Family: Question: My mother won't shut up about my grades?

Question: My mother won't shut up about my grades?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:26 PM PDT

I'm 16, and I have always struggled in math, ever since the 7th grade..... My mother and father still insist that math is my "strongest subject", even though I failed math in 9th grade and am failing now (11th grade) and in 10th grade I barely passed with a 71.6. I told my mother id bring up my grade by retaking a quiz, but i failed it again, so now she's saying im a "lazy stubborn ***" and is giving me the old shoulder.... she even canceled my therapist appointment because she said i was being "disrespectful" How do I get her to leave me alone? i am already in tutoring

Question: Socially isolated I feel depressed everyone treats me like **** & underestimates me. They tell me I can't do ****?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:21 PM PDT

I don't want to sound like a giant douche bag but I know that's what I can be from time to time. I feel for lack of a better term socially isolated. I'm 16 & once school is over I go to my bedroom & stay there until the next day while everyone else my age is either popping molly at a club in Chiraq or getting pregnant. I run my own business which I've been sucsseful at but I can't work up the confidence to call back I just email or text. My parents are divorcing & in bankruptcy so they're pretty negative. I don't want to ***** & moan but at school I feel enslaved. All the other kids throw text books at me, throw food at me etc. The teachers use me as a punchline for a joke. I don't have friends, I just stand in my room & answer emails,texts etc from my business. I don't feel any love, I wish i was trolling but the sad truth is I'm not. It seems all my associates are advancing getting checks & partying while I just stand here. I've never been to anyone's house who isn't related to me. I'm a pretty handsome person. I treat u with all the love & respect in the world why do u make me feel like ****! I just want to leave the Chi. At least give me the confidence to call back. I'm done with this BS, I only sleep 2hrs a day

Question: I think my cousin is hitting on me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:18 PM PDT

So I'll start by saying we're a very open minded family and were very realistic and we don't listen to titles much BUT growing up I experimented with 2 of my cousins (started at like 7 maybe) normal right? And I went all the way with one of them and we're still very close like nothing, (I was 16 him 17) all the time when we'd do things it was amazing I won't lie and then snapped back like nothing ever happened! But now I'm living with a different cousin (im now 20 he's 21) and I feel as if he throws little signals here and there, he's always saying sexual jokes towards me and tells me all about his sex life, when we were kids we made out a couple times and here's the woah part, a few months back he was going to show me this picture but as he was scrolling I saw one of my pictures I put on my snapchat story, of me in a bathing suit kinda provocative, and last night we did MDMA and we took it at 11 his dad leaves for work at 2 his moms out of town and we had the house all to our selves and I started telling him I was tired aroun 2 and he kept telling me to stay up but I couldn't, I went to bed around 3 and he texts me "it's sucks when you're on molly and horny" I was like "do your do or hang in there" he replied "I always wondered what head would feel like" And I cut of off there and said gn! Now he is attractive, a little thin haha but he's handsome and I feel as if he'd be very rough idk if this is weird to some to others not so much but what do I do?!

Question: Is my Mother depressed or just lazy?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:47 PM PDT

I'm 23 y/o my mother is 47 y/o. She raised me by herself with help from my grandmother(her mother). My mother never learned how to drive, owned her own place or even rented her own place, (we always lived with someone else) or held a job down for more than five years. She has only worked in retail/customer service. She is a certified Med Assistant, but does not put it to use. She has never been married and has dated off and on my whole life only having three real relationships that I can remember (the rest she likes to call them "friends"). She has been unemployed for Ten Years now! We have lived with my G.mother up until my mother left when I was in my senior year of H.S. Me & my G. Mother moved so it has just been us two for the past three years, about a month ago she has came to live w/ us as she calls it "temporary" but in the back of my mind I know it's for the long run bc she has no where to go and no money. She doesn't even try & when you try to tell her something she easily gets offended,defensive & shuts down. I have no privacy anymore but I feel bad for her. I just don't know what to do or how to help her. Any advice or similar situation thank you.

Question: Was that creepy?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:45 PM PDT

my godmother get divorce in this summer and now found a new boyfriend . I saw it today and it seemed slightly creepy so I looked at his facebook. in the Profile read that he does not have children and she is single.we drank tea all together, then i think that he is a fun. my mother and godmother went to smoke so I was left alone with he. He started to ask my age and in what grade i tell that I'm 12, he said that he got same age daughter, that did not read in hes facebook. Then he came up and stroked my thigh until my aunt and my mother came outside.i tell my mother, but she did not believed me.can somebody say was that something strange?

Question: Am I actually grounded or am I not?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:43 PM PDT

I told my parents that my friends were planning on going to the park after school today to smoke weed and that they invited me to go with them. I also told my parents that I didn't want to go with my friends and smoke, but I didn't want them to think that I'm a loser. My parents told me, "Just tell them that you're grounded and can't go out today. Blame it on us."I thought they were just giving me an excuse, but then they took my phone and lectured me about how irresponsible I was being to even think about going to the park with my friends. So am I actually grounded or are my parents just giving me an excuse?

Question: I feel like my mother favors my younger sister more than me why?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:12 PM PDT

I always question this I'm 20 and one of my little sisters is 17 and this has been going on for a while now and I halve no clue why. I'm a good daughter like I do everything foready my mother especially since my father just passed not to long ago but she let's my younger sister do whatever I mean whatever let's her spend the night over friends/boyfriend house with no questions but with me it's a no always a know and yeah I'm 20 almost grown still getting treated like a child! I will admit I'm a bit jealous and now she's trying to go to college and my mother is helping her with her fasa but would REFUSE to help me and now I've been talking about moving out on my own and she says no she doesn't want me to go she's going to be lonely I have other younger siblings in the house also WHY DOES SHE DO THIS TO ME? ?

Question: I m starving???

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:48 AM PDT

it s been 1 day and a half since I ve eaten something. Well tbh,i had a banana yesterday. My adoptive parents are cruel,they treat me as an animal and they barely feed me.Yesterday I said that I m hungry and they threw the plate containing food on the wall next to me and told me to eat the food off the floor. Whenever I call the police, they sneak their way out of it.They use reports claiming that I have psychic disorders and that I m mentally stable. (I ve had some incidents and meltdowns in the past) My adoptive parents say that they try to feed me but I refuse to (?) They are also friends with the sheriff which makes things worse One year ago I stayed without food for 2 days until my friend brought me food to the school. I swear Idk what to do and I m too embarrassed to ask my friend for food . they don't allow me to .Also all they eat is fast food so their fridge is empty most of the time

Question: If I put my little brother in the garbage can and put the lid on tight, can he breathe?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:20 AM PDT

I put something heavy on the garbage can too. he's 3.

Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:15 AM PDT

my mom gets home soon and my school called to tell her that I skipped class. my teacher is the only one who knows the details. i can't tell my mom i skipped to go smoke, she'll kill me. she won't even try to talk to me, she'll just yell. i'm ******* screwed, idk what to do

Question: Family don't trust me. Help?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:02 AM PDT

I'm 19 and my family don't trust me, they try and force me to do things and putting guilt trips on me.. I hang out with friends and they stalk me to see if I'm doing good because they hate me being out.. I try and get a job but they keep forcing me to get a job that is something I can't do.. Any advice on what I can do? I want to just have a life without having them guilt tripping me and making me feel bad about myself

Question: My mom never sees how much I do. What do I do about this problem?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:50 AM PDT

I'm 17 years old, my mom's first born, am home schooled, and graduate in June. I do a lot. I help my mom out by babysitting my siblings (2 5-year old, and an 11-year old). I do a lot more schoolwork than average so I can graduate earlier, I haven't had a summer at all, and have done about 5-9, and sometimes 11, hours a day. I babysit for 2-6 hours on average. I have to make sure the kids don't fight, they have their stuff done, make them food, make sure they clean up, and send to the corner when needed. The younger boy still has accidents, and sometimes I have to clean him up. I have to do all this, and do my big load of schoolwork. Then, I plan to have a job. She says negative things about my babysitting, like the house is a "mess." The only things left out are things the kids are currently using. I plan to attend college online. She says that when I'm in college, I'll be doing a lot more than I do now. It hurts, because I did 3 months of super intense school, and 1 month, I was doing 7-13 hours a day. College is not going to be 13 hours long, especially online. After this, I am still willing to watch the kids, even though I'm worn out. She home schools me, has given me love, and has strived to make sure my needs were met. I respect her for that, but it just hurts that she doesn't grasp that I do so much. I think one reason she expects do much from me is because I'm her firstborn, and I have no idea when I'm moving out. I've tried talking to her, but it never works out.

Question: I can't go one day without worrying about my little brothers health!!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:48 AM PDT

My Little brother is 16 and my parents think he is going to be fine, but I always worry about what he does! He plays video games a lot, he plays on his IPhone a lot, he eats snacks and sugary cakes and stuff when he is hungry! He doesn't eat anything healthy like fruit or vegetables! He doesn't drink water! He doesn't floss his teeth very often, and he stays up late all the time, even on school nights! I'm not allowed to remind him to do more healthy stuff because my parents said that I have to leave him alone because it's not normal to be worried about my brother like I am! I want him to be healthy, but I don't think he is very healthy! Is he fine? Am I worried too much? Do a lot of teenagers do this? Please help! What can I do? I'm stuck! Should I just let him live the way he wants to? Answer

Question: MATH ISSUE...help?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:28 AM PDT

I've always been a visual learner. I've also always been homeschooled. In the last 3 years my family has tried 4 programs, all online. My family found one that works perfect for me! I've always hated math, because its really confusing for me, like, when I'm in a job interview, are they going to ask me some complex formula in order for me to get the job? NO, So why have it? Anyways. I just hate math. This year It was going better, I didn't hate it so much. About day 3, I didn't understand anything, so my mom put me back a grade (only in math). And it was going great until today, I don't understand a thing, even though I'm pretty sure I learned this last year and I'm already behind a grade, its an audio of a person explaining it, and I just don't get it, but the second that my mom puts it on paper, I immediately understand. I don't want to switch programs because this one is working in everything else. My family doesn't have the time to take an hour or two, just to go through my math lesson, that I've already been through in audio. What should I do?

Question: Man dreaming of a baby?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:41 AM PDT

Last night I dreamt I had a baby, not really an infant he was probably a few months old or so. I was in my kitchen of my parents house with my girlfriend and I was just holding him and playing with him. He kept grabbing my hair and he had big blue eyes, it's strange but I felt really happy the entire time. I don't want kids anytime soon, so what could this dream mean? The entire dream felt so real and I could even see his facial features. His light blue eyes seem really strange to me because I've never dreampt of anyone have any eye color other than brown (which I have also) for some reason. Although my gf has blue eyes, So could that mean anything? I'm a guy and I've never thought about having kids so this is all so strange.

Question: I am so angry at my parents for restricting me from seeing family they are at odds with, how do I get over this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:39 AM PDT

My mother and her sister are at odds and I am a kid so I am not allowed to go see my cousins due to the friction. It has been two years now. How can I get over this? I miss out on my uncle's family to because of this. I should add I am not yet old enough to just go over myself.

Question: My mom insisted and gave me a quick kiss even after I refused when I was 11 or so, should it bother me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:36 AM PDT

My mom kissed me on my lips even after I refused when she insisted, I was a kid at that time, probably under 11 or so and she didn t force me, so when I slowly came forward I said eeww as soon as my lips just touched her s & after that she never asked or insisted again, I m in my 20 s but it still bothers me because why did she wanna do it at the first place even when I refused, I reminded her about this a few days ago and she said that it s normal for moms to give a quick peck on the lips when your a kid, should it bother me? Is it normal for moms to give a quick peck on the lips to her kids?

Question: Good way to calm myself from being angry?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:25 AM PDT

So, everyone in the family from my dad's side tends to have a short temper, only my dad in his family has seemed to try and work on his anger issues but its still bad. My little brother and I are getting the same habits of having a short temper. Although I get angry, I never express it so I am often just holding it in most of the time, and I feel like it's unhealthy. Is there a way to relax myself from situations like this? And is there a way to prevent getting angry too often? Please help, it's getting me sad knowing most of the family, (including my 6 year old brother) is like this.

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Posted: 14 Oct 2015 08:28 AM PDT

Question: Why does my dad want me to fail?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 08:18 AM PDT

My dad is the type of person that if he said that the sky is "purple" and if you said back to him that its actually blue!. He will get really anrgy , curses you , beats the s**t out of you and then he will want you to apologize and move on and the next day he will demand you to smile and act like he didn't shove your 18 year old female head into a door.My dad wont let me continue my last 2 years of highschool although I'm already 18 and I'm not getting any younger but he doesn't want to pay for it although he can absolutely aford it but he is not a fan of reaching to his wallet..I feel like my dad wants me to fail so he can forever feel superior to me but I just don't understand that need. He wants me to go back to my old school who is full of close minded and racist students+teacher they don't even teach that much in english because its not an American based school because I'm from another nationality I'm an outcast plus i became depressed and i have anxiety+ BDD and I'm very suicidal..I'm thinking of dropping out and sitting still at home like a wall untill God takes me. Note i live in ksa not USA.

Question: My mom doesn't love me HELP?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 08:13 AM PDT

Im 18 and i grew up with my grandma so and met my mom at age 6. Middle school was fine, we went shopping, spend time together, i was happy. Now its horrible, she never cooks, or cleans, or drives me anywhere (i dont have a car or license), she doesnt talk to me only yell, im a good student so i dont know whats wrong with her. She is single and smokes and drinks. Its not fair because I deserve better. It breaks my heart to live like this. She spends money only on herself and we end up having no food. She doesnt buy me anything only my brother who she raised.

Question: Is this child abuse?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 08:10 AM PDT

Ok so I'm not dwelling on the past this is for educational purposes only but anyway. Ok so my stepmother has been in my life since I was almost 7 ( I'm 20 years old now) and well she acted like a very nice person when she went to visit me and my dad in Texas, but when we moved in with her in Indiana she was terrible for example she constantly belittled me and was putting me down just because I didn't outgrow Barney and Dora the explorer until I was 10 1/2. Everytime something bad happened to me she'd tease me about it for example when I was trying to make a cake I had accidently burned it and she was saying "What smells like it had scorched" in a rude voice looking for an exuse to make fun of me to my face. One time when I was in cheerleading in 5th grade she took pictures of me cheering even though I didn't know the cheers they do at the school I went to at the time because they teach us the cheers at school and said that I don't have what it takes to be a cheerleader. If she was angry about something she would always take it out on me and her son by yelling at us. So are any of the things I mentioned abuse if so which one and there's more to go around but I'll just leave it at that.

Question: Where mr.Putin's granddaughter?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 07:58 AM PDT

Question: Why is my life like this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 07:55 AM PDT

Let's see I failed 4 classes and I don't know how then the counselor or principal don't even try to help just say go back to class tf then at home my mom is such a ***** she always picking with me that's why I'm always in my room laying down thinking maybe if I stay in my room she won't mess with me but she still then at school it's always these certain group of boys that's always picking with me which don't make it even better then I got put out at my grandma house cause I missed one day of school and had to stay with my mom while she say she choose her husband over me then at my job they barely give me any hours barely can pay my cell phone cause I have to pay for bus fair and my mom ask for money! That's why I'm not going to the fair some times I ask my self is it all worth it to even be here I been going through stuff since I was little and I'm so tired I feel like nobody try to help me I just want to end it all that's why I have suicidal thoughts that's why I'm so angry all the time I feel like I can snap at any moment just want to die! Boys don't make it any better either always judging all the same I can talk to somebody for a year they still wouldn't want me still wouldn't put me in their bio talk to me any type of way and I still would come running back I guess cause I'm stupid my mom always said I was stupid and ugly I guess I'm just starting to believe... please excuse my grammer

Question: How do you deal with a 15 yr old daughter who is verbally abusive?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 07:46 AM PDT

Question: What is wrong with my mother I don't understand her?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 07:37 AM PDT

when I was a little boy she would never let go outside and she would shout at me call me a weirdo and say she wish she never had me 7 years she tried to push my sister down the stairs when my sister was pregnant and she told my sister she hoped that child died and she has always put me down there this guy his name is Steven he lives next door to my mom ever time my mom seen me talking to him she would make up lies and tell me he use to bullys me when we were younger that's a lie she sent me to a school a few mile away so would not make any friends and she told my best friend I have antisocial disorders he told me he googled the symptoms and I don't have any she was arguing with my sisters and she rip up all the photos of her grandchildren daughters. she chucked me out because I got a job then later on she got the police to my friends house then my dads house and a year ago I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone my mom asked me who I was talking to I told her its my GF then a minute later she scream jay are you talking to yourself again and my niece told me she seen my mom up at the shops she said she tried to talk to her and my mom walked right by her. I am living with my dad the now and I am happy my dad is normal my mom is a weirdo she hasn't got any friends. I am dyslexic but she tells I have more problems I have ask my dad and him and the rest of my family told me she is a liar my sister are never going to talk to her again and I don't care if I see her again BTW I am 19 I am living with my dad my mom throw me out becase I think she does not want me to move she wanted me to be a sado living and looking after when she get old she is a sick twisted human being

Question: Does this make me rude?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 06:53 AM PDT

So I call my step dads parents by their first name and not nan and grandad, even though they've been there since I was five. My other sister calls them nan and grandad and so does my step sister. Once I accidently called her 'nan' and she looked really happy, but then corrected myself and said "sorry, I meant Karen*". She told me it was okay to call her nan. But to me it just doesn't feel right. I love her a lot, but I just can't bring myself to call her that. Does that make me sound rude? I don't want to offend her. I'm 20 now, but do you think she minds me calling her by her first name? *Not her real name.

Question: My dad doesn't really care?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 06:21 AM PDT

So, I live with my mom. My dad lives in a different state, and he sends money regularly. But the thing is, I don't think he really cares. He rarely talks to me. I visit him a couple of times a year, and when I'm there he's nice and all. I should mention that I was raised without him. I was 3 or 4 when he left. Point is, he didn't raise me. So the question is, why doesn't he care? I mean, I know he loves me, it's just kinda weird. It doesn't make sense.

Question: How can I explain to my H that when HE volunteers 4 something, that he shouldn't expect ME to do it for him after I told him I'm not helping?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:59 AM PDT

Question: How would you handle kids breaking or destroying toys on purpose?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:55 AM PDT

Ok so I had a cousin break an action figure I had given him when I was a teenager and had to give my toys away to him and his sister ( He was only 4 years old at the time and I think he broke the toy on purpose because he was acting very careless about the offense and I've seen him break a door on purpose before). I think that breaking things out of anger or carelessness is disrespectful not only to who ever had to pay for the toy.... think of all the children in this world who don't have toys to play with and some other misbehaved little brat is destroying them. Now breaking toys out of anger because of abuse is one thing but it's another thing for a child to break toys just because they don't care about the toy. So I was thinking that if they break their toys on purpose I was thinking of taking the toys away that are not broken and have them play with the broken toys or taking the toys away and giving them to children who deserve them, or if it's like a week away from Christmas to tell them that Santa Clause doesn't give toys to children who don't take care of their things. So how would you deal with behavior like this?

Question: HAS ANYONE ELSE GONE THROUGH THIS!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:54 AM PDT

Im pregnant and the father of the baby (my now ex) wants nothing to do with me or the baby. He has a 2 year old son already that he loves more than anything n still is in love with the baby mother. He always wants to be in their lives but nothing to do with us. Im 23 years old and lost my job a month ago and still cant find one. Idk what to do im so stressed out depressed and have anxiety. I also have no family to help me through this. I feel so lost and heartbroken i feel like im gonna have a breakdown. If anyone else went through this situation also especially with the babys father what was the outcome like?

Question: My fiance's mom hates me.?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:26 AM PDT

I've done nothing wrong for her to dislike me. Her daughter got in trouble she blames me for it. It's been a year.

Question: Should I talk to my mother again?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:07 AM PDT

when I was a little boy she would never let go outside and she would shout at me call me a weirdo and say she wish she never had me 7 years she tried to push my sister down the stairs when my sister was pregnant and she told my sister she hoped that child died and she has always put me down there this guy his name is Steven he lives next door to my mom ever time my mom seen me talking to him she would make up lies and tell me he use to bullys me when we were younger that's a lie she sent me to a school a few mile away so would not make any friends and she told my best friend I have antisocial disorders he told me he googled the symptoms and I don't have any she was arguing with my sisters and she rip up all the photos of her grandchildren daughters. she chucked me out because I got a job then later on she got the police to my friends house then my dads house and a year ago I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone my mom asked me who I was talking to I told her its my GF then a minute later she scream jay are you talking to yourself again and my niece told me she seen my mom up at the shops she said she tried to talk to her and my mom walked right by her. I am living with my dad the now and I am happy my dad is normal my mom is a weirdo she hasn't got any friends. I am dyslexic but she tells I have more problems I have ask my dad and him and the rest of my family told me she is a liar my sister are never going to talk to her again and I don't care if I see he again

Question: What should i do with my 17 year old brother?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:41 AM PDT

He s become a peepingtom within his family by putting a camera under the door to take pictures and videos of family memebers. we ve tooken his phone away the first time one year ago amd now he uses his 3DS camera for this time which we also convinscated it. A regular punish wont work since he doesn t do anything but go to school and plays Xbox. We now are keeping him off all technology but it doesn t bother him. What can we do to fix the problem, not to mention he s gay so he only has peeped on male members of the family. if you have any idea of what we could do to him to make sure he never do this again im open ears please help.

Question: Am I going to hell?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:09 AM PDT

(I'm a female, 14 years old) I hate myself and I think I don't deserve love in any kind of way because I did a terrible thing. My mom and I argued about a thing. She said I had to clean the bunny cage but in that moment I said "wait a minute" because I was watching a show on tv. So she got irritated so I finally got up to go and clean it. On my way to the bunny cage to clean it she got up from the couch and she went to my room and took my computer (I hadn't used it in mouths) and she went back to me and smashed it into the floor right in front of me. I became so mad so I pushed her so she fell to the floor and I kicked her 3 times and then went to my room crying. I regret it so much! I don't know if this has had an impact on me but my mom and dad have been abusive with each other. I remember them fight (literally) and I feel to my knees screaming "stop". I could have been between 5-8 years old. And I don't think my mom loves me because she has "mentality abused" as long as I can remember. But I'm Christian so please all the Christians out there can you answer my question. Will God send me to hell? (sorry if my English is bad)

Question: Can I use GoFundMe if I want to raise money for our family during this hard time? Is it illegal to use it for personal things?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:24 AM PDT

Has anyone heard of Go Fund me? I see alot of people asking for donations to pay things like, meical expenses after a terrible accident, college fund, or other big stuff like that. My family and I are going through the roughest financial patch of life EVER. Things have been tight before, but not like this. I feel like we are just behing on everything, which we have NEVER been before. My daughter is sick with neurological issues, and I have been out of work, while only my husband works. We are just in such a hard time I feel desperate to pay the bills around here and do needed things for myself and my family. I don't EVER ask for anything, which is why it is incredibly humiliating to even ask this question. But I feel like its my last resort. I do not want our family home taken because I couldn't pay bills, and because im not working because of my daughters special medical needs at the moment... I just feel deperate. What can I do? Could I use Go Fund Me? Will I have to use my real name if I did use it, just to save face could I use a fake name? And is it wrong or anything to use Go Fund me just out of complete hopelessness and need, even if its not for something just like a college fund, but a family trying to make it? I just wonder if this is something we could try, to maybe help pay our mortgage, and be stable just for a moment... Everything seems terrible right now. I don't want to do anything wrong. I just need help. Anyway thanks for any input, its helpful.

Question: I got my phone taken 7 months ago&got it back a week ago i smoked&got it taken again my dad said i cant ever have it back how do i get it?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:10 AM PDT

yes i realize it was wrong and i was blackmailed to do it

Question: My dad is a ******* *** hole that only knows how to gamble and drink. What do I do? Please help?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:42 AM PDT

I'm a 17 year old girl , leaving with my mom and an asshole. He has a bad temper, he does work but he gambles almost all his ******* money and he's a ******* heavy drinker. He thinks he's the ******* boss in our family ,ordering me and my mom to do stuff for him, he doesn't even washes his plates or cup after he eats or drink, he always leaves every **** for me and my mom to clear it up for him.He treats us more like slaves instead of family. Oh and all he knows to do at home is sleep,eat,**** and bet over football games, and when he loses his match his ******* temper comes and he starts yelling and shouting and shows his *** temper at me and my mom. Oh,and he gambles and drink when he's outside and he almost made our family ******* broke, now he has a bunch of loans to clear and he's bank account is probably empty. And he has an affair with a woman outside, which ******* hurts me to see my mom tolerating this asshole that never had feelings for his family. I'm tired of him and want to move out with my mom but I cant yet because I'm only 17 and still schooling and do not have the time to work as a part-timer as im having my major exams this year and also next year(which decides whether or not I get to go to university,so it's really important for me to focus on my studies),but I really really really am tired of this ***. I can't even force myself to call him my dad right now, I'd rather say Im from a single mother family. Please help me? I really dont know what should I do..

Question: How can i stop my shyness ?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:38 AM PDT

I have been shy and have bad anxiety since I first started school I always had a bad time making friends I'm 18 now out of highschool and I was watching a show where they had to do a music video and a girl had to pretend she was a shy insecure girl who eventually came out to be a strong confident women. In some parts she played she did look very shy and scared while everyone around her was having fun and being outgoing. Then she eventually came out of her she'll and was happy and it made me feel weird for some reason..any advice?

Question: How should i feel?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:49 AM PDT

was using the restroom one day when my mother in law walked in right when i whipt out my dick she jus froze up lookt at it then screamed and closed the door now i always catch her looking down at my bulge

Question: Am i being abused?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:24 AM PDT

My brother always makes me feel worthless and makes degrading comments to my body such as calling me fat and ugly. He is 19 and i am 16. He is very violent and has trouble controlling his anger so much so my parents fear he will get us kicked out of our apartment but will still not do anything about it. They just always respond in a way that it is my and my sisters problem and says he is fine. He physically scares me so much i don't want to leave my room. He harrases me about everything but does one thing a month for the family and is violently angry about it 9 times out of 10. a few months ago he screamed "**** YOU " so close to my face that his spit got on my cheeks IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER. She refused to take me to the doctor with her that day and left me crying on her floor. he received no punishment. My dad also calls me a ***** a lot and flipped me off last week because he i took a shower when he wanted to use the restroom and then replied angrily you people make me mad and then get upset when i'm pissed. My mother also yells at me a lot as well but nor as bad as them just mostly ignores me when i ask to be treated better or responds angrily that im stressing her out. Also i should add that both my parents a very ill and i have been responsible for helping take care of them and do most of the work around the house which they usually act like i do nothing. Also whenever i get sick im faking and get yelled at when i can not preform as usual.thank you

Question: How do I convince my mom to let me post my pictures on instagram?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:11 AM PDT

I used to use instagram, but then my mom found out and she deleted all of my pictures. I really want to use instagram but she won't let me. x( I'm sixteen. Please, someone, tell me what do i do. Tell me that how do i convince her..

Question: Would it be weird if I hugged my Spanish teacher?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:59 AM PDT

I'm 16 & a girl and she's like at least 45. I really need a hug because I don't get them from anywhere else. I cried in front of her which was semi-super embarrassing but I've been having a hard time w/ my life lately. I just want to know if this would be weird? Awkward? How do I do this? I just need love!!!

Question: My dad's going away for 6 months?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:52 AM PDT

Long story short, my parents got divorced 3 years ago, I stayed with my dad. We finally got to an excellet father-son relationship and today he tells me he's going to another country for 6 MONTHS. I finished high-school and this'll be my first time truly relying only on my self. How do I prepare for something like that in such short notice?

Question: Guilt is killing me!!!!!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:49 AM PDT

Help, I was sitting in my couch when I accidentally dropped my brother's phone into the sofa (the part where you put your hand on)... The phone was deep inside an area where no hands would be able to grab it.... I spent about 2 hours using butter on my hands to make it slippery enough to enter the area where, I dropped the phone.. But it didn't work... I was so angry I got a knife and cut the leather sofa and pulled out the phone.. not realizing that I just cut my leather sofa open!! I haven't told my parents yet but I feel really guilty.. to the point that I can't sleep at night.. Should I tell my parents n get it over with or wait till they find out I ruined their expensive leather couch?? (I put another chair right next to the sofa so they wouldn't see the cut)

Question: My brother used to abuse my cat and now he feels bad about it.Should I forgive him?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:32 AM PDT

I don't talk to my brother anymore because last year, I caught my brother abusing my cat Eva (when she was just a kitten) multiple times. Once I came home from school earlier than usual and found my kitten in the washing machine because of how loud she was crying while the water was running on her (he was the only one in the house before I came and he didn't know I would be home at that time). He's punched my cat so hard she screamed in a way that I've never heard before, pinched her eyes shut, held her nostrils for so long so it would not be able to breath, spit on her face, and other things that I just can't get into. It was traumatizing to see and I'm still very,very angry at him. That day I found Eva in the washer I punched my brother in the nose because I was so angry and I knew it was him. I know it was not right for me to do that but I was so mad and felt like he needed to feel the same way he made Eva feel. Sometimes I can't help but cry when I think about what he put her through. Now that he's stopped, he's been apologizing to me and has made it pretty clear that he feels bad about it but I'm still angry. I didn't even talk to him on his birthday when he turned 16. Am I being too harsh on him? I feel so guilty for Eva I feel like it's my fault :/

Question: How can I deal with a drug abusing family member who wont listen?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:15 AM PDT

My brother is on all kinds of drugs and constantly causes trouble for us, we tell him and lecture him but he s gotten to the point of no return and can t even focus on anything that s said to him. My grandma is in a lot of pain and distress because of him and I can t deal with it anymore. How can I legally get rid of him if he has no other family that will take him?

Question: How to cut out my cousin of my life?

Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:02 AM PDT

So I have this cousin. He's 10 years older and I used to look up to him as a kid till I was about 12. I'm 16 now and I used to hang around him till he started ditching me for his friends. I understand that he's busier now and rather be with his adult friends instead of a teenager like me. I understand, though it hurts a little honestly. I'm used to people leaving my life but trying to let him go is the hardest. What should I do to feel like I don't need him or to basically kick him out if my life? We have each other on social media though. I want to be able to grow up and not depend on him. I don't want to linger to his influence if he won't even bother making time for me, his own cousin.

Question: Does my mom think I'm weird?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:18 PM PDT

Ok, well I love doing creepy,crazy, gory and just weird makeup. Especially for Halloween! So I'm putting all these bruises and stuff on my face for a cool Halloween picture for Instagram plus its fun to put on and it looks really cool. When i came out to the living room she goes "what are you doing?" I said "putting makeup on my face for Halloween" and she gave me this weird like wtf type look..... Now I'm starting to think she thinks I'm crazy or weird... Do you think I am?...... I know alot of people that do fx makeup as a job....

Question: If i talk to much to a brother of me, why does another brother get jelous of me and the other brother other nother?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:49 PM PDT

Question: How can I even look at them?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:33 PM PDT

So I walked in on my parents. They were having sex, but I didn't know that. That door was closed and I knocked because I wanted to ask them if the would wanna run with me. I thought they would be asleep. That's why when I heard no answer I went in. Anyways I went in and they weren't under the covers. My mom was completely naked and my dad was too and he was eating her out!😷 he had her "fluids" all over the bad and in his hair. My mom was just like biting her lip . but when they saw menthe dint know what to do. I stormed out fast as **** I'm only 15 and I went for a run . when I get back they want to talk. I'm at my friends but when I get home tomorrow my mom wants to talk. She a teacher at a middle school and and my dads a cop. What am in supposed to do??????

Question: Do my parents deserve to be abandoned?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:00 PM PDT

Ever since I was young, my parents have verbally abused me a lot for the slightest problems. They are overly emotional, over-reactive, neurotic, controlling, verbally/emotionally abusive and called me tons of degrading names. They verbally abused me just for personal gain of power. They would start unnecessary, useless fights with me then when i angrily attack back, they blame it on me. This is bullying. Now I'm 20 and I'm still getting yelled at every single day. It is so bad that I can't even stay in the same room with them without being yelled at for the slightest reasons. I've tried everything with them. I've threatened to abandon them multiple times during my teen yrs. It only worked for a few months then they start the abuse all over again. I feel like i would grow white hairs and have high blood pressure in a few yrs if i continue to live with them. Do you think I should just leave them after when i graduate from college next yr and never see them again? they do love me, its just they'e wayy too annoying to live with. im really sick of them

Question: Should I talk to my brother ans sister?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:56 PM PDT

So basically my brother and sister smoke weed. As for I, I do not. The reason I don't ever talk to them is because they are drug addicts. They drink and smoke weed 24/7. I guess the reason for not talking to them is because I don't need people like that in my life. I want to live a clean free life. I know they're bro and sis but I don't respect them. Is this bad? Should I talk to them?

Question: Why is my dad such a jerk?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:38 PM PDT

My dad used to be so nice and we had fun together but now whenever I talk to him I feel like he hates me. He always has a mean tone and is on the verge of yelling and when I get to important conversations he freaks out and has to explain every detail and then tries to teach me a lesson but it always turns into an argument and he is always in a terrible mood and is just a jerk... Any advice?

Question: My dad nice one minute then mean out of nowhere?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:35 PM PDT

Tonight I was getting ready to use the bathroom I had to poop but there was not a bag in the trash can soo I told my dad I wud get one soo I went and got one and I got yelled at for getting the wrong bag for it then it slowly escalated in to him yelling at me for my daughter crying then for empty laundry soap bottle well I get out of the bathroom my dads still slamming doors I told him too stop and I was sorry I had too feed my daughter still and my sister ended up goin and buying more laundry soap soo our dad wud stop yelling I jus dont get it he was soo nice when he got home from work today telling me he loved me and playing wit my daughter then jus started yelling tonight I kno work is hard on him right now jus anything sets him off tho like one minute hes all loveing then jus gets mad

Question: How to find a mentor?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:08 PM PDT

I am a female, 16 and a junior in high school. I don't know how to find some to mentor me. I woule love for the person to have same interests as me. Like i would love going places and etc. i would love for this person to show me how to get in industry as a model. I want someone not that much older than me to be like my big sister and help me along the way. I have a older sister but don't share the same interests and i rather have a mentor who isn't much older than me and can help me with anything. How can I find a mentor?

Question: Do you think people will always love their child's mother/father?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:56 PM PDT

Do you think no matter what all people will always have feelings for the person they had a child with. It seems like almost every time this topic comes up people say oh they're your child's mother/father you will always love them. But I have a 5 year old with an ex and have no feelings for him at all. He even got married less than a year after we split and I felt no jealousy, etc. But I hate hearing people say that, because my boyfriend (who I have 1 child with and another on the way) has 2 kids from a previous relationship which ended close to 4 years ago, and it took him time to get over wanting to get back with her, even though the break up was mutual because they were always fighting and she is money hungry, but I'm not sure if it was her or because he missed his kids he barely got to see after they broke up. I don't want to start thinking he still loves her.

Question: How do i sell this house & get my grandma in a nursing home?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:49 PM PDT

My grandma has dementia. She is an alcoholic, and she has become a danger to herself and society. she drives drunk to and from the liquor store numorous times a day. She recently got into a car wreck because she was driving drunk and so she hasnt had a way to get liquor. When she has withdrawals like this, she starts having seizures. I dont know what to do because when she gets money back from her car, shes just gonna buy a cheap car and more liquor and hurt herself more or keep having seizures. I decided the only way to help her is to put her in a nursing home. But she refuses to go because she doesnt think she has a problem at all. She has been hospitalized 5 times over the past few years from hurting herself while having a seizure and id much rather her spend the rest of her life in a nursing home than jail because she killed some one driving drunk. She has a house that she owns and there is about 122,000 left on the mortgage so how can we sell the house and get her into a nursing home in the most discreet way. She will not listen to reason. She thinks she is perfectly fine. She will never admit she drives drunk or that she buys liquor or that we cant pay bills because thats where all her money goes to. Also she is taking medication, and i know her mixing it with alcohol is not good for her. HELP PLEASE. I am desperate

Question: I feel that I have so much anger inside of me because of my parents and culture?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:20 PM PDT

I feel that I'm a hard person to understand sometimes.. I'm so different from my parents. At school, I work hard, have friends, etc. but when I get home I have to be passive and listen to my parents yell and put the blame on me. In Asian culture, you must respect and listen to your parents and never speak back. I don't, but when I try to e plain a misunderstanding, I get tons of hurtful words sprung into me.. I hate it.. I have so much built up anger inside of me..

Question: I m Going to meet my Girlfriend s Parents for the 1st time.?

Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:52 PM PDT

She told me that her mom is cool with me but the dad ... oh the dad ... She told me that He Already Hates me but I ve Never Talked or Seen the Man. ): She told me That he is Super Judgmental and Racist ... Any Tips, Thank You. :)