I was at my boyfriends house and I took my rings off to go to the bathroom. I took them off in the living room and I set them on the little table he has in there. When I went to leave his house to go home, I got my rings and put them in my pocket. I got home and realized that one of my rings were gone. I called my boyfriend and asked him if he saw it and he said that he didn't see it but that he would look around for me. There are other things on that little table in his living room as well and maybe it is behind something on that table but I am freaking out about it. I feel so horrible about it. That is where I saw my ring last and I am sure it is at his house. What am I supposed to do? Please help and please be nice. Please don't be mean. Thanks.

My problem isn't really with having my dad there, it's his wife that's the problem. She became my stepmother when I was 14 and despised me for no reason. My dad knew and stood by her, which hurts, but he's still my dad. Things took a really bad turn when I was 17 and she told me she wished I would drop dead. I moved in with my aunt until I turned 18 and haven't seen my dads wife since that incident. I hate that he stayed with her after that. But I know nothing I say or do will make him leave her. However, this is making me conflicted with my own wedding. She's not part of my life and never will be. But my dad is. We talk regularly and see each other once a month. I know he would be hurt if I didn't invite him, but having her there is not an option for me. What should I do? My fiancé said maybe we should explain to my dad why I'm not inviting him. I think that could work, but I'm still not sure.