Family: Question: I need opinions!!? |
- Question: I need opinions!!?
- Question: Parents got me the wrong thing for birthday and I don t know what to do?
- Question: If homosexuality isn't biological then where does it originate? Like does it come from broken homes or just is what it is?
- Question: I like that my parents aren't around? Weird or not?
- Question: How to answer back against my dad without upsetting my mom?
- Question: My wifes sister is blackmailing me !!!?
- Question: So I was picking on my brother and my dad started chasing me. So I ran outside and he chased me but I was took quick. I snuck upstairs. Help?
- Question: Why am I treated this way by my mother?
- Question: How to tell my dad i dont want to go camping with him this weekend?
- Question: How can I find my father?
- Question: My parents only care about my siblings but not me.?
- Question: What's the best way to tell your kid that he's unloved and unwanted?
- Question: What did my grandparents mean when they told me that "I look good enough to eat?"?
- Question: Help should i give my 5 year old son to his father for sometime!?
- Question: Is my mom very unreasonable?
- Question: My mother doesn't seem to keep anything private between us?
- Question: I'm being asked to move out by my parents and I don't know how to start or what to do?
- Question: I cant raise my son anymore he is 5 is father doesn't give a **** and I got primary sole custody?
- Question: I want to get something special for my brother?
- Question: How can I try to talk to my mom about how she makes me feel?
- Question: Do you think my boyfriend is doing the right thing?
- Question: I am feeling so sad and unhappy. What should I do about this?
- Question: My oldest son hasn't adjusted to our new place of residence, Should I consider moving?
- Question: I hate my Dad so much...please help me? TEN POINTS?
- Question: Can I get my dad arrested for being mad that I got naked in school?
- Question: My sister is in trouble.. help please?
- Question: Mother's abusing boyfriend?
- Question: Why did my cousin greet everyone but me?
- Question: Please help me with this concert problem? Im begging you.?
- Question: My mom won't let me make any decisions?
- Question: How can I make this problem more easier for me? How to make friends in college even if I don't like wearing girly stuff?
- Question: Should I remain estranged from my parents?
- Question: I think my parents might get a divorce?
- Question: My father calls me a disappointment?
- Question: Husband wants princess themed birthday?
- Question: Stressed from my Autistic Brother?
- Question: Ever since I was 16 my parents keep taking all my money from me?
- Question: Are my parents ripping me off?
- Question: I have bed bugs and...?
- Question: Don't you think this is weird ?
- Question: What Do I do!!??!!?
- Question: Should i commit suicide? I'm 15 and I don't want to hurt my parents because I love them but I've waited too long?
- Question: Father asks for money to return my phone?
- Question: Dealing with suicide and not having a dad because of it?
- Question: How to deal with a functioning alcoholic father?
- Question: Help my mom got lost in Mexico?
- Question: Adt security?
- Question: Dad threatened to give up on me?
- Question: How do you feel about surprise visits from inlaws?
- Question: My dad only spends money on himself?
- Question: I found out my dad is gay?
- Question: I'm leaving her and taking the kid will I win?
- Question: I keep having dreams of my dog please help!!?
- Question: I hate my dad so much?
- Question: Overprotective parents: please help me out?
- Question: What is the brother of death?
- Question: Why is my dad so childish sometimes?
- Question: How to deal with a judgmental parent (when it is none of her business)?
- Question: My brother is making my life very difficult need advice?
- Question: Teen mom help! ASAP?
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:48 PM PDT |
Question: Parents got me the wrong thing for birthday and I don t know what to do? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:46 PM PDT Long story short I m getting a PC for my birthday. I m also getting a new keyboard, monitor, and mouse with it. I was walking around my house and my brother pointed out an unopened box of a Microsoft keyboard and mouse. It looked like a keyboard I just won t be able to use at all. My birthday is in 8 days and I m afraid that they ll get the wrong things for the PC also since they got the wrong thing for the keyboard. If they get the wrong things for the PC build they could be wasting a lot of money. What do I do about the keyboard and mouse? They look like something I wouldn t be able to use a bit without getting annoyed. |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:44 PM PDT I recently have done some research on homosexuality, you know with all the media attention lately it peaked my interest. I noticed that all my gay friends, family and acquaintances come from broken families or have had some sort of abuse or rejection in their lives. My cousin for example lived with her father, my uncle, and every other weekend she would visit her mother who didn't have custody of her and who was a druggy. one day she got in so much trouble by her dad for having her boyfriend over, the cops ended up getting involved and she ended up having to live with her mother. her mother often would have her boy friends over who would abuse my cousin and her siblings. half of her siblings now are either on drugs themselves, violent and in her case gay. She wasn't the only one, i used to date this girl who swore she loved me since we were little. She was younger then me though and when we did finally date it didn't work out but we separated without too much dispute. She later ended up living with her mother because her mother fought her father to get custody of her. Her mother was the same way as my cousins mom, she drank a lot and always had boyfriends over. she often would be home by her self for days while her mother was out doing who knows what. Then finally one of my friends. He grew up without a father and when he finally got to know his father they didn't hit it off well. his father died, his mother babied him. Now hes gay. been that way for 15 or more years. |
Question: I like that my parents aren't around? Weird or not? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT Before I get hater comments, I'll say that I've never done drugs or tried drinking beer, because I've had people in my family get extremely sick and even die from that stuff, so I've never touched it. My mom and dad both works from 3pm - 11pm. My grandpa stays with me after school and overnight, but he's always in his room. It sounds lonely I guess but I LOVE it so much. I get to have my own time to do what I want. I don't break things or even stay out late BTW so I'm not acting crazy...I just like having time by myself and with friends (my neighbors, who drive me home after school; I stay until 5 for afterschool stuff). So am I weird? I honestly don't miss them at all. And I get lots of time with them on the weekends anyway. @Mircat Some kids told me I was weird. |
Question: How to answer back against my dad without upsetting my mom? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT Basically every time my dad shouts at me my mom is by some chance in the same room and so because 1000 times before she has begged me not to be like my sister and answer back, but now it's ridiculous and he needs to be put in his place. |
Question: My wifes sister is blackmailing me !!!? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT we ****** a while back and she hates her sister now so she said she will tell her if i dont buy her a car !!! what do i do i have 8 kids not a ******* toyota corola this crazy ***** said 60k mustang |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:33 PM PDT He likes to hit me with his hand or a broom handle when he gets mad so I snuck up into my room before he got back. Now he's cursing and calling me no good and its going on an hour. My mom is down there with him and so are my brother and sisters. He's saying bad things about me. I know that's how he always feels. I'm glad I heard it. Now I want to leave for sure. I'm 14 my brother is 12 and my sisters are 11 and 10. We live in the country away from everyone for like a mile. Should I run away for real and not come back? He's really mad. But my bro and I always are fighting. |
Question: Why am I treated this way by my mother? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:30 PM PDT I am 15 years old I have always been a honor student. My mom told me since I was just a small child "My mom didn't attend any of my awards days im not attending yours that goes for your softball games as well". Time goes by and the only person there for me is my grandma and grandpa attending my awards day, moms brunch, dads brunch, and grandparents day. There for it all. Meanwhile my mom called me names when I was 89 pounds an 13 years old she calling me fat, big mommas house im fat just like my grandma Im worthless stupid ugly and everything but a child of God. Just last year she drag me out of my bed on a school night by my hair and beats the crap out of me cause me slut whore stupid ugly etc. She says I need to go to the gym with her cause im fat. I still have endless nights of crying myself to sleep waking up to nothing but pain. When i stay with my grandparents i feel loved i feel free I don't feel like killing myself i feel like i belong. My mom also has a boyfriend that sells things not good things if you know what i mean and i also have two smaller brothers one is 12 the other is 6 she doesn't treat them the way she does me but i don't know what i should do im only 15 i want to live with my grandparents but by law my mom can make me come home. PLEASE HELP! |
Question: How to tell my dad i dont want to go camping with him this weekend? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:22 PM PDT im 14 and my parents have been divorced since febuary so newly divorced and this weekend is my dads weekend. and my dad wants to take me and my brother who is 11 camping 3 hours north in wisconsin. i have a 3 year old bro who is almost 4 but my parents decided they dont think he should go. i dont want to go because he is going to go to bars a lot and he admited that. when i told my mom i didnt want to go and thats one of my reasons she got mad that he is gonna take us to bars. also i done a semester of summer school in writing class up till tommorow and im a freshman so going to summer school for a semester in a new highschool witch is one of the best in the country (legit it is one of the best in the top 200 in the country) and sizewize compared to a college campus and they have high expectations so it isnt easy finishing it up when its going in as a legit grade and i do have good grades in the class and it wasnt easy. i just want to relax this weekend not go out camping. my bro doesnt want to go for other legit reasons too. i cant just tell him i dont want to go im not going because he as anger issues and threatens to abuse me and he already harrases me for opinions and having different opinions witch i have the constitutuinal right to and for stoping my 3 year old bro from doing something bad before it happens and then gets mad if i dont, yells at me when i have to do homework on wenday nights when im at his house for dinner so he has anger isues. how do i not go |
Question: How can I find my father? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT My mother and father weren't married when I was born they were dating, and my father was very secretive and didn't tell my mom much about himself. He told my mom his name was one thing and a while before I was born he told her that it wasn't his actual name and he told her his "actual" name. My mom said he didn't talk much about his family either. Only where he was from (some where in Mexico). And when I was around 6-7 he just left. He didn't say goodbye but just disappeared. We never lived together so I don't remember him at all. Now I'm 15 and I'm curious about him, and I want to meet him or know where he is, but I don't know where to start. I've asked my Mom, but she doesn't know what to do either. Please Help. |
Question: My parents only care about my siblings but not me.? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 01:11 PM PDT Im 16, I have two older sisters that are 18 and 20 and a younger brother who is 11. My parents are so proud of my 18 yr old sister because she had "Almost a 4.0 in school" as they say, however she only had a 3.2 average. They constantly talk about how smart and beautiful she is, but the thing is she got knocked up by a good for nothing guy and cussed out my parents multiple times. They are so proud of my 20 year old sister because she completed 6 weeks of dental community college. Both her and my sister are settling in a small town that they grew up in. My little brother is a redneck that gets horrible grades but they are so proud of him because he's popular like my sisters are and he's cute and country. The thing is they refuse to be proud of me, i have a perfect 4.0 average in AP classes but every time i talk about it i get yelled at for "Bragging" but all i say is how i am having to do a big project or am studying a lot. Im with a perfectly sweet and beautiful and faithful girl but they still think ill have sex with her even though ive talked to them countless times about how i wish to remain abstinent until marriage because i wish to follow my religion. Im on the Cross Country team and do well and always do all of my chores and work and contribute to the family but they never tell me theyre proud or they love me. I dont know what to do. |
Question: What's the best way to tell your kid that he's unloved and unwanted? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:50 PM PDT |
Question: What did my grandparents mean when they told me that "I look good enough to eat?"? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:44 PM PDT I am spending the summer at my grandparent's house. I had just completed mowing the lawn and came in to take a shower. My grandmother took all my clothes and put them on to wash. All I had was a towel to wrap around my waist when I got out of the shower. So, I was walking down the hall and did not notice that my towel had slipped off. I was naked when I came into the den. My grandpa was watching tv and my grannie was chopping vegetables. They did not say anything at first. My grannie came and put her arm around my shoulder and felt my arm muscles. My grandpa just looked me over. After a few moments of my grannie felling my muscles, I noticed that I was naked. I freaked out a little, but my grannie still held on to my arm. She then said "Don't worry about it. You know you look good enough to eat. Doesn't he grandpa?" My grandpa replied "Yes! Go ahead and put him in the oven for tonight!" My grannie took me into the kitchen and had me sit down at the table. She went back to chopping vegetables and has started warming up the oven. I am still naked. Should I be worried about this? |
Question: Help should i give my 5 year old son to his father for sometime!? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:38 PM PDT I been raising my son since after a month he turned 1. Than his father got locked up for 4 years he got out last year! I took him to court and explain to the courts that this man dont so anything for my son or shows no interest, the courts gave me primary sole custody! My son father only allowed to see him no more than 12 days a month being so he ex convict! My point is I just cant do it anymore I don t have the mental capabilities of raise this kid! Its not fair how his father getd all the time in the world to work go back to school! Me no im stuck like chuck I cant do anything but be miserable and cry because dont nobody help me with my son! Im about to go crazy and the courts dont understand! How i feel! Dont Nobody understand my feelings I love my son but I wish his father would take him and see what I want through and how hopeless i feel, i dont no what to do anymore I just dont but than again I dont want to give my son to his father and him not let me see him! And be a asshole to me but I really need help Im going out of my mind! I need a break to fix my mind my life everything! And i selfish for the way i feel? |
Question: Is my mom very unreasonable? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:36 PM PDT she refuses to let me have negative emotions ("if you say 'oh i'm unlucky' your entire life will be unlucky forever) and when I try to say no to her outrageous claims she immediately goes on the defensive (she is very passive aggressive) and tells me to mind my attitude, basically, i can't talk AT ALL!!! also, she says that if I'm sad for too long i will have plenty of ulcers. she can do whatever the heck she wants at mealtimes (including her favorite hobby, provoking me) and i can't feel sad or get mad at all (she said, "you cannot have unhappy feelings during mealtimes" WHAT THE HECK?!) also, she is always using tons of guilt manipulation and victimizes her self a lot. (she always says "i'm too tired, too hungry, too cold, etc. to do....... (insert basic, easy activity)) yet she says I take thing for granted and have a horrible attitude (i don't think it is possible to have a bad attitude when you're forbidden to talk or think negatively) she doesn't let me drink more than a half cup of milk during mealtimes, no matter how thirsty i am, and she says i can't drink anything 30 MINUTES BEFORE MEALS!!! she basically forces me to eat a lot but "not too much" and always provokes me and purposely gets me mad (calling me short, a nerd, dumb, stupid) she is way too religious and almost brags about it, and she even told me not to be an evil spirit! she always forces me to "give thanks in everything" immediately, but when a co-worker raised his voice at her, she got mad for 2 months! |
Question: My mother doesn't seem to keep anything private between us? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:34 PM PDT I would tell her how to I feel about certain things and my opinions on some events in the family, what's been happening, etc. She has very conservative views about sex, marriage, any having relationships within our own ethnicity (We're Filipino) and is all about arranged marriage. My previous relationships have been with men of different ethnicity and though it seems she accepted them, I know she goes around telling our family that I'm "rebelling" against family traditions and that it's an "American thing" to even consider dating while in school. She also asked if I have had sex (I'm 20) and of course I had to be honest with her because she is my mother! I've done so with one guy and she told me she is not mad at all. But in some of her phone conversations with my uncles and aunts I can overhear her talking to them about my personal life as if I am a whore and it just discourages me to even tell my mom anything anymore. And then when she asks about something, I would tell her I don't want to talk about it, and then she will rant about me not ever being open with her and that mother and daughter should be close, etc. But then she will tell our whole family about that accusation, and I don't even want to go with her to family parties because of what she told others about me. I've already established that I don't like her telling others about my personal life, but then she will bring up "it's family, you don't hide anything from family" bull crap. Help? |
Question: I'm being asked to move out by my parents and I don't know how to start or what to do? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:34 PM PDT So I'm 20. I work 2 minimum wage jobs and live with my family. I pay my parents rent and I pay my phone bill. I'm also doing school online. Last night my parents(dad and stepmom. lived with them since my real mom left 10 yrs ago) went to bed early and I wanted to do some schoolwork but I share a room with my 15 year old sister who was asleep. So I went in the living room. My 18 year old brother has been bugging me to watch Harry Potter for months now but my mom despises it so I always say no. Well last night I finally gave in. In the middle of the night something fell and woke her up and she came downstairs to the living room. My brother just happened to be in the bathroom at this time. Anyway she asked what I was doing and I said school. Even though I wasn't really doing that. I then went up to my room and came back down to tell her the truth but it was too late. My brother ratted me out. She yelled at me for lying to her and all that jazz. She also called me some names and brought up things from my past and threw them in my face. I understand why she's mad. I lied to her. I used to lie a lot as a kid because it was a defense mechanism with my dysfunctional real mother. Anyway to get to the point she told me she thinks its time for me to move out. Like I said earlier I have 2 minimum wage jobs and I'm in school and I have no car. Now to top it all off I have to find an affordable apartment. What do I do? What essentials do I absolutely need to survive on my own? And boyfriend wants to elope. I'm overwhelmed |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:30 PM PDT |
Question: I want to get something special for my brother? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:29 PM PDT I just recently found out I have a brother he's 26 live in a different country I'm going to go visit him I was wondering what something special |
Question: How can I try to talk to my mom about how she makes me feel? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:24 PM PDT So my mom and me have never had a very good relationship, she doesn't pay much attention to me and my siblings, she doesn't work she's just always out with her friends and her sister, and my dad works every day but Sunday, and he's pretty nice Im just not close to him, and just a little bit ago my dog tore up paper in the couch and (infront of her friends) she started screaming "these couches were too much money for this Sh#t to be all over them" and while I was cleaning the couch she just pushed me on the floor and said control ur fu#king dog I didn't say anything I just got up and continued cleaning and I felt like crying so I went outside, and called my friend, but she started screaming for me again, so I went back in side and she said "cook luch for ur sisters, we're going out" and I said ok as I started waking to my room she sacremed "get back here" so I did and she said "when I tell u something I want a reply not a "ok" and I said srry and I walked back into my room, this happens often and I want to have a talk with her and just tell her that I'm 16 and I don't appreciate it when she treats me like trash infront of her friends, I have bad depression and low self esteem and it doesn't help that she tells her friends all of my business, and I just need to tell her how I feel bc it needs to stop I just feel like running away. Plz no hate just advice |
Question: Do you think my boyfriend is doing the right thing? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:23 PM PDT He is in a lot of debt because he kept transferring universities and majors over the last 6 years, and now has quit school all together (has not earned a degree). The car he has now isn't running so his mom let's him drive hers. He wants a new one ($20000), and is going to ask his dad for help with paying it. He also is living in his mother's basement (he's going to be 25 in a few months), not paying any bills. He works full time, but I don't understand where his money goes to other than alcohol and cigarettes. I feel weird criticizing him because I'm 20 and still live at home, my parents help me with my tuition bills. He feels like he is superior to other people, which annoys me the most considering how much debt he has built for himself. Do you think it's okay for people to be 25, and still asking their parents to pay their bills? (Either car, school, house, etc.) |
Question: I am feeling so sad and unhappy. What should I do about this? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:18 PM PDT I've been feeling really depressed for a while and it's becoming impossible to deal with. I'm not 17 until next month but it just feels like my life isn't worth living. My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend, my other friends are self centered, I've never had a father figure, everyone is only out for themselves and overall I have lost happiness for life and living. My mum and sisters are the only people in my life who matter and they are the only reason why I haven't ended it all. It's hard to explain how I feel but I feel empty inside. |
Question: My oldest son hasn't adjusted to our new place of residence, Should I consider moving? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 12:17 PM PDT We previously lived in the south, My son was well adjusted and had a good group of friends. When he was 7 years old we moved up north and he's had a hard time, He hasn't really had too many friends here and currently has no friends around us, It's been like that for the past 10 years. He's 17 and still hasn't adjusted and periodically expresses his distaste for where we live. I work from home, Should I consider re locating? |
Question: I hate my Dad so much...please help me? TEN POINTS? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:54 AM PDT I am sixteen years old. My mom, siblings, and I have recently found out about my Dad's affair he's been having with another woman for over a year. We are devastated. I'm so heartbroken. She lives in Canada and we live in Texas. I've seen the emails he's had with this woman and they are disgusting, he's complaining about my mom and about what a ***** she is, and how he's been suffering in our household for years. He told my family that he can't stop seeing this woman and that she's worth it. He says that we will get over it. Every weekend he's been flying out to Canada and still seeing her even though we just found out about this affair. He knows how upset we are but he doesn't seem to care, he told us that he's tired of living in a world where his kids dictate everything he says and does. I'm so upset..my mom has been crying every day and it's becoming so stressful. Our entire lives have been blown up and my dad doesn't even care, he's still going off every weekend to see this woman. He's been spending thousands and thousands of dollars on her and her children. I don't understand...what do I do? How do I make this pain go away? I don't think I can ever forgive my father for what he has done to our family.. |
Question: Can I get my dad arrested for being mad that I got naked in school? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT My dad made me go to school, when I didn't want to cuz it was so hot. when he drove me to school, he looked all smug about it. Cuz we argued about it the previous night. With me saying I wouldn't go. So he think he won. First, let me say I didn't plan to take off my clothes. But I was in English class and it was soooooo hot. And I be so annoyed, with the hot, and the headache and people talking and talking and talking. I just wanted to take my clothes off and be cold. Also i got the idea in my head and it made me laugh so much that i had to go ahead and do it. So I got naked in my class. I sit at the back so the teacher didn't notice for a while. But then he hear other kids laughing and he go crazy at me. They even evacuated the classroom. And waited outside until my mom come and get me. My mom said cuz teachers don't wanna be accused of stuff. And my mom is such a b word. She even text my dad in tunisia (he went there this afternoon) which must make our bills cost more. She even toad him that they are thinking maybe this school isn't right for me. And they need a discussion with both parents. And he threaten me very badly via text. He said just wait until he comes home. That my life won't be worth living. This sounds like he means to make me disabled by hitting me. I am frightened i want him arrested |
Question: My sister is in trouble.. help please? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:52 AM PDT few months ago my sister met a guy on internet and they talked for months and decided to get marry (Guy was already divorced and have one daughter) my sister live in pakistan and the guy was from Belgium.i personaly don't like this guy .before marriage he said he's in police department in balgium then we got to know that he's a security guard .. but my sister didn't listen to us and she got marry to him.. when he was in pakistan one thing i should mention here and that is about her mother and siblings.. her mother is so greedy for money first she asked us for dowry and whenever he try to talk to my sister or something his mother and sisters begin to interrupt and says he don't care about them anymore (cry).. he knows that his sisters are doing bad with my sister but he don't say anything in back. now he went back to belgium and his sisters and mother never stopped fighting with my sister they make her cry when she complain to his husband about their behavior, he knows that his mother and sisters are cruel but still he don't say anything to them and give blame to my sister and suggest him to live and compromise with them.. his mother and sisters are consistently torturing my sister and his husband instead of say anything to their siblings he blame to my his wife .. i'm so worrying about my sister she don't want divorce. please tell me what should she do so she can survive with them and also her husband can understand that his siblings and mother is betraying him. |
Question: Mother's abusing boyfriend? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:51 AM PDT My mom has been In a relationship with her mentally abusive, HEAVY ALCOHOLIC, boyfriend for the last five years. They have split over 8 times, and she always brings him back. They just split again, and I have a problem. I know how these men are. They manipulate and deceive. I am a victim to this as well. I am an 18 year old male, and I just filed a restraining order against him due to threats he made. I am very sensitive, and I can't stop crying. Why do I feel for him, even though he has both, physically, and mentally abused my own mother and siblings? I need help with this badly. I'm scared. |
Question: Why did my cousin greet everyone but me? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:41 AM PDT I came to Mexico for vacation to see my family. It's been over 3 years since I last visited. My cousin was coming over with her wife and kid. They were both nice and I smiled at them and greeted them, I looked over at my cousin and smiled, I was waiting for him to greet me since I'm shy and everyone knows that. He sat down in front of me and turned away. My uncle told him to greet me but he continued to turn away. I'm 15 and he's 26. |
Question: Please help me with this concert problem? Im begging you.? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:37 AM PDT I'm 15 and my favorite band is one direction. I love them sooo much and i cry because i feel like im never going to see or meet them. The boys are all in their 21s and im 15. I want to go to a concert but my dad is horrible. He doesn't allow me to go to concerts or yet alone see boys. I cant talk back to him and my mom tells me that I cant do anything without my dad's permission. So my plan is to grow up and turn 18 or 19 and study abroad away from my parents.(im american by the way) Then I can try and meet the boys without anyone telling me something. Please tell me what I can do or will the band be finished by the time i turn 19. Plz help me because its hard when you love something so much but your hopeless. Plz. |
Question: My mom won't let me make any decisions? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:32 AM PDT so I have been on my pom team for almost 3 years the new season just got started and I want to quit she hasn't spent a lot of money I wanted to quit last year and every year but she won't let me also I can't even decide what high school I want she wants me to go to this privet school but I want to go where both of my sisters went she has let my other sisters quit cheer but won't even let me have a say. what do I do. |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:30 AM PDT I work with my mom as an Intern. Ms. Joy has a daughter my age Amanda. I do not have a lot of people to hand with and neither does Amanda. My mom and Ms. Joy always want me and Amanda to hang out. Ms. Joy has pushed us getting to know each other for almost about 3 years. Me and Amanda went to the mall once in January and we go to the same school. I always say hi and talk to her a little. Amanda told my mom and her mom I said hi and walked away from her, when really we both walked away at the same time. Amanda does talk a lot and she is a little weird and is always extra. I work with Ms. Joy(her mom) always says I need to spend the night and that me and Amanda need to hang out again. I doubt Ms, Joy tells Amanda to call me or text me. I told my mom and she says that its not fair that I always have to reach out. I have a job on the weekdays and another job on the weekends. I am 19 years old and Ms.Joy thinks im going to spend the night. Oh no those days are over. I can always call out on the weekends. So either on a Saturday or on a Sunday. I can see if she wants to hang out. She talks a lot so what do you suggest we do? How long should you stay out for a little while. How much often should I go out for Ms. Joy(Amanda's Mom), my mom and my stepdad(he hates that im always home because he would go out everyday when he was younger) to get off of my back? |
Question: Should I remain estranged from my parents? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:30 AM PDT I have cursed my parents out, broke glass cups, pans and bowls, torn and burnt their work papers, set their birthday cakes on fire, threw a very valuable and expensive $1,000 ring in the sewer and have thrown plastic cups at my parents' heads. Then, after moving in with another family member (where I planned on staying until I reach 18 when I can support myself) after running away from home, my parents, who are 64 and 66 years old keep sending me letters, telling me how much they love me and miss me and that their thoughts of me go on forever. They also talk about how much they ache for me to return home. In response, I tear these letters to shreds and sometimes set them on fire and just continue on with my life living under the roof of my older cousin, who is 26. I'm 15 turning 16 in December 30th. I just do not understand how my parents would want to rear children--get pregnant at 48 and 50 for Heaven's sake! I'm a teenage girl with parents who are old enough to be my grandparents. I just can't deal with it. I'm sorry. And I don't understand how parents who wait that long aren't ashamed of themselves. Do some people really want to be damn near-senior citizens raising teenagers? Well, I understand it's their choice and so, since it is a woman and a man's choice to wait past 40 and 50 to rear children, it is my choice to deny them--disown my parents like the trash they are. They don't care to spend much time with me, because if they did, they would've had me earlier. @Christine P, I REALLY feel this way, otherwise I wouldn't have wasted my time posting question after question about this. And my parents were very loving, in fact, they were doting parents. |
Question: I think my parents might get a divorce? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:28 AM PDT My parents have considered getting a divorce in the past. The first time, they decided they would try to work it out, and they kind of did. A year later, they were ready to but didn't just because of my older sister. My parents got upset with each other in the car because my dad got mad at me for no reason. Then he got upset when no one was talking because of the awkward air. He complained and my mom yelled at him. And we all left him alone for the day because of his mood. It's been a few days and they're acting pretty weird. They're moodier than usual and aren't really talking to each other. They'll say a few words telling them they made dinner or making a joke around the family. I may be jumping to conclusions but things just seem different. My dad took the day off work today, when I asked him why he just said he need to think about some things and clear his head. What do you think? also, my sister is going to be in Austria for a month so they obviously won't say anything until she gets back. |
Question: My father calls me a disappointment? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:21 AM PDT Whenever my father sees me playing video games or using my computer, he calls me a disappointment. l mean disappointment in my studies. He tells me that i am nothing when it comes to studies. l recently passed eighth grade. My marks were just good for me. l mean in every subject it was like eighty out of hundred. And l don't know what does he expect from me. l mean l am not that smarta$$ who takes full marks in every subject. lt seriously pisses me off whenever he calls me a disappointment. He constantly keep telling my mom that l am gonna fail in future. l wont succeed. l am really good with computers and hardware. And he always tells me that this is nothing , i mean he doesn't give importance to the stuff i am good at. He doesn't appreciate it. What do i do? am i overreacting? or is it normal? Whats the best torrent site. l use kickass torrents and i think its awesome!!! l also use torrentz and bitsnoop This question is now attacked by a SPAM! |
Question: Husband wants princess themed birthday? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT So my husband asked if he could have a Disney princess/tea party for his 40th birthday, which is coming soon. Him and his friends are serious and it's been like a secret fetish for them. He even showed me a catalog of Victorian dresses he wants to wear for the occasion. I spent the rest of the day laughing my *** off. Okay this is getting really weird though because my husband is super serious. What's his problem? |
Question: Stressed from my Autistic Brother? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:14 AM PDT Okay so I want to start off saying that I understand some people have it FAR worse then me and that I'm a brat for typing this but I'm real stressed lately. I only have one sibling which is my older brother who was diagnosed with Autism a month after I was born.He is 14 almost 15 and I'm 12. He can talk with words or phrases like "I want ____" or " Water". But anyways when I was younger he was worse when it came to aggression, and then he was good for a while, but a few month or a year ago it's come back. He kicks a whole in the wall every now and then and tends to either pinch, squeeze, hit, or kick my family. He does not get along with my dad for the most part and my dad tries hard to stay clam but he easily gets angry. He is also addicted to electronics. He is always watching videos on my moms phone and when she takes her phone away from him for even 30 seconds he has a meltdown and starts squeezing or pinching my moms wrist. I have multiple bruises and just the other day he was mad at me and dug his fingernails into my wrist. Also he leave such a mess! He drinks a water bottle and just throws it on the floor, he takes clothes off hangers, cracked at least 5 IPads... And I'm just done. I feel like the reason I'm so shy is because I never had a brother who pushed me to do things or teased me for being a scaredy cat... I've always wanted a sibling who I could talk to but it was all ruined due to stupid autism. I'm practically crying now...I'm just done... Any tips?!?! |
Question: Ever since I was 16 my parents keep taking all my money from me? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 11:06 AM PDT I m 18 years old, I m going to college in the fall. My family situation has never been the best. My parents have been struggling for as long as I can remember. I started working when I was 16 and every paycheck they become friendly and mooch money off of me until I have nothing and then they go back to barely talking to me. My mom is disabled. She could easily get a disability check if she would try but she won t for some reason. I don t have a car and neither do they. I feel pathetic having to depend on my grandmother for a ride to and from work at 18 years old. I feel like no matter how much I try I ll never get ahead if they keep taking my money. I m working 40+ hours a week! They dont care how much I work... It s so hard to just tell them no because I see how hard the financial situation is. I need to save money for college but they make it so difficult. I m so angry at them for all of the empty promises to pay money back. I just don t know what to do... |
Question: Are my parents ripping me off? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:49 AM PDT I was wondering if you think I am getting ripped off by my parents. I just graduated high school, and my parents said I could live at home (they want me to stay with them until I get married, lol), but I feel like they are asking me too much for rent. I don't think they are being unreasonable with asking me to pay rent, but they are asking me to pay half of ALL the bills since they "count as one person". I've had a job for a while now, so I already pay my health insurance (through my job), car payment, car insurance, and phone bill. I am also not allowed to eat their food, so I buy my own groceries and I cook my own food. I feel like paying half the bills is extremely unfair for essentially renting only one room that they don't use anyway. When I brought it up to them, they said it was a good deal and I should take it. With the amount of money I'd be spending, I could get my own one bedroom apartment for only a little bit more. I really don't want to move out, because I am close to my parents, but I think their price is extremely unreasonable. Do you guys think I am in the wrong here, or should I try talking to them again? Any suggestions would be great! Thank you! |
Question: I have bed bugs and...? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:48 AM PDT I have bed bugs and I had them for years. They kept coming and going. My guardian knows about it but will do nothing but buy cheap spray and spray on my bed. It doesn't work but she believes it does. She doesn't get them in her bed. They are only in my bed. I have a bunk bed and sleep on top. I am sick and tired of having them. I told my guardian to get Orkin out here. She refuses. Every single time I bring the subject up it ends up she is yelling and hitting me with a shoe or another kind of object like my tennis racquet. It doesn't hurt because she ain't strong. I laugh when she is hitting me instead of yelling. I do cry but I have a fake smile on my face. I told her that I would tell an adult that I am very close to and she said go ahead and she would kick me out. I don't know what to do. My guardian says she called Orkin out here when I was at school but she lies and I don't trust/believe her that much anymore. I will be 14 on the 30th. I own a dog and she threatens she will take my dog to the pound and the pound is where me and my mom rescued her. I will not let my dog be separated from me. I can not live with my mom because she is not stable. Thanks |
Question: Don't you think this is weird ? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:42 AM PDT My dad and my stepmom have been married for 10 years. There's some serisous problems I have with it. One my stepmom is a year older than me. Two she moved in with her uncle when she was 12. Her uncle and my dad were good friends that's how she met him. She started dating my dad when she was 13 they got married when she was just 14. Three she had my stepbrother when she was 18. Four the biggest problem is my dad is 47 she's only 22. I'm 21 my brother is 18 and our stepbrother is almost 4. He'll be 4 in August. I think it's really weird that her uncle would let her date a man who's old enough to be her dad and get married at only 14. It's actually worse because her birthday is in November they were married in October so she would have still been 13 when they were married. I'm not even that crazy about her anyway or my stepbrother even though he is kind of cute sometimes. I guess since she's lived with her uncle almost her whole life he let her do whatever she wanted. I thought it was awful the way he let her marry my dad especially her being so young. Don't you think it's weird ? |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:37 AM PDT My family does not have any money, we are just about broke. My dad is disabled and my mom is getting disability. They are trying to find jobs but they are hurt so how can they??. But if they need a job then, i guess i can help them. So does anyone know of any jobs in Dawsonville or Dahlonega, GA?? |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:24 AM PDT sorry for my english!! i'm dutch When I was 12 I cut myself and there are a lot of reasons I hate my life (I was bullied, parents divorced, last year i lost a lot of friends/family who died, i did satanic things so i became depressed, i'm ugly, fat, have a hairy body and also acne and i do stupid things, a girl attacked me in front of the whole school and i'm not intelligent or talented) I can make a whole list of reasons why i need to disappear. it's just everything, I moved to another city and said stupid things to my old friends. I also have a lot of fake friends and I hate school so now I have no one to talk with, my mom and my new older stepsister are doing fun things like baking cookies, shopping etc. (always when I'm at school or when i'm too busy) and they having mother- daughter conversations, sometimes they just talk about me, and my mother talks more to her because she's "older" (she's 16 I'm 15 but she is the smart one) and my mom is always yelling at me and she's always saying that I suck at everything, and that she don't want to hear my voice and that I make her tired all the time, people always walk away from me and I'm sure that if u knew me you would do the same thing. I see my dad once a month :c i live far away from him now. I'm lonely and sad and when I cry I always feel like I don't exist and I'm crap and everyone is right about me. I really want to die but I don't want to hurt my parents because I think somewhere they really love me |
Question: Father asks for money to return my phone? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:23 AM PDT From way back, my father had took my phone off me because I'm ''on it 24/7'' he says. And he just recently asked me if I wanted it back, so I obviously said yes because my friends always have their phones with them, and I don't want to be the one without a phone, mainly because I'm 15 and most 15 year olds have their phones with them wherever they go. But anyways. I said I want it back and he told me ''in order to get it back you have to tell me where your mother stores the money'' Bear in mind the money is HERS and she's saving up for us (me and my siblings) to have a better future. I obviously didn't tell him (I said i don't know where she stores is but I do) but idk what I'm supposed to do?? Can anyone please help me out here? Should I tell my mother that he wants the money or should I keep quiet about it and tell him where the money is? |
Question: Dealing with suicide and not having a dad because of it? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 10:15 AM PDT well, this is really hard for me to say this, but here it goes. so my dad only just killed himself and we found him hanging in our back garden in a jumper that i bought for him and i don't think i can take it anymore i really miss him because we would get ice- cream every friday after school and i loved him so much and i really wish that i was with him and i can't live in a world like this anymore and I'm so depressed and i want to be with him and i cry myself to sleep every night and none of my friends know whats happening with m sand whats going on in my life and they don't understand how hard life is no because my mum now a widow and she can't afford that and my brother and sister are all at private schools and i really just want to die. PS. I'm 12 |
Question: How to deal with a functioning alcoholic father? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:59 AM PDT When I was younger my father would hardly ever drink. Recently, issues with family have made him begin drinking excessively. He is an angry drunk. Anything you tell him that he doesn't like he;ll go after you and curse terribly. THe worst I fear is he'll become physical and possibly hurt someone. His somber self has a terrible temper that no one wants to provoke in the first place so being drunk is worse. I am only 17 and my sister is 15. We have gotten used to it and try to avoid him. My mother talks to him and he has gotten better. Although, the last two years have been hell for me. I know my father loves but I can't take seeing him drunk every week until he falls asleep. Then when I avoid him he seeks us out to annoy us which makes things worse. I will be going to college next year. Hopefully, I live on campus. I was wondering how to deal with someone who can't handle themselves with alcohol and doesn't realize he's hurting people in the process? I literally just want to cry from being put through his rages. |
Question: Help my mom got lost in Mexico? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:58 AM PDT This is pretty out there but bear with me here my mom went to Mexico for a trip and she was kidnapped by angry Hispanics they have her in the back of their truck and I have no idea what to do there is a huge police chase in Mexico right now trying to get her back but they have her what can I do should I try to go to Mexico and stop them myself of what please pray for my mom |
Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:53 AM PDT I am 18 years old but still live at home. My parents are insanely strict and I'm allowed to leave the house never. So I sneak out at night. But my parents just installed a new security system and I have this thing on my window that chimes every time I open it. Is there a way I can disarm the chime with out knowing the code? I've heard you can put a magnet under it but I'm not sure if that will work? And if so how exactly would you place that magnet? |
Question: Dad threatened to give up on me? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:51 AM PDT My dad is a really hard working man but despite that fact he has trouble supporting us financially and we are very poor barely scraping by. He's knows minimal English so he makes me do our life, car, health insurance applications and renewals, and has me speak on the phone when he filed claims or has important conversations. I'm 18 and trying to figure out a way to pay for college so I get frustrated when he piles this work onto me and doesn't understand anything in English and I sometimes get annoyed and hurt by the fact that most of our interactions involve him telling me what to do. I understand that all of this is for our family's sake, but I still can't help my frustration sometimes and the fact that I wish he would do all of this instead. He seemed to have enough of my sighs and frustration because he sat me down today and told me that if I continue to look down at him as a parent and undermine the importance of these things he would give up on me. He also said that whenever I sigh or look frustrated at the fact that he can't speak English he feels like giving up on me as a child and that once he did he wouldn't look back. I get that he's a proud man but it still was disturbing to hear and his threats made me feel both very guilty and angry. In all sincerity ive only focused on my studies, and worked so hard to become accepted into ivy and top tier schools. I feel really helpless all the time and don't know how to help my family and myself. |
Question: How do you feel about surprise visits from inlaws? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:43 AM PDT I'm not sure how to feel about it. I come from a family that kept to itself, for the most part. I had family that would come over unannounced back home (I recently moved closer to my inlaws..) and I wasn't overly happy about it. I consider it kind of rude. My husband isn't bothered by it, but it's his family so I can see why. My mother in law knows I dislike surprise visitors, but she does it anyways. (Here lately she doesn't do it much, maybe once a week?) My father in law used to do it every single day but I think he could tell I was a little grouchy about it so for the most part he has stopped. My sister in law still does it about once a week, but she will stay for hours at a time. Yesterday she even skyped with someone while at my house...... Thoughts? Thats kind of what I think too, Orla. My sister in law will literally park outside of our house and say she's coming over. They all have cell phones that they are attached to, so why can't they call and ask if its okay first? |
Question: My dad only spends money on himself? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:40 AM PDT My dad makes $50 an hour, works ten hours a day, six days a week and has 20 hours of overtime ($75 an hour) adding up to 3,500 dollars a week, and 14,000 dollars a month, and 168,000 dollars a year. He only spends his money on his girlfriend, and sometimes he doesn't even feed me because he spends money on food he likes. Often times I don't eat supper and he makes me have cereal. Also, he doesn't even have to pay bills because my grandparents let him live at their house until he gets a new one. What should I do? Anytime I try to tell him what he's doing wrong, he either yells at me or hits me. |
Question: I found out my dad is gay? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:07 AM PDT So I found out my dad was gay when I was 13 by seeing internet history, but I didn't think much about it and kinda just moved on with my life. Recently I've been very stressed with work and during this period I found nude photos that he took. Ever since this I haven't been sleeping well and keep worrying as my parents are still together. How can I forget about this And move on with my life? I really don't want to talk to either of my parents about this |
Question: I'm leaving her and taking the kid will I win? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 09:07 AM PDT I don't want here to have the kid. 4 1 she raped me when I was sick with cancer I was blacked out on medication and she had all her friends over doing hard core drugs and cheated on her girl friend with me well I was heavily sedated. Months later I found out I found I had sex and I'm going to have a kid. I spent years getting better and regaining my sanity I finaly had to move out with her and the kid becuse her father was molesting her and my son. Now that I'm on my own she has started smoking meth having orgies and lieing about it I have the proof and my son can back me up. So now I'm in inheriting a house with my mom and she wants us married to move in. Wich is not going to happen for sure now it seems. I'm putting a restraining order on her dad from seeing my son so when she Gos back to her parents she can't take him. I don't want to put her back at her parents but I can't have the kid exposed to all of this and I don't know if I can sacrifice my ability to have real love just to keep her away from her dad. Will I be able to do this or am I still going to get screwed and losse the kid? Becuse I'll marry her to keep him safe. The law sucks I could not even report rape becuse they take the girls side and i know How unreasonable they are to men. Help encouragement good advice and realistic awnsers help. Thank you.. Ready to get started with free life. |
Question: I keep having dreams of my dog please help!!? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:56 AM PDT I keep having dreams of my dog and if not he's always part of my dream I'm really close with my dog and few months ago my parents didn't want him anymore so I had to give it to my brother I used visit him at my brothers but he moved far so I stopped going and my brother always works in the morning so he's alone is he giving me a sign help please why do I always have dreams of him thank you I know it sounds dum but I always have dreams of him I'm 17 btw not a little girl that just misses her puppy |
Question: I hate my dad so much? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:47 AM PDT Basically, I'm 13 and for a while now my dads been a lot stricter. We argue almost every day, mainly over little things. But I lose it sometimes, I try to control myself but I've had enough. He always calls me names, shouts at me, grits his teeth at me and has threatened me before. He's never hit me but lately he's threatened to smack me. He can be nice on occasions, and that's when I like him. But it's not worth it. I'd rather have him out of the house. But then it'd just be me and my mum and it wouldn't feel right. I feel lost. He makes me feel like I'm nothing and I try not to cry at school everyday. I have a mentor, she tells me to tell people my feelings, but I said I can't. But today I said to my dad. "Dad, I feel depressed, and I get bullied at school." This was when I was trying to be calm when I was getting shouted at. He just said "oh whatever" like he doesn't believe me/doesn't care when it's affecting my life. Him in general makes me feel depressed. I even attempted suicide one. I don't want to people to get involved or send me links to health websites cause My parents could find out. I just want to know if this happens to anyone else. I feel like my mums life had been wasted in a way, and she's so sweet. She put up with an abusive boyfriend once and now another. It makes me really upset. I'm |
Question: Overprotective parents: please help me out? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:47 AM PDT I'm a 16, almost 17, year old girl. My parents are very overprotective. I am not alowed to go out by myself period unless I am in full sight in front of my house. I've only hung out with friends 3 times in my life. I've wanted to take morning runs but my dad and 2 siblings have to come along and walk behind me and I have to stay in their sight, which means stopping every 10 steps. I'd rather not run at all than have a run that isn't rigorous enough, so I've stopped. My family functions as though we are one person and not 5 individuals. It's ridiculous, really. I have a phone and iPod but I'm not allowed to have them in my room, only in the living room and for a limited amount of time. And many many more things like this. It's summer now and I have NOTHING to do. I have given my parents no reason to find me untrustworthy. I don't understand why they're so strict? I have tried to talk to them about it. My mom is reasonable and agrees with me on some things but she says my dad has to be on board for her to be on board. My dad always twists the conversation and talks about things that aren't related. He also says that he thinks I'm going to end up in the wrong crowd and end up with my life ruined? He doesn't let me talk and it's so frustrating. My question is, what do I do? Is there anyone I can go to like a therapist or something who can act as a mediator and help me out? My parents are awesome people and I know they mean the best but it's been making me very upset lately. |
Question: What is the brother of death? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:44 AM PDT If sleep is the cousin of death then what is the brother? |
Question: Why is my dad so childish sometimes? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:16 AM PDT Im a 15 yo boy and i know that my dad loves me and care for me but sometimes he acts so immature, what should i do? He easily mad and sometimes idk what to do, he also (sometimes) blaming me and my mom expcept my sister. He always brags about me being lazy and not studying, but he never seen me study really hard and having a mental breakdown. My mom sometimes pissed off by his attitude. Sometimes i tell my sister about him and luckily she is so understanding and caring for me and my mom. Any help for fixing his attituted? Also he is snoring really loud and how to cure it? Any help and answer will be appreciated. And btw sorry for long paragraph. |
Question: How to deal with a judgmental parent (when it is none of her business)? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:06 AM PDT So basically, I am nearly 16 and my mom is quite strict, but her rules are fair. My friend's mom is probably the exact opposite, and she thinks her rules are not how you should be raising a child. And she is always be very obnoxious when dropping [unsubtle] hints at my mom about what she thinks of my mom's rules. I find this irritating because it is not her place. Another problem that I have is that she is always talking to me about the 'silly' and 'unreasonable' rules that my mother has set in place. While I myself do find these rules a little irritating I think it is not her place to say these things directly to me. It just bothers me a lot and it is the center of nearly every conversation with my friend's mom. If someone could please give me some advice for when she next brings up the subject that would be fab. The thing is I don't want to come across as rude because my friend is very close to me and I don't want it to be a barrier in our friendship |
Question: My brother is making my life very difficult need advice? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:04 AM PDT My 21 year old brother has moved back in with me and my mom i am 15 and he mocks me constantly and does everything he knows will aggravate me he treats me like i have remained a child i know i am not a man but i deserve respect im a type 1 diabetic and this is bad for my heath im starting to consider moving in with my dad but it will break my moms heart i really need some advice |
Question: Teen mom help! ASAP? Posted: 01 Jul 2015 08:00 AM PDT I just recently had my son 3 weeks ago, my dad made me move away from Texas and go to Arizona 4 weeks ago so the father of my son couldn't be there. I am allowed to move back and live with my ex so we can both raise him together but his mom kicked him out for drugs so he moved in with his new girlfriend he started dating the exact same day my son was born...now I can't move up there since he isn't living at home. I am working at home while raising my child, my dad and I payed for everything he has and I pay for everything he needs, He has not once offered to help out. Should I just forget him and deal with buying everything and raising my child on my own because he isn't willing to be there for him and he does drugs which I don't want around my son |
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