Marriage & Divorce: Question: Ex-Husband says our young children should forget about him? |
- Question: Ex-Husband says our young children should forget about him?
- Question: Why do single adults feel that they need to move out?
- Question: Wife is bitter towards me since I got home from deployment? How do I make her stop acting like this?
- Question: Do you think most wife would divorce their husband if he attempted suicide because of this issue?
- Question: Wife loves stranger ***?
- Question: How do I get custody back after my ex husband filed for emergency custody during my incarceration? I am currently home & have no visitation?
- Question: How long until I stop missing my ex husband?
- Question: Do you think it's crazy for a 21 year old to be married with 2 kids?
- Question: Stressed, I want time alone. I thought booking a hotel near home to be secluded for a day or 2. Worried my husband will think it's weird-?
- Question: How to change everything after you married.?
- Question: Is it possible to love again after a spouse has died?
- Question: Do ex wifes/husband's have any rights after being married for so long after death, even if he married again?
- Question: Uncomfortable with husband's career?
- Question: New marriage-- Facebook Cheating.?
- Question: What is a good Christmas present for my wife?
- Question: My husband says the onky reason he married me is for our daughter, if it wasn't for her we wouldn't be married. Should I stay married?
- Question: Is it possible to have a marriage where you watch what you say?
- Question: I am still married, and i have been seeing a guy, hanging out with a guy. my husband and i do live separtely. Am i wrong?
- Question: What should I do about my husbands ex-wife?
- Question: My husband used to date men before we got married he has been with two or three women in the past but our love life is nonexistent help?
- Question: How do I convince my husband that he is valuable, even if he is losing his chest hair?
- Question: Can my husband obtain partial custody of my daughter?
- Question: Should I leave him ?
- Question: How long until after marriage can I stop expecingt my husband to look fit and muscular?
- Question: Husband cheated on me and im 3 months pregnant?
- Question: What Do I Do?
- Question: My husband invented stories about marital problems to explain his shortcomings at work?
- Question: Is my wife a lesbian now?
- Question: Sex before marriage? What is your opinion and why?
- Question: Had sex with my wife for first time since we had baby and it still hurt her. Now she's more scared than before. Tips?
- Question: Help!! Caught up in a love triangle!?
- Question: Should I tell husband about affairs and try counseling or just leave?
- Question: Do you have to share EVERYTHING with your husband & wife?
- Question: My wife refuses to discuss her past?
- Question: Changed my mind about last name change?
- Question: My wife's fantasy is her and a women while I watch.?
- Question: I have been trying to get my wife to open up about her sexual fantasies lately, she admitted wanting to be with a women. Any advice?
- Question: Should I divorce my wife if she's pulled knives on me?
- Question: Feeling abuse mentally. I feel so vulnerable pls help.?
- Question: Hi everyone im 21 and need some advice plz. How do i cope with my husbands past?
- Question: Wife wants divorce but still let's me have a relationship with the kids (my stepchildren)?
- Question: My fiancee and soon to be wife doesn't want to take my last name?
- Question: Ex-wife intentionally triggers arguments?
- Question: When is it necessary to discuss things with husband. Is accepting a child s bday invite without consulting husband first wrong ?
- Question: I think i married the wrong man?
- Question: Agreed to a three some with my husband and a friend but found he f her wile i was home he says its not cheating what do u think?
- Question: Child Support?
- Question: How do I know my marriage is over?
- Question: Husband & I have been separated for 1 1/2 yrs Im having a child with another man & he says he's going to try to get rights in court! Can he?
- Question: My wife left me and she is seeing another man. Im about to lose my mind. Help!?
- Question: I want to leave me my wife but im afraid she wont let me see my two little girls ever again what do I do?
- Question: I want to live my wife but im afraid because she might not let me see my 2 twin babies ever again what do I do?
- Question: Does the wage-earner have more power in a marriage?
| Question: Ex-Husband says our young children should forget about him? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:28 PM PDT He told me to tell them that he no longers exists as our divorce approached. Then after that he and his family devised a plan so that he could get away with living comfortably in another state and avoid supporting his children. I learned when the family court had me look into where he might be that he was getting ready to marry some new person who he was spending all his time writing poems to on social media. Not one picture with the person, however... digression.. Anyway, i'm just trying to figure out how to handle the situation with our kids in terms of how it might affect them emotionally. They know they are loved by me and they are happy and fun little toddlers, but there are times I just feel sad for them. Especially on birthdays or special days when their father should have been there. Its not a mood swing. He's stuck with it for a year and he nor his family try to find about the children |
| Question: Why do single adults feel that they need to move out? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:19 PM PDT Let's say a man is 35 years old and lives in a nice house with his parents and siblings. He has no rent to pay as the parents do not need the money and would not accept any. Additionally, his meals are cooked and his laundry is washed, pressed, and folded. Even further, he contributes to the maintainance of the family home. Everyone gets along and the only ones who seem to have a problem with this are those outside of the family, particularly women who date the man. This may be rooted in jealousy, as most families are dysfunctional. In this modern economy it simply makes sense to live together as long as possible. Then the all famous question is inevitably raised by potential girlfriends, "What if you need privacy?" My response is, "Privacy for what?" Pre-marital relations are not appropriate in the eyes of our Lord, so if that is their biggest concern, then maybe they need to consider whether they are mature enough to date yet. Self-control is a virtue. If I am missing something here, please let me know. What is wrong with being a family man? |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 07:59 PM PDT I was away for six months and at that time she was 6 months pregnant so I missed out on our daughter being born and a lot of her firsts. It was my last deployment but definitely the toughest one I've ever had. She's been fine and my biggest supporter when I was deployed in the past. It's hard being home by itself having a new baby but also because my wife is a very different person that I have to adjust to. She's not different in a bad way. Earlier, I'd describe her as being more light-hearted and free-spirited. She's had to take on a lot of responsibility. She's more organized and more efficient. Before she'd be like, "Oh I have to vacuum but I've had a long day so I'll do it tomorrow." And now it's like, "It's on my list, it has to get done right now." She's trying to let me back in. I'll do some things around the house, some she's asked me to do, others I take on. But I'll do something wrong or have a question like I didn't know where the baby's shoes were and she got really huffy & mad about it. "Never mind, don't bother. I'll do it myself." I said something to her about wanting to help her so we could have more time together and she was like, "I'm used to you not being here. I don't need to depend on you." I liked that I used to feel needed. Before we acted like partners and now she's too independent and it feels like there's no fit for me in my own house. I know she resents me for being away but there was nothing I could do and I'm doing my best to make up for it now. |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 07:25 PM PDT My daughter and I both had surgery. I had my spine reconstructed and she had kidney surgery. I am completely incapacitated. For the last few days, my wife has only helped our daughter and she has left me to do all my own things by myself and she has not helped me with anything even though i had my spine reconstructed. I am actually in worse shape than i was in the hospital because i am straining my spine doing all of my work around the house without any help from my wife. When i complained to her about this. She told me our daughter is just a kid and she needs her more than I do. She refuses to help me with anything. Am i wrong to feel like a huge victim in this situation? Am i wrong to feel abandoned? I am constantly walking up and down the stairs and straining my spine . My spine is even more swollen than it was after the surgery. I ended up having to go back to the hospital for overstraining myself because of all the work i have ha to do on my own. My wife told me that she is so disappointed in my for overworking even after my doctor told me not to. She was so disappointed in me for ignoring the doctors instructions. I did't have a ******* choice. She didn't help me with anything. |
| Question: Wife loves stranger ***? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 07:07 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 07:00 PM PDT I have had sole custody of my 7 year old daughter since 2012 while her father was incarcerated, now that he ist out of prison he had visitation on a normal parenting time guideline. I recently was arrested, and posted bond, but my ex husband was granted temporary custody. In the order i am not granted any visitation, and had to file for a modification. What can I do to speed this process up as he wont let me talk to our daughter or see her for any amount of time. I feel he is using the fact that i was awarded sole physical and legal custody of our daughter while he was in prison. I have begged and pleaded, called and text, all i get in response is rude replies or nothing at all. He only has temp. custody due to my arrest. what do i do to gain access to my daughter, I can only imagine what she is going through and what is and has been told to her. What should I do |
| Question: How long until I stop missing my ex husband? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 06:33 PM PDT It's been 1.5 years and I miss him so much, will it ever stop? |
| Question: Do you think it's crazy for a 21 year old to be married with 2 kids? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 06:16 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 05:23 PM PDT Your thoughts on this? Thank you. |
| Question: How to change everything after you married.? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 03:20 PM PDT We live in arkansas. Awhile back, my wife and I got married. She needs a new ss card and dl with my name, but we don t know what documents to send the ss office. Or how to get the dmv to give her a dl with my last name. |
| Question: Is it possible to love again after a spouse has died? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 02:11 PM PDT I just read a news story about a woman who committed suicide after her husband was killed. As of this moment I'm not even dating, however I would like to get married someday. I don't know how I would handle that. Part of me says to just not marry again, but people say you should continue to move on. Can you give that much love to another person? |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 01:44 PM PDT I was married for 15 years bUT separated for 12, we have 2 kids together during the marriage. We could not afford a divorce until I saved up all the money I had to get one. After our divorce, he married the day after it was finalized and he went to prison for 5 years, crazy I know. I just want to know do me or my kids get social security if something was to happen to him or anything, my kids are 15 and 17 by the way. I just don't want anyone to tell me ohh, you could have done this or done that and I had no clue. He has been married for months now and just got his sentence last week. |
| Question: Uncomfortable with husband's career? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 01:08 PM PDT My husband is planning on becoming a marriage and family therapist. For some reason, this makes me feel really uncomfortable. I already have a problem with jealousy that I'm trying to battle and I don't want that to define my marriage. I feel distressed and emotional when I think about him discussing personal\intimate details with a couple. Any tips on helping me get over this? |
| Question: New marriage-- Facebook Cheating.? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 12:51 PM PDT We ve been married for 4 months. My husbands phone was broken so for four days he used mine to go on Facebook etc. last night I went to message a factory bedding store about warranties through Facebook. After it sent I saw that he was still logged on so it sent through is name. I notified him and he said okay that s cool. Later I went back in to his messages to see if the company had responded yet, the first line underneath is the problem. He messaged some girl and I quote "I know I ve told you I hink your cute before, but your profile picture made me literally say wow ". So for the first time in our entire relationship I snooped. I ll admit it, because I had legit concern he was heating with her. Earlier in the conversation they were talking about our marriage and he was telling her about how he regrets it and marriage and stressful and how he is always with me, but he tells her he loves me dearly and I m his person. But the problem is he deliberately went through Facebook and told this girl that she was cute and reiterated it, all while saying he regretted his marriage. I went to the bathroom and cried, he knew something was wrong. When I came out he said he would be right back and went to the bathroom and unplugged his charging phone to take it with him. |
| Question: What is a good Christmas present for my wife? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 12:32 PM PDT |
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| Question: Is it possible to have a marriage where you watch what you say? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 11:36 AM PDT My wife and I have been married for 7 years. This is our second time at marriage counseling and I have come to the realization that i just cannot bring up anything that is going to upset her without it leading to a huge fight. I have tried over and over. Yes her and I have talked about this extensively and every single time I try again, I regret it. She refuses to see any view point other than her own or try to understand why I believe or may have said what I did. I want a marriage where you discuss your fears with your spouse.... Or something else that's sensitive. It's just not going to happen. By the way, we're not kids. I'm 45 and she's 50. I do love her and man, I do not want to get divorced. Please tell me I can this. |
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| Question: What should I do about my husbands ex-wife? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 10:07 AM PDT My husband has primary custody of his 3 girls. The divorce agreement he signed sucks. In leiu of child support ex-wife was to do child care. They're all in school now so it doesnt make sense. Husband is required to pay medical insurance, but the ex is supposed to pay half of all co-pays. She bought a new car, and has a $180/month phone bill. She refuses to buy the kids clothes or school supplies. She hasn't paid a copay in months. What really pisses me off is that she wanted to put of the 5 year olds surgery because she can't pay her half! The girl needs the damn surgery!!!! Before I came along the girls were barely passing in school, because their mom didn't make them do homework. The exwife has recently started enforcing parts of the divorce agreements in her favor, but neglecting the parts she doesn't like. She also tells the girls that she can't afford sheets for their bed, because their dad doesn't give her money. She currently owes us about $3000. Her favorite phrase is, if you don't like it take me to court. She can't afford a lawyer and I don't want to hurt the girls. She lives with her boyfriend and she doesn't pay rent. She works full-time. She has the girls 2 days during the week and every other weekend. Why can't she get a second job? She's also pretty hostile. I'm in school getting my Master's, but because she won't pay us back, I'm going to have to go part time.What would you do? |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 09:44 AM PDT He has already cheated on me once but does want to fix our marriage we went to a therapist once but he didn t like it because she blames everything on him I love my husband and I want this to work we have been married for 3 years and I would love to start a family soon butts but that s not going to happen until we get through this what should I do I feel like I m running out of options |
| Question: How do I convince my husband that he is valuable, even if he is losing his chest hair? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 09:39 AM PDT |
| Question: Can my husband obtain partial custody of my daughter? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 09:37 AM PDT My husband has been apart of my daughter's life for going on 5 years now and we have a son together. Although my daughter's father has his visitation with her I have sole legal decision making over her and have her in my care almost 24/7. Is there any possible way that when we do go to court my husband can have a say during the process? Can he also speak on her behalf if need be? |
| Question: Should I leave him ? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 09:30 AM PDT Negatives: He is 40 and smokes weed every week, maybe like 3 days a week for hours. Gets drunk just as often. Doesn't want to get married to me Flirts with other women online Has asked out other women in the past while we were dating ( when I bring it up he says " Oh my God drop it already, that was a long time ago.) Spends time on Facebook looking up women and messages them from a fake account to say things like he let go of a good piece of azz. Hired a teenager ( 18) to work with him and he goes online to look for her pictures on facebook and saves her bikini pics on his computer. Has an obsession with teen girls even though he is 40. He also often looks up escorts and contemplates paying a teenager for sex off backpages. We are long distance so he says he smokes pot and drinks, plus looks up escorts because he has no friends, is bored and no family around. Positives : Since he isn't easy to get along with, I don't have to worry about him cheating, women seem to not be interested in him. He isn't always a d!ck, he does compliment me and helps me out to find jobs etc. He isn't abusive, even when I've been upset and smacked him in the face one time really hard, he only looked at me and did nothing, then later made light of it by making a joke of it. He takes me out places and pays although, I pay to go visit him, so we half and half the expenses. Around me he doesn't smoke or drink much, not enough to get drunk or high. Just minimal. He is patient Another thing is that he is extremely honest, to the point of it being a mental retardation. He has like no social interaction skills at all, if he sees a hot girl, he will look her up and down and point her out to me, he has now lessen that since I've told him I don't want to hear it, but he still does it just not as often. He also is open when he likes another person and thinks he would like to date them. |
| Question: How long until after marriage can I stop expecingt my husband to look fit and muscular? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 09:28 AM PDT I alsoways see this happen to married couples. Eventually the husband lets himself go. I have resigned myself to my fate. How long do you think before he will just stop trying? |
| Question: Husband cheated on me and im 3 months pregnant? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:55 AM PDT I just found out my husband cheated with the same ******* woman he cheated on me months ago. We talked through it and he begged for another chance. This was feb. everything was fine and i got pregnant in august. It wasnt planned, i was on birth control, but i was so excited on having a baby. My husband was so excited and took care of me and everything . He went out of the country as an emergency two months ago. I just found out that it was actually to see that same ******* woman and HER kid. Im so distraught, i don t think anyone can understanf this pain. Honestly death is better than this. What do i do? I loved this baby but having it would tie me for life to him. Hes apologizing and denying everything but i have photos. Not of having sex but holding hands and with her child. Im so depressed i dont know what to do. Im sick of this damn cycle. Now hes begging for my forgiveness. I feel like im wasting my time. Im good looking and men always wish to talk to me and om always being faithul. What would u do? |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:52 AM PDT I found out that my husband did meth once while I was 5 months pregnant? This was almost a year ago now and he says he has not done it since which I believe because of his behavior, but this makes my physically ill. |
| Question: My husband invented stories about marital problems to explain his shortcomings at work? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:43 AM PDT We are married for 4 years and its going on really smooth with a 2 yr old kid..We hardly have any arguments and sex is still great... But an offhanded remark from my boss's wife during a party made me ask her what she meant...I learnt from his boss that my husband's output at work had been falling down in the past 6 months and he missed a few deadlines... When he was confronted,he said that he had lot of problems with me and marriage is in rocks... Since my boss is very family oriented,he has tried to decrease his load and regularly tries to counsel him... Just not to reveal my husband's lie,I just told his wife and we are working towards it .. I dont know if I should confront my husband..I didnt know that he had problems at work as he's always cheerful at home..Why did he use me as a fall person to explain his shortcomings..If he had other problems,why doesnt he share with me |
| Question: Is my wife a lesbian now? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:40 AM PDT I hope you can help me. Anyways, my wife Danielle and I were going grocery shopping together and we bumped into our old college friend, Sarah and her goth girlfriend. Back in college she came out to us as a lesbian and me and Dan were fine with it as long as she was still herself. So now we joked and even had a quick race to see who could finish grocery shopping first. We won of course. Now we were invited to a double date with them and it felt awkward to me that I was going with my wife on a date along with a lesbian couple. We had a great time, Sarah was still very humorous. Then things started to get weird. I got up to the restroom and returned to find my wife kissing Sarah on the lips. I tried not to take it too seriously because they were good friends before. Dan told me Sarah is such a kisser. I just nodded and Sarah laughed. Now when we got home Dan got to the computer and told me she was going to order a TV series online. She said it was called something like the L word or something. Days later she would wait for me to go to work before watching them. I just realized the L Word is a lesbian series. She also reads lesbian books and watches Ellen. It feels weird. She asked if we could have a threesome and I said yes. She brought over a co-worker. She was bi or les, don't know but I was left out of the whole thing. Now she loves going to les bars alone and stays over. I am paranoid. She is also texting her les friends. I don't want to loose my best friend wife. Plz help! |
| Question: Sex before marriage? What is your opinion and why? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:15 AM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Oct 2015 08:00 AM PDT His is her second child. She had an emergency C section and is still somewhat sore. |
| Question: Help!! Caught up in a love triangle!? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 07:55 AM PDT I know this is going to sound very selfish on my part. Long story short, I left my husband after 14 years of being married to him for being unfaithful. During the separation I met a guy and had been dating him for 8 months. My husband lost his job, so being that he is still my husband I allowed him to move back in with the kids and I in order to help him get on his feet. He then goes out and purchases me a ring for 5k, and said that he wants his family back. So I in turn tell my boyfriend of 8 months that I am going to get back with my husband, as he has never shared his feelings with me so I assumed he would be okay with this . However he is devastated, now he says that he is ready to fight for me because I should not have led him on like this, and that he is madly in love with me and cant see himself being with any other woman. Now I am torn. My husband and I have two children together and he is a wonderful father, but a terrible husband. He had cheated on me twice. I know I am doing to him the very same thing that I didn't want done to me. But I am not being dishonest, it's not cheating if all parties know about it. I didn't expect my husband to fight as hard as he did for the marriage. At the same time, I deeply care for my boyfriend, and as far as I know he has been very loyal to me, but I there are some things that I don't like about him. I don't want to hurt either one of them, but I just don't know which way to turn. Any suggestions?? |
| Question: Should I tell husband about affairs and try counseling or just leave? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 06:39 AM PDT My husband had a one night stand when he was very drunk a few years ago. I didn't handle it the way I should have and since then have had affairs with 2 different men that lasted almost a year each. Husband does not know. I am no longer involved with these men, but now I am completely disconnected emotionally and physically from my husband. In order to save my marriage we would need counseling. But in order to do counseling I would need to tell him the truth about the affairs. I can't tell him. Should I just leave him? or tell him about the affairs, and he will be totally destroyed and he will probably end the marriage. Or go through counseling and be quiet about the affairs? which is the best to do? For his sake and mine? Who keeps moving this to the Psychology section? It's a marriage issue so please stop |
| Question: Do you have to share EVERYTHING with your husband & wife? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 05:45 AM PDT are there things from your past that don't need to be discussed? Or are none of their business? |
| Question: My wife refuses to discuss her past? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 05:42 AM PDT My wife was born & raised in New York. She lived there until she was 18. At 18 she moved to California. She had a lot of abuse & trauma in New York but REFUSES to tell me what exactly went on. She said she just doesn't like to talk about it so I know nothing of what happened. She REFUSES to tell ANYONE she's from New York. She tells everyone she's from California because it's where she "found herself" It's just odd to me. When I dated her & found out she was from NY it didn't change my opinion of her but I felt lied to. How do I get her to open up about her past? I feel like as husband & wife we should be sharing EVERYTHING |
| Question: Changed my mind about last name change? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 05:36 AM PDT Hi all - I got married last month and the marriage license indicates I'll take my husbands' last name. I'm just curious if it's at all possible to change this now that we are married. I haven't officially changed it get (SS, DMV, Bank accts., etc.), but I think I'd really like to hyphenate instead. Is it possible to do this after-the-fact or do I have to change my last name entirely? |
| Question: My wife's fantasy is her and a women while I watch.? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 04:37 AM PDT I have been trying to put my wife of 3 years into the driver seat of our sexual experience in the bedroom, encouraging her to explore herself sexually and to try anything she thought would be a positive for her body or mind, well I finally broke down a wall after some log conversation and she admitted she wanted me to watch while she got busy with another women. As expected, I am all for this, mainly it's exciting seeing her breaking down her barriers herself and opening up about what really gets her going. Now we have a fantastic sex life, we both enjoy each other and have amazing sex, my only concern with adding a women (an on running thing wouldn't be out of the question) is that it could complicate things between us. Maybe I'm being a pessimist, but I really get scared at the idea of her falling in love with her or something to that affect and disrupting our relationship. Anyone have experience in this category? The advice I have read seems to point that we would be fine, both wanting it, supporting it, etc., however in practice it may not play out well. |
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| Question: Should I divorce my wife if she's pulled knives on me? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 04:06 AM PDT My wife grew up in a home with A LOT of yelling, screaming & emotional abuse. Every once in awhile, she becomes a monster for NO reason. It's random, I never know when it will happen & it's not often this occurs she just "snaps" During her "snaps" she will become rageful. She will throw things, destroy things in the home, shove me, she's pulled knives on me, threatened to kill me. Threatened suicide, she will leave for a day when she gets like this then for 2-3 days after wont be able to look at or speak to me. She keeps telling me she wants & needs help but I don't want to pay for her to see a shrink. We've tried medications ALL have made her condition worse, we've tried brain scans, we've tried counseling, we've tried rehab center. I feel like we've wasted all this money already on trying to get her help & nothing's helped. Frankly, I'm tired of it. I think it's her home she grew up in & not receiving ANY emotional support even NOW at 35 from her parents. She constantly tells me she just wants her parents to love her. I can't handle it much more! This only started happening a few years ago & maybe happens 3-4 times per year. ANY ADVICE? |
| Question: Feeling abuse mentally. I feel so vulnerable pls help.? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 04:05 AM PDT We been together 11 yrs, 5 years married. We have 2 kids 5yo and 3 yo. I was just a house wife, but the house was never clean enough for him, he always tell me the house not clean and that im lazy etc... i am so busy and my day from morning to night constantly doing something. When we talk, when i suggest something, he be telling me i have no common sense, im stupid and "zip it". I feel so low and days by days i feel so worthless. One day he asked me to pay the bill, i forgot and it was 1-2 days over due. I feel so scare but he found out, becuase the biller call him. He said to me " you are fickin useless" i cant rely on you for anything!! I felt so useless. I feel so alone cant do anything right. Then when i start to go to work, he accused me of cheating and we argued and i left with the boys. And ended up got back. This time he demand to see all my bank statements and he go thru my phone thinking im hidding things, i was so upset and left the house. Im living with my sister. But he sms me telling he sorry, forgive him, come back to him, the boys need their father etc... he explained it his fault but it make it happened. It is really my fauly?? I feel so much guilt. What have i done to deserve this?? Im booking in to see mental health nurse, but the appointment is so far away. Im going insanse. Will i get better? Im so worried abt my boys. I love them too.much, but are they too young to have no father?? What happen if i go back and not go back? Pls help. |
| Question: Hi everyone im 21 and need some advice plz. How do i cope with my husbands past? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 02:32 AM PDT Hi everyone. Im married for a year and a few months now and only yesterday i found out that my husband has had many many many sexual partners and did stuff that i would never do in my life. He said he was young and only wanted to break girls virgins. It was the 'thing' to do if you wanted to be in with the cool kids. He grew up in a small town. I have only slept with him and it means so much to me. I believe you get that special connection only once. Only with mr right. The one you marry. Plz help me cope with this. I love him sooo much but i just cant get over this. |
| Question: Wife wants divorce but still let's me have a relationship with the kids (my stepchildren)? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 02:24 AM PDT My wife and I separated 5 months ago. She filed for divorce which will be finalized in Dec.. She says that she has made the decision to move on and that it's not me it's her?? She is in financial trouble and knows that I can take care of all of that but refuses my help. I've tried to get her to let me back in and work on things but she says she's made her decision. What's so confusing is she still lets me see the kids (my stepkids) and have an active role in their lives. She will confide in me about many things but will not talk about us as it stresses her out. I love her deeply and we still have great conversations yet she doesn't want to be intimate or discuss the possibility of us staying married and being a family?? I'm very confused as we are in our late 40's and shouldn't be having these issues after being together for 3yrs and married 8 months?? |
| Question: My fiancee and soon to be wife doesn't want to take my last name? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 01:44 AM PDT We never discussed this when we were dating. We dated for two years. We should have discussed this before but we're getting married soon. She doesn't want to take my last name She also said that our children will have her last name because she wants her family legacy to carry on. She comes from a wealthy family. We had two huge arguments about this. What do I do? I believe in tradition and I believe she should take my last name and our children should get their father's name. |
| Question: Ex-wife intentionally triggers arguments? Posted: 26 Oct 2015 01:23 AM PDT We wete together for 17 years and have 2 kids together. She had an affair with a coworker, refused to participate in therapy, and divorced me to chase the guy. A year after the divorced, he dumped her. On occassion, we will do something together with the kids like go to a game that the kids have or something. She tells the kids that the reason we divorced was that we argued a lot nd couldnt get along. The only things we argued about were her seeing another guy and then, her wanting a divorce. So, now, when we do something together, everything goes pretty smoothly, but somewhere before the event happens, she wil intentionally say or do something to force an argument. As an example, yesterday, our son no longer wanted to be at the event and was complaining about it. My ex wife told him that i woukd leave the event and take him for a ride. I never said i would do that, but she committed to our kid that i would. Its like she wants to feed the perception that we divorced about aguing versus have a decent, fun day experience with the kids. If i redirect our son back to her and tell him that she came up with the idea for a ride, then she blows up at me. Why is that? How do i deal with these sorts of things? |
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| Question: I think i married the wrong man? Posted: 25 Oct 2015 11:23 PM PDT my ex called me out of the blue, and the sparks all but came back just hearing his voice. the kicker is he is on his second divorce right as i have become married. 13 years we have slipped past eachother except for a amazing 6 monthes. we had feelings for eachother in highschool but it didnt pan out then after his first marriage and a separation i had with my now husband we got together. but i worry now that i married the wrong man as he has never totally left my mind , nor I his. I told him today i wont do or say anything that is going to compromise the trust my husband and i have for eachother but I am so worried that im wrong right now. |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2015 11:07 PM PDT My husband asked me for a three some i wasn't sure but i asked a girl that was a friend the night we tryed it he started paying attion to both of us but then only her .i didnt really take it well so i left the room crying he they didnt stop!!!! But i pushed passed it and let that go. Three days later when i left to go to the store they had sex . didnt find out till she told me after he went to work. Im breaking down alot i been with him for eleven years. He says its my fault for not telling him he cant sleep with her by his self wtf. Did he cheat and what should i do im hurting so much |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2015 10:40 PM PDT is the only reason girls want to have kids is to trap they husband and if he tries to leave the relationship, the girl with get child support on him (btw, women don't spend it on kids) |
| Question: How do I know my marriage is over? Posted: 25 Oct 2015 10:19 PM PDT We barely have sex once in a month if so. Every free time he's gone to the garage to work on his hobby (mountain bike). We never go in a date or just have time for ourselves. Never. We have 3 amazing kids (13, 9, 2), but i hate the most is that he doesn't spend time with our children neither. The only time together is dinner and few breakfast on weekends. No passionate kisses, no hugs, never flirting with each other. Ugh. And to top it I stopped trying to rescue marriage or trying to make it work. He doesn't attract me anymore, I just don't want him to touch me anymore, I sometimes feel disgust toward him. I feel saf, we have been married for 15 years. Go to counseling? He doesn't even express any desire or clu that he'd be willing to do so. He just "escape " to his "cave" (aka garage) and ignore the situation. My heart is full of anger, frustration and desire of cheating on him. What am i doing sooo wrong? |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2015 09:56 PM PDT I live in WA. My husband of 4 years had an affair with a minor 1 /12 years ago! I've tried to divorce him 2 times with no luck because he doesn't respond or gets it thrown out for intentionally doing papers wrong! 8 months ago I met a man and am now having a baby with him! I contacted my (ex)husband and he said if I push the divorce on him, he will go after rights to the child (he can't even have kids), and try to take it from me and says because he is married to me and has rights! Its not his kid, we're not together, and I don't want him to do that! Can he do that or is he just blowing smoke? Also- I'm asking because I have heard of crazy things like husbands suing for a kid that was had during the marriage, or even dads finding out that they were paying child support for kids that weren't theirs! I don't know if situations can be reversed or if his inability to have kids could influence a judge or if anything could happen! I want to be a mom more than anything in the world and if he were to take that from me after all he has already done... We never had attorneys in the first place! *correction- suing for a kid that was had during an affair |
| Question: My wife left me and she is seeing another man. Im about to lose my mind. Help!? Posted: 25 Oct 2015 09:39 PM PDT So my wife and i were together for four years. She was kind of heavyset but then she lost tons of weight and she became a stripper in a high paid strip club. We have 3 kids together & i did cheat on her numerous times and while she was pregnant with our youngest 2. So she found out about this from my brother cuz he told her, being a hating a$$hole that he is. So she lost all this weight and got butt implants and started stripping & going to school for cosmetology. Fast forward a year later, she became even more distant. The same guy that was a regular customer of hers began spending thousands of dollars and taking her on sprees and taking her around. He bought her a car and he's freakin 10yrs older than her. He calls her all hours of the night while we were sleeping and texting her telling her how sexy she is and how he wants to eff her again in all these different positions and how he wants her to be his and this and that. Now she's living with him and apparently he's a millionaire and has tons of money and she's rubbing the fact that i cheated on her in my face. She and my kids are living in his six bedroom house and i saw the house on facebook and she's taking bikini pics in his pool and in his extravagant kitchen and their big fancy bedroom and living room. I just want my wife back. She filed for a divorce and says she's not coming back and she says she's happy.what should i do? |
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