I was asking my father why it is necessary that I dress up in a wedding gown and have a wedding ceremony. He said because a ceremony will make the wedding more memorable as opposed to no ceremony. He said that without a ceremony, SOME married people might soon start to forget that they are married... W...WHAT? Is this true?! Do a lot of people have short-term memory impairment problems and that's why they need to hold wedding ceremonies so they don't forget? That's Terrible! I didn't walk at my own college graduation ceremony, which I felt was a waste of energy and time, and I STILL remember that I graduated (I remember because I don't have Alzheimer's, I don't have psychosis and I don't have amnesia so I don't need to rent an expensive black robe with a piece of chicken feather tassel on my head to help me remember that I am no longer in school). So I'm not convinced at all what the point of a ceremony really is. I would like to opt out of my wedding ceremony, but what if my father turns out to be right, and my would-be husband starts to forget that he's married to me, simply because we didn't have a freakin' ceremony?

My dress is an off white with a pinkish/brownish tint. I want my bridesmaids dresses to be royal blue and my fiance and the boys will wear a very very light tan color....do you think the colors will clash? I don't want it to look funky when we are all standing up there!

My guy and I are having issues with wedding details. Here is the problem..he wants to invite his cousin but his cousin does not want to invite us because she only wants an intimate wedding (but is inviting my fiancés mother. He thinks im being unfair and can't understand me. What do you guys think?

My fiancé and I are getting married next week and we reserved a hotel to go to after our wedding for our honeymoon. However my fiancé is constantly worried about our 2 children (ages 1 & 2) whenever we leave them with a sitter. Even when we are gone for only an hour she is always worried about them. I understand that but I am worried that she won t be able to enjoy our honeymoon due to constantly worrying about the kids. We are only staying at the hotel one night and then coming home. I talked to her about it and I said we should cancel the hotel reservation and just come home after the wedding and not take a honeymoon. She tried reassuring me that she would be fine and she would enjoy it but I know her better than that and I think that we should just say forget the honeymoon at the hotel and use the money for something more practical. Should we just say forget the honeymoon? Or should I have faith that she will be able to enjoy it?