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- Question: I feel lonely and I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Is it okay for me to talk to a little girl?
- Question: Is that a friend or not?
- Question: Is your closest friend male or female?
- Question: I have no one to trick or treat with?
- Question: My friends are all friends with this one person that's really mean to me what should I do?
- Question: Should I go to the party?
- Question: How can i stop being super obnoxious and loud and annoying?
- Question: What makes your best friend your best friend?
- Question: Why do i always feel like this?
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- Question: How to meet people everywhere you go? (10 points)?
- Question: Need friend advice, please help.?
- Question: Help making friends?!?
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- Question: My BFF is mad at me b/c ppl took my phone and starting saying mean things to her i didn t know abt this. i tried "sorry" but it wont work?
- Question: I m being constantly interrupted by my friend.. Is she being rude or is it my wrongdoing?
- Question: Was i being selfish?
- Question: What happens to the quiet kids after high school?
- Question: HELP!!! Why am I so antisocil???
- Question: Friend has bad breath?
- Question: How to get closer to an existing group of friends and stop appearing as too clingy with a friend??? Plzz heelp (im 15 btw)?
- Question: I'm really shy and also really loud and annoying but I want to change?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Is my ex bestfriend trying to be my friend again?
- Question: Have your bestfriend from childhood turned distant from you because they got a bf/gf?
- Question: How can I prevent myself from being weird or just join a new group of friends?
- Question: My best friend in the whole entire world is leaving for boarding school and she told me today.?
- Question: Why do people think I am more American than my friend and treat me differently just because I am White?
- Question: Recently me and 2 other friends were excluded from our friend group. Is it bad that i cry about it? ive been friends w/ them since 1st grade?
- Question: How do I make people forgive me and talk to me?
- Question: What should I do regarding my mom?
- Question: Friend Drama?? HELP!!!?
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- Question: My friends are basically slut shaming me?
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| Question: I feel lonely and I don't know what to do.? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:17 PM PDT I've always been a quiet kid. I have friends but not the ones who ask you what's the matter or really care they don't invite me to things either I feel like a burden. My parents say one day you'll have great friends but I feel nothing. I feel depressed more every day but the only I have to look forward to his music school is just becoming a cycle. I feel like I'm not pretty not smart enough I don't have a good personality or anything. |
| Question: Is it okay for me to talk to a little girl? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:03 PM PDT I'm 16 and a guy and I know an 11 year old girl because she came to my house one time with her mom. I go to alternative school with 5 other boys, and don't even get along with other boys or girls my age. Is it okay for me to be friends with that young girl? |
| Question: Is that a friend or not? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:59 PM PDT So this dude, we hang out to go eating here at college... But he is with his other friends, watching movies, going to cinemas... But not with me... Because me and his other friend dont like each other... Also when i call him, he mostly always says ok, like going for a beer, going for a coffee and eating... But he's mocking me sometimes... And i'm getting a feeling that that's not a real friend... i just dont know... this week im thinking hard about who is my friend and who isnt and i'm also trying to be mostly by myself to keep a distance from people... because i cant trust anybody... So what do you think |
| Question: Is your closest friend male or female? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:53 PM PDT |
| Question: I have no one to trick or treat with? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:41 PM PDT I'm 13. I don't wanna go with my cousin. She's a narcissist, she's so selfish, but oblivious to everyone around her at the same time. She's overly hyper. No one where I live trick or treats, no one where I live even comes out a lot. And when they do, it's always people twice as old as me or a bunch of years younger than me. My friends don't talk to me that much. What should I do? |
| Question: My friends are all friends with this one person that's really mean to me what should I do? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:37 PM PDT None of my friends really like her, they're only friends with her cause they don't want drama. Today she physically pushed me and told me that I wasn't wanted around here and I should go talk to the other part of our group. I've only seen this sh** in movies. She makes me feel so bad about myself and makes my whole day go from being really nice and happy to horrible. I'm the most optimistic, happy, cheerful person so it takes a lot to bring me down and she sure knows how to do it, I've never met anyone that makes me feel worse about myself than her. Going to the guidance counselor would just make things worse and how childish does it sound to go and tattle on someone pushing you. I dont know what to do cause she's everywhere and I'm having problems in my other friend groups too. We're freshman and honestly I knew groups were going to change but I didn't realize how fast |
| Question: Should I go to the party? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:27 PM PDT I am a senior and I recently moved from Illinois to California. I am the type of person that finds it hard to make friends and an introvert. I get overwhelmed and annoyed with people in general after about 3 hours on a good day. So i only go out with friends about once a month. Since moving, most of the friends I have made are sophmores but it clear that they feel uncomfortable with hanging out with me outside of school. Only one of them has been so kind to hang out with me outside of school. Yeah , i know a few seniors from my classes and they are nice but i dont care to get to know them. I know things wont change much now to the end of the school year because i dont really care about my social life this year considering i am going to college next year. however there is going to be a senior goodbye party that the school is throwing on a cruise from 10pm to 4am. Knowing me, i would spend most of it alone. I am debating wether to go or not. Any opinions? |
| Question: How can i stop being super obnoxious and loud and annoying? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:15 PM PDT whenever i'm with my friend i'm super loud. i mean extremely loud. we laugh and stuff and it annoys everyone. but i would really like to become less annoying bc i don't want to go through my whole high school career being that annoying *****. but i don't want to lose my friend in the process ? |
| Question: What makes your best friend your best friend? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do i always feel like this? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:10 PM PDT Am I depressed if I feel down, don't really care about my old friends anymore or want to talk to them, and I'd rather be alone? I've been so tired of life in general between being let down by girls, ex-gf, and even best friends. Just don't seem to every feel happy. I'll laugh and seem to be happy, but I don't honestly feel happy. I see pictures of people on facebook where they look genuinely happy. I can't say that I've felt that way in a long time. Like yesterday, I went to a national park alone.. and my parents asked who I went with.. just said "by myself." I used to be nervous doing stuff alone, but now I don't really give two sh1ts what anyone thinks around me. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:05 PM PDT what music is like that : white russian... ...canqueri now call to the king know they call a blodymary, withe a male strong voice and a really cool beat... |
| Question: Any Trinidadians in CT? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 04:05 PM PDT Hey, I'm living in Waterbury, CT, and was born & raised in Trinidad & Tobago.... I'm looking for any other Trini ppl around here because I would love to speak creole with them rather than a fake American accent and someone i can relate to because i only have my mother. Lol. Anyone? Around the age of like 16 - 19 ? |
| Question: How to meet people everywhere you go? (10 points)? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:58 PM PDT the title says it all |
| Question: Need friend advice, please help.? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:51 PM PDT One of my best friends became apart of a friend group last year(btw I am a freshman) because his girlfriend was apart of it. The group is a boys and girls friend group. I gave him his space when he started eating with them and whatnot but after they broke up he didn't stop hanging with them. Flash forward to now and he is still with them. I eventually became friends with the two other guys in the group but not the other girls in it. I really like the people in the group but I feel really uncomfortable when I am around them. I'm really intimidated by the girls in that group I don't feel like they acknowledge me. My question is should I try to involve myself in their group? How should I go about that? Or should I stay away? Thanks, would appreciate any response. |
| Question: Help making friends?!? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:51 PM PDT I am an extrovert. A REAL extrovert. I m funny, confident, fun, pretty, outgoing, fun, a good singer. I m always happy, and laughing. I m slightly random and weird. I m bubbly. And girly. In a good way.... (That sounds cocky but I am usually very humble. If I m being confident in my brain. I never say those things aloud.) ... But... A few years ago I messed up my image, I made people think of me as the smart girl who causes drama and is rude :( . I changed a LOT since then. But everyone knows me for my reputation. I have nobody to talk to. The onw group of girls I could sit with at lunch were ok. I was trying to get closer to them. They didn t know me for the true me. They knew me as a girl who sat there and listens. I planned a day for us to hang out recently . Those girls cut me out of MY plan. Lied about not going. And went without me :( . There is nobody else in general. We just had a fight (according to my counselor they were fault for). It s not a personality problem. It s the people in my grade problem. NOBODY has respect for me and knows me for who I am. I m in 8th grade right now. My parents say that when I get to high school I will be with new people and I can have a fresh start being the real me. But for now :( I really don t know what to do. I have no options and I can t find anyone to room with for the school trip. I feel like a terrible person. Lonely all the time. Bored . ... Just please. HELP! I am my perfect self inside. But nobody is here to give me a chance. In a new place. I can be myself. So it's not a personality problem. I'm just so confused ! :( I'm NOT a perfect human Being. We all have flaws and I didn't mean to come across that way. By perfect self , I mean the best me I can be. I just used to not act the way I do, I ised to be kind of rude and a little misbehaved. I was dramatic. I didn't feel right to act like me. I know when I'm in a new school I can. But till the. What do I do? |
| Question: Why do people not like me at college ? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:51 PM PDT I recently started at a small nursing school (2 months ago) and I have yet to make a friend . I had to live in the dorms because of how far I am , but there are only about 20 girls living here . Ever since the first day , I got the vibe that j didn t really fit in. They came from high school to here together and didn t really want anything to do with me. I tried to join in when they went places or study with them and they either walk away from me or ignore me . I m so lonely here and I don t understand why I am such an outcast. I am friendly and nice , if not a little shy. Whenever I walk in the room , everyone goes quiet until I leave . I had plenty of friends in high school and I don t know what happened ! It s really starting to get to me when I am alone all the time listening to everyone else make plans I am not involved in. |
| Question: Seniors, is your health good enough for this coming winter? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:45 PM PDT Let's brace ourselves for the cold season. I am fearful of winter... |
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| Question: I m being constantly interrupted by my friend.. Is she being rude or is it my wrongdoing? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:41 PM PDT I ve been best friends with this person for about a year now, and it s gotten to the point where every time we have a conversation, it s her doing most of the talking. When I do get to talk, she isn t listening. If she is telling me a story, or just talking in general, and I try to give her my thoughts, she will just talk right over me like I didn t say anything. Then, if I do get the chance, sometimes it s like she isn t even interested or listening because she has already said what she had to say or she is waiting for her next turn to speak. And I ve wondered if it was just me being rude (not purposely) because maybe she just wasn t finished with her story but I can tell that s not the case. She used to not do this. I try to be a good listener but a conversation goes two ways! Could I be doing something wrong or is it her? |
| Question: Was i being selfish? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:37 PM PDT This has been bothering me forever and it makes me think that adults think kids are stupid and don't understand anything. When i was around 7 or 8 i was at my friends house. My mom had bought me and her the big bags of hot cheeto puffs, something we both loved.I knew that my friends brother and sister and their two friends knew they were mine. Since they saw when my mom came to drop them off and saw me putting them in the pantry. Anyway, later on me and my friend went outside for sometime and when we came back they were all sitting around the table eating the chips. I was angry but then i thought oh it's okay they probably just took a couple but no, they left me like 6 chips out of the large bag. I was really mad but i didn't tell them anything i just brushed it off a bit. Well their one friend i'll call her sandy. Was walking with me, her son, and my friend and i told her i was angry they ate nearly all my chips. I told her that they should have at least asked me because i would have said yes but they didn't. When i was done explaining this to her she said "you know what you're being right now? you're being selfish that's called being selfish you have to learn how to share". I was pissed because one: i would have shared but they didn't ask and 2: they were being rude by not even asking me or apologizing for leaving me and my friend 6 chips to share. What do you guys think? |
| Question: What happens to the quiet kids after high school? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:33 PM PDT I ve been needing some reassurance lately. I m a sophomore in high school and I m really lacking friends. I just started taking anti depressants last week and I ve been depressed for about a year. It hasn t been bad, but enough to affect me. I play hockey and am very outgoing and talkative on my team, but not so much in school. I do talk to kids a lot in school but I m not sure why I haven t made any friends 2 years in. I ve tried to talk to new people and be a person someone can like. Nothing has worked out and it really bums me out. On top of what I can do make more friends, what happens to the quiet kids after high school? My grade are fairly good, I don t do drugs, and I have a great family and life at home. I just find myself at home alone a lot because my parents work. I consider myself a good person but maybe I m just weird. I m never mean to anyone either. |
| Question: HELP!!! Why am I so antisocil??? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:27 PM PDT I have no real friends. I m close to my family, but I don t really feel close to anyone. I feel like a loner. This habit started in middle school because I was always bullied, and could never make friends. It continued in high school until the point that I just stopped liking people. I talk to people in my classes in college and roommates but I have no real friends. I can t get close to people, and I just find socializing to be hard and difficult. But here's the thing no one is mean to me anymore. I have met some nice people, but I've lost interest in socialization because I've become used to being alone. It's like socializing is more of a pain than being alone |
| Question: Friend has bad breath? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:25 PM PDT I have this friend at school, and she has really bad breath, I don't want to tell her, does anybody know what I can do? Thank you |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:25 PM PDT So I went back to my old school from being homeschooled three years .The first day I got to class, everyone was so nice but there was this one girl Valerie was the nicest, always making me laugh, positive and smiling all the time. She helped with my classes, offered me her locker introduced me to a group of friends and it was just amazing! For 2 weeks. Then week 3 I noticed something different. When I talked to her she just responded with short answer and would not even look up. When I saw her walking down the hallway she would just look at me and not smile back. Then, I just tried to talk to other girls in the group and forget about her attitude towards me. But what really hurt was that she would act bored or put off when I was around, and then when another girl or guy came to talk, she would be grinning . Then one day we bonded a lot and talk the whole day. We walk to our lockers together, laughed, ate together and just really bonded! Then because of her, I got really close to the group.They acknowledged me and would direct questions to me and hug me and everything! Then maybe I got too clingy to Valerie. I was just so used to being with her that maybe I didn't give her enough space. She went back to ignoring me , being mean & stuff. Valerie & I are STILL not on good terms. I can speak to her and she's nice, but if I speak too much and she would just ignore me. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?! Should i say Im sorry for how I didn't give her enough space or should I just let it go? The thing is she is...like its in her nature to include you in a conversation or in a group if you are her friend. So when i was close to her, I really felt like I was part of the group. |
| Question: I'm really shy and also really loud and annoying but I want to change? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:17 PM PDT I have this friend who i've been friends with for two years now and she's my best friend. we spend a lot of time together and i feel super comfortable around her. we talk about weird stuff and normal stuff. but whenever i'm around her i'm always really loud because she makes me laugh so much and we just spend all our time together benign loud and annoying and super obnoxious. like literally all we do if laugh at stupid things. like she makes a face or a noise or a comment and we just laugh for so long. but generally i'm a really shy person. i don't talk to anyone else except my friend. so in all the classes that i don't have with her people think i'm super shy and quiet. and they probably think that i'm snobby and stuck up bc i don't talk at all bc my friend thought that until we became friends so i have this dilemma where people think i'm too loud and obnoxious and other people think i'm a stuck up *****. but i really want to change. i really want people to think that i'm nice and a good person. and i know that makes me seem like a stuck up ***** but i really don't want to go through my high school career with everyone thinking i'm annoying. so how can i start talking to more people when i'm super shy? and how can i stop being so loud and obnoxious with my friend and just be sorta chill? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:09 PM PDT I've literally tried everything to prevent my depression. It's like everyday is a new and harder challenge. I have a sister who is in my same grade as me but not twins. I'm am constantly reminded that I'm never good enough. She's an average of A-B grade and mine C-B. She's skinnier (but not by much) and prettier. I have some friends in school (hard to explain... I'm friends with the popular but I don't have a "BFF" in school) But anyway I am getting more depressed. I've been thinking more and more about suicide. The only thing that really keeps me here is that my cat would be lonely. But anyway if you have anyway to help me I'm all ears. I really want to be more happy and grades up but I'm just not smart enough... |
| Question: Is my ex bestfriend trying to be my friend again? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 03:06 PM PDT Let's call my ex best friend Sarah. Sarah and I have been bestfriend for about 2 years and we would fight a couple times and just make up and be friends again. but we had a fall out about 7 months ago due to complications in the friendship such as jealousy, drama and we just completely ended our friendship and me and Sarah havnt talked since then. During those 7 months I always kinda missed our friendship but I knew it would never be the same again. So just a couple days ago she followed me on Instagram ( we unfollowed eachother from social media during our fall out). Sarah messaged me on Instagram saying that she wanted to move on from the past. And agreed we should stop avoiding eachother. I now say hi to her a couple times in the hallways and she talked to me a little bit after class and like it wasnt awkward or anything. Is she trying to be friends with me again? What's going on? |
| Question: Have your bestfriend from childhood turned distant from you because they got a bf/gf? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:51 PM PDT Mine did. Me and her use to hang out and call each other and talk girly stuff. But now that she has a boyfriend she been dating for 4yrs she been distant. She don't even call me no more atleast she could call to see if I'm alive, I've tried reaching out to her but she wants to act cold and distant. So i don't contact her no more at all |
| Question: How can I prevent myself from being weird or just join a new group of friends? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:51 PM PDT I'm in high school, and my current group of friends thinks I'm weird, and they're starting to distance themselves away from me. I've tried to stop my weirdness, but they still try to avoid me. By weirdness I mean I act out a lot. This includes me telling offensive jokes or like talking really loud, or something like that. And now I just feel like I have to say those things for some reason, even though I know they're sick of it. It's become a habit. I wanted to join a new group of friends, but the problem with that is I'll still see my current group around school and also the fact that no other group shares my common interests. Everyone else is just a sporty douchebag, a pothead, or a gothic weirdo. My second option is reducing my "weirdness". Can anyone give me some tips on how to not act out or be "weird" or "annoying"? Thanks for any help. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:42 PM PDT I never had a super close friend before. I always had friends but nothing like she is. Usually when I have a regular friend over there s not much to talk about. Then my parents get mad and say I don t have real friends. I know they aren t my strongest friends and every night I would cry to sleep because I didn t have a close friend. Now I finally got a strong friend and she s leaving the next year to go to boarding school. I have had so many memories with her. I ve had more memories in the past year with her than the past 3 years with regula friends and now she s leaving me. I can t stop crying. I m never free because I am extremely compete retire in soccer and dedicate most of my time to that sport so on weekends I won t be able to see her even though she comes back every 3 weeks. This is really hard for me. What do I do?! |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:41 PM PDT So my friend and I recently travelled to Pakistan for vacation, we were both born and raised in Illinois in America. Except she is Latina and I am a white girl. Anyways, when we told them we were from America, they started to get mad, but they treated only me badly and started calling me a dumb American, but my friend who is Latina, they seemed to think she was originally from Mexico and still treated her kindly. But why do they see her as less American if she is Latina? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:41 PM PDT btw im in 8th grade |
| Question: How do I make people forgive me and talk to me? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:34 PM PDT I need some ideas for my classmates to forgive me for always telling at then collectively. pls just help |
| Question: What should I do regarding my mom? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:28 PM PDT I haven't seen my mom in six years. It's gone this far and I've started to miss her, and my hometown, my old friends. I kind of want to make amends with her, but I haven't heard from her since 2011... Any advice? |
| Question: Friend Drama?? HELP!!!? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:22 PM PDT My friends are Lila, Kat and Amy. My name is Mari. One day while we were playing tag, Kat was it and she grabbed Lila's hood on accident. Lila started crying and said she couldn't breathe but Kat only had her hood for five seconds. Amy and I yelled at Kat and we weren't friends with Kat for maybe three weeks...Then Lila started saying she hated Kat. I was a little...well....shocked at that. Amy and I wanted to be friends with Kat again. We told Lila and Lila called us stupid foolish melon heads in Japanese. Amy and I were friends with Kat again. Now in a new grade, Lila is hanging out with the people we all used to be at war with. Like girl group on girl group. Kat and Amy don't want to be Lila's friend again but I used to be the one closest to Lila. It hurt me when she left. Any advice? I just want to know if I should be her friend again or move on. How do I get her back? How do I tell my friends I want her back? |
| Question: Where do I find criminogenic continuing education courses? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:19 PM PDT |
| Question: My friends are basically slut shaming me? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:16 PM PDT I'm in seventh grade -- We were playing "Never Have I Ever" at this party, and this girl said, "Never have I ever kissed someone." And we were playing in like close friend groups at the party, so I was only with five other people, and turns out I was the only one who had kissed someone. I put my finger down and all my friends started attacking me, "Oh frick, you've kissed someone, wow." "How many boyfriends have you had?!" "Woah, don't be a whore!" "How many boys have you kissed someone, holy damn!" And it hurt even more because my first kiss was to my first boyfriend, over the summer. He lived in Pennsylvania and I live in Indiana, so we only got to see each other for a week/two weeks at a time, and when were saying goodbye, he kissed me. Two weeks ago, he had committed suicide. And remembering that kiss was so freaking painful to me. Especially their words, about me being a slut. What should I do? I've just given up. I miss my (ex)boyfriend. And my friends are being such assholes about everything. I do realize that I'm only in seventh grade, and I have plenty of time to make new friends, have new crushes, date new people... But I'm in pain, right now. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:14 PM PDT I was hanging out with my friend last night and we were gonna have a sleepover at her house. She's been talking and messing around with this kid from her work. (When they started-a few weeks ago-he still had a gf) once his god found out, she dumped him. (That happened a week ago) I've been telling her it's a bad idea to be messing with him but she does what she wants. Anyways so I figured she was done with him because that's what she told me, but then she asked me if I'd be mad if she left to go have sex with him and then she would pick me up after. I didn't really give a direct answer but obviously I was annoyed. I went home and texted her told her I couldnt sleepover. I wasn't gonna wait to hangout so she could go have sex with this kid. Do I have a right to be mad about this or am I exaggerating |
| Question: Did I freak him out with my knee cracks? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:12 PM PDT My guy friend that I kind of like planned a group lunch with me and two other friends. We all work on the same floor. He stopped by my cube to see if I was ready. I said sure and quickly bent down to grab my bag. It was caught on the leg of my desk, so I had to fully bend my knees to unhook it. When I bent down, my knees cracked pretty hard core. I unhooked my bag and said let s go. Instead of waiting for out other friend to get back to her desk, he quickly ran away and said he d be back. He practically darted away from me. I told my friend, and she thought it was odd. Guys, do knee cracks freak you out? |
| Question: Should I be mad at my best friend for this? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 02:05 PM PDT During school,She told me she was going to hang out with this girl I dislike ,she asked like I was her mother so I said "ok?" because I really didn't care and I really didn't need to know that tbh.A couple of periods later and the school day is over so I head to my locker and see my bestie and her friend walking up to my locker so then I'm just thinking oh my god what do they want!!!!!!! I walked up to my locker not even looking them in the eyes just walking up and then my "bestie " asked me for my phone so she could call her mother to get permission to go to the park with her friend.So I didn't say anything and she just took the phone from me and started dialing.So I just got up and just looked straight and was walking along with them.ok I'm sorry if this is long so I'm just going to tell you why I'm asking this.SHE USED MY PHONE TO CONTACT HER MOM TO GET PERMISSION FOR GOING TO THE PARK WITH ONE OF HER FRIENDS AND DIDNT BOTHER TO ASK ME IF I WANTED TO GO!! what kinda fake sh*t is that??? |
| Question: Where can I meet new friends in bay area age 21-26 I'm a 21 year old female...? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do these girls try to start drama? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:47 PM PDT Ok so like 3 months ago my ex dumped me for another girl and the girls friends don't like me for some reason they hate on me and call me an ugly skinny ***** but I'm not ugly and they're way skinnier than me. I don't even know them but when I walk by them at school they say ""look she's coming" and they purposely say stuff like my ex and his girlfriend make such a cute couple and I have a class with one of these girls and she's constantly talking crap about me to other people and just staring at me like she's gossiping about me to other people and I don't even know her! What the hell is her problem? I'm a junior in high school and all these girls are sophomores. |
| Question: How to handle facebook friend request conflicts? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:19 PM PDT I ve accepted some friend request of people at work because we have similiar interest, whereas some people I want just to keep things profesisonal since I disagree with certain stance on their posts such as political topics I may disagree with like someone trying to preach too much on facebook, or share their views way too much... you know what I mean? Like try to act better than everyone else and I dont want them always asking questions about my posts. |
| Question: Does president obama like hillary clinton? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:16 PM PDT |
| Question: I have a neighbor that I think is really kind of nuts, what should I do? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 01:06 PM PDT this neighbor I have lived across from for like 3 years started losing it a little after a year of knowing her (or maybe just showing her true colors more) I used to visit with her a lot and she was pretty nice to me and generous and friendly, but after a while she started flipping her lid over minor disagreements. She would purposely engage me in conversation to bring up a topic she KNEW was a point of conflict or opposition and when I would try to change the subject it would just set her off more. For instance she is like SO hyper-vigilant about the other neighbors; always always looking, listening and scheming to find something theyre doing wrong or illegal (paranoid delusions) and she'll call me over under the pretense of normal small talk just to get me involved in gossip about them. I have zero interest in neighborhood drama and dont care what theyre doing as long as they leave me be I have tried to disengage from her completely and even been totally honest with her about my feelings and opinions; (which has caused fights) that I dont wanna get involved with the neighbors problems/personal lives and its none of anyones (HER) business.... its highly awkward to live 7 steps away from someone and always see them when you walk to your car, and have such issues that you cant even talk to them. So i would like to keep it semi friendly between her and I...wanna be calm cause I think she's volatile, but I wanna keep distance between us. how do i do this? w/o causing a scene? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:49 PM PDT How do I tell my friend that I was raped? I'm a boy 13 years old. I was raped by my neighbor and my parents don't know about it. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:43 PM PDT I'm sick of being everyone's last choice. Being treated as an option. My "friends" did it to me again today. It happens everyday. With family, friends, boys, everything. I keep reading this stuff that says you just have to say "I won't let them take advantage of me and I will not accept being an option". But I can't. I can't just stop talking to my friends and everyone else I've ever met. But I need to fix this, because if I don't, I'm scared of what I might do. Please help me, please |
| Question: How to live with a bossy roomate? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:35 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you get over a "best friend" break-up? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:33 PM PDT My best friend and I "broke up" a month ago. We got into a huge argument and said mean and horrible things to each other. We are both a fault but any other time we've fought I'm always the the one being the bigger person and this time I just decided not to go back. I know I deserve better " friends" but it's still hard. I've had nightmares over it and I think about it a lot but I just know I can't go back to having a friend like her. I need better people in my life. I've got two jobs so during the day I keep busy but I when I'm buy myself I think about it a lot. I wonder how she's doing etc. I just want my mind to be at ease with this. I really can't go back because I know deep down we can't fix it this time. Any tips on how to get over this? |
| Question: Who else likes to grope girls? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:26 PM PDT Who else likes to grope girls? \me and my friends like to grope girls a lot. We like to play a game to see how many girls butts we can slap. Who else likes groping girls |
| Question: My college roommate takes/uses my things without my permission? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 12:15 PM PDT I am just not sure what to do at this point. My roommate feels as if she can just go through my stuff & use or even TAKE whatever she wants! Here are just some things that have happened since we have moved into the dorms together. I've noticed that sometimes she will take her things & put them on my desk. She has a desk of her own, but my desk is closer, so I guess that's why she chooses my desk over her own. Sometimes she even uses things on my desk such as pencils & paper etc. She also uses my microwave without my permission. She doesn't have one, & I don't mind sharing mine, but she leaves the microwave door WIDE OPEN every time she finishes. If there is something in there before she warms her stuff up, she never puts it back. We also have separate sinks. She loves noodles & she drains her noodles in MY sink & doesn't clean up the remains. This is really why I am here though. I am going to try to keep this as impersonal as possible because I'm sure boys may come across this post as well, but my roommate also takes my pads. Not one, not two but several...DAILY. And she doesn't even ask for them. She just helps herself. This has been going on for almost 2 months now. At first I thought maybe she just needed to borrow some until she was able to buy some of her own...but no! This is not the case. And even if that was the case, SHE NEVER EVEN ASKED! Stealing basically. I'm too nice & have trouble speaking up for myself. What should I do or say? :( thanks in advance. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:48 AM PDT Ok, so my birthday is next month. The problem is, I have atleast 10 or more close friends. I want to invite all of them, but I don't want it to be too much/too expensive for my parents. Any non-stressful and inexpensive ideas? Thank You! |
| Question: What should I do ��? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:41 AM PDT My name is Michelle and i failed second grade so now I'm in 8th, so today I had math class and then we were starting to cut our foldable and this boy Julio said he wanted to collect the cut paper. So I threw my trash, and 3 empty pack of gum. So Julio comes and searches for the gum I threw and HE GOES AND LITERALLY THROWS S---- TO MY FACE. AND SAYS WHAT DO YOU THINK I LOOL LIKE AND CALLS ME A ***** .. (BTW IM F PISSED OFF). |
| Question: I got beaten at school? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:27 AM PDT Here's how it goes . The last break between classes had come and i wanted to chill with friends ,and all of a sudden this guy popped up straight up stealing my stuff , throwing it around and it was annoying . He kept doing that untill he broke some of my stuff and he was just laughing at it . As i insulted him because i was very angry , he started to punch me and beat me up . I believe he's a crazy *** dude and i can't do nothing about it . I started crying and called him a ****** because i was angry and i am right now still angry . He then just kept saying stuff about how i shouldn't have insulted him because he's the badass ************ in the class . I told my teacher about everything but that can't stop it i believe . He beats up everyone in our class just for fun . That's how crazy he is . How do i get revenge on this dumbass? |
| Question: How can I deal with a show-offy friend? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:26 AM PDT I'm 13 and I love my friend to bits but she keeps going on about everything she has and everything she does better than me... Recently she's been talking a lot about all the money and technology she has and I don't. I want her to still be my friend and I try to ignore this but I was wondering if there was anything I can do? Thanks. |
| Question: What's it like for a friend of someone developing an eating disorder? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:22 AM PDT My friend gets really worried, especially when she sees that I'm scared that I'm going to gain weight from eating so much as a few carrots. |
| Question: My friend needs help advice please.? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:09 AM PDT Me and my friend had a conversation she told me when she was younger her father use beat up her and her mother, then she also told all guy's she been with and slept with then they end hurting her feelings at the she even almost had a one night stand with one guy until his girlfriend came home. Anyway she hang with the wrong people that do drugs and drink too much but she claim they not her friends but she would only party with them and that's it, my friend have been bad relationships, been in a lot of fights hang with the wrong people, and it personally hurts me and I was about to cry so I started not to even look at her then she told me her medical problems she said she is bipolar and have ADHD. Then she told me she going to keep do her and she wants to change, she said she care about herself and respect her her self but she said it's gonna take time for her to to change, and that she is smart and she gonna make mistakes, she told me let her go threw it I'm going to get hurt Iet me look stupid and see and learn from her mistakes. It just hurts me so bad cause she is my best friend I try to be a good influence for her but I'm starting to give up on her can anyone could give me advice why she acting like and is ADHD is one of the reasons but I believe she no what's she is doing but don't no the consequences but she said let me get hurt so she can see and learn from her mistakes but she keep doing the same thing over and over again idk how to help her? |
| Question: Should I be mad about this??? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:54 AM PDT I was hanging out with my friend last night and we were gonna have a sleepover at her house. She got done telling me she's not 'talking' to this kid she's been talking to/having sex with for a while. I've been telling her it's a bad idea to be messing with him but she does what she wants. Anyways so I figured she was done with him but then she asked me if I'd be mad if she left to go have sex with him and then she would pick me up after. I didn't really give a direct answer but obviously I was annoyed. I went home and texted her told her I couldnt sleepover. I wasn't gonna wait to hangout so she could go have sex with this kid. Do I have a right to be mad about this or am I exaggerating |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 09:47 AM PDT My friend Peter (fake name) was my friend back in kindergarten to fourth grade. It dosent seem like a big deal, but he helped me a lot during those years when I was sensitive and insecure. He moved away though, and I was very sad and couldn't contact him. We're in highschool now. He knows who I am, and my friends asked him to homecoming for me (to which he said no to, because he knew it was fake.; I would have asked myself.) So, I sent him these notes because I have anxiety (and he dosent know, im not gonna tell him I ccant talk to him because of it. Im not gonna use it as an excuse.) these notes expressed my thanks, and I wanted to be friends with him again. He got flippiant with the lasrt one so I didn't send them anymore. I say hi to him sometimes, but that's all. I just cant seem to talk to him without making myself look like a fool. I liked him because he pushed me harder, to be better. He challenged me to be the best I could be, and I appreciate that a lot. I need that sometimes. But it seems I can't reach him, because it was too long ago. My teacher talked about this thing called distance decay. Basically, it's the decrease or loss of similarity between two people as the distance between them increases, in this case. And I know that's what I have with him. It's always awkward. And I don't want that to happen. Sure, I might have a crush on him, but that's not affecting my chices I want to make right now, I can promise that. But I need help. Any takers? |
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