I was dating this girl for about 4 years and now we're engaged. I walked into her having sex with another woman and I was very upset. We talked for quite some time and she said she loved me more and we didn't have sex enough for her to be satisfied. She said that it wouldn't happen again and that she was sorry. A while ago she became an alcoholic and she was what most would call an abusive drunk. I said that it was just an accident to all of my friends and family. She has completely sobered up and she would never do that again. She has cheated on her past girlfriends and I don't believe that she won't continue with the affair but I love her so much that I could never leave her. We have so many memories and the thought of her leaving kills me. Please help.

Ok so 11 months ago I was driving and my car started messing up. I was only going 30 mph and my husband grabbed me. It hurt so bad. I'm not talking about a light grab to get my foot off the pedal. I mean I feel like it was an abusive grab. My leg hurt for days after I didn't even want to wear pants over my leg. He said he was scared for his life and wanted to take my foot off of the gas. I wasn't going fast for one and another thing all he had to do was ask. He shouldn't have handled me that way. I can't talk to anyone about it. I feel like it was abuse and he acts like its no big deal. He actually said so what I grabbed u now u want to leave... Would I be wrong to leave now even though it's been 11 months. I can't get over it. I'm scared he will do it again and that it will be worse the next time. I am so confused. Please help.

Im 7 months preg, 1st child, a son & I believe my husband is a narc. He def. fits the qualities. charming at the beginning, swept me off my feet... 6 months into our marriage he left me (I was 3 mo preg) and began pursuing his ex/1st babymother. Left & couldn't give me an explanation why. I hadn't done anything to cause the want of a divorce. I was devasted of course & tried all of everything to reel him back in. I mean hes the father of my 1st child & were married. He pushed back harder. He wanted a divorce but never pursued it. I finally left him alone for about 1.5 mo. He popped back into my life. Charming me & selling false dreams. I was still hurt from the 1st encounter but we were "working on it"; so I thought. He left me again recently, no real explanation, to be with the same ex again. Just kept saying our relationship wasn't worth fixing. Mind you, 2 days prior he was so much in love w/ me. I ended up filing for divorce & got a restraining order against him due to the dramatic ending. I don't want to keep him away from his son but I don't think he is healthy enough to have a good relationship w/ him. Is there anything I can legally do?

Does it bother you? Why or why not?

Hi My sister got married to US green holder Nepali Man and he arrived to Nepal to get married to my sister and lived here for 3 months and got married with my sister with traditional way and now after returning to US he is harassing with calls and emails and even message to her and to us saying she had a previous affairs which she rarely had and does it matter after marriage? we want a separation proof a letter signed by him from him so that he cannot harass her further,how we can? He is in US?

If a man has been having an affair with a woman for half a year. Claims to love her. Then gets caught by the wife. Stays with the wife to see if they can fix thing, and if not he'll leave. Yet he keeps the mistress full on. Sees her every day at work, texts her, etc. Could it be that he actually loves the mistress?

i am in an affair with my husband with five other mexican men. i am male, what do i do. he is getting suspicious because i bring home tacos every day

my partner of 8 yrs recently told our 7 yr old son that he needed to get out of the house and he was going to call the cops. all because he slammed his bedroom door. Now after about 2 weeks have passed, time has not healed any and my 7 year old thinks that his dad hates him and wants us to all leave. I know i could support myself on my own. but, do i really want my son to have 2 homes? my first child went through it and i know what its like. if you were a child that had divorced parents, what would you do in my situation? theres no physical abuse going on... yes i would say emotional

I told my ex lover who I will call j to leave me alone that was two months ago..today he texted I drove by ur house the other day and seen ur car outside . I was going to text but didn't want to bother u. I told him again that I wasn't interested.this is not the first time he has admitted to driving by.my house. Once he pleaded with me for one more time. I'm.kind of concerned he is not letting go and that he is watching me. Anyone else have and thoughts or advice ?our history together he would questionwhen I got home.show up 40 min early because my ex husbands truck was in my drive .

Do you think they should or shouldn't live together before marriage or engagement?

I have a rather large amount of assets to be honest, a house, two cars, and one dental practice alongside another that I am currently opening up as well as real estate on the side managed by my brother. I am not saying this to brag or anything, but many women I have met quickly become angered when I state that I would want a pre-nup no matter who I get married to. It's simply a matter of security, my mother, sister, female friends, and girlfriend all yelled at me and called me names when I said this. Why is it so wrong for me to want a pre-nup?It's not a matter of me trusting the other person because I wouldn't marry them if I didn't its simply security over what I worked hard for and poured my blood, sweat, and tears into making and countless nights spent working. No I mean lol when the topic of marriage comes up I tend not to talk and then they ask me when am I getting married or the more fine points of it. And then that"s where the pre nup topic comes in. I don't just go out of my way and yell I want a prenup to anger them

My husband is a good guy most of the time and I do love him. He works hard at a job he doesn't particularly like and comes home and helps me clean a bit. When it comes to everything else, it's all on me. I do all the cooking, cleaning, food shopping, finances and everything that must be done for 4 kids including and not limited to baths, homework, food, fun, Dr appointments etc... Anyways on issues with how to raise the kids we clash and I will tell him in private, never in front of the kids, that I don't believe he handled a situation the right way. For instance, our sons nose was bleeding while I was with our 2 yr old food shopping and my husband refused to help him because he said it started bleeding because he was playing too wild. When I tell him how I feel, he says I don't understand where he is coming from but yet never tries to understand what I am saying. He comes from Haiti where it is almost legal to beat your child to an inch from their life. He constantly praises his mother for being a great mom yet she never asks him how his kids are doing or ever comes to visit him. Yet he can't see what a great mother I am and how hard I work to keep him and the kids happy always putting their happiness before mine. I just don't know what to do anymore.

I m married but I have a crush on my co-worker. What should I do? Quitting my job is not an option. I know that this is just infatuation. I hardly know him and I might even dislike him once I get to know him well but how can I get my mind off of him. Help!!!

My son has stated a lot of incriminating things about his father proving he's violating a paramour, smoking in the home with my son, etc. But he's informed me that he's just going to say that our son told him my boyfriend hits him. It isn't true, there isn't evidence and even my son says it didn't happen but he's only 5. I'm not sure how to handle it. Some of my allegations are based on what my son told me without any real evidence as well. And I'd record my ex except now he just states it like it's a fact any time I bring up things our son says he's doing. Any ideas on how to document this and show he's probably lying? I'm NOT involving my son. I don't record him or anything, he just talks. And sometimes, if what he says is disturbing, I ask questions but nothing accusing.

His words are very sharp and he is never apologetic. There have been times that our argument ended up in physical abuse.What should I do? I am very unhappy because I know he will never change. He is slso very controlling of our finances and doesn't share his account with me. I am a stay at home mom and he refused to support my decision of getting a full time job. When we had fights, he said I didn't contribute anything to the properties we owned because I made peanuts when I was working. I stayed put because we have two kids together. I also hates how he discipline my kids because he would flick them in public. Help! I'm trapped! My family thinks I should stay put because he is a good man who is responsible; however, it's hard to know a person until you live with them. I've reached my breaking point and I want out. If not, I'll just go crazy or simply jump off a cliff.

I have never cheated and we have been together 5 years and married for 3! It gets annoying! What should I do?

My husband is having a very hard time with his father who has been divorced from his mother for years now, but just announced an engagement to a woman who is the same age as me and my husband. I am struggling with how to support him while also being open minded and not wanting to cut these people out of our lives like he is saying he wants to

Would you consider that i also cheated on my ex hub? He cheated on me with this girl for 2 months. He was also abusive so I left him. I met someone online and dated online for 2 months also. The ex says because we're not officially divorced, I cheated on him. What do you guys think? Is he trying to manipulate me? Should it even be his business? He's even made an account to try and chat with me because I've been avoiding him for months.

My ex is in the military and told me about a month and a half ago she wants a divorce yet she hasnt filed anything. She is living overseas right now and has access to a military law office that can help her. Ive showed her several ways she can file as well. She hasnt. She hasnt even started the process of shipping my things back stateside even though she was being told to. I dont understand. She told me she wanted it. At one point she told me i had to file because i lived here. I told her i wouldnt because i wasnt the one who wanted it and she should do it. Even gave her resources on how to file. She told me not to drag it along and yet here she is sitting on her but about it. Someone please help me understand why anyone who would want a divorce would do this.

Co worker and a good friend.. And for spoiling her.. With matching hehehe.. His female co worker also comment that she is really sad coz my husband would transfer to another branch,. ? It was 8 months ago but I can't move on. Because of the word she uses she is a spoil she said.. I'm so much jealous when I saw that.. My husband is still working with that single mom girl, she has a bf in abroad. My husband is now regular in his work.that time he was on his first 5 months work and now he's regular.. I talked to that girl! And to their co worker 7 months ago they said its nothing, they were all like that in work.also the girl told me its nothing she spoil for work matters only! But I'm so bother with that girl! Every time they work together me and my husband!!! Until now. I so much bother with that girl though we talked. Every time my husband lates for 20 mins. Coming home I mad to him I told him you just spoiled that skinny girl. My husband is a kind and responsible father. I'm so jealous that he also kind to that girl. Please let me help your opinion matter to me...

(who has no impact on their life)on social media .Spending more time talking to a friend about it All while that person isnt asked how their day was/or acknowledging them

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, have 3 children. I do not like the hormones in birth control so we use the withdrawal method and it has been working for us....WHEN HE FOLLOWS THIS. Before we engage in "relations", I confirm that he knows NOT to release inside me - I HATE taking Plan B and am scared to death of long terms effects (ties to feminine cancer). He knows this and claims to agree. But at the last minute, he will simply go against what we just agreed on and releases. I am stuck having to take the Plan B, as pregnancy IS NOT AN OPTION FOR US RIGHT NOW. I get furious that he does this and we usually end up fighting pretty badly. I feel like he is jeopardizing my health, my LIFE even by putting me in a situation to have to take the morning after pill THAT IS MOST DEFINITELY UNSAFE IF TAKEN OFTEN. He uses the same excuse, "couldnt help it". I'll stop talking to him for a while and he'll be fine the next few encounters we have. But then oneday out of the blue, he'll do it again. I resent him. Alot. Sometimes I hate him. If he knows how unsafe artificial hormones are for women...WHY CONTINUE TO PUT ME IN THAT SITUATION???? Does he want me to die or something????????

We talked about the people I had crushes on and the talking got a little too detailed. He asked why he's not a part of it. It got a little cumbersome to explain to him that I only fantasize about people I can't have. I told him I don't intend to sleep with anyone behind his back especially if it's just for fun. First of all, he was asking for details. He has these cuckold fantasy so I gave it to him. What's wrong about sharing your private thoughts with your husband?

I'm attending a wedding of my cousin where she's marrying a White Jewish guy and my husband has said a lot of racist things about him in which my cousin's fiance confronted him. My cousin is Asian like my husband and I are (except that I'm half White from both sides of the family) and my husband called out my cousin's fiance for having Asian fetish and yellow fever a lot of times along with my cousin, a Catholic like my husband and I, for being yoked with a different religion. The thought of attending the wedding with my husband would be insane. I would imagine him starting fights with my cousin's fiance and also starting fights with White and/or half Asian/White guys who talk to me as well as call me a whore for talking to them. He would also talk badly about how they look as well and tell me that he's better for me than they are. Would you not want to take a guy like that to a wedding? @Messykatt-My husband won't leave me alone because he's a man. He insists on attending because he was invited My parents also insist that I bring him since they married me off to him so that way he makes sure I'm not hitting on or groping other males.

he hates me coming to my parents. He lives 4 hours away. Now hasn t been contacting or picking my phone up. I contacted his mom but she seems careless about it. What should I do? Its bothering me and I am not being able to focus on anything else. We dont have a home together.He shares an apartment with another guy.he earns 1000/wk. I told him about getting a place together,he said he doesnt have money, etc.now he wants me to stay with his parents. while I was there living in the shared apartment, he would abuse/torture me.married for 10 mnths, no sex at all yet.We got married bcz we loved each other for 5 yrs.Turns out he lied about him and his family a lot.I still love him thats why it hurts.He doesnt care about my school anymore either

I'm married to my high school sweetheart. We are more than a couple, we are best friends. He is in the military, and he is deployed. While he has been gone, I've made a startling revelation: I'm happier without him. We have never really been apart since I was 15, and after 6 years together, and 2 1/2 years of marriage, it never occurred to me that I would enjoy being without him, but I do. I don't really miss him. He's becoming more like a friend to me and less like a romantic partner, and I'm scared. I'm afraid to admit this to him, because I don't want to hurt him ever. I still love him, but not in the same way. I'm only 21, though, and I don't want to spend another 10 years of my life feeling this way before I do something. Help!

I have 2 kids, 4 and 8 months. I work full time and do most of house chores. My husband's work is irregular. Makes good money. When he goes out, propably 3-4 times a month, he won't come home till the next morning. Sometimes, he tells me he'd come home before am, and ends up not coming home. Recently, he did this pattern 2 nights in a row. He swears he's not cheating. Just drinking with buddies. He keeps most of his earnings to his PRIVATE account. Claiming that he has to do so because his job is unstable (sometimes, he makes 10k a month, sometimes only 1000 a month). Why not joint??? He smokes weed everyday. He's nice to the kids, but he'd rather play video games than help me with kids. Does he sound like an acceptable husband to you?

I wanna do something extravagant for less than $100 lol, he's into vaping, guitar, art, music, skateboarding, and anything outdoorsy :-)

I was looking for pics of my daughter and came upon a social media account for my husband. He had a bunch of lesbians and porn stars as friends, also an account of women in panties and bras. He also had four or five accounts as friends that was labeled big a**es. I texted him that I found it. He first said I didn't know what I was talking about, until I sent pics of the screen shots showing his account. He then texted back saying he didn't care that I found it and "f**k you m***herf***er". I was pissed about the account but I am pissed now at his response. Am I wrong for being mad? I feel disrepected because as a wife I am going to be upset about finding it, being almost five months pregnant, I think that's understandable. But to be told " I don't give a f**k that you found it, f--- you mf'er", I'm honestly ready to do something stupid other than not talking to him or sleeping in the same bed.

My husband works for a gardening company (it's basically 5 or 6 guys), and they normally will get together for a beer. Occasionally, the "wives" are invited too if they have a barbeque or whatever. I'm already shy, but I'm also a lot younger than the others. I'm 23 and everyone else is in their 30s and 40s. My husband is 29. My sister who's husband also works for the same company is 26 and she is super confident and talks to everybody and he is comparing me to her. When I go to these things I find it hard to know who to talk to and my husband basically buggers off to chat with his friends. I'm one of those people where if you come and talk to me I'm happy to talk with you and I'll be friendly and nice, but I'm not the one to initiate it. Anyway my husband and I had this fight and he said I don't make any effort with them, even though they make an effort with me. Yeah, they offer me a drink, and that is the extent of it. That's not making an effort to have a conversation with me. I am expected to start a conversation with them even though I don't know any of them and it just isn't in my nature to go up and randomly start chatting to a 40 year old guy. I make an effort to talk to the wives, and offer to help in the kitchen and so on, but the older ones have no interest talking to me. Their was one girl who was 25 and we were chatting a lot and it was great, but he blamed me for only talking to her the whole time. It isn't fair. What should I do?

When we first dated we were great and shared differant types of sexual ideas. first, i am a homosexual. Somtimes she wants me to be dominant or she wants to be the dominant one. We got married and still everything was well and i still coped with my own issues. about a 1 year together i started to lose control of my issues and didnt want to do certain things with her when it came to being sexual. I wanted to be the dominant one and couldnt stand her being the dominant one. we finally brought it all out and confronts me on things like "why did we get married then?, why didnt you tell me when we were dating?" I told her i still love her and it isnt her but now its a problem. to me marriage was much more than just sex but it seems like if she cant be dominant than our marriage is on a rough patch. i dont know what to do. I didnt exclude sex complelty i just dont want certain things and its a problem. She knew i was a victim before we got married. Im just lost. I am opened for criticsism and thoughts. When i dated other women before her i had the same issue and then the relationship ended. With my wife i thought it was fixed and didnt have a problem but it is back. I dont want her to be unhappy but it seems like she will if i dont fix myself quick. I know it wasnt my fault but now its affecting my marriage.

I have been married for about 3 years. We met and knew we were just for each other until I started having issues.

My husband and I got into a bad fight, which led to a misunderstanding. He's now living with family. He's deleted and blocked all my family and friends off of his facebook. Does this mean he is done with our marriage?

In public he has wandering eyes. Have gone out to eat one time where I looked up and there he was staring at the woman behind me who was there with her bf talking to the host to find a seat. Then when we left he points out without me bringing up the subject, that the woman was looking at him. He also seems to go online and give "advice" to women he finds hot but the woman is dating a guy he perceives to be a loser. He tells the woman she's hot and young and can get any guy she wants a guy better than her current bf. He has a fake account on facebook he won't let me see, but I did run into it and briefly saw he just uses it to look up women and write them messages telling them how they can do better than their bf how hot they are, others he asks personal questions to like how many guys they've slept with or if they have student loans etc. Are most guys like this ? Is that what's left out there as "dating material" ? Singles and Dating is full of teenagers with no life experience so I asked it here.

I know this sentence sounds quite bizarre, but after finding some BDSM sites and blogs I've started to have fantasies of this as well and have gotten SOOOOO jealous of submissive women in such relationships. Things like having my husband control me, spank and punish me, force me to be naked in the home at all times even if company is over as much as this would embarrass me turn me on so much. I've started living out my fantasy on a low level, if he asks me to do something I do it without question, I've been doing chores without him even asking or bugging me, have been giving him frequent rubs and massages, if he's on the couch watching TV I'll usually sit on the floor next to him and imagine myself in some sort of inferior submissive status, when he asks me to do something I so want to reply "yes Master" but I know he'd think I'm crazy! This is my problem, how do I ask about taking this further? My husband is a pretty vanilla guy and I bet he'd find even a mild spanking much less what I'd want to be weird. It's funny how I want to be in total submission but am too embarrassed to share that with the man I want to submit to. Advice?

Well my wife 31 is being friend with this girl 29 from childhood. SShe is very close to herfiend.When I go for business deals out she invites her friend for pajama party ! The girl gives my wife very expensive gifts and yesterday she called my wife her home where she convinced my wife for sex ! But my wife was confjsed and asked my permission but I canot let her go .My wife and her friend are upset.I donot want to hart my wifes friend who is very cute ! What to do ..

Separated 2 moths ago as I was asked to leave and not contact her! Married now for 6 months and the stepfather of her two kids I love very much. We started talking again during the first two weeks but it was hard cause I would see the kids but she wasn't letting me in I r back. I got frustrated we had our 1st big argument and I took the rings back and left! It hasn't been pretty since! We have had no verbal contact and I have not gone by the house out if respect to the kids. We have said some pretty hateful things via text and now she has blocked my number and said she never wants to hear from me again! I've tried apologizing many times in those text only to be told my apologies are meaningless and have become harassing?? She says leave her alone and don't push her any further. I really love her and hate it has got to this point! Only thing she has said is that she is emotionally, financially, and spiritually overwhelmed and needs to be alone?? We had such a good relationship for two yrs and now this! Custody battle for the past yr which ends in sept hasn't helped but I love her so much! Any hope or should I just walk?

I know my husband was searching Craigslist ads for casual encounters. I joking mentioned craigslist to him in casual conversation about searching for CEs on CL and he said that he would never because it was the lowest of lows, but I knew he was responding to ads DAILY because I had access to his email account. So, I decided to list an ad that would entice him to respond. Funny thing is everything I posted was true about myself other than the fact I wasn't actually a "married woman seeking a married man." Sure enough he responded right away. I knew it was him for two reasons: 1) the idiot's real name is attached to the email account he responded with and 2) he sent a picture. So, what do I do with this? He tells me he promises he isn't leaving me or searching for casual sex, but he is searching for it daily. Do I chat him up and gain his trust and set up a meet or do I simply respond with a picture of myself? Any advice is surly welcome here!

I've been married for 7 years and i have ganied 12 lbs too... My husband is always been loving and is nice to me. Sex life is also healthy but I sometimes think that he is too nice, always buys me gifts, keeps texting me from work and takes days off from work to stay with me for no reason. Do you think he has something going on ? Also he works out a lot and has nice body, Do you think he is having affair ?

i ended up cheating on my husband last year during a very deep depression. i did stop and asked for a divorce and fessed up to my husband... and only god knows why but he refused to give up. i honestly believed he had cheated on me multiple times (found out i was wrong) so i know how hes feeling. it hurt me everyday. i never got over it until i learned the truth. we're doing a lot of therapy techniques etc to keep it on the right track and were happier with each other then we have been in over 10+years but my guilt makes me hate myself. im still struggling with depression, even though im happy with my life its hard to live with that much shame. i feel like i cant be mad at him ever after how accepting hes been no matter what he does that hurts. and my actions have understandably completely destroyed part of him. we both truly want to move past it, but how do we do that? is it possible? do cheaters ever stop feeling like they dont deserve to be loved? do people who get cheated on ever feel worthy or whole again? how do couples get over and forgive and forget that big of a rip in a relationship? i know what i did was wrong. i didnt go into details because they honestly dont mattter. i know there are no excuses but those with severe depression may understand the feeling of suicide and hopelessness you can get to. obviously our marriage was not healthy. we didnt talk for days at a time. but my point of the question was how do make him heal and feel better and how do stop the self hate because i know it only hurts him and our marraige? i know that it needs to be done but dont know how

Ok so my husband is a student, his father gives him a monthly salary that is enough for us to live off and I work. He also has a business partnership at a hookah lounge. And that is the problem. He is always there. He stays up all night and sleeps a couple of hours a day, he never comes home to eat when I cook and he always eats without Me, so we can't even enjoy a meal together. I sleep by myself every night and by the time I wake up he's just getting home to sleep. I am getting lonely and very sick of this crap. I've told him how I feel and He says that he has to do this to provide for us, we do not need that crap, with my salary and his, we can survive. But he won't settle for anything that isn't fancy. He can't even focus on college anymore because he's too busy at the hookah lounge, I've told him engineering is his future and he needs to focus on it. But he's too worried about this damn disgusting small business. He says he's always working but when I go there all I see him do is play cards. I've never been so lonely. My mother died recently and I'm depressed he refuses to understand and insists that we need to keep the business. The thing is, i don't want a fancy apartment or expensive things, I just want him to be with me and for us to live a normal life. He's not even doing well with his health. He smokes hookah all day and night and doesn't sleep, his skin is getting messed up and he's gonna get a lung infection. I'm scared. Pls help ):

I see more and more people getting divorced. Isn't getting married a promise to spend your living days with your spouse, through any and all hardships?

I love my wife very much, she means the world to me. We both are from different worlds, she was a poor immigrant from Europe and I am from a very rich Taiwanese family born in American. The thing is that she has a very supporting family and my family doesnt support me very much in feelings, but does support me in money. The only true connection in the family I have is my uncle. I met my wife in high school, I helped her on her English and from there we grew our love towards each other. We learn our worlds. While dating, she gets mad at me for my bad habits and laziness. Its not that I am dumb, its just that I always find an easy way of doing something like choosing an easy professor in a hard class, cheating on my resume for a job, etc. She even gets mad at small mistakes I made even though I accept her. I would lose in every argument except for the money part. She gets mad almost everyday which annoys me, but at the end of the day, we share our love before going to sleep. I never want to leave her because of my bad experience with my divorced parents, she never wants to leave me because she knew how much I worship her and willing to keep this relationship going. I would say she is a fighter in everything, I am not, but I have a big heart to love her. Its just that I am worried if she gets mad at me everyday, it would get worse in the future. I did ask for a marriage counselor because we do need better communication skills, she said if we do have skills, it would be boring.

We have family friends and their daughter is the same age as my oldest. Everything was great between us. I'm bipolar and was going through a rough time. I guess my husband needed someone to talk to and chose the female family friend (the guy isn't very talkative). Fast forward a month and I'm trying to set up Google hangouts between my husband's phone and my daughter's. I notice her name is on the frequently contacted and asked why and he said he didn't know. I was messing around on my daughter's hangouts and realized you can press the name to see the conversation. I asked for his phone and he said he already deleted it. I asked what they talked about and he said me and my issues and he didn't want to set me back by reading them. With time I forgave him. They continued to regular text message bc she helped him through a tough time and they had become good friends. It got to the point though that he went to her for advice on every issue in our marriage. He then started acting differently around her and had to have her full attention. He left me twice at get together to talk to her privately for 40 mins each time. I then found out that they were talking on the phone every weekday for 30 mins in the morning and 30 mins in the evening. She has mainly guy friends but they have a typical friendship (I'm not sure how much they talk) and is not in a mutual friendship with their wife, plus they don't play fight like her and my husband. I have told him that I think he is getting infatuated a bit and addicted to the friendship. When I told him to chill out on the phone calls he slowly became another person. He became grouchy and has even been physical. He swears that the time line is a coincidence and he must be going through some other stuff in his life. What do you think? He stopped texting as much and doesn't call her anymore and said he now understands everytime I told him. I'm worried that he is still addicted and is hiding it to keep our marriage happy. Was I wrong to take his only good friend away? Was I right? Should I allow it with limitations? Please help, I would love to hear a guy's perspective on this too.