he makes so many messes, he puts wholes in the walls he makes annoying noises, he screams, he doesn't listen, he doesn't care about anyone but himself, he bothers me a lot, he's just so annoying and he gets out of hand my parents let him get out of hand it's like they don't care he makes my life harder and it's so stressful

My cousin is a girl with 9 yearls old and she always wearing revealing clothes,wearing make up,listening to music with bad messages,and she didn't pass the 4th grade but his father gave her a new smartphone where she has instagram accounts,snapchat,facebook and all. Her situation is bad,when she had 1 year old,his father got another woman and kicked out her biological mother This new woman raised her until she was 3 years old,and the he found another woman and kicked out the other. At this time,the girl's grandma decided to raise her until now. She sees her biological mother once in a year.

Long story short, ever since I had a stroke(at 28)and have been living at home my Mother has been exercising way too much control over my life. She tried to before the stroke as well, but now She actually can since I m debilitated. She even calls it a "problem," that I talk to a romantic interest/friend all the time. In the past She has snooped on my phone and takes liberty in treating me like a child, though I m 33 years old and by all accounts have actually accomplished more than Her in life!

I expect my kids to be well behaved. That means they're not allowed to run around, be loud/obnoxious, back talk, or be disrespectful to me in any way, but still they do these things. What should I do?

He doesn't curse, he never says anything mean about anyone, he doesn't drink, he doesn't do drugs, he doesn't have sex, he stays home and studies. Basically, he never does anything fun. He is a goody two shoes. He is 14 and he needs to have more fun in his life and be a real teenager. He also never says anything bad to girls, even when they treat him like ****. He has never slapped a girl's butt and ignores all the girls that flirt with him on the street. Cause he's an annoying piece of sh** that never does anything and always pretends to be the perfect guy

I'm 24 years old and this is my 6 time failing my drivers test. I took it 2 years ago and failed 3 times. My friends mom took me to take it and once they said I failed I kept crying...this is my last 3th try this summer now my permanent is expired. I been at my friends house all day but I have to go home sometime. How to tell my parents I failed? Could I lie and say I passed? Help? They are not abusive they would just be very disappointed and blame everything on me..since I'm 24 they really want me to have it

So my distant cousin is a 30 year old felon who has mental illness as is in his family. He has been arrested numerous times. For the last year he has been posting pictures and videos of his "business" on Snapchat. And by business I mean drugs. Vids of weed, cocaine and loads of cash. Continuously. How he is not arrested by now is beyond me. He is mad at me because I showed his sister what his Instagram stories have been. She previously had no clue what he has been up to since they have no contact now. Well word got back to him that I showed her and he is hreatening me with text messages, calls and Snapchat. As well, in talking to my other family members he has contacted them about me and yelled at them for taking up for me and not understanding him. He is on a warpath for me. And for what? His mental illness. I guess I m a Target in his eyes. Now, he is a time bomb ticking and he has a short fuse so I need some advice asap. I sincerely am afraid he will find me and try to do something. What do I do? Contact the police? How could I find his probation officer? I just don t feel safe and knowing that he is contacting people around me to scream about me and how my life is in jeopardy is not re assuring knowing how he has actually tried to kill his own sister in the past year. This is someone not in the right frame of mind. Now I also don t want to contact the police and have them tell him I m the one that contacted them to get him off the streets. What do I do?

Hello. I live in a small village, with my father. We have a greenhouse, some sheeps, corn field etc. My mother currently works in some place out of the country, for the most of the year. My sister is married and she lives in nearby town. I almost graduated college ( I expect it to be over soon). My mother and my sister are very happy, but my father is not satisfied at all. While I studied I helped him with everything that I could, with sheeps with field work and a lot of other stuff every day. I still managed to finish my college. When my father gets mad (for example when I don't do something right, or when he is mad at someone else), he tells me that I'm worthless, that I don't do anything, that I spend money to much, that I eat his food, and he sometimes threatens to strike me and kick me (he kicked me a couple of times and lately I tried to defend myself verbally, and that pisses him off more). Later he never apologies. To him it is like nothing really happened, but to me it is quite the opposite. I can't wait to get out of the house and find myself another place to live and a job. I'm only sad about my mother, because he treated her just like me, when she was unemployed. I'am very attached to her. She luckily found a job. I don't like my father so much. He does have his good moments, but also a lot of bad ones. Is this wrong that I don't like him much? Sorry for my bad english :-) Also he never showed any love or affection towards me, since I grew up. Only for a couple of times when I was very young. The only people who love me truly are my mother and my sister, no one else. No one else, meaning my father. I can't edit my update My father is my biological father, that's for sure, so it's not because of that :-)

I have always followed my parents rules and never done anything to leave them dissapointed. I ve never been under the influence, had sex, never left with the car, never snuck out, never really back talk, I keep my things clean, always good grades, and over all, I really don t believe I m too much to worry about. But I turned 18 and I decided to go out to a city a couple hours away from home. I wasn t out too late, I was gone for half the day. I didn t tell them I was leaving but they knew where I was. And I told them when I d be back. I lost signal and I could not receive they re calls at some point. I know I did wrong, I know I messed up. I know there is no excuse for that. But at the same time, I don t feel that it s fair that at 18 i can t leave town for a day. They literally do not want me to step out of my town for a second without them and it is so frustrating since they did not want to help me go to university. I know this time around I really did step out of line. But I m not sure what to do because they don t want me to go anywhere. Am I really a horrible kid?

Just today, he put a little pearl in his little brother's drink. He acts like a crazy little person all day long. It's like his goal is to just do one monkey business after the other. His mom had it up to here, she tried everything, but he only gets angrier and misbehaves more and more. Time out seems to work but once it's over, he goes on and misbehaves some more. What's the solution?

Basic plot is poor dad buys son shoes, it is pouring, buys him umbrella, stuff happens, son is now adaut, kind of mean to dad, tells dad his wife s water broke, dad runs to see his grandson, gets hit by car, you cry, a lot, son is feels guilty, yadda yadda, it ends, you cry for like 15 minutes? Help? I need to find this video.

i was laying down on my stomach doing my homework in the living room , and he walked into the room and said "you laying down with your bum poking up in the air makes me wanna slap it" . isn't that an inappropriate thing to say to you daughter ? it completely grossed me out , so i instantly got up and went to my room .

Me and my younger brother don't get along and we don't talk. But there are outstanding issues like him cursing me outside of our house last month in english after I came down the stairs a little harder after an incident(we speak a different language at home)that I need to bring up in front of the whole family but the past few times we had arguements in front of the family has been physically threatening which is not like I can't take him, I can very well but it is not worth it.. he is a pos and wants me to get physically violent with him so he can call the police and get me in trouble. But it is a concern cuz he might try to charge at me or something and I cursed him out the last time but I am not sure what to do if it happens again other than to curse him out or get away or stand my ground which is a risk. But he did something just now.. I was in the kitchen and as I turned around he jumped into my back. Like moved very quickly behind my back.. very very close to me. I am not sure if he touched me or not and I am worried he might have touched me cuz I am so paranoid around everyone and I might not have felt it. But I didn't feel it but I am still worried. Now I am agitated feeling I have to confront him about this and other issues once and for all but I have a therapist appointment in a few hours and I don't want to make a mistake by confronting him and not be prepared fully. What to do? Should I confront him now or discuss with therapist? Just a reminder... the therapist appointment is for a consultation session so it is just first session to discuss everything generally and regular session in the coming days or week so I wouldn't probably be able to discuss this with her fully today. Caroline - I didn't mention it was intentional. He does this to get under my skin and threaten me cuz there is tension. And he does this on purpose. It was definitely on purpose.

Whenever I get in trouble or there is a misunderstanding, I am having trouble with making my family hear me out. They simply don't want me to defend my claim. This problem is worse with my dad, because for some reason he can't at all take criticism in any shape or form. I listen to what he and my family has to say every time, however they don't want to listen to my perspective. They would tell me that I'm not listening, but I am. They clearly don't want to listen to me, and just want to think what they want to think. And I am a person who doesn't like to be misunderstood, I want them to know how I feel. What do I do?

My brother's wife has large boobs. She likes to show a LOT of cleavage. Strangely, my brother is OK with that. At our parent's home, she will bend over in front of me and say "Don't look at my boobs". How could I not look at them when they are 6 inches away from my face? I just say "OK". That is really strange behavior. Other times she will bend over in from of me to give me something and then say "Did something come up". I always truthfully tell her no. I have NO sexual interest in my brother's wife EVER. I wonder why she is acting this way. Is she flirting with me or possibly just teasing me? Anyone have any ideas why she is doing this to me?

so my friend told me a story about how she and her cousin would hook up but all they did was kiss and he fingered her but this happened years ago about 7-9 ish and he was in middle school close to high school isn't that some type of crime or something like sexual harassment or rape?

My mom's cousin told me how he got all his scars, and he said his ex-wife tried to kill him with a knife after an argument over the kids. Once the cops showed up, his ex-wife lied to the cops, and said she was trying to protect herself. Said he was going to beat her or kill her, and keep in mind he's Mexican, so of course they'll believe her. he was about to be handcuffed and thrown into the cop car until he revealed that he had recorded the whole thing. He's pretty smart because he knew a confrontation with his ex-wife would be valuable information, so he recorded ahead of time on his phone. However, he did not expect to fight for his life. This got me thinking, like damn, do I really need to record every bad confrontation in order to be perceived as innocent, just because I'm Latino? Like I doubt that cops would immediately try to throw the Caucasian male into a cop car if he had been stabbed all over his body. They probably would've question them both. Statistics back this up too.

Alright, so this is going to be a bit of some text, so bear with me. I'm a 17 year old straight girl living in the suburbs with my family, two older brothers, my mom, my dad, my pets...and my boyfriend. He's been living in our house since beginning of last january, and does not pay rent. He was adopted into a pretty toxic house that really didn't treat him well and emotionally abused him, so when he turned 18 in october 2016, he moved out. He was living with his friend and his family for a while but that family is flat broke and didn't make enough to support him as well, even including rent, so my mom decided to allow him to live in our basement until high school ends. The problem now comes from the fact that he's being a bit of an asshole to the rest of my family, undermining their statements and making wild claims to make himself feel better about himself. One of my brother straight up hates him, the other one barely tolerates, and my parents are fed up with him. I'm also having some issues with him, as he feels this need to be dominating in every facet of our lives. I know he has a deeply rooted self esteem issue due to his family, and the rest of my family knows as well, and he does treat me well otherwise by supporting me and helping me feel better about myself. Thoughts? Should I make him move out and break up or continue our relationship?

Ok so I'm 32 I'm getting my own apartment soon my family panics when I get junk food my aunt tells me I will be tortured if I get junk food. I know it's not healthy everyday once in a while is ok. I'm epileptic I haven't had a seizure in 11 years my family is against me driving. My aunt and my cousin tells me I can't drive. My dad has a different opinion about it he thinks I am able to drive. I love my family but it can be irritating when they tell me what I can or can't eat especially since I'm on my own and I don't live with them. I had driving lessons before I wished they wouldn't panic so much about me driving.

When I last had a boyfriend we weren't allowed to go in my room I respected that so we sat in the living room and watch movies, my brother and mom were there to we were cuddling my brother was complaining later about how he didn't liked it yet he cuddled in front of me with a female more then once I didn't liked it but I never said anything because I know it's not my relationship, my brother always pointed out one of his flaws and was judgemental to him it's like he was jealous that I found someone at the time my mom wouldn't let me go to his house none of had a car so we didn't have a choice but to listen if one of us did I'd be there more then he would be over at my house because how they were acting I am slowly getting my life together I may or not talk to them anymore when I move that's not the only thing that hurts me what they do my mom has body shamed me before because I'm way skinnier then she is she still does it once in awhile, I am 21 I should be able to live my life a little bit without their jealousy, no Way I am kinda afraid to bring just a guy FRIEND over and it shouldn't be like that I do help around the house and bring in all of my social security money just to help pay bills and food all I want is to live my life a little without negativity.

So my sister is very condescending . She will never admit she's wrong in a situation. I'm the youngest in the family and she and the rest of the people in my family tend to disrespect me because if I say anything I automatically get in trouble and I'm in the wrong (respect your elders). My thing is, I don't care or agree with that. So i typically decide to only interact with my mom. I don't care about apologies, And I don't talk to either of my siblings. So because I do this my sister labels me as miserable. I'm "miserable and negative energy". Everything about me is negetive I guess to everyone in here. Am I wrong for not wanting a relationship with anyone? She has stated several times that anything I feel or say doesn't matter. She insults me and falls down on me but frowns upon any response I have that doesn't involve me kissing her ***. I have a lot of associates but not many close friends as I am an upcoming junior in high school & girls are fake however I do have fun with the few good friends I do have and the other peers in my classes. So am I miserable or is she just a *****?

I was adopted. My parents couldn't have a child for years but got pregnant a couple of months after they took me home. They always treated me different than their biological son. They loved me but they always made him feel special. They would introduce me as their adopted son and introduce my brother as their real son. If we were out he would get two scoops with sprinkles and I could only get one scoop. They would always spend more than double for him for Christmas and Birthdays

Okay, this just happened around 3 am, my back was facing towards the wall/window, (I was on my bed.) Then I was just watching stuff on my laptop, then I feel something on my neck, I just thought it was the tag from my shirt, so I reached back to put it inside then shirt, then POW I get bit. I don't know what happened but my legs too off, I ran to my parents bed room with tears pouring down my face. They woke up and asked me what was wrong, and I told them I got bit by something, so my father went in my bedroom and found a spider. My mother called my cousin and asked him what type of spider was it, my father showed him the dead spider. HE said what bit me was a brown recluse? Am I gonna die, or I'll just be in pain for a while?? (Sorry If this does not relate to my question, I rushed when I wrote this.)

My brother wants to hug me but I have no emotion I don't want anyone to hug me or Pat my shoulder I hate it. It triggers me. But I still let them since they are my brother, sister, mom, dad, grandma, little nephews. I just hate it. I don't want anyone touching me or kissing me on the cheek afterwards I always wash my cheek. Germs! I sometimes think I am a cold hearted ************. I'm a girl. But I think life made me that way. I don't trust anyone. They all have bad intentions maybe will hurt me in any way. I dont trust anyone. Whats wrong with me? I've never been raped or abused so don't think that.

I will make this brief. My moms ex got sued for sexually abusing a younger sister, he is thr one who unfurtenally brought us to this country. Its been 2 years since the trial. My mom got a message on fb from one of his best friends saying"dont forget who brought you here, be careful with your kids" what should i do or what should we do. Am her son and i feel like this is not right, my mom shouldnt go trough this . They are so unshamed because rven his bf knows its true what he is charged for and he was only given a 5 year probation.

She's become addicted to marijuana. Not just any kind of marijuana, the really strong stuff with the high THC. She's become every kind of abusive there is. She's become verbally, physically, mentally and emotionally abusive. I'm hurting because I want to leave but when I say I'm leaving her she'll cry and beg me to stay and say she'll get help but she doesn't. She just yells at me and goes and spends her money on drugs. Help please?

She is apparently contacting people to get info on her son or ex. She seems to be doing it so she can turn it into something negative. She has two daughters she is wonderful to because they have a different father and don't speak to him. However, her son had a better father and keeps up with him and gets along with him, he even lives next door to him. As a result my aunt resents that son with a burning passion. The son is apparently hurt by this so I feel bad for him and see him from time to time. The aunt has been texting me to get dirt on her son. She texts my mother constantly, me about every third day. So what do I do to politely be dismissive next time this aunt frantically contacts me about her hatred of her son and ex-husband? Everyone says she is a narcissistic parent and I didn't see that side to her but definitely do now. I am aged 23 and her son is the same age.

oh my god!i meant to say "My cousin told me that he really WANT to have sex with me.what should I do" it is the translation of what he exactly said:"i like to try having sex with you" I thought its as same as saying "i like to have sex with you" my English is not perfect!sorry

*Sorry for the long post* I really don't know what to do. So I'm entering my senior year of highschool, and before junior year ended someone asked me to do an online summer course for them. Theyd give me 100 dollars in exchange. I didn't do it for the money, I did it because I'm stupid and don't know how to say no. When the courses started, the guy paying me actually signed me up for two courses without telling me. He told me I would do a science course, when instead he signed me up for a geometry and Spanish course. At that point I said **** it, and decided to just enjoy my summer. But then I realized that he mustve paid for the courses, and his parents would get pissed if I just slacked off. To sum if up, I basically have to finish o courses by this week. I'm a Christian. I know what I'm doing is wrong. I have to fess up to my parents, but how do I tell them? Theyre probably gonna refund the guy's parents his money, so that's gonna suck. I guess my question is should I get yelled at by my parents or yelled out by this guy? I'd appreciate the help, because I'm really not sure what to do. Update: Forgot to mention his parents paid $650 for the course :( Thanks guys. I'm definitely not doing this **** again. What's really gonna suck is that my parents are gonna give him is money back It sucks, if I just keep my mouth shut than they don't have to pay for the course. But in my opinion I think it's better to confess rather than getting caught. What do you guys think? Should I suck it up or should I get more people involved in this mess?

Basically my dads been married to this woman whom I've gotten close to. They aren't married anymore, but we bothe mutually keep in touch, no my father doesn't mind at all. I told her if she wanted to cut contact that I understood, and she said that I was stuck with her and that she's not going anywhere. Last Wednesday, she was getting on my case about how messy my kitchen was, and told me to send pictures of it after it was clean. Afterwards she texted me " Great, now good night love you " That's the first time she's ever said that to me. This past Friday I had my recreational football, which she knew about and told me to text/call her after it was over. So I texted her stating that we lost. She texted back " Ok you were on my mind all day, I wasn't sure, don't let this discourage you, use this as motivation for practicing harder." I replied " Thank you for your support on this, love you. " She responded with " I'm going to always be here for you " She didn't say " love you " back, did I make a mistake? Perhaps she meant it as more of a friendly way and not a family type way? She did invite me out to lunch with her daughter like she usually does, two days after that. She did text me today checking on me because of a issue I told her I was having with a girlfriend and we spoke on the phone for about 40 minutes. This Sunday she invited me to her daughters boyfriends birthday. She told me to call her tomorrow and tell her that I did something constructive.

It wasn't anything bad, it was just embarrassing in a funny way. But my brother was trying to tell my mom something that I did, and I denied by say "no I didn't" in just my casual tone, and after a few seconds she said to me "ok maybe you did do it". And then she said if I was telling the truth I would making a more serious face and saying "no I didn't" in a more serious and straight forward tone. Answers?

Growing up my Dad has always been quite snarky. Often times he takes it out on me or my Mom. Mostly because we are always around. For instance, the other day. Him, my brother and I went to go get some ice cream. We also needed to stop at the grocery store to pick up some things. As we were driving I suggested that we should maybe stop by the store first because it seemed more convenient. My Dad responds with: "Sure. Whatever you want". As if I'm being over-demanding or something. Am I missing something here? All I did was simply make a suggestion. He is acting like I'm trying to boss everyone when that is clearly not the case. I love my Dad. But it's a bit difficult to "cherish" him when he is taking out his problems on you.

hola... necesito que alguien me diga si esa es la responsabilidad que tiene una hermana mayor. Bueno tengo 19 años tengo 2 hermanastras una de 8 y otra de 2 años y un hermanastro de 9 mi mama trabaja durante el día y mi padrastro también trabaja desde del medio día asta la noche y yo trabajo por las tardes. Bueno el problema es que siento que mi mama deja mucha responsabilidad sobre mi todo el día tengo que cuidar a mis hermanos cuando ella llega de trabajar yo entro a trabajar, hay ocasiones que no puedo cuidarlos porque tengo otras cosas que hacer y cuando le digo que no puedo se molesta y me dice que porque no fui los días que descanse que si ella deja de trabajar para cuidar a mis hermanos yo tengo que dar el dinero para la comida... tengo dos días de descanso en mi trabajo y esos días cuido a mis hermanos yo le digo que busque una baby city que no todo el tiempo voy a poder cuidarlos pero simplemente se molesta y ya no se que hacer aveces mis amigas me invitan a salir en mis días de descanso y no puedo porque tengo que cuidar a mis hermanos en las tardes si salgo es nada más por un ratito porque no me deja estar afuera de casa de las 10 en adelante. Pues no se que hacer yo amo a mis hermanos y me gusta cuidarlos pero eh dejado de vivir mi vida por cuidar de ellos.

So this is a little story I need help on. A bit ago someone rang on the doorbell (keep in mind it's 12 am) and I didn't think much of it. Then again. And again. And finally a fourth time. The dog was going crazy and my dad was yelling at him. I'm still pretty scared and have no clue of what to do. My mom isn't answering her phone and my dad dosent seem to care that some random stranger could of possibly came in the house. What should I do? Keep in mind I am only a young teen.

My abusive narcissistic father passed away a month ago and I did not bother to visit his funeral or pay respects in fact I was thinking ''good riddance''. That man put me through hell and back growing up he was the definition of a power hungry maniac that needed everything done his way and he only kept people in his life that were useful to him and wouldn't hesitate to get rid of someone in his life the second there is a disagreement or hes not getting what he wants from them. He brainwashed the hell out of my mother she always defended him even when he was wrong so I despise her as well. My relatives all are angry that I didn't go to my own fathers funeral and I now I have been cut of by several of my cousins and uncles. My relatives knew how my father was and how he treated me but they give me that bs ''but hes still your dad you gotta just put up with it and love it''. Hell no I put up with it for the 20 years I lived with them until I had a mental breakdown from all the emotional bullying. Since my whole family seems to be on my fathers side I am not sure if I even want to keep in touch with any of them and just keep moving forward with my life. Also as expected I am not on the will hehe.

Several weeks ago I learned mom and making my younger sister Jenny and I move from Colorado to North Carolina because her boyfriend is stationed there. Mom then decided that she was going to rent a moving truck and that I would have to spend some time riding in the middle because Jenny wants to be able to see out the window. I have been trying to find another solution, but tonight mom told me that she, Jenny, and I will be traveling together in a 20 foot Uhaul and I can either accept taking turns switching seats with Jenny the entire trip or if I do not think this is fair and keep complaining she will give Jenny the window seat and make me sit in the middle the entire trip. Does any of this seem fair? First, my mom is making me move right before my Junior year of high school and now she is going to make me spend at least half of a cross country move sitting in the middle seat of a moving truck riding between her and my 13 year old sister. I really do not want to have to spend any time riding between my mom and little sister who are both shorter than me. I am a 16 year old boy and this is really embarrassing. If you agree that mom is not being fair, I would appreciate any suggestions on how to deal with my mom on this as she has said these decisions are final and there will be consequences if I keep complaining.

It felt like i havent talked to my mom in weeks but its only been 3 days.Im 21 but we are really close because she raised me single.Im independent right now but i feel like we are on bad terms and that we havent talked in forever.Its like that everytime we havent talked in like 3-5 days.It just feels like forever

I'm forced to share a room with an infantile "older" brother. We live where it's blazing hot during the day and still pretty warm at night. We DON"T have air conditioning so a window-fan at night is really my only lifeline. My brother REFUSES to turn the stupid thing on, so I always have to remember to do it... lest the room will still be in the upper 80s when I go to bed. He will constantly turn it off if I leave the room for longer than 5 minutes. His reasoning is that he doesn't like the way "artificial wind" feels. The REAL reason for turning it off is that he thinks he's "getting me", and he is doing this to purposely irritate me. I'm sick of this **** and want it to stop, what can I do

Long story short, my parents got me a fully loaded 2011 Ford Edge for my graduation gift in 2014, in 2016, my Mother died of Breast Cancer. I can t afford my car note as I never imagined paying for a gift. My family hit a terrible loss of income, and it s hard even trying to keep our home (which we can now barely afford because of medical bills). I didn t pay my car payment and was going to let it go to Repo, but my Father flipped when I told him, now I m stuck and he s trying to force me to get it refinanced in my name and I just want to get something more simple and affordable for my age. Mind you my payment is almost $400 a month.

I'm 28 and I have a two year old Who's father is in the army. I met him through my job, and while we obviously have been together, we never were committed to each other and it's something I admit is my own fault. My sons father has wanted us to be a family since before he was born, but I've told him repeatedly and explained to him that he can't try to force us to be together just because of our child. Recently he's been talking about a family day event that's going on with his work and I told him he could bring our son but he wants me to come too because it's a family day and everyone is supposed to attend. Reminding him again that we aren't a family and the fact that we haven't even had sex in over a year turned into an argument, I could tell he was hurt but it's better than leading him on. I never intended to get pregnant, our relationship was originally one of just casual sex, I worked too much at the time for anything else and his stuff with the military was very strict. After I got pregnant he wanted us to get married and do the 'right' thing by our son but I've seen guys who got married for kids and how miserable they made both their wives and it was something I didn't want to put on him. He is a good father, the issue is me not trusting him or believing he wants me for me, it's why I haven't touched him or tried to make us out to be anything more than what we are. Am I wrong for not going to the family day? My own father mother insists I need to be there.

my mom is sick I cant stand her she says the most disgusting crap in front of me and my sisters she will talk about her sex life how she goes to sex clubs and has sex with other men. when I tell her your sick your really proud of being a horror she says yeah I am. sometimes I don't clean when I'm told but when I do and I don't yell at her she still tells her friend that I didn't and tell my dad I didn't she has so many problems all of her sisters and nieces and nephews basically everyone hates her she only has one family who is her friends but there only friends because of the lies she feeds them when I tell her this again she says I don't care

Ok im 23 and ive never lived away from home due to my parents being super religious and bascially kept telling me that living on my own would be too hard for me and i could live in their house till i was married and i didnt have to struggle on my own like most early 20 somethings anyways ive been with my boyfriend whos 32 and has been divorced for 6 years and were talking about me moving in his house to see if we would be compatible for marriage his last marriage ended cause his wife cheated and he felt like he married "a stranger" and refuse to let that happen again and has emotional hang ups cant say he loves me cause he claims "i dont see you day in and out i dont know how i would be able to fall in love if you dont live with me" so i told my parents this and they went CRAZY telling me if i would fall for that crap they will never take me back they'll sell my car and they wont help me out at all (my mom takes me to work every day cause i have panic attacks while driving due to a bad wreck i had) anyways im torn i would love to have a chance to actually GROW UP and possibly have a REAL FUTURE with my boyfriend but at the same time my parents are my parents and i would be even more mentally messed up if they disowned me WTF SHOULD I DO?? i dont want my boyfriend thinking im too young & immature for him ( me and him have been together a year so i think he would know if he loves me by now ) also my dad is a pastor and told me i would ruin their CHURCH REPUTATIOIN AND IF MY BOYFRIEND CARED ABOUT MORALS AND GOD HE WOULD PUT A RING ON IT BEFORE I LIVE WITH HIM AND HE'S TOO OLD TO HAVE EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE FROM HIS LAST MARRIAGE SINCE IT ENDED 6 YEARS AGO So basically they're telling me my life with be ruined with him since he cant say i love you or talk marriage with me yet and i'll probably get pregnant and be left what are ya'lls thoughts?

I am 23 y/o and my mother is an alcoholic. She goes to work and works hard but in the afternoon/night she turns into a mess. She drinks heavy liquor and starts cursing and fighting with my sister and my dad and me too. I want to move but I cant because I am in school right now and I dont have enough money. It's getting annoying. What should I do? I have tried going to a therapist with her. She doesn't admit she has a problem.

For almost my entire life now, i have never felt very comfortable around my family. I feel as though I am happier without their company and would rather be with friends or just myself. Seeing as i am a 14 year old and a teenager, most would assume that it is something that most kids my age feel. However, this has been an occurrence for quite a few years now, even before i became a teenager. I don't like to get close to them, emotionally, and it's almost impossible for me to open up to them, i find it repulsive almost. i can't remember the last time i told my brother or father 'i love you'. i tell it to my mother because we are close, but i don't like the fact that we are. i don't mind opening up to friends or anyone else such as relatives, but for some unknown reason, i hate getting close to my family. i don't feel like i fit, and it's not a matter of low self-esteem, it just feels like i was born into the wrong family. it's felt that way my entire life. is something fundamentally wrong, or does this kind of thing happen? help would be greatly appreciated!!!

thank you for clicking on my questions so, my parents have divorced about a year ago.. and my mom was so depressed ever since. she even went to see a therapist.. lately she has been feeling a lot better,, but I am a bit worried about her behavior.. she is seeing about 3 guys now and when I talked to her about it she was like " I have the right to live my life I am so lonely and I was hurt " blah blah blah.. we had an argument last week and ended up kicking my out of the house because I called her a slut.. is my mom a slut ?? plz help asap thank you

The family of 3, mother: Karen, husband: Joseph, son: Daniel. Joseph is a very wonderful husband, always attentive, and loving of his wife and son. Joseph is a studious, bright, young college student that is about to graduate with a computer engineering degrees 2 years early. Karen loves both of them but has a terrible way of showing it. Karen is not only ruining their lives but the extended family around her and the family friends. PROBLEMS 1 Controls every aspect of her son and husband's life: Forcing them to do chores at random times of the day (could be 5am, could be 11 pm). Not only this, but if her son was to forget to comb his hair she will yell at him and not talk to him for the rest of the day. It must be done Karen's way no matter the cost. It's so bad that Joseph goes down to the basement as often as he can to get away from the control. He also recently asked my grandmother if buying an apartment away is a good idea, so he doesn't have to visit her in the summer. 2 Hypocrisy: she makes a point to pray the same prayer before every meal and says "every bite for the devil" to people that forget, or just don't do such, making everyone uncomfortable. 3 Extreme Negativity and purposeful rudeness: recently said that Joseph (the son) should not take any credit for a single achievement in his life, and it was all Karen. Mind you he is dyslexic and is a valedictorian at one of the best engineering schools in the country. CONTINUED IN UPDATES... PLEASE HELP!!!! 4 Ignores friends/family members for weeks at a time: lies to 'put on an act' of making everything okay once she feels like they have deserved talking to Karen. 5 Mood swings, switches from being super happy to the next second hating you, vice versa. Also, she will not confront if she says something terrible, and instead denies it even to the people she said it too... like she can't believe she said it. HELP 1 SHE HAS to stop being so controlling, it is killing everyone CONTINUED InUPDATe2 2 By doing all of these things and then holding God to other people is hypocritical. 3 She is beyond almost evil by yelling, destroying Joseph's and her husband's self-esteem etc. A perfect scenario would find her choosing her battles more often at the minimum, not being cruel, and simply not as controlling. 4 Is ignoring someone for no reason like this considered a mental illness? 5 Bipolar? CONTINUED IN NEXT UPDATE How can we get all 3 of them to talk to a psychiatrist, and for the psychiatrist to actually make her realize what she is doing and make it stop? It's so difficult as they don't pick up on it.The numbers link together. I hope this clarifies, and thank you. I don't know what to do, and I have not any idea about what I could do. If you would like my phone number or any more information please feel free to ask. Thank you so much as your information will change many people's lives. Thank you!!

I'm 17yo high school senior, and my mom has been with my stepdad for about a decade. My stepdad started to make comments such as, "Your boobs are big. Now you need to grow but more. Boys will like that" or "Boobs are nice, but you need a butt", etc etc etc. He'd occasionally look at my boobs and etc. However, I have an "average sized" butt and I'm athletic. Anyway,I'm not sure if it's normal for dads/stepdad to say that to their chidren, but it's creeping me out. My mom supported him on his comments and such, which makes me unsure. Is this common?

Hi I'm Abram and I'm 16. This would be my first time going to the internet for advice. But I feel this is the only place I can get an honest answer. I'm gonna make a summary of my life and whats going on, then I'll talk about my problem. I've been raised by two very religious parents. My mom has really been the only parent figure in my life. I've been raised in the whole "Home-school/Christianity" keep me safe in my bubble thingy. Which pisses me off now. I've only really had my Mom as a parent figure, because my Dad has had M.S (Multiple sclerosis) ever sense I was little. So I've never actually had a father figure. But I'm really starting to disagree with what my Mom has raised me in. I can't disagree with her about anything about it, or it turns into preaching on what I need to do in my life, to not have these problems and such. Which I usually just give her an okay and mhm hm. But she's not liking the fact that this really isn't for me. She doesn't like it at all, and it is very discouraging towards who I want to be. She will play a whole guilt thing at me to make me try and do it. (Read the Bible, pray etc.) She won't accept who I am becoming. I mean I don't hate her or anything, it just causes a lot of frustration when your parent won't accept who you are. So my problem which I kinda already talked about lol. My problem is, I can't make choices I want too. It always turns into it's me and my "attitude". And if it's not that I get preached too again.

I may be weird but I hate when my crush tries to come up to me in front of my family. Its more of a "private thing". Whenever I'm by myself he never comes up to me but when I'm around my mom..here he comes..I find it so annoying and embarrassing..why does he do that? I don't want them seeing me talk to boys..why does he think this is cool? I'm in my 20s

This has been bothering me for so long. My mom loves pictures and frames so she has her shelves decorated. I counted - she has about 50 pictures (some tiny 2-inch pictures to medium to larger frames). All of them are of my two brothers. Even my father commented it being the "wall of my two brothers." Out of the 50 pictures, she has two tiny ones of me on a bottom shelf and two others that were forced to be put up there. She only has put one up of me if it's in a group with her or my two brothers. She gave me a little insight of "why" she has done this. I left a job which closed down and became really close with my boss. She said she wanted to meet my boss?? For some reason. I just said goodbye to my boss. She then went on a rant saying how she puts up pictures of my younger brother because "he includes her in his life" like getting to know his dentist, etc. (he is 16 years old). I was really weirded out when she said this because I am 24. My other brother is 22. I've gone through so many reasons in my head that it could be - hatred, jealousy, disappointed in me, etc. I really don't understand but I do get hurt by it, but don't want to mention it to look like I'm jealous or something. What is going on and what should I do?

Her mother says equally as mean things about her that are disgraceful.

She insults me and bosses me and everyone else around. Our parents enable her and give her whatever she demands. She is 23 and I am 16.

She is texting deranged lies to her family members. She is out of control. She needs to be committed. She is a narcissist. How do we control her before she does more damage to herself and us?

My mom and dad have been married for 23 years. During the years my mom has grown very upset and tired of living with him. In the past my dad has been both physically and emotionally abusive towards her and even separated and moved away for a while. During the time he was gone, he had an affair with another woman and got her pregnant. However, this was unknown to my mom when he decided to come back to live with us, and my mom accepted him back. Years later to just today she found that my dad was still talking to that lady and she has suspicions that he has been seeing her still. She is seriously thinking about leaving him to live elsewhere. However she has a 5 year old daughter and me still living here. I dont think she even has the money for a divorce either. If anyone could just please offer some suggestions about where she should start with fixing the situation, it would be very appreciated. It feels awful having to see her like this, and she doesnt know where to get help. Thank you for your time.