I strongly dislike my mom at times, and no, I do not hate her. I'm not going to hate the woman who gave birth to me, raised me, fed me, and out a roof over my head. It's just my Mom and I do not have the best relationship. She invades my privacy, and I can't hide anything from her. I know your thinking 'what the hell would you hide from her', and it's nothing bad. It's just whenever I buy anything, that's mine, she thinks it's hers, even though she never bought it. She'll get mad at me for taking something that 'belongs to her'. She won't hesitate to go through my undergarments, or through my clothes. There's nothing she won't go through! Whenever she cleans my room, I swear, she makes it seem like I committed a crime. Can't she just sweep my room and be done with it? And not comment about everything that's wrong? She's so messy and unorganized yet she talks about my room being so ugly, so bad and I usually tune her out. My mom is over 50 years old and can't decide on which 'husband' she actually likes. She got married late and had a child late, and she cheated on her first husband after having a child with him (my half/step-brother), and then she had a child with my father (whom she never married). She lives with my step-dad, but she still likes my dad. She yells at me when I say I want to visit my own dad, and always talks about how she hates him but in reality, if they meet, she tries to act very kind and loving towards him (without my step-dad around of course). While I don't really want to meddle into her love-life, I don't think it's right. But I obviously can't voice my opinion on that to my Mom. My mom is extremely bossy, and she says 'she doesn't love me' even when she's in a happy mood. We were outside, in the garden when I told her I loved her once, and she said 'we'll I don't'. I never said that word to her again. She doesn't allow me to go to my friends house or have anyone over. And she tries telling me who I can or cannot be friends with..

This has been happening since last week. I started living with her and her husband last month. I have a foot fetish and she once found a feet magazine in my room. Ever since she's been forcing me to rub her feet threatening that she'll tell other people if I don't. She even sticks her foot up my shirt sometimes! Btw I'm 17 she's 43. What do I do??

I'll try to make this as short as possible, but it is a long story. I was accepted into a college with a low tuition, however; since my efc changed I am now blindingly paying double tuition. I decided to wait to tell my mom who was away on vacation at the time. Today she just got home, and I told her. she flipped out for some reason yelling at me for the ordeal. I told her my plan of taking a gap year, and working and saving up. She then freaked out on me again saying I would just be sitting around running up the bills because my job is crappy.Later she came to my room saying I would have to quite my job, get a new one, and start paying rent. I honestly don't know what to do at point. I did so much to try, and go to the cheapest college and save up money for it, but to her it is not enough. I don't want to pay rent to live in the house i was raised in, and as much as I hate my current job it is the only place that has hours flexible enough for me to work. I am only 18 and I feel like everything in my life has been shattered. @Marvinator I don't think you understand. Either way I will be taking a year out as we cannot afford the school anymore. Yes I am calling it a gap year because that is what it technically is. Yes I do want to work and live at home for free so I can save most of my money for college so this same thing doesn't happen to me again. I have no choice of going to school like I mentioned before my tuition doubled, and even with what I had saved there is no way I can afford that.

Hi. I am 18, and ever since graduation, I feel like my family finally has gotten the chance to tell me to get lost, and they are subtly using it... I have not worked before, and I'm convinced working is important, but the way my parents look at me changing from as their son to as a parasytic leecher in their economy really makes me feel down when I think about it. I am studying, and I will be beginning further studies this fall, but all of this really makes me wonder if that cliched unconditional family love thing is a lie.

my mom got home from work and just came in my room out of no where and trashed my room threw everything out if my closet and threw my turtle and its tank. she said if anything happens to me she doesn't give a **** don't bother calling her or have anyone call her, she said all I do is make her life miserable I'm only 17 im working two jobs she said if I want to eat from now on I'll have to put money in to eat at home . not to mention she gets $800 a month from my dad from child support which I don't get none of i buy my own clothes, shampoos, pay my phone bill , etc. she's not like this towards my other sisters I don't know why it's only me who's getting treated like this she claims I ruined her life ever since I was born . at this point I don't know what to do anymore she said she was done driving me to work so I'll be wasting more of my money on cabs to get to and from work I just don't know what to do anymore she verbally and physically abuses me when I sleep she yanks off the blankets for no reason and throws a shoe or whatever is near by at me . she even threw my turtle I bought outside while in its tank. she's making my depression come back little by little I honestly need help. my dad doesn't want me either he's remarried with new a new family. also let me add the part my sister is 20 and my mom pays her phone bill and takes her to work daily and never asks from money from her. also my mom always keeps half of my paychecks. can someone help me or give me advice?

My narcissistic mom is physically and emotionally abusive. It's coming to the point where my mental health is completely deteriorating, and I'm having suicidal thoughts over this. Somedays I am fearful of my safety when she rages. Please do not tell me that "You need to respect your mother" or "She has a different way of showing love" or that I'm ungrateful. She truly hates me, and is extremely manipulative and remorseless. I am her human "punching bag". I'm 18 years old and still live with both my parents. I'm going to university for an engineering program in 2 months and my father said he will loan me money for tuition as long as I completely obey my mother. I'm not out of touch with reality and I know I cannot afford it without help , i would need to have worked 10 years at minimum wage to afford everything. I have only been working about a year. Student loans did not help because I am still living with my parents, therefore it is assumed that my wealthy parents will aid me. This is why I cannot call the cops or move out - I need my father's money so I can leave this hellhole. But I'm on my tipping point. If you were in my situation what would you do? Would you continue to deal with it and please her for another 2 months? Would you call the cops or leave home, and throw away your whole future? Or something else?

So my little brother is flying over to Bakersfield for a week, that's where I live. (I live there temporarily for work until I can go home in a few months) I work morning until the evening, but I'm planning on taking him to Six Flags on Sunday on Saturday. But for the rest of that week... I'm not sure how to keep him entertained. And I feel bad. Any tips on keeping him entertained while I'm away?

I was awarded child support about 3 years ago and have only received 2 payments. He was postponed his case 4 seperate times and is given 2 to 3 months before he gets a new court date. The total owed is $11,587.63. I know he is working.

My parents found out about me smoking weed,ciggarettes,faking their signature for school,cutting myself and lots of other stuff and now they dont trust me at all.. Its really hard for me to be nice to them bc i think theyre annoying but im trying.. I really want my life back,now im grounded and they control every move i make. Its summer break and i want to live a normal life again and when i go back to school i dont want them to control everything i do.. Plz i need some advice on how to gain their trust back fast.. Theyre very protective and they used to trust me but now they treat me like im a psycho or idk what..i also need some advice on how can i be nicer to them and not be so short tempered?plz...help.. Im 15 btw

I'm 13 yo. I live with my dad in Las Vegas and he has full custody of me. Every summer I come down to San Diego to spend time with my grandma (dad's mom). Last summer I wasn't allowed to visit my mom. They got into a fight or something , so I haven't seen my mom in a year. I just want to know some ways I can ask my dad if I can visit her , but I don't know how he'll react or if he'll say no. Please help 😩

Im a 16 year old Guy, i play computer games mostly alone because i dont have many friends, i have nothing to do really, so i dont go outside, my mom tells me to do alot of stuff,but not nicely. she offends me and makes me do things. she is MAKING me get a job this summer although i told her i dont need money, i barely even ask for money to cut my hair and when i wanted a phone, they got my brother a phone and gave me his Iphone 4, im okay with that, but when i asked for 100$ to fix my pc, they said work for it, i worked 60 hours with my dada till he gave me the money, she compares me with any other guy she sees and tells me im a wimp and he s better than me, i feel suicidal All the time except for when im gaming i forget my depression. She came from the mall today and i was drinking tea, and there were tea drps on the floor, i didnt notice them, she said go get a ******* mob and fix this you Wimp you need to get out of this house, Get the **** out. im really depressed and i need help. i dont think other kids parent s treat them like this, my parents never told me they love me since my little sister was born, and they re always mean to me. Please help.

so today my cousin texted me saying my *** was nice and that he wanted to grab it and make out with me. he's a boy & im a girl. I, in no way, shape or form feel attracted to him. that creeped me out and i really don't want to talk to him anymore. I don't feel comfortable telling my mom and I don't know what to tell him. he's my cousin for gods sake! please help me. I feel really uncomfortable and I'm scared to see him again because my aunt is having a wedding and he's probably gonna be there and it's gonna be so awkward. I don't know what to do. you don't understand how disgusted I feel. he's family! I'm 14 years old and he's a little older than me. I think he's 15 or 16. also, I'm scared to tell my mom because what if I ruin my family and everything? has anyone experienced something similar to this? please tell me what to do! thank you.

So I'm 13 and I'm a girl obviously! But I have an Attuide problem with my parents! It's so bad I sometimes wake up for no reason at night and can hear my mom crying quietly!! I want to stop and I try but I can never do it!?!? May I have some tips and ideas on how to stop!? Please help me!

My fiance's family R/S/V/P to my daughters 5th birthday party- which was pretty expensive on a per child basis because it was at an amusement park. They confirmed the day before and didnt show without a call because- they went to the beach instead. While i found it rude and extremely in poor taste. I simply sent them a message stating " sorry, you missed the party- i wish you would have cancelled earlier in the day, as i ended up paying for your children". We will be having a baby shower in October, and I will not invite them based on their lack of respect and courtesy they showed for my daughters party. Is that taking it too far?

So I feel let down.. My boyfriend's mom randomly pops up at our door, she always yells at him for very dumb **** "Chris, your car needs new tires WHY THE **** DON'T YOU HAVE NEW TIRES ON"? Like really that's what she yelled at him once before. I told him to tell her not to come back if it's only for yelling like that cause our neighbors can hear it! She then started hating on me and bs for not agreeing with her about his tires being old, so he takes her side over mine all the time! I felt the things she was mad over was none of her business. That car is signed in his name, not her's! And trust me she's done this more then once over dumb crap! Even a few were about bitching what job I should and should not have! So now our puppy growls, I spoke with a trainer about it, and doing what he told me to do. It seems to be working cause he stop doing it. Well my boyfriend lied saying he believed me, then last night admitted he didn't believe me "So pretty much hes been lying for a few months he believed me"! He was then rude and said "Well you know I never seen it sooooo" Now if someone is rude to me he doesn't take my side! My own mom knew how his mom was and my own ******* mom even took my side, but my boyfriend didn't, nor stood up for me when his mom was being rude to me It isn't just these issues, it's with everything that involves him having to "take my side" I've always took his side, and even if he knows it's not my fault he still won't take my side! What should I do?

I recently discovered that I have a taste for punk music. My dad doesn t like it, and he makes fun of it because its not "real music". He also makes faces at me every time he hears it. It s been going on for a bit and its making me really sad that he won t accept that I like a different style than the pop we grew up with. What to do?

So I was told today I'm supposed to go on vacation tomorrow to see family in a different state. I really can't go and don't want to go. Any ideas how I might be able to get out of it. I'll do about anything.

I went to the groceries store and my parents left the car and told me to wait and stay with him and as soon as my parents left he starting throwing a tantrum and fits I tell him to calm done there coming back in a bit and he just starts biting me in the arm and scratching me so I pushed him away then he climbed on too and spilled ice cream and soda all over the damn car and me and he's still trying to bite me so I pushed him away again am I wrong for pushing him away from me? Btw he's 5

Okay so I'll give you the details, I'm a girl and 17 turning 18 in december. I live with my family in Florida right now and my grandparents live in Washington, I've lived in wash before with them and I like it. I would move in with them and it'd just be me and there, I'd be like an only child because I have two siblings here. Really important details: I'm not in high school anymore because I graduated. I need a job but can't find one, so I'm literally at home all day not doing anything and it's soooo boring. My parents don't mind if I leave, I'm almost an adult. I feel like going to washington would be a good thing because I could start new and find a job there, or maybe even start college. I want to make new memories and move to the next chapter in life, so I'm thinking washington is the perfect place. But I also love florida and will miss it here very much! Do you think I should stay or go? I'll take any advice.

Ok so it's been about 2 weeks now that my sister In law has been with us. She has no where to go since her b.f of now 9 years can't have her living there nor does her other youngest sis want her living at her house simply because my brother in law can't stand her . Therefor she has to stay with us. I'd like to add tht our place is a 1 bd 1 bth house and we have 3 dogs plus on top of everything I'm going to pop at any moment I'm already 8 1/2 months pregnant. The thing about her is she's so immature even though she's the oldest one I'm 22 my husband is 25 and we're newly weds. I don't mind her staying I just wish she had her shot together and either moved in with her bf or just broke up with him already so she could move back in with her parents. When I told my husband i didn't want to stay here to have to listen to her crap and my father in law arguing or her and her bf my husband got really upset. I understand i can't just get my stuff and go to my parents till she figures out what she wants and moves out but I'm already under a lot of stress as it is and this is just unnecessary. I'm not telling her to kick her out I just don't want to brings child into a house thts constantly arguing simply cause of her and her problems. What should I do? I have no idea how much longer she's staying since she herself doesn't even know nor do I want to impose in helping her since she really has no where else to go.

He's 18 and I'm 14 and it really pisses me off that he thinks he can do anything he wants to because he's older. When we were younger we used to fight and it would escalate to the point where he would pull a knife on me and point it towards my throat. I couldn't do **** and it just pissed me off. We had a fight recently and he just pissed off so much that I pulled a knife on him. My parents tried to stop me and I was the one getting in trouble. I told them that he pulled a knife on me several times and they don't listen. I could beat the **** of him if I want to but my parents keep getting in the way. He's a ******* **** and at this point I just want to kill him. Literally. Like with a knife through his throat.

My brother is 7 years old and I am watching him this summer. I had grand plans to do fun stuff with him like Water Park, Movies, etc. He can be the sweetest and best brother at times while others he's a complete monster that does not do as he's told and fights, argues and hits when we get into a major argument or fight. I have tried talking calmly and quietly to yelling until my throat hurts. I have tried getting away from him or putting him in his room and he either follows me or refuses his room. I am going to start taking things away. I need some advice on how to prevent these instances from getting to the point where someone gets hurt or cries and ruins the rest of the day. Thanks for the advice!

My mother used to be a cook for my father that's how they got married, and the first meal she cooked for him was bacon, and she said that she loves bacon more than me, because bacon is like her child. Help pls.

I wasnt going to turn to yahoo answers but i have no one else to talk to. I am currently at my aunt and uncles house in utah while i live on the coast of texas. No other family is with me. Im alone visiting. I came here last year but it was for 3 weeks and it was fun. Ive been here almost 4 weeks now. I just found out i have kidney problems and a possible stone. It is so boring here, my aunt makes me go to sleep at 12, no one is here until 2pm, they dont let me skate when i want to, i never leave the house only on weekends. My aunt gets mad when i ask if were doing anything today. She is always talking and complaining and talking sooo much. My parents want me home already and i want to go back cause i have school august 10. My aunt and uncle are gonna drive me back on the 23rd of july. I feel like im waisting my summer. I have a scan tomarrow if they find anything serious ill go home then. But idk what to do if i have to stay here. I have no one or anything. Planes tickets are expensive :( im gonna go crazy.

I am 22 and live with my dad, who works long hours. My mother, who i lived with until I was 21. gets jealous and upset when I do fun things with other people like my dad, boyfriend, friends and family. I feel like I have to do everything with her to please her. I see her at least twice a week but it's still not enough for her. I don't want to upset her, but I'm sick of feeling guilty for living my life.

My little brother is 13 years old and he tells my parents everything bad that I do! I have really strict/controlling parents.. They are really bad. They rarely let me go out with friends (18 years old btw), they hold anything and everything over my head to make me do ridiculous chores, and worst of all they don't treat my little brother the same at all. They are wicked nice to him and they let him do whatever he wants while they spend an absurd amount of time monitoring my every move. It's as if I'm a bad kid but I've never gotten in trouble at school or with drugs/alcohol. So I have to go out while my parents are working which would be great except my brother catches me and tells on me all the time. It's beyond frustrating and I've explained to him that siblings cover for each other and it's ok to do that but he continues to get me into trouble. How can I make him be less of a tattle-tale?????

My dads kicking me out. I'm 19, Female and I really don't want to end up living in my car. The car is mine so they can't take it from me, I don't have a job because I've been trying to focus on college. but If I move in with someone I will get a job to help pay. The problem is, I have no where to go. I have family here but If I move in with them that means I'll have to see my parents again and after this, I never want to see them again. I have about $180 to my name and if I move out I won't be able to finish school. There's no way they will let me stay. I just need some ideas on where to go. I really appreciate the help.

I immigrated to US 5 years ago. 2 years ago my parents came, because their children are here and they want to be close to us. My brother is married and they are staying with him. But recently my dad found a job as a baby sitter in the city where I live and started staying at my place for overnight. He stays even in the middle of the week when he has a day off just to get some rest and save from travel. I get very irriated because I like to have my own place for me in the morning. I have 1 bedroom apartment and he sleeps on the couch. The moment I tell him I want him to give me space, I feel sorry and guilty and beg him to come back. The moment he comes back I become irritated and depressed again. I want to be the type of person that is happy to help people and is happy around people. Maybe that is why I am single? Why can t I feel happy when my dad is around?

My family is going on vacation, and I collect Hats. I wear them everyday; i will be bringing 5 of my hats with me when we go. The thing is, I can't figure out a way to transport them without squishing them. i do not own a hatbox, and as I am sharing a suitcase with my mother there is no room for my hats. Please, advise me

I moved in with my cousins and their mom has been coming over, SLEEPING OVER mostly everyday. I told my uncle, and he told me to wait two months and then she'll come over less. I agreed that she could come on the weekends only before we moved in. I am having second thoughts. Should I tell my uncle that I will only stay if she stops coming now except for weekends or should I just leave. What should I do? I am okay with them coming over but not sleeping over. I don't care if they sleep one day in a week. What do I do? I can only say something now, or else it will be too late.

My brother got four wisdom teeth pulled today and he's been spitting out blood the whole car ride home. We are now home and the toilet is full of blood and he is lightheaded and nearly passed out while trying to move from one room to another. I gave him some bottles of water and made him sit back against something so he wont topple over. he says he cant drink the water because of all the blood but he is trying. What do i do? My mom and i are clueless. If it gets worse ill call 911

I looked up the counseler and I know that he has done marriage counseling before. They fight occasionally but my mom was almost crying the other night and I heard her say I Dont know if I can forgive u again. Are these signs of divorce please help.

So he cheated about six months ago, there have been big arguments ever since, me getting dragged into them sometimes :/ recently mum found the woman s number. He had been contacting her! She gave him one more chance but yesterday we found loads of porn mags he had hidden... He has messed this family over so much and can t keep his eyes off other people? I hate him so so so much, I get angry whenever the topic simular to this is mentioned, and nothing he does is okay anymore, I hate him

OK. So 2 years ago my ex, whom i was still with at the time and we have a son together started sleeping with her co-worker. He is a Married man and has 3 boys. During that time she was still sleeping with me. She did come clean about the situation because she got an STD from him and told me so I could go get checked out myself. We ended up separating but we still lived together for more than a year after. But my point in all of this is that I told her that I no longer would allow her to take my sone to her job because thats where she was sleeping with that guy at. I did not want my son around that place or that man. So I have found out that my son has been there several time without me knowing and she has had this man at her apartment while my son is there. I have told her I do not want my son anywhere near this guy or at her job several times. But she does it any way. I found out on the fourth of July (7-4-15) about this still happening. The way i found out is that i asked my son when he came to my house, how was your time with mom. And he tells me, "Mom says i can't talk about that because you will get upset". So I had a conversation (argument) with her about this man around my son. And her response was You know im a good mother and i would never put our son in danger. So i told her i dont want my son getting used to a man that has his own family at home. Its not fair to my son. i spoke with this man on the phone and asked personally to stay away from my son. He said OK, But she is going to do what she wants. I also asked him why would he do that to his family his response was "I'm not happy". i asked him, what are you teaching your boys and he would not respond. I asked him Is this situation fair at all to my ex, she cant have a relationship like she wants. And he says what am i supposed to do, hurt her by backing away i cant hurt her like that. (WTF SO, my point to all this is that i told her more then a year ago that if she kept bringing my son around him then i would tell his Wife. My question is, Should i follow through and tell his wife or not

My mom hates my dad with a passion. When we were little he was a horrible guy so she took us away and now I know nothing about him. Recently my mom has had trouble taking care of my brother and I. Since I am 18 I can make my own decisions but she doesn't want me to leave. My dad has a wife and two kids and a steady job now and he said he'd be glad to have me move in with him for my senior year. We live in Md and he lives in Fl and I hate MD. I've lived in fl my whole life and it is just awful here I am depressed and not happy. How do I tell her with the least amount of freaking out possible? She hates him and if I leave she will probably think I am abandoning them. I am confident he is a good guy now since I've been talking to the family but I could definitely be wrong which would leave me in a pickle. I am sure I am not wrong. How do I tell her please.

like seriously there is so many adults today who are nagging on kids because they 'sit too much by the computer' I do sports at least 3 times a week and even to me they complain about i sit and play too much computer, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, they say 'on our time there was no computer games' soo bad for you, now is that our problems? you adults should learn to respect others interests and hoby, just because you don't play games doesn't it mean we won't. This is getting on my nerves, I don't even play that hell lot of computer, i varie from going out and playing football, go and feed the animals and pets and watch tv. So shut the hell up if u got nothing better to say.

My boyfriend and I have a good relationship. I love him and his child. I make sure he comes over every weekend which he wasn't doing before his father and I got together and I take care of him when he's at my home. His dad moved in with me and a few months later I got pregnant. I'm a student and I work and I have 2 children. My choice was to have an abortion Because he explained over and over why we weren't ready. Now he's decided that he wants his son to move in with us. Not to mention that I fell behind in school after keeping his son for a month and failed a class because 3 kids were to much for me to juggle. I don't think mentally I can handle this. I want to give his son a good family but I don't know if I can take on all of this. I am the only one who takes care of the kids. Am I wrong?

so before we start let me tell u i am a heavy sleeper, so i sleep in only my boxers and i wake up in the middle of the night to find my covers puled off me my boxers down so my junk was showing and my step sister peering through the door crack staring at me and then when i turn around she darts up the stairs the next day she claims she didn't do it

So I live with two families, my own and my aunt's, and it ends up being 14-17 people in one house. Five children, five other children and four or six adults. Only three of them work, I'm still looking for a job, and we are financially struggling. I go to school with my brother, we are 15, and he is also looking for jobs. We are poor, food and living expenses are too much to handle. My grandma needs help medically. Electricity and water bills are majority of the time off. I feel bad and I real want to be committed to school like music, soccer, acting, math, essays, etc. But I have to be home to help, even when it's not enough. I feel bad and I want to help as much as possible but living so far from a school know is tough also. Also from anything in general. My family is stressed and even going to hand-me-down clothes are no options (and food banks). I am depressed and church is what I love. I can't do anything. My friend and I do things together and we are buddies. She is fine to have me move in, her parents know enough to help me. My mom doesn't care so much, the others won't find it a bother-some. So anything?

my daughter is 16 and out of school for the summer. She's always hanging at boys houses and apartments and sometimes at my apartment. Her mother became a druggie when we were young and ended up incarcerated for distributing and using heroin. So as a father, I want to make sure my daughter is safe and to do that I want to be able to look at her from my computer with a webcam. I would require her to wear a webcam at all times but I don't know if this is possible. I also want to record the video to. I am afraid I may find some things that will be hard to watch but I've seen it all and done it all so doesn't bother me.

We're both 15 been together for about a month. I've met his dad, but not his mom. He's met both of my parents. Him and his family are going on a trip to the beach, they want to take me with them but I would have to stay for one night. We are not having any sex or anything like that. I'll be with his parents the whole time, his mom and I would stay in a room together (or I'll have my own room). The thing is our parents haven't met, where were going there is no service, and I dont know how to ask them??

I called the police on my mother for beating me, choking me and an attempt to throw me down the stairs. All I said was that I wanted to talk as a family about some issues. So, she got angry and said that I had an attitude, but I didn't I never get an attitude with my mother (no eye rolling,voice raising, defensive poses). The main reason why I resisted her commands ( tried to punish me again for crying and saying that I'm pitiful little crybaby)even when she threatened me is because a few minutes earlier my brother caught me crying after she punished me for no reason(she just got off from work and screamed in my face calling me a fat,disgusting pig and that since I didn't wanna lose the weight she's gonna force me. Even after I followed her directions and made sure my room was spotless). I told him about the emotional and physical abuse that I've endured at her hands for years ( getting punched in my head for failing a class or not taking care of my hair or even responding to a question) but he didn't believe me at first and thought I was making mom look like a bad person. So he told me to keep my head held high and to not let anyone oppress you not even family. So I called the police and and I was floored because instead of taking her away from me for beating me he suggests I go. I had no where to go so he just said have a good night and left. I'm sitting here thinking that wow I'm about to be beaten some more and the police don't even care so she doesn't go to jail. I'm 15 years old and have three more years left with my "caring" family.

I moved in with my cousins and their mom has been coming over, SLEEPING OVER mostly everyday. I told my uncle, and he told me to wait two months and then she'll come over less. I agreed that she could come on the weekends only before we moved in. I am having second thoughts. Should I tell my uncle that I will only stay if she stops coming now except for weekends or should I just leave. What should I do? I am okay with them coming over but not sleeping over. I don't care if they sleep one day in a week. What do I do?

How do i deal with this and how do i know if shes serious. Im jusr not a lovinf person so thats the main reason she wants me out and i have an attitude. She said im just like him and shes wants me to help him dind an apt for hom so i cam move wiTh him. I never liked my dad and he never really cared for me. Hes never home always working. And hes really strict and depressing. Idk what to do im a sophmore in HS.

I don't like the guy she's marrying... He's a good guy but ever since they were dating he would try to act like me and my sisters father (even though we have a father who doesn't love far). Like just today, I didn't want my hair done because I like the wavy look on my hair then my mom got mad at me but she just let it go but then her fiancé TEXTED ME that for being so rude to your mother we'll talk about punishments later. WHAT THE HECK?!?!?! I wasn't even being rude to her! I don't want to stop the wedding and I already live with my dad, I don't know what to do at this point. Please help

I saw my girl cousin last week for the first time in a few years she's 15 I'm 14 and I couldn't help but think she is very attractive. And I'm not going to lie i have fantasizing about her when masturbating. Of course i would never act but is this wrong? My hormones are raging and i can't help it. I don't want to seem like a perv so please don't say I am. is this normal for my age to think my cousin is attractive?

My husband doesn't see the problem with our daughter wearing clothes that are extremely revealing. And I mean dresses that barely cover her thighs . there just 5 inches from her private area. Shirts that show her chest and are mainly belly cut . and shorts that are barely covering her but. He tells me that she has trust in her that's why its no big deal. But he doesn't understand how guys think and how what u wear says a lot about you ? How can I get him to understand? Also he freaks out if I were to wear clothes like that . he tells me I'm his wife and shouldn't dress like that . is that fair ?

Hi there! I'm a 16 year old guy. Every summer, I give myself a few projects to work on. This summer, I'm writing an economics paper, putting more apps on the App Store, and getting more sales of my Amazon e-book. Also, I'm trying to get a six-pack. According to my BMI, I'm normal weight, but I'm chubby and I want to change. I have insecurities about the way I look. It's not for girls. I just want to feel proud of myself when I dry off after a shower. I'm using the 4-Hour-Body, a popular health book, to help me out. I'm using the slow-carb diet, which mostly consists of lean protein, legumes (beans) and vegetables. I'm a week into it, and people are already commenting about how my face looks thinner and I'm noticing that my clothes fit differently. I'm happy with my progress. My abs are showing more. I have one cheat day. I run 3 kilometers a day because it's relaxing. The problem is that my family's giving me a lot of crap about the diet. We're spending 5 weeks in India this summer (I'm from there). It's the perfect opportunity because we have a cook here, so my mom doesn't have to worry about having to cook an extra meal just for me. The problem is that my family keeps telling me to get off of the diet. It's gotten to the point where my dad looks at me in a very critical way when I'm eating carrots and beans when he's eating rice and my mom rolls her eyes whenever I say I can't eat something. I've tried to stay cool for the past week, but it's really getting to me. I've snapped at my mom a couple times and it's gotten me in trouble. Everyone's got a breaking point, and if I can't get them to stop by being nice, I'm going to be mean. And it's been hard on me too. Every meal, there's some delicious homemade Indian food that's made, and I have to sit there eating lightly peppered shrimp, steamed veggies, and lentils while the rest of my family is digging in. I explain, but they don't understand. My mom keeps telling me that she's admiring my steele, but then she just falls back on criticism. The Indian version of a "healthy person" is someone who's chubby. But I don't like that. I don't want to be as chubby as my dad when I'm 43. If I deal with all this now, I don't have to when I'm older. How do I deal with this? It doesn't stop. My mom says she's a doctor, but she hasn't practiced in 10 years and she used to work in fertility. The guy who wrote the book went to Princeton.

When I was younger my cousin would tell me to sit in the front seat. Sometimes he would put his hand on my lap while driving. Another time I was tired and he pulled me close to him & said lay right here pointing to his lap. I pulled away is this normal ?

I cannot stand living here anymore. My brother is the dumbest human alive! The DUMBEST! All he does is stress us out and cuss and yell at us because of his retarded choices and actions. You can't tell him anything, he doesn't listen to anymore. I'm 14 and I'm smarter than him when it comes to making smart choices. It's getting on my damn nerves I have to listen to him yell at us everyday! Please help, I'm losing my mind! And on top of that, he doesn't help us at all. The idiot can't even flush the toilet! UUUUGH

We have been married 16 years. we both have children from previous relationships and 2 together My daughter is 23 she is a heroin addict and trying to regain control through medication. I found out that she is over prescribed and sold some of it to an old co worker of my husband's. I told my husband about it and asked him to speak to his "on again off again" friend. I found this inappropriate to engage in this behavior with a "friends" stepchild. My husband came to his defense and said that my daughter is an adult and she knows who and what this person is. I agree she shouldn't be doing this. I know what she is and she doesn't need help to "derail her own train." I flipped it around and asked him "what if he did this with your adult child?" he responded, "that's different." This isn't the first time he came to this "friend's" defense. At one time we agreed not to have this person near our home and kids, I later found out he was coming around. Some time ago, there were rumors at his job that got back to me about my husband having affairs and I dismissed them, Now I wonder if him protecting his "friend" isn't self serving.

Ever since my Dad passed away just over a year and a half ago I just don't want to celebrate my birthday anymore. His birthday is only a day before mine. I hate that I feel this way but I feel so so guilty if I did celebrate it. My Mom was going to buy a cake and I refused. How do I get past this? I cry so much about him and I can't comprehend how he left me so quickly.

I was brought up in a well-off household in South Kensington, and went to a private day school in Westminster. My father was the senior PR at his company and my mother was the daughter of a baronet. Until I reached the age of sixteen, I knew not a single woe. At the age of sixteen, my family lost everything due to a stock market disaster. We had to abandon and sell our things, and moved to a council estate (borderline slum) in South London. It would be a lie to say that my studies weren't affected: my parents argued daily and within a year my mother had divorced my father and remarried into old money. I haven't seen her since. I was unable to continue my studies at the school in Westminster and had to do my A-Levels at one of the lowest-performing comprehensives in the country. Importantly, I realised that many of those impoverished families at the council estate were poor because they were lazy and unruly. It was through my own hard work and intellect that I won a place at Oxford. I relied on loans and grants for my studies at university, but wasn't allowed to work part-time due to academic commitments. Within three years of graduating, I was earning over £50,000 annually. I married a lawyer, and together we established a happy home for our children. But now, my husband is getting into left-wing politics. He supports the Labour Party, and has even abandoned his job in favour for political pursuits. He disagrees with my conservative views, and it's destroying our marriage!

My 13 year old daughter came to me with what she thought was a problem. She had heard her brother tell his friend on the phone that he was going to spank the monkey. She was afraid he was going to hurt an animal. OH MY GOD. How do you explain to your daughter what her brother was really going to do? I explained to her what he really meant by what he said. That is when I got a BIG SHOCK. She said "If he was going to j**k off, why didn't he just say so and then I would know what he meant". He does that all the time. I must also have a talk with my son about locking the door to his room when he does that. Is my daughter growing up way to fast. Parents, (and teenage girls) please give me some guidance? Isn't 13 to young to know about all that stuff?