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- Question: Is my friendship with this person toxic?
- Question: Is my friend still my friend?
- Question: What should I do about these lies that have gone way too far?
- Question: Why do all my friends leave me...?
- Question: My friend always doubts herself; like she always talks about her flaws and is insecure about herself. What should I tell her?
- Question: Starting to lose patience with my best friend, can't dump a lifelong friend, what to do?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: I feel like ever since I started highschool, my personality went away?
- Question: How do you apologize to someone you ve offended, but you aren t close with them?
- Question: Any known sorse for dvd of the third man,staring orsen wells,made in 1949?
- Question: Teens in New York?
- Question: So i have a step brother that is very annoying he follows me everywhere i go and doesmt listen to anybody what do i do to get him off my bac?
- Question: I feel like everyone hates me?!?
- Question: My friends make fun of my big forehead?
- Question: I don t know how to feel?
- Question: Address for Leonard Cramsie in Valparaiso,IN?
- Question: I'm moving to a new highschool where no one knows who I am, how will I fit it, and should I lie about some things I don want people to know?
- Question: My friend acts condescending towards me. Is she right?
- Question: What does it mean when someone wears on their family that they are doing their very best 10 points?
- Question: I'm losing my friends?
- Question: If a boy plays the harpsichord during his teen years will he grow up to become a sexual deviant?
- Question: How can I feel girly again?
- Question: I feel like he just wants sex, but he also seems like he likes me for me and wants a relationship?
- Question: I'm embarrassed to smoke weed for the first time in front of my friends?
- Question: I have no friends?
- Question: How to get a friend back?
- Question: My friend told me 2day he wanted to kill himself & has done a while now i don t think he will but is goin through hard time what should I do?
- Question: I feel like I'm missing out. Am I? And how do I join in?
- Question: When you don t know how to comfort somebody?
- Question: Forcing herself to be the leader?
- Question: Am I in the wrong?
- Question: Group name ideas?
- Question: How to STOP your parents from inviting your friends over!?!?
- Question: How would you react to this?
- Question: Why some people need to be envied by other people?
- Question: What should we do about this ?
- Question: I want to be the leader of my group. How do I do it?
- Question: My guy friend compeletly ignored my birthday today?
- Question: I think my best friend's brother likes me?
- Question: My friend want let her husband out of her site for nothing because he cheated on her sometime ago.If she don't trust him why don't she leave?
- Question: What is his name?
- Question: What is going on with me? Am I in love with him or is it something else?
- Question: So I want to invite a friend s sister on vacation trip with the entire group...?
- Question: My parents won't let me go to my friends house just because her brother is having his friends over?
- Question: At what point do you stop making an effort to stay in touch with adult friends?
- Question: Do I still ask to hang out with my friends?
- Question: My parents make me "anti-social"?
- Question: I lost all my friends in one day, now what?
- Question: Should i apologize or leave it?
- Question: Is it wrong to like hanging out with my best friend's sister more than i like hanging out with my best friend?
- Question: Is it normal to feel jealousy at these scenarios?
- Question: Is this rude?
- Question: I had a former friend that is racist. I stopped the friendship because she would make racial comments when we re out.?
- Question: Am I a bad person?
- Question: Help with old friend!?
- Question: Why are my ex's friends re adding me on facebook?
- Question: Do you think the amount of socializing I do is normal?
- Question: I feel lonely.?
- Question: Worst summer so far and I need help!!!?
- Question: Is it self centered to plan your own birthday party and invite your friends?
| Question: Is my friendship with this person toxic? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 05:18 PM PDT We have an on-and-off sort of relationship. We're inseperable during summer but at school we don't hang out much because shes in a different clique than me (cliques are VERY defined in my school). This girl (let's call her amy) constantly needs to be occupied by me (not to brag!). Whenever I have plans and can't hang out with her, she says that I "never have time for her" or "don't pay enough attention to her" or that I'm too "picky and choosy with friends and I choose people over her." Amy also claims that I ditch her. Sometimes well meet at the community pool. For example, I was at the mall with my other friend, and we were planning to go swimming after. Amy called me and asked if I could go. I said I'm actually going in a little bit with my other friend, so if you want to meet us there you can and that would be great. We got to the pool before Amy did, so we were swimming around. We were playing volleyball when Amy came over, and we asked her to go swimming. She said "in a minute" and then never came... later that day she texted me and said, "youre a fake f**ck who always ditches me i never want to talk to you again" and I just didn't reply because it seemed best to leave her alone. We stopped talking etc. It happens frequently her getting mad at me and then turning the tables. What to do?? |
| Question: Is my friend still my friend? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 05:02 PM PDT We used to talk everyday afterschool and then she made new "convenient" friends which were in the same classes as her. She slowly drifted apart from me and now i'm always the one to start conversations with her. Now that it's the summer we rarely talk and when i try to tell her about something (news, gossip etc) our conversation always turns into an argument and she doesn't hear me out. I really don't know what to do anymore. I just find it irritating now! And another thing....The new people who she hangs out with wear makeup and now all of a sudden she's getting into it too. I feel like she's lost self-confidence with herself. Like she's always saying how she's ugly without her foundation and mascara. I'm not the type to give the whole speech about how everyone's beautiful in their own way and everything but I honestly feel like she's being peer-pressured by her new friends to take on this trend!! |
| Question: What should I do about these lies that have gone way too far? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:56 PM PDT Okay, so my friend has been lying to my friends and I for over a year, ( my friends and I have known her for a year), about being friends with celebrities. We finally confronted her and she avoided me until I asked her to say sorry, her sorry wasn't sincere and she didn't care what she had done to me personally and my friends. She sent us pics of the celebrities she was hanging out with but all of the pictures were fake, or photoshopped and she also promised autographs, again fake. She kept making up theses stories that were believable but when I found out what she had been doing I was furious! It's not like my friends and I have ever been mean to her, or anything like that, we hardly ever get in fights, and we never lie to each other, and never take a lie this far. She admitted to my one friend that most of her life was a lie from what she had been telling us. That shocked me, I did not understand why someone would lie about all of this?! She also said that she wanted to feel "lucky," but if she just said it was a lie in the first place it wouldn't be that serious and I would understand. When she finally texted me back she didn't even care about what she did, after all the nice things my friends and I have done for her. Why would she lie about this? Why would she lie to my friends and I about her life? |
| Question: Why do all my friends leave me...? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:46 PM PDT Its constant and I hate it all my friends I used to have stop calling me and I don't know why and I recently just made a new friend and I haven't seen her in a while I don't know where she went and now I am alone its annoying every time I make friends they leave me and I am all alone why does this keep happening I feel like i wasn't meant to have any friends and I was meant to be alone... |
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| Question: Starting to lose patience with my best friend, can't dump a lifelong friend, what to do? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:37 PM PDT He is quite pushy, sarcastic to everyone either negatively or in jest, likes to attempt to injure me in little ways for fun, farts all the time, plays music i find awful, forces me to go to the same gig on a wednesday, with the same guy singing, for 4.5 years. He says deeply inappropriate things about sexually abusing young people as a joke when my brother who has an intellectual disability is present, i've known the guy 12 years now. |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:37 PM PDT Okay so I'm almost 17 and right now it's the summer before I start the 11th grade and when I was in eighth grade my dad went to jail and I lost all contact with him. In 9th I had to move to a new school about 40 minutes away from my old town and after a while I really liked it and I made a lot of friends but then after that year I had to move again and this time I moved about 3 1/2 hours away in out-of-state from both my old schools. My new school is totally different and a lot smaller and it's really quiet and I really hate it here. The new town is so small and secluded and there's nothing to do here and I can't make any friends in this school. I have joined clubs and I try talking to people but everyone else seems to have there own group of friends already and they don't want me to be part of it and I don't know what to do. I cry myself to sleep every single night because I hate it so much here and I just want to move back home. At my old schools I had a lot of friends and its so different now. I'm still in contact with my old friends and they are honestly the only things keeping me going right now but I never get to see them because they live so far away. I'm going in to my second year at this new school and I don't know if I'll make it. I really need some advice on what to do so if anyone has any I would be really grateful and I'm sorry for making you read this entire thing. |
| Question: I feel like ever since I started highschool, my personality went away? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:14 PM PDT I feel boring. Nobody wants to be my friend. When I Imagine somebody talking to me, I understand how they feel and realize why they don't want to talk to me. They say be yourself, but I don't know who myself even is anymore. I don't know how to have friends, be responsible, do anything, be happy. My life is slipping away, and I don't know how to change that, and I'm only in my transition course summer school when highschool didn't even actually start yet. Will the rest of my 4 years be like this, or is there hope?? I don't know what to do. :( and I'm so sad now and it's starting to show at school making it even harder to make friends than it already is for me. I don't know what to do. I feel like I need someone to take my hand and literally lead my through my own life for me. Maybe that's why nobody wants to be my friend. Because I don't have self esteem or no confidence?? I don't know please help. How do I change this. :( And some of you might say join clubs and make conversation and you have to feel confident... but I don't know HOW to do any of those. I just feel like crying. I can't even control my OWN life. In grade 8, I used to be fun, optimistic, outgoing with a squad that felt like a second family. Here though, I don't even know what happened to me. I try to think about acting how I used to with my friends but I just can't and when I try, I feel fake and still no one really wants to talk to me or befriend. |
| Question: How do you apologize to someone you ve offended, but you aren t close with them? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:11 PM PDT My older sister has a friend that comes over a lot and I asked my sister why she hung out with her and shared my dislike for her, based off my observation, and basically straight up judging her. The friend and I are very different and have very different views and beliefs. My sister told her everything and I feel guilty. I d like to apologize, but I don t know how to hold on about it. She completely tunes me out and hasn t even looked at me since the first day we met. I d like to make things better so I can live peacefully in my house and not be constantly on edge. (she is over all the time) please help. I really am sorry. |
| Question: Any known sorse for dvd of the third man,staring orsen wells,made in 1949? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 04:02 PM PDT has just been rereleased on a limited basin in usa |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:59 PM PDT It's possible that I'm going to a private high school in Chelsea, and I was wondering what kinds of things teenagers do in NY and if they're nice. Thank you!! Edit |
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| Question: I feel like everyone hates me?!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT When I was in elementary I was super shy and didn't talk to anyone in school because I couldn't speak their language. I didn't really have any friends. Now that I'm in junior high, I can speak their language fluently so now I talk to people. I'm not like the biggest talker but I do talk to people. But I feel like everyone hates me. I don't think I'm mean to them but I'm super annoying. When we were at camp, we were talking and some girls talked about how they hated this one girl behind her back and I feel like sometimes their talking about me behind my back. I regret most of my conversations and I feel like I should've just shut my mouth. I feel like going back to the girl who never talks again. I don't really have any friends. I mean I talk to people but we never hang out. I feel like it's all in my head but what if it wasn't? I'm a sort of depressed person because of my childhood. |
| Question: My friends make fun of my big forehead? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:40 PM PDT should i not hang out with them anymore?It irritates me and makes me want to cry |
| Question: I don t know how to feel? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:28 PM PDT I m in high school. I just talked to a friend of mine who said that a few people two years ago told her that I was an annoying wannabe and that I tried too hard. Obviously I was younger then and I m a lot more respected now, but I still feel sad that people never said this to my face. It made me feel really crappy and I know I should laugh it off, I just don t know how to. |
| Question: Address for Leonard Cramsie in Valparaiso,IN? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:28 PM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:26 PM PDT I'm a sophomore ( should be a junior but I started school late so I'm 16 ) and I'm going to a new high school. No one knows who I am, so I'm not sure as to how I will fit in with certain "cliques", so what should I do? Also if people ask me question, such as "are you a virgin" (I'm not) I don't want people to know that I'm not because it didn't happen the way I wanted it to and I wish I would have never lost it, but I also wouldn't want to lie, so I don't know what I should do, what's your opinion? |
| Question: My friend acts condescending towards me. Is she right? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:24 PM PDT She will give me condescending remarks, implying that I m ignorant and naive like a child, but I m only a year younger than she is (I m 24). It makes me doubt myself, especially since I m quite insecure. She is a very practical and disciplined person, always working towards her goals, whereas I like to take my time and enjoy things (something she has trouble with; she has an eating disorder and is currently seeing a psychologist). But her remarks make me feel inferior, especially because I know I m not that practical or disciplined, I like to take my time but don t always achieve as much as I want to achieve. Is she right - should I change? Or is she just trying to bring me down? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:23 PM PDT I got into an argument with a supposed friend. I told them that I didn't think he was doing all he do to help me. He told me that he swears on his family that he's doing his very best. Which is supposed to mean? Then he told me that I don't understand where hes coming from but he understands where I am coming from |
| Question: I'm losing my friends? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:18 PM PDT I have four best friends that I used to be really close to. I have a bad family life but they've always been there for me and always cheer me up. Lately, it feels like they all hate me. They have a group chat without me that they constantly talk in, they make plans without me, etc, etc. One of them still talks to me a lot and I'm still good friends with her, but she doesn't do anything when the others exclude me or say I'm annoying. Yesterday I found out they were calling me a b***h because I was hanging out with someone yesterday and didn't invite them. One of them said "Why should we invite her to things if she doesn't invite us?" I got so upset because the only reason I was hanging out with her was that she's about the only friend I have who hasn't turned on me. And even if I did invite them, they would all say no. They've been with me through so much and I've always trusted them and they're the only people who have cheered me up when things aren't okay. I don't know how to cope with losing them, please help. |
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| Question: How can I feel girly again? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:05 PM PDT Before having my first child, I was finishing high school, had a best friend to do everything with -- all that. I was always a girly girl, outgoing, had to get dressed in my best clothes for no reason and I was very social. Now, I have lost all my friends and I have those "I'll always be here (once in a blue moon) friend" and am now a stay at home mom while my boyfriend is at work all day. I became a gamer after 2 months of having my baby, but I was still girly. then the first year of parenthood I was still girly but started wearing Pjs a lot more often... and now I don't even get out of my pjs . I am tied up with cleaning and taking care of my energized toddler. I have 2 hours to myself a day. I also am now 40 pounds heavier then before my pregnant (thanks to my birth control and birth itself) I feel like crap. what can I do? I've tried working out at home but after a month I've seen no progress |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:04 PM PDT This guy and I go way back. We're about to be seniors. In 7th grade hit liked me first and started hitting on me. I feel for him but he had a girlfriend. He then tried to get with many of my friends within 7th/8th grade. But this was all middle school so I'm now dwelling on it, however, I'm not disregarding it. He randomly started talking to me 2 days ago on Twitter. Up until today we just discussed AP classes, our families, our ethnicities (both from the same country but different regions), and we were just doing some light joking. He asked a lot of questions trying to get to know me. Then today, he wanted to play the 20 questions game. His questions were all about if I'm a virgin, if I swallow, etc. it disappointed me a bit..but not all his questions were like that. But He's made it clear though that he can't go too long without sex. he also kept asking for me to drive over to him. I kind of lied and said I'm currently talking to a family member I haven't talked to in awhile but he keeps texting me that I have to leave soon because he told his parents that he's going to soccer practice but he actually wants to meet up with me. I find that really inconsiderate, even though I lied, what if I really was talking to a family member? I don't know, i guess I'm just clinging to how sweet e was just being. Thoughts? |
| Question: I'm embarrassed to smoke weed for the first time in front of my friends? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 03:03 PM PDT I'm embarrassed because I don't want to cough a lot |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:59 PM PDT im a 13 year old girl and go to public school but i have 0 friends and im not exaggerating.. i have social anxiety so its hard to make any and i dont really like anybody in my school theyre all mean or annoying. Also i want to do online school SO BAD. it would be so much better for me but my parents know nothing about it and dont want me to do it. what should i do? |
| Question: How to get a friend back? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:58 PM PDT I was really close to a girl I work with I went to her wedding last year, we always were talking on facebook and social media. Then all of a sudden she blocked me cause her hubby didn't like they way I spoke to her which still to this day I don't know what I did. Recently she said I want you and wanted to be friends again, now just yesterday she told me she doesn't like me anymore. I miss her friendship I sent her heaps of messages she is a lot younger than me like 22 and im nearly 40, I could be her mum. What do I do Also I want to give her a birthday card. |
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| Question: I feel like I'm missing out. Am I? And how do I join in? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:48 PM PDT 15 years old and people are going out partying and always go out with their friends. I don't enjoy going out too much and get bored quickly but I've never been to a serious party before. Never been invited in them terms. People in my school are always being invited except me and my certain group . We're gamers. But I want to party and see what it's like. Am I seriously missing out? Am I too young? How do I join? Please give as much information as possible. Thank you |
| Question: When you don t know how to comfort somebody? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:35 PM PDT My friend messages me about how she s mad at her parents. They are very rude to her and she hates it. She laughs about it but also seems a little disturbed. I don t want to be too dramatic because she d just shrug it off but I also don t know what to say. Do I just change the subject or give some sort of reassuring joke? I m totally lost. |
| Question: Forcing herself to be the leader? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:28 PM PDT we have a group project in which everyone sent me their work except this girl who repeats same sentence: *send it to me and I'll email the teacher* How to deal with her? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:19 PM PDT Long story short. This guy used to be my best friend (I'm a guy also). We roomed together in college, and we're very similar in tastes almost identical. Then things started to change, he went to work after college, meanwhile I got diagnosed with cancer. I've been battling this for a few years now, during this time all i wanted to do was break our friendship and drop him. He's become bitter, and is jealous and competitive about everything in secret. He also copied EVERYTHING I did, every little thing. I don't have many friends, especially since I'm going through cancer the only ones that I called my friends. I dropped this friend about a month ago, ignored all his messages and calls..i think he got the picture. Now I'm wondering did I do wrong? Everytime he'd come over he'd bring this bad/depressing vibe, and he never made me feel happy. |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:11 PM PDT Our names are Destiny, Sarah, Caitlyn, Steff, and Savannah we need a cute catchy name. nothing like 5 fab or anything like that. something unique and cute |
| Question: How to STOP your parents from inviting your friends over!?!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:11 PM PDT So my parents really want to invite my friends over because they have never been to our house but I really don't want them to come because my parents are so embarrassing! And we would have nothing to do because my house is so boring. Please help! |
| Question: How would you react to this? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:09 PM PDT so, me and this girl had some history. She is so rude, she bullies people, usually when they have something she doesnt. She called me ugly, then turned everyone againist me. She was just rude, so i just sat back and chilled out. Then when she crossed the line, I was mad. So yeah. All my friends tell me to invite her somewhere because she pretends to be their friend, and then talks about them behind me. I forgave her and pretended to like her, when I really just wanted to slap her. Anyways, I was going to ask my friends to go to the mall with me, and then it got out and then she asked them on purpose. So now i'm just sitting home answering this. what do I do? |
| Question: Why some people need to be envied by other people? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:06 PM PDT I know some people that desire being envied, and if you don't envy them you are a threat. |
| Question: What should we do about this ? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 02:00 PM PDT Me and my friend both love country music. We have one big problem. One of my favorite singers is doing a show the same night as her favorite band. We can't decide which one we should go see. I keep telling her I don't mind seeing the band I know how much she loves the band. I've seen the band once but I never seen the singer before. My favorite singer is gonna be on one side of the state and the band is gonna be on the other. Her sister and her husband are going to watch the band I told her she could go with them but she and her sister hate each other more than anything. She said she doesn't want to go without me. But she doesn't want me to miss the singer. I told her there's always next year to see him but she thinks I should go because he might never be back again. We really can't decide and the shows are next month. What should we do ? |
| Question: I want to be the leader of my group. How do I do it? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:48 PM PDT I have a really close group of friends. It is me and 2 other girls. But I feel like a lot of the time they hang out without me or do not care to think to invite me. Whenever it is the other way, when I am hanging with just one of them I try to make sure that they are both invited. I want to become the alpha of my group, the leader. I want the other two to want to hang out with me and not leave me out. I don't know how to make myself be seen as the alpha compared to them, please leave tips below! |
| Question: My guy friend compeletly ignored my birthday today? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:46 PM PDT my guy friend completely ignored my birthday today- although he wants more than friendship- and three weeks later is his birthday, how should I react? I want to at least text him a happy birthday wish... what would you do if you were in my shoes? |
| Question: I think my best friend's brother likes me? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:35 PM PDT He is about 11 and I am 13 Ever time I'm there he always wants to hangout with me then he does anything I say even if he said he wouldn't to his sister then he try's to impress me and then when we go to a very public place we all have to hold hands to stay together my friend's other brother (which is about 8) holds her 11 year olds hand then says that he doesn't want to hold my cousins hand so he has to hold my hand I don't know what to do I don't like him in that way do I tell my friend or ignore it plz help |
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| Question: What is going on with me? Am I in love with him or is it something else? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:11 PM PDT my guy friend just left my house to head back out to Boston for work. I won't see him until Sunday night. We spent from July 1st til today and now I don't want him to go. I can't go with him because I am taking summer classes. He's someone that I can talk about my problems with and he is such a great listener and gives me the best advice possible. We are very adventurous together. We go to the county fair together, to amusement parks together, to quad running, and other things like going for hikes, walks, to the movies and to dinner. We just love being around one another. We have talked about getting into a relationship with one another, but every time the subject comes up, it never gets pursued. I just miss him being around but I also think that I have other feelings for him, then I second guess myself on those feelings. So what am I feeling? Am I falling in love with him or it something else? |
| Question: So I want to invite a friend s sister on vacation trip with the entire group...? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT So I want to invite a friend s sister on vacation trip with the entire group. Now this friend is going but i don t want her to know I m crushing on her sisters, so I don t want to ask her to invite her sister. How can I invite this friend s sister without making it to obvious I want her to bring her sister along? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:06 PM PDT I don't get why they won't trust |
| Question: At what point do you stop making an effort to stay in touch with adult friends? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:59 PM PDT |
| Question: Do I still ask to hang out with my friends? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:47 PM PDT So it's summer! My friends never text me first and when I ask to hang they don't answer. Bottom line is I'm always the one asking to hang out. I feel annoying when I ask them and they keep saying yeah we'll hang out! But we never do. If I didn't text them I wouldn't get any texts at all. So now it's summer and I have nothing to do. All I do when I'm home is play my guitar, practice my penny board, go on my phone, and watch movies. That's all fun for me but to a certain extent. I wanna go out but apparently I can't with my "friends" |
| Question: My parents make me "anti-social"? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:47 PM PDT Ok, my parents have always been very strict and now when i am 15 years old, it's really pissing me off.. So, it's holiday, me and my friends like to hang out and stuff, but almost everyday alot of my friends get together at night, to drink and just be together and have fun. And that's where i get left behind.. Not because they don't invite me, but because my parents just won't let me go. Or, they say that i can go, but i'm not allowed to drink anything, i have to be home at ******* 10pm, and i can only go like once a week or less, which is freaking stupid.. So, this is making me sick. Like really. Really ******* sick. I HATE to just sit on my *** inside my room playing computer all alone, but it's the only ******* choice i have. Tomorrow a bunch of my friends, are meeting up at 9pm, i planned to go and hang out with a friend during the day, so we could go and meet up with the others later. So, i tell my parents, and BOOM! I'm not going anyway.. What is my parents problem? Why are they not letting me be together with friends? The worst part is, theres alot of girls, both boys and girls, plus my crush is there, and when they drink she might be together with one of my other friends -_- please help me, i don't wan't to be trapped in my room anymore! |
| Question: I lost all my friends in one day, now what? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:43 PM PDT These people have been my best friends for a long time but jmy two best Friends Bryan and Jake have deserted me, what happened was 3 days ago we threw a party and invited the rest of the people In our group, long story short, I got drunk and tried to kiss one of the girls that was good friends with Jake and now he hates me and Bryan I guess decided he had to choose who to stay with and he chose Jake since he knew him first, they have been hanging out all week without me and neither of them are answering calls or texts and they both blocked me on social media... Now I'm alone and I don't know what to do |
| Question: Should i apologize or leave it? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:41 PM PDT Well basically me friend was talking about my friend in a bad way saying that she doesnt like her squad. And now that friend is saying i shouldve stuck up for her but that girl is my friend aswell and i dont want to loose her? We had a little argument over instegram but thats kinda done now? Well in my instegram bio i wrote 'If you have anything to say about me say it to my face' and now shes saying i should say stuff to her face but i dont know what ive got to say to her face because i tried to apologize to her but she didnt accept it and i just explained to her what my other friend was saying about her now and i dont get why she is getting rude with me now? And I dont know.. I was a bit scared to say that i dont know what ive done. And also i dont know how to stick up for myself for me its a very hard thing to do. Because that girl is like the boss of the class the best of argueing and always being mean to people. And iam a shy person and shes a really loud person and shes always shouting when shes in arguments and if i have an argument with her and she starts shouting i'll just go off crying! So can someone please help me with this and what should i do?? And this girl is my friend she has stuck up for me but now she is not my friend? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:21 PM PDT the moment my best friend introduced his sister and i we were like kindred spirits. she's more laid back and easy going and we have a lot in common. she doesn't take life too seriously she loves going clubbing ect a few weeks ago we would agree to meet up as a group now i just invite her. my best friend is more serious and doesn't understand my "witty humor" which is fine. he doesn't have to change. he got mad at the fact i hung out with his sister at the club this past weekend without inviting him. my only excuse was "i thought you were busy and you probably didn't want to do what we wanted to do" which is true because he doesn't like clubbing or drinking. who's in the wrong? |
| Question: Is it normal to feel jealousy at these scenarios? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:18 PM PDT This might be a bit long but ehh what evs. Here's a quick version of the story of how we met. So the thing is that I kinda "clicked" with a guy from my school, meaning that I already knew him a bit cuz' of school but never started to hang out with him, we started hanging together right after my birthday party and yeah.. we're in my opinion pretty close cuz' he trust me enough to tell me if something's wrong etc. but here's the thing.. I'm not sure about his perspective, am I just another friend to him or am I more like a bestfreind etc.? I tend to get attached to ppl easily cuz I don't have a lot of friends, and I'd like to have some so I won't go mad lolz....I'm not denying that it's not a good thing but.. I can't help myself.. Like today we went out with some friends.. and then they started talking about something I was outside of (so to speak), and I noticed that I automatically started clinching my jaw, or grinding my teeth together, I knew at that moment I felt jealousy but also a bit of anger.. It's wrong on so many levels cuz'... I don't own the guy, but he's just too good of a friend for me that.. ehh help.. Oh and sorry for this "Novel".. just need some opinions on the topic.. |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:03 PM PDT I got my supposed friend a gift for his birthday. I gave the mug to Joe because I knew he sees Tom everyday and I don't . I saw tom a few times after he got the gift and he never thanked me for the mug till I confronted him. Here's his excuse I was going through some personal stuff with my family but I am not going to get into it. Then he briefly mentions he sister called to tell him some family member is sick Going through some stuff but not going to get into it? I am Ryan |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:58 AM PDT Do you think I am fair? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT Am I a bad person for stopping contact completely with a friend not making any effort simply because I no longer want them in my life, even though they were one of my close friends, I am putting me first as they were suddenly "outgoing" and asking me to come out all the time. There were also certain picky things that annoyed me e.g. he was too smug. Whereas I hate going out and will only go out every so often. It got too much for me as I couldn't see my best friend at the same time as this guy, as they did not get on well with each other and I am too busy with work to go out every weekend, but I just stopped contact completely as I thought I would be happier/more relaxed this way. |
| Question: Help with old friend!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:52 AM PDT there was this girl who use to be my best friend. I did something terrible to her. I moved and she and her bf felt like i abandoned them. I haven't talked to ether of them in about a year. and just today after trying to get in contact with them they answered there phone. It was her bf i asked to talk to her she said hi who is it. I told her it was me. She didn't even respond. she just gave the phone back to her bf to tell me to pretty much not contact them again. I feel terrible. I feel like i am a different person then i was back then if only a little. I want to make it up to them but i have no way to do that also taking into account i live an hour away from them now. I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to just forget about them... thanks |
| Question: Why are my ex's friends re adding me on facebook? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:46 AM PDT my ex and i broke over a year ago, i deleted alot of his friends cuz i dont like them...Now last week one of his friends re added me and now today another one of his friends sent me a request, wth?? why?? |
| Question: Do you think the amount of socializing I do is normal? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:33 AM PDT I'm really bored, and sometimes I wonder if I'm just a friendless loser, so what do you think? I text a group of three friends a few times a week, and get together with another group of two every once in a while. I go to tennis a lot during the week, but it's usually only two hours out of twenty four hours, and I'm not the best of friends with anyone there. I mean, it's summer, and I'm out of school, but don't people usually always text their twenty friends and get together with them every day of the summer? What do you think? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:32 AM PDT I don't have my phone because I broke it (it's been 3 months now) and it seems like my friends are doing things and I'am just stuck in a box. I feel like no one likes me and that I'am always left out. I feel like I'am not good enough for any of them anyways because they keep up with the latest fashion trends and do things teen do but I don't have or do any of that. And it seems like in that case for teens in this society over all, they are all the same, especially, at my school. My family doesn't have that kind of money for me to go out with my friends whenever I please. All of them are rich or have money to the point where they can go out whenever they please. You know it seems like everyone already has a best friend but that's not the case with me. I've been lonely and depressed for quite a long time, probably since 7th grade and now I'm going to be in 10th. Sometimes I ask myself "what's wrong with me?" and "why can't I be happy or keep friendships?" I care so much about my friends but it seems like every time I make them, they always want to leave me and go for the more "popular" or "out there" people. It really hurts.... |
| Question: Worst summer so far and I need help!!!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT Ok so my summer just started about 3 weeks ago and so far i have been stuck at home (btw I m 14) my Grandma cancelled the trip she was taking my brother and I to. My mom works Monday-Fridays so I really cant go anywhere my cousin is on a trip. My best friend wont talk to me and my other friends always have other plans and honestly I m not a very social person so I don t have a lot of friends and I m very shy so I m actually like scared to call people that I don t normally talk to. Any ideas because I really don t want to be inside all summer. |
| Question: Is it self centered to plan your own birthday party and invite your friends? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:18 AM PDT I feel it may be too self centered because even if I tell people they don't need to bring a gift, some may still feel like they should and those who do not might feel like they should have done so. I think I will plan some kind of get together that is not on my birthday. |
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