We were in class one day, we had an argument of a certain subject and started saying I was wrong because of my definition to the subject. Now she's ignoring me, and I can't leave the table we're at because we've been assigned it for the entire year. So now I'm stuck with her, and she'll talk to our table mate for the rest of period except for me. Yesterday we had a little talk, and she whined About having a job, and I asked why she got it if she was only going to complain about having it, then she got really rude to me and started calling me a lazy ***** just because I didn't have a job or car, but I don't want to stress myself out and get those two quickly. I've tried apologizing to her, but she rejects it. So now I'm not sure of what to do, I even gave her space and not talk to her for two weeks, nothing. I'm getting kinda concerned. What should I do?

I'm a girl & I really like this one girl but her mom doesn't want us to talk because of the fight we go into or how lovey we were with each other(mom read through texts),our age difference(I'm 2.5 years older), and my orientation(bi). After we quit being friend I tried to talk to my friend & she doesn't want to talk about it. Her mom made her block me on everything. Well if I were to be tagged in a post(sometimes just a pic of me)she would like it. I started to notice at school that she would stare at me during lunch. Sometimes for minutes. At first I though was paranoid but I wasn't. After a while, I tried to anti-stalk her(know her schedule to avoid her) but I kept running into her. I told my friend I always walk with & she started to get creeped out by the girl's behavior. I was walking out with a group of friends talking & having a good time. My one friend who knows about the girl was watching her walk beside me. She told me she saw her look at me for 10 seconds & look at the floor & look at me again for 10 seconds & repeat. She did until we got out of the school & I took the long way out. We have two lunches at school & my one friend who's observed this had the same lunch as me. I went to go talk to my one friend who sits close to her. I was talking to my friend & my hallway walking buddy stood beside me. She left because she was getting stared at by the girl. She felt uncomfortable. I assume she's straight but I don't know now. I don't know if she likes me or hates me. My "stalker" & I use to run track with each other. She did conditioning for it & she would talk to me in the locker room. After a while she started to do inapproiate things to me. She always did when we were friend like she told me to turn around while she was changing her bra & slingshotted her bra at me. During conditioning, she would talk about her walking around her house without pants on. She one time stuck her hand down her underwear and scratched herself staring at me. It freaked me out. Her and her mom are big Christians and her mom is a borderline fundamentalist.

Sorry it's so long an sorry if it includes a lot of drama - I've been talking to this guy named Finn from a town about 20 miles away who's really great but has a past of being a bit of a whore. He doesn't seem like it anymore but you can never really tell, you know? So (I changed all the names, I just want advice on the scenario) Finn's friends with this guy from my town named Brody who is also friends (and only friends) with my sister Lia. Finn was gonna come to my town and we were gonna hang out for a while (nothing we shouldn't be doing, just driving around with some other people) and Brody texted Lia when Finn told him we were gonna hang out. Apparently Lia told Brody that Finn should stay away from her sister (me) because she knows about his past. We aren't as close as some sisters, so I don't think I could just openly ask her about it I just don't know what to do. Any advice?

Hey. Well I just need you guys opinion. Well there is my co worker. We just started to know each other this august. But you would think that we were friends because we use to talk and go out. Now he doesn't return my calls. We barely talk at work. We never go out anymore. Do you guys think I should called this a lost cause and just leave him alone. I want him as a friend but I won't force it

So there's this concert. Some mutual friends were going, but they didn't have room/tickets for her. So a few days later she asks me. She can be a little rude/snobbish at times, but she doesn't really seem to notice it... she just makes observations and has no filter. She talks with me in science class, but we sit next to one another and none of her friends are in that class. In socials, she sits with her other friends all the time and during projects she tends to go with them (although there's 3 other friends and most of the groups are 4 people.) I have low self esteem and worry people don't actually like me. Is it possible that she doesn't actually like me and is just using me when she has no one else?

She doesn't know that I have it and I feel that I would be worse without her. What do I do?

See I am staying with A friend that has been very Annoying With me, see he treats me like I am stupid and He knows everything, like one day I am getting ready to get my clothes washed he always is asking me to Wash his own Clothes, like today he asked me to get my A Obama Phone and then when I get the info and I tell him about the Paper work he wants to get mad and says oh he wants to stop talking, see I Would have moved out but see 1 he is getting married and 2 the rent is very cheap

Hi everyone. My problem is that when ever I get food from the school cafeteria and when I go to sit down with my friends I sometimes forget something (e.g a drink) so when I go back to the cafeteria (remembering I left my food with my friends) I ALWAYS see them squashing or taking my food, and they sometimes do it WHILE I am eating it, I have told them on numerous occasions to stop but they never do, I have never done anything to them but they keep doing it to me and it has becoming very annoying because I don t want other peopl to touch my food with BARE HANDS, it isn t sanitary. So please can you suggest what I can do and please no rude comments or answers thanks.

Okay, I have a best friend. He knows almost everything about me (even stupid things I say, and how I think I'm a lesbian, and really embarrassing stuff). He says he'll always be there for me and stuff, but then he turns his back and shares and exploits me to my closest friends (we have the same friend group). Like, he told my boyfriend about me questioning myself. And whenever we're around friends he says an embarrassing part of me once or twice, and if I deny it he just talks about it in more detail. He talks about being 'depressed' all the time even though I get extreme anxiety over the social stress he puts me through. I know embarrassing things about him, but I'm afraid that he'll share more because he doesn't really have a limit to what he shares. And if I leave the friend group, then he'll share things MORE because I won't even be able to defend myself. Thanks for helping, because this is getting out of hand.

every time I try to make a friend it always ends up bad and I'm so tired of trying to be a good person for everyone else when no one ever treats me right

i had an argument with a friend because of his behaviour and i'm quite angry to be honest.. should i just ignore him until he understands what he's done wrong.. ? any suggestions..?

My friend Angel is being mean and my other friend is caring so I want to tell him. (* ANGEL is a name being replaced with my friends real name)

It was 3 or 4 months ago when we stopped being friends.. He made me cry over 3 times and was quite manipulative tbh.. But I loved him platonically. My parents lied and made me cut off all connection. I think how mean he his or cussing about him a the time . But I miss him. He just cut off all connection without a word but comes back 3 months later saying bye.. What do I do?

I had a falling out with a friend about 6 months ago and we havent spoken since. I realize I didn't say the greatest things during the last argument and want apologize through a letter. However, I don't want to be friends again. I just want to simply say I'm sorry for what I did. I don't want to have any regrets and I'd rather end things on a good note. I already wrote the letter and I realize by sending it, I probably won't get a response back but I'm ok with that. Would sending the letter be a lost cause if I don't want to be friends anymore anyway?

He stares at me often but usually looks away when I look in his direction. Once recently, I looked up and he didn't look away. We were across the room from each other and he stared until I looked away. He asked me to sit by him recently and gave me his pen and stopped a class to get me a paper. Then he put his chair next to mine. He used to just show up around me often but has never asked me out. Is he just shy or just a friendly person? This has been going on a LONG time.

So me and my best friend have known each other for almost 2 years and we usually talk everyday she lives in Arkansas and i live in California. She started college in August and for the first few weeks we still talked everyday now we might talk once a week and when we do its only a 2 minute conversation. It s really frustrating i get she s busy in college and so am i but the thing is that she post on snapchat and can manage to hang out with her other friends but not me...i feel left out of her life and it s just kind of annoying since we used to talk everyday what should i do?

I have a 13 yr old friend who says she wants to kill herself, and she's tried, her dad has given her all the help he can and all of her friends try to support her and be there for her but she doesn't care. She has a boyfriend who treats her like dirt and when we tell her to break up with him she says that it's complicated and that she loves him . Her grandma passed away last year and her mom is doing drugs so I get that she's upset and all but she has been cutting herself and lately it looks like she's just doing it for attention . I am trying to be there for her but it really pisses me off that whenever I try she says she doesn't care . I don't know how to help her anymore . I have my own problems and I want to leave her alone but whenever I try I am a bad friend because I am not there for her . What do I do ?

so my mom teaches at my school, and kids that aren't getting good grades, or don't like her are usually pretty mean to me JUST because of her, even though I'm usually very kind to people. And I know when they change from my friend, to my foe in the blink of an eye. What should I do?

So basically me and my friend have known each other for about 2 and a half years now . I'm about 13 years old and going through some changes as a normal teenage girl would , me and my friend used to be really really close and now ... I feel like im loosing my ability to care . I'm practically emotionally numb now , I started crying for about 1 month every night and now I just don't feel anything . She had this other friend who hates me and says things behind my back and now I feel like I shouldn't hang out with my friend at all and after all of that I started to not care and I have been really quite lately , the thing is I have stopped caring because I feel like my friend dosnt care . About 6 months ago I cried in front of her and sshe just didn't even care . I would actually open up and tell her about pproblem's I had and how stupid I had been to actually think she would help me in at least some way . I told my parent and she told me to find some new friends but It isn't that easy as I was bullied for most of my life and now after actually having a friend I feel like I can't be friends with anyone . I know this Is probably all confusing I just need some help , please what should I do ? I have a friend who couldn't care less if I were to die and she even said that and she just doesn't care but I did care about her and now I just can't even think but I can't bare the idea of being all alone again ! .

Ok so I had a friend that was close to me.. She hates me so much for no reason.. Well because someone lied about me. All she does is go on about how much she hates me and then posts about missing me.. What is she trying to say? Does she hate me or not

I'm always bored on the weekends when I don't have school/work cause I don't have any friends. I don't like watching tv/movies it's boring. Computer gets boring after a while... I just wish I could go see a friend but I don't have any, I tried to make friends but no one cares about me. I can't go for a walk or something it's raining outside. I'm stuck inside my room most of the time and it's driving me insane... What should I do I need help?

I'm a guy in his late 20's and never dated before. So me and this girl are from the same country and we go to same school, and we always talk when we are in class together . She recently asked me about my plans and that she wanna join me but i was always nervous and insecure. 2 weeks ago, as we went out of school around 10 p.m. , we talked then i shyly offered if she'd join me for an ice cream, and she said she'd walk with me as she lives next to the ice cream place. i walked her to her buidling and showed me where she lives and her apartment then said she could sit in the park with me if i'd like. i was so happy and nervous so we sat there and time went very quickly till they close the park and asked us to leave. then i walked her back to her apartment and she said that she can walk and i should catch the train but i said it's ok and i enjoy her company and she said she feels the same. when we got to her apt. she kinda wanted to ? shake hands/hug but i was nervous and didn't do the same. as i was walking to train , she called but kinda changed her mind, so i called her back and she said that i should come wait for train in her building instead of waiting in the station. i didn't want to bother her as it was around midnight so i told her it's ok i'd wait in station and leave her eat her dinner. It was a thursday , so i asked if we could do the same again in the weekend and she said she's free on sunday, i texted her sunday morning, and she replied she's busy but if i'm in city and she's done let's do it, i replied that ok let me know when you are free. but she didn't text me back. i thought maybe bcz she was waiting for me to text her first to show her that i want being with her. so the last wednesday , i texted her around 3 pm that i will be in city and that if she's free around 6 p.m. and she said she hoped so but she has an appointment with her friend.idk but i feel she lost interest and i don't wanna make her uncomfortable or creeped we agreed that time whenever we both fre let's hang out but without feeling disappointed if she's not free . Shall i text her the day before or days ahead of the day i wanna see her ? bcz i want to give her her own space and not bother her . also when should i text her back bcz i asked her sunday morning , and again on wednesday . should i text her today asking if she's doing something tomorrow ? i really enjoy being with her she's so sweet and polite.

Ho cinque amiche a distanza e volevo spedirgli dei regali.. Volevo spedire qualcosa come un pezzo di puzzle che poi si incastravano insieme e poi quando ci incontravamo li univamo tutto insieme ma non esistono collane formate da sei parti.. Voi cosa mi dite, esistono collane da sei parti (compresa me siamo in sei) ???

I've moved several times in the past, but only in the US, that too only the states in the west. But when I was 13 I moved to Ontario, Canada, and since then I've been a complete loner. In fact people do try to be friendly to me, but I just can't talk and prefer being alone. Not even if they're from the west; I'd probably be a loner even if I went back to the state I was born in. However, I do have the ability talk and I also make great presentations. So to finally start socializing I decided to start taking Grade 9 Spanish classes, because it's my native language (I'm Mexican) and I need to freshen my skills in it. The socializing benefit is that these Grade 9-ers will consider me their superior because I'm older, maturer and better at Spanish, which would make it extremely easy to socialize. But even then I simply can't socialize. Canadians are simply different, they have a different accent and lifestyle and way of communicating that I can't develop for myself :( TL;DR: I'm a teen who's moved several times between states in the American West before. But I moved to Canada three years ago and simply can't socialize and connect to people here, not even if they're younger and less mature and consider me to be their superior. So what do I do? Thanks for answering Alina. However, it is true that they consider me their "superior" (for lack of better word), it's been pretty clear from the preceding classes that I'm the cool kid in there. And yet, I still can't socialize properly with them.

My boyfriend is always so weird when I invite a friend he hasn't met to do something with us. He will always be like how did you meet them? Like he's shocked I have another friend he doesn't know about or something. Then I mentioned I met X friend through another friend and his response was, "she's not going to be there with us?" And I said no which he thought was, "weird". He then commented on how my friends "pop up out of nowhere" and last night when I told him I don't know all his friends his response was: "I have a lot of friends, you don't have any friends". It made me so annoyed and I think part of it is Bc I've always struggled to make friends and have been depressed about it for a long time. I do have friends but just not many. I'm too embarrassed to bring this up to him...we were both drunk at the time as well but I'm so upset about the comment for some reason. Am I being too sensitive to his comment? He makes those comments Bc it's like he's surprised I even have friends or something like what are we in high school? It just upsets me... He's not possessive. I'm not sure if it's how I posted it. He does think I'm a loner and really wonders how I made my friends and like someone said let me know that with his rude comment. I have a few friends and he has many and is used to hanging out w large groups of friends so he thinks it's weird to just go out with one friend or even two

She started liking space after me,she started drawing, she cut her hair short after me , she tries liking fancy bow ties and suits like me even though I'm a girl... She's even going to dye her hair like space after. I SHOWED IT TO HER SAYING IM GETTING MY HAIR LIKE THAT. I'm so mad.. All I wanted was my own identity and I. Can't.even.have.that. I'm sick of it, she's taught copying everything is good too! She also is faking mental illness when I told her I had social anxiety, she didn't research it and thought group anxiety was a thing . I'm 13.. What do I do...?

They always question everything I say. For example, if I make a remark they act like I'm wrong and say I don't know what I'm talking about. Once it comes out that I was right, they either get upset or act like I never said anything. They talk to me incredibly slow when explaining things(even simple concepts) and call me pet names such as "Hun" in a patronizing way. If I look upset, they immediately jump all over me asking me what's wrong and ask me who they need to go murder. However, they do this in an insincere way and their voices are dripping with sarcasm. They also assume I'm upset when really there isn't a single thing wrong with me. Then when I get upset with them for pushing the issue, they get mad at me. We could be talking about something where everyone is giving their opinions. When I give mine, I'm either lectured for saying anything or ignored completely. They seem to think I can't do anything on my own. It's so annoying how they do this stuff and I don't understand why they treat me the way they do. They don't do it to other people. They treat me like I'm an immature little kid, when really, I'm probably the most mature out of all of them. They're the 18 and 19 years going around making 9/11 and aids jokes, while treating anyone different like crap. Why do they do this? What should I do?

I met my friend when I was in 6th grade on band class. He was trying to play drums but couldn't. I went on and played a song. Then after class we met at one of our classes and became friends. I wear black, dye my hair, have long hair, and have a streak of hair over my right eye. In 7th grade, since he had short hair, he tried to take his hair and kept grabbing it to make it over his eye. I asked him what he was doing and said I dont know. Then in 8th grade, he started to wear black like me and tried to grow his hair long like me. I then said stop copying my style, it's starting to get annoying. And he said, I'm not I just like black a lot. He did not wear any of it in 7th grade until he met me in 6th. And now he's trying to play an instrument and thinks he's the most badass person alive and talks on a deep voice when he talked to a "cool kid" or talks to a girl. I'm already in a relationship and started doing all this when I was with someone. I don't know why he does this but it's starting to get really annoying.

Last year (7th grade) two girls joined my class. My teacher made me hang out with them. That was completely fine with me. They were nice, and didn't have any friends because they were new. Now they have become super talkative, and follow me everywhere. And I mean EVERYWHERE. They don't follow my other friends that much, only me. One of them is an annoying stereotypical girl who is obsessed with pumpkin spice lattes, make up, and snap chat. The other one is just kind of rude and annoying. I can never get anything done in school because they are constantly asking for help because neither of them are very smart. This year all the other people in my class have become really nice. These girls won't stop following me, so I have to deal with them and not be friends with any of the people I want to. How do I get them to be less clingy without offending them?

Hey im actually with my other friends right now typing this, we are all college students, we have a group of about 6 or 7 friends that always hang out and stuff, one of them is this really shy and quiet guy. Hes out of state but knows our area well because he grew up in a nearby town, hes a pretty cool guy when he talks but he usually doesnt talk. When we first met him he was sitting alone in class while everyone else was introducing themselves and stuff, he did introduce himself to us but only after we asked. eventually over the course of a few months we befriended him and have a study group now. He`s smart, probably one of the smartest in our group. He never talks about himself and described himself as more of a listener. he plays the ukulele and we asked him to play it for us he said hes not that good so there no point. this leads me to believe he has low self esteem, is there any way we could help him? we kind of see him as a friend now and dont want him to stay quiet forever. hes pretty funny sometimes too, and he can talk through facebook and texting just fine but not in person.

She lied to her friend and told her that I was mentally retarded but that's not true. I'm not mentally retarded. I'm actually smart. She also tried to punch my mom in the face. I don't understand why she would try to do that? She's such a brat, I hope she burns in hell. She never graduated highschool because all she ever did was have sex with so many men. That's why all the boys like her. She thinks because the guy tells her if she really loved him. She would have sex with him. She thinks its love. Its not. That's why they left her. All they wanted was sex. If I were her I would of dumped him because the only thing that matters to him is sex. Every selfie she would take of herself, she would make that stupid duck face. Why can't they just smile at the camera? She was so mean to everyone. She would steal things. I tried anything to make myself have a convivial moment. Convivial means enjoyment by the way. What should I do?

This is just for fun, so I wanted to know what you think of well....me! ~I am that girl who is always laughing. Who never stops smiling when she's around her friends. Even when I make a bad joke, and everyone stares and says "That's not funny", I still laugh. ~I am really girly. I wear floral, and pink clothes, and love makeup. I also do cheer. I usually have on eye shadow, concealer, powder, mascara, and chap stick. ~I love to read. I am a sucker for classic novels like Jane Eyre. I also love fashion magazines, but I only read them like once a month. I love series of realistic fiction, and fantasy. I just finished reading Harry Potter again. ~I am "smart" I hope I don't sound conceited. I have a 4.0, and love school. Not the homework part anyway. I work hard, and am planning for college already. My mom never helped me with homework. I pushed myself to learn, and here I am. ~I am outgoing. With adults more. Around kids my age, I am always saying hi. I am really polite (I would think) ~I am a picky eater! I hate this! I don't like ketchup, or cheese. Including many other things. My friends are always like, your that crazy person. I am PROUD. What do you think? Please don't comment saying it doesn't matter! That was not my question. You can just give me the truth, even if it isn't the nicest thing.

i love people i love to laugh and cuddle and i always like to talk. i talk alot and i cant stop talking for like an hour sometimes hours nonstop. i always try to talk to people i want to be friends with but nobody wants to be friends with me i dont know why im pretty handsome and cute and i like to talk about myself and what i like to do and what i dont like to do im very confident and outgoing but nobody seems to want to spend time with me. i like to text alot sometimes i will sleep texting and sometimes i will keep texting while the other person is sleeping. i tried everything to have friends. i keep adding and they keep deleting me off of facebook and at work everyone seems to like me but they dont want to be my facebook friends because they say their husbands or wives dont want them to add me. i feel like some of them really want to be my friends but they are too shy or something maybe if they knew about me and how i am as a person they will accept my friends request i love to listetn to music alot i like all of the new music trap music and all of that good stuff i want to be a musician i think i have a good voice i can sing really good and i like to sing karaoke too. one of my favorite things to do is sing and i like watch alot of movies but everyone gets mad because im on my phone talking to my friends letting them know what part of the movie is showing i want to share my movie experience with them because i want them to know all of the info and im a good person to ha

My friend has had a crush on this one guy for about a year now. I personally don't like the guy (for her) because from what she told me, he seems like a player and didn't know what he wanted. I'm not too sure if they were "talking" - from what I understand they would hang out and then sometimes make out, but that's it. Because it seemed as though he didn't know what he wanted, she tried to cut things off with him, but kind of went back to him. She even told me that over the summer he had asked her to go on a date with him, and when she said okay when, he didn't respond back. Now the guy has graduated from our college, but whenever he comes back to visit and she realizes he's around, he always tells me "you know who is here!" Well, today I went to this cafe at my school just to grab some food. This one girl walked in, ordered some food, and then the guy randomly appears. They obviously knew each other because they started talking. Next thing you know, I see them "play fighting" and then he hugs the girl from the back... Now, they could just be sister and brother... but I'm sure sisters and brothers don't hug on each other like that lol. The only way they looked similar is that they had glasses. I want to tell my friend, but at the same time I don't want to break her heart... should I though? By "hugging from the back", I mean they were like this: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BlOvse8CUAA7tge.jpg . And he started rocking her from left to right

I have a friend who won't eat, she eats every once in a while but not enough to be in not danger. She's 5'8" and her weight isn't even covered by some of the bmi charts I've seen and she says she's fine but she isn't at all fine. So how do I help her not do this and be in not danger?

Alright so basically, a few day ago I skyped my ex. We got a little dirty and before I knew it we were playing truth or dare and I was naked almost masturbating in front of him. Woops..now word got out I've done it and this group of girls I socialize with are calling me "hoe" and "slut". I know this is my fault, and I have to take responsibility but it's making me feel absolutely worthless and guilty. Any sort of advice? (don't say "never go on cam with people you don't trust " or whatever.)

Hi everyone, I'm in 7th grade and I've been wanting to be a cheerleader since I was four. I tried out for my school cheer team on Friday. I didn't make the team and I was devastate. I was balling the whole day when I found out. On top off all that my best friend made the team. She keeps talking about it and I'm trying to be happy for her but its so hard. How should I deal all this.

This past week, my girlfriend has been feeling really shitty. She had intense cramps from her period (which started sunday) but her parents didn't want her staying home. Knowing how much pain she was in, I said she has every right to stay home and focus on her health. But then Tuesday she stayed home as well, saying she still didn't feel well and didn't want to move around. At this point I told her that I supported her if this is what she had to do, but that she had to come to school Wednesday. She ended up coming Wednesday, but late. She decided in the morning she would stay home again and then changed her mind. Thursday, she was feeling good at first but as soon as a conflict arose between her and her mother she stayed home again. Friday, the same thing, except she came late again. I've told her she needs to start coming to school, she can't stay home forever. I've said I know she's having trouble motivating herself but that I'm here to help her but she has to try. Today, Saturday, she's not being allowed to go to a party because she stayed home from school so much. She said it was stupid because she's already been punished, and also already hates herself over it. She then stated she's not going to school this next week. She's had intense depression for a while now and has always had trouble getting herself to do things. How can I communicate to her how much I care while also convincing her she needs to make the necessary effort to get through highschool?

Should i write my friend in prison we both knew each other since kids and we are now 23 idk why i feel like i would be bothering him

My friends birthday is today and she invited all of our friends to go shopping with her, except me. Nobody told me about it until my best friend slipped up and accidentally told me about it. Apparently she ran out of room in the cars and couldn t invite anyone else. She hasn t talked to me about it though. We were all hanging out yesterday and everything seemed fine. Should I be mad?

There's this girl in my class who texted me and wanted me to take pics of notes she missed. I didn't know them and my binder was at school cuz I finished homework. So she asked me for my friends number. I said I didn't want to give it to her because it's not in my position to do so. I told her I could give her the notes on Monday as they were short. She got mad at me for it. She wanted to study and said 'I'm not going to eat ur friend lmfao w/ wave emoji". So I got mad because she was rude. I calmly explained to her and said there was no need to be rude but then she said to just ask my friend. I asked my friend. She was glad I asked her. No matter cuz she was loading all data onto a new phone. So she wouldn't answer anyway. Then I told this girl that and she got even worse. I said not to even ask me for my notes and she said fine I don't need or want ur help it shows what kind of person you are blah blah blah and bye and leave lmfao while I said k, I'm not here to impress anyone and it's not reflecting on me. Cuz she was attacking me. So anyway... Was I wrong in this situation and what to do when I see her on Monday? What should my friend do lest she asked her for her number, knowing this happened?

My friend was old but got a hot, twenty year old wife. I never got why. They had four kids so sometimes I asked him, "So who do you think is pumping a few rounds into that?" And he then he glared at me and mouthed "I will end you." Anyways, he's dead now and I want his wife. She's apparently in mourning (please) and lives with our other friend. How do I make sure he knows his place? I've been divorced twice and I want her.

I'm a 14 year old boy in 9th grade and all I literally do on the weekends is sit on my *** playing Xbox 360! I usually hang out on weekends with friends, but I had plans with a friend this weekend to go play Tennis at our high school tennis courts, but then he brang something up and made an excuse. I feel as if I need new friends. And when my parents get home from work at night on Saturday, they're going to ask me what I did and I'm gonna say I stayed at home. I'm dying and crying right now, for Lord's sake. I hate my life!!!!!! Nothing ever goes right.. I have ******* 2 F's, I have abusive parents, and I feel as if I'm not good enough in this world for me and my friends.

a year ago, I got out of an emotionally abusive and manipulative friendship with a girl who then went on to stalk me. My parents helped me out a little, but they pretty much took it as she was mad that I didn t want to be her friend anymore. They have no idea how bad and traumatizing the friendship was. I have tried to tell them since I m still scared of her, but they ve shut me down and told me not to worry about it and that she was just attention-seeking. So here I am a year later, a freshman in college and her still in high school, still scared to death of finding her looking for me because I know she would hurt me given the chance and the school can t tell her to leave me alone since I ve graduated. I haven t felt safe being by myself for a year because of her. I went to an on-campus therapist and who had me report this girl to campus police and both think I should get a no-contact order against her since the therapist agreed that she s very sociopathic and wouldnt have the rationale to not hurt me if she saw me. And to get the no contact order I have to tell my parents. I have no idea how to tell them and I m really afraid of them telling me I m overreacting when I m not and I m afraid they ll judge me for sticking around with the girl even though I knew she was dangerous. But I know this girl is also hurting other girls like me and she had the capacity and want to physically hurt other people. How do I tell my parents I want a no-contact order against her?

I don't want a party, and i will probably only end up going somewhere with my best friend, and not other people. My birthday is in Decemer, and I live in Southern California. I want to take a weekend somewhere, and It would be cool to see snow or something. Beaches are kind of out since it will be cold. Any ideas? Things to do? Thanks!

I am 23 and he is 30. I came to a point in my life where I no longer want a relationship for right now. I just so happened to meet him and we decided to hangout. We clicked really well and developed feelings.We talk everyday( he lives a few hours away), but its too much. I've nicely expressed the clingy vibe I get from him and how I can sense his insecurity. He is one of the best guys i have ever met and when we spend time together we are very affectionate. I just don't know whats wrong with me. It hurts me that I know I could potentially hurt him because I can tell he is falling in love. I care so much about him even as just a friend. I also feel that I am not entirely attracted to him physically(slightly balding but still adorable) and would honestly care too much what people would think. It is shallow and I hate it. I finally get the good guy and I can't seem to make it work for myself. What should i do?

I woke up one morning and my friend was looking down at me. We were having a sleepover. Then I said "Get off me." And she said "You aren t going anywhere." And pinned my arms to with her hands. Then her mom came in and told me it was time to go. My friend let go of me. It was scary.

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How do I say no without appearing greedy.

I signed up cause they promised me some college money I ain't the smartest muh'****** but I'm not a dummy They told me I would be stationed in places hot and sunny I had a lot of pride, muh'******* got it from me These people over here innocent, they never harmed me My sergeant tried to convince me that they would try to bomb me I feel like an outsider stuck inside this army Everybody brainwashed, American zombies I ain't realized how much it set me back Until I lost my leg and then they sent me back I don't have anything, now I'm left with scraps From a government who created AIDS, invented crack People told me not to join, I tried to prove 'em wrong Now I'm homeless and I'm cold without no food that's warm I keep asking myself what did I do that's wrong?

Sorry if this is long. Okay so I'd like to think I'm pretty a good looking girl. I'm not skinny and I'm not fat. I'm curvy and have an ***. And I'm pretty tall. (I sound so conceited wow - I'm not btw) I've always been decently confident but I became super close with this girl and she's really great and we have a lot of fun together. But she has this light perfect skin, and is a little short but so skinny and she's just really gorgeous and I was honestly fine with it. Like you go, more power to you. But after a while it wore down on me, she just kept telling me about how all these guys were checking her out as we were walking together, and how people at school randomly just tell her she's gorgeous, how when she walks down the streets guys stop and yell things to her, and how when she goes out guys grab at her (which ok isn't entirely the best). But so, I start thinking crap no one checks me out, nothing like that happens to me. And I feel inadequate. And my confidence literally plummets, I understand that there's so much more than outer beauty. But now I'm worried that when we go out no one will really notice me, and that she will kinda just step forward and grab all the guys attention. And I'll just fade into the background. And I know this sounds shallow and like wtf just be happy with yourself. But I have an intense fear of being forgotten due to an incident with foster care when I was younger (not elaborating) but help please.

so its the 5th week of school and he stares at me and always makes up a conversation with me, when i walk down the hall he looks at me and smiles and while in class i stayed on a different side of the table and he would stare and smile and move his hand a bit, and when schools over he waves at me and says bye multiple times, does he have a crush on me or something? he also remembered my name right away and no one ever knows my name that fast. Update: also my teacher handed out papers and i was getting ready to leave class, and he would give me one and smile

I'm 16 going to be 17 in Jan. I wrestled last year and was good a the 1 tournament I went to (went 4-1 with 3 pins in a row). I like all the guys on the team, but hated the coach and the way the whole thing was ran. The varsity guys would wrestle while everyone else would run the track, lift, or sometimes just watch. I'm 5'6 150 and strong for my size (245 bench max, 385 dead lift max, and 315 squat for 3) and people tell me I look like a wrestler. I wanna give it another try but am worried about being so far behind guys who have worked on their technique for years and years. I also really hate conditioning (even though I know I need it)

I had a friend in the first year of sixth form that's left now and hasn't talked to anyone since, we tried to speak to her online and ask how to exams went but she didn't reply to anyone. Just recently she posted a picture of her and a dolphin on Facebook, is she ok? Is this some sort of early midlife crisis because she might not have done so well? Oh god I'm sorry it's just I'm worried that's all.

I want to tell my parents how I've been feeling for months because I'm tired of pretending to be okay or happy when I'm not. I've been bullied because of shyness. I'm a leader type of person which means that I don't follow what others do. I've been bullied because of my appearance and shyness. Why do I have to talk and be a follower to not be bullied? Those who follow others and are social don't experience bullying because they're not unique. How is being yourself good if others harm you for it? I'm in high school as a sophomore so I expect people to do whatever they can to fit in with others. Most of the time people force me or pressure me to talk because I'm quiet. I'm muscular but I've been called fat in the past. I have a voice that I can use when ever I want to use it. People joke too much with me. When I do talk people they barely hear me. I have been told to speak up so I feel embarrassed. People have joked about my race,weight,and about girls liking me. Why do shy people have it so hard? I also hesitate to talk often because I'm worried about the person's reaction and that is why I don't want to keep putting on the act and tell them how bad I feel.

I was very very drunk and being very stupid and I I tried to pull someone s beard, slammed into someone s car, hit someone and threw a drink at someone. They re all very annoyed and only live opposite me. I want to make it up with them and I m really embarrassed and guilty. What do I do? What do I say? How can I start?

The girlfriend of a friend is a burlesque dancer with a VERY risque name. I have tons of friends who I hold all equally dear but if they ever met in a room together it d be WW3. Is there a way to hide the friendship announcement with the very risque name on FB?

He's not stupid but he keeps thinking that he is, and as a result gives up too easily (emotionally) causing him to not do well. He can definitely get to college but he's not studying right with self-belief, thinking that he will fail everything and waste his years in high school. I don't even know what to say to him anymore because after trying to encourage him, he doubts himself. I feel like he has a defeatist attitude and focuses on his problems instead of possible solutions. Eg. When he doesn't do well, he would rather moan about it (and think about switching course when it's far too late) than actively seek ways to consult teachers, etc. It's like 1 more month to exams and i don't know how to help him. I'm a year behind so my exams have finished by im kinda worried about my friend!