Family: Question: I want to be an animator but my parents..? |
- Question: I want to be an animator but my parents..?
- Question: I wanna leave my family?
- Question: How to deal with abuse from Stepdad?
- Question: How to find your real father?
- Question: Why does my brother in law make fun of my name and the way I eat chicken? Does he want me or is he jealous?
- Question: Being harassed by a mexican family?
- Question: My sister is taking my friends away?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Am I wrong? for not telling her?
- Question: Can I change my sons last name without being married to my partner ?
- Question: My twin daughters keep on fighting with each other and I have no idea how to make them stop?
- Question: What would you call a non baby shower I have bought my brother and his wife gifts for their 2nd son. I want to invite our parents,?
- Question: Why doesn't my mom like me? How do I make her happy?
- Question: I yell at my mom I can t stop now my siblings who are small keeps yelling at me and my parents we all just yell?
- Question: My toddler saw us fight, and is now afraid of daddy, what do I do?
- Question: Why are black women so aware of they're surrounds in public?
- Question: What to do about my siblings on my sweet 16?
- Question: My brother's wife is pushing him away from his family - any advice?
- Question: Merijuana causes AiDs?!?
- Question: How am I supposed to get rid of the anger and sadness of being ignored by my own sister?
- Question: My boyfriend is constantly making me miserable, what should I do?
- Question: My mom stole my girlfriends money. Please read the story before answering?
- Question: My mom hates me?? Can I please have advice?
- Question: How to convince my parents to let me quit my job?
- Question: Is this a severely dysfunctiona couple, the luckiest man on earth, or a dumb wife?
- Question: How should I approach this situation?
- Question: My daughter wants a little baby brother or sister so bad but we can't?
- Question: Are you happy even if your parents aren't with you anymore?
- Question: Mom trying to force me to change last name?
- Question: Do I try and talk my daughter out of bad decisions, or let her make them?
- Question: Step dad adoption name change?
- Question: My mom went to child support to get more money when I don't live with her... HELP ?!?!??? ?
- Question: My mom is sleeping with my uncle? Should I tell dad?
- Question: Don't know how to tell my dad that i want to join the airforce?
- Question: Libra why do y'all like to control people?
- Question: School stresses me out too much?
- Question: If a son dies is it more traject on the mother or father?
- Question: My step mum has high expectations of me and my sisters but she is so bias towards my brother. Why is this?
- Question: Going to a first funeral?
- Question: What kind of trouble did this lady meant for me when she took a photo of me when I was with my father?
- Question: Why does my cousin all of a sudden hate me?
- Question: Feel like a sugar step-Momma?
- Question: How do I tell my baby son that his breath smells, without hurting his feelings?
- Question: How should I treat my little brother?
- Question: Husband's family has my child. What can I do?
- Question: If someone cuts my parents or parent down am I morally wrong to stay neutral instead of hating on the person for cutting my parent down?
- Question: Problems with my parents after coming out. Should I find a job and leave my parent's house? (I am 19 years old and live in Greece)?
- Question: Is Drug Addiction herditary?
- Question: Is It typical for older cousins to act like this?
- Question: How soon can a girl friend and boy friend get tested for HIV once they are in a relationship set up?
- Question: Why do I hate my 4 year old?
- Question: Twins are Creeps right?
- Question: When not in my custody, can I go to the child's school and see him for few minutes?
- Question: Is it ok to backchat to abusive parents/step parents?
- Question: How do you deal with a mother who acting like a child and that is all mad over my sister didn't do the dishes?
- Question: My birthday is coming soon but I am sad?
- Question: Can I have some advice, please?
- Question: Boyfriends mom literally follows him around, it feels creepy? But he doesn't mind?
Question: I want to be an animator but my parents..? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 01:07 PM PDT Okay..I'm a 14 years old and I want to be a professional animator/writer in the future, David Firth was a huge inspiration to me and that's why I want to be animator too, right now I make decent animations on newgrounds http://bendeestab.newgrounds.com/ and I'm seeking to improve and have it as a career; but my parents think it's a huge waste of time and want me to become a doctor, engineer or something like that...but I don't have any interest in those, I'm not bad at math and good at physics; etc...but I do not like those subjects, but my parents want me to be what they want me to; and my dad always annoys me saying that artists are poor, it's not even a real job, they don't want me even to be a writer or anything related to literature...just science, and I am fed up with all that. PS; I live in morocco, and there are no animation schools/universities here, what should I do after getting my baccalaureate if I want to study animation? |
Question: I wanna leave my family? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 01:03 PM PDT I hate them and there so mean to me. I'm not being over dramatic but my parents threaten me, but I don't wanna leave where I live and I don't wanna be in a foster home. What do I do? |
Question: How to deal with abuse from Stepdad? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:38 PM PDT I am currently 16 years old. My mom had an abusive husband, my real dad. She broke up with him when I was 5. I spent the next 5 years living just with my mom.She started online dating, a man who is now my stepfather. He helped us survive as he lived in a good country with enough money to provide us with too. After 2 years they married and we moved. He used to be strict before, but I was lazy and sloppy, as most teenagers are. That was OK. What was not ok, were his threats. They were minor at first, but increased in severity per time. Sometimes he used to throw whatever he had beside him be it a cloth or an iron pot. I turned 16 about 5 months ago. This is when it started getting out of hand. He starts using me like a slave. If I don t so what he says, he hits me. If I ask something, he shouts at me. If I try to prove him wrongwrong, he threatens my life. It happened again today. I was eating, and he shouted at me because I was eating wrong. I said sorry. He started interrogating me, threatening to kick me out, saying that I should do everything he says as he provides me with food, clothes, a room, a phone, which I earn, by working every weekend, putting ads of,"lost" phones on eBay and selling them. Of course, I tell him this, and he smacks me in the head. Then tells me to go scrub the tiles of the bathroom tomorrow, then gets a bottle of bourbon and goes upstairs to watch TV, telling me to piss off. I don t know what to do at this point. Please help me... |
Question: How to find your real father? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:32 PM PDT So I am an adult but I never knew who my father was. My mom died when I was younger so I cant ask her. She leaved away from the rest of my family so none of them know. I was just wondering where would I even begin if I am trying to find out who he is? There's no name on the birth certificate. I have nothing now. No name. I know no one from that side of the family. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:24 PM PDT |
Question: Being harassed by a mexican family? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:18 PM PDT So i live alone in texas and a Mexican lady who recently moved here as my next door neighbor with her family asked me out. I declined saying we can be friends. (her dad is scary, i don't know who she is and im better off alone since i cant take the responsibility.didnt tell her anything else but we can be friends) Now they think im racist and are calling me a "trump sucker" threw an egg at my window yesterday, and just are outright assholes to me overall. and what i said exactly was "Im sorry, i dont really know you and i feel i should be single right now, but we can be friends. I can add you on facebook if you want?" then after she was silent for a moment and got angry. and now im in this current situation. again, like i said, she lives with her dad, (along with her brother, 2 sisters, and an aunt) can anyone tell me what i can do? no trolls please, i dont really feel so well atm in this situation I asked this a few times before a few days ago because i want more answers. and they threw a large rock at my car today, no damage luckily. |
Question: My sister is taking my friends away? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:11 PM PDT |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 12:08 PM PDT I ve been stressed lately and I thought it was just with school. Turns out, it s from my mom. She constantly yells about something every day. I always get my phone taken for stupid stuff. Everytime I try to talk to her, she never listens. I ve been debating if I should move with my dad in Savannah. I don t want to leave my 11 year old sister though. I don t know what to do. Please help. |
Question: Am I wrong? for not telling her? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 11:59 AM PDT no criticism please but my bf and I are together but living in different homes at the moment because sometimes he treats me like crap he is 40 years old Im 22 we have a 3 month daughter and he has a sister who is 37 with a fiance who's also 30 something they have a 2 month old but got into an argument and split up he (her fiance) started writing my fb randomly I wrote back he said he was checking on me so we had small convos for like 2 weeks I told him how much I love my baby's father and how I wanted him home constantly and brought up his fiance a few times to ask him to go home to be with her and their child but he always said he was scared but sometimes I thought he was flirting with me and I told my mom and she told me to stop writing him but I needed someone to talk to about my baby's father ands recently my baby's father find out about us writing and told his sister I was trying to sleep with Herr man which I wasn't but now they while family thinks I want him but I showed them all our messages and they think I deleted them but I didn't now he doesn't know if he wants to be with me because his family might get upset with him bit I live him can't can't live without him what should I do what are your thoughts? |
Question: Can I change my sons last name without being married to my partner ? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 11:12 AM PDT My son has my last name I'm the mother. He has never met his bio dad and isn't on the birth certificate. My son is 3 years old. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has been in my sons life since he was 1 this man is a real father. Just wondering if I'm able to change my sons last name before the wedding ? Thanks |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 11:05 AM PDT So, I'm a mother of identical twin girls of around 10, and lately I have been experiencing many issues with my daughters. First it was just mild things, just normal sibling rivalry, but I'm starting to get really worried because now it's getting out of hand. They get into physical fights with each other, their school has called me multiple times, concerned about the situation since they also fight at school. And as if that wasn't enough, the other day, I horrifyingly found one of my daughters trying to strangle the other. Literally. I don't even want to think about what would have happened if I hadn't come in. I'm getting exremely concerned about the situation and I have absolutely no idea what to do. Please help. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 11:05 AM PDT grandparent, and close family members. Not every one in the family. Not so much a baby shower, but I think my soon to be nephew deserves a celebration. I have bought gifts but don't expect others to. How can I word this for inviting our close family? |
Question: Why doesn't my mom like me? How do I make her happy? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 10:55 AM PDT What do you think about this? I think she may be unhappy with her current situation. I have a few mental disorders. One of them is actually an eating disorder; bulimia. I can't tell you why I throw up, though it isn't due to body image, but apparently an odd delusion from one of my other disorders. My mom first found out and slapped me. She began to yell about me wasting my food and wouldn't let me eat the more expensive food in the house. Then she makes this slightly annoying smug expression and calmly tells me how she wasn't as messed up as me when she was my age. Then she made that "mmhmm" noise. When she gets mad at me sometimes she makes vomiting noises in mock of me. Her family from her country are coming over for Christmas, but she tells resents inviting them for I will embarrass them. That they will think I am sick and too skinny and strange and crazy. That I should stop building stupid little inventions and do something with my life. I am pathetic, worthless and childish. I should snap out of depression and help her clean the house and run errands. I try to help a lot though. She tells me that I am always dreaming and I have crazy ideas about everything. She says it is all in my head. And she doesn't even care. I suppose this is more of a ventilation. How do I make her happy? I always cook dinner for everyone. I went to a doctor but we stopped going for we couldn't afford it. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 10:48 AM PDT I m 14.I always fight with my parents.I mostly fight with my mom.she makes a big deal out of everything.its like she only need the smallest thing to complain about but then she all be like I m not arguing just telling.And we don t get along at all.If we do get along my siblings will say something then my sisters attitude irritatea me I will fight with her.i can t stand people with attitude argh.I moved into a new school with a lot of difficulties.Like after a month class I came and then after 2 weeks it s exams.I don t know God.And I m an introvert so I don t know how to make friends so just imagine my frustration.I Have a good group of friends in my old school but they think I have new friends I can t let them think I don t.So I just go on with it.And my brother thinks he is some know it all like bro if u cry for everything u want and get it there is no difference between u and a failure.My dads a whole other story.Like he s always insulting my mom he thinks it s for her good.God |
Question: My toddler saw us fight, and is now afraid of daddy, what do I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 10:46 AM PDT My husband and I got in a fight one day. It wasn t bad, just a lot of yelling (i had forgotten to take my meds for manic depression and was very emotional and irritable) but our toddler got scared for me and was crying. Mind you, hubby and I like to wrestle around, just for fun. It s just our way of showing affection. But now our son gets scared whenever we do and starts hitting his dad, trying to protect me. He and his dad play together just fine, I don t want him to fear his dad playing with me. I thought it might help for Viktor do see us hugging/kissing/dancing together but I m not sure what else I can do |
Question: Why are black women so aware of they're surrounds in public? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 10:40 AM PDT Nobody wants them. Black women are the least attractive nobody ever looks at them |
Question: What to do about my siblings on my sweet 16? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 10:05 AM PDT They can't go somewhere else because they're my siblings and I want them at my party. But I know one of them will be trying to do stuff with my friends and I and get in the way. |
Question: My brother's wife is pushing him away from his family - any advice? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:53 AM PDT He reached a point to where he wouldn't call his mother for months at a time and would act like he didn't have the time and "was working too much" (6 days per week). After he didn't call his mother for 3 months and wouldn't return any calls, we went down to his house about 30 miles away. It was 3pm and his wife and child were home. His wife was still flopped around in her pajamas. When we went inside to visit with my nephew for a little bit and talked with his wife about why he isn't wanting to talk to his mother at all, his wife texted him that she felt "interrogated" by us showing up. His wife has worked about 6 months in her entire life and is approaching her upper 30's. Her family is very strange. Who she calls her mother and father are actually her aunt and uncle who raised her. Her real father died in a possible DUI when she was young, and her mother lives far away and apparently has nothing to do with her. Her brother and sister as she calls them are actually her cousins. She has one child with my brother and a child from a previous marriage who is now about 13 or so. Her ex husband hangs around their house too much. He shows up for my brother's kid's birthday parties, Christmas, etc. When he's coming over, my brother's wife goes and showers, puts on these extra short shorts and likes to sit in there staring at him and cutting up with him for an hour or more. She gives him her full attention. We can't figure out why my brother is okay with her seeing her ex so much. The ex is a coach at the ball park, so my brother's wife pretty much forces her son from the previous marriage to play ball on the team so that she can go to the ball park and spend time with the ex. Meanwhile, my brother is typically at work. He has become so distant. He sent her a nasty text the other day saying "that's life" and pretending like he doesn't have time for us to come down. He would come up with a day for us to visit and then at the last minute or a day or two ahead of time, he would suddenly say that it wasn't a good time. His wife does nothing. Absolutely nothing. Flops around the house all day whining about her leg hurting from some accident a couple of decades ago when she did gymnastics or something. She has had surgery and all kinds of stuff and still plays the whine game. So, he'll try to do everything at home plus work and pay all of the bills. He told my mother that she "doesn't speak to" his wife, yet she speaks to her every time we have visited. It is actually his wife that acts snooty and turns her head the other way. She's almost always going somewhere when we visit, as if trying to get away from us. My brother is just not himself anymore...he has changed so much. We haven't seen my nephew in about 5+ months because he doesn't want us to visit. He even employed the "ex" one time to work on their bathroom. Its crazy. He doesn't have time for us, but he has time to apparently go on vacations (he sent my mother a photo of some weird looking building that isn't local and looks like it has his wife in the background), go to ball games, etc. I work 7 days per week and yet I find time to help and see my mother. He's only working 6. |
Question: Merijuana causes AiDs?!? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:38 AM PDT I'm a white suburban soccer mom and my adopted black son Jamal is drifting farther and further away from me. I want to get "in" with his crew. I'm afraid what they do could be dangerous. So If I drink marijuana, could I get AIDS? |
Question: How am I supposed to get rid of the anger and sadness of being ignored by my own sister? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:36 AM PDT My sister has stopped any form of contact with me for a few years now, because a short time before my wedding, her husband committed an unexpected suicide and left no note behind other than my engagement photo with a saw next to it. I was against their marriage in the first place because he had insulted me very badly in a few occasions when they were still casual friends and had called me very offensive racist terms. It was apparently no problem for my sister how this dude treated me. I was very worried about the future of my sis with this crazy racist guy and that he would hurt her sooner or later the same way he hurt me . Nobody in the family took my worries serious. When they finally decided to get married, I did all I could for them. I did the wedding photography, the bride's make up and a lot more for free. He ruined not only my wedding with his last act, but also my relationship with my sister apparently forever. Help me Help me |
Question: My boyfriend is constantly making me miserable, what should I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:28 AM PDT He says bad things about the few friends I have. This has gotten to the point where I don't like my friends anymore and I don't like people in general. His family isn't very nice to me, and they gossip about me to my friends and people I don't even know He has been going through a lot of stress and I usually do things to help him. Like make him breakfast before going off to something important or he had an interview for school and I made him breakfast and the night before I bought him a new tie that he wanted. I forgot he had a job interview today and I asked him to make me coffee. He turned it into a huge thing because we were out of milk and I asked him to the store to get milk. We ended up getting into a fight where we were yelling at each other. I ended up just thanking him for the coffee before I went to work and he started yelling and me, so I just left the coffee at home which made him even more angry. When I got home he kept interupting me as to why I was sad, and then kept disagreeing with me over things to the point where I got so frustrated that I threw my phone across the room. I am under a lot of stress this week and I have 2 exams to take and on top of that I have a ton of stuff to do for work. Also, he is making me throw a halloween party this week (that I didn't want to have and explained to him I was too busy for) that he is not helping with because he decided to take a trip to visit his family. I wish he would be supportive for once. |
Question: My mom stole my girlfriends money. Please read the story before answering? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:26 AM PDT I live with my father only and I was at work this day. I get off work and I am told that my mom claimed she wanted to come to get my playstation for my little brother to play at her house, but ended up pawning it. I was pissed off, she bought it, but I had things like account information and purchased games, and pictures of my girlfriend on there. And then, I looked inside my anniversary bag my girlfirend gave me to count her money, and it was gone. I asked my dad, and he told me she said she was looking for a bag to put the playstation in and she must've taken it. He said there isn't anything I could do, because all my mother does is lie like nothing ever happened. Is there anything I can legally do about getting my girlfriends money back? It was 60 dollars and my mom took and spent it on drugs because she's an addict, she always pawns my ****, but now she took it too far to stealing money out of my place and acting like she never did it. Please somebody help me. |
Question: My mom hates me?? Can I please have advice? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:25 AM PDT My mum and I got into a fight because she thought I lied to her about where I put my phone although I honestly thought she knew that I had it and it wasn't even big but she got super mad. That was Monday night. Tuesday and she is trying to act like everything is normal, so I'm doing that too, then suddenly she starts screaming at me because I'm not practicing piano and she says that I am a disgrace of a daughter and I never do anything right so I say to her "I'm going to prove you wrong" and she goes TO WHOSE BENEFIT AM I YELLING FOR IS IT MY FAULT I HAVE A DAUGHTER WHO DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME and then she goes out to her friend. She comes back, and she's off to see another friend. So st the door I try to talk to her and say "look mum I'm sorry" and she goes "okay I'm late" and slams the door in my face. She ignores me the whole evening. Today I wake up and she is full on ignoring me, I say "why are you still mad" and I **** you not for 20 minutes she is proper shouting and screaming about why I don't care about her and I'm such a bad daughter and I didn't even say sorry. I have no idea ahat I did to her to make her so mad at me. I have anxiety and I'm getting over depression so I'm not always in a bad mood I'm sad and I just need her support and what's more she keeps telling me I'm incredibly rude and have no respect where I learnt everything from her. Advice please? |
Question: How to convince my parents to let me quit my job? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:25 AM PDT I just got a job two days ago because I really wanted to start working. I don t know if its the job specifically or just too much stress in general but I hate it. I have no time to do homework or even relax and I have been so tired the last few days. I expected my parents to say it was OK if I quit but when I asked (each of them separately because they are separated) they each said they thought it would be a good idea for me to work tonight (because I don t work tomorrow or the day after). And then they said we could "discuss it later". I don t want to go to work tonight and I don t want to continue working. How can I convince them to let me quit? |
Question: Is this a severely dysfunctiona couple, the luckiest man on earth, or a dumb wife? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 09:04 AM PDT Long story short, I know a man(married) that wants to start a long distance affair(asking to buy me sexy underwear to mail. However, without knowing the full story, I found out(from him) that his wife used to participate in threesomes with his ex girlfriend who would fly in from England to their home in New York City a few times a year. However, now it appears that the sex has stopped leaving him terribly frustrated. Without over thinking it too much, what in the world would cause a woman to do that!? Not to mention, if a couple is cool with having(or had) threesomes, how could communication seemingly be lacking? Therefore, ideas, theories, opinions? Thanks, thought this would be a fun question to kick around! |
Question: How should I approach this situation? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:56 AM PDT I am a 32 yr. old, married woman with children. Just recently I let my nephew who is 25 move in temporarily, he is supposed to be looking for a job. But he has been with us for about 2 1/2 weeks now, and all this week he hasn't went anywhere, when we are leaving for work and school he is still there in bed. Also, he does gross stuff that even my kids don't do like flushing the toilet with the seat up, or not even flushing, and leaving the seat up. Cooking, but not cleaning up after his self.......not even cleaning up the house when he has been there all day long. This bothers my Husband, and Me as well. Because I am trying to teach my sons how to be independent, and I tell I will help them when they are adults if needed but it's important for them to have their own job, car, home, finances......so i think it sets a bad example for them, and I feel like he isn't trying to get where he needs to be in life at this age, I just don't want to come off to aggressive, I guess I don't want to hurt his feelings, but we do need to talk to him today, so what would be a reasonable amount of time to give him to get his life, and move? |
Question: My daughter wants a little baby brother or sister so bad but we can't? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:54 AM PDT We've been trying. For a long time. It's not working, it took over a year to get pregnant with her. How can I talk to my daughter about this? I don't want her to be sad, but she wants a little brother or sister so bad. Her talking about it makes ME sad. Please help. |
Question: Are you happy even if your parents aren't with you anymore? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:46 AM PDT Well I don't want to turn 18 in two years because that means college and away from mom and dad. It's sad how I'm growing up and so are my parents but one of use has to die first.. I'd rather die at the same time with my parents or before because a life without mom and dad is a sad and lonely life. Tell me how most people can be happy without them? |
Question: Mom trying to force me to change last name? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:41 AM PDT I'm 15 years old. My mom recently married. She obviously changed her last name, but she also wants me to change my last name to her new husband's last name! I don't want to do this.. I have a good relationship with my dad and she always tries to make me think he's bad. She's only been with this guy for a year I'm not stupid to change my last name for a guy my mom sees for just a year |
Question: Do I try and talk my daughter out of bad decisions, or let her make them? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:29 AM PDT Hi. I'm a father to a 22 year old. I've had to bail her out of many situations. Totaling in over $20,000. She constantly makes financial decisions knowing full well she cannot afford them, or gets herself into situations where she is holding a lease for some worthless unreliable individual. Now she is telling me excitedly about how she's renting an apartment in the downtown area, how it will cost $1000 / month for this studio, and how amazing it's going to be. I took a different route and think I'm just going to let her make this decision, and stick her with the consequences. Is that cruel? The normal scenario has been that she tells me something like this, I explain that I don't think she can afford it (she makes about $1800 a month after taxes, pays $200 in car insurance, loan payments are $300, and has tons of credit card bills that eat away at her check + utilities, and a $108 / month cell phone. If you're wondering how I know I already explained that I've paid for her a lot.) But anyways, I usually tell her to reconsider, and she goes ahead and does it anyways, then asks me to bail her out. On another point I don't find this to be fair to my other child who works and makes responsible financial decisions, and never needs help.. |
Question: Step dad adoption name change? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:27 AM PDT I m getting adopted by my step dad since my real dad lost my rights and I want to know if I can change my middle names since their changing my last |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:24 AM PDT Okay so I'm 20 years old btw. I moved to Florida from New York ,to live with my dad I've been here ever since. now child support has stopped for months ,but I know my mom is saying how she wants me back to New York and being all sweet and nice. But then TODAY my dad just a letter from child support saying my mom opened up the case on September 15 cuz she needs more money. I feel ... Betrayed . Like the only reason why my mom wants me back there is for money. She calls me everyday and she didn't tell me that. My dad has no money,would they still make him pay even though I don't live there ???? I feel betrayed for some reason.. I always had problems with my mom. But now I feel like the only reason she wants me there is for money. She doesn't work also she gets disability plus the $300 a month from child support ,I was the one working. My dad has no money and I'm SO afraid they will put him in jail cuz of child support . Please help I should also include that I DO WORK A FULL TIME JOB,that this child support money is NOT FOR ME,my mom or dad do NOT support me .My mom just wants the money |
Question: My mom is sleeping with my uncle? Should I tell dad? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 08:14 AM PDT My dad is on a business trip and our uncle is staying in our house for a month due to some reasons. But I keep hearing noises at night and I think they are having s e x. Please help. |
Question: Don't know how to tell my dad that i want to join the airforce? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:59 AM PDT 18 yr old female and need to tell my father that I really want to join the airforce. He has always told me that he would disown me if I joined the military so I'm really scared......any suggestions would be really helpful. |
Question: Libra why do y'all like to control people? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:55 AM PDT I'm grown and my mothers tries to control my life. She does not want me to have anything better than her, if I do she's upset! And call me a ***** and I'm dumb ! For not doing things the way she does things ! It's pathetic and sad how she treats me. Why is she like this is it a libra thing? She talks about my hair and my nails if I wear make up my clothes who I choose to be with. How I raise my child, when she was not the best mom she always buy the type of food she like not her kids also she did not even try to help me Out!!! |
Question: School stresses me out too much? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:39 AM PDT It's absolutely terrible. it ****** up my health. I am constantly nauseated, i am constantly extremely tired, constipated, stressed . Now i started losing sleep. I can't sleep at all. i'm too stressed.. I try to keep up with eveyrhting,. but it basically is impossible. My parents force me to study yet won't listen to me when I tell them I want to study my own way. |
Question: If a son dies is it more traject on the mother or father? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:14 AM PDT |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:12 AM PDT Despite there being more girls in the house it's my dad and brother who receive most of the love and attention from my step mum. There's my dad, step mum, brother and my two sisters and I much preferred it when it was just the five of us. I lost my mum a few years ago and it has been tough. My step mum is normally really nice but I feel she cares about my brother more than us girls. The fact I share a room with my brother makes it difficult because she's always telling me to be extra nice and close to him. We're like good friends - same with my sisters but it's a little awkward at times. My step mum always wants me to dress and behave like a real lady. I've spoken to my dad about this but he's too much in love to truly understand. |
Question: Going to a first funeral? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 07:06 AM PDT So today I'm going to my first funeral and I'm nervous because I won't see my granny anymore , she will be in a casket and I never went one before. Caskets usually either scare me or make me sad. I couldn't sleep last night , thinking about it my dad says it's no big deal. But what if I ended up shaking or crying. Do I need to sit in the back. I can't help it... Need some advice, please |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 06:59 AM PDT First off, I am not a daddy's boy who is masculine. I was only seen with my dad because he needed some help with the groceries after he went to the bank to deposit some money. Anyway, I overheard this lady behind me talk to her daughter about a father and son (me and my dad) about being complete w@nkers who are now in deep sheet for something we didn't even do, except for waiting in line. She took a photo of us from behind where she then posted it somewhere. I'm starting to think this lady is intending on having me excluded from events that make males feminine and being metrosexual. |
Question: Why does my cousin all of a sudden hate me? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 06:51 AM PDT So honestly, i'm not really liked by some of my family members because i deactivated my Facebook account awhile back and they all thought that i deleted them. I deactivated my account because i was taking Facebook too seriously and it took a toll on my self-esteem. Now that i'm back on Facebook, i've made a new account and i added my family back. Some of them accepted my request but i can tell that they still dislike me for deactivating my last account. And now i believe that my close cousin is following the crowd because he doesn't respond to the things that i tag him in. But he responds to the things that other people tag him in. I feel so alone and like no one likes me.. How do i deal with this. Half of my family members hate me. I never do anything wrong to anyone and it hurts to be honest... |
Question: Feel like a sugar step-Momma? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 06:18 AM PDT My husband has been divorced from his ex wife for like 6 years now. They had three kids together. She's never held down a decent job or worked hard, always got by, by being enabled or having relatives pay for stuff. She's been in and out of her three kids lives too. Currently she shares 50/50 arrangement with my husband. the judge still ordered him to pay her some child support because she clams food stamps, housing, etc with the kids. She also wants the kids to be in expensive activities like traveling cheer leading.. they're 10, 8, 7 so it's not like they're high school age where it's more expected. Anyways it costs hundreds if not thousands a year to do it. There were about $700 in upfront fees alone. Here's where I start feeling like a sugar Momma. My husband refuses to put out money for some of this extra stuff. I feel obligated to for some of it like paying half the cost of the fee so they can be in extra curicular (otherwise I would be viewed as the mean step mom for putting my foot down) My husband acts like he has no extra money since he pays child support so if there is anything extra needed and their real mom has no money.. they come to me. since I do have money i basically feel like i have to foot the bill when maybe they need to figure it out. like theres no incentive for them to work more because they both come to me knowing I budget and save. I don't want the kids to go without but I don't know how I should handle this. |
Question: How do I tell my baby son that his breath smells, without hurting his feelings? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 06:07 AM PDT |
Question: How should I treat my little brother? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 06:00 AM PDT I have a little brother who is 14. My parents tell me that I should give him advice, tell him a love hm,amd all that crap. I'm his older brother (16) amd I feel that I should be don't what older brothers have always been doing, which is teasing/bullying/stealing his stuff/making his life miserable. I've always been like this to my little brother,as it was what older brothers must do. Now my parents are saying no. I'm confused. How should I treat my brother? |
Question: Husband's family has my child. What can I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 04:51 AM PDT My husband and I were living with his grandparents, but I was kicked out. he took me to my parent's house and left me, saying he'd bring my baby over the next day and live with me there. He changed his mind that night and now he won't come and is letting his parent's keep my child. I have no car and no way to get to their house. His mother won't let me come onto their property. She works for family services, so I'm afraid if I do anything she'll get them to take my baby away from me. What can I legally do? I have no means of transportation, and his family is trying to just keep my own kid away from me because they don't like me. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 04:38 AM PDT |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 04:34 AM PDT I came out as gay to both my parents in August (I had only came out to 3 friends). Long story short they were absolutely shocked. The said that they love me, but the matter remained undiscussed for about a month when my mother talked with me privately. I clarified to her that I was the exact same person before I came out and that I just wanted my family to be proud of who I am. She replied they were. A month later (this morning) we had another talk, just the two of us. She started by saying that a client the other day told her to imagine a ****** walking out of the store and that this ****** was her son. She tried convincing me that whenever anyone asked my about a girlfriend I should answer that I had one but the relationship just ended. She was angry and demanded to know what I would say. Hence I didn't know I remained silent. She asked if I told my other two very close friends. I said no and that I would like to. She explained that I mustn't because I can't trust them as they would tell their parents, which would result to people going to my father and telling him that his son is a fag. She added that my dad would die of depression. The discussion ended there and then. I feel devastated. I even regret accepting myself for who I am. How could she tell me something like that? That I would be responsible of my dad passing away? (my dad has never said anything about the matter since August) I feel disgusted, my mom has put me to the gunpoint. I am 19 and just entered college. |
Question: Is Drug Addiction herditary? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 04:11 AM PDT My father and brother both have drug addictions. My father is mosty pain killers and pills. My brother the hard drugs like molly Etc Etc. I don't have a relationship with my father but I do worry about my big brother. Ultimately my big sister and I came to the conclusion that if he really wanted to change and get help he would find a way. We all tried to help my big brother and he is bipolar schizophrenic. That's what worries me is that he mixes drugs with his meds. I am the youngest out of my siblings (I'm 24) and to this day I haven't touched a drug etc etc. The only thing closest to a drug I touched is Advil for headaches. Is drug addictions hereditary? I should also add my big brother has the same dad as my sister and I but his mother is such a druggie. It's so heartbreaking to think of the potential he could have had😯 |
Question: Is It typical for older cousins to act like this? Posted: 28 Oct 2015 02:16 AM PDT My cousin who is 20,me and my brother who are under 14 just don't know what to think about,I guess its just natural, he's a nice guy he trys to act more like a big brother to us then anything is that typical, I mean he doesn't usually hang around the other adults cause I guess he's just shy or something but he doesn't mind hanging around us. He is the younger brother out of his siblings so that might explain it right? |
Posted: 28 Oct 2015 01:51 AM PDT My girl friend said she would not like to discover any of our status latter in a relationship for heart break reasons. We both love each other and its about 2 moths now since we started dating. but I'm worried that maybe its far too early for us to get tested |
Question: Why do I hate my 4 year old? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:42 PM PDT At times shes sweet but other times shes really annoying,frusturating,mean,angry,fiesty and I see that playing with her just makes matters worse. She trips and falls and juat cause I looked at her she runs away then yells some words I dont understand and points her finger at me and sometimes runs over to attack me for looking at her. She hates when I look at her. She covers her fave and says do t look at me anytime I just look or she will turn her face away. She hates when I hold her hug her kiss her she yells at me to stop or get me down. I cant budge get her to like me. So I really hate her, I cant live with her. Unfortunatly I have to raise her. But I really cannot stand her day to day she pisses me off the way she snears at me looks at me with disgust. She prefers her grandma and her dad. I hope shes this way cause she hates me too. Man this sucks having to live with someone who pisses u off each day. |
Question: Twins are Creeps right? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:28 PM PDT You ever meet creepy twins who do everything together, like all the way into adulthood? My great-grandfather's father was like that. He and his twin brother lived together their entire lives, and shared everything, including women. My grandfather isn't certain which of them was his father, and neither were either of them or his mother. |
Question: When not in my custody, can I go to the child's school and see him for few minutes? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:25 PM PDT I haven't seen my son for almost 10 days, I miss him terribly, we have joint custody but he goes to school in town where his father and dad's gf live. Is it legal or against custody rules? |
Question: Is it ok to backchat to abusive parents/step parents? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:22 PM PDT Is it worth it? |
Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:22 PM PDT My mother is now willing to say that me and my sister don't lover her and she is willing to miss out on her grandchildren childhood when my sister going to be here till November 1? |
Question: My birthday is coming soon but I am sad? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 11:06 PM PDT Every time my birthday comes around, I think about how I'm getting older and growing up even more. It makes me sad because then I think about how this will not last forever, a life with my family I love deeply and cherish. Any advice or people who feel the same? |
Question: Can I have some advice, please? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 09:52 PM PDT a girl in college and I have the sweetest boyfriend ever! I love him to death and he is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. He is a gentleman, very polite, and treats me better than anyone has ever treated me (including my own family.) He was raised by a very overprotective mother & he is really innocent. Well, there was a costume party that my sorority held last night & I brought my boyfriend as my date because he absolutely loves going to events like that. My friends and I all dressed kinda slutty and some pics ended up on Facebook that my boyfriends mom seen. She hates me now and thinks I'm a slut & wants her son to break up with me. I feel so horrible about this. :( We were only doing it for fun & I really feel like I'm trashy now. I am so hurt because he is the greatest thing that ever happened to me & I turned slutty and ruined it. What should I do? Im the girl on the right: http://d3imyo1kk0rcam.cloudfront.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/8f14e45fceea167a5a36dedd4bea2543946924587.jpg |
Question: Boyfriends mom literally follows him around, it feels creepy? But he doesn't mind? Posted: 27 Oct 2015 09:41 PM PDT She won't leave her room or go to the kitchen/ sitting room unless we wake up. As soon as she hears we are awake she will be like coffee? And go make it...and wait for us there, this is every single time I have stayed over. If were in the sitting room she has to be there too...we were meant to watch a movie together him and I he leaves me sitting beside his mom while he is cleaning and restringing a guitar in the background the whole time, he puts the full lights on for 2 hours and it was so stressing. I said can I turn them off his mom snapped at me and said no he needs them on. Sat there feeling uncomfortable the while time. If he leaves his room she asks what he's doing. When hes in his room she calls his name every 30 mins to say something. Does my opinion even matter? His mom acts like she is part of our relationship and is involved in pretty much every aspect apart from sex. He walks around in tight boxers around her all the time. She calls him everyday from work during lunch asking him what he has eaten etc...when she will see him for hours when she is home. Its getting to the point where I feel like a third wheel? When I bring it up he says sorry your jealous of me and my moms close relationship, cause you never had one. I can't win, what is this? Thanks |
You are subscribed to email updates from Question Family. To stop receiving these emails, you may unsubscribe now. | Email delivery powered by Google |
Google Inc., 1600 Amphitheatre Parkway, Mountain View, CA 94043, United States |
0 comments:
Post a Comment