I don't like wishy washy people who take hours to respond to a text. If a man texts hours to respond to anything I automatically become disinterested and ready to move on. Because I text people consistently and on time and I expect the same in return. Not waiting 5 hours that's ridiculous

I'm 28 and I live with my parents because I cannot afford to move out right now. And I respect their house enough to not have sex in it. I know we can have sex in hotels also but my parents have rules they are very strict and will not allow me to be in a hotel with a man. They won't let me spend the night with a man or nothing. We had to have sex in his car because I still live with my parents and I didn't want him coming in the house.. I wonder if having sex in the car is part of the reason why it was so lack luster. Because I was pretty paranoid about somebody walking up on us since he doesn't have tinted windows and we were in my neighborhood. Anyways we have been texting and talking on the phone for months 24/7 and he's making me laugh super hard and I've been making him laugh super hard. Seemed like we had a crazy connection.. we finally met up in the person and had sex and I was so disappointed... first of all he barely opened up his mouth to kiss me. He put it in the wrong hole a couple times and I just did not feel the sparks and chemistry that I felt while we were talking on the phone. And it kinda made me less interested in him. I see him in a completely different light now. I was sure the sex would be off the charts because we had a strong emotional connection and he is very attractive but I was beyond disappointed. We talked about making plans for a future relationship but what should I do? Anyone been in this situation

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My husband is being deployed overseas on January 25th.  It's a 9 month deployment. I've been through deployment before but this is much different. This time, I am living 14 hours from any of our family. I'm trying to enjoy the time I have with my husband but I'm scared. Like I said, I have NO FAMILY here where we live at all. I also have very few friends and honestly hate the area. I'm working currently but we currently live in Mississippi and the pay for me anyway is an embarrassment. I'm thinking of going home to be with my family  for the next 9 months. My husband doesn't like that idea cause I won't be working. I don't know what to do. Any advice? I'm soooo miserable. 

I see women who are still hopelessly single at 30 years old who've never even been on a date before. Do these women realize that it takes YEARS of investment to get to the point of marriage? You can't just say "ah yes.... he'll do..." and then get married, especially when you have the dating intelligence of a 14 year old girl like many women who use tinder as a sole means to meet men these days.

I got married last year and got pregnant as well. My husband decided to move to PR with me and my 2 sons who are not his. I did because I thought things would be good. Once we moved things went bad money wise he was working but the pay was $7 an hour I was making more money than him so he quit his job.  This was too much for me alone to pay everything and to see him spend the money just got to me. We had a huge fight and I left with my sons back to New York where we are from and my family lives. He keeps calling me wanting me back but has been talking about how it's ok for him to have a concubine during the marriage without it being a sin. And then he says he doesn't need one but why bring it up?  He has been asking me for money too since I left and I've been sending him some and even buying him uber eats while he's over there cause he still has no job. I feel bad because we are married and expecting and I don't want to put the baby through a broken home kind of life but I don't know if he will change as he says he will. He uses the Bible a lot to say I have to follow him and submit to him.  He doesn't like that I have social media and wants me to delete them and won't allow me to go to church. Am I overreacting should I move on or should I accept the way he is? Please no judgements I'm already going through depression as it is. 

I'll try and make this story short. 11yrs into my relationship with my ex and 2yrs of marriage I just recently found out he was on the dl. (Gay) We signed separation papers and while going through that process I started a new relationship and moved into my own place. My ex harassed me to no end to sign the separation papers which I did by force. I wanted to have someone with legal knowledge look over my papers before I signed anything and he would not allow it. Well found out he put me on child support and he can claim both our kids on his taxes. Mind you he makes more than me, he's the bread winner. We share joint custody. He wants a fast divorce and wants me to file under adultery but he cheated 11yrs with men but wants me to take the fall due to my new relationship. How can I go about getting these separation papers annulled? Also his uncle who is an attorney has been giving him legal advice and was the one who filed the papers for him. 

I went on a six hour trip with my 15 month old daughter to please my husband bc his aunts and uncles live in a different state than we do , that was awful drive . We went to a christmas party and my sister inlaw begged him to bring her . She barley played with her and took one photo . She takes of my husband too but nothing of me ??? I don't understand why bc she is nice and acts like she likes me . It could all be fake but she is good at faking it . My mil does the same thing when we visit . Takes of my daughter and husband but not me . I am afriad to ask bc fear of rejection . Idk what it is . Im not ugly but im not gorgeous. Im 5'0 brown eyes brown hair so they shouldnt be jealous ? Any idea what it is ? It doesnt bother me so much on fb but the fact they dont include me when taking photos in person . He asked them to have a group photo at christmas and no one came over so his sister took one of us three at least had me in it and never posted it . Has always been like this . They always include my bil and whoever his brother is with . Idk Ive been taking my own lately and not including them . 

Does, she again thinks about jumping to another men after some days when her past urges returns and she agains starts feeling bored with one partner which she is not used to it ? As she is used to change partner regularly claiming she loved and wanted to spend her whole life with them, but yet she played the game n jump from one partner to another? Will such woman ever change their nature to change partners, what else can be expected from such easy woman who thinks love,relations, marriage, sex,etc are just a game?

We had to have sex in his car because I still live with my parents and I didn't want him coming in the house.. I wonder if having sex in the car is part of the reason why it was so lack luster. Because I was pretty paranoid about somebody walking up on us since he doesn't have tinted windows and we were in my neighborhood. Anyways we have been texting and talking on the phone for months 24/7 and he's making me laugh super hard and I've been making him laugh super hard. Seemed like we had a crazy connection.. we finally met up in the person and had sex and I was so disappointed... first of all he barely opened up his mouth to kiss me. He put it in the wrong hole a couple times and I just did not feel the sparks and chemistry that I felt while we were talking on the phone. And it kinda made me less interested in him. I see him in a completely different light now. I was sure the sex would be off the charts because we had a strong emotional connection and he is very attractive but I was beyond disappointed. We talked about making plans for a future relationship but what should I do? Anyone been in this situation 

I have a boyfriend and want to marry him but my mom wants me to go for an arrange marriage I refused to and want to go for love marriage what is the harshest way to force my mother to let me marry for love oh any btw this is not a troll

After how many weeks or months?

Just a quick background. She has been violent to me and played mind games in the past. I always fall for her games. Our relationship is unhealthy. She wont go to counselling. She tries to downplay things when I talk to her family. They appear to like me and stand on my side. We have an 20 month old son. We have been together for a decade and married for 8 years. She works hard and she is Chinese. I get annoyed because she sometimes wont help around the home and caring for our son. It leaves me feeling overwhelmed. 14 months ago, I finished a night shift and was looking after our young son in the bedroom. I had been enduring her verbal and physical assaults prior to this day. On this day, she had an altercation with her mum that resulted in the kitchen being smashed up and they were physically assaulting each other. I called the police out of fear. They charged her and ordered an AVO. She came home and started punching me and smashing the home. I called the police asking for the crisis team. They arrested her for breach of bail and kept her overnight in the cell. Worst day of my life but her parents helped to care for our newborn son. It cost 5 grand to go through the courts. A psych report said she can't take any form of criticism. Family services got involved and told me I have to stop complaining and she has to control her anger. I'm tired. We travelled overseas together and she attacked me towards the end of the holiday and treated me badly in her hometown. She organized a photo shoot as our Christmas present. I finished my 7 days of night shift 2 days ago and couldn't sleep because she wanted to sleep until 2pm and I had to stay awake all day to care for our son. She went off to meet a client for her real estate job all afternoon. I crashed for 2 hrs in the afternoon. I ended up awake until 3am. Today I took care of our son all day whilst she slept or played around with the phone to organize all the holiday snaps. I cooked, cleaned, shopped etc. I was moody and complaining about the mess etc. It resulted in my wife going off her head in anger and she smashed the frame of the photo she got me and tore up the photo. That hurt. She then packed a bag and said the new arrangement of our marriage is the flowing: she rents out an Airbnb. When it is not in use she wants to stay there a couple of days per week to have a break from me. Her father is coming out from China to help. So she will walk away from our son. I told her I don't agree to that and that she owes me the photo. Although I don't care about the photo. I removed hers and put it away. After some discussions she backed down and said we can go there together if we need a break from her father or vice versa. But I feel like contacting a lawyer. I have thought a lot about asking her to permanently leave the apartment. It has about 50k of her money as a deposit but it's in my name. I can afford to refinance to pay her out the 50k. Anyway this evening she got mad at me complaining because I felt overworked doing all the cooking, cleaning and taking care of our son whilst she slept until 3pm and played on her phone doing the holiday photos. I simply showed some annoyance at 10pm because I was tired. Big mistake. She went mad and smashed the nice photo frame of me and tore it up. That was her xmas present from our overseas trip photoshoot in Beijing... She then decided to pack a bag and said that her Airbnb is not always rented out. That with her father coming, she wants to go and stay there a few days per week. I told her I'm not doing a part time marriage. After a while she backed down and said we can both go there to have a rest if it's too crowded with her father. I'm sleeping outside on the sofa bed under air con for a few nights until her father arrives. I'm of the opinion that if she decides to follow through with taking off on our son and our marriage, that I will report everything to a lawyer and seek support. Report her to child protection services etc. I feel inclined to ring them in the morning. I think if she takes off, I can get custody of my son and tell her to grab her stuff and leave. Refinance the house to pay out her 50k deposit. I worry about the emotional fallout on my son though as he is more attached to his mum recently. Used to be me when he was a bit younger. I know the fastest way to get her out is report her to the police and get her arrested but I worry about ruining her future.

Long story short. I am a soldier, I found out during our vacation that my wife has been cheating on me for the past few months. As soon as I found out, I told her to stop communicating with the guy and she cried and said she would. Well I find out a few days later that she has been lying to me, and see was still talking to him. I've literally been giving her a chance to make this divorce go smoothly, but not anymore. I'm going to have the military hit her hard with the adultery charge and much more.  This is why soldiers go insane and start murdering they're families and committing suicide. 

Yes, its easy to say she should asuuure him that he will not compare him, not expect more, etc. But the husband's mind may think like she is saying that just to comfort him. So how an she approach?

What type of apology is associated eith the two forms? 

I m a female and most of the time I fall for guys who just want nothing but spend some time. I don't offer sex. How to do better at dating, without losing your energy, time and money on the wrong guys  I m asking how to do better during the dating process

For the record it was my first time cheating on my wife and her friend doesn't agree with the way my wife's treating me. It's been so long I didn't realize how much I'd missed the touch of a women. I don't know why my wife's depriving me but it's been a year since we made love.

Without giving too many details, I've basically come to the conclusion that I am the high drive partner and my husband is the lower drive. I am late 20s and he is mid 30s.  After many discussions (some very emotional/uncomfortable/unproductive) it has been established that he doesn't see an issue. Me on the otherhand, would like to be intimate 2 to 3 times a week. I eventually settled for once a week, and that was fine until I realized that when I stop initiating, he can easily go once every 2 weeks before even thinking about sex. He does put in effort by initiating on occasion, but is it weird that the libido difference is actually starting to feel like a turn off? I am aroused by feeling desired - not by maintenance or duty sex. I feel my own desire starting to wane because of this and even a bit of aversion when we do have sex because I feel it's missing the spark it once had and that it's not coming from a place of my husband being hot for me.  Has anyone else felt this way?

We've been married for a month and been together for just over 4 years. He's 25 years old. He is never in the mood. I practically have to beg him to do anything. It makes me feel horrible. For the past 2 year we probably have sex only about once every 3 or 4 months. Before then it was pretty regular, but degreased gradually. It's gotten to the point where he doesn't want to even do the littlest things. He won't touch or kiss me and has no interest in me touching him. When I try to talk to him about it he gets extremely uncomfortable and apologetic, but nothing ever comes of it. I'm beyond frustrated. I would say I have an increased sex drive and my needs aren't being met.  Our sexy relationship hasn't always been the best. He's pretty selfish in bed to begin with and lacks stamina. But I'm getting concerned that there is an underlying issue. He would never talk to a therapist or doctor because he is so uncomfortable, so I'm at a loss of what to do.  Overall, he's not a cuddly person and likes his space so it's hard to get close to him. I am very clingy and enjoy being near him, so it's like a double whammy for him to not only not want me close to him but then also not want to be with me physically.  I hate to be so selfish, but I need more intimacy from him and I'm not getting it. Any help/advice is welcome. Thanks in advance.