I say accept because for the past 10yrs or so we have been trying to get him to make his bed and keep his room halfway clean and @ the age of 16 he still can't do any of these things on a regular basis. Im not asking for perfect because our room isnt perfect but it is in decent condition most of the time. We've grown tired of punishing him for not doing it so what now? Since he was bout 6spanking,grounding,taking things away, time out nothing has worked. Are we suppose to say ok he's just a messy person and deal with it? All I want to see from him is to keep his cloths off the floor and to make his bed. That's all i expect from him and even that seems to be to much for him. Ex: he has to be on the bus about 6:30 so he gets up at 5:45.The guy leaves cloths thrown all over his room and doesnt make his bed. Dad: Son what happened this morning? Son: I didnt have time. Dad: ok start getting up at 5:00 so you'll have more time. Are you ready? So he gets up at 5:00am and the guy still leaves cloths thrown all over his room and doesnt make his bed. Dad: Son what happened this morning? Son: I didnt have time. Dad: ok start getting your cloths ready at night so you dont have to look for them in the morning. Son: ok. Are you ready? So he gets up at 5:00am and the guy still leaves cloths thrown all over his room and doesnt make his bed. Dad: Son what happened this morning? Son: I didnt have time. Dad: didnt you put your cloths out last night? Son: I forgot. rinse repeat 5yrs now. FYI positive reinforcement hasn't worked either.

So we were playing at my house playing on the computer when i heard him fart so telled on him for being disgusting and stupid so my mom got mad at me for wasiting her time so i screamed at my friend for getting me in trouble so i hit him and hit him again and punched him in the stomach and hit his head over and over and stepped on him really hard on his guts!! he screamed and cryed and literally threw up on my floor! so i punched his gut again and kicked him out of my house! my mom got super mad and told his mom to pick him up immedietley so i smashed him with my intrument case over and over when his mom picked him up she screamed and told my mom and no one knows i did any of that. My friend is too hurt to say anything. What do i do! he is at the hospital now with surgery on his intenstines and no one knows its me! if my mom finds out she might take away my computer

The past 1 and a half months my dad has been working very hard and I appreciate that very much. He has been working from 7 am to 8pm. But he comes home very late and i dont even see him. Sometimes when i call him to see where he is, he usually sits in restaurants with his colleagues. And when i tell him to come home, he says: i will be home in 15 mins. 1 hours passes and he isn't home yet. I call again and tell him to come home right away and he says he is in the car. 10 mins pass and he still hasn't come. It really bothers me cause he does this all the time. It breaks my heart, feeling that he cares more about work than me and my mom and sis. I really don't know what the hell is going on, but I am not talking to him until we all get an apology and he stops doing this. It just breaks my heart!

I'm 18 years old and I have a little brother, he is 16. He and I have always been pretty tight, good friends. I don't know when it happened but I started getting obsessed about his health! Like every aspect of his general health! What he ate, If he drank water, if he flossed and brushed his teeth, how much sugar he ate, if he went outside and got exercise! All of that! Like if he doesn't go outside and get any exercise, and just sits on his butt and play video games all day, I get pissed at him and won't talk to him. He will then say "What did I do?" And I would say "You were being unhealthy today by not going outside!" Is this weird? I don't know why but it bothers me when my brother does unhealthy stuff! Like eating a lot of sugar, I get mad at him because he could be eating an apple or an orange instead of a Cupcake! When he doesn't drink water I get mad because people who don't drink water are unhealthy because they get dehydrated and can have serious problems!! Help! What do I do? I can't tell him what to do, he and my parents just get mad at me when I tell him to do healthy stuff! Should I just let him get fat, lazy and be a bum! My parents do a pretty good job raising him but they let a lot of stuff slide I think because they have full time jobs. I don't want to have an unhealthy brother?! Why do I care so much if he's unhealthy or not? I wish I could just not care but I feel guilty when I see him go to bed really late, or eat a bunch of sugar, or sit on his butt!

Okay so to give you the gist, I lived with my abusive dad for most of my life, and 3 years ago my mom took my dad to court and won custody of me and my sister. After she won, she was super-nice and made us feel like we're being loved. But for the last 6 months, she's been rude and disrespectful towards us. Here are some of the things she's been saying: "You girls need to GROW UP!!! BOTH OF YOU!!!" * throws dishes at the floor* "Do you girls want to go back to your dad's? I have his phone number!" "You know, you girls don't respect me at ALL. Y'all disrespect me, and I am ******* TIRED OF IT!! MY CHEST HURTS BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU PUT ME THROUGH!!!!" That's the nicest stuff she says. When we hurt ourselves, she just ignores it. When we get into arguments, she tries to *****-slap us. There's more than that, but you probably get it. I try to give my school hints, but where I live, this stuff is normal! What should I do?

I want to built my 7 year old sister a giant play house. Its something I wanted to have When I was younger but my dad never had time. My sister means a lot to me and I want her to have everything I never could. And I want her to be able to help with it like paint. Designs. And little gardening outside of it. Please help!!

I have a siezure disorder. My mom doesn't seem to realize that has a lot to do with it. When I'm in a room by myself I hear voices, feel closed in, etc. I have slept in the same bed with her all of my life, and she has NEVER had a problem with it. Her and my dad divorced, and when we moved out, I slept in her bed and she would lay down with my little brother (8) and when he went to sleep (he didn't know he was alone) she would get back in the bed with me. We slept like that because the bed was too small for all of us. Then, someone almost kidnaped us, so I slept in my own bed, which was in the back of the house, so he wouldn't get me. I didn't get to sleep with her, because there wasn't room in the bed. I never got 1 hour of sleep the whole time I lived there. She slept with my little brother. Then, we moved in with her "boyfriend" and I still sleep with her. But now, she thinks it is AWFUL that I sleep with her, when in reality she has NEVER had a problem with it! She loved it!! She's only doing this because of what people think! Now she is saying I'm sleeping in my own bed. She won't listen to me when I tell her how much anxiety it causes me. She don't understand how much I have to sleep with her. And don't ANYONE DARE to say "you are such a weirdo" "you should have been sleeping by yourself when you were 2" because no. Haha! You all don't know us. We actually LOVE each other and are a family unlike you unloving *******. How do I make her understand how it makes me feel?

So im 19 and i ve studied for a make-up artist, i have an other job atm but i have a blog and i do get call a few calls a month and im planning on getting bigger since i just finished school. this summer me and my friend stayed in a house and i kind of got to experience taking care of everything by mysekf money wise and etc and it was a bit hard but I want to do it myself now cause i just finished school and i kind of feel that my grown life has started but my parents doesnt want me to move out until i get married and i think thats just stupid. is there a way i can possibly convince them to let me move out I live in europe and i know that i can just get my own place but i dont want to fight with them or make them mad at me

So I dropped out of school due to being bullied and having really bad anxiety, to the point where I can't even communicate with adults or people my age. My father decided to punish me by limiting me, not allowing me to go outside, and wants my brother to insult me as much as he can (my brother kicks me in the head, ribs, etc. and he doesn't get any punishment, my dad just sits there and watches), and apparently my brother is allowed to do whatever he wants to me, because he is an adult (he is 17...). My mother, who is very supportive, decided to take action. She got therapists, psychologists, etc. involved to help me with my dilemma with school, family, and all of that. The doctors told my mother to tell my father that he should support me and not limit me, as it only makes it worse, but my father refuses to change anything. He still loves to annoying me, and wants to make me feel worthless. I told him that he makes me feel suicidal (in which he does), and he just says 'Yeah? Well you ruin our lives'. My mother is now considering to get a lawyer to sort this out, because it's obvious my dad is doing really bad stuff, letting my brother beat me up, and now allowing me to have a life. What are your opinions on what should happen? I meant 'and not allowing me to have a life', sorry.

Let me start by saying that I am 23 years old, and so far life has been extremely rough for me. It all started when I was 13. My father had a massive stroke that left him mentally and physically disabled to the point where he cannot be left at home alone. My parents were married, and it was just the three of us in our big house. However, my father was the only one who worked. After his stroke, my mother had to tend to him constantly and was unable to work. We lost everything. Our house, all of our cars, and most of our possessions. We eventually moved into a small apartment where life went even more downhill. We struggled constantly, and once I grew old enough I was able to help out by working in restaraunts when I wasn't in school. Last week, my mother passed away from heart failure and pneumonia. It is the most devastating thing I have ever been faced with. She was everything to me, especially after my fathers health issues. At this point, I am stuck at home taking care of him. He has a nursing aid that comes from 830 am to 1 pm, but that's it. I'm lost. I don't know how I am supposed to move on with life and get a job when I am the only person who can care for him. I have no money to my name. We are living off of my fathers disability check. I need help figuring out what to do. Im only 23, I can't throw my life away sitting at home forever. I know my mom would want me to figure this out. I just don't know what to do.

I just feel in my heart that my twin's personalities are better suited for the other's name. They look nothing alike so friends and family will definitely notice if I suddenly start calling them by the other's name. However I'm sure they'd adjust eventually. Legally and medically speaking would there be an issue with this? Unless you know my family, how would you ever know?

So I'm 18 and I've only had sex with 2 guys and it really bothers me because I want to be up to at least 4 guys. Most people my age and younger had been with at least 5 or more people. My niece is almost 18 also and she's not as pretty as me but she's had like 2 or 3 boyfriends and I'm afraid she'll get another one soon and then she'll have had sex with more guys then me. I don't know if she has had sex but I'm just assuming so even though my siter(her mother) said she isn't sexually active. I just don't want her having sex with more guys than me and then have everybody say "wow she's been with a lot of guys" I'm really pretty and I have a lot of guys wanting to have sex with me but I'm waiting until I get my license because I have no way of getting there right now. What should I do? I feel so innocent and it's embarrassing to tell guys I've only been with 2 guys. I hate it! It keeps me up at night.

Ok so it s nothing new to me that parents have sex...I ve heard them lots of times and when this happens I ll put my headphones on and try to forget about it... BUT they also do it when I have friends over and my best friend heard them the other day!! It was so embarrassing!!! So awkward! I m afraid she s gonna tell someone... God.. I want to tell my parents to just please not do it when I have friends sleeping over! I just don t know how! Please help!!

My finance Chris lived with his Dad/Stepmom when he was a kid and saw his Mom every other weekend. Dad/Stepmom got married when he was 2 and he doesn't remember life without her. They are close. He's also close to his half-sisters. He loves his Mom too. His Mom and Dad were never married and have a terrible relationship. I don't think there is even one photo of them together. Chris doesn't even have one memory of them together. I mean, they didn't even sit together for sports, graduations, anything. From stories his Mom has told Chris, his Dad never cared for her, never told her that he loved her, wasn't there when he was born, etc. It basically sounds like a one-night-stand with long-term results. His Dad has never said anything - so we really don't know the whole story. His Mom said his Dad had sole custody when he was little because he tricked her into signing paperwork. We don't really know who is right or wrong, but Chris loves them both. Chris' Mom is bitter bc she feels like his Stepmom raised Chris instead of her (which is true to a point) and she feels like that his childhood was stolen from her. Anyway, Chris' Mom would be furious if his Stepmom was involved in the wedding at all. But Chris said he feels having her in it is important to him. But he's afraid to tell his Mom this (she has quite a temper). So: Do you have suggestions where Stepmom can be involved without "outshining" Mom? He doesn't talk about it much, but I can tell this is bothering him.

Is this normal? I am 19 years old, I get mail sent to the house and he freaking opens them??? Hospital referee papers, bills, important notices, all under MY NAME. I told him I've had enough and if he opens my mail again I'm telling the cops. I am so pissed off he is getting into my business, I truly believe he is crazy

Parents have taken my teen siblings and 27-year-old macho brother to some event that makes males femenine/metrosexual by indoctrinating them and giving them new ideas in hairstyles, new dance move with arms and simply being with it, while my parents permanently blacklisted me from such event since both of them follow that protocol of forcing me to stay masculine since my both of them thought I was masculine based on how the father has always bossed, blamed and scolded me for everything. I'm now permanently blacklisted from such event when I was always more of a male who is self-conscious, non-violent and had acceptance and adherence as part of his preference. I was closer to metrosexual male. I'm also being denied of hairstyles

I was in the car and I got really mad at my sister. We started bickering. Then my mom told us to get out. We stopped bickering and she gave us one more chance. But then I got mad at my mom, (I forgot how,) and I told her I hated her. My mom told me that, that was a really hurtful thing to say. But I got even more madder and said I hate you again. When we were almost to our house, (I could see it,) I told mom to stop the car. She slammed on the brakes and I got out of the car. It was raining and I had a coat on. I walked up the street and hung out near my favorite place when I'm sad, the bus stop. The bus stop is where this tree is. The tree is very big. Anyways, I climbed up the tree and lied down on the tree, (sorta,) and rested. It was raining, (like I had said before,) and was very gloomy. I started crying. These really mean dogs started barking, everything went normal. After 5-10 minutes I walked back home. I did the password for the door and opened the door and my mom was there. "Do I know you?" she said. And I started crying because I didn't know why my mom said that. I went into my room and slammed the door. What should I do? Should I make it up to her?

I need your opinion on what to do about my grandmother and her kids. Well, they don't like me and my brother that much because we are not pure chinese. My grandmother treats us differently compared to our cousins because we are not pure and they are all pure. She'll even say bad things about us in front of our relatives and they will laugh. And it seems like she wants us to be perfect in everything? I am actually afraid of my grandmother and her kids (my father's siblings), they all have bad attitudes, like, whenever we see each other they'll even look at us from head to toe. And i do believe they are like that because they are wealthy. I just don't know what to do. I am actually tired of them. But they are still my family, my father's family. I can't talk to my father and ask for help because he's dead.

Successful people spent a lot of time doing the things to make them successful. Every time I want to pursue something, my family members cut in and steal my time so I can't spend the time I need to become top level. Do you have to get rid of your friends and family? They stress about stupid things like dinner time and waste an hour or two of my precious little spare time. How do they cope with it?

Okay so there's this car in town that's pretty cheap & I want it but my parents think it will have too many problems but I have enough of my own money to pay for it but they think I shouldn't get it. But my grandma gave my parents her car a while back, and it's a 1999 Toyota & it is SO ugly & has dents on nearly every side. I was talking to her this morning & I said you think I'm not ready to drive but I've had my permit nearly 6 months and I have to take my test before it expires, and I've been practiicng. So I said I got to drive that ugly car nobody likes & she told me I wasn't even ready for that. Wtf? Both of my parents told me to get my permit& I did & they don't think I can drive even though I've been practicing since June. I don't expect a brand new car or anything, just something that's a little younger than me. I know I might sound like a brat, but I promise I"m not. I always do my school work, take responsibility around the house, and I don't do drugs or drink or anything. I just don't understand why she would say I'm not ready when they keep making me practice.

I would give anything to go back to the way things were before my mom had another kid. My stepbrother (I don't consider him to be my real brother) upsets me so bad that I swear one day I am going to lose it and chase him with a knife. I remember being an only child and long to go back to that and would give anything for it to be just me and my mom. Our home is like a war zone and my mom is always stressed out and frazzled. I want to be my mom's companion and not "the kids." If I were an only child, we would have money for things like trips and we wouldn't struggle financially, and I would be able to have a dog (I long for a dog). My mom and I could be much closer and our house would be so peaceful. I often feel lonely because there's no one with whom I have an exclusive relationship. I don't have a father in my life and I am forced to split my mom's attention and love and I have become depressed because I will never get another chance to be someone's "one and only." Sometimes I wish I had a musical brother so I could have someone to play music with, or a sister, so I could share the hardships of being a girl but then something happens and reminds me why I wanted to be an only child. I feel perpetually lonely because I can't bond with my mom. We can't have a dog because my stepbrother is terrified of them so I can't know the unconditional love of a dog. I have to miss out on so much because my stepbrother sucks my life out. I am depressed. I'm not asking you guys, I'm telling you. He is my STEP brother. Not my real brother. I will never accept him as my brother. I didn't get to have things other kids had and we never had enough. I didn't get the childhood I deserved. It's "selfish" of me to feel cheated because I didn't get to have a dog even though I wanted one bad? That I was always lonely because I got cheated out of my mom's undivided attention? If you had to live like that you would be pissed off.

So my mom was diagnosed with End Stage Renal Disease back in 2012. She is on dialysis 3 times a week. With that being said, she was not eligible for Medicare since she was a stay at home mom for 10 plus years so she didn't work enough to get her social security credits. Well my dad ended up letting her borrow some of his credits and well that's basically how she was approved for Medicare. Now my parents are wanting to get divorced. I guess my overall question is, if my parents get divorced, will they deny medicare for my mom given that the social security credits are actually my dad's? Please advise.

Hello,I'm a 16 year old guy.What I meant in the title is that my parents made me obviously but do you think I should always feel bad when I have a fight with them?What do you think?I really hate the fact that they are muslims too and they made me believe in it that past years,I mean,I'm ******* CIRCUMSIZED!I really can't forget about it,they ******* cut the most sensitive part of my penis taking away most of the joy I should get when I masturbate?And the pain I get from rubbing hard so I can ******* sense a bit of the joy!omg.all that just cause a book from an unknown origin said that...Anyways,besides that my dad very rarely give me gifts at my birthdays while he does for my olser siblings in front of my eyes,he even tells me "i'm being unfair to you"but doesn't do **** all he says go study.every 5 ******* mins(my grades are great btw).My mom is dumb,she believes in everything and doesn't listen to me when i tell her those are lies,get extremely mad from very small things like when I didn't go to sleep once when it was 11pm,she nearly killed me(what is this ?!?).Ok...circumsized penis,cheap father,a mother with anger issues,and people who still believes in old myths and religions. And PLEASE PLEEASE dont tell me that im lucky because im circumsized,why in the ******* hell humans are born with foreskin.Im not ******* dumb not to clean my penis regularly or ******* have sex with every1 in front of me.

Hello I m 18 years old and My grandmother passed away last Saturday, most of my friends knew I was close to her. But after she passed away in front of me I find it difficult to bring it up to my friends. It s not that I want to hide it but it s more like I want them to still behave normally around me so I can have that sense of support and I guess that image of having everything still be okay. I was never good at expressing my emotions and I always keep things to myself but is it bad that I m doing this now? I guess another reason why I don t want to tell them is what if they don t show up to the burial? But I just want advice on what you think I should do. I haven t been able to cry either but if beep like I need to be and look strong for my mother and my aunt who helped take care of my grandmother the most. And honestly if i break down how can I be any support for my mom and aunt? I need to be strong even if it means I have to fake it...I just...I don t know

I've read this alot on various websites...what does it mean?:)

recently i got suspended, and yesterday was my first day going back to school and they told me i can't bring my phone to school anymore because the main reason i got suspended had to do something with my phone, and it was pretty pretty bad considering i have strict parents. they told me i was never getting my phone back because it causes too much trouble, but yesterday i got lost in this big parking lot and i didn't have a phone when i was trying to get to a appointment and i spent 10 minutes of my time looking for my dad missing my appointment. how do i convince my parents for my phone back? please help me, i've done some bad stuff on my phone i admit for my age but i really need it back.

I am a 20 year old male who lives with my father, and sometimes my mother (my mother and father got divorced several years ago. My father's personality is generally pretty aloof, a good father, not very intimate, pretty cold in how he communicates, incredibly strict (but also very lenient, and understanding), although he analyzes every single thing he notices that I do around him, and it drains the hell out of me. He over analyzes every possible thing in the same area he is in. He is 49 years old now, and was a cop for over 20 years. (He's now retired and lives home on a pension while taking care of everything in the house). Everytime I decide to have a conversation with him- I always walk away feeling uneasy after the conversation we had because of how crudely pessimistic he acts all the time. I can't even walk in the same room as him without feeling drained or full of worry, because of how scrutinizing he is. He judges how I do things, and judges pretty much everything I do, and how I do them, then when I complain about him judging, he says "I'm just trying to teach you how to do things the "right" way", in a stern tone as if I did something wrong by complaining how scrutinizing he constantly is. He generally acts very pessimistic and judge-mental with everything, and everyone. I hate it. I wish my father's "personality" or whatever it is changes for the better. Update: Might I also add that it's not easy being me, since I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety & agoraphobia, and aspergers with a history of depression, along with pretty bad OCD and A.D.D, of which I will overcome on my own, no matter how much I may suffer in the process of doing so. (So before someone thinks about responding to this by saying "Grow up, you're 20"- understand that I have more of a burden to deal with right now, until I get it all under control. Update 2: As much as I hate to use it as a 'crutch'- it's still a load of things that make my life that much more difficult. I also know that I will overcome it all with time. But for now, I can take advantage of is living with my parent(s) no matter how old I am while I get my own obstacles under control. Update 3: right now, while I voice out to yahoo about how my father and I work together.

What age can you live alone in Dubai I m 18 Syrian national born and raised in the use If your parents are controlling and abusive towards you and want to force you to travel out of the country and live somewhere else toget them a visa but you don t want travel what can you do ? Can you refuse ? Is there any way to stay ? Do the police support this or is it my choice what I do I am 19 in 2 weeks ?!!! Please answer I have a job and I can manage on my own

me and my family (parents and 3 year old brother) are planning to move in the start of december so my parents are selling house we currently live in, the other day my mom took pictures of rooms, father needed it for a website where people see houses for sell... when he came home he took my laptop to upload the photos to the website, he registered on that website and apparently the website sent email to him to confirm his email adress. he logged into his email and confirmed and it seems he forgot to log out of it... this was exactly a week ago. today i needed my gmail account i forgot why i even needed it, i m in shock right now and suddenly noticed that there was e-mail from a website (not gonna name the website) that had word "flirt" in it, then i looked at the message and it said in my language "2 girls like you" and i was like hmph... i don t remember registering on such a website, then i looked in the top right corner and saw my father s name, at first i didnt believe it, thought it was spam..i followed the website link and then i saw his chat with these women, how he talked to them and i felt kinda dizzy and lightheaded, he even had in his description "children: 2 sons" and that was the moment i totally lost respect for him. this was 5 minutes before writing this. when i think about my mom i am even more angry at him, she goes to work on 9am and comes home at 7pm while this...i don t even know what to call him...sits on his *** in office doing that..should i tell mom? he and mom were together since they were 20 years old. i think i was the reason, i am 16 now. i will not tell mom because it can cause problems, as long as he supports family i'm quiet. my question is: is it ok for me not to do anything about it?

I lived with my mom and she is supposed to be leaving to another town for a couple days. She is deciding between leaving on sunday or on monday. How can I convince her to leave on sunday without sounding suspicious? I live*

It was so peacefull till now. He is calling me the problem and hinting that he and dad will unite forces and kick me out of the house. And that will fix all their problems. I may be a piece of ****,but he is worse than that. If I am thrown out,idk where I will go nor what I will do. Dont have a car,job nor a college degree. Well,my dad and him are alike and I feel like I shouldnt change myself and suck up their asses just to be here. I may be a bit of a slacker,but that doesnt make me worthless cuz family is always family. You dont create kids so you can later use them. But how to explain that to a father that was never around and only did the financial part of the family and thinks that is the most important thing. It's no wonder he wants us to work and give him money so he can be lazy till he dies...

Lets start off at, I graduated this year (with a 3.5 gap)... I'm working 3 days of hard labor job. I am studying for EMT/ Firefighting(ahead of the curve). I'm starting classes next semester. I dont go out late, and keep quiet in respect of my parents. Well when I come down stairs my mom , who had been stressed with other things, tends to take out anger on to me... I get it. What I dont get is how should says " I'm not doing anything with my life" " you were a waste of time" " your bullshit" " you won't do anything with your life".. I mean I try to ask what I had done wrong and not one straight answer, I wonder if I should pay small amounts for my usage of household necessities due to it being there house hold... but honestly why is my bedtime at 18 so strict and HOW should I APPROACH this topic in a respectful matter without getting my dad and mom fighting or mixed communication ( he docent hear what she says). ? Anything would help thank you.

he is annoying as hell and always tattles on me so i feel like its only fair that i out him to our folks.

I've done some bad things in my life. I grew up in a bad neighborhood with a abusive dad. In my neighborhood your career options were limited to well me put it this way all my skills are not going to help me land a descent job. I got pregnant when I was fifteen maybe sixteen and ran away from home. I have PTSD from the things I've been through and because of that I can't hold down a normal job so I married a good man who I fell for only after I married him. Since coming clean about my past things haven't been easy. My first born loves her step father and hates me for marrying him just so we could have a better life even though I grew to love him and she now has three siblings who she's close with. She thinks I'm evil because underneath my housewife exterior I still have the instincts of a thug. I mean I still don't like cops I moved to the suburbs but I see a cop car I get scared (when I was seventeen a cop pulled me over and sexually assaulted me) on pure instinct. My daughter is now thirteen and is getting into trouble I don't know what to do because I taught her how to do these things when she was younger (we were dirt poor and living out of a car I didn't want her to be helpless so I taught her how pick pockets). She even pointed out how I use to tell her stealing is okay. I'm torn because I taught her these things to help her but I don't want her to ruin her life because of things I taught her when I was young and dumb. What do I do am I a bad mother?

It was around 12 pm when I called her, seeing that she was not in the house when I woke up. She then answered that she was at the temple, but she sounds like she was sucking something while she talked... I don't know how to think of her anymore. Even her personality shows that she have an extremely high chance of cheating and is a slut.... I just don't want to believe that mom's that kind of person--- but that sick sweet voice she used when she talks to a guy, the way she always wore super short shorts, and the way she acts around her guy friends... it's just so disgusting... what am I supposed to do...?

im 22 amd my brother 20... i borrowed 1000 dollars from him two years ago and i couldnt pay him back since because im jobless. He has changerd attituddes with me, he has some kind of a hatred and like he has something and he is weird with me . Do you think its because of the money i borrowed? he was never like this.

My older brother is 19 and has been dating a 24 year old girl for 3 years now. They met online and they only see each other once or twice a year. But he is SO BLIND because he just doesn't realize how weird and rude she is! She talks so much sh*t about me, and my parents behind my back, TO my brother, and he doesn't even care. She's 24 and she still has never had a job or went to college, she has no life goals at all. Besides one time when she had a job as a cashier and she got fired within 3 days. She leaves her house maybe 2 times a week and wakes up at noon. She lies A LOT, especially to me. She is so extremely sensitive and cries over EVERYTHING. She is also dumb, she literally just learned the difference between left and right a few weeks ago. She makes my brother cry a lot because she always gets mad at him for no reason. She is so extremely immature. My parents have told my brother plenty of times that she isn't right for him. But he just won't break up with her and i just can't take her anymore. He is so blind and won't see that there are so many nicer, more mature, girls out there that don't live across the world. What can I do to get rid of her?

Basically I watched the new fantastic 4 movie online, and told my dad I saw it on red box when I went to my moms, because I checked to make sure it was, and it was. But it turns out that I read the page wrong, and it doesn t come out on DVD until December 15, and now he wants to get it himself, because he thinks I ve already seen it. I know lying to my dad is wrong, so please don t reprimand me. Please just help me convince him not to watch it until it actually comes out, so that I don t get in trouble. If you re not going to help me, please don t bother answering. Or at least state that the only reason you re answering is for the points. And don t worry, I won t lie again, this is to much work to ensure that I don t get in trouble. Just please help.

I'm 17, female. My brother is 19. He's been dating this girl for a few years and I become good friends with her. But I found out that she has been talking **** about me behind my back to my brother. I told her about my dream of becoming a professional dancer someday, and how I have a passion for dancing. And she tells me that she thinks I can do it, that she thinks I will make it far, and nice stuff like that. But to my brother, she says the opposite. She literally tells him that i'm such an idiot for thinking that I can become a professional dancer, that it won't ever happen, that i'm living in a fantasy world, etc. But she doesn't tell him those things in a normal tone, she gets SO mad about it, she screams it to him. And my brother doesn't even tell her that it's rude to talk about his sister like that. He just acts like it's ok for her to talk about me like that. And this isn't the only thing shes said about me,there have been plenty of other times where she talked rude about me, and even my parents, and he does nothing about it.and i'm pretty sure she has anger issues because shes EXTREMELY sensitive and gets mad over every little thing. She gets mad at my brother for the littlest things, and she makes him cry but for some reason he WON'T break up with her. And no, she isn't forcing him to stay in a relationship with her. he's choosing too. When I tell my brother she hurt my feelings, he just says "well what do you expect me to do?" or "i can't help how she feels"

I think my husband lusts over his sister? He watched porn titles: "Brother loves sister, brother wants to **** sister", and he has a beautiful looking younger sister who is close to him. Is it possible that its just a porn thing? How is it possible that he watched those things and did not think about his real sister?

Today, I was arguing with my brother. I'm 20 and still arguing with my brother. But it's not just only my brother I fight a lot with. I fight with a lot of people on here and sometimes I lash out on them and say mean things. Now all they knw me as is being a pyscho. I'm REALLY, REALLY sad because I don't mean to be so mean :'( My problem is that I always act before I think, which is a HUGE problem. I don't like arguing or fighting with other people, but yet I STILL tend to do it and it haunts me a lot. God hates me and He has a special place in HELL for evil loser b*tches like me. I really want to kill myself because I'm no good to be living. I'm too evil. The world doesn't need another lowlife evil ***** like me. Is it a good idea to kill myself??

My mother got diagnosed with something that is preventing her from being able to take care of her 3 younger kids who are my siblings properly. We both agreed it was best if I took custody of them. I have no idea how this works, I'm 20 and I'm scared they won't give me custody before I'm young and in college, which I plan on taking a break from so I can care for them. Will they grant me custody? They won't go into a foster home correct? Any advice would help. Going to the courts tomorrow to get more information but I'm curious to know of other people's knowledge of this.

i know this is a stupid question but I'm 14 and i haven't had a father figure in my life since i was 5 or 6 i never really knew my actual dad because he was always gone at work and when he was home he abused me and my mom anyways i have a brother that is 17 and a younger sister that is 13 and my mom and her boyfriend have been together for 5 or 4 years now they make a really great couple he has a daughter that is 16 I've met her we get along okay and he treats my mom really good but i don't know how to react to having a step dad and I'm scared that he's going to hurt my mom even though he doesn't seem like he would i want them to get married but I'm scared how can i get over it?

I wanna have sex this guy so bad that all i have been doing for the past week is laying in bed wanting him..I keep posting very inappropriate sexual pictures on my blog uncontrollably just because i know hes looking at it..in the past he has responded but now he seems like he rather talk about other things than sex..we both like each other i want it so bad..but i know i need to stop so how to stop being horny over my crush?

A few months back, I bought this wedding cake set. I don't know why cause I've never used it. I guess it was just too good of a deal. Earlier we were out and just got back, and I discovered my 17 year old son went to the grocery store and bought a lot of ingredients and used it to make this beautiful wedding cake. He just decorated it and put it on the counter. He's staying with a close friend tonight. We weren't sure when we'd make it back. I can't get a hold of him to ask WHAT THE HELL IS THIS CAKE DOING HERE!?