My fiance and I finally found our dream venue. However, the scheduling of the wedding is becoming crazy. I'm a teacher so I'm leaning towards the months of April, May, June, or July to get married that way we can take our honeymoon in July or August and I won't have to worry about requesting time off from work. (A Saturday could be affordable in January or Feb but I would feel guilty taking time off for the honeymoon) Sat's are nearly double the price for April, May, June or July so they are currently out of our budget. Friday's and Sundays are reasonable. The church I am affiliated has a rather strict wedding schedule. Friday's weddings are only 4pm or 5pm. However, this poses a problem because our venue is approximately 40 minutes away and the curfew for the venue is 11pm. Therefore only a 4pm church would work and there wouldn't be much time before the reception for pictures. After asking many for input (which I probably shouldn't have) the more desired day seems to be Friday. However with needing the church to begin at 4pm and Friday traffic I'm not sure how many would be able to leave work early enough or take off to attend the church.  Now for a Sunday wedding  many guests seemed to be very opposed to the idea. The earliest church on a Sunday is at 2pm so the earliest the reception could end would be 9pm. How do you feel about this? Would you try to save extra money for a Saturday? Or pick Friday or Sunday? 

becomes thicker, physically fitter, and better looking than the groom to be, do you think she is justified for breaking off the engagement? She was a 4 or 5 on the attractiveness scale, now she's a 7 or 8; and men in her attractiveness range are taking notice of her?

My best friend got married in Philadelphia on December 7, but I didn't go to the wedding because I live and work in China. Plus, early December is always a very hectic time for me at work, and also I had to return to the US anyway on Dec. 19. So, it would have been a lot of traveling in a very short period of time during which I was already stressed and busy. In any case, since telling him (in June) that I would not be attending the wedding, he has not spoken to me. I offered to make it up to him in several different ways, but he simply won't respond to my emails, and still hasn't spoken to me since. Is it me, or is he being ridiculous?

he wanted my ring size to buy me a ring as a gift [which he didn't buy. said he didn't find one he liked] he asked me a week before christmas but the whole month before that he joked about ;;; us getting married what our wedding would be like rings being on sale getting me a ring for christmas pointing out ring stores saying "See we should get married for ___insert reason here___ etc So Christmas came and is gone and no proposal. Obviously he didn't want my ring size because of that. I already feel SOOO embarrassed and dumb that I got so caught up. Should I feel offended? Idk? Am I overreacting? Maybe I feel hurt, too.

I'm 35, getting married in eight months. I have two older sisters and no brothers. When my sisters married, neither of their husbands asked me to be their best man or groomsman. My older sister and her husband only had one each; with my sister having my other sister and her husband his brother. My other sister and her husband had three, with my sister  reciprocating by having my other sister, and two friends; and her husband his two brothers and one friend. I actually felt left out of that one, but at the same time understood, he had two brothers and a lifelong friend so completely understood why he chose them over me. Now, here's the thing. My fiancé and I have decided to have two each. She is having her sister and a friend, and I am having two friends. My older sister is fine, but my second one is being a major hypocrite by saying that I should have her husband as my best man, or at the very least a groomsman. I pointed out to her that he didn't have me, so I am not at all obliged to have him. She said that is because he had two brothers but I pointed out to her that he had a friend over me, she didn't have a comeback for that one so just became angry and said that he will be crushed that I am not having him (this happened literally today so he doesn't know yet). How should I resolve this? I don't want to have him because a)we have settled on two, b) he didn't have me, c) I am closer to them anyway. Any help would be greatly appreciated. 

My girlfriend has wanted me to propose to her for quite some time. She even said it would be fine to do it with a ring pop, I'm not rich but I don't want to be that cheap. I found this set for $2400 does it look nice for the price? Is it a good looking set? I've never proposed before so I'm absolutely new at this. Any advice would be awesome.