1) coworker 2) teacher 3) doctor  4) mechanic 5) pilot

It frustrates me that most other girl probably don't have to ask guys out or approach them but I probably do?

so this guy in one of my classes dmed me in the beginning of the year and we've been talking ever since. we text and snapchat every day, but we've never hung out. he's asked me to hang out with him and i've asked him to hang out with me but it's never worked out. I initially wasn't into him because i'm scared of commitment and have trust issues but now I really like him. however he's recently been really hot and cold. some days he wants to stay up all night texting and flirts with me all night other nights i'll text him and he'll say I wanna sleep. i'm just not sure what to do I usually don't let myself like people because i get hurt if it doesn't work out and this time I really put myself out there is it normal for a guy to be hot and cold like this and could he still like me?

I know for a fact I like guys haha i'm not a lesbian. I can feel sexual attraction with a guy and I can like the idea of a guy but I don't think i've ever had feelings for a guy or loved one. Why is this? Has anyone else experienced this?

My girl like to be nasty and it scary, she like to garden my hair. Make me look like a pumpkin patch. I need to know how to make this girl like some sauerkraut. I got me not one but two marshmallow creme puffs i ain't eatin em tho, Thank jesus for two of em. Blessings!

After two months apart I'm finally getting over the fact that she broke my heart. Now all of a sudden she starts sending me messages and contacts my family, even though she asked me to never contact her. I'm not sure what to do. I really did love her when we were together, but I don't wanna get hurt again, what should I do?

I never wear revealing clothes and my breasts aren't even that big. I don't understand why. I don't they are that big, I wear a 40C. *Think. Also, is there any way I can get people to stop looking at my chest?, I avoid wearing revealing clothes but I'm not sure what else to do.

Lesbian btw this is all girls. And so pretty much I like this girl and she likes me but this other girl also likes her and she also likes the other girl so she's trying out both of us how do I get her to like me more and want to be with me. She's the kind of person that likes funny people and She does Tik tok a lot and likes painting and stuff but this other girl seems funnier than me and more relatable 

I am a well embodied black guy. I have a super smart Asian friend whose mother I have sex with.  I am really starting to fall in deep love with her. The only barrier is her son. Though her son is my buddy, he is younger than me. I am little afraid to anger him or his mum. Please help me.

I dated a guy then we became friends because he wanted to. However we talk daily. I think he still likes me. He keeps saying he wants me to work with him on future projects. I've had to rely on him heavily for different things. And will have to even more so if I work with him. Is he wanting me to rely on him? He said he didn't want me to cut off contact with him when I said other guys I'd date in the future wouldn't want me talking to him multiple times a day.

We work together but in different departments but from time to time she has to come by my department for various things. Anyway we kind of became friends and today she asked me if I wanted to hang out sometime and she gave me her number. But it's her work number. When should I call her? Tonight?

WHY CANT I STAY ******* FOCUSED!! 

Since girls usually wanna date an older guy. But say if the guy was 27 and the girl was 29, how would most girls feeling about dating a guy they're like 2 years older than?

I'm fat but not that fat. My bf has never asked me to have a threeway we've been together years. Lately and more and more every day I've been thinking about my bf and I having a 3sum with a hot skinny girl. I don't care if he gets turned on and touches her because I'd be there touching her too. I don't know if he's going to call want to do it but I think it would be fun and it would spice up our sex life. My bf is skinny and hot and I've caught my bff checking him out and I think it's hot. Am I crazy 😜 

I have a friend (male18) who has a girlfriend (Female17) and he went to the movies with another girl alone without even consulting his girlfriend. I find that odd considering if my boyfriend did that I would be suspicious. Am I just odd or is it weird to go to the movies alone with the opposite sex?

Why would a man have pics and videos of his penis on his phone ?

We dated for 3 years back in high school, and we only broke up because she moved back to her country. Now, 6 years later, she came back last july to visit her friends, and we ended up meeting each other again. We were hanging out almost everyday, we had sex most of the times we met, but then she went back to her country again. Now her friend told me that she (my ex) is pregnant and that the baby is mine. I was very surprised, because she didn't say anything. We don't talk much when she's not here, but you know, this is the kind of thing you expect to be told by the person, and not by her friend. Anyways, I talked to her, and yes, it's true. Now I don't know what to do. We talked for hours about our situation, I even asked her to marry me, so she could move back, but she doesn't want to. She says I can be part of my kid's life if I want to, and if not, she'll raise it by herself, but she wants to stay in her country. I don't want to have a kid in another continent that I might never meet, and might never be able to communicate because of the language difference. She's probably the only woman I've ever loved, I miss her, and I really want her to move back, we never even had a reason to break up other than the distance. I'm planning on visiting her soon, but I don't even speak her language, so it's way easier for her to move here. What can I do to convince her to come back?

I am about to go on holiday with my bf. It's for my birthday... It's a present for him because he f**d up during our relationship and I took some time away ... This seems to again be over shadowed as his uncle has passed.  He hasn't spoke to him for over 11 years, known of his illness since summer and did not try to make amends during this time. Now his uncle has gone he has hardly bothered at all with me he with his uncle. Tonight he's gone for a roast and then out drinking with his uncle and gone completely off radar but been on social media etc. We haven't been right for a while and now I'm actually dread holiday as he alienated himself from me without any reason in my opinion. My friends I have spoke to agree there's is no need for it, claiming he's attention seeking and to be frank I feel this is the last straw ... he hasn't bothered to text he's home safe or anything! I have lost a loved one but not acted like this nor have I known anyone else too so right now I am p**d off.

She just started making out with me. I was shocked

So last year I was talking with this guy( i was a college freshman, he was a college junior) for about 4 months before I ghosted him when he mentioned making the relationship more serious. That was in april last year and its now january and he has just started snapping me again. Should i be super honest with him and tell him its not going anywhere or just ignore and block him?

I recently became friends with this guy that i met through mutual friends at a film event on campus. At the event they were looking for couples to make out for a future film and he asked me to do it with him but i said no because 1) hes my friends ex and 2) i was trying not to catch feelings for anyone last semester, which he was super hurt by ans kept bringing it up. After spending the day with him at the event and going out for drinks after, i realized I was crazy into him so I added him on all social media. He snapped me a few days later just starting a casual convo but it didnt manifest into anything major. Is he into me and should I try to reach out to him?

I'm in college, and recently I found out one of my friends from high school is going to the same college. Good chemistry, one night we hung out for hours at the library just talking until I needed to leave. We met up again before the holiday break, where we sat and did homework at the library. We sat facing each other since we were working on different things. I noticed that she would look up from her work to give me a quick glance, and she would do it pretty often, to where I felt a little weird. Does this mean she thinks I look good? This girl is a photography major too, and the first time we talked here at college she asked me if I had a suit, so she could use me for a photo project.

So we've been friends for years and we talk all the time. She invited me to a party and I went. While we were at the party we was dwinkin and smokin and tings got heated, but she got a man toy. So anyway she be givin me mixed vibes, should I make a move?

Much too late to take plan b I Honestly wouldn't mind becoming pregnant in all honesty.  But it was oneeeee time.  His family is known to have good swimmers haha but again what are my chances really? this was also 2 days before my period .. I know nothing about the whole ovulation chart so help me out here. Do u know any one timers who actually got pregnant with the first try?

Ok so this story is probably going to sound stupid but just hear me out please. so I've been going to this doctor for almost 5 months now because I had to get a lump checked out on my throat. I'm in college so I first met him before and I came back to see him during winter break and he's way older me probably in his 50s but I'm very attracted to him and I don't know why.  I've always liked older men and have always seemed to get hit on my older men. It's not really daddy issues or anything but that's just what I attract lol.  anyways when me and the doctor met again we were scheduling for me to get surgery and it just got quiet for a few minutes and he asked if I was nervous and I hope he met about the surgery. Then the day of surgery he came in to talk to me before and was really nice and everything and that night he called to ask if I was ok and a week later I got the results for what it was and when he found out he called me in the next morning and talked to me about it being lymphoma and he was gonna do everything to help figure it out  Then I got radiation and It's basically gone now and he called my dad that same night ( I don't know how he found out ) and was like "I'm super excited, aren't you?" Which I thought was kind of weird  So I don't know I kinda like my doctor.. Ik it's wrong because he's married and his son is my age ( 18 ) but I think it's ok to flirt a little bit. Idkk if I'll ever see him again though

Found his online ads soliciting business, she has no idea, should I tell her? 

Recently, my boyfriend and I stopped speaking due to his behavior and his ex wife constantly calling him.. We stopped speaking last week because of several things that bothered me.  First, he continually makes insensitive, insulting comments about me. Most recently he said something about me that I found very insulting ,and that was calling me ghetto !!! I found that very degrading, I'm not sure where that came from, nor why he choose to call me something so insulting . When he saw that it upset me, instead of apologizing he said I was being too sensitive. Next, as if that wasn't enough, his ex wife whom he's been divorced from for seven years, and has ADULT CHILDREN WITH , calls inviting him to come over for the holiday, when he explained to her that he was with me, his girlfriend for the holiday, he proceeds to tell me when he gets off the phone ..that he could tell that she wasn't happy about that.This was my breaking point, how can he just basically dismiss my feelings labeling me as sensitive ,and have the nerve to tell me how his ex wife feels about him spending the holidays at her home. This made me feel as if he cares more about upsetting her then me ,and because of all of this,( the insulting name calling, considering his ex wife's feelings while downplaying mine ) I've decided to end our relationship, .

Usually when I'm out in public, a store or restaurant for example, many women will try hard to get my attention despite the fact that I outwardly go out of my way to avoid it. I try to not make eye contact with random women and usually ignore their presence completely. Even so, many still attempt to make themselves the center of attention from my perspective as if they know I will be attracted to them and approach them. Some examples of this are hovering around me, obnoxiously getting into my line of sight by walking very close to me, walking directly in front of me so I have no choice but to look at them, smiling, long gazes, following me around so I'll notice them, making lots of noise to attract attention, loud laughing, positioning themselves so I'll see their butt, smiling while looking at my crotch, staring at my crotch, bumping into me, etc. To be clear, I don't necessarily have a problem with all this but it makes me uncomfortable. As I said, I try to make myself appear unapproachable and uninteresting but this still happens. I'm a man in my 20s. 

My best friend aka bf texted me late last night while I was sleeping and felt my phone vibrating.  Should I text him back now or wait for him to text me again?  I sent him 5 texts separately the other day but he only sent me only one.  What's up with that?

There is this girl in on of my school classes that I'm not such how to go about. She has this weird annoyance, impatience, dislike towards me(well, it at least seems that way) and she's had it almost the amount of time I've known her. She tries to avoid conversation and contact with me and is not afraid at all to act hella rude and bitchy towards me, but occasionally act casual and talk with me about something brief and not important, and if I'm talking with one of her friends that happens to be a friend of mine as well she will butt in with a joke, usually being based off of me. Tbh, I don't know what to do or how to feel, because it seems like every class period we interact in some way even if we are sitting on entirely opposite places in the class. And a few of her friends are also my friends. I'm not even sure why I think of her so much, I guess I'm interested in her pretty good looks and her behavior with me, but it also feels like she's the most complicated girl in the class to talk to. Like seriously, one day I could have the most casual conversation and the next she could act rude for me just saying hi! I want to know the most respectful way to solve this and maybe settle our differences,(and tbh I'm curious to know if this is because she is interested in me, but she really could just hate me that much and not know how to react to me for one reason or another. 

Should I go over and help him with his morning wood?

The other night he asked if he could FaceTime me and I said no because I was already in a call. He said why don't I just hang up then with my current call. I said no. And that was that. Does that mean anything with the FaceTime asking ?

I don't really know what could have happened. I woke up this morning and this giant piece of poop was hanging out of my mouth. We have no pets or children in the house and there's no signs we were broken into or anything. I really don't know who else it could have been. How do I ask my wife if she pooped in my mouth? She didn't seem very concerned about this situation.

A guy and I have been talking for almost 3 months now. From the beginning he has told me that he is afraid of commitment and I told him it's okay and that we can work on it. He said he wants to change that and change himself for the better. We talk everyday, talk on the phone for hourssssss, he has told me some things he hasn't told his own close friends regarding his gambling issues, etc.  He tells me that he considers me more than a friend and wants to make things work with me. He has been honest with me that he's not a good person with girls, his relationships doesn't last, etc., and I am willing to work with him and take things slow. He doesn't have any social medias besides twitter. I'm guessing he is into a different lifestyle and has his own kinks with bdsm. He has been liking pictures of naked women, responding to them by making flirtatious comments, etc. He doesn't know that I know but I am thinking about confronting him about it to let him know that I find it disrespectful? I don't want to be upset nor am I judging him because everyone has their own lifestyle choices but I don't want to him to give me false hopes by telling me things that he does not mean. Due to my past relationships I've gained a lot of trust issues. I told him that I have them and he told me that he is going to get me to trust him blindly, but how can I when I find out stuff like this? Any advice?!

I have been friends with her for 8 years. She has always said she is happy single instead of going with a wrong guy. She has another friend who was also the same way. Now that her friend has a boyfriend she now wants one. She said I should date again then after saying that she started telling me all the guys that like her online. Is she telling me that she won't be able to hang out anymore? We hang out every couple weeks now.

Because I'm even more unattractive then most other women. Please tell me the truth and no lies.

Have a look at my previous question for context. What you should know is this is the first girl that's ever shown me proper love. I wasn't a virgin when I met her, but I'd only done it once, very long time ago. I think there could be a man behind the scenes and tbh I'm so drawn to her I need to get her back nd would rather this is the case as appose to it being me. She's 18, I'm 19 and she has her own place. She's turned me crazy. Accept I'm pleasantly crazy, I wouldn't hurt her ever, only want the best for her and know I'd give her the best. Her last bf was violent and in her words insecure. When i say she's turned me crazy I've gone and walked the longest possible route to the shop, to walk past her place to see if her car was there - I was fantasising that this guy would be somehow there harassing her door so I could beat the f@ck out of him and show her who's the man. If you look at my last post we both smoked weed together and after that point she don't see me in that way. She said I'm really nice, sweet and good looking (I dunno if she's telling the truth on the good looking part) and I got a great body (she's telling the truth) but I'm just not what she's looking for. She said she needs a man a bit older and ahead in life (she's had a rough upbringing, mum was crazy, been alone since 16, dad wasn't there for her - daddy issues). I lost my job before meeting her and I told her I planned to spend all my £ on as many months as possible for an MMA membership to train fullt -ime. I'm sat here adding it up, I'm not ahead in life. I'm kinda thinking I'm crazy for even perusing this as an option, but I just don't want to be a nobody and would rather train for a living. I used to win KB competitions, I know I can be good enough.  To round up the full question, I was thinking one morning when I get up to train at the gym.. after training I turn up to her place before she leaves for work, wait pretty much by her car and try charm her back to me without it seeming weird? I just don't wanna let this girl go. I ****** it when we got stoned, but she was so into me before that. I need to remind her who I was. After I train my brains sharper so I think I can be a bit more slick. Sitting here right now, when I turn up to her house in the rise nd shine of the morn I don't even know what the f@ck to say. Where would you start?

I'm in college, and recently I found out one of my friends from high school is going to the same college. Good chemistry, one night we hung out for hours at the library just talking until I needed to leave. We met up again before the holiday break, where we sat and did homework at the library. We sat facing each other since we were working on different things. I noticed that she would look up from her work to give me a quick glance, and she would do it pretty often, to where I felt a little weird. Does this mean she thinks I look good? This girl is a photography major too, and the first time we talked here at college she asked me if I had a suit, so she could use me for a photo project.

My depressed girlfriend broke up with me. I'm in pain but I can't cry and I'm holding a lot of anger in. What can I do? I been talking to someone about it too. But it's doesn't help....