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I have this friend who Iwe are very close to each other and are like brothers. Sometimes I feel like he treats me like I am his little brother. There are some examples that I have. The first one is that at first he encouraged me to start dating because he is a player and now he is telling me not to date non-christian girls. Yet he does not object to that when his other friends ask them to help them pick up girls. We go to the same church by the way. A second example is when ever we are around other people together everyone thinks we are related when we are not. Also one time when we went camping he did not let me go swimming until I finished my food. Then after that he took me to six flags for my birthday and I didn't have to pay and when the line was moving he was pushing me to go faster. Then another example is when on a Sunday he would not let me go home until I helped finished helping at church for an event I helped participate in. He also makes sure that i listen to my parents and sometimes he acts like a third parent to me. He is also stronger and taller than methan I am and if I don't listen to him he uses force like he flicks my under arm. I try to fight back but sadly I am weaker than him.

Hello! I'm in 10th grade and this girl who I didn't even know likes to call me Methuselah. The longest living person according to the bible. But, since I'm often mistaken for a much younger age I'm confused. Is she trying to call me Medusa and say I'm ugly or is she just to blind to realize that i look like I'm 14 even though I'm much older. Please help so I can properly respond her insult

I was wondering how much do I take. I have Medicine man black jaguar consternate. It is Bali 30x extract (500 mg each). Never done this stuff before and wanted to try it. How many is good to feel something? Please don't say don't do this stuff because it is legal and my choice. Thanks

When I was little, my parents walked around nude in the home and allowed me to be nude all the time too. Nothing ever sexual happened. At 8 years old, I asked my parents where babies came from. My parents showed me a cartoon called "Where Did I Come From?" Narrated by Howie Mandel. After the cartoon, my parents showed me a chart of the sexual anatomy. They showed me how the parts work with charts, told me about masturbation, what happens during arousal, and what orgasms were. I was shown a very romantic and normal adult film that didn't degrade the woman. They told me that our parts were special and made it very clear that I should never touch anyone or let anyone touch me without permission. My parents showed me what it looks like when they masturbate. My mom explained how to achieve an orgasm to me and I was able to from then on, on my own. I was also told that masturbating was an activity that shouldn't be done outside the home. From then on, my parents were very open about sex and masturbation. We would masturbate together and my parents would have sex openly in the home within my view. I'm also allowed to watch "approved porn" which only shows normal stuff and doesn't degrade women. No violence, gross stuff, or shows sex as a one sided activity. They've never touched me sexually or have ever asked me to touch them sexually. They have never made me feel uncomfortable ever. Has anyone else been brought up this way, or is it just me?

just say, this person is cheerful person, even with poor family background on him he s still able to smile and make someone else s smile as well.

I know it s too soon to move in as we ve only been exclusive since may....but he really wants me to move to his complex. We already don t live that far away from each other, like 10-12 miles. Why does he want me to move there?

my gf and i broke up and i sent her some text out of hurt and anger, calling her names several times and trying to reconcile several times, about a total of 20 text over a period of 2 weeks.she text me and said that she reported me to the police and told them i was harassing her. can i be arrested? I never threatned her in any way.

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl from Kentucky, and i am also graduating this year (A year early) and i ll be starting college in 2016. My Mom beats me up and kicks me out often even when I was pregnant (I miscarried however so no I don t have a kid). My boyfriend just turned 18. I always go stay with him. However, social services has received a report of the situation. My question is will I be able to go stay with my boyfriends aunt or my boyfriend, or would I be able to do the independent living program? I ask all of that considering all homes would get an "OK" before I live there.

Why when we treat people nice they walk on us and when we treat them as trash they respect us?? And why People we love, rarely loves us back ?? and why people we care about, they never care about us ?? And why people they only want you to compleiment them and they don't want to hear the truth??!!!!!!!!

Our parents divorced 9 years ago. He started dating his wife a couple of years after the divorce. My relationship with my dad has never been that strong. Personally, I feel he was a better dad to my brother than he was to me. I've felt like that since I was a little girl, before the divorce. After the divorce, I knew for sure he at least preferred my brother. I've always been indifferent toward my dads wife. My brother liked her. They moved in together, got engaged and set a wedding date while we were going to his house on weekends. Then our mom died after battling brain cancer. Two months later, despite my brother and I begging our dad to postpone, they got married. It's one of the worst days in either of our lives. There are no photos with us from the day, much to our dads disgust, because we were sobbing the whole day. We didn't smile or have fun and for me, it confirmed my dad didn't really care much about us. When we mentioned it at the time, he got angry and told us to stop being selfish. Things haven't been the same between my brother and my dad since either. We tend to avoid both him and his wife as much as possible. And we don't do "family time". I'm in counseling now (school counselor) and she suggested trying to understand my dads position and build our relationship. She said I can't hate him forever for putting himself and his wife first. I don't want to better my relationship with him. I want to move out in just over two years. My brother has already made plans to move in with one of his friends. He's been saving for almost a year now.

I'm 15 and I was doing an activity after school. I fell and hut my leg pretty badly. I was about to call my dad to pick me up; but, my teacher Mr. Davis said he would drive me home. He brought me home and explained to my dad how I got hurt. My dad is pissed that I got a ride from my teacher instead of calling him. He is not a stranger. Do you think it was wrong? I think it's because it was a male teacher that he's upset

So my boyfriends family is Swedish. Every year one of the kids after junior year, goes to Sweden and lives there for the summer with their family. This year my boyfriend is a junior, and hes going to Sweden. But his mom had invited me and his family welcomed me to come. I'll be 16 and he;ll be 17 when we go. This would be an amazing experience for me. I would be able to see how i do 'on my own' without really being on my own. I would love to experience another culture as well as meet my boyfriends family. This is an amazing opportunity becasue i can travel without paying for the fees of hotels and taxi rides, since id live with my boyfriends family. The problems are that im vegan. And im not sure what id eat for 3 months on my own, id need to plan ALOT.I can cook for the both of us, but if theres noting vegan to cook i cant really cook it.. But i mostly eat hummus anyways,, so if i could find humus id be fine. My boyfriend is also vegetarian. I also take alot of medicine, i have arthritis, One being a shot which i cant inject my self and id have to teach my boyfriend how to give me, and im pretty sure i could get a month supply if i order a head of time. I also havnt been on a plane in years (last time tsa game me a hard time for being only 12 with needles and a sharps box...). Im not sure how freaked out i would get now. Should i go? this seems like a very amazing experience and id love to experience Sweden!

I started working at the new company which is having social gatherings twice a month.Tehy usually go out to eat or such. I mentioned this to my girlfriend and she freaked out, telling me it would be unfair from me if i go since i see this people every day and that i should rather spend time with her. I do not think it is unfair and would like to go, but she wouldn't agree with me. What should i do?

Suddenly in the mid of night or around some time like that, I don't do it intentionally. I could not control it, I will have a urge to touch their breast and press them. Few times my wife was besides me and I was caught red handed. I molest irrespective of relation. Many times my wife and I had a huge fight regarding this, and some how she excused me. I have done this to her own sister and her relatives who are daughters / sisters to me. This time her anger triggered at peak and she is not willing to live with me. Infact, she hates me. I know all the fault is with me. But, I asked yesterday that I will be visiting a psychologist today and please help me to solve my behavior. She denied, she says even if you change, I don't want to live with you. But, I seriously don't want to loose my wife. I have taken appointment of psychologist. The receptionist told me to come evening. If my wife does not agree to stay with me, I will definitely commit suicide, but not in my living place. I don't know what to do? I don't have any one to talk and solve this problem. What to do? Can anyone tell me why I am doing like this?

Well only guys I don't like, seem to be interested in me. I only attract the scientist, computer, intellectual and shy/low profile type of guy-that i DON'T like, wouldn't date but never a higher profile guy (you know the business type of guys who dress well and have a decently/ high income, nice car, nice watch etc.) What's wrong with me? Should i change sth in myself? Do i need to pay more attention in my looks (makeup, diet, confidence etc)? Cause usually high profile guys have higher standards right? I know this may sound shallow but you only live once? So why should i lower my standards?

was so hurt that I left and tried to kill myself. I awoke a few days later in the hostpital with het by my side. I forgave her but have felt like the drug comes beforeme.

2 nights ago i went out drinking with a few friends from work. One of these friends happens to be a girl i know is really into to me. Anyways at the end of the night i ended up in her car and one thing led to another we made out and all and she ending up giving me a hickey. I had no clue that i had one till the next day my fiance questioned it. I told her maybe she did it or my neck was irritated. It wasn't a horrible hickey. But since then she has acted like everything is normal like i didn't have one but has made 4 different comments about the hickey. i know i did wrong by my fiance but is she in denial?

I bought at a yard sale that, if the guy was telling the truth, bought it for his daughter while she was in college, but she rarely used it and is graduating. Problem is, it isn't getting cold. I've read from many reviews that it doesn't get very cold, but this isn't getting cold at all. I'm hoping I didn't waste some precious money on junk. My whole family loves to drink water, so to be able to have a dispenser versus the gallon jugs would have been great. Is it possible for there to be a different way to turn down the thermostat on a bottom loading Primo? Or, where would I look to see if the girl lost the screw?

I'm 19 and I turn 20 next month. I feel really upset and depressed about it. I was hoping to gender swap from a guy into a girl before I turned 20. But that probably won't happen since I never talked to a doctor about this before or yet. I feel like I'm 12-13 years old right now even though I'm really 19 years old. I been stressing and upset and depressed because I don't wanna turn 20 years old. It would be nice if somebody can give advice that actually answers my question. And I'd give 10 points for anyone who can actually answer this question and not just leave random answers. Oops I forgot to refresh lol. I'm seeing a doctor next month anonymous so I am considering on asking. I made a anonymous question in the transgender section of yahoo answers but no one seems to be any help. They keep spamming me some random link. If anyone wants a link to the question leave it in your answer and I'll update my question. No one in that section is help they keep avoiding my questions and give me links to gender therapists so I guess I'll leave a link to my other question about transgender incase anyone is interested. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20151026183244AA0iNhy Actually if you read my entire question anonymous I turn 20 next month so it's kinda 2 late to start transition or seeing therapists about this before I turn 20 lol. But I hope to really get started before I turn 21 or 22 years old. I still perfer to be younger like 12-13 years old though. But I understand where your coming from.

A couple months ago I took in a cat into my tiny studio when I took her to the vet the vet confirmed that the cat was pregnant. I wanted to help her out so I let her stay and give birth to her letter. I found crate homes for them all but cabs the cat. I am not a cat person, but I felt like I needed to keep her for my girlfriend said she love this cat. The problem is that my girlfriend moved out of state for college and this cats behavior is not one that I like. She is a good cat, but I do not like cat tendencies. Since it is a small studio she does not let me sleep for she plays at night and goes on the window and messes the blinds up. I do not know what to do because my girlfriend does not want me to get rid of this cat even though she does not live here. She said she would break up with me if I got rid of the cat and gave her to a new family.

I graduated college in May of 2014, and I moved back with my mom to get a head start on my school bill. I was hoping my relationship would be better with her. We don't argue as often as we did, but when we do it's like it always has been. I have ADD, and Tourettes. It requires a little extra effort, but I don't take medicine for them anymore, because I function pretty well unless I'm around my mom. In middle and high school, I was convinced I probably had OCD and anxiety too. I would tell my mom and dad, because I met most everything on every check-list I came across, but my mom and dad never bothered to get it looked into because they didn't want to spend the money. My mom had depression, which has worsened after my dad died in 2010. She talks about not wanting to go on. She has a few people she talks to at work, but no friends who she gets together with. She never will go anywhere in public because she says she's fat and people will stare, and she's extremely pessimistic. When ever she talks about suicide or has a emotional breakdown, I try saying I want her to get help and encouraging her but she will just yell and me and say things like "oh, that's right! I'm a mental nutcase!" She also nags and yells at me A LOT, to the point where I'm looking to move move out. sometimes. And when I tell her that she'll say stuff like, "oh, that's right! Because your so much better off without me!..." In either case, sometimes when ever she yells at me, if I'm feeling mentally or physically tired from being so busy, I end up breaking down. Sometimes I will covered my ears and make humming noises to block her out until I know it's stopped and feel safe enough to walk back to my room, and on occasion I will bang my head on the wall. She always says I'm being disrespectful when I do this, and I'm honestly not trying too. I just can't handle being yelled at.... I can handle someone calmly constructive criticism, and explaining things to me. But not being yelled at. I don't get to that extent outside of home, but even other places, if someone tries snapping at me I will break down in tears or stay very quiet. Luckily, that doesn't happen often. I'm not sure if it's worth telling a doctor though, because for the most part I function totally fine when I'm not at home. I'm fairly sure I have seasonal depression too I have overcame cutting and.... and an eating disorder. This time of year I find myself fighting thoughts more, and having to put extra effort into motivating myself to stay healthy. I have several social outlets at work, church, and through volunteering, and well as a few close friends. If it wasn't for those things, I think I'd be giving into that stuff.... I have, however, noticed I'm rather quiet in big groups, and I don't really interact much if the group is too big and I don't know everyone... unless I"m working with grade school or middle school kids. I love working with kids this age. I'm gifted mentoring, teaching kids this age, and always have been. Also, in with how I respond to yelling, I have ALWAYS responded this way.

I graduated college in May of 2014, and I moved back with my mom to get a head start on my school bill. I was hoping my relationship would be better with her. We don't argue as often as we did, but when we do it's like it always has been. I have ADD, and Tourettes. It requires a little extra effort, but I don't take medicine for them anymore, because I function pretty well unless I'm around my mom. In middle and high school, I was convinced I probably had OCD and anxiety too. I would tell my mom and dad, because I met most everything on every check-list I came across, but my mom and dad never bothered to get it looked into because they didn't want to spend the money. My mom had depression, which has worsened after my dad died in 2010. She talks about not wanting to go on. She has a few people she talks to at work, but no friends who she gets together with. She never will go anywhere in public because she says she's fat and people will stare, and she's extremely pessimistic. When ever she talks about suicide or has a emotional breakdown, I try saying I want her to get help and encouraging her but she will just yell and me and say things like "oh, that's right! I'm a mental nutcase!" She also nags and yells at me A LOT, to the point where I'm looking to move move out. sometimes. And when I tell her that she'll say stuff like, "oh, that's right! Because your so much better off without me!..." In either case, sometimes when ever she yells at me, if I'm feeling mentally or physically tired from being so busy, I end up breaking down. Sometimes I will covered my ears and make humming noises to block her out until I know it's stopped and feel safe enough to walk back to my room, and on occasion I will bang my head on the wall. She always says I'm being disrespectful when I do this, and I'm honestly not trying too. I just can't handle being yelled at.... I can handle someone calmly constructive criticism, and explaining things to me. But not being yelled at. I don't get to that extent outside of home, but even other places, if someone tries snapping at me I will break down in tears or stay very quiet. Luckily, that doesn't happen often. I'm not sure if it's worth telling a doctor though, because for the most part I function totally fine when I'm not at home. I'm fairly sure I have seasonal depression too I have overcame cutting and.... and an eating disorder. This time of year I find myself fighting thoughts more, and having to put extra effort into motivating myself to stay healthy. I have several social outlets at work, church, and through volunteering, and well as a few close friends. If it wasn't for those things, I think I'd be giving into that stuff. But I have noticed I'm rather quiet in big groups, and I take a long time to open up, unless I"m working with grade school or middle school kids. Also, I have ALWAYS responded to being yelled at in this way

She told me that the reasons she wants to live in a gated community was to keep his kids out and so they can have their own children. The question is: Will her plan work? will it keep her step kids and step-grandkids away From what I heard it is for couples with children. Not age restricted, but with high security