Why do I have to stop have sex if my wife don't want to do it ? It's been six months and it's I'm not mean about it but when I try to engage with her she gets all mad about it and finds some reason to get out of the situation. She said it gross and she dont want it at all so why do I have to stop having sex? it just seems unfair:(

My mom has been verbally abusive my whole life. Then she goes through these phases where she wants me to act like my best friend and I always fall for it. However she really crossed the line this time, telling my hubby she wants him to die (he has a chronic illness). I love her but I cant allow her to treat me like this anymore, especially not my hubby. I'm scared she'll verbally abuse grandkids as well whenever we decide to have kids. How can I cut her out of my life without feeling the guilt? Every time I try to cut her off, memories of when things were good flash into my head and make me extremely guilty

The summer of 2016 was the last contact with my son. He decided to walk away ftom my life without providing a reason. He is 20 years old. I believe my ex-wife brainwashed him against me. The NOT KNOWING THE REASON is killing me inside. How many here can relate? Also, will he ever return to my life? I have been a good dad to him since day one. Every effort to contact him, however, has been in vain. My ex-wife and I divorced in 2003. It was a simple divorce. No fighting. No arguments. We were not on the same page concerning insignificant matter to important issues in our marriage.

My husband had a bad day, came in yelling i let him vent, then I asked if he so stressed we should go grocery shopping another day, (he wanted to go tonight) he yelled at me and then i attempt to tell him that not okay he yelled again and now i am just not talking but i am upset you should not take a bad day out on me...how can i tell hin this without him yelling at me

He ended it with her. But 10 years later he's still fixing her car, doing yard work, arranging roof work for her, even went to the neighbor's house once to fight with a guy after he got in my moms face. He had a physical fight with a neighbor for his ex wife. I dont get it. Im ashamed hes my dad sometimes. I mean I appreciate that everything hes done for my mom has also been for my benefit, but I just dont understand. He goes far beyond what an ex husband should be doing. My mom will sometimes get mad if he wont come fix something quickly enough. As if shes entitled to his help. It annoys me. Why did he leave her then? Hes trapped anyway. He may as well have stayed and got sex. Hes been single a decade. Possibly a gay. God knows all she does is talk crap about him and to his face too often

So my husband and I went to go buy a mattress and the salesman was able to get the price down very low ...we were happy and after leaving my husband kept saying oh he would be cool to hang out with and the next day he bought him a gift card and took it to him I thought it was weird Not to mention he is not enthusiastic about sex and I always have to beg

Recently, my husband gave me a box for my bday filled with little presents. Things I do not need, never asked for, and will never use. Cheap gifts, from the store called 5 Below, where all gifts are $5 or less. Some of the gifts were a Pez dispenser and a little play gun with these little pellets filled with gun powder that actually make a popping noise. A very cheaply made, but soft blanket and a coffee thermos (which I do not need, already have 4). We have been married almost 4 years. Each time his birthday comes around, I try to make him feel special with the gifts I give and the things I do for him like put up decorations, special order a cake I know he likes from the bakery and put thought into giving him a gift. I just cannot help but feel that he went into one store and just put items in a box for my birthday so he would have something to give me. I feel like I am not worth his time and effort. I cried most of my birthday and when I brought it up to him he said I was ungrateful and ended the conversation. I just feel like he doesn't really love me. I do not need anything expensive. I am not materialistic. One year, he made me a birthday cake. That was it. A cake-I absolutely loved it. He took his time and made it look so nice. Just that and a card. I was so happy that he put that thought into it. I don't mean to sound ungrateful. He is not hurting for money. I just don't understand, but it really feels like he doesn't care that much.

He CANNOT know how much this is killing me. He just can't. I can't give him the satisfaction. How do I word this so he thinks I am happy for him because I no longer want him anyway? I was thinking of saying this 'OMG. That's wonderful news. Congratulations to you both'. Is that okay or is it too much? I intend to cease contact with him after that and NEVER speaking to him ever again but I need to leave without him thinking he has hurt me.

I share the apt with a couple , the wife has approached me twice demanding sex, she claims her husband neglecting her ! The first time I told her that I am not interested, the second to me I clearly explained to her I have a girlfriend ! Now she is acting in a mean way, for example I miss some of my clothes that I leave to dry in the backyard , dirt and poured water in front of my room.. I think she is mentally unstable and I fear for my safety.how can I address that to her husband?

We went to an attorney together because I didn't want to do things behind his back. Im making a will and plan to give my son power of attorney for my healthcare and want to make sure my son gets my savings, since I started saving for a long time before I met my husband. I was a single parent and married my husband when I was 50yrs old. My husband didn't intend to make his own will or anything, but when we met with the attorney, he wouldn't shut the hell up. He rambled on and on and I didnt really discuss the things I wanted with the lawyer. He was rambling a whole bunch about nothing related to my legal business. He did agree to sign off of my savings. Same type thing happens over and over again. He doesn't know anything, but fakes it, and I haven't said anything to him about it to keep the peace, but I have had enough of his ignorance. Thoughts?

My brother in law's wife posted an quote on her social media saying "I'm proud of a lot of things in life, but nothing beats being a parent". My brother in law thought it was putting her marriage down to her online peers. His wife told him he was being too sensitive. Part of me thinks maybe he is being too sensitive, but I can see where he is coming from at the same time. What do you think?

I m not sure what to do anymore with my husband s anger. I noticed also that he trys to disagree on purpose sometimes just to irritate me. I tried ignoring it and tried to still stay sweet with him when he is angry but it doesn t make him feel better. I feel that I m trying all the time to keep him in a good mood, and i get disrespected a lot, I m tired of kissing up to him and walking on egg shells. I really want to be happy with him cause i knew him since i was twelve. And i really don t like it at all when he calls me a *****, especially when I m so loyal and devoted to my husband and kids. I can t have a normal conversation with him cause most of the time we end up arguing, so sometimes i just stay quiet but then he says why I m not talking. A lot of times i have thought about divorce, and just leaving to Pennsylvania to be with all my family over there. I need some advise, and some prayers my way...

We are in dire straights financially. We have been both out of work for a while and have run out of money. My wife thinks she can give men hand pleasure for $. She says it does nothing for her sexually and would gladly do it to help out. I think it might be cheating, but we need the money....she said she would only do it topless. My question is, does it do anything for a women?

We took "Dick", hubby's best friend and ex co-worker, out for Chinese food this past Valentine's Day. I have never seen Dick with a woman in the past 24+ years, since his divorce and custody battle with his ex wife. But I heard he likes me; ten years ago he told my hubby in a conference room at work that he "wanted to bang me". Most men would fly over that table and wipe the floor with his face, but Hubby owes fealty and loyalty to "Dick" that I won't mention here which is why he didn't say anything but told me. I told hubby that wasn't nice so he made Dick apologize the next day. Anyways we are at this Chinese restaurant on V-Day. I'm sitting next to hubby and Dick is sitting across me. I pass a bowl of rice to Dick with my left hand. Dick takes his right hand, places his hand over my hand holding the bowl and caresses my fingers as he took the bowl. I didn't like that at all. Now I'm not comfortable being around Dick anymore. Dick has a bloated belly, sweaty and overall unattractive. Wish I could avoid Dick forever, as we live 55 miles away from him and when we are in town hubby wants to see him and I say NO. Please advise.

I am a male planning on doing boudoir and will have a female photographer The thing is I have a sexual fetish with dresses and my wife knows that and sometimes she will let me play with a dress while we're having sex etc that s not important, but is it cheating if I have a female photographer and taking pics of me nude and masturbating with the dress? She will not touch me in any way at all, want to surprise my wife with the pics