How do I flirt with girls as a high school boy. And how do I know if it's working? I'm so innocent please tell me lol >.<

I had arranged a previous day for a date with the guy I'm currently seeing. We have known each other for a year but have been dating around a month. The day beforehand we organise the date, and he wants to take me out to dinner and asks me to pick the place (I'm a foodie). The day comes and I ask him if he likes a certain food (sent at 7am) and no response... At 5pm I send another and was pretty sarcastic and accused him of not liking that certain food and ask if we should meet at our usual place which is near his house (he lives in the city next to restaurants etc). He's on Facebook and what's app all day, and I then call him twice at the time we are suppose to meet- I'm waiting at the spot we usually meet, and end up waiting for an hour... He ignores the calls and it turns out he's on social media between those calls :( I'm gutted, what do I do?what do I do if he contacts me? Ignore?

I'm ugly but have a big penis. I like this girl a lot but I have little to no hope. Girls only seem to like guys who are rich or look like Zac Efron. I feel because of this I have no chances unless I win the lottery. What to do?!

I'm 14, is a 9th grader and is very popular in school. I don't really do relationships because a lot of boys around school thinks i'm "hot" so i think maybe they're just after sex. I just got transfered there like a year ago (at 8th grade) and as soon as i got to 9th grade, this super cute boy (an 11th grader) asked me out, ofc i said yes and about 2 weeks later he became my boyfriend. We're together for a month now and he's pretty sweet, he buys me chocolate, we share jokes...he pays me a lot of attention and he's always there for me but if he sees me talking to other boys (friends) he shoots off and becomes really angry (jealous maybe) last week we had sex (i was a virgin, he wasn't) look he had lots of gfs b4 me and he cheated on most of them yes i knew this but i liked him too much to blow him off...well yeah, we did it, he's still sweet and all but he wants sex again...i think he's only after my body and then he's gonna blow me off too...help please

So I m a girl in high school and have a big crush on this guy. I ve made every attempt to show him that I like him by giving him rides home, listening to the weeknd with him so on and so forth. I want to hint to him that I want to pleasure him with head. Any suggestions of how to secretly approach this convo?

in an intimidating way

Im 13 and the guys are 24 and idk how old probablly about 35 or something.

I'm 15 years old and I don't seem as if I would like a relationship when as I get older. I know I'm younger now, but that's just the way I feel about relationships. I barely even like seeing my friends or going to visit family on the holidays. I love my family and all dearly, but I just don't like going to many places. I just like to sit in my basement all day and go on the computer. I'm one of the most asocial people you'd ever meet in your lifetime. People usually call me a weirdo and say that I'm like an alien who doesn't talk at all. People usually say I look like I'm about to cry because I never smile. I dislike smiling and I just prefer to be left alone and isolated. I usually regret that I made friends years ago when I was a young kid, now I have to deal with them calling me everyday and wanting to hangout with me. I hate when people try to talk to me it pisses me off so much. I just want to be left alone forever, I do not want anyone living with me when I'm older. As well as going on the computer, I study just about every night. I love peace and quiet where no one can bother me when I'm doing my work or studying for an exam. I also hate when people touch me. When people go to give me a hug, I try to avoid it. I DO not like showing any sorts of affection or anything of that sort. I love my family as I mentioned before, but I just hate being touched. I also hate when a girl says they like me. I begin to feel very uncomfortable with the situation and end up freaking.

I used to think this wasn't true but now I am starting to think that my best friend, who is a guy, is starting to like me. Thoughts?

So I went back to my old school on August (im 14 btw). Right from the first day I bumped into this guy and he just stared at me from head to toe. After that I would always catch him staring at me and looking down when I saw him. He would always show up EVERYWHERE and stare A LOT.Even my twin brother would notice him looking at me .Then I became kinda friends w/ him (we're in the same group) and talked to him. He would small talk with me (once he asked the same question on 3 different occasions), and was always interested if I wanted to hang out with them on the weekend and would fake pout the times I told him i couldn't. Once he brought this huge croissant and didn't want to invite anyone but when I asked him he gave me like HALF of it. During a party I saw his friend pushing him towards me to ask me to dance with him. He's a funny guy but gets really quiet and shy around me and will stutter when talking to me (my brother also told me that he tried to make small talk with him and kept asking a lot of questions but maybe thats just him being nice). Also if im talking to any other of his friends he will immediately come over and join in. One time i like playfully grabbed both of his cheeks and he went like COMPLETELY rigid & stiff. This went on 4 a couple of months(staring & stuff) but now i feel like he is avoiding me. Like he will talk with every girl except me and ignore me a little if i speak to him. Does he like me? What should I do?I really wanna get to know him better..

My boyfriend and I want to try anal. But I've heard it hurts a lot for me. Help

I'll make this short as possible without leaving important detail. I'm 19, she's 18. She's extremely shy/bashful. We've been seeing each other for the past four months. In that time we have trouble getting together because she's a senior in high school with a job and sports. I'm a graduate working 4 days a week, afternoons to early mornings. For the first two months, it seemed like it was going good. We were texting a lot (I always have to initiate) and getting together, I admitted my feelings to her, and she said she felt the same. Then things started to slow. She would text me back a bit less often, if at all. We couldn't make plans as often because she had other prior engagements with school/friends. I started to get impatient and asked her about it. I told her if she lost interest, that she should just tell me. She texted me back saying how sorry she was, that she has a lot going on with school/friends/job/family and that she thinks she has feelings for me, but doesn't want to string me along, and feels horrible about it. Me being an idiot, suggested we give it a shot and try to work around it. She said I'm a great guy and wants to give it a shot too. But since that talk, it's gotten even slower. She'll seem excited to talk when she replies, but I'm struggling with the fact that she NEVER initiates anything. Texting, suggesting we get together. She acts weird about hugs, which is why I haven't even considered trying to kiss her yet. I just don't know what to do.

Are they're any good ways to maybe tease your bf? like touching his upper thigh ..etc. I'm not talking about during sex though. Just a little bit of trading to get him on edge (in a good way) like sitting on his lap or leaning over him to "grab something"

His name is Casey, and he makes me so happy. I don't think he likes me more than a friend though. I don't really know what to do. Should I tell him? Should I just stop talking to him? It hurts to be around him honestly. Please help me!

He laughs with me, laughs at me when I'm being goofy, I feel like he looks at me more then I know. He told me a story that I told my store manager (he didn't work that day) and started to laugh it up with me and I was soo embarrassed and he was just smiling and laughing. We were joking around about it. Then I think he figured out that I smoke because he told me that he smokes too. Unless he figured it out, but normally I try to cover it up with perfume. He walked by me when he was training me and I got a smell of his cologne.

Today I found an open pack of cigarettes on my 6 year old son's dresser. He said he had smoked 4 of them already and that my boyfriend gave them to him. I confronted my boyfriend about it as I was very upset and all he had to say was "my dad bought me my first pack at that age so no harm no foul." How can I get him not give him more?

I have this crush on a guy and we were at our school's football game and I hinted at him that I was cold and he said it's yours if you want, the hoodie he was wearing. He took it off and handed it to me. When he was about to leave, I started taking off the jacket and when I finally got it off he ran off so I could keep the jacket. What does that mean? When I give it back, should it smell a little like me? Help..

My gf were having a joking debate about a movie that we both like and what it really means and I thought it was all in fun but all of a sudden she started getting really serious about it. I really still don't understand what she was mad about, but I think it was at least partly because she's had similar experiences to the main character in the movie. I haven't had any experiences like that but I majored in theater and minored film studies so I think I'm also qualified to say what I personally think the movie is "about" from THAT perspective. It felt like she wanted me to abandon my perspective and accept hers completely (she's kind of bossy like that sometimes which puts me on the defensive). But from my pov just because I was able to "prove" my argument to her didn't make her perspective "wrong" by default - and from my perspective anyways it certainly didn't take away from any life experiences she's had. When I finally "proved" my side of the argument to her, she just got even more angry and said she didn't want to talk about it anymore. So I haven't brought it up but I feel like I kind of should because I don't like having unresolved stuff like that hanging over our relationship. Any ideas how to approach this matter sensitively and without offending her further? *Any obnoxious or sexist answers about "that time of the month" or "women are just crazy" will be flagged.

Im 23, male, 5'11 good looking, and an INFJ perosnality type. Im from San Francisco and moved to vegas now. Ive worked a few jobs as security, gas station cashier, and now, my grandmother is letting me take over her business. all my time ive lived here, it's been so hard to really find a girl im interested in. all women i meet are just stupid, boring, no personality, and just selfish women. i met this one chick back in california that was perfect for me, but she had a bf. been here for 3 years.

I'm currently in medical school with my boyfriend. I brought up to him a couple months ago that I love him because I felt that he had the same feelings, but was too afraid to share them with me. He responded by saying he likes hanging out with me, misses me when I'm gone and likes me a lot, but is not in love with me. That is fine. I do not mean to rush him. However, I am starting to feel vulnerable. I compliment him regularly and he tends to be more critical of me. He always wants to get lunch and/or dinner every day together. He says school comes first, and that he has a hard time being in a relationship AND being in school. I seem to be losing the pure feelings I had for him at the beginning. When I thought we were on the same page, my love for him was unlike anything else I have ever felt. Now I am afraid of getting hurt and feel a bit of resentment and vulnerability. I don't know what to do if he doesn't love me after being together for 7 months. I feel like if I didn't love a guy by that time, then I would never fall in love. He is very bad with decoding his emotions and even worse at communicating them to me. Is what I'm feeling normal? I feel so uncomfortable even complimenting him sometimes because I worry it's going to become a one way street and that I end up getting hurt. Although I could be being dramatic about this. Not sure what to do....

I have known my friend since freshman year of high school, graduated in May of this year & are now in college (I go to the university here, he goes to the community college). We have gotten close since the tail end of senior year & hang out on a weekly basis now. We share quite a bit of our lives with each other. We tell each other about the people we like, dating, etc. He knows me inside & out. We have always had the type of relationship where it is extremely touchy & people think we're dating, but that isn't the case. A couple weeks ago my girl friend & I went to go visit him at work, & I had noticed that he would glance at me constantly, but I didn't think much of it. He was working with one other guy, who kept staring at me, & is a couple years older than the three of us. I told him about the staring coworker & both of us just crushed it off. Last night I was with the same girl friend & we went to go see him again at work & he was with the same coworker. The coworker tricked me into giving him my number & when I did my friend just stared at me the whole time, but didn't say a word. We sat there until they closed & the four of us were standing around the parking lot for a while talking. I got home & texted my friend & he told me "you knew what you were getting into" & "How could you fall for something like that?" After a couple messages back & forth he asked me if I would give the coworker a chance & I told him "Yes." He was kind of shocked by the whole thing & I jokingly asked him if there was anything else he needed answered & he randomly asks me "Are you a good kisser?" Then sent me another message "I'm just kidding, you don't have to answer that. After a couple of messages of me not knowing how to respond he tells me about this new girl who he likes, & is hoping that there is some hope for him with her. After telling me about her I told him that I am still talking to a guy who broke my heart & he told me that it made him feel better knowing that I would never date that guy again. He is always telling me that he loves me, and that I can never die (I am going on vacation out of state soon) and I need to stay here with him. Thoughts?

I was hoping to get an outside opinion on this so any helpful input is welcomed! So, to make a long story short, I went on a date with this guy last Sunday and it turned out really good. He had brought up som ideas for another one and we kissed goodbye. He texted me for the next two days and brought again up going to dinner and trying to aim for the end of the week to go, I definitely said yes. The last time we talked, it was kind of a short convo, just a "Hey, here's this funny thing you should check out." That was Tuesday and I haven't heard from him for most of the week now. I texted him earlier today and got nothing. I'm just kind of confused. If I hadn't heard from him after the date I wouldn't have cared as much but the fact that he told me he had such a good time and him saying he wanted to take me out again, why would he just go ghost? I could be overreacting but I'm not too sure.

I'm in medical school so you know I got swag in the bag. I will tell her "hey girl, I just checked your temperature and you're looking really hot. Why don't you come with me for a full physical exam? ;)" how about it?

Ok I'm asking this because I texted this girl and said she's pretty and she said thanks. Do yall think that she had like no reaction or had like a smile on her face while she was responding but didn't text that way. I know this is a weird question but from a GIRLS perspective what do yall think when a guy does that? And how do yall react? ( and this girl isn't one of those girls that gets called pretty all the time).

Hi there :) So i briefly met a girl a while back and she kind of left my mind.. however, recently through mutual friends i have been getting to know her and i have even spent a little time with her by ourselves. she is a very shy girl and she has told me that a few times. i am trying to attract her enough to form a relationship. i have been texting her a little and i rang her last night and than came over to her house and hung out with a mutual friend. the thing is i am worried about scaring her off and having her not have the same attraction to me. i am also worried about getting into the friendzone. can you guys/girls give me a few pointers as to how i can get with her and stay out of the friendzone. thanks.

So I started talking to this guy about 2 months ago. He looks really good on paper and I started liking him. He came over, tried to get physical and I said no, this happened twice. About a month later, I was frustrated and horny, I text him to come over and we did it. About a week later I told him I liked him and he said that he was not mentally ready for a relationship. Then I proposed he come over because I was horny again lol. He said he would but I haven't heard from him since then!! Should I text him again? by the way, i dont think he forgot because people dont forget things like this lol

I'm trying to make friends here...so I'm messaging girls on hangouts to chat..why won't they respond? So rude..

Im in quite the problem here. I feel like I don't belong in school. I'm not like any of the other kids, if someone were to put their hands on me I feel like I would do nothing, I can't handle talking **** to my peers. I'm not romantically involved whatsoever, while my peers are having girlfriends, boyfriends, and just dating in general. Is all this coming from a lack of Confidence? or could it be some other underlying problem? Am I not reaching my fullest potential?

I don't remember doing this, but apparently I got so drunk at my girlfriend's party that I took her into her room and tied her up and pooped in her mouth... She's now refusing to even talk to me and I miss her a lot. She's the love of my life and I'm devastated without her. What am I to do?

Why can't i part So my boyfriend of over 2 years keeps asking to borrow money. He is employed and has been at his job over 10 years. We are both parents and I understand his bills may be higher than mine but I also feel like he's not exactly financially responsible. I have loaned anywhere from 20 to 200 and not seen a penny in return. I don't ask to borrow money. I go to his house And have to buy food cause the fridge is empty and I pay most of the time when we go out. It's starting to get annoying. Am I wrong.

So i started talking to this cute girl in my school and in just 3-4 days I can say we are confortable with each other. She said sweet dreams to me b4 I slept and begs me to stay whenever I say I have to go. Now she said we should chill. What can this mean

I look at a pic of my teen cousin and her teen boyfriend and it is super sweet. So I know you never forget your first young love no matter what. But for people with a history of other serious lovers, does your first love give you more sweet and positive memories than other lovers that happened after?

Firstly i'm from asia and he's from italy, we are attracted to each other and have so much compatibility and so much in common. We usually chat so much and skype very often untill one day he got a job at a local bar to struggle with his financial burdens to get into a university and get a decent job, he told me that the hours of work had restrained him from texting me regularly like he used to, our time zones are crazy aswell he woke up when it's time for me to sleep and i understand that. I also leave him a text so that he would read and he does. Then one day he feel depressed about financial and told me if he got no better options he will go for military job instead which i feel a bit opposed but i can't restrict him ( it's his choice) and told me that for now he can't go on with our relations, he can't even think of flirting or anything because that financial stuffs put heavy load him and he can't even visit me with his situation. Despite for that i still want him because i feel connected whenever i talk with him, I really don't mind if he don't work either because thats not what i look for when i'm really into someone, i met a lot guy like engineer and policemen but i just want him, I really want to visit him and since i work as a nurse with so many shift even midnight shift, i have to arrange my schedule for holiday. What gives to our relations? and please be nice. thank you. * For a holiday to visit him

A friend of mine has a friend who is a larger girl (he said she was close to 240, Im smart enough not to ask her) who was interested in me and wanted me to ask her out but when I politely said no she asked her friend to ask me why and I told him because I don't like bigger girls, and she called me a shallow a**hole. Am I? I would never shame someone for being bigger, and I didn't shame her for it, nor have I shamed anyone else. I'm just not attracted to it. And she's not "big boned" either, she was once way thinner. I mean I'm not about to date someone I'm not happy with just to make that person happy. I weigh 166 lbs. and am 6'1'' if anyone wants to know. Not really super fit, but I exercise regularly and I'm definitely not overweight. And yes, I like curvy women. Just not obese. Sorry if that offends you.

Nothing makes me entertain and laugh. I can't laugh without someone. So message me if you are very bored . Dumped boy : darshankmistry@yahoo.co.jp

I have been friends with this guy for about a year now and I started to like him since the fall semester started. We have a class together and sit next to each other, and we talk a lot more now. I recently asked him if we could go a restaurant together on Friday night and he was ok with it. It was our first time hanging out one on one together since we usually hang out in groups and if we are alone, it's usually in school. So could it mean that he likes me or is he just being a good friend?

I am starting to believe I am unattractive to females. I am a 19 year old guy in high school, who is sometimes shy no quiet unless people let me into their conversations. I listen to heavy metal, I watch romance movies, horror movies, and action movies a lot. I also like to watch drama shows like Supernatural, Prison Break, Burn Notice, Ghost Whisperer, CSI NY, Blue Bloods, etc. I am having a hard time finding somebody who shares the same interests as me with these like I do. I also used to be in a relationship before but she moved on and is happy with another guy now. I want to be happy and move on to, but I've been asking my friends to hook me up with a girl and all they'll say is, most of the ones I know have boyfriends, or they don't like me. I am a senior in high school and I have big plans after I graduate. A relationship wouldn't hurt to be honest in the meantime. This year I also plan on being more outgoing and concentrating on my graduation the most. http://i62.tinypic.com/1z6uofs.jpg I am starting to think I should become asexual if I cannot find my one true love like most couples in this generation do.

My boyfriend's mother and I have not gotten along for about eight months now because I am pregnant. When she found out, she called me trash and told me to get an abortion. So, I decided not to talk to her until I felt I was ready to say something to her. Well, tonight our church had a fall festival. I didn't talk to her until I was about to leave because she was surrounded by a group of people. I am the type of person who if I feel there will be confrontation, I will wait until it is just me and that person around so that nobody else has to hear about it. I went up to her as I was walking out the door and I said her name three times until she finally rudely replied, "you haven't talked to me all night and now you think you are going to talk to me, no ma'am". It took me all I had to even push myself to go up and attempt to talk to her. I really don't know what to do.

My gf is overweight and she wants to lose weight. Thing is, instead of just eating healthy and exercising in moderation, she always wants to do the latest fad diet, or exercise to the extreme, or like just eat ONLY vegetables and fruit or something. Then because her diets are so restrictive, she always ends up "cheating" - by either binging on deep-fried food or pretending that it's still a "diet" if she deep-fries her vegetables or eats a couple of her fruits in a tub of ice cream and eats the whole thing. Likewise her exercise regimine is always super-intense so she'll keep up with it for about a week and then drop it and not exercise at all. I really don't care if she loses weight or not - I love her just the way she is and I think she's very beautiful just the way she is - but I see that she's frustrated and also I'm worried about her health with all these crazy diets. She's very independent and stubborn and for the sake of our relationship I've just been keeping quiet about what I think about her diets. How can I approach her sensitively in a way that might make her consider ditching the fad diets for plain old "food pyramid" healthful eating and exercise in moderation?

Like specifics Does she have to have a certain hair color or that doenst matter to you? Eye color? Skin color preference? Tall or short or average? Big boobs and but or small or proportionate? Stomach size? Personality traits?

First my boyfriend has depression. And he is easily upset I can't joke with him. He'll get upset if I do something and he wanted to do it for me. Or like I always watch the walking dead with my dad I watched it with him a few times. I watched the rest with my dad. He got mad at me. If anyone should be mad it should be my dad. He wants me to call him whenever i'm on break at work. He texts me and when I don't reply gets upset. He sends me cute stuff all the time at least once a day so to me it's not special anymore. He calls me and then sits on the other side of the phone for hours not talking. He always wants to hang out. I get off work at 5pm he wants to hang out until midnight I have to be at work at 8 the next day and he gets all upset about me going home. My mother is going through chemo. And today he got a attitude because I told him I couldn't hang out my mother is sick(from chemo) He said "whatever then." i have one day off maybe two a week and i have animals to take care( chickens ducks horses dogs cats) And he wants to spend from sun up to sun down with me. I tell him i don't know about plans and then when I tell him no he freaks out. He is jealous of my horse cause I call him my main squeeze or the sexy beast or handsome. He said I don't know how that makes him feel. I was very sick recently and he kept pushing to come over to watch movies. I just wanted to go to sleep and be left alone. he gets upset when im on my phone at his house when ive been there all day. I have people i need to talk to coworkers family etc. I'm not scrolling on facebook I answer and put it down. The other day he brought up moving farther along and I told him no I wasn't ready and he started pouting. if I tell him i have a day off he expects me to spend it with him. doesn't ask just says when can I come over or on my way. I have post lymes(basically will have it for the rest of my life I was one of the 10%) which makes me very tired and sometimes I need to sleep all day or I'll literally get faint and start feeling light headed. He got upset with me because I don't say good morning first. 99% of the time I'm still asleep because I can go to sleep at 6pm and not wake till 1pm the next day. I was talking to him about my brca(breast cancer gene test) It came back negative but I told him if it was postive I was getting my breasts removed and fake one and he said Fake boobs freak me out. I said would you rather me end up with breast cancer? He didn't respond. 2nd date he asked me to go to his sisters wedding. He asked to hang out I told him I had plans with my girl friend I haven't seen in like a year and he said cool can i come I said We are just doing girlie stuff and I'd like to catch up with her. He was like I take it I can't come them. He is driving me insane. He asks me if I love him all the time. He wanted to go to my mom's chemo and when i told him my dad goes and only one person is aloud back he said he'd wait in the waiting for the 4-5 hours her chemo takes. (he is 22 I'm 20) Sorry about my rant like I said he is driving me insane