So during the summer me and my BF were going through problems. So we decided to break up and he took down all of our pictures, so did I. I personally don't like to do things like that because I am a private person but I wasn't going to look stupid and leave them up. As time passed I started to go out more and became more social I rekindled old friendships, I usually hang out with guys and like two girls. Now me and my BF decided to work things out again and he's been very good to me as he always been I truly love him and he loves me as well. I recently posted a picture of me and him. And when my " friend" saw it he went on and spoke bad about me on snapchat. Not only did he say these exact words " she cannot be alone she has to be with him, she doesn't have a job and she is broke, I think she is corny for that" ( lol because apparently working things out with my BF is corny) but he was on the phone speaking to someone while another friend recorded the snap. He obviously doesn't know I have a job again but he also exposed something nobody knew about me my financial status and I think that is very shady. Will I be wrong if I approach him and cut him off because it's honestly what I will love to do any advice

I started talking to a guy back in march through a quiz app. In the beginning we would talk every day. I don't know his full name and we only communicate through this app. He once told me that he gets kinda jealous when i talk about other guys. It seemed like he liked me even though we've never met irl. All of the sudden it stopped. He never has time to talk anymore and he says it's because he's busy with work. He also hides things from me. He stops answering in the middle of a conversation and 2 weeks later i get a msg asking me how i am. He's done this for 3 months now. When i tell him that it annoys me and that we should just drop all contact, he apologises and almost begs me not to. I'm so confused. It seems like he's pushing me away and doesn't want to be my friend anymore but then why doesn't he want me to cut him off? He has a gf

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and he's ready to have sex. I know for a fact that he isn't a virgin because he once talked about a pregnancy scare he had with his last girlfriend. However he doesnt know that I'm a virgin and I don't really think I want him to know. I never wanted him to think of me as really inexperienced so I never even told him that he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. I am 21 so I think he just assumes I've done it all. I don't want him to make a big deal about taking my virginity or that it's my first time so I think it would be best not to tell him. I am just nervous if there would be any reason he would be angry that I kept this from him if he finds out later. I have a really close group of friends and they know that I'm a virgin. While I'm sure they would't deliberately say anything I am afraid that they might bring it up jokingly. Even if they do bring it up I don't think it would be something to be upset about right? I personally dont think so but I'm unsure how anyone else would see this situation. Other than that there is no way he would be able to tell it was my first time. I have done dancing all my life and have used tampons since I have much younger so I am pretty sure my hymen is no longer intact. Can you give your opinion? Is it important to tell someone that you're a virgin or does it not really matter?

Mind you now I m in my mid 30 s. But find it hard to be "nice" too my dad knowing he has been cheating on her for some years. They have been going for counseling even though she has threatened him with divorce for years from time to time. Do I just respect my mother s wishes? How do I even deal?

I should have never listened to my wife...my mother in law which I don't like anymore as she's annoying moved in temporarily away from her 3rd husband. Luckily, our daughter went off to live with a roommate recently. Bad part she took her bed with her and have nothing but a couch. In our bedroom we have a king. Reason is we have a king I think they are more comfortable and to be honest I don't like to be touched while trying to sleep as I have a sleep disorder. What I do love, especially with my daughter out of the house is sex, great sex and often at night...sometimes in the day. But my wife insisted my mother in law sleep on the edge and my wife in the middle. This has been almost 2 weeks of this and haven't been laid since she arrived. Not to mention she never shuts up even in bed. Last weekend she said something like don't mind me if you to want to get it on? I was like really? My wife thinks this is funny. How I feel? I feel like doing something I haven't done in 15 some years...anal sex. On my wife, doggy right in front of my mother in law. Whether my wife will go for that I don't know...but if anything makes a point right?

My sons friend (14) asked me if my husband and I enjoy having sex. I m pregnant with my 2nd child and he started recently smarting off things like "I bet your husband had fun putting that baby there" "____ is lucky to be able to sleep with you". It s a little rude and uncalled for. What should I do? He s my sons best friend.. I don t want him saying stuff to my son.

turns out it was my aunts and now she has a death wish against me help

First of all, it costs a lot of money and is a lot of work. Secondly, unless you are rich and will pass on wealth to your children, you are bringing kids into the world knowing they will not have a life of luxuary and will most likely have to work a 9-5 job every day and have minimal free time for enjoyment. Why would anyone want to do that to their own kids?

I'm friends with this guy who I fooled around with a few times - and we have NO intention of dating! He recently said he has a girlfriend in another state he's been "seeing for a couple months" and he's waiting for her to move here to be with him. It hasn't happened for him and he's sexually frustrated, so he came over to my place and we fooled around. I asked him the next day how he was feeling and he just said "horrible lol." I asked him why and he never wrote me back. He said he's fine with his relationship, but that the person just has to be here and everything would fall into place. He's NOT willing to move to be with her and he's waiting for her to make a move. I haven't heard from him since the other night when we fooled around, so I'm assuming I should just leave him alone??? Part of ME feels guilty for aiding him in cheating on this girl he never sees, but I feel like he's angry with me for some reason. What could be going through his mind???

being condescending to you "you better treat her right blah blah blah"

My sister loves to give me crap because she's a travel freak and I am not. I'm 41, she is 39. I graduated college when I was 25, and have worked in the field and I studied ever since. She is still in college, working on her 5th degree and is a career barista. I've spent two months backpacking across Europe, I spent four years in the Navy, getting the full Asian treatment: Japan, Vietnam, Korea, Taiwan, Singapore. For three years I dated woman from Nicaragua and spent six months in Nicaragua and El Salvador. I've even spent Hanukkah in Jerusalem. Not to mention that I've been to British Columbia more than I've been to any state other than my own (WA) in the USA. I haven't left the country since 2004 and have no desire to. My passport is full of stamps. I've seen as much of the world as I care to see. I am perfectly fine spending my vacation in the Cascades or Palm Springs. Somehow, she feels that I should be ashamed of myself for not wanting to spend a month in some sub-Saharan, African sh1thole or Third World basket case in Southeast Asia.

If I am at the bar and meet a midget or drawf or "insignificant person" or whatever the politically correct term is, and I decide to take them home, will have to put him in one of those NHTSA approved toddler seats? It seems like the midget should be expected to provide his own seat so others don't have too. Could I just secure him in a luggage area - ie, trunk or clam shell container? Also what should I expect in terms of genital size once I get him naked?? Sorry I did not mean to say "insignificant" I think the word I was going for is "insufficient."

I'm 31, I don't live in highly populated area, but little worried about financially. I still have some kids of my own someday, and I've online dating sites, and seems the pretty much the only that answer back are single moms who don't want anymore. I don't mind some step kids, though I am worried handling all the drama that comes with broken families. But I really would like to one or two of my own, and I'm having finding one who does. Most of the ones that do want kids are younger and seem to never answer back, and I'm not bringing up kids in the opening message. Well I have mild autism, that's why. Even when I learn how, I don't like being around large crowds of people. And I've changed my picture and appearance often on there. Very few women have mild autism, and just because two people they are compatible. Just have had answers in the past who think the magic answer is finding another with autism, without realizing how small the percentage of people actually have mild autism.

We was in the brake room this smorning an I saw choclate sprinkels on the counter an said "some one spilt choclate sprinkels on the counter" an some one said "them isn't sprinkels there mouse terds, theirs a mouse in the brake room." I let out a squall an turned around to run cause I am scared to death of mice, tripped ovar my shoes, fell down an hurt my breasts real bad, let out a loud smelly toot an had a bowel movement in my panties. I was still squalling cause I knew when I fell down the mouse was going to get on me. Every one was sitting at there tables laughing at me, I am so humiliated.

She is the nicest girl I have EVER met, and I did criticize her yesterday on the phone about some small things, I did even tell her they were SMALL, but she took the criticism the wrong way apparantley cuz now a friend came in between to whom she had communicated with, and the friend says she dont want to be with you anymore. I feel so heart-broken, I know this girl is the one I want to stay with. Did I go beyond the line? I even called and apoligized thru a voice message, but she is not answering me anymore. Please help me, I am on the verge of tears. What can I do to bring this girl back?

Hello, I am 27 years old. I still live with my parents and I love it. I also have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for four years and nine months. Recently me and my GF decided to go apartment hunting. We found the perfect place!!! And decided to send in an application. The application was approved and the lease contract should be ready to be signed by us any time soon. I am having last minute doubts about leaving home, mainly because I do not want to leave my parents yet, since I will miss them. On the other hand, I also care about my gf and it makes sense to take it to the next level due to the amount of time we have been dating for. I also think that moving out may strengthen my relationship with my parents and it may be a good thing? Since when I was at home, our communication was not that good due to the fact that I may have taken them for granted, but now this is a reality check. Has anyone been though this? What do you all think? Please help!!!! Thanks!

In July my husband and I moved in with his mother because she is months behind on her mortgage and gonna lose her home. She has the extra rooms and I needed a safer environment for my children. Everything was fine until her daughter and the boyfriend got evicted from their place. She moved them in and all they did is cause drama. Neither had a job and freeloaded. When they finally got kicked out because of all the problems the boyfriend verbally attacked my husband. The cops were called and they were told to stay away. The boyfriend threatened us on Facebook and involved my children. Soon everything died down. Now its déjà vu. The mother in law has let the freeloaders back in! Didn't consider my feelings about it. I do not want them here. My husband and I pay 2/3 of the mortgage and we split the bills in 3rds. I am sick of being treated like a ghost in this house. I want them out. I'm sick of these freeloaders eating my family's food and raising our utility bills! I need advice.

Is there something you ever did, some lie you told, anything very secret? That nobody, or barely no one knows?

My manager is so annoying. She stays check my work and check in I did anything. I don't really mind the check because I actually work but it's been 3 years and I feel as if I'm still not trusted. She's constantly looking over on me and it really annoying. I there everyday for at least 40 hours a week. And if she mentions something today it going to be very hard to not punch her in her throat. What do I say to her if she mentions it.

My husband is a truck driver. Lately, he has been making about $200 a week, which is pathetic. There is one driver there we will call Corey. Corey has been in prison before, has a record. But. Corey has 2 trucks he drives when all the other guys get 1. Yesterday- my husband got to work very early waiting on a load. Several other men got there later and got loads and my husband was sent home w/o any loads, though he was 1st on duty. He claims he asked the boss why, but I doubt this. He has been habitually coming home w/o making a dime. He claims its the company playing favorites w/those that have criminal records. Should he quit? Could he be right? Why send him home w/o work but give others a load? his dad is a financial higher up and told him "look, bosses and managers can do whatever they want when they want, they dont have to answer to anyone or obey any rules". should he put up with this favoritism?

my sister has been sitting at home jobless for the last 6 months playing games. she quit her job because they forced her to(which she could've contested) and has an excuse each time we tell her to find a job. first the reference from her ex job was too bad, it was changed, then she was too sick and now the latest is that she wants to study and is waiting for news for a study bursary. Just note that bursaries for her field is very hard to come by and if you do get one you have to be borderline homeless. we live with my mom (im moving out soon) and we pay rent. my mom can't carry the whole household on her single salary and when i told my sister this she gets defensive and tells us we don't see the sun shine for her. but she is just sitting there, not contributing anything. i look for jobs for her everyday and today when i informed her of a decent job for which she landed an interview she first claims she's not feeling well and then she says she wants to keep her options open in case the bursary people contact her. She wants to wait to here from them first before she decides if she wants to work, in the meantime my mom is struggling. I help where i can, but when i move out, she won't receive rent at all and my sister will just continue to board there for free. am i being to invested or overbearing for trying to convince her that she can't sit around waiting while she could've been working. i believe in her dreams, but i'm also being realistic here. she is 23 and my mom has to take care of all her stuff including cigarettes etc. she has had a few job opportunities, but each time there's something else wrong..

I want to tell her i know shes cheating on her husband and use that information to possibly have sex with her as well. How should i approach her guys. please help me out. thanks

I started working at the new company which is having social gatherings twice a month.Tehy usually go out to eat or such. I mentioned this to my girlfriend and she freaked out, telling me it would be unfair from me if i go since i see this people every day and that i should rather spend time with her. I do not think it is unfair and would like to go, but she wouldn't agree with me. What should i do?

Well only guys I don't like, seem to be interested in me. I only attract the scientist, computer, intellectual and shy/low profile type of guy-that i DON'T like, wouldn't date but never a higher profile guy (you know the business type of guys who dress well and have a decently/ high income, nice car, nice watch or lawyers etc.) What's wrong with me? Should i change sth in myself? Do i need to pay more attention in my looks (makeup, diet, confidence etc)? I dress in a kind of hipster/bohemian way and don't like mainstream culture, music, films etc. Cause usually high profile guys have higher standards right? I know this may sound shallow but you only live once? So why should i lower my standards?

I was having lunch with the cute girl with the pixie haircut and the 40 something fat bald guy with facial hair on the lip when I saw an opportunity to impress her. She was reading her twitter when she blurted out " I hate homophobes maan" I said "yeh I don't get it I have nothing against those people. pixie girl smiled and I was semi hard at this point. Then the fat guy shouts " oh yeh prove it! kiss me " I said " ew gross thats ghey " and he said "see your a bigot !". Me and him started arguing untile the boss came in and said we can't yell at work. the pixie girl left and hasn't spoken to me for the rest of the shift. I just want to prove the fat guy wrong infront of her. what arguments GUY HELP

A month ago, I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Two weeks after I gave birth, I recently discovered that he was married. I never knew or even suspected that he was married or had another family. We had been together since I was 20 (now 26) and he never gave me reasons to think so. However, looking back, I was so focused on working and school that I failed to look at the signs. When I disclosed to him that I was pregnant, never once did he tell me to get an abortion nor that he didn t want the child (It pains me to say that if he would have told me he was married, I probably would have gotten an abortion so my child doesn t have to grow up in this type of situation). However, when I confronted him about being married, he completely cut off all communication that we had to the point that I can t reach him. I hired a private detective who was able to track down where he and is wife live. I do not know if I should tell her. The only reason why he stopped communicating with me after he found out I was pregnant is because I found out he was married. If I would have never found out he was married, we would still be "together". As a woman, if I was his wife, I would want to know that my husband is cheating. But I am not so sure if I should be the one to tell her.

He s a professional photographer, he got to talking to some girl at Bikinis about how he s a photographer and apparently she s doing a commercial and wants him to be the photographer. It makes me feel disgusted.. I don t think I can handle that. Maybe I just have to listen to what I feel. I don t feel comfortable at all with that.. We have had conversation about how that s kind of a ruining point in society and his usual pictures are inspirational and beautiful. This all comes after he ran into another photographer friend about a fitness model photoshoot just yesterday for his friends nutrition company. I just don t think I can be the girlfriend in all this. I don t feel comfortable. Are my feelings flying around crazy.. Shoud I calm down or listen to my instinct.

My ex whom I loved very much and was planning to spend my life with contacted me 5 years later. I am now married and love my husband very much but I fear I m still in love with my ex. I told him we shouldn t have contact which has helped but I m dreaming of him again, all I want to do is talk to him and for him to love me again. I can t control how I m feeling and it s making me stress and forget to eat. I have lost 5 pounds in under a week. I know I have to let him and the thought of what could have been go but part of me doesn t want it to leave. I have no desire to leave my husband and I don t want to give my ex up again but I m afraid even though he is half way around the world and all we can do is email that I ll become attached again and mess my marriage up. Any tips on how I can get over this ridiculous emotional train wreck?

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I am having a pregnancy scare. I had my last period Sep 25 (1st day), so it was due a few days ago. 3 weeks ago I was 'messing around' with this guy and he ejaculated on me and it dripped down onto my vagina. I wiped it off and hoped it wouldn't be a big deal. But now that I am late, I am so scared. I took the Equate pregnancy test (detects 6 days before missed period) on the first missed day and I took one this morning. Both negative. But I keep finding articles on 'false negatives' and it is scaring me! I just want my period! I know it might be stress because I have 2 tests at my college coming up as well. So any advice? Am I overreacting? I would think by now I would have a high amount of hCG for a pregnancy test to catch, right? Please only helpful/nice comments, I know I made stupid choices...

Ay un chico que me gusta mucho y quisiera saber si le gusto he notado que me mira yo lo miro y me sostiene la mirada y por eso pienso que le gusto pero no se por que él habla con todos los del salón menos conmigo y eso ASE que me confunda y que no sepa que pensar chicos ayudenme por favor es que estoy pensando en dar él siguiente paso y decirle lo que siento pero quiero estar segura de si él siente algo por mi no me gustaría pasar por un momento incomodo Helpe me please 😉

There's no question of him leaving his wife at all, not ever and I wouldn't ask it of him, but when I see pictures of her with him and their kids I feel so lonely. I didn't mean to fall in love with him but I just did. I get asked on dates all the time and I used to date but I'd never, ever been in love till I met him, in fact, lame as it sounds I didn't really believe in love. He chased me and it took over a year for anything to happen. I don't want to break up his family, I've met his kids and I'd never want to hurt them like that. I'd never ask him to leave them, but sometimes, like tonight when he's at a family party and sending me pictures, it hits me just how low down on his list I must be. It's horrible and I just need to know how to deal with it, make it easier. I couldn't leave him, even my long term relationships have never made me feel like this, plus the two times I have tried to break it off because this can't be good for anyone involved, he's threatened to harm himself and I really think he means it. I don't want too anyway, I can talk to him for hours and when he's here I just feel so happy. It's not that I need to be in love, I've never been needy like that, it's him, I just love him as he is,everything about him I just need to know how to make myself feel better about this and accept that this is how it is and I won't ever get a family and security and all those things I don't need any judgement on this, I just need advice on how to make it hurt a bit less.

We have been together for 5 years and he went to Canada. I was happy for him to go because it was something he really wanted to do. But since he has gone I have hardly heard from him. And when I do he talks to me as if I'm a friend he doesn't want to say all the lovey Dovey stuff and I feel like he just sees me as a friend. I feel like he is cheating on me but when I bring up the topic with him about going out and messing he tells me if I think he is up to something I can **** off he wouldn't do that. But I just don't understand why he can't keep in touch and be loving to me. I really miss him and when I say I miss you he says no you don't. Am I wasting my time being with him or am I just being paranoid

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Ok so I'm 18 and I work with this girl who's 23. She's completely crazy in a good way. She does nice things for everyone, bought cough drops for this older guy working there, gets everyone she likes little birthday things. She got me an ice cream cake for my birthday, just her, no group gift or anything. She's so outgoing, she can talk to anyone and she's totally comfortable and I'm kinda shy. She dresses kinda goth and just crazy most of the time so you'd almost think people wouldnt give her a chance but she's so like charming that everyone loves her. I don't know I just kinda look up to her or something like that's how it started. But then I really got to know her better and she's so much more than just this weird nice person. Her boyfriend is awful and he just doesn't deserve her. I can tell every time they fight because shell be really fake nice. So I always ask what's up and eventually she told me some things. She's so much better than she thinks she is. I know this is gonna make her sound bad, but she does drugs and I know it's because she's depressed. She says it's because she "gets bored". I'm like, that's not bored, that's being so tired of dealing with your boyfriend's crap that nothing but drugs does it for you anymore. He's awful, he cheats on her and hurts people any way he can just so they get upset and then he knows they love him, like he constantly wants her to prove it. And she just withdraws into this shallow party girl so she doesn't have to deal with it but she's more than that. So I wanna get her to take me seriously as more than a friend but I know it'll be hard. She already says she feels old for her age. But she does things with me like shell say "love you" all the time when she sticks me with something I don't want to do or something. She calls me honey and sweetheart all the time. Sometimes she says she loves me like more seriously. I don't know if those are hints or what. How do I get her to take me seriously and maybe finally break up with him?

These boys in my grade always do Hingis like flip me off and try to get me to shake their hands and when I walk away they say stuff like "Jesus Christ!" And "Fag."

Okay so today in class I turn around to look at the girl I like & she hide her face with her phone

He is super abusive physically and emotionally, treats me like **** and never comes to me when I need him and is never there for me like I am there for him. He has broken up with me atleast 30 times after every argument and just recently he broke up with me because I did not want to have a threesome. What is his deal? why does he ALWAYS come back after he says he breaks up with me? he has even told me even if he moves on he will still always have me around and we will hookup

I notice that some girls behave very nice and smile at me. Like holding the door, asking for carry a box of stuffs. But somehow, I find out they mostly have boyfriend. So it is true for most of girls? Nice treat for guy is a turn off because she is mostly taken? How can you find a girl is single (before ask, assume you have no time to ask before) I mean "a girl behave nicer" not "you"

There was a girl who I fell for and I thought she liked me too. she always hungout with me and she kept getting closer and closer to me. I cod feel she really cared about me. but one day last year out of nowhere she said we couldn't hangout anymore because she didn't want to lead me on. soo after she wouldn't talk to me the same, our whole friendship changed. eventually she even deleted me from facebook. ive messaged her telling her that I miss her. but deep down ive been in so much pain that she doesn't know about. she says I will find someone better but im depressed. I just wanna be her friend again. is it still possible? please help.....and thanks for the advice I dont understand why she doesn't want too talk to me anymore?

I am a disgusting human being who will never be successful. I get bad grades, and I never have the motivation to do anything in school. My body is disgusting, I have thick black hairs on my stomach, and acne all over my back, stomach, legs, arms, face, and chest. I also have blackheads all over my face, and breasts. I have no friends, and I never will. I am autistic and I can't socialize correctly at all, and I also have severe anxiety. Makeup just makes me look worse. I am literally a waste of space, and I will never be good for anything. I constantly think about suicide, because my life is basically meaningless. I have nothing left in life. Should I just die?

I recently moved into my bosses apartment, we ve been sleeping together for a few months, his wife and him are seperated, but not divorced. We all live together in a 3 bedroom apartment, we re 17 yrs apart in age, should I feel guilty we re sleeping together? They re techinically seperated and sleeping in seperate rooms. She doesn t know we re together. I rent a room in there apartment.

I ask this because I suspect a married man, in order to not raise suspicion from his wife (i.e. hiding calls as they come in from other women) takes calls and/or texts from other women in front of her (and/or while he's at home with his wife) and by keeping the conversations non-romantic, he thinks he can pull the wool over his wife's eyes by making his wife think he's just talking to friends that aren't other women.