So my therapist invited me to play soccer with her and her recreational team. I've had her as a therapist for a few months, and it's been well. She's like 15 years older than me but she's cool and we get along great. My question is, is it okay for me to play soccer with her and her team? She even offered to play just with me sometime if i wanted. I have played soccer all my life, so I love the sport. But would it be alright if I was to play soccer with my therapist?

Okay, it might be long. I'm 22, I live with my parents (Mexican) they're not super strict but they do care an awful lot and i care a lot about their opionion as well. I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years. My parents know him, because he comes over and I go out with him too, never alone, it's usually with my sister and another friend. They get alomg well & everything. However, they don't know that he is my boyfriend and I just don't know how to tell them. He is my first boyfriend, and i just feel very uncomfortable and awkward talking to my parents about my "love life" i guess which is why i've been putting it off for so long. My boyfriend wants to talk to them himself about it but i find that awkward too but he really thinks we need to tell them about our relationship and he thinks it's best if he does the talking and in a way asks for permission and their approval of our relationship. I just dont know what they will say or think...or how to tell them. I'm scared that they wont approve for some reason or that they simply dont like the idea of them having a boyfriend. Any advice recommendations about this?

I get really jealous when I'm with my dad in public and we run into pretty girls, whether they're cashiers, waitresses, etc. I've always been jealous of other pretty girls but this is a different kind of jealousy. I wouldn't necessarily call myself a "daddy's girl" but I guess the fact that I'm the only daughter could contribute to my jealousy...does other girls feel this way or know why I do?

I'm in any early 20s and I want to be independent and become an adult. But my parents still see me as a kid.. I want to be able to say I'm here or there or this is what I am to do so I'm doing it. But I always feel like they want to give me permission to do it. What should I do?

So I m in a summer art program and during studio time I had a migraine and felt nautious so I left but I puked in the hallway before I could get to the bathroom. I sat in the bathroom for like ten minutes because I was too mortified to go back in. When I did the puke was still there and everyone left except my RTA who is a college guy that helps teach the class. I had to tell him I puked and show him where it was and idk he called somebody and I left. Now I m really embarrassed and idk what to do or say to him

Lately I've been attracted to my sister I sneak into her room and I stare at her all the time I can't tell if she notices but I really want to have a relationship with her

I dont want to live with my other parent, i just dont want to visit them anymore. Do i still have to even though im a minor?

The last time I talked to my ex bf I was telling him "If you wanna be friends thats fine but friends dont send friends nudes...so stop" He said " Maybe, I ll think about it I said "Good luck with that" and deleted him off snapchat *This was 3 months ago" So now its july 7 the day we got together (last year)and he texts me "Hey" "How you been"?

July 4th sucked *** in our house :( family drama. I just wished my husband would have stood up for me then, instead of telling me later to relax because they were in the wrong for what they said

So yesterday a guy my age who happened to be my friend asked me if I would let him have sex with me. Of course I said no as I am too young and I didn't even want to but he thought I was joking and kept asking me. Instead of telling him to back the f*ck off, I panicked and asked him why he wanted to and continued the conversation. I know it was stupid of me to keep talking to him and I should have stopped. The worst part is that after I told him we should continue being friends. I then ended the conversation but I felt very disgusted with myself and very scared. This night I had a dream about being raped. The guy was someone different (a guy in his 50s who works at my father's institute). This guy a few weeks back was "checking me out" at a dinner that was held at the institute. The dream was that I had basically seduced the man and actually initiated the sex which he continued. I realize that this would be rape because I am a minor. IThe dream was very vivid and very real. To clarify, in the dream I wanted the sex to happen but whenI woke up I felt so uncomfortable and did not want to be raped in the dream. Throughout the whole day I have been feeling as if it had actually happened in real life and I was actually raped. I am feeling so traumatized. The strange thing is that now I am actually more afraid of the guy who asked for sex than the rapist in my dream. I am physically shaking and I am so confused. I do not know what to do does anyone have advice?

There s a girl on facebook that really likes me, for that reason i wait until she comes online, but i don t want to seem like desperate to talking too her just when she comes online, when she comes online, should i wait? or write her instead? HELP ME PLEASE, I HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT THIS.

I would like to appeal the decision you made. I know I past the deadline and I know writing this appeal, like the costumer service lady mentioned will be denied without even opening the letter. But please give me a chance to explain why I didn't apply before June 1st, 2015. Even though the past two years I have never missed a deadline. First I didn't receive any notifications. I was told on the phone, that you sent three emails two on my Hotmail and one on my Rutgers email. Unfortunately my Hotmail is hacked and I can no longer access information or even login onto it. I tried many times to renew the password but there were too much technical problems. As for my Rutgers email your email was scanned for me as spam and I never got the chance to even open the email, because I never open the spam folder. So that makes all my reminders gone. Plus, I was also traveling out of state most of my spring semester because of two reasons my sister and my uncle. My uncle, Ahmad Youssef, had diabetes type A and he suffered from it for a long time but this semester it became only worse that he started to get holes all over his body from it. So we had to go out of state and visit him most of my semester. Unfortunately he died this May and my whole family was in total shock and grief...continued As for my older sister she graduated during the spring semester and was also moving out of state to Maryland because of the job offers. So my family and I had to help her get furniture and move her stuff and that was also another reason why this semester was very hectic. Even you can see that all this was affecting my performance in school and my grades all dropped to Cs.

How do I ask him if I can stay permanently? PLEASE HELP VERY IMPORTANT

For the past 3 years, I've lived with my younger brother. During that period, I allowed him to use my printer as long as I was living there. Despite frequently using it, he never replaced the paper or toner in it. Now that I am moving out of his place, I am planning on taking my printer with me, except for one small problem, he is refusing to allow me to take it with me, for no reason other than he doesn't want to have to pay for toner and paper for the printer he owns and he is claiming that I waived my right to ownership of the printer when I moved in with him. Is he right?

I'm not talking about when they get married and go with the husband or wife's last name. I mean a single person who just decides to change their family surname or perhaps all their names. What would compell someone to want to do that?

I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend? I'm 30 weeks pregnant, I have a petite body. He always tells me I'm to skinny, cause he can wrap his arms around me..I need thick thighs so my shorts will be tight and look good.. He gawks at other thick females which I know is natural but then he gets all mad and says "dammit" because he can't have them anymore because well, he's stuck with me. He cares so much about getting a high number and being with thick women. He left me when I was 16 weeks pregnant to better himself apparent;y. but admitted to sleeping with another woman, who of course...was thick. He'll go watch porn and jack off often.. Why am I not good enough? I've been with him for 2 years and he recently just started actually being hateful about stuff like this when I came back from our "break" it's like he doesn't care about my feelings now...He sits and snapchats this one girl from sunrise to sundown..and of course she's thick.. I liked my body before I met him. Now I hate looking in a mirror. I feel like a little girl. My boobs are so small.. I have no butt. I've considered going on so many birth controls to gain weight once I have my daughter. What can I do to be good enough? Why is my faithfulness, love, sense of humor and the fact that I'm his daughters mother NOT good enough? He says it is.. but telling me he gets mad when he sees thick women in public cause he can't f*ck them because its a # thing, says otherwise..

So my in-laws to be have a foreign exchange student visiting them that stayed with them decades ago. She has been at their place all week. They want to drive tomorrow (they are 2 hours out) and visit us and have supper with us at our house and tour where my husband works since she plans to go to school in this state and be in the same field as my fiance. They want to meet up with coffee some where. The local diner has closed, there is no place to have coffee. This is a small town. I am in the midst of getting ready for our vacation next week and told my fiancé that. He understood. My fiance persuaded them to meet at a restaurant an hour away instead of driving 2 hours to meet us. As it goes I didn't like that restaurant that his parents love only because of this waitress that is there that is best friends with his former ex-girlfriend that my fiancé was deeply in love with. It's obvious she reports back to his ex-girlfriend when we go there. The last time we went, she made sure she was the one that waited on and that we were seated in her section. I could tell by her body language that she was all excited. It was so uncomfortable for me. She was observing me closely this last time. It ruins the dining experience. The state I am in has small towns dotted everywhere so it's impossible not to run into ex-girlfriends or their friends. It's like a constant reminder. Anyway, my fiancé asked me what the problem is and I blurted out the waitress at that restaurant. I said I would put up with it as I always do. Its so hard dealing with the future in-laws barely giving notice to drop in and this restaurant. I'm from a big city so any old ex-girlfriend don't resurface like they do in this state. They refuse to go to another restaurant too. We call each other wife, husband at times because we have lived together for a while now. I could give two sh*ts about this foreign exchange student too. Even my fiancé told me he hates it when his parents only give a days notice. I'm a planner by nature and they fly by the seat of their pants on everything and think nothing of it to just drop in, saying they are in the area when it takes 2 hours to get here and not even tell us they are on their way. I guess getting a days notice is a good thing considering how it has been in the past. Oh, the in-laws. Sorry for the rant, but all of this was in the heat of the moment. Seems like a waste of my/our time even going to the restaurant. I have a pulled muscle in back so my mobility is limited too, which is contributing to my crankiness.

I'm a guy, I'm 15 a Junior in high school. My best friend Anderson and I started hanging out at each others houses midway through the year last year. We've had a lot of fun and we met each others family's. His family is very nice and we get along well. His sister Isabella who's basically my age (she just turned 16 and I'll be 16 August 17th), she's very nice to me and doesn't judge me like a lot of girls have done. When we went to Six Flags three weeks ago on Saturday she did what I thought nobody other than my family would do, she asked me to come into the "selfie" they were taking with three other people we met there and she put her arm around me in it. She's very pretty and Isabella doesn't seem to care about touching me (I'm not unclean, girls usually think I'm disgusting because I'm ugly and I cough a lot due to my CF which they don't know about), Isabella doesn't know about my CF either but I admire how she didn't judge me. I've never had a girlfriend, I've been rejected twice, once last year and again this year on the last day of school, the one who rejected me this year I still trust, she didn't tell anyone and she did it nicely, she's very nice. Anyways, it wasn't just that one day, Isabella touches me a lot, leans on my shoulder, puts her arm around me, and sits with me and she doesn't care if I do any of those things to her. Does she like me?

I went back to my old school yesterday to support some of my friends who were performing in a show and I saw my old drama teacher. She smiled when she saw me and she stroked her nails along my arm a little while talking to me. She asked how I was and was I enjoying the show and I told her yes. She smiled and I said to her I would see her soon and she replied "okay love." I emailed her this morning and said to her that it was lovely to see her last night and if she wanted any help in the drama department next year I'm more than happy to be of an assistance. She hasn't replied to me. I felt a little awkward seeing her yesterday. I want to be friends with her because she's become friends with some of her former students but I don't want to push her. We had a lovely student/relationship when I was at school.

I have dis relative of mine who is basically shy to talk with gals or basically any one coz he's jst sooo weird but whenever he sees my little cousin,he'd always try to talk to her..he'd buy her chocolates nd stuff coz that is what phedophiles use as their weapon to lure unsuspecting children.this guy has had a crush on my cousin ever since she was like 6 or 7 years old.this guy is like 16 years older than my cousin(give or take a few years)which makes his liking for her all d more disgusting.but I was jst wondering if perhaps I had jst misunderstood his affection for her nd if all of dis is only in my head or if my suspicions about dis guy is actually true!!

iam 32 years old i am a bi-sex girl. i love my girlfriend we didn't have sex yet we just like to kiss so . we watch them for fun and to .we have this video but it is censored in the kissing moments. in the video there is a phrase : click on the link below to see the full video from other website :dailymotion can any one help me to see the full video without the cut scenes /?? the video name is : Hot Girls Kissing on Valentine's Day in Bikinis!. and the source in on dailymotion

My grandma recently passed away.And we're trying to get her remains to CT for a service.We'd love to be able to go up there for it, but as of right now, we only have enough to cremate and ship her up there.My aunt has most of the insurance money and refuses to help.Are there any programs that any of you could think of that may be able to help?

This is somewhat of a lot so I'm hoping someone reads and can help. I few months ago my boyfriend and I decided to I should move in with him and his family to newyork as I am from Washington, D.C., just so that I won't have to travel back and fourth so much much. I transferred my job and we move together. Life was great. We both worked, his mom loved me. She would even call me when I decided to visit DC just to make sure I was coming back, she went out to dinner, nail salon basically treated me like a daughter as well as my boyfriend sister and brother. Last month my boyfriend and I got into a small argument and he told me that we should have a break and I took it as we were breaking up. So I pack my things. And I packed his as well and through out everything he owned. I then came back to DC. His mom was really upset as well as he was. He told me I was wrong and that it was over. His mom said she never thought I'd do something like that. She thought I was a good person which I am. She blocked my number so I can't call her and she also messaged me saying she regret letting me in. My boyfriend and I are still together. He called me everyday saying what I did was wrong but he doesn't want to let go and neither do I. Yesterday he told me he's in love and that he wants me to come back but I don't know what to do. Or what to say to his mom. She's a Pisces, he's an Aquarius and I'm a Libra. I'm so lost. I love him a lot! He knows that. What to do???

Does that mean he wants a relationship?

My 10 year old sister likes to sit on my lap, and she squirms around a lot then I get an erection. She asked me why something is poking her butt, I don't know what to tell her. Should I stop letting her sit on my lap, or explain to her what is happening?

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together 5 years. He's bisexual. I'm a girl. When we were together 4 months I was over at his place dropping something off as I have the keys to his appartment. Anyway while I was there he came in and there was a guy with him and I saw them kissing and then he started giving my boyfriend a bj and then my boyfriend ate his *** and then my boyfriend put his dick in him and they started having sex. I didn't confront them because I was in shock and I didn't know what to do. I never told him I knew about this. Here I am almost 5 years later and it's just now starting to bother me. He hasn't done it since. Should I tell him I know or let it go? Should I break up with him? It makes me feel bad cause I could have started them but I didn't :/ now I don't know what to do. I really love him. He's mom and brother weren't home at the time

and saw me doing it. will she break up with me

Me & my babyfather have been together 7 years. We broke up the 5th year but was together but not together. I had gotten pregnant the 5th year also. He told me all these things that we are getting back together and was going to be a family for our daughter. Well i see it was another girl. He say they are just friends but it looked like more. She said the samething because she has a boyfriend but you know some girls dont care. Me nd the girl had a few incidents. I called her a b***h and another time i tried to throw alcohol on her when i saw her. Now its a year later and i feel really bad. I realized how much of a skum he is and it wasn't her it was him i should have went after. She doesn't owe me anything. Anyways should I apologize? Or will i look weak? She still speaks to him as a friend i think

I'm a girl and I have a big butt. For the most part I'm skinny otherwise. I have tried workouts that are supposed to make it smaller but they never worked so now I just try to make it tight. Anyways, when having sex does it make a difference for guys on how it feels? I know its a gross question but I'm just curious.

It's been one week that my bf killed himself he was 42, perfect family amazing two little boys great businesses. I was held by him for two days cause I had two black eyes and he didn't want it to get out.. I ended up getting away calling 911 he ended leading through are small town two house later pulled over and killed himself. Now I'm left and everyone is blaming me one funeral was yesterday another one in his hometown tomorrow. I was not to go. I'm not coping well, I miss him. I'm 31 and I just feel like I need to go as well. He had planned to kill me and than kill himself but like I said I ran and got away. Now I wish I would have stayed.

Hola! Amm.. Miren.. Hace tiempo mi novio y yo intentamos tener relacione pero yo soy virgen y no logro penetrarme por que me dolia demasiado asi que el paro.. pero llevo 7 dias de retraso y tengo miiedo a estar embarazada! Ayudenme ! Por favor

Last night me and my now ex boyfriend got into a huge fight. He told me to leave so I started to pack my things. As I was packing he told me to give him back the Nintendo he bought me. He was acting really childish so I told him that if he wanted to act like that then he should give me back the phone I bought him. He got angry and threatened to throw the phone and break it until I told him to just take it. he even told me to pay him for the shoes I bought with MY own money because I used his coupon on it. I got more upset and when I left to go to the bathroom and came back I found him looking through my packed things and taking things back saying that it was his. I couldn't take it anymore so I just grabbed my keys and left. I went outside and cried and cooled down then I asked him if I could get my stuff back and leave. He wouldn't let me. I told him I needed that stuff for work and that I wouldn't even take more than a minute and that he can keep whatever he wants I just need my necessities. He kept saying no and told me to come back another day. He said if I came anywhere near his door he would call security on me. I sat outside for almost 30 minutes until I went to security myself. They called the cops and I was able to get my stuff back. Was it wrong of me to have done that? Why does a big part of me regret it and feel sad?

All he had was a pink eye and blood pressure issues

There's this guy I talked to for a while last year and I fell in love with him and he cut me off and that broke my heart, I cried every night. A month later he got a girlfriend. We were in 8th grade and she was in 7th. She got pregnant and she's currently gonna have her baby this most likely month. There wasn't a night I didn't cry for him until time went on and on ( its actually 2 years in November ) I will always love this guy no matter what anybody says. In 9th grade I had a few classes with him and I would always make awkward eye contact with him. ( note: his girlfriend was in 8th grade so she didn't go to the same school as us ) He would talk to me a little in class because I was close to his best friend. He started talking to me currently and he's been flirting hard. I told my close friend that doesn't understand cause she didn't know me when I met him and went through a lot with him. She told me I was ruining their family and she told me it was all my fault. I don't force him to talk to me. I do feel bad but I do love him. I would always put him over anybody. I feel bad I don't think I could see them being cute and me knowing he's not what he looks like to her. I've even asked about her to him and he'd just say idk.. Am I wrong for talking to him? Am I wrong for letting him keep going behind his girlfriends back? Am I ruining their family? I know it sounds ridiculous cause we're so young but look at it from our perspectives.

I live at my mothers with my little sister, I help her with some rent, I buy food for myself so that I can eat before going to work and for dinner and if my mom catches me with my food she will tell me that whatever I get I have to share with my sister, when my sister is around and I make me something my little sister complains to my mom that she wants some. I only buy this food so I won't starve and my sister is my moms responsibility not mine.

we are both in HS i know sounds bad already. but ive been friends with this guy since middle school and hes a year older than me and we just started talking again. and weve decided to be friends with benefits. i dont really want a relationship with him since he has a baby and hes in a grade older. but i dont know if friends with benefits is a good idea??? im a virgin and obviously hes not but hes only been with one girl. is friends with benefits sex and friends? like doing things you would do in a relationship but as friends?

My partner and I are currently in college. We were 16 and 17 when we got together (junior and senior year of high school). We have been considering getting married before we graduate from college because we don't have any reasons to wait until after, plus if there were any accidents with birth control we would prefer to already be married. We will probably graduate with our bachelors at 21 and 22 years old. Is that too young to have a child? I may go on to med school (I'm completing the prerequisites) but would not be finished with school and residency until almost 30 and due to a family history of endometriosis and tumors do not want to wait until then because it could be too late. I would like to hear from people in their 30s and older, especially if you had a similar situation. Our current idea is I could take some time after graduation and be a stay at home mom, then enroll the child at the preschool at the college I chose for med school. But do you think 21 or 22 is too early? I'm not concerned about the financial aspect as much as how much people change in their 20s. Many older people seem to say they are completely different people an the partner they had at this age was completely wrong for them. We don't want to wait until I'm done with all of my schooling to have a child, but are not sure when the best time would be. This plan is of course not set in stone by any means, but we would like some input.

I have had a lot of things come easy money, friends, things Im good at, a few easy fast women, etc and don't really care to put effort into certain things. I will work out hard but that's about the only thing these days I put effort in which really isn't that hard to workout hard anyway. I don't care to put effort into a relationship/dating never have its just too much work/effort. I have no interest in making new friends in my Mid 20s too much effort and don't care to deal with people. I dont like to put effort into any new hobbies/interests. Etc. Is this a bad thing or good because I don't really need friends/dating/newhobbies???

So I've been single for way to long, today I'm going to the pool and I really want to meet a guy. The thing is I have kinda small boobs and social anxiety. How do I talk to someone? How do I know they like me? Ugh. I'm desperate.

I was a very picky eater as a kid and once I had refused to eat a microwave dinner so I had to stay at the table alone for hours until I finished the meal. On another I wouldn't eat a bowl of cereal so I had the soggy bowl of cereal refrigerated and waiting for me after school.

What is it called when out of curiosity you ask a farmer: "How many cows do you have on your ranch?" and this offends him because to him you are saying: "How much money do you have?" Would the question be considered a non-tactical question? Or would it be called something else? Thank you.

I'm a female, and ever since I was little I hated sleeping in my room. My Dad use to force me to sleep in it, but it never worked out. I sometimes sleep in my room sometimes. It's just that ever since my father passed away when I was 10 I feel like I shouldn't leave my mom sleeping alone across the house... Can you help me to make this go away? Any suggestions?

...He wants to talk about "our future, you and I, us" what does this mean? We aren't dating. Does he want to date me?

So she's 15 years old she's bi and is crazy about skiing 🎿 but its not the time because we are on beach vacation. She loves pizza, cactus, socks and jewellery but ver "tumblr" jewellery. She's very modern style. Listens to Demi Lovato, Halsey, fifth harmony, arctic monkeys, the 1975 and our native star Nina Sublatti. I wanted to buy her Nina sublatti's album but there is no in stock. I'm really confused because we had a talk and she was telling me about her closest friend that she wants something really special and maybe strange in some kinds so nothing comes into my mind. And it has to be something that her mom won't recognise that we are together or smth at the Same time I want it to be romantic da very very special cause she is very special to me.

Plus He Doesn't Talk To Me Anymore But My Feelings Are Still There For Him I Don't Know What To Do

Please no rude comments. I have a bf, and yes he's married. But recently his wife caught him. For a while he got away from his house. But now he's asked me to give him the chance to see if he can "fix" things so his wife later won't say he didn't try. He says he never wants to give me up, and is very keen on having me in his life. I mean if he didn't love me like he says, and really loved his wife, he would've dumped me as soon as she found out right?

The guy is my cousin, I was hoping this stupid crush will go away but it turned into something more. He's straight, as far as I know.....I finally got some "liquid" courage and told him. Beyond this crush, we have a pretty good relationship. I need some kind of word of encouragement. I'm giving him his space to process what I told him, but it's killing me that I can't be there. I'm not expecting a sexual/personal relationship with him but you think it's gonna ruin our current friendship?

I think my baby father is cheating on me we have a daughter together He's been getting caught in his lies we fight A lot because he can't be faithful I caught him cheating ... his phone rings all night when I confront him about it he cursed me out calls me names tell me I was a mistake and it really hurts me because I don't know what to do and what to believe no more i'm ready to kick him out my house and move on with my life and don't care if he and his daughter life are not and I really love him but I'm sad the lies and put his hands on me because I confront him about what you doing away saying is wrong so I'm coming to y'all I would like to know what's best for me to do I know for fact that he's cheating I have a sex with other girls I don't know what to do I'm confused

If a girl you liked says to you I hate the fact that I have the smallest amount of feelings for you?

My boyfriend 40+ has a serious lung issue with a hacking cough that is so terrible sounding he sound like a dying man. It's very upsetting. He refuses to go to the doctor because we he had health insurance he had a lung biopsy that came back normal. However now he does not have health insurance and won't seek medical help. He is pushing for us to move in together and I just don't think I can do it. Not only does it completely disrupt my sleep but it is unsanitary and gross. He coughs all throughout the night. I hate for this to be the deal breaker but I can't get his cooperation. He also drinks every day of his life anywhere from 3-6 a day and refuses to give up this habit. I love this man but don't know if I can move forward if things don't change. Was just curious what outsiders think... Thanks to those that respond.

Will the doctor need to take tests on me before prescribing medication for anxiety?

Someone I met sent a group text to me and a few other people with their address saying "hope we can stay in touch." should I respond to this separately/say anything? thanks!!

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