Family: Question: Is my mom overprotective, or am I overreacting? |
- Question: Is my mom overprotective, or am I overreacting?
- Question: My mom says she feels better when she hits me?
- Question: I want my sister to just leave me?
- Question: Quit my sport and be happy? Or play to make my family happy?
- Question: What would you call this.?
- Question: Is it unusual what people are doing with my daughter?
- Question: Is is too late to tell may parents that my teacher molested me 7 years ago?
- Question: Is my dad mean to me or am I just sensitive?
- Question: I am 13 trying to find a job because my big brother passed and I want to help my mom out with the bills?
- Question: I. HATE. MY. LITTLE. SISTER?
- Question: MY MOM WON T LET ME DO MY EYEBROES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: My Mom and I don't get along... at all.?
- Question: Tit for tat? To invite or to not invite?
- Question: How can i get out of doing yardwork?
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- Question: Should I not go to college if I can't afford it?
- Question: My dad is too strict!!?
- Question: Need help with my sister/bonding?
- Question: My mom told me to God damn myself?
- Question: Tell me what you think?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go places?
- Question: Annoying sister or just jealous?
- Question: So about 2 months ago i went to sleepover at my dads back at home i have a system with my brother that every day we each wash the dish s?
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- Question: My dead grandmother came to visit me in my dreams?
- Question: How do I confront my parents about an embarrassing health problem?
- Question: My family is extremely insensitive?
- Question: This is a strange question and I thank you for listening.?
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| Question: Is my mom overprotective, or am I overreacting? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:19 PM PDT Since Summer started, I thought I would have a break from school and have fun... but It seems like my mom keeps putting pressure on me all the time, by being overprotective. She makes me go to bed at 10 PM, no matter what. I thought that wasn t but, but she s also making me do math homework she s giving me. I haven t even gotten anything lower than an A- in any subject this whole year, yet she says I m not putting enough effort into school. If I use any technology for over an hour, she will start yelling and say that I m doing nothing with my life. Now i m going to camp next week, even though I don t want to. I have lots of social anxiety, and I m scared of going. Also, I can t go out alone. If I just want to ride my bike around the neighborhood by myself, she has to follow me. My neighborhood is safe, and a lot of families with kids live here. But she says I ll get kidnapped or something. Even if my friend is over, and we just want to go to the basketball court right near our house, she HAS to follow us and tell us what we can do or not. Maybe I m over reacting, but if not, what can I do? |
| Question: My mom says she feels better when she hits me? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:12 PM PDT My mom says she feels better when she hits me? What is wrong with her? I'm starting to feel that she doesn't have feelings since today she screamed right at my face, when i started crying she went like: WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!? WHY ARE YOU CRYING? I know that she knows i hate it when se screams at my face. Me and my brother live in the same house, yet we never ever talk like we don't even know eachother. My mom will never even try to fix it between us. My dad lives beside us and hes very nice to me, but hes drinks alcohol too much so i can't live with him. What should i do with my mother? Please help, and moving out, telling anyone wont help. |
| Question: I want my sister to just leave me? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:09 PM PDT I have 3 sisters. The first one is 24 the second is 23 and my little sister is 5 . I'm the only boy in the house. My 23 year old sister Deana just won't leave me alone. I'm getting sick and tired of her. I'm 14 and she acts worse than my age.. Shes ornery, she smokes, she's always making the idiotic comments, she's a constant lier , she complains about the smallest things. She cusses and yells at my mom . she fights with my little sister and ands up making her cry. When it comes to me I'm fed up with her , because I'm the one that gets bullied most by her. I don't even have to say a word . But I still fight back . She's my sister. And I don't even love her. I hate her guts. I don't want to hit her . what do I do? |
| Question: Quit my sport and be happy? Or play to make my family happy? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 01:02 PM PDT So I ve been playing football most of my life, and I m about to enter my Junior year, and I just can t stand it. It s not just like I can t deal with the hard practices, the coaches, the teammates, or anything like that. It s simply because I lost the passion for it, and I want to quit. But, the only reason why I haven t quit yet is because I fear the disappointment from my family. My parents have put in so much time and money for football, and I am truly grateful for that, but I m just not happy playing it. I fear that my dad will just get angry with me for being a quitter, I fear that my brothers will just think that I m not a man enough to handle it, and making my grandparents upset because they won t be able to see me play football anymore. I don t know what to do, should I just play through the next 2 years and just deal with the fact that I hate it, and make my family proud? Or should I tell my parents somehow? Thanks for taking the time reading this, and answering. |
| Question: What would you call this.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:59 PM PDT My dad makes me and my brother pick up horse **** and do other hard things with not pay. All day and we never even wanted any of these animals now he s forcing us to clean up after them without pay and if we don t he say he s going to beat our ***. And I would call it slavery. |
| Question: Is it unusual what people are doing with my daughter? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:59 PM PDT My daughter Kathy is a senior in high school and has a lot of difficult homework. She often ask for homework help from anybody that is convenient. For example, I had a ladies club meeting at my house and she ask some of the ladies for homework help. They gladly helped her. When my son had some of his friends over, she ask them for homework help and they helped her and were happy to do it. When her sister's date came to pick her up, Kathy ask him to help her with her homework and he did until her sister was ready to go on her date. What seems so unusual to me is that EVERYONE that helped her told her if she needed more help to call them which she sometimes but not very often did. With all the help she has received she has an A average grade and has a choice of the college she wants to attend. Kathy and I and her dad are very grateful for all the people that have helped her and we have told them so. Do you find it unusual that so many people are willing to give of their time to help someone and do not expect to get paid for their time? It kind of renews my faith in the goodness of people. |
| Question: Is is too late to tell may parents that my teacher molested me 7 years ago? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:59 PM PDT When I was 8 years old and in the third grade my teacher molested me. I don't remember a lot of the details, but I do remember hearing a camera and I am pretty sure he was taking pictures of me with my pants and underwear off. He would always keep me after class and put a ski hat over my face to cover my eyes, then he would make me sit in his lap and start bouncing while still in his lap. He would then make me stand up ,he would pull down my pants and I would hear a camera and I could feel something up against my private areas, being the young naive girl I was I thought it was just his finger, later I would realize that it was not. I am now 15 and have been having nightmares about him where I wake up crying. I know he is now a math teacher and works with students one on one. I am almost 100% positive he sill does stuff with little girls. I need to know if I should tell my parents and how to tell them. Thanks |
| Question: Is my dad mean to me or am I just sensitive? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:58 PM PDT My fathers always provided for me (I'm 15). He's taken us on lovely trips abroad and given me anything I've ever wanted. However, I feel he's a bit mean sometimes. He claims I'm lazy and have psychological issues because I've just finished my exams and it's the summer holidays so I lie in my bed sometimes. He says me, my mum and my sister are all mentally demented. I'm often called an ungrateful ***** for doing tunes on a table with my fingers (he thinks it's rude). He often threatens to leave me. He says I'm stupid because I sometimes pronounce things wrong and I have the sense of a young child. He is always putting me down. The fact that he says I'm lazy made me want to try and do something, so I said I'm doing volunteering at the church for a week this summer and he just scoffed. Nothing I do is right. He also disregards my social anxiety and claims I have problems. He just DOESNT LISTEN to me, I'm sick of it. |
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| Question: I. HATE. MY. LITTLE. SISTER? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:41 PM PDT I hate her. I know the age difference is big, and you'll see me as immature which I don't care because age cannot stop hatred, but she's five and I'm fourteen. She ruined my life. She's adopted. Ever since she came, my parents treat her way better than me- they never spend time with me anymore. It's always about her. My mom used to be nice with me, now she is a lot more mean. My dad spoils her and gets mad at me if SHE is the one BOTHERING /ME/. Sometimes when I come upstairs, she'll attack me randomly and my mom tells ME to go back in the basement. I had a stuffed animal I had since I was eight months old- my Grandpa got it for me when I was a baby before he died of cancer, and today she took it on me and hid it and I couldn't even get it back because my mom said 'You shouldn't have showed her you cared for it.' I've had it since a baby and it has always been in my room- my mom seriously let her take it and hide it. I have violent thoughts with her too. I hate her. I know you think this is 'sibling' rivalry but I don't see her as my sister. I despise her- if I had the chance to get rid of her, I would. Her looking at me pisses me off, talking to me- she does violent stuff to me ALL THE TIME. I TRY to be nice to that little rotten child but she backfires and does something evil. How do I deal with my hatred? I can't live like this. I have some sadist behaviors too and anger issues which doesn't help... Please help. It's not just 'My sister is sooo annoying.' It's hatred. I know I'll get 'she probably senses you hate her.' There was a point I TRIED to be nice and sweet with her but she is just a nuisance either way. I can't love her. I tried- there is no point in trying to be nice to that little **** when she is rotten to the core Get over it? I'm living with it everyday, it's not in the past, it's the past, present and future. I hope something terrible happens to her. Then, I'll get over it. |
| Question: MY MOM WON T LET ME DO MY EYEBROES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????!!!!!!!!!!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:40 PM PDT So I am a 12 year girl and i come from a punjabi/sikh family. When i was 10 i asked my mom and she said no. I asked why and she said that you should study first and get a job then you can do whatever you want. my mom said she got her eyeborws done when she got engaded and that her friend did too! I get my hair from my dad(so i grow hair fast). She also said i was too young. Then i plucked them myself and she and my dad said that that i was young. Then when i was 11 all of my friends some were a year younger than me had there brows done( i could tell) i also have a mustache. Then in grade 5 my 3 friends were wiht my in the music room alone and then all 3 ignored me and one said ohh you need to get you rbrows waxed and thread. Then all 3 started talking how they wore trainging bras, get their brows done and i felt so insacore. Now im 12 going to go to grade 7 and i have man brows and don't wear a trainging bra and not even allwod to wear makeup of any kind. Help me please my parents are strict. p.s does your hair grow back thicker when you shave it that what my mom and dad say. |
| Question: My Mom and I don't get along... at all.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT My mum walked out on me and my dad when I was 11, on one of my last days at primary school. She then tried to gain custody of me by bribing me and tried going to court with my dad. It didn't work, and I haven't spoken to her in around 2-3 years. I saw her when I went to my sisters (as she'd moved near her, a 2 hour drive from my house) and I had to stay at hers for a night. I really didn't like it as she thinks I'm a girly girl and I'm not a super girly girl. Here's the thing. I have 8 half sisters and a half brother, and my mum gave birth to the only ones I talk to. They all want me to talk to her and get along with her but I really don't want to. She ruined my life by trying to pull me out of school, lying to me, getting a child molester boyfriend, attempting to commit suicide for attention andbits driving me iNsANE!! The thing is, I don't miss her per say, I miss HAVING a mum. I've become a lot closer with my friends, but my mum doesn't even know who my friends are. She still things I talk to this girl that I hate! I really feel like she couldn't care less about me as the only thing I've got in two years is a birthday card. For my thirteenth birthday, saying "Yay! You're fourteen!" Am I a bad person for hating my mum? Please, I need help before I physically break down like I have before about it. |
| Question: Tit for tat? To invite or to not invite? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:26 PM PDT So my husband and I are first-time aunt and uncle to my brother's son who just turned 1 last month. We just found out that my brother and his wife had a small birthday party for him. My parents and her parents were there and her brother was there, who is an uncle to my nephew, as well. Well my question is, do my husband and I invite them to our son's birthday party? Our son will be 1 next month. Please don't encourage me to try asking my brother why we weren't invited and I also know my husband and I can be the better people and invite them anyway. But what the heck? We are just chop liver, I guess. We were obviously excluded intentionally. We all live within a few miles of each other. Thanks. Just curious as to your opinions as to whether or not to invite them or to not invite them. |
| Question: How can i get out of doing yardwork? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:22 PM PDT Im 16, male, enjoy playing video games and hanging out with friends. My parents want me doing yardwork and are dissapointed when i get up at 11 and start. What are some ways i could get out of doing yard work? Thanks. |
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| Question: Can't stand my family except for my dad, even tho i'm living next door.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:18 PM PDT The thing is, when my mother or sister or brother starts talking either bad or nice things .. i get the feeling that i want to murder him/her , i have insane hate toward them except for my dad, the reason might be that i used to fight with them all the time when i was in home but its really weird, i really can't stand a word from them and when they start talking, i instantly rage .. its hard to avoid them because somehow i would meet them up for a certain matter and its annoying, any ideas that can help? Also the only reason that keeps me close to them is my father, i love him so much and i can't spend all my day without talking to him even for few mints .. i guess its the only connection for me in that house. |
| Question: Should I not go to college if I can't afford it? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:17 PM PDT I want to go to college and major in film acting but I'm afraid that my parents might not pay for it. My mom gets mad at things like me not wanting to eat what she wants me to eat and she threatened through my high school years to take me out of a private school to public. My dad makes a lot of money but he's cheap. He moved us into apartments because they raised the rent, he was making a lot of money which doesn't make sense. He's making money but he rather put us in apartments where my brother doesn't have a room in. Now my parents are getting separated and my mom keeps saying she only payed my high school tuition, while my dad says he's been paying it to. I don't feel like going to college missing Thanksgiving or something then have them say they're going to take me out of school if I don't come home even though I wouldn't be able to come home often because the college I was accepted to is in NYC. Even with the financial aid I'm afraid my dad'll say it's too expensive. My brother went to college but he had a soccer scholarship and financial aid and he went to a college he didn't want to go to that was only an hour away so my dad was happy I want to know if I should go to college and not worry about my parents backing out or making threats to back out that scare me? Or should I just try to go straight into acting and move away I have enough money for an apartment in NYC and I rather not stay with my parents which was a reason I was so excited about being away from them |
| Question: My dad is too strict!!? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:17 PM PDT I'm a 14yr old Muslim girl and although I love my religion my dad often makes me hate it. My brothers are allowed to go anywhere and I'm expected to not leave the house unless a relative or an adult is with me. I am a literal prisoner and when I say it's just cos I'm a girl they laugh it off!! I have self harmed and punched walls cos of how much my parents piss me off especially my dad. I just sometimes need to breath without anyone always looking into my business and I just want to be alone but my parents genuinely believe I cannot leave. I wear a hijab an everything and I understand Islam says woman have to be protected but I can't live like this. This is not protection it's just hurting me. |
| Question: Need help with my sister/bonding? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:12 PM PDT I need help bonding with my older sister. I'm 15, and she's 21. I look up to her in so many ways, and I would love to have a healthy relationship with my sister. We don't have a relationship at all. The only time we talk to each other is when we ask where our mother is. I've tried being interested in things she is, and i'll ask her what she's doing and stuff but she always pushes me away. She's depressed, and has anxiety just like me. We're a lot alike. I just wish we were close. |
| Question: My mom told me to God damn myself? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:08 PM PDT Is this over the top rude for a parent? Should I apologize? All I did was ask a question. I've never sworn at my parents before and I am shocked that my mother would say that. Keep in mind I only asked a question when she was stressed its not like I was doing drugs or harming anybody. I'm 18 by the way. |
| Question: Tell me what you think? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:08 PM PDT So me and my brother have this alternating dishes system i do it monday him tuesday me wednesday etc. so about 2 months ago i went over my fathers alone and he washed the dishes for me while i was gone for a whole week when i returned my mother told me i have to wash it for a week i told her actualy i only have to wash it for 4 days because either way those other 3 days of the week would have counted as his if i was home or not cause we alternate she disagreed and i had to wash the dishes for a week so recently my brother left to a friends for a week and while he was gone my sister did me a favor of doing the dishes every day it was my brothers turn so he returned and i said he has to do the dishes for 3 days even though those three days were my days and my sister says he doesnt have to do anything since she did all his days but i said no thats not fair mom made me wash the dishes for a week even when some of those days were his so now he has to do it three days and then we go back to alternating what do you guys think do you think he should do the dishes for three days and then we return to alternating or do you think he shouldnt have to do any dishes since my sister did all his days for him??? |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go places? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:02 PM PDT I'm 16 and live in SATX, and I want to go to Austin with my best friends (they trust them very much). I wouldn't be driving, and it's an hour and 30 minutes away. How do I convince them if there's no parents going? |
| Question: Annoying sister or just jealous? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 12:01 PM PDT So I am 14 to 15 and I have a sister that is 30. She is very annoying and she treats me like a little child and always embarasses me in front of my friends. Then she always complains on how weird and insane I am for no reason. One day my crush came to my house and she came in the room out of nowhere and started asking him stuff and couldn't just leave us alone so nothing happened between us because of her -.- The other day she threw out all of my bras because the said I didn't need those (I wear a C/D cup and she wears A cups) My parents always find excuses for her and always give her money because she doesn't move her lazy a$$ to go work while I barely have clothes. Now I wanted to dye my hair a red ombré and she started complaining how "ew" it is and my mom agreed with her and now won't let me dye them! Also I message my friends and I tell my mum I am gonna hang out with "Kate and Laura" and she says "who are those? You always have friends that we don't know! Are they imaginary or sth?" I am sick of her, she is so retarded, she will be 31 in a onth shouldn't she go live by her house and work or start a family?? I am 14 and she always judges me on my music taste, body, skin, opinions like wtf? How can I deal with her ? I can't .. Thank you very much in advance, any answer even based on experiences or not or even a few tips will be helpful.. |
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| Question: Is it wrong to love your stepmom more than your mother?? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:57 AM PDT It's about a year that my dad married my stepmom. She is 29 and I really love her. We have a lot of fun together and we spend most of the time with each other. She is so kind, so lovely, so sweet and of course so attractive. She never talks about my mother. But my mother is so jealous of my stepmom, she always yells at me and I have awful days with her. I don't want to see my mother anymore. Is it wrong!??? If not how should I tell my mother???? Or should I talk to my stepmom???? |
| Question: I'm stuck in a metaphorical time loop, how do I break the cycle? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:54 AM PDT Monday:Do nothing Tuesday:Go to bank to pay bills Wednesday: Go to the city, Go to a bar in my town, both with my friend Thursday:Do nothing Friday: Brother visits Saturday: Lunch with family, Stay in do nothing/Go to a bar and be bored Sunday: Brother visits this has been my life for four years on repeat |
| Question: Is the last name "Mapurunga" weird? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:37 AM PDT |
| Question: I am embarrassed, my parents might start using food stamps? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:29 AM PDT My dad lost his job and can t work at the moment because of a surgery he had and my mom still works, but she makes less than $20,000 a year, and well I m in college at the moment and definitely have applied for financial aid. And to make matters worse, I m Mexican so people are going to look down upon us and call us lazy. How do I deal with this? |
| Question: My dead grandmother came to visit me in my dreams? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:27 AM PDT Okay so I was alone in my house with only my brother and me. There suddenly was a knock on my door. I went to go see who is was, there was nobody. I went back to room and told my brother about it. We suddenly heard another knock again, and I told my brother to go open it. He came back a minute later saying that nobody was there. I just sat on my bed confused until guess what?? My dead grandma walk through my bedroom door! She was glowing! Compared to me as I was color dulled. I was surprised and not even scared! I was confused too so I looked at my brother like "Isn't she dead?" How? She told me to go put on my shoes were going out. I did and I think we went to go eat pizza. I remember having fun and laughing with her. Then out of nowhere my dad sat next to me. (My dad is the son of my dead grandma) I asked him "Daddy did you know that grandma is here" I asked with excitement. He responded with "Yeah I know she came to visit, I gave her permission" I was like okay. Then the night was finally over and my grandma slowing disspeared. What does this dream mean???? |
| Question: How do I confront my parents about an embarrassing health problem? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:22 AM PDT Without going into specifics, I have a health problem with my penis. It appears to be infected as it is releasing blood, and it hurts like hell. I'm 19 years old, so I'm neither a child nor an adult. I've had this problem for 3 days, and at first I wanted to keep silent hoping that it would go away on its own, but now it has spread and it's far worse than before. I really don't know how to tell my parents. Me and my dad aren't really close (we barely talk), so it's not like we can have that man-to-man ''talk''. I'm closer to my mom as I tell her pretty much everything, but this is on a whole other level and I don't feel comfortable with telling her about it. How should I proceed? How do I tell them? (preferably my mom). Do I just go to her and tell her ''Hey, something's wrong with my penis''? lol. I can't go to the doctor because I have no money for the scheduling or the possible treatment. The reason why I want to tell them is because I want THEM to take me to the doctor. |
| Question: My family is extremely insensitive? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT Throughout the years they've mocked me for everything. Just recently me and mum were sorting things out and I got emotional. My brother who btw is 22 years old laughed. This is just a typical scenario. My mum doesn't care if I'm upset at something, she'll just find a way to blame me for it. They're all really cold-hearted. When I move out I want to find a guy that at least cares about my feelings and start a family where everyone respects each other enough. Is this possible? Has anyone started a family and molded into one that is very considerate and respectful? |
| Question: This is a strange question and I thank you for listening.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:17 AM PDT Since I was a kid, I always felt that my mom became very angry at me when she was with my cousin (who is almost my age) or she would get very angry when my cousin did not defend her or to this day whenever I say something bad about my cousin, she gets very upset. I know my mother took care of her when my cousin was little, but it was just sometimes, like normal people do.I have aunts that also took care of me sometimes (ex:my mother went to the cinema or something). I just dont understand why one bad word cant be spoken about this cousin of mine (she is a girl) and now I am thinking, is it possible that she is her daughter? I dont know...this sounds so crazy and soap tv , but i just dont understand her reaction, since she treats her like she is bordeline saint, at this point i wanna take a hair from my cousin brush when i am at her house and my mother brush and make a test, cause since i was a kid i found this weird.I am being over sensitive? This is important to me Thank you for your help and answes and sorry for my english is it possible that she is her daughter? |
| Question: Should I just move away from my family and never see them again? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:55 AM PDT I'm 19 and living with my sister. My whole family doesn't appreciate me and I can't handle anymore verbal abuse from them. It's gotten so bad till the point where I just want to pay off everything they did for me and move to a different state without telling anyone where I'll be going and never see them ever again. The sad part is that I could actually see myself being happy for once by doing this. Am I wrong for thinking this way? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:53 AM PDT So, he doesnt really do much, the closest we have gotten to hanging out without one of us ditching each other was at his pool party thing... and even then , I still had to leave early because of a party thing me and my stepfamily threw for my dad, and he didn't even show up for another hour and a half... but anyways... How d oI get him to want to hang out with me more? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:52 AM PDT Sometimes I ask my mom why she never took me to the zoo or an amusement park or why she never bought me books to read (amongst other things that kids are into) when I was a kid. She says it's because I never asked for those things. I feel like the parent should be the one to try and get their kids to experience new things. I'll admit that I didn't think to ask for those things and it's partly my fault. So, what is your opinion on this? Please keep in mind that I am not angry over this and I don't give my mom a hard time over it. So please don't respond with how horrible I'm being to her. It's not like that all. And I'd also appreciate real answers and not just one or two word responses. Thank you! :) |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:48 AM PDT I m turning 21 this year. I go to University. And my parents are so unreasonable. I am not allowed to go out to any of my friends birthday parties, or alone to the mall with friends, unless its a cousin and my mom can pick and drop me off. I haven t been able to go for my drivers test because they think i "need more practice". Bear in mind i ve been taking driving lessons for a year now and am very good, they just don t want me to independent in any way...Ive tried so much to reason with them but they just do not understand. My mom just says finish your studies, get married (to a guy she chooses) then you can have a job and do whatever you want. Because of these restrictions i have no social life, i have to lie and use the library as an excuse to just go for lunch. I had to break up with my boyfriend and just be friends since i could almost never spend time with him. I feel trapped in my house and honestly so suicidal at times. I feel so dependant on my parents and all my friends who are 20 seem to have some interdependency and accomplishments and i dont think i can handle this anymore. Am i overeacting or is it normal for me to be feeling this way???? :( - Sorry for all the grammer errors, i was crying since i tried to talk to my mom and she told me to shut up and get my face away from sight. lol....im so rebellious. asking for a freaking job. |
| Question: Is it ok for a parent to slap their kid? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:47 AM PDT I'm 13 and I told my dad to shut up because he was being really mean, then he slapped me across the face. Also when my mom gets really mad, she will hit me, not in the face but it still hurts. Is this ok? |
| Question: Issues with my father.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:46 AM PDT My father is homophobic & that's a big problem for me. I've got friends & business partners who are gay,lesbian etc. my father is a Christian & it those views that made me agnostic. My dad is even trying to steal my ideas so he can make money off of them. They're all copyrighted, trademarked etc so he can't do **** but he acts like a spoiled toddler. Growing up it was like he was my brother & not father, but now it's as if he were my son. I work at a talent agency & every rapper I manage he believes is a gangster or criminal of some sort which I think is racism. He's my dad I don't know if I can disown him, he's in his '60s. He & my mom live in my house & my mom is actually pretty reasonable & can control her behavior. I'm not that old I'm in my early 20's. I don't know what to do. I love him but he's so blind. He ate so much junk food that I threw away all of his snacks so all he had to choose from was healthy. He'd try to sneak in mcdonalds, Cheetos etc. He claimed it was for winter fat but we live in California |
| Question: Do I have a chance getting joint custody of my son? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:35 AM PDT Long story short, my son, who is now 2 (almost 3) was conceived through a one night stand. I didn t know he even existed until the mother told me about him 6 months after he was born. I stepped up immediately to take care of my son and even tried to make it work with her, she didn t want to have a relationship with me. Background information: 1. I'm a Plumber with a full-time job. 2. She is a policewoman who works in the family court. Since the beginning, we decided on this: - I paid half for his daycare - Gave her a set amount of money every week BUT in the beginning, I would have to ask to see my son and she wouldn't let me have him overnight. Now, she let's me have him overnight, but only for 2 days a week. Recently, she comes to me asking for more money a week, because she can't afford her car insurance and mortgage...why? not sure, she makes more money than me! But I give into her because my son lives with her most of the time. More recently, she asks for more money. Questioning her about this because now I can barely afford to give her more money, I agree to give her more money IF I can have my son more than 2 days a week. She says no and in fact says that she wants me to have him less...LESS! I don't know what I am doing wrong and have never done anything malicious to her, I don't understand! Since our disagreement, we are going to court. She is seeking full custody, I want joint. No reason to take him completely from his mother, but at the same time why is she trying to achieve that by taking him from me? Even worse, she works at the family court and knows everyone there and may even succeed. What should I do? I have saved all communications from her regarding the money that's she requested over the past few months, I love my son to death and have never hurt or mistreated him (or her!), work full time and have my own apartment. |
| Question: I'm 14 and my mom walked in on me showering? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:24 AM PDT She walked in without knocking and told me to give my baby brother a bath because she had to go to work. And I was covering up my penis so she couldn't see it because I don't like people seeing my nudity unless i have to or my future Girlfriend when i'm older. And then she said "I don't know why u are so scared of me seeing u naked i saw u naked thousands of times when u were a baby" then I said " because I'm not a baby anymore" and then she said " I have got to go bye love you" I have a pretty close relationship with my mom but i do not appreciate her walking in on my like that. And the only reason why I didn't have the door locked is because if I slip and break a leg or something I wouldn't be able to get up. How do I tell her to stop walking on me when i'm showering? If i tell her will she stop? And please no criticism answers. Thank you |
| Question: So angry at my sister? Is my anger justified? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:23 AM PDT Ok so this Sunday I came back from church with my family (my sister was at work). Laying in the garage were the pair of Vans I had. Completely covered in grass with some tiny holes in it that hadn't been there, and the rubber that lined the shoe was sticking out. My sister completely trashed my shoes. My sister is 19 an adult (she's home from college for the summer) I'm 14. She had worn my shoes instead of her endless collection of shoes to mow the lawn in the wet grass, as it had recently rained. I only assume because she didn't want to mess up one of hers because she's a materialistic b*tch. Need I remind you I only have TWO pairs of casual sneakers, so I freaked out and told my mom. I didn't even yell at her when she came back because I'm a passive aggressive person. I just calmly told her she had to buy me a new pair. She didn't say anything. She didn't even apologize. Now fast forward to today my mom told my sister to clean of my shoes and my mom also told her she had to buy me new ones. But my sister was like "No I'm not" "I'm not going to." In my head I was trying REALLY hard to control my anger. So after that encounter, I left a note under her door that read "If you don't buy me a new pair I'm messing up one of yours." And I honestly will because they're is no reason an ADULT should get away with something like that. So I want to know am I wrong for being so angry!??? |
| Question: Am I right to refuse to work for my dad? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:16 AM PDT So I'm what you would call a deadbeat, don't have a job nor looking for one currently. So my parents thought I should help my dad (handyman) He usually has my brother help him out as he has experience and only asks me to help with cleaning up which requires no skill. I have no problem helping him out with clean up. Problem is my brother has gone to visit family down south so my mom has thought I should take his place for the time being. As I have said I have no problem cleaning up but my mom insist I help out with other things that my bro would normally do. I don't want my dad to be blamed if I do something wrong and the client complains. So am I right to refuse to help with things other than cleaning? Or am I just being lazy? |
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| Question: Should I feel guilty? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:10 AM PDT My grandpa is 78. Me and him play a lot. And we are best friends. However we get into fights a lot. And usually my mom has to break it up. Sometimes he starts it sometimes I start it. He gets really mad. And my mom starts talking to me about how important it is to not make him mad. Because he is older aged now and his heart could stop. And she said when he dies I won't have a happy life because those fights made him live less. And caused his health to decline. Please tell if I should feel guilty when he dies. Ps they are verbal fights. He has them a lot with my grandma to. He's my best friend. Should I feel at fault when he dies. Please tell me I'm really upset. I now know that I should have been smarter to drop the fights. Also, my mom told me this 2 years ago and last night it got really stuck in my head last night and worried me. Thanks. |
| Question: Who aged to be the third guy? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:07 AM PDT Sorry for the weird lighting. Dont judge based on skin color because it got messed up |
| Question: Do other women agree that this is assault and is ethically wrong? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:59 AM PDT I've asked this question of men, now I would like to hear from other women. I was recently reading a study which stated that in the years 2000-2010, some 127 men (and a few boys) were permanently injured as a result of trying sexual activities with animals. In all of these cases, the male either had part or all of his penis bitten off, and sometimes his testicles as well. Do you think that in these cases that what the man were doing should be considered a form of sexual assault? I'm not saying they should be charged with rape, but do you see it is a form of sexual assault and that is morally or ethically wrong? In some way, do you think the men deserved what happened to them (penis bitten off) for forcing such acts on animals? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:51 AM PDT I really need help I have no idea what to do |
| Question: Do you think I did the right thing, for hitting my sister? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:47 AM PDT Im 14 my sister is 16 I have always hated her, because since I was a kid, her only goal was to abuse me, and thats it, anyway she could. She does it everyday, and what makes it better than having 0 support or control. My mom never cares when my sister makes a joke of me or yells at me, when I defend myself my mom makes a joke of me and laughs and acts like Im an *** . This has been getting to me forever, and just now, I had another conflict with her, where " again " she was making fun of me and something I did, she started being rude to me as usual, so I got really frustrated because no one was helping me, all my siblings were ignoring me, and my mom was acting like I was wrong, that moment I felt out of control, and I took a pillow and smacked her. She is still laughing with my mom down stairs, I am so pissed, I still dont feel good. Please help |
| Question: The lock on my door has been dented ? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:39 AM PDT If you have seen my other questions there mainly about someone breaking in because im terrified . I'm up all night so no one can break in and so no one can try . But now my lock has been dented . It was never like this then one day my sister same home at 6 am . She said it has been dented since then . Did someone try to break in and couldn't and dented it ? That what my sister and aunt were thinking . But they also thought our neighbor was drunk or didn't realize that they were at the wrong door trying to force their key in and accidently dented it . But i'm still terrified . What if someone did try to break in ? If someone did try to break in the dent happened at night . My mom's room is the first one so i'm afriad someone would go cor my mother . I'm very terrified someone tried to break in so terrified i rarely sleep because i think they will try again . ( So sorry for the long explination ) |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:23 AM PDT I don't have any real best friends anymore because I thought he was annoying and I ignored and lost him. I go to a school that's a town over and grew up with kids I know. I live in a house with an verbally abusive father and a alcoholic. I have 3 sisters one of them my dad hates and puts his anger in her towards us and usually throws a pot when he gets mad. I can't play football because no one can drive me if anything. I failed two regents and passed the class and my dad thinks I'm stupid and I failed the class. My parents don't want me to go to a community college because it's for retards who don't care about life and my said that he will throw my stuff out the window if I even go there. I'm a little shy but I can't fight it. I have so much **** I deal with,like personal and lonely issues and I stress so much that I started gaining this twitch for a while and won't go away. I'm 16 turning 17 this month. What do I do???? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:14 AM PDT So i've been dealing with this for the past few years and I'm getting tired of it. So I'm only 10, and my parents really don't care about me. First of all, Im a grade a student, though i barely get anything i asked for on my birthday. All i usually get is clothes and my dad's old Batman Robin, etc. toys when he was child, this also includes christmas. Also i do many chores like do the dishes, set up the table, clean up the house and my room, and clean up the house sometimes. And if i did that for a whole entire week, i would get $3. Also i have a 5 year old sister who hits me and spits on me and tells on me for nothing, and if i would tell my parents to stop her they would get mad. And i tell her to stop and she doesn't. What should i do? I only have $231 and an iPhone 5s, and a windows 8 computer... Should i grab a bag pack up all of my stuff and go?````` |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:08 AM PDT I'm stuck in a very bad situation, which has caused me to lose appetite and i've been sleeping so much, my stomach is burning and hurting me and i feel so dead... I am a US citizen and i wana go back (been living abroad for a long time) Im 21 and i have no money and no job (parents never let me get one) And i have finished around a semester in university So my university is costy, but its one of the only 2 universities here which are accredited in the united states , and i plan to go back there, the other one is costy too I have gotten all the loans i can possibly receive along with financial aid, but apparently that is still not enough for my parents who btw would rather spend their money on luxurious things So they can spend it on whatever they want, but the thing is i need to go back to the states so that i can enter community college for 2 years and work to save up some money for a good univeristy there, over here such things arent possible But my parents and specifically dad wont let me go, and like i said i have no money.... So what am i advised to do? I cant afford a plane ticket or a place to stay....how can i do this on my own? |
| Question: How can I get rid of a feeling I have for a girl I like but don't know? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:52 AM PDT All my life I've been serious with training. Never had a girlfriend though in my entire life but my friends have no trouble lol. However, soon after I joined this club a year and a half ago, I saw these two gorgeous extraverted girls. Thy were friends. However I had my eye on the one. Noticed her a few times innocently not staring like a creep. One day she came up to me to ask an obvious question if some water bottle belonged to her or me. It was a machine away from me as I was stretching. She was giggling and she was the most beautiful face I've ever seen along with the perfect body. She early 20's. I still like girls like that. Early 20's youn and beautiful and redhead. My type. I'm 33. I. just shook my head no and continued to stretch. I'm in my own world much of the time. The next day I'm walking toward the building and she walking out and we walk past each other and I can see in the corner of my eye she glanced at me looking irritated. She might be pissed at me and that scares me. She might be creeped. All this time I never said anything to this woman and yet she still kinda glances at me and they seem more aggressive. I feel like I creeped her out so I go out my way to avoid her. I'm all casual with the other hot girls there but this girl makes me all awkward. I gave up trying to date at 27 or so. This girl however made me curious again. I don't want to be curious anymore. I just noticed her. Didn't want her to speak to me. This is scary stuff. |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:51 AM PDT i never had the things other kids had i never got to get braces and i had a good gap except for math they didn't want to get me math tutor so i never got to go to a good university then in 11th grade i had a mental break down i couldn't take it anymore i had to be hospitalized b/c i was having paranoid delusions till this day i resent my parents is that normal AND ACCEPTABLE AND REASONABLE TO resent them ? they shouldn't have had kids if they couldn't give them a good life don't u think |
| Question: Why won't my parents get me an iPhone? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:43 AM PDT I've been doing well in school. I scored a 35 on my ACT. I scored all 4s and 5s on my AP tests. Yet, they still tell me to wait for one more year (end of junior year.) I understand they have their own rules and standards, but it's getting a bit annoying. Annoying trashy spoiled brats who fail all their classes still get iPhones. And here I am, working my butt off, and they still refuse to get me one. I have tried so hard, done a lot to please them, and they still won't get me one right now. And EVERYONE around me has one. They claim that it's "too distracting," something which sounds like a crappy excuse to me. I have an Android smartphone already, so I'm not going to be any more distracted than I am now (which isn't much.) Why can't they just trust me? I even told them I'd get a job and earn the money myself to buy one, but they just laughed that idea off. What do I do?! |
| Question: Can a step dad take her step daughters phone if her dad pays the bills.? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:42 AM PDT I ask this because lately my girlfriends step dad and mkm have been taking her phone for no reason at all. This doesn't seem right to me because her dad pays the phone bill and provides her with the phone. So it seems like its not the stepdad nor moms place to decide what's down with the phone. It seems like it should be against some sort of law if the mom and step dad aren't involved in the financial decision of the phone. Thoughts? |
| Question: How to control the anger? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:32 AM PDT everyday i am determined to be nice to my siblings but i noticed i get ticked off with every little mistake they do. i cant stop myself from yelling at them or threatening to tell my mother that they are not being that good. i don't intend to be mean but i end up being a jerk. i feel i took that side of me from my mom. who was raised by strict people which i feel is passing on. how do i not become the worst sister ever? |
| Question: I don't feel sad that my grandfather died 3 years ago? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:32 AM PDT I'm 19, and my grandfather died to cancer in late 2012, and I don't feel much about it. I remember I used to like him a lot as a child, but after my grandmother (his wife) passed away in 2002, it's like he died with her. He moved in with us, and he would spend his days sitting on the kitchen sofa, sometimes silent, sometimes complaining, and very rarely making a joke or taking part in a conversation.. However, he liked me a lot. He always wanted me to keep his (well, his and my grandmother's) house and car and he never let my parents use them for anything because he wanted me to be the one to keep them. Every time I went abroad or out of the city, he would cry and hug me and beg me to stay. So it's very hard for me to look back at all that and still not feel particularly sad about his death. Anyways, whenever I tell people that I'm keeping my grandfather's car, they always assume we had a good relationship, but we didn't, and I feel bad because of that. He would sit in the couch all day, I'd come in, eat, get out. We barely ever talked, and when we did was when we were having a dumb argument for some reason. Is there anything wrong with the fact that I don't particularly miss my grandfather, but I feel bad about that lack of emotion? It's been hunting me for almost 3 years every time I think about this, especially now that I'm considering starting driving his car. |
| Question: Why is this such a double standard? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 08:30 AM PDT so theres a friend of mine who i go to school with. after i get a grade for a test, EVERY single test, my parents are always like "so what did -------- get?" which im fine with. HOWEVER, this friend just got an iphone 6. when i asked my parents for one too, they immediately responded saying, "every parent is different. stop comparing." how then, is it fair for them to compare me with her in academics, yet i am not even allowed to compare what her parents buy for her with what my parents buy for me? this seems so unfair to me. if they are going to compare me with her for everything, is it such a gross crime for me to compare her parents with my parents? btw, its not a financial thing. my parents both have high-paying jobs and THEY HAVE IPHONES THEMSELVES!!! and also, my friend does just the same, if not worse than me, in academics. |
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