Uggh i hate to be mean but i want to create distance between some people, you know. It's kinda like thereare a lot of girls who "like" me and are a little to obvious about it but i definately do not like them but i dont want to be mean and reject or turn them away at least not directly. I feel they are dragging me away from my real love, so is there a way to be nice while creating distance? I go to school so i see 2 everyday in homeroom and 1 every other day

I'm 25 (female) and still a virgin. My reason for "waiting" is basically just that my only real relationship I was only 18 and neither of us were really ready for that step, and since then I haven't even really dated much. I don't love the idea of random hookups in general, but especially not for my first time, and since I haven't dated a lot, it just hasn't happened yet. A close male friend and I have been spending a lot more time together recently, and there's been some subtle flirting, etc. but nothing physical has happened yet. At this point I've brought up the fact that our relationship seems to have changed a bit and told him my feelings aren't entirely platonic anymore. His response was basically that he has noticed too, but due to some timing/circumstances (one or both of us are likely moving to other areas of the country within about 6 months) he doesn't want to do anything because it is pretty much doomed to end, and probably wouldn't end well. We've acknowledged the fact that there is a mutual attraction/feelings, but as of right now, are choosing not to act on them. I feel like now that it's out there though, it's almost inevitable though that we will continue to feel this way and eventually decide to go for it. Now my concern is that once things do get physical, at some point I will have to tell him I'm a virgin. My fear is that once he finds out about that, he will think it is a much bigger deal and say no again. When is the best time to tell him?

So I asked my crush what he wants in a girl and he said "I want her to make me laugh" so, i need some really witty but give-him-a-hard-time comebacks/jokes to say to him. Like in the middle of a convo or something. He doesn t mind if I call him a ***** or whatever. He likes it. As long as I make him laugh. Got any come back ideas?

And don't just say boobs and *** and easy girls because that's not it. How can I be a girl that guys like and just enjoy being around? Not a whore but a social girl with lots of guy friends

I was dating this guy and then he moved to Oregon and we agreed to stay in touch. I loved him or at least I thought I did. I don't know. Then I got busy with life and I kinda got annoyed cuz he wanted to talk to me alot and very often. I was planing on breaking up with him. I don't know why because he is sooo sweet at times. Well I guess it had to do with people I was hanging out with??? Idk. But all of them hated him and I kinda wanted to be part of the group. Then one day I snapped at him and I told him tht I hated the way he cussed all the time and I didn't want to listen to all his crap. Then he broke up with me saying that he never wants to see or hear from me again. I told myself I didnt care. Then I kinda switched the people I was hanging around with and stuff... Now I really don't know my feelings if I'm just lonely or do i love him. I do know tht he likes another girl now or so I read of one of my friends chats with him. I tried talking to him once but he said he moved on and stuff but I think he hesitated for a while until I started acting rude and defensive. Then he blocked me. I don't know my feelings, I feel like crying but maybe its only the atmosphere??/ I don't know can some one help me?? Should I keep trying to tall to him and apologize or should I just move on???

Please help me overcome this. I regret losing my virginity because I am not with him anymore and I see him everyday because we have classes together. He moved on & is seeing someone else. I don't want him with no one else. I am a senior in highschool (17). How do I stop liking him? and stop my feelings for him because, I dont want to end up having sex with him again. It already happened twice since we broke up. Does this mean he care about me & want to get back with me?

When my boyfriend and I first started dating meetings with his parents were short and sweet. Once I got to know them better and went to family vacations with them I really really ******* hate them. My boyfriends dad always says jokes that are ignorant, rude, or creepy. He is a veteran so I feel like he thinks he can get away with whatever he wants like he "play" hits me and I ve told him with the upmost repeat that I do not like that, I want it to stop. But he s done it after anyways. I ve left my Facebook info logged-on on accident before (I was trying to contact someone) and he was replying to bf s messages on my profile. I was so heated when i found out. He called my mom hungry dumbly because she tattooed Her make-up. And my boyfriends mom is not better. She s racist to me because I m Hispanic. She textes me and it s not friendly anymore like before, she textest me now to snap at me that her son doesn t answer her phone calls and I won t either lol I hate going over my boyfriends house. He wants me to but I only go if I know theres no one home. I honestly think my boyfriends family is a deal breaker. I hate them so much that I ve thought about wether my relationship with my boyfriend would work cuz I don t want to be family or close to his parents. And I know it s his parents it s not something I could easy say "I don t want to see them, I hate your parents" u know what I m saying?? I need the most wise advice a girl can get. what do I do??!

Alright so I'm 19, still in High School, and always have been called attractive, yet I'm extremely shy and kinda low self esteem because I feel like I annoy everyone I talk to.. Never had a girlfriend, so it's hard for me to talk to girls my age, ANYWHERE I go. So at my work there is a girl who is probably a year younger than me or so, she is pretty cute, and she is in a different department in the other side of the store, but I've noticed she is a bit shy too. I would kind of walk past her to punch out, and she would kinda look out of the corner of her eye toward me. She actually had to return items from her department to mine (it happens occasionally), and when she hands me the items, I try to be really friendly and give her good eye contact, but she is really in a hurriedly-mode, and basically stares at my shoes the entire time, and gives me like half a second of eye contact then walks off.. yet is calm everywhere else. Even passing her today on my break, I looked down for a second at my phone, and looked back up as I was passing her, and she like immediately looked down at the ground and kinda hurried past me.. I don't know if I like freak her out, or has a boyfriend, or is shy.. This is always my main problem with ATTEMPTING to get a GF, it makes me so mad that I can never do this stuff right. Does she think I'm like wierd or..?

Because me and mom have changed a lot and I just want her clam down because i know getting her to be happy like the way it was before is something i cannot do

I am a 19 year old man and I am only attracted to old ladies like my grandma's friends. However, I have never sucked the breasts of an old lady and I am wondering if they actually work. I am too afraid to ask an old lady if her breasts work. Do the breasts of old ladies still produce any milk? Does the milk taste good? Does it have enough nutrients to sustain a baby? Is it healthy?

I have a friend who just turned 20 I believe and had sex with a 17 year old girl who he is dating. She may be pregnant but they aren t sure. Can he get in trouble? What are the possibilities and if so is there anyway to get out of it. He really loves the girl and they are wanting to get married. He is a great guy and I ve known him forever...I really don t want anything to happen to him and if she is pregnant left to take care of the child all by herself ): so please someone reply to my questions ASAP please.

I am the type of person who falls really quick for someone and I think it's a stupid weakness of mine. I know this sounds stupid but I started talking with this guy online and Ive spoke with him over the phone. We had planned to meet up and he was suppose to let me know and he hasn't yet. He's texted me good morning texts and then when I would prolong the convo he wouldn't respond or just respond with a yes or no? He's giving me mixed feelings. Should I just let this go and save my heart from being stomped on. My instinct tells me he's just playing around. What do you guys think?

To make a long story short, got this really cool girls number today at a band competition, decided to text her later that day after we performed. While asking for her number I joked about being able to send her funny dog puppy pictures (cause I know she loves dogs) So, I messaged her a picture of a dog (some meme or something) with some words along the lines of "As promised" Now I waited for while, no response, my friend volunteered to text her to see if she had her phone or not, so he did. No response either. Even though later that day I saw her with her phone. Im debating what to do now, its getting late, do I text her again? Wait till tomorrow? Is she ignoring my texts, did she not see my texts? Did she forget she gave me her number and ignored my text?

Sort of a bleak question but they seem so draining, financially and emotionally. Why do girls get so worked up about having a boyfriend, but when they break up it's all heartbreak and regret? Sounds better to just not get in a relationship if you're not in the right position to be in a relationship

This is a really weird question, but I can't think of any other way to ask it. My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship, we both really love eachother. Whenever my boyfriend and I hangout, alone or with other people, I get intense urges just to start making out with him. We have talked about this before, and he says he feels the same way, no matter what we're doing. If we are in the same room together, we don't even have to talk to eachother, but be both start gettting horny. It doesn't even have to be sexual, I think we just turn eachother on. But we've both decided we don't want to go to fast, and are going to wait until marriage. We aren't even legal But he's constantly getting erections, and I want to make out with him every time i see him. He's 17 and I'm 15, and I know our hormones will be raging and everything, but is there any way I can not get this feeling?

We took a "break" for a few days, he just wanted a break from talking to everyone, including me because he was so stressed. We had a date on Thursday, then yesterday he started to get distant again, stopped texting me. Then today he texted me like 7 messages saying how he's confused about everything in life. We go to different universities a town over, so he's upset about not having any friends at his college, hates his dorm mate, doesn't want to.complete his major, it's what his parents wants, and then dropped the bombshell that he's sexually confused. I called him a few times, he wouldn't answer, texted him like 7 times and the last one I said, "just say something," he responded with "something" I told him I loved him and what ever he decides will be okay. He's my best friend first before we started dating, But even though I will still love him regardless if it's romantically, or just as friend, it's Still going to hurt me. I can't tell any friends, because that's not my place to say anything...but I need advice or for someone just to tell me what they think or what they think I should hear... Please and thank you.

I'm a 13 year old girl and I met a really cool 16 year old guy on my co-ed soccer team and we both really like each other but is it okay if we date?!?

I never had intentions of dating in college nor had the experience, but I met a girl in class last January and ended up doing a group project together. We (as a group) became friends pretty quick and did great in the presentation. As the term winded down, I started to develop an interest in her. She always asked me about attending one of my rugby games, gave me a flirty nudge at times, and persuaded me to come to happy hour with the group. I had rugby training that night, but her convincing changed my mind. I did ask her to rugby formal but she already made plans that night (her best friend's 21st). The girl sent me a message over the summer that we should head out to Happy Hour again with the group. We just went out for dinner a couple of weeks ago and her friend asked me if I was dating anyone again after one guy told us about a whacky internet dating experience. She asked me the same question last spring. I ended up walking the girl home because we live in the same direction. The downside is she's graduating early in Dec while I'm commencing in the spring. It looks like she let her guard down at times, but I didn't take it seriously. I've been thinking of maybe asking her out, but I'm not sure. It wasn't until now I started to think about this. What do you think?

There's this guy that I met through a mutual friend. I had heard that he had a girlfriend. We started hanging out as friends over the summer and I grew to really like him. And we've kissed a few times, and other stuff.. Its obvious he likes me because every time someone mentions my name he gets a smile on his face, so I've heard. And when ever he finds out that I'm going to be somewhere he always shows up if he is able to. When we're together we're so comfortable.. He claims im his best friend.He knows that I like him. And Ik he likes me. Even he knows I talk to another guy and he gets so jealous and when I say to him why should it matter because he has a gf he snaps back at me and says whatever. The problem is that he has a gf for 9 months now. My feelings are strong. But its like he feels the same way but he doesn't because of her. Even my mom sees that. Should I just leave it alone? Or like how should I even feel ?

I didn't ask her out, nor did I say I liked her. I simply asked if she wanted to hang out sometime and she said she didn't know, because there's another guy she is talking to. I know my chances are slim but I see a glimer of hope, but she is sort of ignoring me, through texts at least, I have yet to see her in person since what happened. Should I explain myself to her? Should I ignore her too?

This girl is with me on a school project. We have each other number. I sent her a message to meet up and she reply with "I will go if you're coming with me!!" She replies to my messages fast. At the end we did not meet up because she had to study. I told her we can meet up next time but no guarantee, she said "Okay cool thanks!" Before yesterday we met up with another group member, she compliment me on my sweater and just kept looking at it. she introduce us to her friend, and did not say boyfriend just a friend. Seem to be spending time with him when we met at the art museum. But just talking no holding hands, etc. She spent sometime with her friend going back and fourth with me and kept asking me questions from the project to if I was Hispanic. She was not really telling the other group member questions. After finishing the art museum She ask me if I wanted to go eat with her and her friend but I was not hungry so we said goodbye We talk at times in class but not that much. She is a quiet person in class but once I talk to her she will respond and keep a conversation and keep eye contact. She is pretty cant tell if she is being friendly or not

Is this woman serious, or what! And this is not a personal story lol, just a comment i seen.

Whenever this girl and I are texting she switches moods on me out of nowhere. It doesn't matter who messages who first but eventually, we will get into a really good conversation. We are both replying right away, both super into it, and there won't be any issues. But for whatever reason, she always just stops out of nowhere. Ill get a huge message from her, I'll reply with one right back, and then I won't hear back from her for like 5 hours and when I finally do, she replies with the shortest, most passive response that gives off the sign she doesn't really want me to reply. So I don't. Then she'll get upset with me when I don't respond and I just get confused. She's the one who waited 5 hours to give a plain response and then she's gonna get mad at me? I don't understand.

So I've began to notice that whenever I'm in a group and a person is talking, they tend to stare at me the longest. Like, they will look at everyone (more like quickly glance) and then stare into my eyes for a while before repeating the look at everyone and me process. It's not just me being paranoid, and it's not just a specific gender that does this. I don't know why people tend to stare at me only, but do you have any idea why someone would do that? I'm slightly creeped out, so... yeah. Thanks!

Ok so I like this guy he is insta famous he has 34k followers. Alot of girls like him. We talk to each other about stuff. I really want to date him but my sister said don t date him because can be a player and he could be dating another girl while dating me. I have feelings about him. What should I do? He doesn t seem like he is the player type. He noticed me because I was a super active follower. I gave him a shoutout and he replied back with a heart. He means everything to me what should I do?? Does this mean he likes me?? Thx so much

I'm pretty. I sit alone at lunch time while a see a cute couple hugging like crazy. It makes me want to drown in my tears. Help:`(

I met this girl that I liked last week, After our convo, she gave me her number and then yesterday I asked her if she wants to go get lunch and she agreed. half way through our lunch we bumped into her friend who ended up spending the whole time with us. But her friend was cool! so that wasnt a problem later that night, I texted her "hey it was fun spending time with you today. you're pretty cool" she said "thanks and so are you!" So I asked her if she wants to study together this evening and she said she will be out of town So i said "going to see your boyfriend?" ( trying to find out if she has a boyfriend or not) she said "how did you know?!" and then she texted back saying "Just kidding, I dont live in town" So here is where I got desperate and I texted "Oh okkk haha (with a relieved emoji face" she texted back "you know having a boyfriend doesn't mean you cannot make new friends" I texted "yeah but if you like the person and then find out that she has a boyfriend, thats gonna break you into pieces" she texted "the situation can be avoided if people are more honest with each other" I texted "Honest in what sense?" and she said "Honest like I talked to you, because i saw you are a good person and we could be friends" When I saw the last text, It broke me cause I want her to be my girlfriend. So my Questions are: Am I friendzoned? have I blown my chances? did she only like me as a friend? Has she lost interest? What can i do to make it right? Please help guys!

I'm in high school still. Last year. So, I've been thinking about this girl for awhile and she looks great and all. I know that she does crazy things on the weekends cause I've seen her. She goes to parties, clubs, and etc. I like that about her. She does crazy ****. But it's difficult to get someone like her. In school, we do the same subjects and in every class..We're the only people doing P.E. for my grade. I mean there is another P.E. but it's because of our subjects thats what made us being the only two in P.E. class. I don't know how to approach a girl like her. Sometimes I talk with her, but not a lot. I don't use the word "can't" when I'm in P.E. class cause she might think that Im lazy af but I work hard in P.E. with her. But anyways I want to be with her, but its difficult. She has this flirty things with other guys, but she will never get with then because of her past experience with other guys. But I know that if I am with her. I would never cheat on her or do anything bad to get her upset. I would treat her better than her last relationships. I know if I'm with her. I can change her a little bit from not going to parties that often or I go with her and make her happy. Im not that type of ruling person. I just want to spend time with her cause its my last year in high school and I've never had a girlfriend or ever kissed someone. But when I see her and look straight into her eyes I feel a little spark with her. I don't know how to explain it. I feel like she's the right one for me. I want to be with her. I just need a little advice in what I can do about this situation that I am in. I just want the last year in high school to be perfect. If I am ever going to be in a relationship with her. I would never let her go. I would travel with her to college. I don't want to lose someone like her. Im an average looking guy. Height: 6'1, dark hair, dark brown eyes. I am not over weight Im average for my weight. Please help me... Sometimes I feel like I want to just punch something and break it. I have the urge to do so, like punching a glass window cause it angers me. I sometimes feel like I can't be with her. She's afraid to get into a relationship and I want to try and change her to be with me. But its difficult to say. She doesn't show any feelings or signs to another guy. She just doesn't know what she wants. I want to be with her. I know I would do crazy she to hurt her feelings. Im not one of those "bad boys" A lot of girls like "bad boys" but I don't drink, smoke, or do anything illegal. The only thing I like to do is drive crazy. I know I'm young but I like the speed. :P She drives fast too. I like that about her. I just need advice to approach her and to convince her that I can be the guy she's truly looking for. Please help me...

My ex boyfriend/father of my unborn child and i were going back and forth arguing through text and he said that i am just angry that he doesn't want me anymore and i text him back saying i dont want him back either. He then took a couple hours to reply but he finally answered back saying "Okay." What was hs point in even responding at all and especially since it took him that long to reply while just saying that?

I only became official with my girlfriend a month ago but we've known each other since last year. since the day we met, and every time we had talked previously it was always so easy and we felt like we had been friends forever. We had an attraction to each other too but it fell off and then we reignited 4 months later. We spent nearly everyday for the next few weeks with each other till we made it official. We really don't fight, were happy, and I feel like we could be together forever. it at least feels like we've been together a year. Is this a good thing or bad...?

I have been with my fiance for 3 years(but I've know him since we were little) and 2 years go something life changing happened. I don't really want to go in to it but it left us both with depression and PTSD. he has gotten rid of PTSD and takes meds for depression, but I cant ditch the PTSD and meds don't work. hence I'm really emotional. I'm really worried he will get sick of it and leave. what do I do also my doctor thinks i'm developing postpartum depression.

So this guy I ve known for a few months and I hated him when I first met him but later we started talking and I ended up falling for him and I guess he fell for me too because he made the first move when we kissed and he asked me to be his girlfriend. We were together for a few days when his ex messaged him and said nothing except for he s horrible for getting over her so fast. He told me and we talked about it and everything was ok between us until a few days later he tells me he doesn t want me to love him more than he loves me and that he just needs time to be fully over his ex before he s ready to enter a full commitment relationship. I understood and told him I would wait for him but as I told this story to a few close friends of mine they told me to drop him he s not worth it and to move on. Should I wait for him, he does keep telling me don t worry it won t be long as if he wants me to wait, and I m willing to wait the time we were together was amazing. I just don t want to wait for no reason. We re both seniors in high school if that matters

My boyfriend had a relationship for about 2 years (3 years ago) and she now has a relationship with a friend of his. They broke up and she hooked up with his friend.Thing is his ex gf shows up with her bf at my bf house, even when I am there, nobody seems to see a problem in this but i feel like it's not that ok. I told my boyfriend about it but he says he isn't bothered, he considers this as "my problem" and that I should get over it even though he saw me upset. He wants to keep in touch with his buddy and everything and I can respect that but I just can't seem to feel comfortable enough in her presence (and I did try to stay and talk and hang out), somehow it bothers me and he says I shouldn't make such a "fuss" because nothing is going on between them anymore. But I do know that 1 year after their separation he told her that he lost her and he regrets it and they had a really nice relationship. Am I being too aggressive telling him I don't want to be around this girl? How can I get over it? His sister told me I shouldn't go to their house anymore if it bothers me so much.

I was with a few guy friends, one we will call Mike and the other we will call John. Anyways, Mike decided to start teasing at John. I could tell John was starting to feel uncomfortable about the teasing. By the way, John has man boobs that he tries to hide, but nobody has said anything to him about it. Mike then says that John's boobs are bigger than mine. To add to this, I began laughing and could see that John was getting very upset about this. I don't know why, but I then said that no girl would ever want to date him because of his man boobs. He then proceeded to grab his belongings and left us. I told him not to leave, but he just kept on walking and did not say a word to me. I have texted him for a few days since apologizing, but he will not respond to me. I told Mike about this but he said Just to get over it and nobody really cares about John because of his man boobs. I told him that he should not say that, but he told me not to worry about Mike. I do not know what I should do. How should I handle this situation?

I have some really weird sexual fetishes (being dominated/ objectified / manhandled etc). In everyday life I'm normal and not flirty or promiscuous at all, I have friends and I stand up for myself. I am not shy and don't act all pervy or anything weird. But inside my head I just have all these violent fantasies with rather out there kinds of kinks.... Does that mean that I have low self worth? I was never the type to brag or show off anything, in fact I hide the fact that I drive a Mercedes at age of 19 and if I score high on a test I always down play it... But I don't know... Is it bad to have those sexual desires? am I prone to having an abusive relationship ? Then again, I don't like being disrespected by people yet my fantasies are hypocritical to that.... I've been seeing this guy and I feel like I would ruin things between us if I told him my fetishes. Like he wouldn't look at me the same or think little of me... IDK what do you think? should I tell him? or something is wrong with me?

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She started talking to me last night and then I went with it, we asked each other questions and I told her my age, then I found out she's 4 years older than me.. Then I ignored her because I was talking to 4 people and it was hard to keep track. This morning that same girl messaged me telling me she fell asleep while talking to me.. I don't know what to say..

I want to see if my girlfriend is normal or weird lol

Hi you can find out about the past of me and my bf by reading these questions https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140112075058AAncff8 https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140116091717AAQEcty https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20141201065639AAVGBe2 https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140314224222AAeYcXZ https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140208111639AAlTxFU Anyway last night it all started again and it's been over a year now since all of it happened anyway last night we went to a friend's house of his with his a friend of his whose is very close with this girl and this friend couldn't stop talking about her and in one stage my bf joined in the convo and I got really upset anyway then what happened was his friend couldn't stop talking about her and I could see that he was hurt with all the things what happened anyway last night made me question my relationship with him if we really do belong together or both ... We been together for 2.5 years. ...anyway going back he also practically ignored me the whole night to talk to those friend because he hasn't see him in about a few months or spoken to him in a few mouths and I hate it when he talks to this guy because this guy made him lie to me and also this guy always brings up her I dont know what to do and I'm so upset ... It makes me really question us please help😢 he also knew how I felt about this guy and he chose to ignore it please help me!

Is he serious? My boyfriend cried to me after i tested him about something. He cried and said that he thought he almost lost me and that he loves me too much to live without me.. do you think he really loves me? He's over 21.

So I was at a fair today and ran into my ex and her sister. Well the sister always says me and my ex should date again. I know for a fact my ex still likes me, but I'm completely over her (it's been 4 years). And both of us have dated others since. How do I tell her that I don't have feelings for her without hurting her in any way.

I was trying to get back with my ex bf and he told me he's in an open relationship with a woman who is into girls too and they "like to have fun", his words. He asked me if I was into that and I said no. I'm really upset about this. Will this last for him, do open relationships even work? Why is he doing that?

My gf wasn't listening to me, we were aguing about somthing stupid and she just kept trying to back away from me and evertime I raised my voice hers grew timid. She tried walking away from me so i grabbed her wrists, I just didn't want her to walk away from the argument, I wanted to deal with it now. She pulled away from me and ran out the door. I chased her and when I caught up to her I grabbed her from behind, and as you would say, restrained her. She's very thin and small, 5'3, but i'm only 5'8. She started squirming and crying and yelling that she was sorry, she was panicking so frantically, so obviously that drew a lot of unwanted attention, on the streets. I apologized and I feel so awful. I've never seen her so afraid, but I guess she's never seen me that mad. What can I do to fix it? What can I do to not get so angry next time over little things? This pic is the closet to what i could find of what it was like when i was holding her, but we obviously weren't smiling and she was struggling and she's so much smaller than me, but I am korean though so that's a similarity. :\

So I recent asked my mom if I could spend the night at a guy friends house of mine and as I figured, she said no. Even though I work 2 jobs, 65 hours, 7 days a week and pay more than half of all the bills. I get one off day today and I'm still put on a curfew? I understand this is her house so her rules,but if I'm paying the majority of the bills you're telling me I can't hang out with a friend sometime? I feel like I'm in jail and it's very depressing. Is the only solution to move out? Even though It's almost impossible since all of my income goes to her. I'd appreciate responses from parents with children 18+ especially :)

Two months ago , my near two years relationship got ripped off , she was so badly inlove with me i was her first love first everything ,we had a strong connection and she was so afraid of losing our thing , but i treated her bad..i was selfish arrogant and pushed her away most of time ,but she was at her happiest with me we got into a fight , she broke up with me left me for her ex , the one i hated the most , i tried everything from pleading to begging her and crying in front of her but she rejected me with mean arrogant attitude and ended up insulting me so i initiated no contact for two weeks , she cameback apologizing she said she loves me still and that she's with him because she couldn't stay alone when we broke up , and that 'im the only guy she'll ever love and that we'll be together again. We met , we hooked up and right after that she became just cold , more selfish , mean and arrogant than ever..we talked she said she doesn't love me anymore , she started taking my love for granted and weakness , she changed from that sweet person into devil , i feel disrespected , i talked to her last night thanked her for everything , apologized for all my mistakes , and told her that she'll never hear from me again. I feel like she still love me but is it possible she's over me ? why does she act mean arrogant hateful ? i feel so bad all time ,can't stop thinking bout her , the worst thing is she studies with me and her bf in the same university so i have to see both everyday

I worked with a kid this past summer who is now engaged. Last night on my way home on my college campus from a party I ran into the kid I work with this past summer. He followed me home and randomly kept asking me if I was gay. Now I am but I'm not out so Ofcourse I told him I am not and he kept saying are u sure about that? He then sat and talked to me for awhile and kept asking if I was gay he then decided he was going to leave and he asked me to walk him home so I did. He also kept asking why I was being weird? I was fine he brought up asking if I was gay I said nothing. He's engaged to a girl. Last words he said to me was come visit me at work sometime Any idea why he would keep asking if I was gay?