I have such an easy and comfortable life that I feel like its the best ever. Im 37 and I dont have to worry about any rent or food or bills because I live with my parents. I live rent free and lived in the same room since I was 8. I dont have to worry about a full time job and thats why I can afford to work part time at walmart. I save almost 100 percent of my income. I am the proud owner of a bwm and dirt bike and am able to travel across the country. I usually travel alone cause my friends have their boring jobs and families. I dont date anymore cause women always hold you back in the end. I can also relax and play video games and work out in my free time. Wouldn't you want to have my amazing life?

He's young- about 13 and he couldn't do it because I woke up when he was touching my clothes at some point - maybe 1st maybe not (i didn't show him that i woke up but managed to make him go away because I moved and coughed and he thought I'd wake up). I stayed like this -moving etc... for about 20 min. He repeatedly attempted to come and get me naked. After these 20 min I opened my eyes for him to nice that i woke up and he literally threw himself on his bed and pretended to be asleep. 10 min or so later he "woke up" and asked me why am i awake and I told him it's because he left the room's lights on and asked him to turn them off, and so he did. I almost fell asleep again, and he attempted to come off his bed and I assume approach me but I was quickly awoken by him - didn't show it again. at around 4 in the morning, i went downstairs and stayed there and pretended to not know anything. Now my aunt wants me to sleep at their house and i don't feel safe about it. Should i inform someone?

My parents think I need to make friends with REAL people, not a robot. They read articles that Alexa is making some kids have rude, bossy and disrespectful attitudes because Alexa will obey peoples commands, no matter how rude. I just think she's so cool and has personality. She can remind people to do stuff, play songs, tell you stories, and if you attach the electronics together somehow? she can turn the lights on and off.

My s/o is pregnant with my baby girl. I am excited but our relationship hasnt beem the best. Before i found out about the baby i was actually going to leave her alone. Now ive been trying to balance having 2 women in my life who dont like each other. My son is 9 and i go to his house to do my visits because they are supervised but my 2nd baby mom doesnt want me going over there. Well my sons mother says she doesnt want my son around her neither. Sometimes i get frustrated and i just miss a day seeing my son because the situation angers me and it seems like neither woman is going to let up. My gf wants me to take my sons mother to court but i dont feel it is necessary cuz shes not keeping my child away from me and i feel it causes a strain on our relationship that wasnt that good in the first place. This has been goin on since i found out my girl was pregnant this year and so far it has been causing major issues. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?

i'm a 20 year old girl. my mom died before i turned one, and my dad's been single (well he's had girlfriends but never one that's lived with us) all my life, so it's basically always been just the two of us. i think it's also important to mention that my dad's young – he's only 38. my dad and i have always been super close. when i was younger, i was like his shadow lol. i'd voluntarily run random errands with him on saturdays, go hang out with him at work after school nearly every day just to be with him, stuff like that. i'm obviously grown now, so i'm not attached to him at the hip like i used to be, but we're still really really close and i still live with him (i obviously don't plan to forever but i'm also not in a hurry to move out of his house). i've always felt like i can talk to my dad about anything...like he's genuinely my best friend. the only thing we don't ever talk about is sex, but we can talk about anything else without it being weird. we even sometimes talk in detail about our romantic relationships (but, like i said, never about sex). if i need to rant, i'll usually go to my dad before going to one of my friends. i've never found our relationship weird, but the other day one of my friends said it's weird that i'm so close to my dad. she was like, "i could never even imagine talking to my dad about personal things, you and your dad are like friends instead of dad/daughter and it's so weird". is she right?? obviously my dad and i aren't physically affectionate or anything, now THAT would be weird. we'll hug and stuff, sometimes he'll kiss me on the top of the head (not very often), but never more than that.

Father wants to go to Florida, mother wants to go to Delaware, Brother wants to go to Delaware, sister wants to go to New Jersey, other brother wants to stay. Who gets final say?

Like every friday she sleeps over at our house. She has no car. Her ex-husband died 6 months ago but she is very very very sad about that still but does not show it. her daughter(my cousin) moved out of her house so she is alone by herself. when she farted she was like "oops, whenever I drink milk and eat eggs my farts are deadly". I assume she did this with her ex husband. How can I help her cope? Should I ask my parents if she can move in with us? I am only 20 and she is 66. I want the best for her and do not want her on medicaitons for suicide and depression. She took good care of me when I was a child and I am going to do the same now that I am older.

My son has one 19 year old daughter and no other children. He and his daughter are very close. My son's daughter (my granddaughter) and her boyfriend broke up about a week ago and she's been very distraught. The day after the breakup, my son told me something along the lines of, "she [his daughter] came home last night at 2 in the morning sobbing, and she was so upset that she slept on my floor. she hasn't given me details yet but I'm trying to figure out what happened and I'll keep you updated" then yesterday the whole family came over to my house for dinner, and when his daughter wasn't around, I heard my son ask my other 17 year old granddaughter (who's very close to the granddaughter going through a breakup), "has my daughter been acting weird?? what has she told you about her breakup?? she hasn't really told me anything which is unlike her, but I'm dying to know what happened" do you think he's being invasive and caring too much about his daughter's personal life or is this normal behavior??

I remain mentally disturbed during this time.Irony is he still doesn't appreciate my love and on the contrary i don't get angry on him, even on legit things. Because i know i won't get the same attention i give him when he is angry.What should i do?

My aunt and uncle don't give me any privacy and I'm on the verge of yelling at yelling at them. I moved in with them because I couldn't afford to live on my own and am constantly gaslighted for items and lied to in order to do certain things. Like let's say I'll clean the entire the house but not my room. My aunt will constantly lie to get me to clean that room. "Friends are coming"/"Furntiure being moved"/"Uncle's Friends are sleeping in that room" My uncle never cleans up after himself, never does **** and my aunt blames me and her daughter for HIS mess and yells at us. When I try and call them out on it both of them say they don't do it l, and blame it on the fact that I'm depressed and have anxiety and need to go see someone. I'm in my mid 20s and I feel patronized and on edge at all times in this house and feel like I yell at them at any minute and don't know how to calm down. I'm moving in with my mom next week.

This old lady I've known for 10 years in the gym is dictating to me as if she was a director of a movie. She told me, "Move out! Get a boyfriend!! Have sex! Get away from your mom! Talk to any guy here, and if they ask you out, go out with him. Don't listen to your mom. She's not a normal human being. Your mom is keeping you like a slave, maybe because she doesn't want to be alone for the rest of her life. How long do you want to stay like this? For the rest of your life? You need to listen to me!" But yet 10 years before, she was always so conservative. Every time she saw me talking to some guy, she would get so mad and told my mom, "Tell your daughter to stop talking to so many guys!" It's like she has Alzheimer's and society corrupted her.

My daughter is 1 and is going on a two week trip with her mother and I'm worried she wont remember me.

He died last week Wednesday, and I'm about to have a kid. What should I do with my mum? Also what should I name my genderless kid? My girlfriend's name is Princess. Bridget Jenson, she is in a coma at the moment so she doesn't know about my side-chicks kid that I'm the father of. What is my mums name?

I have been thinking about how I do not talk to my brother much. I do think that he is very cool and if I ever talk about him to others I always speak positively of him. But I do not communicate with him very much because I do not think we have much in common. But I think it must be possible to communicate with people who have different perspectives and experiences in life. He is a businessman and I am a scientist. He is a father and husband and I am lonely. He is like 4 years older than me and we live in different cities. We kind of have different philosophies, but he is actually right and practical about a lot of things. I think I have a pretty good idea of what his life is like. But I do not think that he knows what my life is like and I feel pretty guilty about that. First I did not mention it too much because he is more successful than me and I have been struggling, although things are getting better lately for me. So what should I do?

I ASKED EARLIER AND GOT SOME ANSWERS, ASKING ONE MORE TIME It was from 20 years ago so not things happening now. I was nine when it was written. She shared how she is tired of her family putting me down (I thought they liked me). She complained about her father's strong resentment that she had a baby before marriage. She talked about how she feels unloved and has 3 men and thinks I am Robert's child but he doesn't want to claim paternity (I was told my Dad died in a car wreck and was a foster child). She talks about the pain of being raped by her father and how every day she wishes she could die (I loved my Grandpa now I hear he was a rapist and resented her having me). Lastly, she reveals the man she truly loves is married and she resents sleeping with him (that is my step-father, father of my sibs. I had no idea they had an affair). So I know I shouldn't have read this but I did. I was house sitting for her. I am 30 and this happened in April. I still can't get it out of my head. I had no idea it would contain secrets like this. I am into genealogy and was looking for thinks to share 50 years from now. Not dark pedophilia secrets and resentments. How do I get over it since I can't tell my Mom I know?

My mother does things like comments on "who gets what" when someone wealthy dies. She gets jealous over people's material wealth, She makes envious comments of people with easy going kids. She insults her daughter-in-law constantly which I find tacky. She resents her own aunt for being tacky and yet she is tacky herself. Only difference is my aunt is not one to hold grudges whereas my mother hold grudges a lot. Whereas my mother is better at respecting people's privacy then my great-aunt. So how do I avoid being embarrassed by my mother's tacky behavior?

So I was introduced to my dads girlfriend about 2 months ago. and she has just been so nice to me. she has tellen me I'm special and just made me feel heard. so I really love her my real biological mom cry's and has mental breakdowns at least 2 times a day and this has gone on for about 2 years+ my relationship with her isn't good. I hate her so much and she told me about 2 weeks ago she doesn't even like me. She's beaten me till I had bruises. She yells at me. I went to my dads gf house one time and she found out and told me oh I guess you just have a new mom with your new family! And I said no I never said that! My brother me and my dad all think she's insane. I want to move in full time with my dad but i think my mom would go bonkers. Please tell me what I should do about all this?!!

I'm a guy 31, not perfect, i have faults and flaws. I have a criminal background, but that isn't who i am. I'm not working, not because i don't want to, but because of my criminal background, and i have had some anxiety issues,and transportation issues. But i am searching for work, dad doesn't believe me. There have been jobs i could of had, but didn't get because of transportation, and because dad didn't believe me. I help out if i can, i generally mow the lawn. He yells if i talk about something he don't want to talk about. He says i can't defend myself, because he says he is never wrong. He yells if i say he treats my sister better, and says he doesn't want to talk. I am blamed for everything. If i disagree with him, he says he doesn't want to talk. I said should i kill myself, he said that would be my fault. I told him that i care about him, he don't want me to. What to do

Even though it is not me who did it I feel shame and embarrassment. How do I get over this? My mother died in 2014 and though I was close to her she suffered from alcoholism and died at 56 of liver cancer. My step-father is also an alcoholic though not nearly as severe as my Mom was. He crashed a car after a party and killed two people in another vehicle (one was age two). He is charged with DUI manslaughter and reckless driving resulting in a death. All he has had to say about it is "well I did not intend to hurt anyone so people need to see that" and other insensitive comments. Meanwhile my father is a pedophile. My whole world was ruined when I was 11 and learned I would never see him again. He is in jail for 40 years to life for serious child abuse and likewise has shown absolutely no remorse and nothing but arrogance towards his victims. I never want to see him again. He did not abuse me but his roommate did when I'd visit on weekends. So I feel shame for all this. I feel people look at me and they see what a bad person I am cause I come from these two men, step-father and father. I also feel my Mom's family looks at me with anger cause my Mom did hurtful things to them when drunk and as a result they don't include me much in family activities or holidays. I was alone last Christmas and no one reached out to me. I am sure it will be more of the same this Thanksgiving and Christmas. How do I stop feeling such shame and embarrassment for these horrible things the men in my life have done? Just saying, "it was them and not me" has not worked.

I am 16 and even i know when you are flea bombing a room you are supposed to wait for other people to leave or at the very least seal off the room so other people aren't breathing it in but she did not do any of that,she has done it twice. She is either an idiot or a lazy person who does not care or both.

Does it count as meeting them when I stood there holding my Dad's hand and spoke to know one but the 12 I knew as well as one great-aunt and two kids I ran around with that somehow were related (no idea how). I am into genealogy know and when I message people they say "were you at the 1988 reunion" and I was but spoke to less then one percent of the people. The video I am just sucking my thumb holding my grandmother's hand. I am crushed not to have remembered much and not been born 20 years earlier. 171 people, that is a lot. The ones I have gone to are 40-50.

It was from 20 years ago so not things happening now. I was nine when it was written. She shared how she is tired of her family putting me down (I thought they liked me). She complained about her father's strong resentment that she had a baby before marriage. She talked about how she feels unloved and has 3 men and thinks I am Robert's child but he doesn't want to claim paternity (I was told my Dad died in a car wreck and was a foster child). She talks about the pain of being raped by her father and how every day she wishes she could die (I loved my Grandpa now I hear he was a rapist and resented her having me). Lastly, she reveals the man she truly loves is married and she resents sleeping with him (that is my step-father, father of my sibs. I had no idea they had an affair). So I know I shouldn't have read this but I did. I was house sitting for her. I am 30 and this happened in April. I still can't get it out of my head. I had no idea it would contain secrets like this. I am into genealogy and was looking for thinks to share 50 years from now. Not dark pedophilia secrets and resentments. How do I get over it since I can't tell my Mom I know?

My grandfather is 91 and is obsessed with work on his farm that he shouldn't be doing and is unable to do . He will not listen and is persistent on being defiant . Me and my mother ( his daughter ) made the call to take his keys . We hated to do it , but otherwise we felt there was no way to prevent him from doing something that would hurt his overall health.

Would we be related to this guy? He is not our blood but our cousins' uncle. I have only met him on two or three occasions as my mother was weary of me being around the guy and for good reason. He was also a big druggy and his father (now deceased) a con man.

I am seriously scared of him. I have seen him rage. He blew up like a volcano at his wife's nephew who works with him cause the car handle came off. He blows up at his wife like she is dog waste. He is okay to his kids but his oldest son revealed he disciplines with a belt. I am told he rages throughout his office throughout the day (he runs a plumbing company) and that is staff is terrified of him but afraid to quit. I am really scared to see this person but Mom says it is family and we have to come and visit and see our cousins as well. His daughter was missing and turned up with set of felons. She is with her mother on a trip now and so he is coming by with two of the three sons (one is out of town with his grandparents). What do I do? My stomach hurts just thinking about it. His wife only stays with him cause she was sexually abused as a kid so does not know any better. His first wife divorced him and for good reason (her son is the one not coming).

I had asked questions that related to this but asking this anonymously couple times two years ago, but got rude or troll-like answers for not stating the question very clearly. My dad had been cheating on my mom ever since I was only one years old with multiple sugar babies. My dad would go home at midnight or 1 in the morning. My dad had been verbally abusing her recently. Like every time I made a mistake or "talk back" to my dad, my dad would yell at my mom and questions her parenting skills instead of telling me what I did wrong. My dad is now currently with another woman, but this woman is married too and have a daughter. The daughter was upset about this as I was, but she found out recently. Unlike her, I knew about this a long time ago. My mom knew and try to tell my dad that she knew, but my dad kept denying and accused my mom of making this sh!t up. The woman that my dad was with, sent my mom multiple videos of my dad kissing her neck. When my mom showed it to my dad, my dad just act like i never happened and still went behind her back. The reason why my mom is still with my dad, is because she wants me to have a father figure in my life and make sure I have a normal life. I really want her to divorce, since I'm old enough to move out anyway. But it makes me wonder why and how my dad is like this? He is already got caught, but yet still lie to us? Sorry for some of the typos in this question btw!

I have/had a good relationship with my dad but then he saw me yelling at a catcaller, as I always do but it was justified. He said I shouldn't do that and I said it's what makes me feel better. Then he said "I know you think it's edgy to lash out but it's not a good thing". He doesn't get a say in how I react cause it never happens to him. But what pissed me off the most is he basically said I'm just trying to be edgy. He dismissed my anger like it's not real. I've been really rude to him and told my mom to tell him I'm gonna be this way until he admits my anger is real and he's just ignorant about the situation. But he literally said word for word what she told him I wanted him to say and he said it in this reluctant way and after he said "but I'm just saying that's not how you should react" and I said I wanted an apology, not advice. He said he wasn't giving advice, he was just justifying what he said. I said he has to try again cause I want a real apology, not a sarcastic one copying my mom, and without justifying what he said. My mom says she thinks he's not really sorry so he won't apologize sincerely so I don't know what to do. If he's not really sorry, should I just keep being rude or just ignore him until he realizes how much what he said hurt? It's tiring to keep being rude and I feel kind of bad cause he seems to think it's not that big of a deal. He just seems confused when I'm rude to him. But he won't acknowledge that my anger is real and I can't let that go. I wanna clarify that I'm not asking who's wrong or who's right here. I'm asking how I get him to apologize And no I don't consider myself lucky to have someone with no experience in a certain situation tell me that my anger is not real and tell me how to react

So I'm 38 years old and live with my parents. I never wanted to marry as most women are gold diggers. Rent is also expensive in my area and I rather just save money and not pay rent. My dad still works and my mother is retired. A few days ago she asked me to pick up groceries for the week. I told her I couldnt at the moment as me and my online friends were playing GTA. She says we have nothing for dinner and she didnt want to walk the two miles. I ignored her and a half hour later she left the house. Two hours later she came back with groceries. She got mad at me for no reason. I said I could have simply picked up McDonald's and gotten groceries the next day. Now she's making ME pay the grocery bill. What should I do?