I'm 17 and my Dad is 31. I never knew my Dad until he came into my life around 15. When I was 16 we started having sex behind moms back and he even took me on dates and to fancy hotels to romance me. It was like a real relationship. He's so hot to. But I feel so ashamed. Im not a Christian but Im religous. I'm just worried. I know deep down inside my heart What I'm doing is wrong but I won't stop doing it. I even have a boyfriend and my Dad is still seeking me in bed. PLEASE HELP!

sorry, the reason I need to tell her is because we want to go out for drinks with the team after work, but cant until she looses weight, it would make us all look bad.

We'e been together 2 years and we see each other about a day every week. Recently realized that he spends much more time and effort with his friends than me. Have tried hanging out with friends, they are not very welcoming to outsiders and only talk about private jokes or music (which I know nothing about). What shall I do? See a futur with himbut only if he can change this. Tried speaking to him and didn't really understand.

before i jump to that part, here is the back story it all started about 2 months ago, i was an obsessive over the treadmil, i made myself wake up every day at 5 am, run at 6mph for 3 miles, and everyday i got weaker and weaker, i stopped eating my favorite foods, so my craving got bigger and bigger, if i didnt do it i felt i would die, and then one day in august i just crashed, i stopped doing it, i only showered after working out (not to mention it takes/took 30 minutes to wash my hair, but i forced myself to do it because i felt seweaty everywhere else,) so i stopped showering because i saw no point, ate only gushers and granola bars for 3 weeks, now i eat gushers, granola bars, mac and cheese, and still drink only water, i gained like 30lbs and since i grow out of my old clothes, i have been in the same ones for about 3 months now since they are the only ones that fit me, and of course im at the age where womans xs is too big and girls xxl is too small, and my parents said i have a week to find new clothesor they will take them off of me and make me wear my dads clothes, i have no idea where to go, i have went to jcp, marshalls, tj maxx, old navy, target, walmart, and more, and i cant find anythng that looks good OR feels good, at this point, i just want it to feel good, also i have sensory issues which makes clothes shopping hard in general. now, on to the abu$e part, so far due to this issue, my mom has grabbed me, spit on me, threw stuff at me, slam stuff around, --- ---scream at me (like all day), lock me out of the house, i try to tell her how its hard to find clothes but she just blocks her ears, shakes her head, etc. then my dad when hes home, screams, louder than mom, threaten: to burn the house down, to k1ll me, to rip my clothes off and put me in a bag, also he thinks that if he puts a roof over my head, it means he loves me and treats me well, but would you agree? isnt love priceless? please help, i have tried telling therapist they dont help,

So basically I have a twin sister, a best friend, and another "best friend" that we'll call Anna. I'm that person in the friend group that is like on the bottom. Like I'm that person that no one is really buddy buddy with, basically like everyone's second choice. So today we were walking around outside during like a field trip and my three friends were all walking together on the sidewalk side by side I was barely on the sidewalk, and they were talking about stuff, so I wanted to listen and talk too, so I walked in a little bit closer to hear what they were talking about, and Anna literally pushed me onto the road.. So then later I wanted to show my sister a cool plant thing that I found when we were still on our field trip, and my sister was like in the middle of Anna and my other friend, and I was going to turn a little bit and reach my arm over to my sister and show her the cool thing, and when I was about to do it, Anna was like "please stoppp" super loudly in like an annoyed tone. This has happened several times when she tells me to stop doing something, when it never affects her at all, like when I'm trying to be happy and stuff and do something funny. I know all of this may same lame and not even really a big deal, but this happens to me like every day where she says something rude to me and no one even cares, because literally everyone thinks she's so cute and nice... I just want to fit in.

I'm 17, I'm very fit, tall, and I love to workout. I mostly love lifting weights! I know this isn't the most important thing but I don't know what to wear? I wanna wear my Nike spandex (they are not EXTREMELY short!" My legs look awesome in them & they feel comfortable, should I wear them? Or will I look too showy? I'm not one to show a lot I'm just there to workout. Or should I just wear nike shorts?

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When i ask him for plans he will say "i dont know" and then id say why? and he would say because i dont want too. He makes me wait till last minute for me to know. He will usually say no i dont want to hang out unless i beg him but then he says begging will just make me not want tok even more. I just dont understand him. Why does he do this? We have a fun time when we hang out and he is not busy when he says i dont know. Sometimes he will even ditch me for his friends and he hangs out with his friends on saturdays and sundays almost every week so i like to hang iut fridays.

We are technically married, but we've been living in separate states for years (Mississippi and Florida), and we have 2 underage children. There's no legal separation in Mississippi, that I know of. He has stage 3 cancer. I left my job and temporarily moved to Fl to be his full-time caregiver.

Creen que deba checar el departamento de mi novio en la ciudad a ver si es que tiene a otra persona con el,siento que es la unica manera de desenmascararlo,que creen que haga.

am four weeks away from my due date. Three weeks ago my husband informed me that he met someone online. This woman is now his girlfriend although they have not yet met in person but plan to soon. Just a lot of phone calls and texts all day. I have no family here. Some people say he s the dad so i should have him in the delivery room regardless. Some say that would be crazy. What do you think? I m torn only because i don t know who else to ask to be there.

in person my boyfriend and i are so happy it is all so great. Over text though he acts uncaring and it is a mess usually our fights start over text never in person

Over text he will be so mean and act like he doesnt care and be unloving and not say i love you back. In person he wont hug me sometimes but he cuddles with me and comforts me and is so fun to be with and tells me he loves me. It just confuses me sometimes?:(

Whenever i say i miss u he doesnt say it back and whenever i say i love you he doesnt say it back. it really breaks my heart. i know he loves me though because he wouldnt be with me if he didnt love me

My girlfriend lives with her grandmother. Her grandmother pays the water, electricity, and cable bill. Her grandmother is also in the nursing home right now and won t help get groceries for the house. My girlfriend is currently 28 weeks pregnant and her pregnancy is considered high risk. She has been in and out of jobs due to her pregnancy and the fact that she is high risk. She recently just got paid but her money went towards her phone bill, gas, and getting things for our daughter. Well, her neighbors apparently gave her some food and a little bit of money for groceries I guess. I made a remark saying that it s sad that her neighbors know she is struggling. Was I wrong for making that comment? She lives with her grandmother because she is the caregiver of her grandmother when her grandmother is home. Even when her grandmother is home, my girlfriend asks about going to get groceries and her grandmother will make her go get them but later will make my girlfriend go out and get something from McDonald's or something. And yes, I have a job. But I don't live with them. I try and get my girlfriend something to eat when we hang out, but i have other things I have to worry about too.

I used to have it under control. But going back to school gives me a lot of temptations. I feel like I am about to break again. I'm in high school. I really don't want to let it destroy my life again. I really need help but when I search online about it, all I get are reports of people getting arrested for this.

We are just friends. We went out with a group of friends and he placed his arms around me. Then one of our other friend started taking pictures in which one of them showed he was kissing me on the cheek. I protrsted but the pictures were already taken. The unfortunate thing is all pictures were posted on facebook with me tagged in it. My parents, inlaws, husband and friends saw the pictures. The kissing picture looked intimate because my eyes were closed. My husband is upset and my family are asking questions. I untagged myself from some of them but it seems I was a day too late :-( . How do I explain this to my inlaws? I looked like a party animal who is having fun with another guy. My husband hasn't talked to me about it.

My husband told me that I always look happy and I seem to be in a good mood. I'm not inviting attention but it just pours- from both sexes. Is smiling considered a natural sex appeal?

Sucede que tengo 14 (Soy Bi) y aun no he "salido del closet" y me gustaría hablar con alguien, sentirme del mismo ambiente y encajar correctamente. Gracias por su atención y por su espacio:) Skype: LiaSell o Liasell@outlook.com (no entiendo muy bien como funciona el Skype, asi que dejo los dos xD)

situation: im a housewife with a 2 year old daughter. my husband works seasonally during fishing season in Alaska. his friend quit his job and moved into our home with his girlfriend who works full time. his friend doesn't work so I expect him to clean up after his girlfriend and himself as well as put any food they cook away or throw it out.because I figure if he is being a househusband that's fine but I am not cleaning up after another couple. if one of them is home constantly I see that person in the role of a househusband/housewife.my husbands friend has no plans on getting a job anytime soon. however I have been met with opposition to this idea. wich is Ludacris to me because in every roommate situation I have been in in the past everybody carries their own weight. no exceptions. you clean up after yourself. but my husband states things like "i don't want to hear (insert friends name here) cry and whine about it" wich I really don't care about. if his friend were to get a job I would have no problem cleaning up after him because I would want everybody who is employed to come home and relax. but he isn't and still expects me to do it. I see him as a house husband but he has made his girlfriend come home and cook and has even pissed and moaned at her that she doesn't take care of him like I take care of my husband. to wich I say. "you do realize that if I were working like my husband and he were staying home he would be doing for me what I am doing for him?" is it unfair of me to expect these things from my roommates in this situation. im getting treated like a ***** because I want a grown man who is unemployed,and not my blood relation to clean up after himself and his working spouse.i hate walking into the kitched literally five minutes after cleaning it and seeing it covered in freaking grease and disgusting food. im already cleaning up after my husband my two year old and my stepson. I don't want two more adults added to that list but I wander if they are right and I am being unreasonable? I am fine with going out and getting a job because it would actually be less work than this and I could finally get a break from the toddler. But every time I bring up the possibility of me getting a job my husband says he doesn't want me to.it would be less work and more profit for me if I did instead of cleaning up after 4 adults and toddler constantly. I also want add his girlfriend is fully employed and a very nice person for the most part.both of them are very kind people but omg......

Serious answers only! I was pleasuring myself to a woman masturbating with a sex toy, then she showed her face and it was my sister. I feels completely disgusted about her doing this on the internet but even worse that I masturbated to her. Do I bring it up to her? Does this mean I am into my sister? I am so confused right now.

Please only women. I know it's gross and disgusting to the majority, I'm seeking replies from the kinky minded, please keep negative comments to yourself, the only help I need is that of a like minded female who has an interest in exploring her sexuality. Thanks!!

Hi my name is andres and i'm 14 and my mom kicked me out plz if anyone is out there plz help me im lost cold hungry and homeless?

Sorry this is long but this is important and drama filled. Me and my husband are happily married and i love him with all my heart. But i have expressed that i want to have children of my own or its a deal breaker for me and he has told me from the beginning that he does want children with me. He had a vasectomy with his ex wife because he didnt want to get her pregnant anymore. He has 3 kids with her all in their teens. He promises to have a reversal vasectomy when he gets his bonus. I meantioned ivf but i obviously need him for that. When i ask about it he gets mad and says "he doesnt know how to find anybody". Which is an obvious lie. So, i find a place that does ivf just to give him info on how it works and a vasectomy reversal doctors office and he avoids it at all cost. He promises to call a place and never does it at all. Im starting to feel tricked. Hes 35 so its not too late for him. He avoids it entirely. I dont want to have to leave him, but it has been my goal to have children one day and he has done absolutely nothing. Cost isnt an issue since he got his bonus and he promised hed get it done as soon as he got it, but all he does is look at cars and things for his teenaged kids. Which im not complaining, im glad hes doing things for them but he has enough to provide for both the process and his kids. Whats wrong with wanting a child between us? I feel confused and tricked. Its driven me to tears. Advice much needed. Thanks.

My family is very abusive and manipulative. They threaten me a lot and want to disown me. I'm seeing a counsellor and a mental health nurse. I have depression, anxiety and get panic attacks. I don't have a lot of money to go anywhere and i have no where to go. They tried to kick me out in the middle of winter and I had to beg them to let me stay there. I can't stay with any of my friends or extended family. Any ideas?

So around...2 weeks ago I suppose we were in gym and they made us walk outside in the rain and I was complaining to my friend and this random underclassman starts yelling at me to shut up and I just talked back to her until she basically gave up and turned and left because she was being dumb whatever. I knew her older sister and I knew she has a history of being a little...y'know so I just let it go. Around 2 weeks passes by and I'm starting to think she's over it. I myself am not concerned with some crazy little girl so I have not said 1 word about her nor have I looked in her direction since. but today I stayed behind because I'm sick so i was talking to my gym teacher, then after deciding to stay and just pull through it I enter the locker room. She's in there with her friends doing whatever. She kinda looks at me but whatever I wasn't concerned. After changing I walk out and meet my friends whom tell me that this girl was telling her friends that she 'wants to stab me' in the locker room and it concerned me a bit. I'm in my senior year and the last thing I want is a fight with some crazy underclassmen let alone being stabbed. I understand that it's most likely some empty comment because she hates me for whatever reason. Talking to her sister she told me it's most likely an empty threat because her sister is a 'pussy' (lol) but this girl has a history of being a little wacky. I'm just wondering if I should report her, ignore her, ect??

This guy and I used to text each other during the summer semester. He liked me more than I liked him so he thought it was best that we stop communicating since I knew that he wanted me. We saw each other today and we just looked at each other and he stood in line behind me today but we didn't say anything. Why was this so awkward to me? I mean I never liked him but it's weird not speaking to somebody that used to like you. Well two weeks ago he did say hi to me when I was walking to class.

I've spoken to my teachers multiple times about bullying. When i walk around campus, i mind my own business but people will stare at me and whisper about me and laugh at me. This happens all the time and these are people who don't know me. It's usually a group of black kids. Sometimes they do it directly in front of me or just a few feet away from me. I've spoken to the counselors but they said they can't do anything about this unless i get beaten or if they verbally harass me. When i walk around campus, people have shouted out insults at me or say negative things about me and then start laughing. Why is this even allowed and is there anything that i can do? I don't say anything back and I'm not doing anything wrong but I'm sure that this is bullying. i mean how bad does it have to get in order for them to take action? I'm already not doing anything wrong to provoke them. i have a right to education and safety on campus. No I'm not imagining it. it does happen but it seems like there's nothing i can do to stop it but it's making me uncomfortable on campus. They're doing it in a way where they can get away with it. And they usually do this in groups of people. People at my college are very immature. Basically i have to prove it. This is in fact a form of bullying. Can i file a student grievance or at least report this? Cause this is not fair, I'm not doing anything wrong but I'm being bullied? i respect freedom of speech but freedom of speech does not equate to freedom to harass or bully someone. Also I'm a girl. Any helpful advice? i just ignore it and try to not respond but it's really uncomfortable to go to school like that.