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- Question: This is a silly question...but how do I become a happier teenager? ?
- Question: Pearl, can we be friends again in the future?
- Question: Advice please?
- Question: Why would my best friend talk to me about a party she didn’t invite me to?
- Question: How do I get a penpal?
- Question: Beefing with roommate that I rely on to drive me to campus and back because I don’t have a car, idk what to do?
- Question: Do any of y’all have advice for me? My friend is very confusing..?
- Question: Should I go see my ex because his best friend’s died?
- Question: Am I bad to hate my best friends kid?
- Question: Where is the line for friends not giving back?
- Question: How long is too long when it comes to reconnecting with old friends?
- Question: Is it normal that whenever a friend of mine invites me to meet new people for fun my heart starts beating even weeks before the day happens?
- Question: Is it a good idea to start looking for paul bearers for my future funeral at my age of 37?
- Question: Am I a bad friend for going to a new year’s party without my best friend?
- Question: How to stop trying to be friends and close to people who do not want to ?
- Question: Will I ever have friends? I'm 20 and a loner.?
- Question: Is it fast or slow to have sex 4 times in 3 months?
- Question: Is it normal to find fault in everything everyone does? Why do they get so angry? It is the way I show I care and it is very fun for me.?
- Question: Should me and my friends rent a house for two years while we are at community college?
- Question: My friend always wear jackets even if it's hot?
- Question: This is a silly question...but how do I become a happier teenager? ?
- Question: Pearl, can we be friends again in the future?
- Question: Advice please?
- Question: Why would my best friend talk to me about a party she didn’t invite me to?
- Question: How do I get a penpal?
- Question: Beefing with roommate that I rely on to drive me to campus and back because I don’t have a car, idk what to do?
- Question: Do any of y’all have advice for me? My friend is very confusing..?
- Question: Should I go see my ex because his best friend’s died?
- Question: Am I bad to hate my best friends kid?
- Question: Where is the line for friends not giving back?
- Question: How long is too long when it comes to reconnecting with old friends?
- Question: Is it normal that whenever a friend of mine invites me to meet new people for fun my heart starts beating even weeks before the day happens?
- Question: Is it a good idea to start looking for paul bearers for my future funeral at my age of 37?
- Question: Am I a bad friend for going to a new year’s party without my best friend?
- Question: How to stop trying to be friends and close to people who do not want to ?
- Question: Will I ever have friends? I'm 20 and a loner.?
- Question: Is it fast or slow to have sex 4 times in 3 months?
- Question: Is it normal to find fault in everything everyone does? Why do they get so angry? It is the way I show I care and it is very fun for me.?
- Question: Should me and my friends rent a house for two years while we are at community college?
- Question: My friend always wear jackets even if it's hot?
| Question: This is a silly question...but how do I become a happier teenager? ? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 04:42 PM PST I'm 16 years old and I love my family and my best friend. I have everything I need and I'm so greatful...but some days I find myself sad and I don't know why |
| Question: Pearl, can we be friends again in the future? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 04:23 PM PST i kind of miss talking, because we had that argument on facebook and we never made up and i want to make things right because i don't like ending on bad terms, can you think about it maybe |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 03:17 PM PST I've been best friends with him for 2 years. Our friendship is great when it's good but when it's bad it's really bad. I feel like the whole friendship could be toxic towards me as I care for him a lot more than he does me. I'd hate to lose the friendship we have because we have so many memories and have been best friends for what feels like forever but when we go through anything rough being a big thing or small, I feel like it's just such a negative energy and the whole thing just feels so toxic, but it definitely doesn't affect him as much as it does me. I don't know what to do as I do love him and I love him way too much to cut him out of my life but I can't help but thinking he's not good for me :( What can I do? Thanks xx |
| Question: Why would my best friend talk to me about a party she didn’t invite me to? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 02:29 PM PST A few weeks ago my best friend talked to me about how she was planning on doing a party for new year's eve and how I would obviously be invited if she did. I got no invite, and this isn't the situation where "oh maybe they thought you just didn't need an invite because you know you can come", because how would i know the time of the party? Plus when she talked to me about it she wasn't even sure yet if she was doing it. I saw today tons of videos and pictures from the party. I don't have beef with any of the people, half of them I am actually pretty close to and she knows I am. So WHY in the world did she not invite me? |
| Question: How do I get a penpal? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 02:05 PM PST |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 01:13 PM PST So I recently got in a big fight with a friend and a roommate over text during winter break and I rely on him to get to and from campus during the school year. Now that we are beefing there is no way he is going to drive me and pick me up from campus back home. We live pretty far off campus so walking will take an hour tops, plus it's cold and the roads are narrow. I could ride a bike but I usually come home from campus late because I have work so I don't think riding my bike in pitch darkness in narrow roads is a good idea. I have other roommates who can drive me, but I am not that close with them and I don't want to burden them having to drive and pick me up everyday. I don't have any money for a car, and my parents refuse to buy me one. I am really stressing out on how I am going to get to school and back everyday when it's time to go back to school. Any ideas would be helpful! Thank you Also the bus doesnt come where I live because it's far off campus. |
| Question: Do any of y’all have advice for me? My friend is very confusing..? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:57 PM PST My friend makes me feel like I feel like I'm not good enough. Even though I'm only 17, I can sometimes be hyper and act crazy. So he calls me a crackhead. And I felt like I was so stupid and not normal.. but I'm a perfectly healthy child with no issues. And my friend told me "you are weird and special. We are all weird and special" "we are a big group of outcasts, none of us are the same" "some may be like you but don't show it very well. I do don't I" he makes me feel like there something wrong with me. It makes me have self harm thoughts.. and he told me never to do it. I am in constant worry for this friend.. because after talking to him he changes his username to "next mistake" "I feel like no one likes me"... which confuses me.. because he told me "don't worry about me there is nothing to worry about" "it's my job to be depressed not you"... and how can I not worry when his bio says "I just want to ******* die"... Is what advice my friend telling me the right thing?? It makes me feel like maybe I am a looser. But my family says I'm fine... |
| Question: Should I go see my ex because his best friend’s died? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:43 PM PST We broke up last week, We had a rough past so he decided he didn't want us to try make it work. I begged, he said no so I'm processing the breakup. He drunk called me crying that he's lost his best friend. He was stabbed to death and now I'm thinking should I go see him to be there as a friend. He turned to me because he didn't know who else to. |
| Question: Am I bad to hate my best friends kid? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:18 PM PST I'm 2 months pregnant and I can't stand my best friends son. I've never felt hatred for a child, but he's just a brat. He's 5 years old and just a rude child. My friend is sick with cancer and her child is mostly raised by his grandmother who's also terrible, so i'm not judging my friend on her child. He is rude and doesn't listen and does whatever he wants without consequences. I don't want my friend to be offended that I don't want to hang out with her, but she's always with her child which I completely understand, but I can't stand him. He tells everyone he hates us if he doesn't get his way and that he's going to chop our heads and arms off with a saw. It's creepy. I'm fearing that when i'm in the hospital after i have my baby, she will come and bring him. How do i tell her from the beginning that I don't want him near my baby? How do I stop hating a 5 year old? Is it just hormones? Help lol |
| Question: Where is the line for friends not giving back? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 11:33 AM PST In one of my friend groups, we have a friend who more likely than not has some sort of personality disorder, but due to their situation can't really get proper help immediately. I've noticed for a couple months that they kind of only respond to us on things they started (it's a creative group, so this means like certain characters or media or what have you that are related to their own, or their own venting), but have stated they hate being ignored and go off on tangents about their problems and obsessions, then end it with something of 'I don't know why I keep doing this here' and seem upset when no one's even had time to respond or is busy talking to another member. I'll say right now I'm NOT really interested in cutting them off, but I just need help on how to balance things so I don't get so drained? I understand they're in a bad place, and by no means should be required to "always return the favor", but there's only so much we can do to help, and it would be nice to at least have a conversation that isn't about their stuff again (They have the capability, just aren't doing it much lately, too stuck). TLDR; I want to help my friend, but they don't really like to give back much. How do I keep myself from investing too much without being cold or walking away? Should I talk to the other group members about it in some way? |
| Question: How long is too long when it comes to reconnecting with old friends? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 11:11 AM PST I've effectively lost contact with almost all of my friends from my pre-college days. There are some I'm connected to on Facebook, but only a few of them are still active online. There are some people who have stayed close, but only because they were still living in close proximity with one another through college and beyond. I was one of the people who moved away from everyone, so I basically drifted away. Occassionally the topic of reunion will come up, but it never actually happens. The social ones are occupied by new friends and the not-so-social ones feel awkward organizing meetups. At some point is it better to just move on and accept that people who were once your close friends are now acquaintances? The prospect is saddening since it's so hard to develop close friendships as an adult. |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 10:50 AM PST This morning my friend wants me to hang out with him and our other friend that I've known since high school, Im 22, which I don't mind. But he's also going to invite these 2 girls that he's been having sex with and my heart started beating for no reason. I have a gf so my intention isn't to flirt or anything. I just want to have a good time before my friend moves to New York but i don't know my heart always does that even when I'm meeting people that I've known forever. |
| Question: Is it a good idea to start looking for paul bearers for my future funeral at my age of 37? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 10:09 AM PST |
| Question: Am I a bad friend for going to a new year’s party without my best friend? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 08:39 AM PST I invited my best friend from high school to a party that I was invited to (we were allowed to bring guests). I asked my friend 3 days before the date of the party if she wanted to go, and she told me that she would get back to me. Anyway, the day of the party, I still didn't hear from her, so my friends and I decided to pregame, and then head over to the party. About 30 minuets into the party (it was around 9pm now), my friend texts me saying that she's available to go. But at that point, I was already kind of drunk, and couldn't really go get her. So, am I a bad friend for that? |
| Question: How to stop trying to be friends and close to people who do not want to ? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:59 AM PST I have been struggling with this forever, the more a friend is distant or mean to me the more I want them to like me.. I do not know how to just stop caring and let go! |
| Question: Will I ever have friends? I'm 20 and a loner.? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:44 AM PST |
| Question: Is it fast or slow to have sex 4 times in 3 months? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:24 AM PST |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 06:46 AM PST It is the only time I feel joy. It is the only way I know how to start a conversation.It seems to make people mad especially when they did me a favor. I have been kicked out of restaurants . Most people do not want to help me or do anything around me. |
| Question: Should me and my friends rent a house for two years while we are at community college? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 01:39 AM PST Its because we plan to go to the same community college for the first two years to save money. Not only that, but I can't live with parents for those two years because they are so controlling and don't let me do anything. They wont even let me drive until I am 18, which I am going to do myself. They just give me a lot of anxiety and more. However, my question is if it would be reasonable for me and my friends to rent a house for those two years? My mom says I have "enough" money for college. And when I am 18, I don't have to live under their care anymore so I can use that money. So would it be reasonable for me and my friends to do that? |
| Question: My friend always wear jackets even if it's hot? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:53 AM PST My best friend always wear a jacket when we're hanging out and he never takes it off even when I ask. Is there something he's hiding perhaps? |
| Question: This is a silly question...but how do I become a happier teenager? ? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 04:42 PM PST I'm 16 years old and I love my family and my best friend. I have everything I need and I'm so greatful...but some days I find myself sad and I don't know why |
| Question: Pearl, can we be friends again in the future? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 04:23 PM PST i kind of miss talking, because we had that argument on facebook and we never made up and i want to make things right because i don't like ending on bad terms, can you think about it maybe |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 03:17 PM PST I've been best friends with him for 2 years. Our friendship is great when it's good but when it's bad it's really bad. I feel like the whole friendship could be toxic towards me as I care for him a lot more than he does me. I'd hate to lose the friendship we have because we have so many memories and have been best friends for what feels like forever but when we go through anything rough being a big thing or small, I feel like it's just such a negative energy and the whole thing just feels so toxic, but it definitely doesn't affect him as much as it does me. I don't know what to do as I do love him and I love him way too much to cut him out of my life but I can't help but thinking he's not good for me :( What can I do? Thanks xx |
| Question: Why would my best friend talk to me about a party she didn’t invite me to? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 02:29 PM PST A few weeks ago my best friend talked to me about how she was planning on doing a party for new year's eve and how I would obviously be invited if she did. I got no invite, and this isn't the situation where "oh maybe they thought you just didn't need an invite because you know you can come", because how would i know the time of the party? Plus when she talked to me about it she wasn't even sure yet if she was doing it. I saw today tons of videos and pictures from the party. I don't have beef with any of the people, half of them I am actually pretty close to and she knows I am. So WHY in the world did she not invite me? |
| Question: How do I get a penpal? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 02:05 PM PST |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 01:13 PM PST So I recently got in a big fight with a friend and a roommate over text during winter break and I rely on him to get to and from campus during the school year. Now that we are beefing there is no way he is going to drive me and pick me up from campus back home. We live pretty far off campus so walking will take an hour tops, plus it's cold and the roads are narrow. I could ride a bike but I usually come home from campus late because I have work so I don't think riding my bike in pitch darkness in narrow roads is a good idea. I have other roommates who can drive me, but I am not that close with them and I don't want to burden them having to drive and pick me up everyday. I don't have any money for a car, and my parents refuse to buy me one. I am really stressing out on how I am going to get to school and back everyday when it's time to go back to school. Any ideas would be helpful! Thank you Also the bus doesnt come where I live because it's far off campus. |
| Question: Do any of y’all have advice for me? My friend is very confusing..? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:57 PM PST My friend makes me feel like I feel like I'm not good enough. Even though I'm only 17, I can sometimes be hyper and act crazy. So he calls me a crackhead. And I felt like I was so stupid and not normal.. but I'm a perfectly healthy child with no issues. And my friend told me "you are weird and special. We are all weird and special" "we are a big group of outcasts, none of us are the same" "some may be like you but don't show it very well. I do don't I" he makes me feel like there something wrong with me. It makes me have self harm thoughts.. and he told me never to do it. I am in constant worry for this friend.. because after talking to him he changes his username to "next mistake" "I feel like no one likes me"... which confuses me.. because he told me "don't worry about me there is nothing to worry about" "it's my job to be depressed not you"... and how can I not worry when his bio says "I just want to ******* die"... Is what advice my friend telling me the right thing?? It makes me feel like maybe I am a looser. But my family says I'm fine... |
| Question: Should I go see my ex because his best friend’s died? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:43 PM PST We broke up last week, We had a rough past so he decided he didn't want us to try make it work. I begged, he said no so I'm processing the breakup. He drunk called me crying that he's lost his best friend. He was stabbed to death and now I'm thinking should I go see him to be there as a friend. He turned to me because he didn't know who else to. |
| Question: Am I bad to hate my best friends kid? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:18 PM PST I'm 2 months pregnant and I can't stand my best friends son. I've never felt hatred for a child, but he's just a brat. He's 5 years old and just a rude child. My friend is sick with cancer and her child is mostly raised by his grandmother who's also terrible, so i'm not judging my friend on her child. He is rude and doesn't listen and does whatever he wants without consequences. I don't want my friend to be offended that I don't want to hang out with her, but she's always with her child which I completely understand, but I can't stand him. He tells everyone he hates us if he doesn't get his way and that he's going to chop our heads and arms off with a saw. It's creepy. I'm fearing that when i'm in the hospital after i have my baby, she will come and bring him. How do i tell her from the beginning that I don't want him near my baby? How do I stop hating a 5 year old? Is it just hormones? Help lol |
| Question: Where is the line for friends not giving back? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 11:33 AM PST In one of my friend groups, we have a friend who more likely than not has some sort of personality disorder, but due to their situation can't really get proper help immediately. I've noticed for a couple months that they kind of only respond to us on things they started (it's a creative group, so this means like certain characters or media or what have you that are related to their own, or their own venting), but have stated they hate being ignored and go off on tangents about their problems and obsessions, then end it with something of 'I don't know why I keep doing this here' and seem upset when no one's even had time to respond or is busy talking to another member. I'll say right now I'm NOT really interested in cutting them off, but I just need help on how to balance things so I don't get so drained? I understand they're in a bad place, and by no means should be required to "always return the favor", but there's only so much we can do to help, and it would be nice to at least have a conversation that isn't about their stuff again (They have the capability, just aren't doing it much lately, too stuck). TLDR; I want to help my friend, but they don't really like to give back much. How do I keep myself from investing too much without being cold or walking away? Should I talk to the other group members about it in some way? |
| Question: How long is too long when it comes to reconnecting with old friends? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 11:11 AM PST I've effectively lost contact with almost all of my friends from my pre-college days. There are some I'm connected to on Facebook, but only a few of them are still active online. There are some people who have stayed close, but only because they were still living in close proximity with one another through college and beyond. I was one of the people who moved away from everyone, so I basically drifted away. Occassionally the topic of reunion will come up, but it never actually happens. The social ones are occupied by new friends and the not-so-social ones feel awkward organizing meetups. At some point is it better to just move on and accept that people who were once your close friends are now acquaintances? The prospect is saddening since it's so hard to develop close friendships as an adult. |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 10:50 AM PST This morning my friend wants me to hang out with him and our other friend that I've known since high school, Im 22, which I don't mind. But he's also going to invite these 2 girls that he's been having sex with and my heart started beating for no reason. I have a gf so my intention isn't to flirt or anything. I just want to have a good time before my friend moves to New York but i don't know my heart always does that even when I'm meeting people that I've known forever. |
| Question: Is it a good idea to start looking for paul bearers for my future funeral at my age of 37? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 10:09 AM PST |
| Question: Am I a bad friend for going to a new year’s party without my best friend? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 08:39 AM PST I invited my best friend from high school to a party that I was invited to (we were allowed to bring guests). I asked my friend 3 days before the date of the party if she wanted to go, and she told me that she would get back to me. Anyway, the day of the party, I still didn't hear from her, so my friends and I decided to pregame, and then head over to the party. About 30 minuets into the party (it was around 9pm now), my friend texts me saying that she's available to go. But at that point, I was already kind of drunk, and couldn't really go get her. So, am I a bad friend for that? |
| Question: How to stop trying to be friends and close to people who do not want to ? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:59 AM PST I have been struggling with this forever, the more a friend is distant or mean to me the more I want them to like me.. I do not know how to just stop caring and let go! |
| Question: Will I ever have friends? I'm 20 and a loner.? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:44 AM PST |
| Question: Is it fast or slow to have sex 4 times in 3 months? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 07:24 AM PST |
| Posted: 01 Jan 2020 06:46 AM PST It is the only time I feel joy. It is the only way I know how to start a conversation.It seems to make people mad especially when they did me a favor. I have been kicked out of restaurants . Most people do not want to help me or do anything around me. |
| Question: Should me and my friends rent a house for two years while we are at community college? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 01:39 AM PST Its because we plan to go to the same community college for the first two years to save money. Not only that, but I can't live with parents for those two years because they are so controlling and don't let me do anything. They wont even let me drive until I am 18, which I am going to do myself. They just give me a lot of anxiety and more. However, my question is if it would be reasonable for me and my friends to rent a house for those two years? My mom says I have "enough" money for college. And when I am 18, I don't have to live under their care anymore so I can use that money. So would it be reasonable for me and my friends to do that? |
| Question: My friend always wear jackets even if it's hot? Posted: 01 Jan 2020 12:53 AM PST My best friend always wear a jacket when we're hanging out and he never takes it off even when I ask. Is there something he's hiding perhaps? |
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