Family: Question: My brother just called from jail and wants bail., Mom expects me to give it to him. This will be the 4th time (drugs). How do I stop this?

Question: My brother just called from jail and wants bail., Mom expects me to give it to him. This will be the 4th time (drugs). How do I stop this?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:25 PM PDT

I am sick of giving him bail and it is just enabling him. My mother says he has a disease and cannot help it. She enables him left and right but at the same time if he has a disease I don't want to be too hard on him.

Question: My aunt has lost her mind and is trying to convince the family her daughter is evil. How do we get her to see how messed up she is?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:21 PM PDT

By she I mean the aunt, the daughter is fine. The daughter has some issues but losing your Dad to suicide will do that. The aunt is out of her friggen mind and treats her daughter like she is an ex-spouse or something. She loves her other three kids but hates this one daughter. The daughter is 22 and hurting by the rejection of her own mother after her father rejected her twelve years ago by committing suicide (she was the one who found him). The mother has even said that the father's problems weren't an issue before her (the daughter) which is the most evil thing I cam imagine to say. The father was Bipolar but at least sick, I think the mother is just evil incarnate.

Question: My mom said she would thank god and throw a party if I died. I'm in my teens and I argue with me brother sometimes but my mom butts in and?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:21 PM PDT

says ever since the day I was born, her life's been hell, she regrets having me, wishing she'd aborted me. She would thank god if I would die.This is almost a daily thing. Yesterday I was in my room upstairs. I came down and my brother was sitting in my bean bag chair so I told him to get up because I wanted to sit, he leaves and goes to ride his skateboard around the house.my mom yells at him bc he could get hurt. She runs the skateboard over my brothers feet by accident. My brother throws the biggest tantrum and starts full on screaming and crying and says," I wish you would die *****".He starts hitting her and getting violent. My mom yells at me, says if I had't come downstairs that none of this would've happened. It's all my fault. I've been ruining everyone's life the second I was born. She later that night forgets and goes back to "loving me"? In the car,she was telling me how my brother was getting out of control? In the morning she says kindly, Good Morning but today after I told her to use less oil in whatever she was making for dinner bc I have acne and maybe thad help, she said that I was the ugliest thing ever. It wouldn't matter if she used oil bc I couldn't get any uglier. she wishes I had cancer and died. I cried and went to my room, locked the door. She bangs the door and pushes me on the bed and chokes me.she dragged me by my hair and banged my head on the sink, yelling at me to wash my face. I'm in my room now and I don't know what to do. Is this my fault?

Question: My Mom insults people of different races. How do I ask her to stop in a respectful way (she is a racist)?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:17 PM PDT

She is my Mom so I can't get mad at her like I would someone else.

Question: My Mom got mad at me and said no one is going to come to my funeral. Is she right and if so how do I find people to?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:14 PM PDT

I have Lymphoma and so an estimated one year life span I have though with the chemo I am getting I might live up to 3 years. It is terminal though. I don't want to have one of those funerals where so few people come that it seems like I am disliked. My Mom got mad the other day because I didn't feel well enough to move furniture for her and so she said no one would come to my funeral. She gets mad a lot but I am scared she might be right. I am 19 years old and most 19 year olds have big funerals but I never had friends since I am considered annoying and bullied. My Mom always insults me and my two sisters avoid me. I do have a Dad that loves me and that is who I am living with now. So how do I find people to come to my funeral? Is it too weird to ask people I have known to come even if they are not friends or close family? I have no friends and my Dad and his family are the only close family I have.

Question: Is anyone else's dad a creep? or is it just mine?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:14 PM PDT

I always catch him staring at my *** or boobs especially if I'm in a swimsuit and he occasionally smacks my *** by "accident." I try not to let it bother me but its annoying. Should I confront him about it? I'm 25 now but this has been going on since my teen years...

Question: Stepdad drugged me as a child, and now I have spots all over my face?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:12 PM PDT

I lived with him from the ages of 4 to 10. I am now 13. My mom left him because she found a suspicious powder in the kitchen. Ever since I was 8 or 9 I have started getting a strange type of skin. It started at the sides of my nose, then spread to beside my nose and my chin. People often stare at my face in confusion as they probably haven t seen anything like that. It s quite red, with large pours and also quite spotty. I M FED UP OF LIVING WITH THIS ON MY FACE PLEASE HELP! When me, my mom and siblings left him, the police took samples of my hair and found it suspicious, and that I was quite possibly drugged through my drinks. Could this be why my face is like this??? I m DESPERATE!!! I m done being stared at or talked behind my back or called "spotty" by my friends who think it is funny.

Question: My dad thinks Im addicted to my computer just because I dont want to eat in the morning?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 01:45 PM PDT

Its ridiculous and utterly stupid. I try to tell him im just not hungry and being the narcissistic dad he is who always blames me and my family tells me im wrong and that im addicted to my computer. I'm not. I play with my dog and walk him 3 times a day, more than my family. I read books and go to the library, my dad is just trying to make me go down I hate it

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 01:08 PM PDT

Everyday I see a character in my head he greets me but he's not friendly he hurts me and he does horrible things to my female friends, mother and my adorable twin sister. What do I do?

Question: I feel like I'm not loved by my mother an that what I do isn't good enough. Has anyone had the same experiences as me? I'll give details..?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:10 PM PDT

I'm the ONLY one who'll clean the kitchen, doing dishes by hand an everything. I even have to clean up trash they leave on the counters that they could have simply just throwm away my moms the worst at doing that an I think its because she likes me cleaning up after her. All she does all day is sit in a chair in front of the tv she never does any cleaning or cooking. I clean the kitchen I do dishes, clean the counters an stove an the floor. I also am the only one who'll clean the bathroom too. So I live with four other people who I have to clean up after because they wont clean up after themsleves. They'll even eat at the table an wont clean it after!.. But whenever my sister actually does somthing which is extremely small! All she has to do is vacuum the floor in the room my mom stays in an my mother says shes done so much. She appreciates it so much!! But wont ever acknowledge anything I do ! It hurts my feelings so badly. Shes actually told me becore that I dont do anything or that i dont do enough an I am the only person that cleans her kitchen an her bathroom!! She has even had both my sisters pics as her profile pic on fb -_- an only has one of me not as a profile pic i dont wanna be her profile pic anyways but it still bugs me... Shes always treated my older sister like a princess an always called her beautiful. My mother treats me differently an has even threatened to hit me when I never even desurved it.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:56 AM PDT

I am locked up in a mental psycho ward with crazy people. The reason is cuz my family put me on a form and police arrested me outside of our house and brought me here. Alittle background: I got into a fight with my younger brother after I took my stuff and was heading out when he stepped in front of me and said give me your keys. I said no and move. HE stands there and says give me your keys. I refused and this went on for a bit and the he attacked me. I fought back but then my father joined in and took the keys out of my pocket and my mom joined in too and they were twisting my arm so I couldn't hit him. Then finally I broke free and my brother pushed me from top of stairs and I fell 5-7 steps down and hit a bike. They then all disappeared into the house. This has devastated me and I wana revenge and hit all 3 of them but I am locked up here. I also have a numbness that I developed a month ago and I intend to talk to them but I dono how... but the most important thing on my mind is revenge. I wana beat my dad/mom and younger brother. Cuz this has devastated me and I need to take it out on them and restore my pride and honor. I wana report it to police but I am locked up here. But my mind is obsessed with revenge right now. Dono what to do.

Question: Is my dad abusive? help?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:55 AM PDT

So, the earliest memory of him I had is him telling us to say that our home life is fine, and that some lady was going to come ask us questions, he would always hit us and I m pretty sure that woman was from social services. when i was younger he would always hit and yell at me, now he just yells because he knows i can fight back, the last time he hit me was a year ago. once a few years ago he told me: " I would kill you but then I d have to go to jail. " I still lock my door at night. he hits my mom and yells at her all the time too. he even ( a few years ago ) got into a fight with my brother and made him pass out ( more than once ) now he always freaks out at the littlest things ( example 30 minutes ago he started screaming because I ate too much ) then he acts all normal and kind after, then does the same thing? is this abusive or normal.. I m 13 by the way.

Question: How to convince my parents to let me have a big sweet sixteen?/how to bring it up?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:46 AM PDT

So I'm turning sixteen in precisely 244 days (I adore planning parties and am very organized and that is why I know) And for YEARS I've dreamed of a big party, to feel like a princess, and didn't have a party for my 15th (after telling my parents I'd rather use the money for my 16th) But my problem is, this takes time to plan, but I don't want to plan without my parents go ahead and would actually love the bonding time of me and my mother planning together but she hates party planning and thinking of parties and hates when I bring it up and I'm a very nervous person (even when speaking to my parents) how do I brong it up? How might I convince them? (Thank you) xxx

Question: Donno what to do?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:24 AM PDT

So I got into a fight with my younger brother after I took my stuff and was heading out and he stepped in front of me and said give me your keys. I said no. He's like give me. I'm like no... and then I said move. He stands there. This went on for abit and then he attacked me. There had been a couple fights before this that day but this was really bad. HE was beating and I was beating him up and we were equal with him maybe slightly edging me maybe and then my father joined in and took the keys out of my pocket. Then I couldn't let it go and and this went on and on and my mom joined in and they are like this is something no parent should see blah blah while actively twisting my arm to stop from hitting him. So now it is 3 against one. Then I break free and my brother pushes me from the top of stairs and I fall 5-7 steps and hit a bike. They all then disappear into the house. This has of course devastated me but even worse I am in mental hospital stuck here because my family put me on a form and the police picked me up near our house. Now they are planning to keep me here locked up bcas they don't think I am capable of making treatment decisions and my family needs to be my substitute decision maker. This is in toronto canada btw and this is seriously messed up and murder. Tomorrow there is going to be a meeting with the psychiatrist and the family. And I am so stressed out. I have some stuff to tell them but I dono how cuz I am humiliated. Now a lot of my anger comes from a numbness and heaviness that I developed a month ago and I need to talk to my family but I am humiliated and I donno how. I was planning to go outside the city and get my strength back and then come back and talk to them and express myself and then attack them. That is what I was planning to do. But now seems I need to talk to them or something and then think of revenge *ONCE* I get out of here. Cuz that seems like such a fat fat chance.

Question: My mom won t buy me a birthday present. Am I in the right or wrong for being angry?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:24 AM PDT

5 years back my mother divorced my dad and took half of the house and my college funds saved up by my father. She is currently draining 1/3 of my fathers pay check each week through alimony. I asked her for a birthday present that was about $150 and she denied it saying i never see her. I am super frustrated since she is living off of my college funds. Am i in the right or wrong for that? It's not that i feel like she owes me a present but i feel like its the least she could do for ya know ruining my future riddled with college debt and part time jobs.

Question: HOLY **** WHAT DO I DO?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 11:08 AM PDT

So I'm stuck at my dads house and it is time for me to go back to my moms but my mom won't let me because she feel undbout u snuck out somehow last week and now I am stuck at my dads and if he finds out I snuck out he WILL KILL ME!

Question: How to cope with controlling mother?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 10:27 AM PDT

Just broke the news to my mother that my husband and I, along with our three children will be moving across the country. We have to sell the house first as we cannot currently take on two mortgages, and she is also a consigner on our current home. She is raging. Everything she has ever done for me was brought up. Ex: I helped you buy that home, how could you do this to me, you owe me, followed by a sarcastic laugh and "whatever" She constantly interferes in my marriage and I think it s finally time to cut ties now that we have been given the opportunity to go elsewhere, where we will have better jobs, schools, etc. How do I cope with her manipulative behavior and guilt trips?

Question: I'm not sure what to do about my parents.?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT

I'm 30 years old and I still live at home with my parents. I know most people have usually moved out by now. I do have a job I work from home. I like to travel and my parents don't like me travelling alone. There is a guy that I've been going to see since 2015. He lives in another state. My parents don't know about the guy. And they are upset with me because I keep going off to see him. But I don't tell them where I am going. I usually say I am going somewhere with a friend. I went to see him last month and they found out I was lying about where I was going. They told me if I sneak off to see him one more time. That I can't come back home. I'm not in a relationship with the guy but I enjoy going to see him. Currently he is having financial issues and I've been helping him. I don't know what to do about this situation I don't want to stop seeing him.

Question: My cousin has no money and is down to $20. Her parents do not love her so she has no family resources, should I help her out?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 09:46 AM PDT

Or will she start taking advantage of me if I do? She has had a bad life and her mother does not love her. Her father might some but his loyalty is to his wife who does not love her. She lost her job and it was somewhat her own doing but she has depression. Should I help her out or will she start clinging to me?

Question: My 18 y/o brother p*sses me off?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 09:21 AM PDT

I'm twenty, he's eighteen. I've been taking care of him for his whole life. Now he's an adult and he treats me like a fool. He's always talking down to me ("mansplaining" if you're into that terminology) . We're both knowledgeable in different fields but if I talk to him about things in my area of knowledge I explain them patiently like a teacher, whereas he expects me to know everything already and then acts like I'm stupid if I don't know very specific facts about history or pop culture.. it's so annoying. We have similar political opinions and knowledge but he's always re-explaining things I already understand about that too... He acts like we're friends but also belittles me and shames me for my interests constantly. He also just verbally bugs me all the time, he'll follow me around the house yelling dumb phrases until I pay attention to him. For college I help him study all the time but he won't even help me brainstorm ideas. I make him coffee twice a day and usually breakfast and he's only made me coffee twice. Ever. I often make everyone's lunches as well, and help my mother with dinner almost every day, if not every day. He has helped with dinner like ten times in his life and the only chore he does in the house is loading up the dishwasher at night, and he acts like this is a great burden for him. I just don't know how to deal with him, it's so annoying that he just expects me to take care of him while never giving anything in return . Advice?

Question: Girlfriend has thyroid issues, depression, overweigbt and had an abortion so my mom doesn't accept her she is not allowed in my home help?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 09:10 AM PDT

My gf when she was allowed to come over, would say hi to my mom but not really spend time with her outside of my bedroom. She mostly stayed in my room. My mom did not like that because my girlfriend should be more caring and get out of the room more. Anyways the nail in the coffin was that we got pregnant and my girlfrined got an abortion we both agreed to it because she wanted to finish school first and now she regretted it but it's too late so we're trying for another one. My mom asked her to keep it but she said no. My gf is also overweight and suffers from thyroid issues, depression, reclusive because of anxiety to be around people even her family members. My mom thinks this is insulting in her home so my gf is not allowed because she's not sociable and my mom sees it as she's hiding something. Anyways, now we can only see each other out of the house. I know no one here cares but what can I do I love them both. We don't have Enough money to move out on her own yet.

Question: Should I stop being friends with this guy?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 08:31 AM PDT

I know most people have usually moved out by now. I do have a job I work from home. I like to travel and my parents don't like me travelling alone. There is a guy that I've been going to see since 2015. He lives in another state. My parents don't know about the guy. And they are upset with me because I keep going off to see him. But I don't tell them where I am going. I usually say I am going somewhere with a friend. I went to see him last month and they found out I was lying about where I was going. They told me if I sneak off to see him one more time. That I can't come back home. I'm not in a relationship with the guy but I enjoy going to see him. Currently he is having financial issues and I've been helping him. I don't know what to do about this situation I don't want to stop seeing him.

Question: My family is making me feel bad about not doing sports even though I hate sports. They all are making me do football even though I told them?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 06:35 AM PDT

How much I hate it and how it depresses me. I tried to talk to my sister and she just said that me wanting to drop out is a failure that I'm disappointing. I don't understand why they are making me do sports if I really dislike them. Can anyone help me understand what's in their mind when they say this to me?

Question: Should I go to a picnic with my sister or not after this?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 06:23 AM PDT

I am 13 years older than my sister. She has some summer homework but procrastinated on it. Today I checked her homework and corrected it, and left her to make the changes needed. There were like 10 pages of exercises, and all the corrections shouldn t have taken more than 15 minutes. After 1 hour she only did about half of it so I gave her a 10 minute time limit, or I would leave on the picnic we planned without her. After the 10 minutes she still wasn t ready. So I told her to leave it, and deal with mom on her own, so we could leave for the picnic anyway. Then she go really smug, and told me that I told her to finish the homework so that s what she will do. I got angry and told her that now I tell her to leave it to another time so we can leave, to which she again replied with a face that mom told her something else. So I said to her fine, then we won t go. Now she s crying, probably because we aren t going anymore, and I am angry and also frustrated because I was really excited for this picnic. But after that attitude I really don t think she deserves a "reward". She is 9 years old. What do you think I should do?

Question: Choose one: a well succeeded father but away from family or drug dealer father always present?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 06:14 AM PDT

Question: Am I wrong for not wanting much to do with my mom?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 06:10 AM PDT

I am 23 and in the past she stole money and other items from me, she would make me take her to strange places at 3am when I was in high school and half asleep at the wheel, she lies so much, she has had issues with methadone, she fell asleep at the wheel when I was 13 and we rear ended the car in front of us, she allowed my older brother to starve when he was 5, and she neglected us.

Question: Is it wrong that I hate my dad's mom?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 05:58 AM PDT

She hates my mom but loves me and my dad

Question: My mom constantly compares me with others and says my features look ugly, why does she do this?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 05:31 AM PDT

Today I wanted to hang out with her for my birthday and I have been feeling depressed lately. I just wanted to spend time with her. Then she suddenly said how my eyes are small and weird and that I walk funny and how all my friends are better than me. I wanted to feel happier today but all she did was make me feel worse. She will get angry at me for no reason and lash out making me horrified. And she said She can't wait for me to get out of her life when I go to college, and I'm a freshman. Happy birthday to me. I get that I'm ugly and humiliating and stupid and her embarrassment from her constant reminders. My dad said I'm supposed to understand Her, but she needs to understand me too. And my dad has beaten me before, but nothing serious that the police will call abuse. Whenever I try to talk to her about it she'd say I'm just wanting attention and being greedy. Sometimes I just wonder if me killing myself is the best option for everyone.

Question: My mother is poisoning the whole family her her hate for others (not us). How do we avoid being poisoned?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 04:51 AM PDT

She spills her hatred out every day and I don't want it but she pours it on me. I am 16 and can't leave the house yet. She hates my Dad (she divorced him), her brother, and her former step-children. She gets mad when I am nice to any of those people. She pours her hate on me constantly. How do I avoid this poison?:

Question: My brother's mother-in-law died and they had no funeral service even though they were close. Is this creepy or is it more common?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 04:49 AM PDT

Question: What kinda things do you do on a family holiday suit everyone from 2years upto 12 years. When you are just in the accommodation?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 04:45 AM PDT

Question: How to convince parents for love marriage when you love a girl and want to marry with her ?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 04:21 AM PDT

Question: How to have an intervention?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 03:05 AM PDT

My sister is 23 years old and has bad allergies and asthma. Yet, she's living with her boyfriend in his dad's house (note: she has many other options). The bad part is that she very allergic to animals, dust, and other grimy things. Well, at her boyfriend's house, they have 3 dogs, 3 cats, 1 horse, and 20+ chickens. The house is a hoarder house that is so full of mold and hasn't been deep cleaned in ages. I'm concerned for her health we've already had to take her to Urgent Care and she hasn't even been there for a month. We've beat around the bush that we're worried about her but it doesn't seem to have any effect. I think it's time for some tuff love. I think it's time we had an intervention because she's playing with fire. Hell, my own great-grandmother died of an asthma attack at the age of 39! That's not even half a life! We've always been worried about hurting her feelings but ten years from now I'd rather have hurt her feelings and set her on the right path than watching her be lowered into the ground. So how do I start an intervention, and should I even have one, to begin with.

Question: Should I feel resentment towards my mother?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 03:04 AM PDT

Recently, my mother filed for divorce. She explained that while she loved my father, it was not in a romantic way anymore. Yet, my father has provided for his family, paid bills for his lazy, entitled in-laws, and built an excellent family. Before the divorce, I probably would have said the same good things about my mother, but after this, I just don't know. There is absolutely no reason that she would fall out of love with a man like my father. He wasn't abusive, he wasn't a user of drugs or alcohol, he never cheated, and he busted his *** to provide for his family. Now, his family is going to be broken apart? My mother got an apartment and is now living in an entire different city, and I've been traveling all over creation to see both parents a bit before I go off to college. At this point, though, I don't know why I bother to see her anymore. Everytime I see my father cry, I feel nothing but resentment towards her. I wouldn't dream of even saying something like this until this crap happened, but as of now, it's like she's an entire different person. She lost romantic love for a strong, rock of a man and left him to be lonely, breaking her family (and his family) apart and living in another city. A side of me thinks I should continue seeing her as I do love her, but another side of me thinks "you reap what you sow". Of course, I'd never put her through that, but should I feel this anger towards her? Should I feel this anger towards her?

Question: My son reads socialist literature, is he a danger to himself.?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:59 AM PDT

I have asked him if he is a communist and he has laughed and denied it saying that a socialist and communist are not the same thing. I asked him if he agreed with their policies and he said some of them but not all. He refused to discuss politics with me beyond explaining his core beliefs. When i tried to have a discussion he said "mom, we both have different views, probably some are right, some wrong. We arent going to change each others opinions so why argue? Why dont we just focus on the fact that we are a family and we love each other?" I really fear for my sons safety. What can i do?

Question: Should I give my dad a second chance?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:56 AM PDT

So my dad and I have a complicated history. He denied I was his son when my mom told him she was pregnant. He came around during the time I was born according to my mom. Growing up he'd get me on weekends but often left me alone in a room or something where I'd just watch TV. He was absent from my life for a few years he didn't leave town or anything he just stopped coming by and then came back when I was in middle school that eventually ended it was very off and on. He worked at the school I went to as a janitor never really stopped to say high or anything. When I was a kid he took me to a bar told me not to tell my mom and it wasn't even "good" bar it had a bad reputation from what I understand. He seems very nice and honestly now that I'm older it just seems more like he's full of himself. He has never apologized to me. Not to my face The more I look back on his actions the more it just seems like he only cares about himself. Even when he did "apologize" once it was years ago he did it on an answering machine. I sometimes think he only ever came around because someone got on his case or something but that's just me speculating. One of the reasons I don't trust him is that even when I was a teen and hung out with him or whatever it was to do work around his house or something and really looking back it just seems like I was just cheap labor. I mean when his wife and him had a falling out he lived not too far from me never once stopped by to say hello or anything. Also for all the years of my life I know nothing about my dad's personal life. I don't even know his birthday.

Question: My brother is sleeping with my cousin, what do I do?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 02:36 AM PDT

My brother had checked his Facebook on my phone and thought he has taken off his account off of my messenger and so I checked his messages and I found out that he actually went to my cousins house and had sexual relationships with her and I don't know what to think of what to do... should I tell my mother about what he is doing? I know it's a really bad sin to be sleeping with your cousin like he is I know that I'm not commiting the sin that he is commitimg but I feel like I need to tell someone and I need advice on how I should react with this Please help me and tell me what I should do??

Question: My mom is overbearing?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:49 AM PDT

So I'm 17, soon to 18 and my mom still treats like a small child. Yes, I understand I'm still a minor but hear me out before you jump down my throat about how I should respect her and get over it. About a week ago I made an appointment with missionaries to meet them at a local park tomorrow and just told my mom tonight. Yes, I understand that I should've told her sooner but she completely flew off the handle when she found out. My mother always tells me that I need to be more responsible and like an adult but everytime I try she tells me I'm too young, she's the mother and I'm the child, or you're not allowed to do **** without my consent.She kept going on and on about how irresponsible of me that was and how I'm her child and will always let her know anything going on in my life. I was contemplating just going and not telling her anything because she frequently overreacts to small situations and can get quite hostile. In the end I had decided that she deserved to know and it back fired on me. Now she says she has to think about letting me go because it can be dangerous but she seems to forget that the way I grew up was not ideal so I'm not stupid or naive when it comes to sensing danger and being aware of my surroundings when around strangers. She came up with crazy reasons for me not to be able to go and even though they are 'church people' doesn't mean a thing. What are your thoughts?

Question: Can your father disinherit you without your knowledge?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:39 AM PDT

i am lebanese muslim so i's like info regarding inheritance laws in lebanon, my father is not my biological father, but i am still in his house, he keeps fighting me hating me and keeps talking **** about me, thing is.. am i still in his house just because there is his money and inheritance? or can he disinherit me when ever he needs? by the way i am the only boy and there is 5 sisters

Question: I think my parents found out I am a furry?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:38 AM PDT

She has not said anything yet... but i do not know. My chrome name has the word "Furry" in it because i linked chrome with my Google Account incase of a Hardware fail. But when I needed to show her something on chrome (Chrome.exe has stopped working) she said to just reinstall it. And I think she saw the name because she had a wtf look her face. She does not get that a lot. Any way i can be sure? Because it seems like my family stopped getting discussed about it when they looked at my screen and had chrome open. But i still try to hide it from then when I can.. (EX fullscreening youtube videos so they can not see the name or icon XD)

Question: Midlife crisis I dislike my family broken dreams?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:34 AM PDT

im an adult but past seems to haunt or creep up on me. my birth mothers family I learned comes from relationships after relationships.grandmas as well.they are poor. as a child I grew up with watching my stepdad beat up my mother.my real dad cheating (this hurt me a lot). I feel noe all my dreams of becoming more are shattered glass broken., I have worked lo income jobs.for distraction.seems like nothing is ever good enough or just enough. I don't believe in love and babies or the thought of being pregnant sounds like a nightmare,my life is running out of reasons to be happy. people either lack the maturity,im reaching my peak or breaking point I feel im dying inside and out,i usually keep quiet.i don't like anything else other than chatting , shopping, my animals, or rainy weather.rainbows,hearts, moon stars I love napping as well and even my sleeping patterns keep change im tiring out. I hate looking back on my life and feeling pity or a void.i never met my grandparents. my mom bf is just annoying and makes uncomfortable remarks about me. it feels like im thr adult born with a brain gene highly more intelligent than my sperm donator,this makes me feel like a freak,im exhausted of being the adult. I remember how evil my mother was to me when she didn't evevn want to buy me clothes. hobbies are what makes us happy. my body that was once very pretty has changed.and seems to be stuck.i no longer find joy in clothes my mother lives breathes and craps only for him

Question: My sister is moving to Los Angeles and I fear she will die in an earthquake and my parents will be hurting and thus I will be, what do I do?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:19 AM PDT

If my sister dies my parents will understandably be miserable and thus I will be. All holidays will be miserable for the first few years and I have no friends so I will feel it so much more. What do I do if this happens?

Question: How do I get my Mom not to be mad that I am going with my Dad on Labor Day Weekend and his family instead of her and her Mom?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:16 AM PDT

She resents anytime I choose my Dad over her. I see her daily so the three times of year I get to see my Dad it means more to me. She says it means I favor him and am ignoring the fact that my grandmother is getting old and won't be here long. The last time I saw my Dad was June. The last time I saw my Mom was this morning and her Mom I saw last Monday. How do I get her not to resent or be mad at my choice for Labor Day Weekend? I work at my Mom's place so see her daily. I am 27 and live on my own.

Question: How to talk to my parents?

Posted: 09 Aug 2017 12:12 AM PDT

I'm a 13 year old girl and lately I've been going through a lot of stress Some things I don't feel like mentioning The thing is, the stress has been going on since I was 9 years old, when I started to have more social anxiety Me and my family were happy until my dad became an owner of a business my family has been distant towards one another We don't talk much due to their work, but when we do it's an arguement My mom would yell at me, calling me fat, calling me a fag for being bisexual, and saying that I'm a lazy and do nothing. My dad would yell at me saying that I'm stupid, that all I do is stay on my phone all day Sometimes it'll be 4 in the morning and he'll start yelling at me Most of the times he would storm out the house cursing, flipping us off and going to hell knows where. Other times though, they would compliment my art. They would hug me. Unfortunately, these moments are rare and it makes me cry. And no, I don't cut myself, but I definitely think of it I can only talk to my internet friends since my irl ones say I'm joking That's the reason I spend a lot of my time on my phone or laptop To talk with them I've been talking to them for about 3 years now, and of course my parents say that they are 20-40 year old pedophiles. They always say that But after chatting with this group of people for years and video chatting with them secretly on Skype, I can confirm they are all kids around my age, 12-15 year olds, and they are really the only ones I can talk to

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 11:41 PM PDT

On vacation, my grandma gave me 200 dollars for school clothes. She only told me and my mom bc she didn't want anyone else to know. When I was on my way home to the US, my mom took it and said she'll keep it safe for the clothes. When I got back home I searched where she put the money and it wasn't there.I feel like she's gonna use it for something else. What should I do? Should I wait, to see if she'll give me it or tell my grandma?

Question: I'm scared about my virginity?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 11:19 PM PDT

No one is pressuring me .I don't even have a boyfriend.Im in the 7th grade and I'm just scared.I always hear it will hurt and I'm just scared.im worried about my pain tolerance.I don't wanna hear answers like "worry about it when you're older" I want to know everything now.what did it feel like?What are The phases?How long will it hurt?will it still hurt after the first time?Once you get to high school everything changes and that's the change I'm worried about.

Question: Do I have right to be mad? Why am I really mad by this?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 11:13 PM PDT

I was wondering if I have a right to be mad at my older sister? A few years back she had a few good job opportunities that could be making her over $100k, but instead she decided to start a criminal record (careless driving and all of that) and now the only job she has is a crappy job that barely pays. She's been living my me, my other sister, and my parents for the past few years. It's annoying because she thinks she can do whatever she wants (to the point where it's angering us all) and she also is becoming a trashy person. She's also asking me and my parents for money to spend on stupid stuff at some points because she's too lazy to work 2 jobs. It's starting to get to a point where I despise her and making me want to move out and live with somebody else (almost 18). My dad is fed up with her and my mom is too. My dad and I have been pushing my mom to do something about it, but she never does. I could be overreacting, but she just really annoys me and I can't take it anymore.

Question: How do I make my boyfriend realize that his relationship with his brother is toxic?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 11:10 PM PDT

My fiance is 21, and we are trying to move out together and get married. We each still live with our respective parents, and he lives with an older brother and younger sister and both his parents are completely disabled. His brother is 24, an alcoholic, and hasn t had a job in almost five years, he s just been sitting at home bumming off his disabled parents, meanwhile he absolutely refuses to do anything around the house, so the job usually lands on my fiance, who is the only one in a famliy of 5 with a job right now and it s a night job, so he sleeps all day, or tries to, in between all the times his family is constantly waking him up to run errands and do chores that his siblings just flat out refuse to do despite the fact that they both basically sit on their butts all day every day. His brother bums off his gym membership, against gym rules, constantly steals his car without contributing to gas or insurance even though my fiance did pay for that when he was borrowing his brothers car years ago, and on top of all this, hes just downright mean to my fiance, constantly making fun of him. And yet my fiance worships him, does everything he says and always defends him. I hate the way his brother treats him, but my fiance always argues with me when I point out that he s being unfair, and says that he is family and so he loves him and will basically forgive anything from him. I don t want to rip him from his family, but how can I make him see he doesn t have to put up with that?

Question: Why do some siblings have bad relationships?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 11:05 PM PDT

I love my brother more then anyone else in the world other then my parents. We fight sometimes, but for the most part we have a joking loving relationship even tho he makes fun of me sumtimes. We naturally click, nothing forced (only person who i naturally click with) But all other siblings ik hate their brother/sister. Why?

Question: What do you honestly think of her mouth and teeth? 10 pts?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 10:52 PM PDT

please be honest...is this an unattractive mouth? do you consider these big teeth? and do you think she has a long upper lip (philtrum)? thanks in advance for any honesty.

Question: MY BROTHER STEALS MY MONEY?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 09:24 PM PDT

I am really pissed because my brother steals my money. I had 80 bucks in my wallet from getting good grades and now there's only 60. I know it's him because he goes out a lot and he spent all his money and he steals from my mom. I am just really pissed and I can't tell my parents because i don't really have proof. please help and i'm 14 he's 16.

Question: Is it weird that I'm 24 and still don't have a job? I am still in college and am trying to get my BA by the time I'm 26?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 09:14 PM PDT

I had stayed home a few years after graduating high school to help my mom take care of my grandmother and went to school nearby but never had a real job then. I figured I was sort of working at home even if it was just watching over and helping take care of my grandmother. After she died I went to a big university far away and changed my major but still never got a job because my dad wanted me to focus on school. And sadly my mom passed away very unexpectedly last summer because of poor health. I was 23 at the time and it pushed me into a depression for a while. My dad has never pushed me to work while I am in school but I feel that maybe I should have gone against his wishes more than I did because he pretty much has financial control over me still. Also, he refinanced the house to pay for school instead of us getting student loans because he wanted to pay for my school. I don't want to sound ungrateful to him but I feel that he has hurt me more than helped me by discouraging me from supporting myself. Any thoughts/advice? Thanks

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:57 PM PDT

My boyfriends dad went out of town and we were using his computer we happened to go through text messages. Most texts were just the usual my boyfriend is an a** cause he forgot to pick up a sock stupid stuff like that. When I was a kid I was sexually and physically abused by my mom and wasn't living in the best situation. The other day his mom went over to my grandmas just to talk (there friends so nothing bad). Here's what I got out of the text; While his mom was over there she asked about me being abused. (It's not like my dad announces it to my whole family or the whole world.) My grandma had no idea what she was talking about and said it was false. The text pretty much gave details like that. She said I was lying to my boyfriend and it was a year down the drain for my boyfriend. Truth is it's a hard topic and my family doesn't know and my dad doesn't parade around personal stuff like that. She was say she was gonna make us break up cause I'm such a lier. Help! Do I tell my dad about it? I know he can't do anything but maybe talk to them.

Question: How are babies made ?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:45 PM PDT

My sister wants to know

Question: Why are my parents so mean to me and treat me bad?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:31 PM PDT

I'm the middle child. My older brother ALWAYS gets away with hitting me. Hitting my mom. Yelling. Throwing stuff at my mom. Slamming doors. My younger sister gets away with almost anything as well because she just turns it all to a huge joke. Today my sister kicked my knee real hard after her and I got in a little argument (and she KNOWS I have bad knees) so I asked her to give me my headphones back and not use them. After a minute my knee pain got unbearable and I started to cry. My mom just laughed at me and called me a baby and told my sister to kick my *** and drag me outside next time I annoy her. I told her to not be a ***** to me like that and see that I'm in pain. I told my dad what happened and he got mad at me for not going to the doctors to check my knee pain then proceeded to tell me that if I keep crying he's taking my car away. I don't understand why I'm always the person in the wrong.

Question: My 9 year old sister thinks im gross? how can i fix that?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:30 PM PDT

ok so since my sister loves sleeping with me... its fair for a 14 year old sister (myself) to let her and cuddle her.. one time i was cuddling and i was holding one in.... and out of the blue random my butt just.. PRFFFFT... i said right after."im sorry bri." (her nickname) she said."let go of me." i said. "im sorry but i still love you bri... can you please forgive me." she said."ok." but then she say it to her friends and it makes me sad.... can you please help me... i mean i really do im using my brothers account after all...

Question: Boyfriend convinced me to get an abortion. So then why did he say he wanted a family with me.?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:23 PM PDT

My parents hate him now because of that and his mom hates me because she doesn't think he did anything wrong and defended him that he didn't want it because of my family. Why is it that everyone always has there side of the story? What's the truth then who is the one held accountable?. I did it because I had nowhere else to go and my mom saud she wasn't going to let me have it in her home and since he egged me on to get abortion I did but now his mom hates me because she tried to help but I didn't want to because of the drama with him.

Question: Help finding my biological father?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:15 PM PDT

now, i know this is a super long shot, and im desperate enough to resort to yahoo answers for help, but does anyone know of any way i would be able to find my biological father? I don't know his real name, his age, or what he looks like. I know he's black, and he raped my mom, which is how i came into the picture. (I know how bad that sounds, but i at least want to know what he looks like) and I've never even met the guy. ONly thing i know for sure was about 20 years ago he was living in New York. I myself am 19, and i've always been curious about him. Recently, my sister found out she was born before i was adopted by my current dad, and she's been really weird since, like it never really occurred to her that we actually werent born with the same parents, which is sort of terrifying and awful to think about. I've never not thought of my current father as my dad, but it's clear to see that sometimes he doesnt exactly see me as his daughter. I know all of this extra is just details but it feels sort of good to get it out in some form, so sorry for keeping this long. Long story short: anyone have any ideas or is it really a lost cause? I'd really like to know at least if he's alive, or what he looks like, or if i have an entire other family i know nothing about. I know it's stupid and dumb of me for wanting this, but any help would be appreciated. thank you.

Question: Who Is Right? Me Or My Brother?

Posted: 08 Aug 2017 08:14 PM PDT

So I have this YouTube Channel, and my brother is in some of my videos. All I ask of him is to make one video, because he is important in this video. I can't make this with a friend or anything. I can seriously only make it with him. He just rolls his eyes at me, ignores me, rides his bike all day every day (which isn't a bad thing, except he does it to a point where he doesn't care about others). All he does is think for himself. He was just gone at his friends house for two days. While he was gone, I went out of my way to do his chores along with mine. When I'm gone, all of my chores are still waiting for me when I get back (also along with most of his that he didn't do) He is watching youtube right now, ignoring me while I ask him to make the video. Who is right here?! Because if he is right, then I will stop, but if I'm right, he said he'll make the video. Me "Anything you want to say from your point of view before I post this?" Him "You typed all that for nothing." Me "Anything else?" Him "....." (Ignores me)