She weighs about 157 I would say and is about 5 10.. What should she do ?! Idk what I should do ?

I am going to go but I really don't want to. I'm not giving any details on why but he has no friends and randomly invited me. If it were something like a birthday party or something I wouldn't hesitate, but this.. Is a trunk or treat as his church. I really don't wanna go but don't wanna be mean what would you do?

So these girls are spreading rumors about me being a hoe and I know who they are but when they talk to me they act like I'm there BestFriend so like I'm confused. They are nice to me but are talking about me at the same time. They never addressed the issue to me and I'm not going to confront them. So what should I do?

So I made a fake account in snapchat and said in gonna tell everyone's secret. Then I said something about my friend saying bad stuff and about myself. They told the teacher and the teacher said she will get a detective to look into it. I'm really worried so I posted this was a prank happy Halloween but they still told. Can they track the sbapchat down if it's deleted?

So I was teasing my classmate in college today about something I guess he is sensitive about so he told me if I ever say that again, he will punch me in the face. He said this in front of two witnesses at least. Now I grew up in Detroit and was in the Army. I'm not going to say what I've done to people who have threatened me but I'll just say that they are no longer around. Its college now and its different and I am different than I use to be so I try to be calm and nice, maybe thats why this kid thought he could threaten me and get away with it. So my question is, is the right thing to do is just tell him don't ever threaten me again and continue our relationship professionally for the duration of the class or report him? I really don't want to deal with threats like I use to because I don't live that life anymore but he really pissed me off today and I just hope I don't do anything stupid to the kid because I don't think he knows what he just put himself into.

First of all I love my sister I just am wondering why I feel like this. Whenever people meet us, they always say we look the same but are so different. I'm pretty friendly and known around the school. I don't want to say popular, maybe? I'm a cheerleader and people always say I'm pretty. I dress preppy and wear a fair amount of makeup and get along with everyone I know generally. My sister is more socially awkward and people refer to her as the "nerdier uglier sister," which Is horrible She doesn't wear makeup, but that's not it. There will just be little things that gross me out and others. For example; she doesn't believe in wearing a bra, and says that "society has forced people to act a certain way." Another thing is that her personal hygiene is terrible- she likes oily hair because "it's better to shape." She'll show up to school with oily and hair full of dandruff, and people will bring it up and she's like "okay." I've asked her a couple of times to maybe be more aware and she gets mad and says whether she brushes her hair or whatever is HER business. I guess I agree.. All my friends think she's nice and smart but they don't get along with her. She's also really involved with school but people see her as more of the nerd. How do I stop being so embarrassed? Also she's a bit more immature she'll "meep" and "squeak" and whenever she's around her friends she has this weird high pitched voice. She also really likes a book series and won't stop talking about me.

I still miss a girl after 14 months, we used to be great friends, we would always hangout and text. I liked her but she only saw me as friends. we had a 6 month Frienship and I could feel that she really cared about me. she was always asking me to hangout...but one day she messaged me and told me she couldn't see me anymore because she felt she was leading me on. after that our friendship changed, she didn't talk to me much anymore.... I would text her occasionally but even when she responds , shell reply once just to see how it's going then she won't text back after one or two messages. I texted her last month and told her i miss her and she said im really sweet, and thats the last time we talked. is there any way to ever become close to her again????

So we were playing at my house playing on the computer when i heard him fart so telled on him for being disgusting and stupid so my mom got mad at me for wasiting her time so i screamed at my friend for getting me in trouble so i hit him and hit him again and punched him in the stomach and hit his head over and over and stepped on him really hard on his guts!! he screamed and cryed and literally threw up on my floor! so i punched his gut again and kicked him out of my house! my mom got super mad and told his mom to pick him up immedietley so i smashed him with my intrument case over and over when his mom picked him up she screamed and told my mom and no one knows i did any of that. My friend is too hurt to say anything. What do i do! he is at the hospital now with surgery on his intenstines and no one knows its me! if my mom finds out she might take away my computer AND DONT SAY OH YOUR LYING OR TROLLING OR SOMETHING! THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION AND IM VERY SCARED

I m 13 and my dad died today. Reality gas never hit me so hard. I don t want to tell any of my friends. Although I am a very emotional person I don t like when people see me cry. I don t know how to cope with this. I don t know what to do.

So I was friends with him we had a class together he sat in front of me he often looked at my drawings stole my pencil said stupid comments tried to copy my homework once and we we're friends we made fun of each other I thought we we're friends Anyway they changed my classes so I don't have him anymore and ever since then he's been avoiding me whenever I see him he turns his head or pretends to be in a deep conversation with his friends That never happened in lunch when we sat in front or close to each other we did our own thing but still acknowledge each other now he moves seats with his friends so we won't sit near or even moves tables I don't get it and I'm offended I'm sure he knows I didn't change my own classes because a few other people in that changed too and I heard they have new students now so what happened we didn't talked to each other out of class but never ignored or avoided each other I'm offended any ideas why?

So I found out that my so called "friends" talked behind my back to others that I have these stretchmarks on my butt, which is true, on how ugly it was and that I was ugly and don't wear make up. I left them because I don't need crap talked about me by people who was supposed to be my friend. What should I do when they come up to me again? Should I just walk away and ignore them?

My friend got into a fight because he needed to defend himself, and people are saying he lost because his eyebrow was bleeding (The other boy got a black eye i think).... I personally don't think either of the boys won or lost but its really bugging me that people who weren't even there are trying to form opinions about my friend... So my question is.... What is your definition of losing a fight? (Is it when someone doesn't hit back, They are bleeding, on the ground, got a black eye, etc.)

Well I smoke weed sometimes and my friend just started well everyone in his neighborhood smokes basically and he invited me to come over to play football and smoke with them well there is gonna be a few other guys there 1 I never talked to before and he is the one with the most weed the other is a guy I'm ok with but not really friends another dude I don't know if he likes me cause some days he's cool and the next he try's to joke a lot but he cool ig I just don't know him that well and 1 dude is were Friends and we joke on each other a lot but Idk and and then my friend and idk if I want to smoke with them or not because idk if they would let me or my friend just invited me and they wouldn't pass the stuff (and don't say you shouldn't smoke it's better for you then alcohol so don't try to say that) and I think the reason I'm asking is because I'm shy and my friend that live like a 5 minute walk from me I buy weed of him to but my friend says that the other guys got loud and I never smoked loud I only smoke mid (p.s were all in high school )

I've known this girl for a while and I was friends with her. She's a year younger than me and we're both in high school. I've started to have feelings for her this year and a lot of people thought I liked her and soon everyone thought I did. I usually text her a lot and she texts back sometimes and a lot of people thought I was obsessive and they told her that I'm obsessed with her even though I wasn't. Just because I talk to a girl a lot doesn't mean I'm obsessed with her. Most of those people are her friends so she started to believe that I'm obsessed with her too and stalk her on social media. I don't know what to do. A lot of people say I'm weird and creepy and I don't think I am at all and this isn't the first something like this has happened. Every time I try to be friends and get closer to a girl I have feelings for, she tries to get away and there's always someone who tells her something like that about me and it ruins my chances with her. It happened again this time. What do you think I should do? I'm thinking about apologizing to her and telling her that I'm not being obsessed or stalking her and I'm sorry if I am and I didn't mean to do anything like that and after that I will never bother her again. Is that a good idea to apologize to a girl who thinks you're obsessed?

So basically, I have one pretty close friend, and one kinda-sorta friend who I don't know very well. Friend 1 is really close to Friend 2, me, not so much. The other day, me, a couple of other friends were talking about gay people for whatever reason, and she's like "Yeah, I have a gay friend, but I can't tell you who it is". I kind of suspected that friend 2 is the gay friend, but I didn't say anything. So then, this morning, friend 2 was like "Can I borrow your phone? I forgot my phone and I need to tell someone not to text me." When I asked friend why she need the phone, her response was that she didn't want her mom to see texts from somebody. I started thinking; If friend 2 is gay, she wouldn't want her mom reading texts from some girl, would she? I felt really bad about this all of the sudden, and I'm not sure if i should say anything to her or not. (I'm a straight girl in middle school, don't really have anything against gay people. Both friends in the description are girls)

I'm a freshmen in highschool, I recently moved in the beginning of the year to a school where I didn't know any one. I did everything I could to stop it but I couldn't. In the end we moved anyway and to a bad area I would say. At my old school I fit in, and was glad for that, but here I don't seem to fit in don't get me wrong I have made a few friends but in most classes I'm still that loner kid no matter how hard I try. Most of the people only hang out with their old friends which makes me miss my old friends, and makes me regret I didn't enjoy school more back then. I'm constantly stressed while at school it seems 10x longer now. Most of the kids here are ghetto. Since I moved a while away from all my friends I no longer really hang out with them. I have nothing to look forward to any more I know I have to focus on my grades they are good at least. I just can't stand being such a loner it's horrible. I might be able to transfer back to my old school next year but my mom doesn't wan't me to live with my dad, and I'd feel bad because he left us for a few years. I wan't to look back and enjoy my high school years not think of them like I do now.

I am not very confident when it comes to a lot of things like dancing, my taste in music, basketball, singing, myself, my grades, and my art. Sometimes I end up crying because of that. I just moved schools and I'm not popular. My BFF moved with me and since she is good at everything she became friends with the popular girls and left me in the dust. I really want to be friends with the popular but they have know each other forever. Please give me some tips!

I have a friend who is interested in getting the latest about my family and praying for them, because I care deeply about my family who have serious medical/mental issues. However, after she inquires about my family, I sometimes get unexpected phone calls from my family with very bad news. I'm not sure if they are just coincidental. I've become a bit superstitious, and have started to doubt this friendship. Am I wrong in feeling this way?

well.... since i was young i was veryyyyy shy... trying to say something to people ade me have a heartattack and was hard for me to do.. i was kinda popular in fourth grade but from 5th grade i had trouble making friends and blending in.. i picked "perfect" people to be friends with me... (pretty, skinny, funny, white) so i avoided people who didnt fit my category? to be friends with me. so yeah, my friends were popular but i wasnt.. i was unable to blend in with their friends and if i had to hang out with their other friends i didnt say a worddddddd!! but i actuallt wasnt like that i actually talked alot and people were shocked when i got used to them in few hours bc i talked so much but bc of that i wanted to change myself in 5th grade and i didnt say a word to people and my friends. idk why i still regret it but now im 11th grade, i have no friends at my school and i have a hard time blending in with people at my church and its been over a year since i went there. i thought my shyness would go away but its not... i still nod and shake my head to adults and i dont know what to talk about or how to greet to people.. i just smile and wave and quietly say hi... but i watched a documentary in class and i take ap psychology and i think i have some sort of mentall illness... i cant make eyecontact with people (i automatically move my eyes away, i cant help it) it feels so weird and i cant do it. and i make things awkward... i make the conversation last for 4 seconds and the we are in complete scilence… my voice is very soft and i realized it is monotoned… and i dont laugh or smile unless something happens to make me laugh or smiles. but that also started out when i had trouble holding my laughter and i would laugh for 30 minutes… so it try my best not to laugh, but most of the time, i dont laugh or smile at people, if i make eyecontact with little kids or other people i just look away… i am nice but i dont think people like me bc im so socially awakrd.. so to make this not confusing i cant make eyecontact with people, i dont ahve any friends, im socially awakrd, is it possible i have mental illness? but now im better at talking to people with questions like theres so many things i want to say, i want to be loud and confident but when i try to do it i cant, i try to make the conversationa s short as possible but at home im soooo different infront of my parents i dont understand why im like this tho... and another weird thing is i want to be around people, i want to go live in the city and i love volunteering, but when i actually try to do a social activity, i get nervous.... but i really do like being around people and i do not like doing things by myself bc i hate being lonely and i dont want to be so lonely and alone anymore?

So we are doing this week of pranking each other. I'm going to school with him, I see him in the mornings.

Long story short, I was telling one of my friends that I liked someone and a different classmate overheard and decided to be an idiot and say she was going to tell her. (the person I like) I was planning on asking my friend, Denise if she would think it'd weird that I would randomly sit by her and her friends ( Denise is friends with the person I like) in the morning, but knowing that the next time I see her, she will hate me will make me want to kill myself. I dont want her to hate me, what would you do if you figured out someone you barely knew liked you? Would you be flattered but at least want to be there friend? Or hate them?

This dude has always seemed a bit odd and awkward but I'm starting to think he might even be a little slow. We are both 21. I've been chilling with him a lot lately since he just moved in down the street but he acts really weird sometimes. When he knocks on my door and no one answers he will stand there on the porch knocking again every 45 seconds or so for about 25 minutes straight. Today I went out food shopping with my family for a few hours and my little sister who is 15 stayed home alone. My parents don't like her answering the door when it's dark out because it's not the best neighborhood and she's real short and small. Well my friend stopped by knocking at the door. At first he kept knocking on the door for about 15 minutes. Then he was walking around the outside looking through the windows of the house and kept saying "hello is anybody there?" With his face up to the glass knocking. My sister almost called the cops. She was so scared she was hiding under the dining room table because he did this for about an hour. He's harmless and I know he wasn't going to try to break in or hurt my sister. But still what the hell is wrong with him. He's a good hearted person and stuff but holy ****. How should I deal with him? I'm his only friend. I think he might have a mild case of aspergers or some sort of autism. But still sometimes it's hard to handle. Because he does kind of selfish and childish **** sometimes. For example one time me and a few buddies went out in the woods for a cookout and to go swimming the kid I'm referring to wanted to come and he brought a fold up chair and a 12 pack of beer. He expected us to carry it from the car to the spot. He got all mad and had his mom come pick him up. And another time he wanted a ride somewhere so I my buddy Chris said he'd give him a ride because he was going up that way anyway. When we pulled up the kid got in the car and reached up to the front and shut off Chris's stereo because it was too loud. So Chris kicked him out of the car because they don't even know each other. Then that kid got all depressed and acted like Chris was bullying him wtf?

I don't understand why girls always feel like it's a competition with me. I dress very nice, but other girls seem to try to dress better and then laugh at me for dressing the way I do. And people judge so quickly on others at school. I feel like it's so hard to be yourself because EVERYONE, literally everyone changes who they are at school to please others. I've noticed how more friendly and nice people are outside of school when they're not around their peers. I've learned that not caring what they think has helped me out a lot. Does anyone know why people have the need to insult others like this?

None of my friends have contacted me at all. I ve been home for about 4 days now and nothing. Not even a hi. I would totally ask them if they were doing well. Do I have good friends? Do they care? Before me and a few friends were planning to do a group costume and we d text each day about it. Since I ve missed I haven t heard anything from them! Do they even want me to dress up with them??!😳

Hi, I have a friend who has bipolar and ADHD, when she was growing up her father had beaten her and her mother, she had sex with guys that use her she can't keep a relationship, she hangout with people who do drugs and throw wild parties. For the past to years I took her under my wing and take her to fun places and have a good time. I told her how I felt about the way her life was going, and she snap saying I don't let no one judge I do me I'm proud of who I am and you don't have to like it. Then she said I want to change but it's gonna take time, she said let get hurt and learn from my mistakes let me look stupid, but the problem is she been doing this for years and still didn't learn I honestly believe I fell her as a friend.

please don't report this i don't actually know

I'm 34 never had a girlfriend in my entire life hahaha. Athletic and been so my entire life. I'm just very shy around the "girls I like". For awhile, I saw this girl at my gym. I didn't stare at her like some creep. Just noticed her innocently. She was training with her friend who was pretty too but I had my eye on her. Then one day, she came up to ask me something about if some water bottle was hers or mine. Now it was obvious it was hers and she was giggling. . She left it by the machine a machine away from where I was. Not too close. She caught me off guard as she was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. Reminds me why I love redheads most. She gotta be early 20's too. Im still into women in their prime. all I did was shake my head no and went back to my thing. She is physically perfect. The next day, she was walking past me as I was heading into the building. I got that feeling I was being looked at and in the very corner of my eye I could tell she look irritated. Why? Dudes her age talk to her do why should I? Recently, i went to walk past to a curl station and she must have seen me in the mirror walking by and looked over her should clearly in my direction during her rest set. I saw in the corner of my eye. My childhood was crap and made my adulthood underdeveloped. It's been about 2 and half years and she still glances at me. Why??? Chicks have gone out their way before to make themselves noticed by me only to toy with me lmao. My luck. I don't know what a real one looks like. Besides I make only 300 weekly and live with my dad while getting my second degree. I'm kinda useless because of that. Why should I do it to myself by putting myself out there when I'll only get shot down? I'm better at Mortal Kombat. I'm the king lol.

My sisters friend invited me to her baby shower. It's on facebook, but yesterday she added a post saying she's excited to see everyone and says anyone is welcome to come to her place for a bon fire after, including kids and spouses. I liked it Amd said I'll probably join them. Then yesterday I got a text from my sister saying her friend just told her the bon fire is really just for family. Ok. I'm not gonna say anything but don't you find that a bit odd? To me it's kinda saying ' everyone bring me gifts but most of you can't stay'. And hell of course it's her party to invite who she wants...but then why advertise it on the baby shower page as open to anyone?

We r in 7th grade and I've knew her since 4th grade. She hates the school that we go to. Here are the reasons I'm starting to dislike her. 1) She always complains to her mom whenever someone scolds her even if its a teacher and its for a logical reason. Once a girl made her cry, but apologised to her, but she still wanted to complain her to her mom and report her. 2) She tells her mom that I bully her and make her cry. I dont, and if that is a joke, its not a very nice one. 3) Whenever we have pair work, and we can choose our partners. I always pair up with other people, and my friend will get mad and ask me to pair up with her. If I dont, she will keep on whining, and even threaten me. 4) She called our school a prostitute school. 5) She doesn't cooperate. Whenever we have group work, she won't contribute, and refuse to help. And when her group mates grade her upon /10. She expects them to give her a pass when she doesn't even do anything. 6) She thinks that everyone is scared of her. She can hold a grudge very easily, especially if she gets told to do something by our classmates. She thinks that everyone knows that she will complain to her mom about them, if they boss her around. 7) She tries to get revenge. One of our classmates reported her to the teacher for talking bad about one of the teachers on snapchat. And gave proof. My friend got mad and decided to report about of one of our other classmates talking about her. I don't know what to do. Help, advice?

OK so there is this girl at school and she's always constantly touching me not in the dirty way though but like grabbing my hand pushing me and grabbing my shirt we are both girls and we are sort of friends she even lightly punches me. I hate it when my friends punch me like that and I tell her to stop touching me and then she does it again. Thats not the worst part though she is constantly wanting to do everything I do. We have a locker room and I ALWAYS use the same locker and I come in one day and she has her stuff in my locker. She is also very annoying and tells people not to do stuff then she does it but I think she likes me as no gf way but I have a bf I could go on and on but I won't please I seriously need help....

Okay so today I was outside running for gym and my friend wanted me to run with her. I told her I didn't want to but she forced me and then my earring fell. We looked everywhere on the grass but we couldn't find it I started to cry because it was my mom's and she gave it to me. This is not the first time I lost earrings. After school I went to go check and it wasn't there. I cried and cried thinking what would my mom do? I don't know what to do. Please tell me what I should do.

My friend out of the blue says I grinded them about picking the right side. I asked what I did wrong and they're saying it's better if I don't remember. Why bring it up then? I don't know what they're talking about and they said I'd have to face the consequences if they told me and that I'd wish they hadn't. I'm very confused. I feel like either way the friendship just shifted and that I should no longer say anything so it doesn't come back and bite me.

I have a friend who just started college. We only met last year, but we became really close working on projects after school together. I am four years younger than she is, and I look up to her a lot. She is like a big sister. I trust her more than my mom or my friends at school because she does not judge me, she always listens, and she cares. I stress about being too annoying/negative a lot when I talk to her because I know she is super busy with school, but she tells me i'm fine all the time and usually replies to me or makes time to call and chat. Even if its just for a couple mins. This week we have been texting back and fourth a lot more than usual. I made her a bracelet and I told her I had to send her something, and she gave me her mailbox address. I stated to write a letter to go with is and I got a little carried away. Its super long. It started off me just telling her I appreciate her and if she ever needs anything i promise to be there for her like she is for me. Then I told her just about stuff going on in my life right now and things we should do together next time she visits. I already sent it, but i'm stressing about it anyway. I overthink everything so it's nothing new. I just don't want to be a burden or place any extra stress on her. I just wanted to do something nice for her. I don't want her to get annoyed because she is one of the greatest people I know, and I want to be her friend for a long time. What should I do? I stress whenever I talk to her!

My friend invited me over to smoke weed. We shared a bowl of weed, I took a few massive rips. When I'm walking home, I could swear the trees were moving, but when I look directly at them they don't move. I went into my bathroom it was like Alice I Wonderland my bathroom felt smaller yet bigger. BTW I have no tolerance. The strain was blue dream I think.

I left my school today. Left my best friends and everything as I'm moving school. I feel like literally just ending things. I'm so down, I can't imagine life without them. What am i going to do😭

I know my parents are worried about me and so are my friends I use the butterfly project and I always have a butterfly because my friends write them on me. Is there any other way to ease temptation without cutting? Please help I'm looking for more ways

They know I'm not interested. But I do enjoy having them flirt with me and compliment me all the time. It akes me feel really good and confident about myself.

I need advice. I feel sad over a internet friend who I had argument with a couple of months ago and they told me that they wanted nothing to do with me. We were really close and all.I haven t contacted them since and it s making me feel upset not speaking to them.Should I leave it and let the past be or message them again.

I have had a friend for about 8 years. I am twenty. She has severe anxiety and I have anxiety as well, but I have learned to work with it and deal with it. She has not learned this. Let s name her Carol for now. So Carol and I went through high school together and rarely even spoke. In college we began talking again, but I never got too emotionally attached to her, mostly because she bothered me a lot and would make a big deal out of things. It makes me feel selfish for not wanting to be her friend, but I feel like she drags me down. so flashforward to this past month. I recently got a job at a movie theater so I could work part-time while I go to school. I work with one of my best friends and it s a high paced, and often stressful, environment. Carol decided that after I got the job, she wanted to apply. Carol has done this with the multiple companies I have worked for. Whenever I have a job there, she wants to work there too. She never goes out of her way to find anywhere else to work. So Carol decides she s going to put me as a reference on her application. Carol had a panic attack before her interview and is constantly stressed out. Even in classes, when the professor calls on her, she freaks out and hyperventilates. I feel like it will only make me look bad at this point because my best friend and I do not think she will succeed at this job at all. Am I being unreasonable or rude? Because I feel like it would be in both of our best interests if she didn t work with me.

My best friend has gotten really close to this guy, they can relate to eachother on a lot of things and tell eachother everything. He hangs out with us around lunch and my group of friends think he is really great, but I don t. One day he was talking about how he doesn t support the military, and having many generations of military in my family I took offense and we got into a small argument. it was nothing agressive but a friendly argument and I asked him how much he cared about his parents, I was going to ask if he d really insult the military after having multiple family members deployed for years , but before I could say that he said "I could never love my parents, my mother a abused me for 13 years" I was shocked and so we re all my friends even my best friend because she had no idea. It made him cry and I felt like I was going to puke, I felt so terrible and I had his knot in my stomach. I didn t know and had no intention to hurt him in any way with that question. My best friend said it was not my fault and that it was just a mistake, and I feel like all my friends hate me, but they claim they don t. It happened about a month ago, and everyday I relive it and I still feel like **** and my friends all still talk to me like normal, but I can t help but think they hate me. What should I do?

This year I have no common classes with my friends. I'm new to every single class, and I just don't click with my classmates. They're boring and dull. So anyways here's the story: I've told my friend, who also doesn't know anyone in most of her classes, that if she feels like it, she can stop hanging out with me all the time during recess, so she can spend time with her peers to fit in. Just because I have shitty classmates and can't make any connections doesn't mean I want to keep her away from doing that herself, especially because she has awesome classmates. Thing is, we've stopped talking during school all togheter. We hang out after school, but all she seems to talk about is her new friends. I didn't mind it at first, but today she made it clear that I'm the second choice, saying "sure, if they don't have any plans I'll hang out with you" No, I don't want people to hang out with me because I'm their last resort. Soon she'll get closer and closer to them and she'll stop caring all togheter about our friendship. She's always so aloof about the situation, while I'm here sobbing and literally feeling like my heart has been platonically broken. Should I move on and find other friends (I'm an introvert, I have a small group of friends) or should I try and talk to he, even though I was the one who told her to hang out with her peers instead of me during school? If you love something let it free ya know.. 17 girl

I met this little girl from scotland in florida back in 2011. Every holiday and her birthday, we would always send presents for the holidays and even her birthday.Whenever we would send presents, the mother would say it's alot of money, don't pend on your money on her, but i said to her, i want to spend money on her to be happy. If i don't send her presents, she would so sad, and our friendship would be ruined. What do i do? not send her gifts or keep sending her gifts? Can i still be friends with her? i want to still be friends with her. They're like another family to me. And this little girl who is my friend has autism and Asperger's. The little girl is 11, and i'm 18, almost 19. Should i still be friends with her even if it is an 7-8 year/age difference and even i send out gifts? I always talk to the mom. The mom likes me and so does the little girl. I don't want the little girl to be disappointed. What are my options? What can i do? *spend, * be she would always send me stuff for my birthday,christmas,and once in a blue moon,easter,new year's.

I always hated both kids this Is the second time I here'd both talk meanly about me. I walked past them they said "put down your chin like this" the other girl was laughing I knew they were saying I was fat I said "umm no" I walked pat my friends row she said " don't talk to them because they did that because they were calling you fat I here'd them" when ever I'm bullied it's behind my back and it's always girls so I know they're mad because I'm smarter and the teacher always tells everyone" Ariellas the role model and the only one that knows what she's doing" also one of the girls is short and chunky but I'm kinda tall so. My self a steam is already low from my brothers!!! I get it if you say " don't get revenge it'll get them" it didn't the first time real ideas. Also if you say "loose the weight" been on a diet for two weeks.

I have a really close friend who went to college this year. We met last year, but are really close. I have had a rough year. A classmate I thought was my friend wrote a horrible blog about me and sent it to the whole school. My parents expect straight A's and I am trying to cope with my ADD, but they keep pushing me even though I have A's and a couple B's. I have turned to my friend for advice quite a bit. I trust her and she gets it. I try not to bug her too much, but last week was really hard and we have been texting a lot, and we talked on the phone last Friday. I made her a gift so she gave me a P.O box to send it too. I started writing a letter to go with it and I got a little carried away. It is really long. I started telling her how much I appreciate her in my life and if she ever needs anything I will be here for her no matter what. Then I just told her about my day and fun things I want to do with her when she visits. I sent it already, but im totally overthinking it. I don't want to be a burden. She always responds and if she didnt like me she wouldn't but i don't want to make is so she does dislike me. I just wanted to do something nice for her. Will you help me? Am I being too overbearing? How much is too much? I usually try to only text her maybe once a week. It seems like she cares. She sends heart emojis and asks how she can help out. I just want to stop stressing, and talk to her without feeling like a pest.

My friend and someone on a network site she s on sometimes email one another he may answers some of her questions anyways he sent her some money well now he is wont s her to send 1200 of it back. I know she had to gave him information put money in her account she is now in a nervous wreck because one she knew what she did was not good she was in a tight spot and I tried to tell her well he sends her his information today to send money to Western Union. She did go grocery shopping today he sent her 1,330.00 she researched found out he is from Ghana West Africa and what they said most are over their scammers so what advice can you give her. I told her spend what is left in checking account and do not send him one dime delete that account and any other accounts he has sent emails she is worried what he will be thinking of her she is like that. Please no bashing she was in a tight spot and no did not do the best thing all replies ASAP

I have an internet that I was talking to for around a month. All of a sudden today she texts me to tell me that her parents had found out about her depression and self harm I'm assuming. She told me not to text her because her parents aren't supposed to find out about me but she didn't say anything else so I'm worried! I don't know what the situation with her parents is so I don't know if texting her would put her in danger! I need to at least know she's okay but I don't want to get her in trouble just for texting but I'm worried! What should I do???

I want to invite friends over and spend time with them, but I don't feel like planning and hosting a big event. Should I go to the mall and just shop around, or even go mini golfing?

there was a guy who told me his siter used to beat him up frequently. After years she didn t do it no more he brought the discussion up and she said she doesn t remember ever doing it. my mother used to be mean to me when I was a child and when i talked about it when I was a teenager she told me she doesn t remember any of that and that she thinks I dreamed about it (I m sure I didn t). A friend of mine I ll call her A used to be so mean to my other friend, I ll call her B so B got tired of it and broke up with A and A told me "I don t know why B act like that to me, I haven t done nothing bad to her" I used to have this other frriend she would laugh when other people made fun of me, she used to be rude to me often and say bad lies about me to other people. When I got mad at her and told her I wanted to break up she insisted saying she s never done nothing like that. do people really don t remember? Why?

They constantly ignore me and never talk to me unless a miracle happens. Today I had a friend in my class and she thought my "best friend" was looking for me and she told her that I left the classroom a while ago and she said "I don't care about her." I have social anxiety but this is not related to it, they really hate me and I have proof. I don't know why they mind me so much, I say similar things they say but when I say it it annoys them but if they do they all are fine with it. I have even tried to commit suicide and they know it but they only pretend to care and then gossip about me.

I have a friend who just started college. We only met last year, but we became really close working on projects after school together. I am four years younger than she is, and I look up to her a lot. She is like a big sister. I trust her more than my mom or my friends at school because she does not judge me, she always listens, and she cares. I stress about being too annoying/negative a lot when I talk to her because I know she is super busy with school, but she tells me i'm fine all the time and usually replies to me or makes time to call and chat. Even if its just for a couple mins. This week we have been texting back and fourth a lot more than usual. I made her a bracelet and I told her I had to send her something, and she gave me her mailbox address. I stated to write a letter to go with is and I got a little carried away. Its super long. It started off me just telling her I appreciate her and if she ever needs anything i promise to be there for her like she is for me. Then I told her just about stuff going on in my life right now and things we should do together next time she visits. I already sent it, but i'm stressing about it anyway. I overthink everything so it's nothing new. I just don't want to be a burden or place any extra stress on her. I just wanted to do something nice for her. I don't want her to get annoyed because she is one of the greatest people I know, and I want to be her friend for a long time.

Okay so when we first became friends it was last year & she d always had this type of attitude towards other people, but never me. As the school year was getting to about the middle, she would insult me & I would insult her but we were playing around. We would always be partners for everything, I let her copy my work (she would never let me copy hers though). But then the end of the year she started being more rude, but not to where I couldn t handle it, it just annoyed me. Then when this school year began, she treated me like a friend, but then for the past 3 weeks or so, she s been really rude. Like just today, she partnered with someone else & then apologized to my partner because she had to be with me. she asked what I got on a test & I had gotten a better score than her so she said to our friend, "Wow how did she get a better score than us? She s so stupid." she also said things like, "this is why you have no friends, nobody likes you, shut up, you re annoying." & that was just today. It s annoying the hell out of me, & I don t wanna be rude to her. & if you re advice is be rude back, I ve tried but she always huas a comeback. I don t want to lose her as a friend but I can t take this. & it s kind of hard to avoid her because we have a little group in one of my classes where we do everything together in class. & if I confront her about it she ll say more rude stuff & that I need to suck it up. idk what to do. please help.

My friend Charlie is a really goofy person, and we're sort of best friends. But last week he stopped saying hi to me and when I sit with him at lunch he only responds to what i say with "Yes," "No," "Mmmm" "Ok" "So?" He's never like this, always upbeat and playing around. But he's depressed. What do I do?

I'm 19 and a french major in college. I am supposed to study abroad in the spring of '16, the dream of a lifetime. But I just found out today that the showers in the dorms are wide open, like shower heads around poles. Intelectually, I know this isn't a huge deal, but emotionally I'm completely scared to the bone. Yes, I know it's "all girls", but I am the only daughter in my house, never played sports, didn't have to shower after PE, etc.....basically I'm the typical shy American. I know it's crazy, but I've actually considered applying for a different study abroad because of this. But on some level, I know this is the best study abroad for me, in the place I most want to be, and this seems a silly reason not to do it. On the other hand, I just can't imagine.....

Friend B is having a party, and we were all invited. Me and my best friend had a tiff and the party is tmr, if i go wont it be awkward? I feel that if i miss it i might miss out alot of fun. But i dont really feel comfortable to go. Should i go?