it is due to boredom especially since the cycle of modern life is go to work, come home, cook, go to bed, rinse was repeat. My question is how do you as long married couple keep the spark sexually in your relationship? |
| Question: I want sex but not with husband? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 06:12 PM PDT Is it normal to totally lose sexual desire for your husband after 15 years of marriage? I feel terrible because I have to pretend I like it and I'm not good at pretending. There is no problem with my sex drive, I masturbate and have dreams about having sex with other guys. Husband is good looking but I think my "type" has changed. We have no kids. I don't want to cheat. Am I supposed to spend the rest of my life like this? |
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| Question: How come I get called a control freak and abusive for being protective over my marriage? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 05:26 PM PDT So I don't why but I get called a control freak and abusive just because I am trying to protect my marriage. I am a vietnamese american guy and I am marrying a woman from vietnam who my family arranged me to. I couldn't find anyone here so they helped me out. I got criticized for trying to keep an eye on my wife and not let her be any friends with other vietnamese guys in america. My relatives in vietnam worked hard to find her for me so I don't want any vietnamese american jerk to mess with my marriage. I don't want anyone to steal her from me. I also want to open a shop with her since she is a seamstress and she can fix clothing. People think that I am gonna enslave her by making her work in the back while I am in the front. I mean she would be doing the sewing so she has to be in the back and I would help her out by translating for her since she is not good at english. Why do people call me a control freak because of this ??? |
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| Question: Getting a FB message that says 'do you know what he's been doing'? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 04:49 PM PDT What should I think? I'm a married woman. |
| Question: How should I feel about our vow renewal ceremony? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 04:19 PM PDT Hey Everyone, I don't know if a man or woman would have a similar perspective on this topic, so I won't gear this towards a specific gender. My husband and I will have been married two years in September. We are very content. He's good to me and right now he works two jobs so I can stay home with our 11 month old daughter. When we got married, my parents weren't supportive. We planned to elope until they told me that they would agree to a formal wedding if we waited a couple months. After a couple weeks passed, my mom had a blow up and so did my dad saying how they just agreed to a formal wedding hoping that I would back out in the mean time. They didn't want me marrying a man who hadn't gone to college. They thought we spent too much time together and we'd only dated a couple months. I'd said I wanted them to be happy but that my husband was good to me and I wasn't going to pass up being with someone who could make me happy. My mom responded wtih telling me our family was leaving for a weekend and I was leaving too, to get some time away. When I told her no, I had school work to do, she literally attempted to put me in a car and take me with her. I responded by leaving and eloping without them. I didn't trust them anymore when they said they'd still want a wedding after all of this, so we got married without them. Now, we're having a vow renewal for a chance at a real ceremony and I just have so much anger built up towards my parents, that I don't know how to feel? |
| Question: Question about divorce? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:55 PM PDT Okay, lets just say I have planned this awhile.... our youngest just graduated and is off to college so no child support or custody battle. The house and vehicles are all HIS NAME ONLY being that years and years ago I didnt have the credit but I do now. So I plan to just up and leave once divorce is final. My question: I have saved a generous amount of money over the years to help move out of state (again, this was planned) but he doesn't know about this money (in a relative's account). So am I required to speak of this money at the time of divorce court and if the money is brought to attention will he get half of it if I am not fighting him for anything I just want to leave in peace? |
| Question: Me and my wife broke up need advice? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:49 PM PDT So me and my wife have been arguing a lot over any little thing . we have a 3 year old child together.about 4 days ago she left me , all she said was she was tired of the arguments.we have been really stressed out on bills,children,and work. Anyway she left packed all her stuff and now lives with her mother.she says she doesn't want to get back together. I already messed up by begging her to come back.so I've been told to do the no contact rule but it's hard because she drops off my daughter every morning.and my wife's kisses me and tells me she loves me still.I'm so confused.I just want to know how to try to get her back. |
| Question: How to bring my husband to uk ???? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:46 PM PDT Hi guys I am married in turkey and i want to bring my husband to uk i have indefinite leave to remain Please help me |
| Question: Will i ever see my self diffrent? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:35 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for two years an not once has he seen me naked I get nervous when I think I can try but then I just don't an cry he begs to see me naked everyday he says I'm not fat he's happy I don't believe any of that cause I hate my body I wonder what he truly thinks I get so made at him when he calls me beautiful etc.. what do I do ???? |
| Question: Trying to figure out ex-wife? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:00 PM PDT When she is around me and she is alone, she is extremely friendly and kinda flirty with me. When she is around other people she knows or her current husband she acts like don t exist making it hard to co-parent our child. |
| Question: I feel like I'm losing my mind and don't know what decision is right...? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 03:00 PM PDT I have met a man who I thought was the love of my life...I was so madly in love and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him...I felt like he was everything I have ever wanted. Recently I have found out things about him and his past that I didn't really know before. He was married and his ex wife became a drug abuser...who would threaten him to take an half of everything he had ever worked for if he makes a decision to divorce her. He did after a few years... Now turns out he is in a big debt..We were talking about getting married. I was so in love with him and I'm scared and have all these questions. Also he wasn't being honest about certain subject and recently came clean and told me the truth. He wants to marry me...but I am feeling scared and don't know if I should work through all these doubts and trust him again or just walk away. I have not been feeling happy lately, it has been a torture. Someone who I used to love so much... Every time when I'm thinking of leaving him I just want to cry... |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 02:53 PM PDT My divorce was in Tennessee where we both lived at the time. He moved to Florida the day we filed and I moved to Texas shortly after. He has visitation with our child. He has not contacted us in two years and owes $30,000 in support. TX can't locate him for support and I know that he has moved from the address on record. |
| Question: Are women little interested in monogamous relationships? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 02:27 PM PDT i'm asking this question because the divorce rate is pretty high and according to statistics, women are the ones who file for divorce most of the time... Also, do you know which group has the highest divorce rate?? lesbians do! are women little interested in monogamous relationships? do women dislike the idea of having a long lasting marriage with a man? thank you |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 02:04 PM PDT In the past he took photos of women's butts in their bikinis...when I was sitting right beside him. I didn't realize he was doing this because he had binoculars that had a camera in them, which I did not know about. I didn't know until I saw the pictures after we got home from our vacation. I made him delete them. Now I find nude photos of me which I never gave him permission to do. I feel violated and quite shaken up. |
| Question: Help! Virginia custody question, not married? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 02:01 PM PDT |
| Question: Don't know what to do... Please advise? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 01:52 PM PDT I have met a nice man not a while ago...from the get go I felt like he was the one and we were so madly in love. As our relationship has started progressing I have found out about his past, he told me. He told me he was married and his ex wife became a drug abuser...sucked all his money out of him. I thought he was financially stable now turns out he is pretty big debt... His past scares me and concerns me...actually it consumes me, eats me alive. I have so many questions, why someone would turn into a drug abuser if everything was fine. I keep doubting him and questing him. I was so madly in love and now I'm scared...I lost so much weight ...He hasn't ever been abusive with me...seems like he has a good heart and he wants to marry me. I wanted to at the beginning..but I'm just SCARED and don't know what to do. All these doubts and fear consume me. Should I believe everything he is telling me or should I just walk away? I have been torturing myself. |
| Question: Does anyone else cry after making love? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 01:31 PM PDT Hello. Before I start I'd like to thank everyone beforehand for taking the time to read and (possibly) answer my question. I'm looking for sincere and honest feedback, no negativity here please. I have been married to my husband for about two years now. Our relationship is what I'd classify as happy and loving except one thing; I cry after making love. It hasn't always been this way. I would say it started about a year ago. I never let my husband see me cry because I can't imagine how awful he would feel. These sad emotions after love making has gotten so bad that I just recently started disconnecting myself all together. While we are making love I will imagine that I'm laying by the beack with the wind in my hair and sand between my toes. This prevents the tears from streaming out afterwards, but I will still get a huge lump in my throat. Has anyone, man or woman, ever experienced anything like this before? How did/do you cope? |
| Question: Husband cheated twice while drunk and confessed? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 01:26 PM PDT my husband got reallly drunk one night and hooked up with an ex at a party (I was at the party as well). It didn't go all the way because they were walked in on. He told me about it the following day. He felt very guilty and shameful and begged for my forgiveness, which I gave him. Then a year later, it's his brother's bachelor party in Key West. Husband goes, gets drunk because everyone else was doing it, and gets numerous lap dances where touching about the waste is allowed, because again, everyone else is doing it. He confessed this months later. While I appreciate his honesty, I feel our marriage is broken and tainted. I don't know if I even want to get past this. We've been married for 12 years. Should I try to work it out or just go? that should have been "touching above the waist" - the fondling kind |
| Question: How should I handle my husbands choice? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT My husband and I put our house on the market because we felt we could no longer afford to live there while he goes to school. Our plans up until today were to sell the house and rent while he goes to school cause it would save us money and less stress. He text me a little bit ago and told me our realtor is taking the house off the market and that he feels he doesn't want to rent because it would be a waste of money. He up and told me I was trying to argue with him when I tried talking to him about my feelings. How should I feel and what should I do? |
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| Question: Would you stay in marriage if your spouse's face got seriously ruined? How would you feel? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 01:05 PM PDT Would you stay in marriage if your spouse's face got seriously ruined? Imagine his or her face got burnt, thrown acid on, or any other kind of accident that destroyed her face. Would you be courageous, loving enough to stay by his or her side? There will be a loss of physical attraction from that for sure. How would one handle such problem? By ethics and loyalty, I understand we should love each other enough to do so. It is however much easier to say than to do it in real practice. How would you feel about this? Yes, I agree with lots of you except like some mention, it can be difficult to deal with and the unknown of how you will feel when that does happen feels very scary. I mean how about your sex life and I think that will be effected. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:51 PM PDT He's a member of some sports chat site where it's pretty common for the guys to ***** and moan about their wives or kids or sex lives or whatever. I saw some of his posts about me and got hurt over it. He dismissed it saying it's just jokes with the boys to fit in. Is he 13?! I mean come on! See the thing is he's always very affectionate at home and he has never complained about my abilities, we don;t have problems in the bedroom. But reading how I am a brat because I don't like certain position or he got better oral in college is just disrespectful. If anyone wants to know how I found this, he was showing me something on his ipad and accidentally opened a comment page where I saw his post |
| Question: Married woman who have cheated, did you cheat for emotional reasons or physical reasons? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:42 PM PDT What made you cheat, were you not getting the attention at home physically, or meet a really hot guy and it just happened. you had needs. Or was it an affair on an emotional level. What was the motivating factor that made you want to do it? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:35 PM PDT almost all the relationships we have. Is it in our genes to be polygamous or is that just a wrong take on the human lifestyle? so far, everyone has been respectful of all the comments and ideas...lets keep it that way. thanks everyone |
| Question: Input from women who've been married a long time...? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:33 PM PDT I've been married for almost 7 years to a wonderful man. We don't have any children. I'm studying pre-med (I'm 25) and he's an engineer. Anyway, whenever I go to contemporary dance/ballet class I remove all my jewelry, earrings, necklace, engagement and wedding band. (my teacher is woman and the sessions are private) I dance better because I feel like otherwise these items weigh me down...does this mean I want a divorce or something or feel stifled? I love my husband and was hoping to make it our 86th wedding anniversary together ( I know I know). So what gives? Am I being overly concerned? |
| Question: Husband stealing from debit card? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:07 PM PDT We have been married 12 years. My husband is very soft spoken,kind and caring.However he is a bit lazy,laidback and not career oriented. I have a long term illness but my husband still does not try to work harder to make money. He also lies .In the past he has lied to me twice about loosing his job and various other small things. Recently I discovered that he has been withdrawing from my bank account ( he saw my pincode when I was withdrawing money) for past 3 months. He did this when I was sleeping at night. I don't know what to do.I have given him so many chances .I am angry he did this and hurt me.I am lost what I should do ahead? |
| Question: How many gigs a month sound reasonable? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 12:01 PM PDT I am married 22 years- great wife - we both work full time. As a hobby I perform acoustic music in restaurants. the shows are usually on a Saturday and this causes an issue as then she stuck home alone on a Saturday and refuses to attend my shows- she gets bored. How many shows a month would be reasonable for me to do - in your opinion- given the circumstances. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT He has an addiction to porn that we have been fighting together for our whole 10 year marriage. He s gone without out it for over 3 years... up until a month ago. He says that he is really sorry and he d never do it again. When he wasn t watching porn he treated me in a very loving, kind, and strong way. He was my best friend again. I knew something was wrong, but couldn t put my finger on it when he started treating me very rough and uncaring. We ve always had sex at least 3x a week, and the only reason we don t have more is because he s tired from his new job. We have 3 beautiful kids and a relatively vast network of friends, but none I feel I can confide in and get support with what is going on. It is really starting to hurt me more than I thought I could be. I just want to be numb? Any tips, advice? I need it. Also we've just gotten out of homelessness, and don't qualify for state aid anymore yet we are too broke to afford professional help. |
| Question: Hate mil , should i call my husband? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 11:26 AM PDT i hate my mil after being bullied by her for 1.5years i left the home my husband loves me and so do i.but she is the problem and not an easy one to deal with now its been 25 days since i left home and haven't spoken to anyone from my in laws family including my husband,i don't know if i should call him or not . |
| Question: What do I do about my family situation? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 11:10 AM PDT my husband has 3 adult children who are very self centered and disrespectful to him and to me. My oldest daughter was incredibly hateful toward him when she was a teenager but has since turned her life around and is loving towards both of us. My two youngest children are incredibly rude towards him some of the times and one has said " I have a dad" and stopped telling him she loved him. I have spoken to my children about their behavior toward him every time they act up or are treating him poorly. He justifies what his children are doing by saying they are adults and set in their ways and that is just the way they have always been. He gets angry because my children are acting up and then takes it out on me as if I haven't done anything about the issue. He has said this will cause us to divorce one day. He has also made reference to not loving me and leaving me home while he does the things he wants to do. He ignores the kids when they are home and makes no effort with them anymore, while I am expected to put on a smile when his kids have activities or come to the house. He also dredges up what my oldest daughter was doing when she was younger even though she has changed. I have no idea what to do anymore. |
| Question: What is the biggest reasons for divorce? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:56 AM PDT I do not believe in divorce. The only times I believe it is okay is if there is infidelity or domestic abuse. Is it financial? Cheating? Are people just too lazy? if they are incompatible or don't get along, wouldn't they figure that out BEFORE they get married? |
| Question: Doesn't a brother-in-law cease to be one after the wife's (my sister) passing? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:48 AM PDT He's upset that I called him my 'former' BIL, but isn't it the correct term? My sister passed away in 2013 following a miscarriage :(. Her husband (or, more exactly, widow) still maintains contact with us. Last weekend he stayed at our home when my new boyfriend visited me, so I introduced them to each other. I said, "this is my former BIL". I didn't realize right away but it turns out that it vexed him. He told me in the kitchen afterwards, when my BF was already gone, that I didn't need to call him "my FORMER brother-in-law". I answered without malice (honestly!) that he ceases to be my BIL when my sis died. I swear I wasn't being mean, it just came out so from my mouth. I like him tho' we're not extremely close b/c of a huge age gap (I'm 16, he's 28 - my sis was indeed much older than me). My brother came into the kitchen exactly when I said that, and he said I was mean. I became upset too and rushed into my room. My family didn't talk about this anymore afterwards but I think my mom was a bit cold. I regret being tactless, but I'm honestly curious, so I asked my best friend. She said when someone loses a spouse thru' death instead of divorce then s/he remains an in-laws. Is that true? How if my 'former' (lol) BIL remarries then? Will he have two sets of in-laws (so we remain his in-laws)? That's a bit funny. So, honestly, is he really STILL my BIL right now or not? My sister and he don't have children together. |
| Question: Does this sound unreasonable of my husband? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:31 AM PDT So my iPhone 5s broke, so I had to wait for a new phone, so now I don't have a simcard. I do have an old Samsung I'm using with wifi connection. So this morning my husband was late for work, because one of the cats I'm petsitting woke him up in the middle of the night. So he had to order Lyft on his phone to get to his work in time. So he had to take his simcard and put it back into his phone (I borrowed it to make arrangements earlier)... so then he said "**** you can't call the dr then" because I need to make a medical exam appointment for adjustment of status (it's part of the process).. so then he said to me that he won't have time to make an appointment at work and that I should skype call the doctor to make an appointment.. He knows my computers microphone doesn't work and it's just a hassle.. Making an appointment takes less than 2 minutes, he sometimes will share videos on FB during work hours, he has a lunch break too? He's a computer engineer. But still, do you think this is unreasonable? AND ALSO - HE is the one insisting that I make this appointment ASAP - I'm much more relaxed in terms of WHEN I see the doctor.. but he's hassling me about it.. No HE has his phone with the simcard.. I have no simcard to call with. |
| Question: Do firefighters wives usually make more money? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:13 AM PDT I know most firefighters make 32k-50k a year. I was just wondering if their wives usually made more, my Gf was teasing me that she'll be the bread winner if I become a firefighter |
| Question: Why do people say that marriage is overrated? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:04 AM PDT If somebody says that marriage is overrated does this mean that they would never get married? This freaks me out cuz my crush said that |
| Question: Can a couple get divorced and still live together? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 10:01 AM PDT |
| Question: Could you wife have had trich for six months and you the man not know? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 09:49 AM PDT |
| Question: I did a fancy boudoir shoot for my husband for our anniversary? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 09:45 AM PDT and at first he loved the gift. But recently while organizing our closet I found the album stuffed in the back carelessly. Why would he discard a gift like that? It's not about the cost, it's just the point |
| Question: Would you divorce your husband if he wets the bed? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 09:20 AM PDT |
| Question: Anniversary in a couple weeks? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:56 AM PDT Our 7th anniversary is about to happen in two weekends from now. I don't have a bunch of money right now but I have my reasoning which is part of my question. I've taken her at least out to a nice dinner. I try and pick a new place each time. Well, it's different this time as we are separated. The end of August will be a year. We still see each other, cuddle and kiss but that's it. She lives in her own apartment and works 10 hours a day at a independent job and weekends also. I've taken her out to her birthday, Valentines and other events. She hasn't talked to me about her plans if she wants to move back in with me or not. She did mention she wants to move closer to her new job. I feel estranged with her at times. I was hoping we could have a long talk or get counseling but none of that is happening. My thing is if she did want a divorce then she can file for it but I don't want that but most of all I don't know what she wants in life. Should I mention soon about our anniversary and go out and buy her something? I could feel like a fool if she wasn't interested and did all this or if I did nothing then would be worse. She took me out of my birthday last month and occasionally has bought me things and dinners |
| Question: Where, as in what was the setting of where you got engaged? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:52 AM PDT On the sofa? At a restaurant? On a boat? Over the phone while sitting in bed? In the woods? Over Skype while sitting at Starbucks using their free wifi? Details please! |
| Question: Has anyone ever heard the term"dough beater" referring to a man's wife? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:44 AM PDT this older woman refers to her son's wife as a "dough beater",and we have never heard the term. can anyone help? it just sounds catty... |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:37 AM PDT Part of me feels it is wrong (of course if doesn't stop me). We have been having sex for about a month. She has been separated from her husband for about 5 months, but the divorce has not been made final yet. What are you thoughts? |
| Question: How can people have this view? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:37 AM PDT Okay so when I was a teenager I moved to a town and attended a church where I met the girl who later became my wife. We married young (I was 21 she was 19) but we were quite happy, I worked as a pharmaceuticals salesman while she went to college. When I was 25 I found out she had been having an affair for about a year with someone else who we knew from that town. We made a clean cut,we divorced, I sold the apartment and used my money to see the world, made some great friends, had some romances, all is great, she married the guy she was cheating with and they stayed in the town, fair enough. I've been in a relationship for the last month and took her home to meet my mother who loves her, however she still made us go to church (evangelical mothers hey) and we all went and it was good seeing some old friends again. However I was pretty upset to find out how a lot of people consider me the bad guy in the divorce for keeping the money but excuse her ADULTERY because they've known her longer, as well the friend who she cheated with they still regard as a fine man because they've known him since childhood, and most people wanted them to get together to begin with. I'm essentially just the bad guy who got in the way to begin with and then left them both without a penny when the divorce happened, (THEY WERE MY PENNIES) Also people who were once my friends just criticised me for bringing my current girlfriend to church (I didn't even want to go) and accused me of parading my playboy lifestyle and they actually wrote her off as a fetish because she's Chinese. Oh wait is being in a relationship with a foreign woman worse than lying to your husband to engage in an affair with one of his close friends while he supports you? |
| Question: Am I wrong for getting upset??? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:20 AM PDT My husband's ex wife calls or texts almost daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Whst bothers me is that its not always about their children, Majority of the time its just because she needs someone to talk to. For example : Her and her new husband are already getting a divorce and she called to vent to him. Her mom was in the hospital so she called him crying. Her car broke down and she is living with her sister who she wasnt getting along with and was stressed out. Bringing up past memories/photos/videos she found of the two of them together. .... etc |
| Question: What is the feminist view on men who require their women also work? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 08:04 AM PDT I am a med student and I will be doctor soon. Even though I am doing a short residency and will be making good money in the specialty I chose- 250k, If I were married to a woman, I would still want her to have some type of profession. I tend to be attracted to women with elite education and a passion to do something in life. |
| Question: Are divorce laws sexist toward men when it comes to money/cash and alimony? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 07:40 AM PDT |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 07:32 AM PDT I don't think that's true, but I've asked people about it and they laughed and said that of course it is. Because by getting divorced whoever has the kid full time can make more money than if they stayed married, because the support payouts are so high. Is that true at all? |
| Question: I'm very nervous this Saturday? Posted: 28 Jul 2015 06:34 AM PDT Hello, I got married to my wife over a year ago. We met as seniors in high school and went out, started having sex with her that summer. We were both virgins at the time and we always, everytime used condoms. Didn't want to take the chance. We married after I graduated college and still continued to use them even until recently. I feel like a loser being a married man using condoms like a frat party boy as I was told by my friend and I also got very tired of them not to mention the costs! (we do it a lot). Well kids are not an option for us right now nor want one but I am not totally convinced I never want one so I mentioned birth control to my wife and she agreed. Well according to the doctor they gave her a calendar and pamphlet including the day she may begin having sex without a condom. That day will be Saturday! I even mentioned it to everyone I know on Facebook to all family and friends! Ya I got some weird responses but I am going to fully loose my virginity for the first time. However, I am very nervous about cumming inside her. What will it feel like and most of all I don't want to get her pregnant. The doctor told us this particular brand is the best and can also lessen periods by seasons in some cases and has never had any pregnancies reported. I'm still scared. I'm also afraid it will feel so good I'm only going to last less then a minute! |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2015 06:14 AM PDT I divorced my ex husband and have no contact with his family . I ran into his sisters ex husband and their was an immediate attraction and friendship . He would like to date me and more and I him. Do we owe the "ex family" any explanation we are not blood relatives we both just married into the wrong family and got out . I no longer considered us any relation through family . Should I move forward as we both feel strong emotions toward each other. |
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